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Guys who are hot are hot. You probably would've fucked him either way.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/22 06:18 AM
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Why do women continue to bullshit about it then?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/22 06:14 AM
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You could have flocks of women dancing with you, but it doesn't mean you're attractive in a dating kind of way. Aww, you mean looks are all that matters at the end of the day? Ya don't say!
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/22 06:10 AM
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I just want at least a 1:1 male to female ratio so I don't have to practice dancing with another dude.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/22 06:01 AM
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The dance class shit got me thinking. I never learned how to dance, and I'd like to go to a class to learn, not to pick up chicks. Regardless, I do not want to be dancing with other dudes. Since this is really common advice, how likely am I to run into a sausage fest?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/22 05:51 AM
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Only because she's into it.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/22 04:54 AM
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Fat chicks have to smell awful. They just have to, Red. I can't comprehend why you are the way you are.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/22 04:41 AM
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Cuck cages and bulls involved too I'm sure
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/22 04:37 AM
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Even then, MAYBE lol
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/22 04:36 AM
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We talking 50/50 or we talking he's gotta make up for what he lacks in salary?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/22 04:24 AM
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Just because they got married doesn't mean she respects him.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/22 04:24 AM
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Buddy, I still like all the same shit I did when I was 17, I can just afford it all now.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/22 04:14 AM
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I wonder what kind of dynamic it creates in a relationship. Can a woman really respect a man who earns less than her?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/22 04:13 AM
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I regularly dump some shredded cheese in a bowl, microwave it, and eat it.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/22 03:48 AM
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Smoking is cool
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/22 03:44 AM
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bats eyes
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/22 03:38 AM
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Your parents hate it because they can't see so good anymore. Going for a drive with the roof off or riding a motorcycle on a warm summer night is the tits.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/22 02:46 AM
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Beautiful is a word for a girl you love only
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/22 02:30 AM
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Yeah, that's a good feeling. And we're all forever small.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/22 02:00 AM
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Brother it is confirmed piss
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/22 12:08 AM
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I would murder people to be inherently good at anything impressive
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/22 05:56 AM
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So what do you think the average 30 year old girl's n-count is? 25? 50?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/22 05:19 AM
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https://imgur.com/a/oIj9euN Which #?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/22 04:07 AM
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I didn't see any Stacys but some are plenty cute
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/22 03:54 AM
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Smart tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/22 03:49 AM
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Did you submit a pic?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/22 03:42 AM
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Hey girl with the blonde to pink hair posted early on: Sup?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/22 03:37 AM
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I think we're all getting psy-opped.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/22 03:21 AM
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Chopped?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/22 02:12 AM
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I don't think it totally does tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/22 02:11 AM
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Why does weight loss black pill you?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/22 01:28 AM
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Damn
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/22 12:05 AM
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I think I'd marry Selena. She seems the most tolerable. I'd fuck Ariana because she's hot. I never got the fuss over Taylor, her face doesn't do it for me and there are a lot of rumors about her being insufferable.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/22 11:50 PM
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Am I allowed to be nasty now or.. Yep. Total war.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/22 05:59 AM
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Circumcision is supposed to dull sensitivity quite significantly. I don't think I'm missing out on much though, personally.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/22 02:49 AM
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Yeah I'm not gonna start DMing everyone in here like "you got that pic of livs?"
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/22 11:15 PM
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She's probably been bullied a lot because it's very evident to people off the bat that she's mentally ill. I think she probably just fits my type, but I think she's really cute looks-wise.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/22 11:11 PM
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Guess I missed out
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/22 11:04 PM
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Measured asses?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/22 10:39 PM
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Either big dicks are way more common than stats would suggest, or a lot of PPD dudes are padding their stats. Y'all need to stop, you're making those of us who give genuine measurements look bad.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/22 10:33 PM
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It's happened a few times and it's been fine. Most people I've run into don't seem to be doing well, even people I thought would be successful. Some people, we just pretend like we don't recognize each other. I assume most of the successful people moved away, my state does have negative population growth after all.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/22 10:28 PM
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I think it looks like shit tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/22 10:35 PM
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Yeah, that's why sexual frequency usually decreases in relationships, because LTR sex arouses women so much. Right.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/22 10:32 PM
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It basically boils down to the guy being hot
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/22 10:31 PM
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Even a wife would get some quiet skepticism from me. I had an ex spin some yarns about being raped that I looked back on later and realized were probably bullshit. I was more talking about strangers. I'm pretty much skeptical of anything a stranger says.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/22 10:09 PM
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A lot of what goes into being a woman's best can't be replicated inside a long term relationship. Physical skills are only part of the equation.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/22 10:01 PM
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If that's the case I might be the ugliest man alive
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/22 09:59 PM
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Why should I?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/22 09:56 PM
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Yeah you're a great person
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/22 08:20 PM
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I'd love to know what she does to earn being a housewife that isn't housework.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/22 08:01 PM
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TRM is autistic bullshit.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/22 07:45 PM
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I hear desperation is unattractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/22 07:00 PM
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Even when the odds aren't good you still gotta try to make life not shit. Does just having a woman in your life really make or break your life?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/22 06:53 PM
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Any insight into why?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/22 06:38 PM
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Her husband's just a beta loser
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/22 06:34 PM
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I love these theories. I fully believe the Eminem version too.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/22 06:23 PM
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So if he told you tomorrow that the girl he was with prior to you was better in bed, you wouldn't care?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/22 05:16 AM
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I'm not surprised you're not worried about that given how you look and how you've described he looks.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/22 05:02 AM
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OP also said I'd know her ex was better in bed. I can live with the fact that I might not be her best, I'm not sure I can live with knowing I'm not her best.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/22 04:47 AM
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https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=QdpfZ9w5_mQ
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/22 04:41 AM
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It was convenient for the plot I guess. It's a fun show, but you kinda just gotta turn your brain off.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/22 03:34 AM
