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| 5 | If you want fast results, the club is the only realistic optionMade out with a girl the first time I went to a nightclub, and yet I never had day game opportunities with girls I was interested in. On dating apps, I get no matches, even with optimized pics, I get a few likes but they're all super ugly. The main reason for this is my height, I'm 6'4" but I look average in the face so in real life, I have the advantage while online, I do worse than the short handsome guys. | /r/seduction | 23/09/25 06:57 PM |
| 5 | If you want fast results, the club is the only realistic optionI realized this pretty quickly when I went to my first nightclub last year at 26, I never went before mainly because none of my friends like to go out, and I was never able to make friends that like to party, but this time I went alone and I was approached by a short girl who was all over me, we ended up making out then she left, but we could have done a lot more if I had been better at reading signals. Before I kissed her she thought I was rejecting her so she was very sad, women take rejection… | /r/seduction | 23/09/25 06:53 PM |
| 2 | Women simp on whole another levelNo such thing as Chads. I once met a guy who looked really bad in the face but he was ripped and extremely confident so he'd go up to women at bars, show them a good time and he'd score every night he went out, though it was because he would do whatever it took to get results, even going as far as sleeping with a fat girl rather than coming home empty handed. It worked really well for him until he got to age 35, and wanted to have kids so he went back to his ex girlfriend who was his high school… | /r/seduction | 20/09/25 06:11 PM |
| 1 | How I Get Dates With Just 2 TextsThis is pretty good if you live in a big city, but try that in the suburbs. I tried going to the city a bunch of times to do approaches, pathetic I know, but anyways it didn't work because I didn't know where the women were, and even if I did find some, they were either with a guy or in a large group of women or difficult to approach. I then learned that I have to go into places of business like coffee shops but the issue is I'm shy, I'm anxious, and most of all I'm autistic so that advice is ne… | /r/seduction | 14/06/25 07:27 PM |
| 2 | Too old at 43?A lot of bars in my city have women in your age range. You may be too old for the nightclub but you can still date well into your 50s and beyond, there are plenty of sites that organize meetups for those age groups. It's actually harder in a man's 20s because there is more competition, women have more options and there are not many meetups outside of college, so a man who lacks social circles is going to struggle. | /r/seduction | 14/06/25 07:17 PM |
| 1 | Great success on Hinge, no success on Tinder & Bumble whatsoeverYeah I remember talking to this one obese 300 lb guy who had had sex with over 20 women, all of them fat but still he had success and he had only been using Tinder but he lived in London. I tried Tinder many times over the course of many years in Montreal and never had any success even though I'm better looking, fit, and used better pictures. Some locations just have so much competition you don't stand a chance unless you look like a supermodel and you're muscular, and even then the women you'll… | /r/seduction | 14/06/25 07:13 PM |
| 8 | Unpopular seduction opinion: numbers game is so bad.You should try to focus on girls who you've a chance with rather than trying to ask out every girl. If you do the numbers game then you could end up with a reputation. Besides it's embarrassing. Women expect to be approached by the men they have shown interest in, that much is true. A girl who signals through body language that she likes you is more likely to respond positively to your approach than a girl who avoids your gaze. That said, women sometimes will think they don't have a chance with … | /r/seduction | 06/04/25 09:54 PM |
| 1 | Why do so few men have "rizz"?The James Bond charisma thing is pretty inaccurate. Charisma doesn't get you laid. Taking the lead and planning things out properly and not second guessing yourself does. Most of it comes down to physical attraction. Here's how it goes: Example: You're in a public place, you see a hot girl, you make eye contact with her, she smiles at you or holds eye contact for a while. Generally, most guys nowadays are pussies, they'll look away and be super insecure, then later that night they'll jerk off wh… | /r/seduction | 06/04/25 09:36 PM |
| 1 | I used to think I needed to be better looking to approach women. But that was never the real problem.The thing that helped me the most with approaching is getting my own experience, because until you do that, it's all just theory, all just stuff read on the internet and if you don't fully believe in something, why would you take the risk to do it? Over the years, I realized women were showing me clear signals of interest in public and I hadn't been picking up on that. Also, a recent experience in a nightclub made me realize that many women, if they like a guy, will be so afraid of rejection the… | /r/seduction | 06/04/25 09:24 PM |
| 1 | Do good looking men get shit tested as much as the average guy?Typically, a conversation I would have starts off great, continues for a couple weeks and then falls off a cliff out of nowhere. Now I know there’s always room for me to improve with the ladies, but the question remains…do good looking guys get shit tested or is it something that only average guys experience? That's not a shit test, that's just you taking too long to take action. You should ask women out within a few texts, you shouldn't go text her for weeks before asking her out. It depends on… | /r/seduction | 06/04/25 09:02 PM |
| 1 | Is pulling girls at a club a numbers game?If she managed to avoid your move, it means you did it too slowly. I basically went for a kiss on the mouth too fast for her to react. A lot of women are embarassed and afraid to get rejected, and in that sense they are very fragile, so if you look like you doubt yourself a lot, like someone who is not confident, that's only going to make them more worried that you might reject them, so they'll just avoid you while hoping in their mind that you'll take charge. Of course, this only applies to the… | /r/seduction | 06/04/25 08:50 PM |
| 1 | Is pulling girls at a club a numbers game?My experience was similar except that when she went for a kiss on the cheek, I could tell she was really into me so I went for the mouth and made out with her instead and she enjoyed it, except I waited so long to make my move I didn't have the time to ask her out as she was leaving. The issue you're having is you wait too long to make a move, it was the same for me. It's not that you're not funny but you expect women to take the lead, but women are terrified to do so. A man who doesn't take the… | /r/seduction | 06/04/25 08:33 PM |
| 1 | Is pulling girls at a club a numbers game?I only went to a nightclub once, towards the end of last year and I managed to make out with a girl. I did it by following the advice I had heard on a forum. I drank a few beers just to get in the mood, went in front of the DJ and danced to the music by myself just having fun by myself. Then a girl approached me, she basically said "Wow you're so tall!", then we danced together, and it took me a long time to make a move but eventually I did and managed to make out with her. I basically arrived a… | /r/seduction | 06/04/25 08:29 PM |
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