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| – | Q4RP: Are men really more emotionally resilient than women?I think i gotta leave this page man. There is no "debate" going on in any of these posts, and the people posting dont want to close this gender gap were here to talk about, its just a bunch of pointing fingers at, and blaming the assholes of our respective demographics. I think ive been on this page for almost a year, and the people that actually try to understand eachother are so far and between, idk if this page is what i thought it was going to be. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/04/25 03:31 PM |
| 1 | Q4M: Why don't you rely on other people's opinions more when dating?Other peoples opinions have no place in my relationships. If i decide that i like a woman and want her to be my girlfriend, the opinions of the public are of little intrest to me. I dont date people on a whim, either, i wont pursue a relationship with anyone unless that person is someone that i WOULD be willing to stand up against the world for. And i would be very turned off if someone who i was interested in put out a poll, or a flier to my ex's or previous accquantences asking about what they… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/04/25 03:17 PM |
| 2 | Why is acting macho unattractive ?Whoever told you that men have to be ready to fight all the time didnt know what they were talking about. I used to train in MMA and wrestling. Used to love it as a controlled sport, still kinda do. But those losers at the bar that try to start a fight for making eye contact are super annoying. They might get a girl to go home with them every now and then, but they arent keeping one. Nobody likes a guy thats so macho he seems dumb or fake. A REAL "macho man" just does what he enjoys doing withou… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/03/25 04:38 PM |
| 2 | Women who want a provider don't seem to realise that hes gonna want something in return.Man, i swear this page is just grabbing the worst examples of humanity and going "LOOK WHAT WOMEN/MEN DO ALL THE TIME" as if its not a fraction of the population commiting those acts. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/03/25 03:05 PM |
| 6 | Why are men so much harsher on weight than women?If a 7% difference from one study, done in one country, is what youre trying to run with im going to just move on to more prevelant matters with more avaliable data. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/03/25 11:06 AM |
| 10 | Why are men so much harsher on weight than women?I just want to make sure, because it sounds like youre making a generalization about the beliefs of the majority of men, based off of 22% of men. Per your own data, most men actually wouldnt mind a partner who weighed more than themselves. The 7% difference youre seeing is fairly minor, and could be atributed to a wide variety of variables that commonly occur within interview studies. This data would be more shocking if there was atleast a 12-15%+ difference between the two stats. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/03/25 10:58 AM |
| 6 | Data show men are as unsafe around women as women are around men. 40% of women could imagine making a false assault claim against men, while 32% of men could imagine forcing women to do something sexual against their will.Again, we seem to be bouncing off of hypotheticals. Its hard to find an end result to the debate without any real world numbers. How many rapes are we finding involve physical injury? What are the extents of the physical injuries? How many false accusations end up in court? Of those court cases, how many resulted in jail time, career loss, and or family seperations? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/03/25 03:42 PM |
| 10 | Data show men are as unsafe around women as women are around men. 40% of women could imagine making a false assault claim against men, while 32% of men could imagine forcing women to do something sexual against their will.Alright, two things to shoot this post down A. Physical threats shouldnt be held up to reputational, or legal threats. Both suck. Yeah, but we cant actually expect these to hold the same weight. B. I always have issues with these because its a hypothetical question, and plenty of people know that false accudations, aswell as rape are wrong. Youre not going to get honest answers out of people. Even if 32% and 40% admition rates are kinda wild. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/03/25 02:55 PM |
| 2 | CMV: Women don't care about money when looking for a partner.Being a doctor makes plenty of money, yeah, but i was more reffering to the rediculously rich guys that fly girls in from out of state/country for a date, or take 3 girls out on the yacht kinda rich guys. Your a doctor, and im a self employeed HVAC tech, and compared to those kinda rich guys, you and I are both pesants. Girls that like rich guys typically just like guys who will spoil them. If youre not spending all of your hard earned money on the girl, they dont actually care how rich you are.… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/03/25 01:44 PM |
| 2 | CMV: Women don't care about money when looking for a partner.I think we said the same thing from conflicting perspectives. A rich man cannot date ANY poor but attractive woman, but all women, rich or poor, attractive or not, that are attracted to rich men will flock to the rich man. There are countless 10/10 beautiful women who constantly aim for very wealthy men with no interest in anything but the money. Gold diggers are real. Media fantasy, sure, but they exist enough that middle class men are warry of underprivileged women. We can probably come to an … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/03/25 10:11 PM |