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I haven't watched any of the earlier seasons since they came out, but hasn't Marty always kind of avoided confrontation? Plus he's probably seeing the finish line for the mess he's in and just wants to get there with as little further trouble as possible.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/22 03:34 AM
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Eh, he did choose to shack up with the lady who kept killing people who were higher up the food chain than her.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/22 03:07 AM
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They were where I grew up. Even the Russian kid got in on the action.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/22 02:58 AM
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Ozark irl
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/22 02:50 AM
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Huh, it never occurred me that something like that would qualify as a dinner date to women.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/22 02:22 AM
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Bitterness suits me
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/22 02:06 AM
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What's an appropriate price range then? I feel like it's hard to even get out of a place like Chili's for less than $50. Any non-chain with good food is like a hundo easy for two people.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/22 02:02 AM
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I had one of the best pull days I've ever had today, so get after it, pussy.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/22 01:39 AM
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Becky is unhappy because she's not Stacy. Stacy is happy because she's Stacy.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/22 11:23 PM
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That said, are looks everything in the long run? Absolutely no. A relationship is not all about that. You'll never get the relationship in the first place if you don't have the looks.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/22 10:00 PM
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Damn being bald is grounds for being treated like shit. Very hurtful KrissKross.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/22 03:52 AM
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It kinda does if that's their tacit arrangement. She's a c u next Tuesday he takes it because she's got. Many such cases! That's not to say it's the kind of arrangement I'd be into, although I did put up with it on a lower level once.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/22 03:51 AM
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Cries in 5'11''
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/22 03:50 AM
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lol
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/22 03:04 AM
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Somebody likes it ROUGH
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/22 02:58 AM
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Bet your pension is gonna be sick though.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/22 02:36 AM
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How do you know? He could be ugly.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/22 02:32 AM
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Some of us have taste
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/22 02:19 AM
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Maybe you just like working more than anything else. I can't relate.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/22 12:51 AM
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You have to have something where you can tell your employer to go fuck themselves every now and then. Trust fund/inheritance, lots of savings, unique/not easily replaceable skillset, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/22 12:16 AM
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Correct. Still want it occasionally though.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/22 10:05 PM
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You shill this pig like she's your wife.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/22 09:44 PM
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I'm putting my money on the guys with the guns.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/22 09:43 PM
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If I just let it go I think it looks unsightly, but I'm not into the hairless look either.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/22 08:50 PM
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I trim all my body hair and that only lasts a couple days.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/22 08:42 PM
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https://realitycalc.com/
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/22 07:36 PM
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You seem troubled with your relationship in general for some time, and I really think this is just about the worst place you could go for advice on how to feel good in a relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/22 01:44 AM
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Well if you choose to define it that way in your relationships I can't really argue.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/22 01:34 AM
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Do y'all think of other women? Not me personally. I was under the impression that most women are thinking about other guys though.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/22 01:33 AM
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So you don't even think about the guy on top of you? I think that's a little weird.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/22 01:32 AM
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That's pretty rough for everyone involved.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/22 01:31 AM
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uhh. well my bf 100% could've landed some pretty hot women before we began dating and he turned them down. Doesn't that kind of disprove your point then? Your boyfriend could've chosen hotter women and still chose you. I have a body count of 1 lmao. Oh, fair enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/22 01:29 AM
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You've gotta hand it to them, they know how to stick together and stick to a narrative. Guys will never have that kind of unity.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/22 12:34 AM
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if he could land those girls, he 100% would. You gonna sit there and tell me women wouldn't do the same? Hell, you might've even got to fuck those type of guys at some point. He'll never get within spitting distance of those girls unless he pays lots of money for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/22 12:32 AM
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Q4W w/ SOs: Do you think about other guys when you have sex with your SOs? It's okay if you're honest, this is a safe space.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/22 12:25 AM
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I wasn't talking about them either.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/22 12:21 AM
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How is it disrespectful to those women if they're the ones voluntarily putting that content out there. You're reaching bigly.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/22 12:20 AM
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Do you think men will choose masturbation over a real vagina? I'm more forgiving of it than if he was actually interacting with the women, but he's still looking at other women's naked bodies. It's a no from me. From a girl in this thread. I've seen a similar sentiment expressed a bunch, and Idk how that can be interpreted as anything other than misplaced jealousy.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/22 12:17 AM
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Obviously this comment wasn't for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/22 12:15 AM
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But what if he's imagining another girl? OOOOOoooooOOOOOOooo
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/22 12:13 AM
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Because porn's not real. This is shit is projection because y'all compare men to movie stars and shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/22 12:11 AM
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So they don't want their SOs looking at other girls because it makes them feel insecure about their bodies, but their insecurity has nothing to do with their SOs looking at other girls. Got it.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/22 12:10 AM
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You said "why not enjoy me?" That's why.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/22 12:07 AM
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I definitely see women complain about being insecure about the women in porn/on instagram being hotter.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/22 11:55 PM
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Lol, then what do you expect? Him to just acquiesce to your sex drive? And sex life never improves after the ring goes on the finger.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/22 11:53 PM
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So you’re saying you never turn a guy down? Because there are tons of dudes out there with women who expect them to be happy with once a week or less. That’s just not enough for a healthy male.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/22 11:43 PM
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There goes ol’ rope bunny projecting her own feelings on everyone else again
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/22 11:41 PM
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The most bizarre thing about women in PPD is that a lot of them seem think they’re competing against porn. Where on earth did you get that dumb idea?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/22 11:20 PM
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Yeah. Don't.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/22 09:52 PM
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We weren't talking about whether or not she owed him anything. Of course she didn't owe him anything. We were talking about whether she did him a favor or not. Some of the based advice I've ever received was unrequested.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/22 09:51 PM
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"I'd fuck me"
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/22 09:39 PM
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Sounds like someone we know's dating app profile.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/22 09:22 PM
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How is getting a free meal and ghosting less nasty then giving a guy advice how to improve his future results?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/22 09:20 PM
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Were you a big believer in chemistry when you were in your early 20s as well, or is this something that's gotten more important to you as you've gotten older? I don't think most guys are looking to build friendships with girls from dating apps that rejected them. That's a little too much of an ego blow there. I really appreciate her candor and not wasting the guy's time.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/22 09:19 PM
