Ill_Purple268 Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
19	What should I do? I'm hurting real bad		Ill_Purple268	/r/Divorce_Men	23/11/23 04:34 PM
9	Wife has my 4 children kidnapped, it's been 2 weeks and i still have no clue of their whereabouts....		Ill_Purple268	/r/Divorce_Men	05/12/23 11:07 AM

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
11	What’s this form of abuse called This is the exact reason I felt the need to look into reddit...and then join a community specific to my current life happenings...with zero expectations, only just the hope of not feeling so alone And then...I get my mind absolutely blown...when reading posts just like yours, that feel as if it was ME who had written it. But it wasn't. It was you. And in these moments, I don't feel so alone. I feel like there's someone out there who would want to have a conversation with me, because of the strug…	/r/Divorce_Men	20/12/23 09:43 AM
2	When The Marriage Wasn’t Bad and You Can’t Hate… Hey man, if you haven't gained anything yet that you sought out with making the post...well, I can defiantly say, this read was impactful to me, and ht my chest like a barreling train dude. I am so sorry for you, the worst loss of your life, and the lingering weight it's played on your heart as you had no choice but to find new happiness. It's just, there's alot of parallels with what I'm in right now, minus any death. And I just felt inclined to immediately say something. I don't know what, but…	/r/Divorce_Men	19/12/23 04:51 AM
1	Is getting married even worth it? Hey man congrats, your post has gotten more response than all of mine have combined. Probably because you sad your 19, and most of us have 15 plus years on you and have been hurt by marriage, so you're the sponge to absorb what we all should have heard, except ended up living it out the hard way. Needless to say, there really is no right or wrong answer that you yourself should choose to abide by from one salty divorcee. I loved my wife till the very end, and ten years where anyone with vision o…	/r/Divorce_Men	07/12/23 07:55 AM
2	Wife has my 4 children kidnapped, it's been 2 weeks and i still have no clue of their whereabouts.... What do you mean the courts will help me get in there asap? What do you mean by that? Just picture yourself flat broke, 900 coming in a week, and bi weekly from there.. No car, only a bike that you could reasonably push 40 miles round trip in a day if needed to for an important cause. You sitting on a crap ton of sellable items that have value. (Rentong flea market space in the coming days is my plan.) You don't have ANYBODY in your life to even call, so loneliness is constantly trying to sap al…	/r/Divorce_Men	05/12/23 07:50 PM
3	Wife has my 4 children kidnapped, it's been 2 weeks and i still have no clue of their whereabouts.... I take that advice considerably, thank you very much, sir. I agree in getting ahead of things as opposed to falling behind and suffering those consequences. I know that it might seem excuse, like in regards to job hunting, and the priority to just land something to stamp that bullet point. However, I assure you that it is delicate and tricky with being in a union. I have to act smart about it as well. With my ranking and tenure, no matter who I land a job with and even whatever they decide to ta…	/r/Divorce_Men	05/12/23 02:09 PM
6	Wife has my 4 children kidnapped, it's been 2 weeks and i still have no clue of their whereabouts.... Wow, hands down the most amazing initial response to a serious post that a serious person put a serious heartfelt sentiment into. I'm blown away man. To your general overview of bullet points, yes I totally agree. It's exactly what I know, just uncomfortable and unfamiliar with the execution aspect. When I say that I am at very minimal means and resources, like I mean really really down on everything that exists toc an adult to get things done. And each day that goes by I just feel like is a fai…	/r/Divorce_Men	05/12/23 12:11 PM
1	What should I do? I'm hurting real bad Thank you to all of you who took the time out to share on my post and give me your input....wether things I just didn't want to hear, supportive shout outs, positive affirmations to help motive and encourage. Just all of that was amazing to receive on my very first post that I used when I felt like the very bottom I'd where I was standing... Against alot of your suggestions, and still hurting very badly and confused... I decided to go find them anyways on a complete shot in the dark. With nothin…	/r/Divorce_Men	25/11/23 11:04 PM
2	What should I do? I'm hurting real bad Just incredibly tough today with it being Thanksgiving ya know? Having it be a few hours shy of 72 hours from the last moment with my children. A visual I will never forget, their heartbroken faces clinging to me, them knowing and being fully aware of how not right it was that mom is doing this to dad..yet being now instructed and controlled by other adults who have no idea what we really know. With the icing on the cake being that I have not received one single word of contact since then. No up…	/r/Divorce_Men	23/11/23 06:11 PM
2	What should I do? I'm hurting real bad I know I know. It's not like the suggestions are something that's new to my character and driven focus. Getting a job is the easy part. No lie. I'm part of my counties local union, and it's a matter of calling just one specific person, who will then make rounds thru his roledex for me and call on his contact at the designated companies I can go work at, then from there it's a matter of fielding phone calls, not making them. Then going to interviews from there. Anything else will eliminate my uni…	/r/Divorce_Men	23/11/23 05:45 PM
4	What should I do? I'm hurting real bad It's just incredibly tough ya know, to be ostracized as being the problem in all this, yet knowing that I'm not and having the truth to it all lockedvaway in the minds of a 7 and 9 year old. The 2 and 4 yo don't count in that aspect. But my kids and I know who's been the one holding every single thing down. Who's been the one sacrificing his own pride to cater everyone else's emotions. The one who goes to crazy lengths just to make sure everyone is comfortable, and most important to me, feel lov…	/r/Divorce_Men	23/11/23 05:32 PM