| 2 | CMV: Women don't care about money when looking for a partner.Everyone is different, and different men and women date for different reasons. If youre a broke guy, who goes after women with high class tastes, youre going to be heart broken. If youre not a barbie, but crave men who always have a barbie on their arm, youre going to get heart broken. Needless to say, this exact same quality carries over to the infinite number of dating qualifiers. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/03/25 09:54 PM |
| 4 | Women ARE wonderfulParents pushing kids into the military is probably a very small percentage, but id love to see suggested military service from parents in comparison to opposed to military service. And yeah, we are in the era where the stereotypical mother does everything for the kid needs to go away, especially if its a dual income household and men are adjusting slower than we'd all like, but if this is the argumemt that you want to use to agree with OP's "men are biologically a detriment to society" i still t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/03/25 02:41 PM |
| 1 | Women ARE wonderfulParents pushing kids into the military is probably a very small percentage, but id love to see suggested military service from parents in comparison to opposed to military service. And yeah, we are in the era where the stereotypical mother does everything for the kid needs to go away, especially if its a dual income household and men are adjusting slower than we'd all like, but if this is the argumemt that you want to use to agree with OP's "men are biologically a detriment to society" i still t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/03/25 02:41 PM |
| 12 | Women ARE wonderfulYeah i had a problem with those numbers too, 7/8 fathers in the UK are present, and 87% of australian kids have their father around too, based on the info you provided, which sounds like the majority of fathers are infact present for their kids. How does this imply that fathers dont care about their kids? Im glad you just stepped up and admitted that youre sexist, that makes me feel better about this argument, thank you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/03/25 10:24 AM |
| 6 | Women ARE wonderfulThe issue i have with these sets of data is the graph they get pulled from. It doesnt seem to make sense to take the <1% of highly successful men, and use those as the baseline for the entire gender without also acknowledging the HUGELY disproportionate gender gap in homelessness. Same with crime rates, sports, etc. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/03/25 10:20 AM |
| 15 | Women ARE wonderfulWho raised those men? If women are the ones staying home and taking care of their children, then where is the responsibility for the children they raised? You dont get to blame men for the society we have and not blame the people who made those men. Edit: Awh, dont just downvote me, c'mon OP, i love these high school level debates with regurgitated internet rhetoric, bring in on back. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/03/25 09:48 AM |
| 13 | Women ARE wonderfulMost workplaces casualties are men Most victims of war are men Most of the homeless population is men The kids struggling the most in school are boys. When men are abused, we say nothing Whem men are sexually harassed, we say nothing When men are suffering, we say nothing When men are depressed, we say nothing. Want me to flip the coin? Women have some stats that make them look bad too, should i start digging those up and shit posting about them? Should i pull up some stats on PPD? Or maybe divo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/03/25 09:33 AM |
| 7 | Shy and socially awkward women are as disadvantageous in dating as shy menI agree, shyness is a trubbling speed bump regardless of gender, but the major point most people debate on, is that if you, as a shy woman, walked up to most men, and just said "hello, could i buy you a drink?" They would most often be extatic, and likely pick the conversation up themselves. Where as the males perspective on being a shy person, is not only do they also have to jump that hurdle of approaching first, but the women they approach is more likely to either be uninterested, or wait for… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/03/25 08:15 PM |
| – | CMV: It's unattractive when a man matches a woman's energy100% agree, anyone trying to do this power play BS while dating is toxic, and should stay single. If they cant view their partner as their #1 most valuble team mate, they shouldnt be dating. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/03/25 06:46 PM |
| – | CMV: It's unattractive when a man matches a woman's energyI find this interesting, because as a man, If a girl leaves me on read consistantly, i assume shes not into me and move on. Because thats like. The logical thing to do. Its hard enough figuring out whether or not someone is compatable, if someone is intentionally trying to fuck with me during that process they arent my type anyways. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/03/25 04:56 PM |
| 1 | Men: What do you bring to the table?I come to the table as equals. Im not offering anything they dont have, and not accepting anything i dont have. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/03/25 03:03 AM |
| 0 | Men of PPD, if you only had two choices, would you rather date a woman from today (modern woman) or a woman from the 1950s (traditional woman, minus the racism)? Explain your reasoning.I envy all of you who know in 5 mins whether or not you want to date someone based off of what era or ideology they identify with. Im out here getting to know people and shit. /s | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/03/25 01:07 AM |