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The most offensive thing here is she's trying to flex with a 15 year old C-class. That is straight-up poor person shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/22 08:50 PM
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I disagree completely. You think it would've been more polite if she sat down with him and let him buy her dinner? If we are to believe women can be attracted to a guy she met in real life but would've swiped left on on a dating app, then the opposite can be true as well. And honestly, he'd probably crush it he was <15% body fat. He's wasted potential.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/22 08:49 PM
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Because humans are hypocritical and stupid
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/22 06:56 PM
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Eh, he's hit that enough times to get bored of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/22 12:20 AM
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Or there's guys out there marrying multiple women. Is that legal in Utah or no?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/22 11:37 PM
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Yeah that's how I interact with other guys, not girls. If a girl started busting my balls I'd assume she's trying to be platonically friendly. If you go up to them and tell them you think they are cute it is going to be so wierd. Idk, I'm retarded so I can't really describe it properly, but there's a way girls say this without saying it. Even if they come right out and say I'm cute, it's only weird for me if the attraction isn't mutual.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/22 11:35 PM
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MWALT just doesn't have that same ring to it. There are exceptions to every rule.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/22 11:19 PM
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She has a very childish face
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/22 11:18 PM
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I don't think it has to be one or the other. Negging wouldn't work on me though.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/22 11:16 PM
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Close enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/22 11:09 PM
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The long haired ginger? He doesn't strike me any particular way just looking at pictures of him.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/22 11:05 PM
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Nah I think I like when a girl tries to boost my self-esteem, actually.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/22 11:04 PM
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I can't speak for every guy, but for me it's anything thoughtful really. Like something sentimental or something I don't realize I need or want but she does. Trying to buy some impersonal thing I've been saying I want is a bad idea, because I'm always liable to just go out and buy it.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/22 11:01 PM
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For most guys, there's attractive enough to fuck and attractive enough to wife up. It's like the opposite of how girls think about men.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/22 10:53 PM
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What's your interest in this place then?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/22 10:52 PM
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and women that neg them. ??? They do?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/22 10:51 PM
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I'm sure
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/22 10:46 PM
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Ew fuck no
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/22 10:41 PM
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That no-neck guy creeps me out
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/22 10:39 PM
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Oh stop, every girl is doing what you want to do.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/22 06:23 PM
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Just do what you want to do fuck a bunch of morons on a message board
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/22 06:14 PM
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Women keep screaming from the rooftops about how conditional love is, so I'm just suggesting people determine what those conditions are proceed accordingly. Ask almost any guy, and more often than not they'll tell you one of those conditions is women do not want to see their man vulnerable, just like there are plenty of things men don't want to see from their woman. Romantic love is a transaction, not a fairytale as much as some of us would like to think otherwise.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/22 03:21 AM
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At least he knows better for next time
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/22 02:44 AM
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So you’d reject a guy just because he asked you out? That’s too far in her other direction. I’m not afraid to ask a girl out given the right opportunity, that don’t make me a fuckboi.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/22 10:47 PM
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One
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/22 10:42 PM
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You struck me as the type of girl who'd think actively pursuing men only results in one-sided relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/22 10:37 PM
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Idk how I feel about it. Never had a girl fart in front of me, and not farting in front of them wasn’t that big of a deal. It might be bigger deal now that I don’t have the excuse of stepping outside to smoke.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/22 10:31 PM
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You actively pursued men? I’m surprised.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/22 10:29 PM
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I'm gonna be in Miami in April you should buy me a drink
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/22 10:06 PM
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Ellipsis are worth 1000 words sometimes. A/S/L?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/22 10:01 PM
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I'm just fucking with you relax
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/22 09:50 PM
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Hey, it got a conversation going. I'm not saying serial killers are the move, but opening with some off the wall shit that gets a girl's noggin joggin seems like the play to me. It makes a guy stand out if nothing else.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/22 09:35 PM
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What gave him away?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/22 09:23 PM
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So you're gonna be available then?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/22 09:21 PM
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Yeah Idk, just trying not to look like I'm on chemo
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/22 09:19 PM
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What about IPL or some shit, would that buy me a few years?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/22 07:48 PM
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Even for a bald guy?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/22 07:43 PM
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I can't find the study. Basically the darker you were, the less being bald affected your attractiveness according to women. It makes sense since a lot of pale bald guys just look like they walked out of a chemo ward. You're the first woman I've seen call Corey Stoll hot.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/22 07:42 PM
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Either way, I don't like the idea of faking anything. I'd hate to turn a girl's sheets orange/her see me after a shower and have her realize I'm a fraud, ya feel me?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/22 07:26 PM
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As far as bald guys go, pale bald guys are generally considered the worst looking. Though I suppose if you think all bald guys are unattractive, it really doesn't matter, and I believe you're in that camp.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/22 07:22 PM
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Does me being a bald guy change your opinion?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/22 07:16 PM
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Pale is just about the worst look on a bald guy though. Self tanners make you look orange. And I'm not really worried about seeing old age.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/22 07:15 PM
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Which is better, being pale or taking the damage from tanning to have some color year round? I look like a corpse in the winter otherwise.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/22 07:01 PM
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Living with that level of anxiety isn't living.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/22 06:41 PM
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You think only a small minority of women are attractive to men?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/22 05:38 AM
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Do you guys on this sub just get in relationships for what someone can provide for you? Not love? Not because you like to be around them? Not because they make you happy? Jesus. That does seem to be the place a lot of women have reached, yes. I think it's because they know they can't love someone who doesn't give them tingles, but the problem is only a small minority of men do that and they're competing against all other women for them.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/22 04:21 AM
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Sorry to burst your bubble but Chad is genetic
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/22 09:02 PM
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Well I'd hope so since you said you joined the gym primarily to meet men. Maybe I'm wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/22 08:50 PM
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That’s news to me
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/22 08:46 PM
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I’m high T and I post here
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/22 08:38 PM
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Pro tip: don’t live in California
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/22 08:37 PM
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Listening to female friends advice on stuff like this isn’t gonna get a guy anywhere. The conclusion I’ve come to is there’s a right way to go about it and a wrong way to go about it. Asking a girl you’ve been building a rapport with out for a drink or something isn’t going to make a normal girl flip out like you just tried to grab her ass.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/22 08:29 PM
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I don't even need to ask. I can put 2+2 together pretty easily.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/22 07:09 PM
2

