| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 14 | Winning and you can too! | Illiterategenius | /r/Divorce_Men | 17/01/19 04:01 PM | |
| 12 | Update and Relief | Illiterategenius | /r/Divorce_Men | 23/11/18 04:15 AM | |
| 8 | Need some guidance | Illiterategenius | /r/Divorce_Men | 02/11/18 11:43 AM | |
| 5 | What to do when ex wants you back. | Illiterategenius | /r/Divorce_Men | 14/01/19 02:28 AM |
| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 3 | My own Kids mom tries to use me for money I need helpDo not ever accept any kind of sexual favor from her in exchange for money or anything for that matter. It will come up at some point that you engaged in solicitation of sex and will be all on you. She will receive no punishment or reprimand but you will I guarantee it. Save the offers, but never act upon them. Never ever put yourself in a situation where something can be used against or make you potentially look bad in regards to your child or her mother. Men have the shortest leash in regards … | /r/MGTOW2 | 11/12/20 12:03 AM |
| 11 | Facts! 💯This is the realest statement I’ve read in a long time. | /r/MGTOW2 | 11/11/20 09:44 PM |
| 4 | She's doing so well. Just got a raise, even.It stings for sure, but it is not a permanent situation. Don't look months or years down the road right now. The journey is just beginning so focus on yourself day by day. What do you need to do for you. That should be your sole focus. (Keep the kids in mind of course, but what you do is for them). They will realize when they process everything what all happened and what you went through to come out on the other side shining. And you will get there and you will be "do so well" maybe even "so gre… | /r/MGTOW | 02/08/20 03:10 AM |
| 1 | The most important question for every single man going his own waySure, I am over generalizing. However, my female friends are pretty chill and we get along very well, but I know for a fact about 3 years or less they would morph into the biggest fun hating, self-conscious, needy c word I have ever met. Not gonna do that for a piece of ass or so I can have somebody there in the void of silence. Once you’ve been there, the void is a comfort. I don’t think all women are bad. Have great relationships with several of them, but there is something about “romantic” re… | /r/MGTOW2 | 30/07/20 12:01 AM |
| 1 | The most important question for every single man going his own wayMost of them tend to disagree, but they also have gripes about men. It’s not a topic we discuss much. We don’t get together to discuss why we aren’t in a “relationship”. That’s not the purpose of our gatherings. | /r/MGTOW2 | 28/07/20 03:42 PM |
| 28 | The most important question for every single man going his own wayThat’s not an important question the way it is being asked. The premise of your question is faulty. From your view, a woman is the only thing that could cure loneliness. When most likely one would make you desire it. Loneliness is not a void filled by women alone. That’s nonsense of the highest degree. They don’t fill the void, they just occupy time and space with typically mundane nonsense. There’s a billion ways to occupy time. But the beauty is it’s how you choose to fill that void should it … | /r/MGTOW2 | 28/07/20 12:09 AM |
| 2 | My girlfriend left me three months ago. Having trouble moving on.It’s been mentioned, but she was already talking to the other guy. Likely, the fight you had was more of a ploy to give her an excuse to make herself look justified to her friends, family, etc. You have to understand that to let yourself heal. You were duped and betrayed. Those things you listed about her, were likely not really the true her. They were her representation to you to make her seem more desirable to you. It’s a constant mirage put on to make you desire her and trap you. Once you are… | /r/MGTOW | 21/07/20 04:13 PM |
| 27 | HowJust imagine the salary of the average person for your area. If it’s close to 100k, then take that times 40 and you can go to 65. So, bank about 5 mil to be safe and you can coast. But doing nothing gets boring as hell in a big hurry, just gonna warn you. Nobody believes it, but you need something to be passionate about. And for the love of all things holy don’t make it a woman. That will make you more miserable than doing nothing. You have some sort of skill, we all do, hone it and use it. | /r/MGTOW2 | 31/05/20 03:53 PM |
| 2 | Anon speaks the truth.Teachers are also around younger people all day who don't know shit and are amazed and grateful when they learn some new little nugget of information or the lightbulb magically lights up in their fully unformed minds. It's why you see all these stories about teachers male and female sleeping with their students all the times. They are in a position of power by default and that can be a powerful thing for some people. You could spew absolute bullshit to kids and they would eat that up, they don't… | /r/MGTOW | 31/01/20 03:03 AM |