| 1 | Men should decenter women tooI refuse to listen to any grief given towards men with small penises after coming to the realization that lesbians rub their clits together and have perfectly functioning relationships. Problem with a small penis? Youre the ass. Tiny dick gang rise up ✊️ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/02/25 02:33 PM |
| 1 | Q4M: Would you say you are a natural provider?If my girlfriend ever gave off freeloader vibes, shes going to find herself on the curb, FAST. We live in the 21st century. Millions of women in our country are happily pulling their own weight. Get a f***ing job. No way in hell am i going to live with 2+ people in a single income household. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/02/25 03:05 PM |
| – | Q4M: A well-traveled adventurous woman? Or sheltered homebody?Idk, ima vibes guy. I could live happily with either life style, as long as i vibe well with the person im with. So much more that goes into picking a dating partner, life style alone isnt the best category to be picking from. My current GF is a little more on the homebody side. Our idea of a vacation is an air bnb within state for a weekend, and just relax. MAYBE we'll go out of country eventually, but it probably wont be a regular occurance. And im 100% okay if we never go out of country again… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/02/25 01:55 PM |
| – | There is no problem with pumping and dumping, men are just leaving boring women.Pls dont bundle me up with this guy, were not all delusional :( | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/02/25 02:35 PM |
| 0 | What does your ideal society look likeHookup culture goes away, sex isnt prioritized, or used as a tool for self validation, stress relief, or boredom. People start dating with the goal of marriage, and date 2-3yrs living together before marriage, the number of babies born outside of stable relationships plummets, the number of stable relationships skyrockets. Kids born into stable house holds have less stressed parents, and in turn result in being less stressed adults. Less stressed adults treat people better in the dating world, a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/01/25 05:50 PM |
| 10 | CMV: Males avoiding women at work are sexistWhat is our definition of sexist here? Because this headline also implies that women avoiding men in society are also sexist, when we can agree that both of these things are happening because of the well known risks of interacting with the opposite gender. Its really funny you mention a "would you rather be stuck in an office with a woman or a bear" argument when thats an obvious parody of the man or bear in the woods argument. Im glad you see that as sexist, but would appreciate re-targetting t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/01/25 03:47 PM |
| 1 | For Men, Single Life Is the Solution—Not Something to FearSomething similar. I would have to dig a little deeper but in the interview i watched i dont think he ever asked for depopulation, or population regulation, he just said "this is something we need to take into consideration going forward" And again, the whole experiment has been debated as blatant animal abuse, and not a scientific project, so take away from it what you will. The only reason it still holds any relevance 50yrs later is the handful if similarities you see with crowded human struct… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/01/25 06:21 PM |
| 9 | For Men, Single Life Is the Solution—Not Something to FearCheck out "universe 25" on youtube. Theres a 20min or so video that goes super into detail. Dude made a rat society that was overpopulated, but sustained, to test the effects of overpopulation, and they started behaving very weird, and eventually stopped breeding. John Calhoun named them "beautiful ones" because they were basically stoic. Just grooming, eating, and sleeping. They wouldnt mate, wouldnt fight, play or compete, they became complete social outcasts, and were fine with it. Disclaimer… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/01/25 05:49 PM |
| 5 | For Men, Single Life Is the Solution—Not Something to FearIve thought about what this post talks about plenty of times, but more of "people should be happy single, regardless of dating experience." But reading through this post i got a looootttt of Calhoun's "beautiful ones" vibes, and it has honestly been my most horrifying mental correlation ive made in this subreddit. Like deadass, impulse is to gtfo out this community now. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/01/25 05:43 PM |
| 15 | For Men, Single Life Is the Solution—Not Something to FearIve been saying this for awhile, that people should first focus on becoming happy themselves, with or without a partner. I personally am grying to set up a life where i can die, happy, alone. If i happen to find someone along the way sweet, if not, whatever. But, and maybe this is just me, i notice an uncanny similarity with this train of thought, and an experiment done by a researcher named John Calhoun, in the late 60s. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/01/25 03:39 PM |
| 1 | If you have no kids, there´s honestly no reason not to leave your boring, unappealing husband/boyfriend and seek a better lifeI think this rule applies to men aswell, if youre not happy in any relationship, you should leave. And honestly, even with kids, if youre not happy with your partner, a co-parent relationship is better than "sticking it out for the kids". I know kids whose parents tried like that, and they said it was horrible living with two adults who resented eachother. But lets be real, there are plenty of people, men and women, who arent happy in their relationship, and it doesnt matter if youre a man or a … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/01/25 02:23 PM |