Feels like the door may be ajar there anyways despite the boyfriend. Or maybe the bf isn't even real and she just instantly regretted giving you her number/felt she had to oblige because you have class together.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/22 07:08 PM
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Well, good is a relative statement. You'll never be as well off as you would be with hair. Probably not even 10% as well off. I do agree with your point about being bald at the outset of a relationship. The problem for bald guys it getting one of those in the first place.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/22 06:47 PM
2

You're suggesting men need to fund someone else's lifestyle, are you not?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/22 06:45 PM
1

Lazy is just a bad habit
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/22 06:34 PM
1

You trainer sounds lazy
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/22 06:27 PM
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Wigs are just hatfishing by other means. She's gonna react the exact same way when she finds out. It's the absolute worst advice for bald guys that comes up here all the time and I'll never get it.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/22 06:24 PM
2

So prostitution/sugaring is the best you're offering?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/22 06:19 PM
1

Didn't you have to attract a woman to get a girlfriend in the first place, though? How is it not enough to attract women?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/22 08:29 PM
2

I don't think it's out of line for people to want their partner to find them sexually desirable even if they don't look like Chris Hemsworth. I also don't think cheating is defensible, but I'm sure you'd call me crazy for that too.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/22 08:22 PM
1

Loose ends need to be tied up like the drawstrings on a few trash bags amirite?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/22 07:41 PM
1

What else motivates you to stand up for yourself?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/22 06:54 PM
2

Okay dude, lemme how being a pushover works out for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/22 06:50 PM
8

Having no ego makes you a wimp.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/22 06:41 PM
3

I wish we could go back
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/22 06:39 PM
7

The men talking about how making 6 figures is Chad level as well. That's very bizarre to me. The percentage of men making over 6 figures under 35 has to be pretty low. It's only 23.4% of all men in the US. I'm sure the distribution is higher in places like NY or LA because $100k is basically poverty level there.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/22 06:33 PM
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I wish society just turned it's back on us. It's still busy actively demonizing us and stacking the deck for women with no end in sight.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/22 07:23 PM
1

Why we gotta be disgusting? Why so much hostility toward men you're not attracted to?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/22 06:45 PM
1

Euphoria is a bit darker than anything you mentioned.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/22 06:44 PM
3

Obviously keep the ones that are better in every way. Also wtf is this guy doing spending $140 on his brother's gf?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/22 06:18 PM
2

Burgers I usually go medium well, steak is medium rare.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/22 06:15 PM
1

What kind of frequency is ideal for you?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/22 07:55 AM
1

Jesus dude, I want to fuck multiple times a day. I'm 30 and it's been that way forever.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/22 07:54 AM
3

When you say orgasm from sex are you talking strictly PIV or are you including any sex act your husband might perform on you?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/22 07:43 AM
4

What's the point of building this great life if you have no one to share it with and no kids to pass it onto?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/22 01:28 AM
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She's a tiny tiny minority.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/22 11:47 PM
8

In the past, young men tinkered with stuff. They worked on engines, learned to operate farm machinery, built things, and it gave them some self-confidence and thus some perspective when dealing with the opposite sex. That kind of stuff generates a different kind of confidence. Doing that stuff gives me the confidence to take on projects where I'm inexperienced as I know I can pretty much figure anything out. It's not something that impresses girls.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/22 11:44 PM
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All that work to become decidedly above average in the categories you can change just to get the approval of average at best women who will feel like she's settling. What a reward.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/22 11:34 PM
0

Are you not acknowledging that you'll never be satisfied in a relationship and that it could lead you to cheat?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/22 07:02 PM
0

You're openly saying you don't care if you destroy some guy's life in the future just so you can avoid being lonely. How is that anything but selfish?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/22 06:49 PM
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Selfish people deserve it
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/22 06:33 PM
8

One person is not good or bad at sex. People who are lazy in bed are bad at sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/22 09:42 PM
2

All humans know how to do is overcorrect.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/22 06:39 PM
2

Oh I actually agree with you wholly. If you're not having success no amount of TRP or any other strategy is going to help you. If you're not a "catch" you're never gonna be one. I just get annoyed that you beat around the bush about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/22 06:37 PM
2

I'd like you to say what you mean, and mean what you say.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/22 06:31 PM
1

