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| 32 | Anyone else get a drive rush after being Red Pilled? | Illustrious-Pair7507 | /r/askTRP | 06/01/21 05:58 PM | |
| 1 | Dealing with "kid as leverage" drama from ex-wife | Illustrious-Pair7507 | /r/askTRP | 05/01/21 06:53 PM | |
| 1 | Was my ex spoiled? | Illustrious-Pair7507 | /r/askTRP | 09/01/21 11:22 PM | |
| 0 | Plates and "casual dating" a few questions | Illustrious-Pair7507 | /r/askTRP | 05/01/21 06:21 PM |
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| -2 | Should i have cut my best friend off for talking to my ex?I actually fucked my friend's ex.. Told him sbout it.. Said we were cool, then proceeded to harass her about it for months. I dumped the friend. It's a good test on flip side as well. | /r/askTRP | 21/01/21 07:19 AM |
| 2 | How do I stop being insecure about my height even though I’m not short?Dude see a shrink. If you had a two foot long dick you'd be going around comparing yourself with guys with two foot one inch dicks. Maybe focus on things you can change like career, style, working out, character. You know, these things that short guys have to kill it at in order to make up for the 5 inches they lack on you. I'm 6' 1" sit on a computer all day and still manage to be skinny and make good money while having freedom of time. I could be depressed my jaw isnt perfectly chissled like Z… | /r/askTRP | 10/01/21 05:54 AM |
| 2 | How do you answer the question “yo, how much you bench?” From DYEL bros or women?Probably the only good answer here. | /r/askTRP | 10/01/21 12:16 AM |
| 1 | Feel like i fucked up my sons lifeIs what it is man. I'm going through the same shit right now. Wish we could be a united, happy family but two people who just don't function together will be worse for your kid than apart. Honestly, that's one thing that gives me hope is that. My family was united but cold as ice overly involved in shoving religion down our throats. I turned out just as fucked up as a lot of single parented kids. | /r/askTRP | 10/01/21 12:07 AM |
| 1 | Was my ex spoiled?I guess the only thing I can do if shit really hits the fan and she takes off to live in that environment is be the kind of dad a kid would look up to. She has a bit better mindset than her family but her upbringing really comes out in times of stress. | /r/askTRP | 10/01/21 12:01 AM |
| 2 | Anyone else get a drive rush after being Red Pilled?Yeah I got the mustache and goatee type deal going on. If the beard ever comes, welcome. If not..not going to cry over it. | /r/askTRP | 08/01/21 04:07 AM |
| 1 | This is the place where you can ask uncomfortable questions....I drink because I like the taste. But I don't spend each day hung over as shit. What will really fuck you up at any age is jacking it 2-4 times a day. If I do that once every two days I notice a massive difference not only in energy but I start acting a little girly. My voice even changes. And, I'm 30... I found something interesting actually. If I HAVE whack off (sometimes you just gotta) and I hold in the semen (like squeeze like a mofo and hold it in instead of letting it spirt out) I don't h… | /r/askTRP | 08/01/21 04:01 AM |
| 1 | Feel like i fucked up my sons lifeI mean ideally it's easiest to raise non-fucked up kids in a two parent household but not everyone gets that luxury and not having that doesn't automatically mean fucked up kids. Just means you'll have to be extra conscious and make the extra effort to be a presence in his life. That is, if absolutely possible be there and be a masculine model for him. Handling this situation the right way. I don't think it's so much about two parent households as it is about being a model for him. He'll have to… | /r/askTRP | 08/01/21 03:37 AM |
| 1 | How to manage everything?Called being an adult man. I've felt like this since I was 18. | /r/askTRP | 07/01/21 03:51 PM |
| 2 | Feel like i fucked up my sons lifeReal talk right here. She stepped up her game. He didn't. Now he wants to relive the old days with a chick who used to be not so attracted to. | /r/askTRP | 07/01/21 03:14 PM |
| 1 | Feel like i fucked up my sons lifeThe idea is yo have both parents in the mix. But that's not always possible. Your son can grow up just fine, and he might have a healthier dose of reality than kids who grow up with both parents that hate each other or don't get along. | /r/askTRP | 07/01/21 03:07 PM |