| 9 | Be her perfect man and she will STILL cheat on you....This kind of shit is why women truly are pieces of filth. Perfect husband and good father, she says. So even if you remove the husband from the equation, what about the children. Ever wonder what it is like for children to hear their mother is a whore or any other plethora of names about to come your way. How confusing it is for children to contemplate why their mother would do such a thing to their father or them. A quick fling just fucked your kids life up potentially. Bravo, bitch. This guy a… | /r/MGTOW | 01/12/19 04:36 PM |
| 2 | Winning and you can too!Gotta keep your mind busy and find outlets. I have been doing a lot of things that I haven't had time for the last few years when I don't have my kids. I'm having a lot of fun, and a few times I have actually felt guilty the last couple of days. Like, is there something wrong with me for enjoying myself this much? I'm riding some ups and downs, but the ups are beginning to outnumber the downs significantly. Not saying it's easy, but it is getting easier. Hang in their man. Nothing wrong with tak… | /r/Divorce_Men | 18/01/19 03:13 AM |
| 1 | Winning and you can too!I hear you. Mine claims that she did it because she felt I wouldn't be open to fixing our relationship. How the hell does she know what I would have been open to? Some older guy comes along and tells her everything she want to hear, so she sees him for awhile. I file and then things get serious and maybe we can work things out. No, I don't think so. There are right ways to do things. Especially when family or kids are involved. You don't just nuke them. Big red flag for me. Yeah the dating thing… | /r/Divorce_Men | 17/01/19 07:12 PM |
| 1 | Winning and you can too!I have struggled with reconciliation myself. Still do sometimes. My kids mean the world to me, and I never wanted this for them. Problem is, it wasn't my decision to wreck it. But it is my problem on how to move forward. Why keep that negativity around all the time, when I can limit it to half the time? | /r/Divorce_Men | 17/01/19 06:38 PM |
| 3 | Winning and you can too!Why waste my energy getting angry and upset? It does nothing for me. She gets upset and tries to tell me that I don't care and am already moving on. I am. I don't tell her that, but she made a decision that affected this family and I am going to proceed how I wish and that I find healthy. No reason her toxicity should drag us all down. | /r/Divorce_Men | 17/01/19 06:35 PM |
| 1 | Winning and you can too!Feels amazing afterwards. | /r/Divorce_Men | 17/01/19 06:30 PM |
| 1 | What to do when ex wants you back.Thanks!!! I was having a weak moment last night. Appreciate this place to keep me focused like a laser beam! | /r/Divorce_Men | 15/01/19 02:12 AM |
| 3 | What to do when ex wants you back.That was my exact sentiment to her when I filed. Gonna have to stick to my guns. | /r/Divorce_Men | 14/01/19 08:48 PM |
| 1 | What to do when ex wants you back.Yeah, she has left the home for the time being. I'm thinking the situation would eventually return to shit. | /r/Divorce_Men | 14/01/19 08:47 PM |
| 4 | What to do when ex wants you back.Well, mine started a relationship with another guy and cheated on me because I supposedly wouldn't change. Once I filed and started proceedings I think she realized how hard things are gonna be solo. I'm probably going to push forward with the divorce, I just don't see how all my demands are met and stay met. I want to give my kids a two parent home, but I got to remember I didn't do this and the blame is not with me. | /r/Divorce_Men | 14/01/19 08:46 PM |
| 2 | What to do when ex wants you back.That's my problem. I am almost at a point where I can finalize and move on. She has stated she would meet my demands, but how long will that really last? Some have mentioned to me that under no circumstances should I dismiss my petition for divorce, and I certainly won't. I have been speaking with my oldest child to get their feelings on the subject and naturally my kids want us to be together and they know she is willing to come back. I don't want my kids to feel like I didn't make every effort… | /r/Divorce_Men | 14/01/19 06:50 PM |
| 1 | Just told my parents my wife and I are separating.If I may, and please don’t think I don’t understand your situation. I just want you to check out a book called Love and Respect by Dr. Emerson Eggerichs. I read it after my split and the things in this book probably would have saved my marriage, had my wife not decided not betray me. However, even if you and your wife still don’t work out, the book may help you individually. Either way, I wish you the best of luck. | /r/Divorce_Men | 18/12/18 06:25 AM |
| 2 | Need some guidancer/Divorce_Men I really appreciate you taking the time to type this. It has truly been a great help. A little update, I have filed and we are taking some time apart from each other. I have the kids for now and they are doing well. Hopefully, this will end somewhat amicably and I can move forward with my life. I hope your situation is going well also. If you ever need to bend an ear, shoot me a message. | /r/Divorce_Men | 09/11/18 06:04 AM |
| 2 | Need some guidanceI appreciate the help guys. I am in the process of locating a good lawyer and protecting myself. | /r/Divorce_Men | 02/11/18 05:08 PM |
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