Love is a fairytale. Everyone's just using each other to their own ends.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/22 06:27 PM
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If you think the goal of FDS isn't to use men Idk what you're reading.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/22 06:23 PM
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Telling someone to just trust their gut if they don't know any successful people personally just leaves them at square one. You're essentially saying "just accept you're not a catch and you're never gonna be one." Just keep bashing your head into a wall hoping for a different result.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/22 06:08 PM
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Yeah, your perception of your own looks is completely warped. You never know just how you look through other people's eyes.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/22 05:31 AM
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Have you never worked on a car yourself before? I've never worked professionally as a mechanic, but I enjoy working on cars/maintain my fleet mostly myself. Whenever I do a big job I feel like I got beat up at the end of the day. And I'm in pretty exceptional physical shape. I can't imagine doing that shit every day for 40 years. On top of that, pay is pretty much shit unless you own your own shop or are highly specialized/a master on high end German or Italian vehicles.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/22 05:15 AM
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I love how she thinks she should get a medal for being faithful in the relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/22 05:10 AM
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Your self-importance is a little overinflated there, princess. Most of what I said was not inspired by the exchange we had the other day. It's been demonstrated time and time again that women select for immutable characteristics like facial bone structure, height, hand size, shoulder width, etc. Good luck leveling up any of that.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/22 05:03 AM
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We've established that immutable characteristics are what are most important to women and they don't want a guy who has "leveled up."
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/22 03:26 AM
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Not nearly enough to go around for all the other bald dudes out there.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/22 06:33 PM
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If you get random girls off OLD or random girls in bars you can probably pull them in IG DMs too.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/22 09:13 AM
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If that's true, can you imagine the standards girls 6+ have set?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/22 06:30 AM
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You say this like attractiveness can't be quantified, which it most certainly can.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/22 06:28 AM
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Oh fair enough I missed that.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/22 03:27 AM
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I've only done it a couple times and it was probably stepped on so many times it basically wasn't coke anymore. Some people absolutely love it though.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/22 03:24 AM
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Good for you, drugs are for trashy people
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/22 03:13 AM
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People are also gonna go out IRL more on their own, because that's how it typically goes with new types of media. People get obsessed, then find balance. Or people will just lean into it further and plug ourselves into the Neuralink so we can just about live in the Metaverse or whatever the fuck. It'd certainly be cheaper than all this government intervention you suggest. The rich get to enjoy the real world and the poors are kept pacified by artificial reality. You're clearly an optimist and I'…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/22 03:08 AM
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Trying to force someone to take one of the most expensive drugs is a bit odd. Probably the right move to decline even if you were into that sort of thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/22 03:03 AM
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Sorry, you just left an impression. I mean, who turns down free coke?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/22 02:54 AM
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Fine, no immediate or even short-term solution. I'd also like to know what these countermeasures will be.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/22 02:53 AM
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There is definitely a shortage of women like you lmao. I think that's the problem a lot of guys are having.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/22 02:41 AM
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People struggle to accept that there are some problems which have no solutions.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/22 02:39 AM
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If you polled women I guarantee they'd feel differently about Bezos. He's definitely not a Chad lol. Having a nice body as a guy is nice bonus as far as women are concerned. It can't make a guy unless he's like tren jacked and she's in the tiny minority of women who have a fetish for that.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/22 01:26 AM
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Well, I'm not dating any below average women so that's that I guess.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/22 01:10 AM
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Ah, I've been never skinny and have have pretty exceptionally broad shoulders, so I've never been much of an easy target I guess despite not being tall.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/22 12:36 AM
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Let's say I'm not already, what's the point if it's gonna keep me in the gutter anyways?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/22 12:22 AM
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Lol, I'd rather cut my dick off than be some loser wearing a wig.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/22 12:17 AM
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Yes. Shaved head.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/22 12:15 AM
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It's weird that bald is one of the socially acceptable things to just shit on a person for unprovoked.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/22 12:15 AM
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You're essentially telling all of them to go kick rocks.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/22 12:12 AM
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So if I started at a 6 I'm a 3 now? Guess it's gonna lonely life for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/22 12:04 AM
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So as a bald am I automatically below average?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/22 12:01 AM
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I appreciate the sentiment, but we're all just stardust.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/22 09:44 AM
1

Fake a positive covid test.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/22 09:41 AM
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People gotta learn to take things a little (a lot) less serious. None of this shit matters.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/22 09:31 AM
1

Eh, if you're not amongst the elite does it really make a difference?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/22 09:05 AM
2

This is more enlightening than you know. Also I now have no idea how to be funny.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/22 09:04 AM
2

That makes sense. I do like to push the envelope.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/22 08:37 AM
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We need to build a wall with no doors up north
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/22 08:16 AM
2

When people say "don't say that about yourself" when you make a self-deprecating joke, what do they actually mean? Do they just want you to shut the fuck up because it was too on the money and it made them uncomfortable, do they really believe what you said isn't true, or did they just not get the joke? I won't accept the possibility that I'm not funny. That's just factually incorrect.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/22 08:09 AM
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I actually think OLD is the true measure of whether you're attractive as a guy. For women it's not accurate at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/22 08:05 AM
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Are self reports accurate? No.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/22 08:04 AM
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What'd you search for to get those images? I'd like to see a larger sample. Actually I'm more curious what you think a 6 girl is.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/22 05:04 AM
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Don't get me wrong, those girls are very out of my league, but that's not what I had in mind when I hear Stacy. The middle one maybe.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/22 04:59 AM
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What does Stacy look like, decoy?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/22 04:52 AM
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who cares. the fact his name is associated with it makes me not want to even look the game up to see what it is about. Based. Fuck that fat fuck.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/22 04:31 AM
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I know this is kind splitting hairs, but one orgasms are not all created equal for women. I've seen women say they valued the one orgasm with a guy they maybe only had sex with once more than any of the countless orgasms their husband has given them.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/22 04:10 AM
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How long have you been together?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/22 10:47 PM
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What do you think I'm expecting? I'm not looking for a virgin. I'm looking for a woman who has been commitment minded most of her life and who has maybe had a handful of long term and maybe a handful of casual sex partners. I don't think that woman is that rare, but maybe you do because you're not that woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/22 10:46 PM
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Ok, fine. I wouldn't want to risk committing/investing my feelings in someone who was previously not commitment oriented.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/22 09:24 PM
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I don't even know what you're talking about. It just makes logical sense to me. Why would you seek out so much variety if you don't have a desire for variety in and of itself? For the record I think the same about men who whore around.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/22 09:14 PM
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I think we just want to know if a woman is satisfied with us, the more men she's been with the less likely she is able to be satisfied by one man long term.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/22 09:09 PM
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Probably not, especially because women know that men don't like high-maintenance women and play down how much work they put into their appearance. High-maintenance always meant to be me that she required a ton of work and attention from me to her not from her to herself.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/22 07:36 PM
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I am what the world made me
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/22 06:23 PM
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Some of my opinions are based on what I've seen of others relationships if that makes you feel any better. And I'm an expert on all things, not just relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/22 09:48 AM
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Yep, bit of a paradox you've got there. Good luck with that.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/22 09:45 AM
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Women are wired to want to feel protected and weakness for a woman is still weakness.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/22 09:14 AM
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Which would mean it requires factors that are also present in a friendship not absent of it. Sure, the looks are the pre-requisite. Nothing else matters in a romantic context unless the looks are there. “that much”, soo… you liked each other somewhat? Also, was that a healthy stable relationship? Fair enough, you got me there. Why did it end? Cheating What does this have to do with the conversation? I’m talking about a decision-making process. D’u think women ask themselves “Am I looksmatched en…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/22 08:57 AM
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We doing fake stories now?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/22 08:42 AM
1