| 1 | Anyone else get a drive rush after being Red Pilled?I wish I could. The sides come out patchy. The front is normal. | /r/askTRP | 07/01/21 02:35 PM |
| 3 | Anyone else get a drive rush after being Red Pilled?Hell man, you should never meet all your goals. That's a life long pursuit. As long as you hit ones and set new ones. Exciting stuff. Beating depression is no small feat. Congrats on some really positive improvements. | /r/askTRP | 07/01/21 02:40 AM |
| 3 | Isn't it interesting how the relationship subreddit holds more on how relationships are problematic, rather than about relationships being great?It's hard to know if our society is actually ahead of our biology or not. Think of this, most of our societal norms are based on control methods or vested-interests, not necessarily based on observations or studies. Society is the way it is due to our biology. E.i. self-preservation, protect the eggs at all costs. I'm probably not a 100% right here but on track. | /r/askTRP | 06/01/21 08:06 PM |
| 3 | Has anyone here ever struggled with overcoming being too nice?Sounds like just a part of your journey then. Doesn't sound like you're doing that bad. One fix at a time. Learn new things, read books and reiterate. | /r/askTRP | 06/01/21 06:08 PM |
| 2 | Seriously struggling with the soul mate myth.Knowing that prompts the question: Do you want to stay now that you know this? If not, high tail it out of there. Depends totally on you. | /r/askTRP | 06/01/21 06:07 PM |
| 1 | Do you ever red pill your dad?Look man, your dad could be so deeply invested in the Blue Pill mentality that it's too far gone to do anything. It's like an 80-year-old losing their faith and becoming atheist. It's not impossible, just much harder for minds that have cemented their beliefs over a span of 60+ years. My dad? Not sure... I think he'd have to first drop some religious ideas and then go Red Pill. Pretty massive task I think is too out of reach by now. | /r/askTRP | 06/01/21 05:43 PM |
| 5 | Wanting a strong womenIt's a sign of being a feminized man. | /r/askTRP | 06/01/21 05:22 PM |
| 2 | Seriously struggling with the soul mate myth.I've always cringed at that idea even though I "invested" into it. The best way to describe it is, biology and phycology don't care about souls mating. The idea that there's one person out there and they just happen to live in the same city, is wishful thinking and goes against what we know about biology. I think Mystery said "attraction is not a choice". When you see a hot girl walk down the street there's no soul vetting going on, you already like that ass, shape of body, facial features, walk… | /r/askTRP | 06/01/21 05:18 PM |
| 36 | Isn't it interesting how the relationship subreddit holds more on how relationships are problematic, rather than about relationships being great?I'm sure there's a study somewhere and I can't pull it out now. Maybe search for it yourself. That says, humans aren't really made for relationships. It does aid women's provisioning, but for men it's another story. The very idea/observation that men and woman have conflicting sexual strategies says a lot. This says we're way more complex than just being built for settling down and having 3 kids. This also says that the way our society is organized is not only geared to favor women, but is also … | /r/askTRP | 06/01/21 05:07 PM |
| 10 | Has anyone here ever struggled with overcoming being too nice?I've been a nice guy most of my life. It comes mostly from a lack of true confidence in yourself. You're terrified of what the other person may think of you and therefor you feel the need to be nice in order to make them like you. Could this also be tied to a scarcity mindset? Maybe just maybe? Maybe a mindset change that awakens you to the fact that being nice is actually doing nothing for you or others. People with the heaviest impact usually don't care if people like them, agree with them or … | /r/askTRP | 06/01/21 04:50 PM |