| 2 | Generally speaking, women are more empathetic than men.Thats not what i was saying, though i do wish more fathers had a place in their childs lives. I believe the father figure, or some variation of it, is a key archetype in raising children of both genders. Naturally, i hope kids get both of their parents throughout their childhood, and even into adulthood. In no way was i making an attempt at replacing mothers, just that single mothers have a lot more on their plate, trying to 100% fill both nuturing, and stern roles to the child. I just wish more… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/01/25 09:05 PM |
| 1 | Generally speaking, women are more empathetic than men.Also, just speaking from experience, im pretty sure both of my parents are equally invested in how much they care about me, but the display is vastly different. My dad loves me severly, but from a distance. Hes not the heart felt, happy, huggy dad, my mom filled that role. And as much as i love my mom, id never do anything to huet her, but i appreciate my dads form of love more. Stern, and still supportive enough to enchourage me to figure things out on my own. Which is harsh at times, but makes… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/01/25 07:10 PM |
| 2 | True alpha men are extremely rareAm i the only one who cringes or laughs whenever someone talks about the "beta-alpha" scale, or starts calling people chads? Im thouroughly convinced no "alpha" men give a shit about any ranking system. Any grown ass adult is going to do what they want, regardless of opinions towards being "alpha". The only time people give a shit about their social standing, is when its not that good. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/01/25 06:41 PM |
| 2 | Q4M: Would you rather be the Risky choice or the Safe choice in a woman's eyes? Why?Idk why i cant live an exciting, adventerous, adrenaline full life, while also being an honest, drama free, friendly person. Ive done MMA, partied and done the drugs, flipped a truck, jump in the cold water with my life all the time. Never cheated, dont start fights, hate drama. I dont think anyone has to be an asshole to be exciting. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/01/25 06:06 PM |
| 4 | Getting good sex is immensely beneficial for your mental health and sometimes getting into an exciting relationship CAN solve your mental health strugglesThis is great until someone ends up staying in a relationship they dont want to be, or shouldnt be in under the premis that "its better than being single" Other people are not stepping stones for your mental health, and its pretty fucked up staying in a relationship with someone just because you need someone, not because you care about them. Staying in a toxic relationship for your mental health is an oxymoron. Toxic relationships, by definition, are a strain on your mental health. If sexual gra… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/01/25 04:02 PM |
| 8 | Q4M: Ever cry because a friend confessed her love to you?There was a girl i was interested in a long time ago, but she wasnt into me as anything more than a friend. We stayed friends while i was working my way out of feeling that way towards her, she dated a few people in the mean time, eventually turned out i was NOT interested in her after getting front row seats to 2-3 relationships as her best friend, we went camping with a bunch of mutual friends, she confessed her love for me while crying in the back of the my car, while i was trying to sleep. I… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/01/25 01:27 AM |
| 5 | Which Type of Partner Do You preferI feel like i end up differing from most people on here, not even just guys, but i dont date someone to turn them into my perfect girlfriend, i date someone because i like who they are, and who i am around them. If youre dating someone for who they are, then you should give them as many opportunities to be themself as possible. No rules. If i dont enjoy your presence, i dont even spend time trying to hook up, im back to spending time with my friends. If I DO enjoy your presence, i would rather i… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/01/25 11:28 PM |
| 2 | Would you be willing to g to forgo all casual sex if it meant dating went back to how it was before?Is it what i want? No. Do i think there would be some huge benefits to society if it worked like this? Holy hell yes. STDs and unwanted pregnancies would more than likely be cut in half or more. Im also a firm believer that sex should not be used as a method of self validation, so forcing people to find self validation through other means seems like a net positive to me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/01/25 03:24 PM |
| 3 | Do men prefer no makeup/surgery, and should women tell when they've had surgery?For me its more of a personality thing. I dont enjoy spending with people who care THAT much about their appearance. Life saving surgery? Go for it. QOL upgrade? (ie, breast reduction), 100% understand. But the stereo type that comes with girls who get aesthetic based plastic surgery, or are covered in make up, is they kinda implode when youre sweaty at the gym, or camping for a week, or some form of cant be seperated from a mirror for more than 24 hrs. I know not all girls are like this that ge… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/12/24 05:18 PM |