What about conflict bothers you?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/22 08:40 AM
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This is where you slip up. You have overvalued “8 in looks” beyond all other factors. Yeah? Ultimately we're talking about a romantic relationship here, not a friendship. The difference between the two is there's a physical attraction component to the former and not the latter. If you’ve been in a long term relationship or even friendsship I’m sure you understand the importance of enjoying company beyond the very basic ‘what my eyes like to see’ Ironically, the only adult relationship I was ever…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/22 08:33 AM
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I originally typed out neither. I also have no information about the woman at all. If she's 5 or above in looks she's going to resent with every fiber of her being having to settle for Man B. So, it comes down to how well she can fake attraction and affection for him and/or how desperate Man B is for female companionship i.e. how miserable he'll let her make him. My prediction: Man A eventually gets left when she gets tired of his shit, Man B gets cheated on.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/22 08:01 AM
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How well can she fake affection for Man B?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/22 07:50 AM
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and many men that are good for casual sex can be terrible for LTR’s. Because most girls can't keep that guy
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/22 07:02 AM
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they would never do the girlfriend duty of dealing with you crying. That's not part of girlfriend duties as far as they're concerned anyways.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/22 05:26 AM
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I actually posted before I read the last sentence, but just decided to leave it.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/22 05:25 AM
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Idk if I'm autistic or not. I'm bad at telling when it's there, but I have zero issue knowing when it's not there.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/22 04:54 AM
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Scalding
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/22 04:39 AM
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Oh yeah, ask any guy here.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/22 04:09 AM
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A GT3
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/22 04:00 AM
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This is the way women are. Take em or leave em.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/22 02:36 AM
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And the women here say we're crazy when we say women are most attracted to men they know other women want.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/22 02:34 AM
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being followed in a store or on the street Off topic, but when does it qualify as being followed? A few times I've had to "follow" a girl I didn't know out to a dark parking lot/garage and always wondered how likely it was I was creeping her out.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/22 02:28 AM
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I have a very grim outlook on the future that I believe is already a snowball rolling downhill. Whether one deserves that future or not will have no effect on the snowball.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/22 07:04 PM
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Deserve's got nothing to do with it.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/22 06:11 PM
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And it's all downhill from here.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/22 04:26 AM
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Thank you. I'm 5'10'' and I'm definitely below average compared to men my age I see just out and about.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/22 04:19 AM
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That's pretty obvious
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/22 04:15 AM
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Lol, what do you imagine the average man is historically?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/22 04:13 AM
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Nah I'd have to go into my bookmarks.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/22 03:44 AM
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Yeah I'll never get why dudes hold onto it like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/22 03:40 AM
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Women's tastes in men do seem to be trending more feminine. I've kinda suspected for a while that women are losing interest in men entirely. I wonder if over like the next 10-20 years the number women identifying as lesbians will skyrocket.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/22 03:38 AM
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I wonder if women are starting to notice how mad things have gotten Go 'head and take a gander at that thread where they list their physical requirements of men and how specific a lot of them are. Some it's like a Seinfeld bit where they're rejecting dudes for having 2 more eyelashes than they'd prefer or something. They may recognize that things have gotten goofy, but it doesn't mean they're going to be giving guys any breaks.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/22 02:45 AM
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I mean it's just intellectually dishonest to say men don't have it harder in dating. In life it gets much much more debatable.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/22 02:40 AM
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My parents don't have the excuse.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/22 02:31 AM
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Are you a person who would say being bald is a dealbreaker for brevity's sake even though that isn't necessarily the case 100% of the time?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/22 02:30 AM
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Where did I say that?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/22 02:26 AM
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I think so too. It's happened before and we don't have long and highly deadly wars anymore to wipe out the undesirable segment of the male population.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/22 02:23 AM
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You’re old though, right? Is it safe to assume he wasn’t bald when you got together.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/22 12:37 AM
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Feeling anxiety about getting fat is better than getting fat. My parents should be jailed for letting me get and stay fat as a young child.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/22 12:19 AM
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Yeah if you're gonna send dick pics it better be remarkable.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/22 12:18 AM
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If you're a woman who has ever said "there are plenty of women out there who are into bald guys, I'm just not one of them" you're just trying to let the guy down easy, right? Because just about every single one of the women stating their physical preferences in that thread has bald as a dealbreaker. Feel free to be honest.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/22 12:13 AM
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What is "chin length?"
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 11:49 PM
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I see why I don't have success with women. I'd get DQ'd by every woman in this thread for one reason or another.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 11:49 PM
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Nah they're being pretty honest, and most of them have very specific requirements that imply they're very shallow.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 11:47 PM
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Q4W: Should there be a bachelor tax?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 11:36 PM
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Oh stop everyone is shallow
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 09:56 PM
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It can be really difficult to find someone worth investing your resources in and it’s upsetting. Lol, since when are women the ones investing their resources in men?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 08:32 PM
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I'm not saying he's back on dating apps necessarily (would you be surprised if he was, though?). He just appears to have money and there's no fuckin way anyone's paying him for business advice. Maybe he's consulting for aspiring con artists.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 08:18 PM
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I don't think most women have had reason to give it much thought. That doesn't mean that's not how they're operating.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 07:59 PM
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He came off like a genuine moron, and yet he was still a pretty successful conman. Hell at the end of the doc he's out of prison and back at it.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 07:49 PM
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Being a better Beta is entirely possible though, and should be encouraged. Why bother? The benefits are marginal at best. but at least they can push back against gynocentrism. Oh, they can be useful idiots.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 07:45 PM
1