| 1 | what would RP do in these situations?Why did I marry her? Because I was 22 years old at the time, desperate and had just barely lost my virginity and year before. My thinking was "you gotta be cool about it, progressive, plus I don't even know the rules so maybe this is okay..." That's how fucked up my thinking was back then. Zero balls, terrified of drama, binary "she's mad, this is bad", no clue of the bigger picture... totally Beta. It comes down to so much of what I've seen here in just the one day I joined... men coming from a… | /r/askTRP | 06/01/21 04:40 PM |
| 1 | Is it impossible for an average looking guy to get a hot girlfriend?Um average looks. I think being skinny and tall by default puts you in the upper 25% dude. Remember the obesity problem. Lot easier going to the gym for you vs a guy who's 100 lbs overweight. I'm in your boat as well. Used to think I was hella ugly. Turns out everyone over the years always tells me the exact opposite, straight men, gays, woman. I think your attitude is probably your #1 issue. #2 hit the gym. Stop sulking bro. | /r/askTRP | 06/01/21 05:17 AM |
| 2 | what would RP do in these situations?Sure. There are a few that stand out. When I was first dating my ex-wife we were drinking at this bar where she knew a band that was going to play there. At some point after a good number of drinks and the band was done playing she was giving the lead singer shit (ahem..flirting) pretty much standing between his legs where he was sitting on a ledge. The other time happened one night after we got married. My brother and I and my wife were out at a bar. As we stepped out an Italian hippie guy appr… | /r/askTRP | 06/01/21 03:56 AM |
| 2 | what would RP do in these situations?I would think this: Someone hits on your girl act in total confidence, ignore he even exists or pay it no mind (while observing how she reacts). A Beta would get all flustered in this situation because he's afraid his girl could take off. What happens when she goes out by herself? What's that narrative again? "She's going to leave and I'll never love again blah blah blah". I had this happen to me a few too many times for comfort. I ignored the situation but I didn't actually respond to it (e.g. … | /r/askTRP | 05/01/21 10:47 PM |
| 1 | Date saw me on another date. Next steps?I just asked a completely amateur question regarding spinning plates earlier today. Best response I got was "if you're not looking for a LTR don't act like it." Are you in a LTR with this girl? So this said if you're acting guilty (which I can't assume aside from you asking this question) the girl would clue into that. So why would you hanging out with another chick be a problem unless you're exclusive? | /r/askTRP | 05/01/21 10:23 PM |
| 3 | Dealing with "kid as leverage" drama from ex-wifeThanks man! That's great advice. I think I need to review the divorce papers again. | /r/askTRP | 05/01/21 08:45 PM |
| 2 | Plates and "casual dating" a few questionsSo it's all chalked up to mindset for the most part. Gotcha. Thanks for addressing each question. So... the only thing I need now is practice. Time to get out there. | /r/askTRP | 05/01/21 08:38 PM |
| 1 | Overthinking this?If she's giving you mixed messages it's time to flip the script or drop things. If this is just an isolated incident then don't worry about it. If you act like this all the time (I'm worried she's not getting back to me, etc) then you probably already fried this relationship after a year. | /r/askTRP | 05/01/21 07:15 PM |
| 3 | So what is the ideal high-quality woman to get married toCan she be lead? Or can you lead her/hold frame? Aside from all your personal preferences. If you can't enforce your frame, you'll be stuck in her's. | /r/askTRP | 05/01/21 07:03 PM |
| 2 | Software Engineers or Fellas in Tech, Does Your Career Help or Hurt Your SMV?Hmm...I'm in the same thing. Probably don't need to overemphasize it. SE sounds like a great provider career so you could just say you're a "drug dealer" or something rediculous. | /r/askTRP | 05/01/21 06:58 PM |
| 2 | Plates and "casual dating" a few questionsSo maybe the answer is "stop thinking and go do it"? | /r/askTRP | 05/01/21 06:55 PM |
| 1 | Plates and "casual dating" a few questionsThey're posted in 4 bullet points in the middle of the post. | /r/askTRP | 05/01/21 06:55 PM |
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