| 3 | Q4M: Males like women who stress them out?Im not going to say i speak for all men (i think its kind of funny she is, when shes not even a guy) but i will speak for myself, and say i would never date someone who plays these stupid mind games. I have enough stress in my day to day life. If im dating a girl that is intentionally adding to that, ima shit can her. Also, these are kinda typical human traits, and not specific to men. To a certain degree (everyones tolorance will be different) EVERYONE likes stress in the sense she is talking a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/12/24 09:24 PM |
| 3 | If you’re waiting 3 dates (or a month) to fuck someone, you would have been better off having a hookup and fucking immediately.So in this scenario, what is your response to a guy you want to date, correctly communicating he just wants to hook up? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/12/24 04:52 PM |
| 10 | People should think about their priorities before complaining about dating.Normally i dont agree with your posts OP, but you have a few points here that i think people dont consider often enough. Im sure enough girls hear it all the time, that when they arent happy with the men they are after, or have been screwed over in some form, its because they are after "shitty" men, and that sword cuts both ways. I dont see enough guys acknowledging skewed priorities in the dating world. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/12/24 08:32 PM |
| 3 | Way too many guys on dating apps are clingy and most likely conflate that with being a good lover.Im not sure if your missunderstanding the point im trying to make or maybe im not explaining it very well, but the online thing is an example of issues men do actually see in their day to day lives. I used the form of likes and interactions to give us a number basis of this happening, and that men are experiencing these issues correlate to not feeling validated, or having access to support in real life in comparison to women. Im very happy to hear that you are supportive of your friends when the… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/12/24 06:22 PM |
| -1 | Way too many guys on dating apps are clingy and most likely conflate that with being a good lover.I brought this up in another comment, but you can go on body positivity pages, where people post looking for affirmation typically. Its mostly women that post there. Even the girls that arent hot get substantially more interaction than the posts by men. Even when we take pictures out of the equation. When women post they are in distress, in MOST circles, they get much more interaction and support than men in the same circles. Im not talking about your circle, if the men you interact and surround… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/12/24 04:55 PM |
| 2 | Way too many guys on dating apps are clingy and most likely conflate that with being a good lover.Which is the argument i used to make, but, when we go on the body positivity pages, usually people post there nude. No dress up needed, just bare bodies looking for compliments. The trend continues. Even the girls not posing, and not using filters, still end up with more interaction than men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/12/24 04:12 PM |
| -2 | Way too many guys on dating apps are clingy and most likely conflate that with being a good lover.I never said all women? Or talked about youtube videos or memes ect? But its pretty common knowledge that women post selfies more than guys do. And when they do, you can see an overwhelming amount of compliments and support on the womans side. Or if girls post that they are in distress, they are 10x more likely to get online support. When you look at the same kind of posts for men, they dont get anywhere near the same attention. This isnt about men becoming bloggers, or content creators, im just… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/12/24 03:43 PM |
| 4 | Way too many guys on dating apps are clingy and most likely conflate that with being a good lover.When a girl posts a picture online, she is flooded with compliments and support. When guys do it, they get ignored. You can see this happen on any body confidence page. Thats just one example, but it correlates with a lot of daily goings on in most mens lives. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/12/24 03:26 PM |
| 1 | Stop Complaining and Start Committing: The Problem with Modern Women's AdvocacyI have a buddy who is a male nurse (married) and got harrassed by a couple different coworkers, and when he brought it up his supervisor basically told him that hes a guy in a woman dominated work place, he might just have to learn to deal with it. So no, its not hundreds and hundreds, but it does happen, and doesnt deserve to get down played just because its not as frequent. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/12/24 09:53 PM |
| 1 | Would you date someone from the purple pill debate reddit ?Ive pushed myself back from this whole men vs women debate, and wouldnt date anyone who feels that we are at odds based on gender in any regard. If i heard "well men this" or "ugh, i hate men" in any kind of serious or under cutting tone, its a huge turn off. A relationship should be about you and your partner working as a team to grow together. Societies opinions about gender differences shouldnt matter. You just look to better eachothers lives. Its not me vs my gf, its me and my gf vs whatever… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/12/24 07:26 PM |
| 6 | Is a lot of this stuff an American cultural problem?Im pretty sure this isnt even an american problem, but just an american social media problem. People in the real world dont talk to eachother like they do on this sub. Real relationships dont work like they say on this sub. Men and women both have a hell of a time on this planet, and neither one of us has any buisness making it harder for the collective of the rest. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/12/24 02:42 AM |