She's right
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 07:45 PM
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We're talking about the traits that make men valuable not what makes Chad Chad. We know Chad doesn't even need the shit you listed. He just needs the height, hair, and pretty face. How often do we hear about women talk about the hot guy they fucked that was soooooooo boring and depthless? And if you were really only talking about Chads, that would mean you think Chads are the only ones having success. Maybe you really do believe that, but you might be the first girl in the history of PPD to come…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 09:29 AM
1

Well your politics seem like they're attractive (seriously).
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 09:05 AM
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So it really doesn't matter how hard you try to improve yourself. You're either born with "it" or you're not, and if you're you should just give up, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 08:56 AM
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That's impressive if anything. 12 years has got to exceed the average shelf life of the average meth addict by like at least triple.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 08:32 AM
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For my own sanity I have to assume this is fake, but it probably isn't. Jesus she's a cunt and her son's going to be insufferable. He'll probably murder at least a few people.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 08:29 AM
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Personally, I love sex. Normally, through the magic of Grindr, I have it about twice a week. You don't understand because it comes easily to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 08:21 AM
1

You edited it. What you initially said is what you really meant.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 08:09 AM
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This is what this sub is for. It is? I always thought it was a place for a bunch of hairless apes to meet up and fling their shit at each other. Alot of dudes need to socialize in the first place and start building a social circle that would make them grown into a more well rounded person that would be more into getting exposed to say more women and friends than they otherwise would. Definitely good advice for a lot of guys. Some of us are too far gone and have spent too much time alone. I've al…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 07:02 AM
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Women can only tolerate faking it so long.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 05:48 AM
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I could see it for the financial benefits. If I was 100% sure I was never going to be interested in dating again I'd platonically marry a guy I trusted for the tax breaks and what not. Only guy because a woman ever wanted a divorce I'm gonna get fucked without ever getting laid. At least if it's another guy the biased courts won't know what to do with themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 05:45 AM
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I appreciate you actually going back and making a revision. What, not everyone's fat out here, is that all were seeing or can get to talk to us? Some dudes need to socially interact to get better at talking with girls. I was just saying not being fat is a tall order in America because fucking 70% our population is fat. Just from a pure numbers standpoint, having a normal BMI is the exception, not the rule. Despite getting terrible results all my life socially, I've never had trouble getting girl…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 05:33 AM
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Who wants to be considered low value by everyone else around them?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 04:10 AM
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Still low value and always will be according to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 04:10 AM
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This thread is RP men describing a high value man, so I don't think it's that.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 04:08 AM
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Do me a favor: Take a deep breath and fix this mess. It's incoherent and seems to be missing some words.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 04:03 AM
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Depressing
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 03:34 AM
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Damn, FDS and RP really are two sides of the same coin.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 03:15 AM
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Most guys just don't want her to be fat, which is a tall order in America.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 02:56 AM
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Nah people look at me and assume I don't I'm sure. It's a surprise when bald 5'10'' guys get pussy after all. It did happen a bit when I was younger. Had a couple guys ask if I was virgin in a pejorative way. I told him I didn't want to deal with women anymore. Don't say shit like that to people, you look like a weirdo. Just say no and leave it. If they ask just say it hasn't happened and hope they get the hint you don't want to discuss it.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 02:53 AM
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They're not into you physically, but your resources are useful to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 02:33 AM
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I don't have issues with women who have casual sex, I have issues with women who've had casual sex and consider me "boyfriend material," but would not have casual sex with me.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 02:21 AM
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If she’s attracted enough to you to make you her boyfriend she’s attracted to you enough to have hooked up with you. That's not true at all. Plenty of guys--and I'm talking blue pill dudes--talk about how much easier dating for got them in their 30s. It's not because those women are suddenly dying to fuck these guys that they wouldn't have given even a first let alone a second look in their 20s. Their biological clock is ticking and they're looking to get wifed up and pregnant, so they have to s…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 02:12 AM
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You were giving advice, so I explained why that's bad advice.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 11:14 PM
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Low cut please or if bald, clean shave. Wish men knew clean shave looks better than bald spots. At that point it really doesn't matter. Bald is bald as far as women are concerned, and it disqualifies you with most of them. Just look at the top of the thread.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 10:56 PM
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hair color, tan vs. pale skin color, and the like? I have a favorite--blonde hair (usually fake probably) with dark eyebrows and brown eyes--but I've liked all kinds.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 10:50 PM
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eyebrow thickness Somewhere between caterpillars and drawn on eyebrows will do. No unibrows. body hair Yeah this is a big one. Hairless from the waist down please. lip thickness This shit doesn't really matter to me. Just not something I ever think about. I'd damn sure rather a girl with thin lips than one who got botched lip fillers. dress shape and length, tights or no tights, pants or skirts, heels or flats, and so on. Just look good in clothes that fit. Being fashionable really isn't always …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 10:36 PM
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Women are like that lottery ticket winners. They all pretend their success is only due to their inherent worth Hey man a lottery ticket is the ultimate low risk high reward investment. Don't hate me because I see all the angles and you don't. 😤
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 07:28 AM
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Wearing a brown belt with black shoes is appalling tbh.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 07:22 AM
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Yeah people do usually like talking about themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 07:17 AM
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I doubt OP is not bored by standard stuff like that. I can't imagine video games is a winner with most girls though.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 07:00 AM
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What would guy who isn't boring talk about?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 06:19 AM
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That's a given
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 05:21 AM
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Too late I already hit the wall myself.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 05:16 AM
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You just following me around now?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 05:15 AM
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We have different definitions of what a good woman is I guess.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 05:15 AM
