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| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 93 | Feel like I can't touch on first dates | Escalation & Calibration | IllustratorAshamed34 | /r/seduction | 14/04/24 11:42 AM |
| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 1 | Controversial: I don't think we, as men should worry about unintentionally making women uncomfortable at all.I don't think that's a good approach, many women will appear closed off initially even to guys they're attracted to, because of shyness. As a shy guy, I do the same thing around women I find attractive | /r/seduction | 31/10/24 06:15 AM |
| 1 | It feels hopeless. No girl is attracted to me.That’s literally the number one thing they care about | /r/seduction | 15/04/24 11:11 PM |
| 1 | Feel like I can't touch on first datesnah, I do, but it's just difficult for me to breach someone's personal space for the first time. Once I do, I relax a lot and enjoy the interaction | /r/seduction | 15/04/24 07:40 AM |
| 1 | Feel like I can't touch on first datesI think this is generally good advice, however I've learned I can't trust what I feel like doing. What I feel like doing is just staying home and not going on the date at all. But I've gained so much by forcing myself to go out and meet new people, and so I think becoming comfortable with escalation will likely be a similar struggle. | /r/seduction | 15/04/24 02:13 AM |
| 2 | Feel like I can't touch on first datesThis is the most insightful comment so far, thank you! Obviously that’s not casanova talk but you’re not casanova This is so true lol. And I have had success in the past just by voicing my nervousness, in every case so far they've responded positively and opened up to a more personal conversation. I guess I thought I was past having to do that now, but clearly not if I'm still feeling so hesitant. And yeah just allowing myself to make mistakes is huge, I need to do more of that | /r/seduction | 15/04/24 01:36 AM |
| 2 | Feel like I can't touch on first datesNot saying groping at all, just something more innocent like an arm around the shoulders. I should clarify in my post | /r/seduction | 14/04/24 12:07 PM |
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