| 1 | Men treat men worse than women doI think this is just going to come down to different life experiences. I wasnt a very masculine guy either, growing up, and got a good amount of lashing from both sides. In the modern world, i see several relationships fairly close to me, where the man is treated like a dumb oaf by a woman who doesnt have a job. I get snap chats, or see face book posts once a month from girls saying "i hate men lol" like most of my social feeds with people i grew up with turned into mens hate threads. Hating on … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/12/24 02:29 AM |
| 1 | Men treat men worse than women doI would also ask you, where are these mean and hypocritical mens spaces and communities your encountering? Im not saying men dont ever bully eachother, middle school through college bullying is common, and typically self seperates by gender, with some occasional overlap, thats just how bullying works. and im assuming we're pulling aside friendly teasing, but excluding those variables, and the average internet asshole, i would argue that men on average take it pretty equally from everyone. As som… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/12/24 12:56 AM |
| 1 | Men treat men worse than women doI see unhappy men and women both infilitrating happy posts and causing chaos about it, thats just the internet. i think its unfair to make the assumption "men are more/less cruel to eachother than women" based solely off angry people that OP has encountered online. Assholes are always online. If we were going to make the argument that men are more/less cruel to eachother than women are, then we would see that in real world mens spaces, but pretty much every mens space ive been in has been nothin… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/12/24 09:59 PM |
| 87 | Men treat men worse than women doIs this just based off your interactions with reddit men? I feel like my male spaces that ive experienced (MMA gym, coworkers, guys nights buddies etc) are some of the most constructive and positive places i have avaliabe to me aside from going to my moms house. And honestly even my encounters with random men (given the occasional ass hat) end up being neutral at worst. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/12/24 04:11 PM |
| 6 | Telling women that they’re not entitled to protection or human decency shows a sense of entitlement.Well idk any guys that act like this, so if this is how men in your circle are acting, maybe you should be spending time around better men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/12/24 01:38 PM |
| 9 | Why Do Men's Issues Often Get OverlookedI think the term "lack of sexual partners" was... poorly stated, but summerizes a few different issues that could be taken more seriously. Though, i do agree, we as men need to learn how to talk about it better. Lack of sexual partners isnt the issue thats causing depression, but constant lonliness, and lack of validation is an easier discussion topic. Guys arent pissed they are dying with a low head count, they are scared of dying alone. Most men get raised into an emotionaly isolated state. We… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/12/24 01:36 PM |
| 10 | Telling women that they’re not entitled to protection or human decency shows a sense of entitlement."implying that you would only protect and show human decency to women as long as they fuck you is asshole behavior." To quote, you said "protect and human decency" and i agree, they are different things. I will show human decency to a random woman who i am attracted to. If i get rejected, that decency doesnt go away, i will respect her decision. However, i am more than likely not going to risk my own safety for a random individual that i am not invested in. Which would have nothing to do with wh… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/12/24 01:10 PM |
| 7 | How many of you would be prepared if a draft was called up?Ive been playing devils advocate a bit, but what I want is equal opportunity accross the entire board. I want to see space shuttles filled with the highest qualified people for that job or expedition. Same with military. Same with medical jobs, same with careers, same with pay. I honestly dont give a s**t (swearing for emphasis, not swearing at you) whats in someones pants, i want the job done as quickly, and effectively as possible. If that means all male/female astronauts, then so be it. What … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/12/24 10:29 PM |
| 5 | How many of you would be prepared if a draft was called up?Idk, they have drasticly reduced the physical requirmemts needed to join infantry. I think with the equality of outcome, that society seems to be pushing for, women could find a useful role on the battlefield, right next to the men. Its 2024. I see no reason why only men should be on the front line, bleeding and dying for the country. Why do women get to run from the risks? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/12/24 10:05 PM |
| 10 | How many of you would be prepared if a draft was called up?If its an enemy i agreed needed to go, and the draft was universal, yeah id go. Only bringing this up, because the question is from a women, and only for men, but if men got drafted, an women didnt, i will draft dodge. Feminism fought hard for an equal society, and ill be DAMNED id i go to fight and die for an "equal society" that only sends men to war. Edit: how come "no pill man" isnt an option for userflair? Kinda dumb i have to comment on these bot threads just because i have a nuetral opini… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/12/24 09:32 PM |