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Haha that's pretty funny. I've just never really needed to. I've only ever been with girls I had some other reason to be around and it happened organically from there. If they didn't make it really easy I'd be a kissless virgin probably. And once I stopped living a lifestyle where this kind of thing could happen, it stopped happening and I haven't gotten laid in 8 years.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 05:14 AM
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That I've never approached a strange woman?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 04:20 AM
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Yeah I think even that's happening less and less. The marriage rate is historically low right now and sets a new low every year, at least in the good ol USA.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 04:10 AM
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Do we? That was back when women had a lot fewer rights and freedoms than they do today. They needed Billy Beta back then, but it didn't mean they were sexually attracted to him. How many of those 50s housewives were getting piped on the side by some Chad? I bet a lot of them.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 04:06 AM
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Idk about that, fat women have somewhat frequently overtly flirted with me. That hasn't happened in years with a girl with normal BMI. Fat women definitely have lower standards.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 04:03 AM
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Because some day you just might encounter a guy that spark does last with and you'll decide "oooooh, this is how it's supposed to feel." Many such cases!
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 03:51 AM
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I've never had it said to me, but I've seen and heard it said. I've never even approached a strange woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 03:49 AM
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In my opinion if you want something done to level you feel he can't possibly achieve no matter how hard he tries, you best get to doing it yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 03:44 AM
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I mean, you said you've felt it with other guys but not him. I'm just saying, he's probably gonna feel blind-sided when it goes south, and trust me, it will.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 03:39 AM
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It really depends if he knows you're faking it half the week or not. If he thinks you're also enjoying it every time then he has no reason to think he owes you anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 03:38 AM
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My belief is the way you're doing things only leads to resentment. Actually I suspect it already has just based on the things you're saying and the way you're saying them.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 03:19 AM
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but just not caring as much about it as I do. So you expect all things to be done to your standard? That's pretty selfish and one-sided, is it not?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 03:07 AM
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And she can't feel anything toward Billy Beta anymore because of it. The hard truth is, she never could
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 03:01 AM
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Does he know you don't feel this way about him?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 02:55 AM
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I came in an ex once and then walked in on her cheating on me ~8 hours later. She wasn't a hooker, for the record. I actually find it baffling that you actually believe something like this is impossible.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 02:46 AM
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I've had girls who wouldn't kiss me after went down on them. That one goes both ways.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 02:41 AM
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I took a few months off this place and you're just not even trying anymore. I think you're bored of your own bit.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 02:34 AM
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They all say they want monogamy and commitment but they sure seem to be working in concert to create conditions where they all just share a handful of men they deem most attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 02:32 AM
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It's not they don't understand that guys are struggling, they just don't care at best and even take joy in at worst.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 02:30 AM
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You assume? So you're just talking out of your ass when you say that's them curving me? Got it.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 02:26 AM
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I think eventually meeting people online will be the only socially acceptable way to meet people. All you see and hear now from women is that they basically do not want to be a approached anywhere anymore, even social establishments like bars and nightclubs ("I'm just out looking have a good time with my girls, leave me alone").
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 12:55 AM
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Are you saying I should have no standards? Hell, it'd probably be pretty easy for me to go fuck guys. You gonna tell me to do that despite not being gay?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 12:43 AM
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Nah. Men dismiss all the women who explain "Personality, wit, and a clever brain supercede a pretty face" because it doesn't fit their narrative. And yet how often do you hear women talk about all the boring/devoid of personally hot guys they've fucked and will continue to fuck? The issue is that those people can't find one another because the beautiful people commandeered online dating and buried the introverts. I'm not sure how you came the conclusion beautiful people on dating apps stopped in…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 12:30 AM
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I’m 5’9, overweight, grew up poor, haven’t been single since I started dating at 16 so these suburban white guys from the suburbs that are skinny have no excuse How deep in the dumpster are you diving?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 12:05 AM
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Idk, asking "will you be my valentine" sounds really cheesedick to me. Also, in a relationship it just seems obvious who your valentine is. Being upset he didn't do anything unless you told him not to is reasonable though.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/22 11:55 PM
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You got upset because he didn't specifically ask "will you be my valentine?" or because he didn't do anything for valentine's day?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/22 11:38 PM
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You're surprised people seek approval from their peers? edit: And it's men and women, not just men.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/22 11:24 PM
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You are telling me that the only thing you want women for is to feed your ego's need to feel validated? That's the only purpose a woman can serve in your life? How is this any different than an Insta thot who needs constant likes on her latest thirst trap? Does that make you feel good as a man that your only use is to give her validation? Well, think about what you are saying because you are doing the same thing to women. I get what you saying, but it's idealistic. A man who can't get a woman is…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/22 11:09 PM
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I approach assuming I'll be rejected so when it happens I've lost nothing.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/22 10:39 PM
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Good point. That's when the resentment and then hatred comes into play.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/22 04:26 AM
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It's not really that women hate us. They just wish most of us didn't exist. You have to be extremely careful with everything you do or say or else, you will blow everything up. If you're on the bubble of being attractive you're so easily replaceable that she's looking for even the slightest reason to toss you aside and keep looking for Mr. Perfect-for-them.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/22 03:15 AM
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Something is better than nothing to a lot of people.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/22 06:30 PM
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Almost 8 years here. Probably never again. Whatever.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/22 07:01 AM
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Lol of course
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/22 06:45 AM
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You must date men without any female friends then. I've had plenty of female friends I would have fucked given the opportunity over the years. I wasn't waiting around for that opportunity, in most of those cases I was pretty sure it was never coming and fine with in, but in the end I still would have if it came down to it. I assume this is how most guys feel about a lot of their female friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/22 06:41 AM
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