| 7 | There needs to be a movement of men that advocate for freedom for men in society.My solution to this problem was to not sleep with women who seemed like the type to take me for a financial ride. No kids until marriage. No more hookup culture for me. The only partner i have is my gf, who has the same opinions as i do. If we as men want to maintain power of our finances, you shouldnt even consider it a possibility to have sex with anyone you dont know and trust. If EVERY ONE decided to just drop hookup culture, and prioritize relationships with good men and women, child suppor… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/12/24 07:59 PM |
| 14 | How come feminsm treats men as having easy cushy lives when they are victims of the patriarchy too?Id also like to know what im benifiting from living in a society where im expected to break my body for a paycheck, my mental health is a joke, and every hurdle i come accross im expected to "figure it out on my own". Confirmed Suicide rates is higher among men, Homlessness is higher among men, hazardous workplaces are prodominantly men, more men die in military conflicts, men have fewer mental health supports than women, like what is the benifit? To me it sounds like everyone who is human, goes… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/12/24 05:27 PM |
| 3 | Do you understand that you can't force women to lower their standard?And with that i would make the argument that if your only happiness has to come from someone else, youre not actually happy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/12/24 12:57 AM |
| 2 | Do you understand that you can't force women to lower their standard?Dude i was single, and celebate for over 5yrs before this relationship, and was still functioning just fine, even started a buisness during that time period since i had free time. When i was a kid i was told that happiness is a glass of water. If youre glass is half full, it might make sense to pair up with someone else who has a half full glass so you can fill yours all the way up. But then your partners is empty. What you need to do is figure out how to keep your glass full regardless, AND fin… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/12/24 12:43 AM |
| 1 | Women feel they don't need men despite needing men; Men feel they need women despite not needing women.Agreed, but the reality of how this has been going, is that it just means fewer jobs, and richer bosses. When McDonalds puts in the "order yourself" booths, the result ends up being getting rid of the staff that used to take orders. If i get an AI robot that will run service calls, im going to get rid of my team of technicians. They just wont have a job, unless they happen to be able to afford their own AI and can go into buisness for themselves. Ill be fine regardless. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/12/24 10:41 PM |
| 1 | Women feel they don't need men despite needing men; Men feel they need women despite not needing women.I am all for improving safety in the work place, however i can still strongly understand the position of the people being replaced, now being told that the skill set they learned to support their families, is now not worth anything. For a 20yo, thats fine, pick a new career. For the 45yo, their entire world just came down, and they are no longer financially stable. Im a buisness owner, from my perspective, i CANT WAIT to replace employees with robots or AI. It will be 10x cheaper for me, and les… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/12/24 05:27 PM |
| 10 | Do you understand that you can't force women to lower their standard?I am a man, and i am completely happy single. I do not depend on anyone for my own happiness. My gf is a bonus. I wouldnt be dating her, if i was the only thing that was making her happy. I also have plenty of purpose outside of my relationships? Im an uncle, a son a brother, a buisness owner, a boss, an HVAC technician, i have all kinds of purpose that doesnt even involve my relationship. Idk where youre getting this idea that men cant be happy alone, or that we have no purpose other that servi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/12/24 01:17 PM |
| 0 | Men are a big part of the problem.Tbh, i think a good portion of this women vs men debate goes away with hook up culture. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/12/24 12:54 PM |
| 2 | Is "Just to talk to women bro" a solution?Idk where i fall on the attractinvess scale, ive heard mixed responses. But as for where i was going wrong, i was Just trying too hard. Playing the "sweet romantic" or trying to be a badass, just verious methods all of which looked and felt super cringy. Got friend zoned by a high school friend i had set my sights on for awhile, and after that i was like "fuckin fine, wanna be friends? Heres how i treat my friends 🤬🤬🤬" like a month later i got invited to girls night. Didnt even try flirting, jus… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/11/24 04:56 PM |
| 3 | Is "Just to talk to women bro" a solution?So, i had issues socializing with women, to the point where i got frustrated and gave up. At that point everyone was a bro, i didnt want to persue anything that wasnt interested in me first. Didnt care how pretty they were, not worth my time, effort, and self esteem. Hot or not, i will roast you with the same intensity i roast my coworkers. Found it immediatley easier to make female friends. Shortly after landed a gf. The trick is to stop talking to every woman with the idea of trying to get the… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/11/24 02:19 AM |
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