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IllustriousRain2333/r/seduction02/02/26 09:03 PM
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Dude animals have it easier. What if it was normal to howl at each other and if they respond by howling back it's a deal 😭
/r/seduction03/02/26 08:15 AM
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Yeah I guess I will wait two or three dates and then take to him starlight before getting at it, nothing to lose but hope lol
/r/seduction02/02/26 10:37 PM
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Ok so let me rephrase. By "how do I turn him into a fwb" I basically mean I need advice how to avoid being ghosted after the first time cause I have no other option bit him rn so that would suck. But also if I play too nice and drag things for too long before the sex happens he might assume I want a relationship and I'm scared of that even more.
/r/seduction02/02/26 10:13 PM
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This is tinder, im not a swinger and to be one you need to have a partner to begin with. Also I'm monogamous and want to have relatively regular sex and chats with one person for some months or so. Of course if there's no chemistry irl I'll dip but I wouldn't be writing this if I didn't think it looks like there will be some chemistry.
/r/seduction02/02/26 10:11 PM
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??
/r/seduction02/02/26 10:02 PM
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A better one in which sense? And who cares, if I do meet a better one amd it works out I will just block this one
/r/seduction02/02/26 09:57 PM
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Well I'm asking for advice how to make it into a fwb thing, what else are you expeting me to be doing on the first date anyway
/r/seduction02/02/26 09:56 PM
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Okay okay sure but why us no one answering my main question, like, regarding the sub topic: how do I make him into a fwb without letting him too close to my home cause I'm looking for a regular partner
/r/seduction02/02/26 09:50 PM
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It's not a prison ffs It's a legal company that hires people from abroad mostly for trade jobs but there are separate mens and women's houses for obvious reasons. And I too am a foreigner and not clucking welk with people in this country, especially when I tried to talk to men trough the apps, I do like their seriousness in the beginning but they get weird and want to chat for weeks and as endless weird questions. This guy is not far away, speaks my language, looks good and isn't a total idiot. …
/r/seduction02/02/26 09:42 PM
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No way im letting anyone be it a man or a woman near my home unless I've known them for a couple of months. But yeah worst case the date will lead to nothing or I'll get annoyed and have to keep swiping.
/r/seduction02/02/26 09:33 PM
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Yeah like what.
/r/seduction02/02/26 09:29 PM
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I've slept around but when I say it I mean 6 and when a man says it it means 160
/r/seduction02/02/26 09:25 PM
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Oh he will do just fine I think
/r/seduction02/02/26 09:23 PM
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Ahahhahahahah as a woman I confirm. It's creepy but it's uncontrollable 😭
/r/seduction02/02/26 09:08 PM
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Yeah the same women that end up being trafficked and 99% of them are crackheads
/r/seduction02/02/26 09:04 PM
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Better can wait but she can certainly find more like you anywhere. You're not a cach, youre openly being a hoe so don't expect her to lie to you.
/r/seduction02/02/26 08:44 PM
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😅
/r/seduction02/02/26 08:41 PM
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Also why is he feminine just because I met him on an app wtf
/r/seduction02/02/26 08:38 PM
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I'm talking about other comments in this thread.
/r/seduction02/02/26 08:37 PM
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Can you show me where did I say that and also what the fuck are you talking about at all
/r/seduction02/02/26 08:35 PM
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That's what you want to think. If sex with random men for a woman was safe physically and socially we'd be having a differnet one over evey week BUT IT'S FUCKING NOT.
/r/seduction02/02/26 08:34 PM
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I just dont get how do you lot keep going between "men will fuck anything sweetie" and "you should give a chance to a man approaching you". Like WHY should I get myself in the situation to feel like a substitute for a couch crack?
/r/seduction02/02/26 08:32 PM
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As true as it is it seems completely unrelated to my comment, I'm confused. Bit what you don't understand, on that note, that not being choosy at all is not a flex you think it is 🤦‍♀️. And no, not all men are completely non-choosy, and not all women are choosy enough.
/r/seduction02/02/26 08:23 PM
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So you think the guy who gave me his fb and video called me on whatsapp and who I'm going to meet in the middle of the day for a coffee (i invited him btw) is some sort of a kidnapper weirdo and I'm better off asking random men in the supermarket "hey are you single'?
/r/seduction02/02/26 08:17 PM
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I don't think a man is necessarily week for having a preference for more feminine/shy women who will let him lead, I know if a woman approaches a man he will think shes promiscuous and cant be loyal cause she tjeds to approach men but the issue is WE THINK THE SAME about the men who approach us.
/r/seduction02/02/26 08:15 PM
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I definitely am meeting over dating apps where people are clearly consenting to being flirted with and can safely block me any time cause they know I won't follow them home or harass them and I know I won't accidentally approach a married/taken/depressed/anxious/gay/asexual person.
/r/seduction02/02/26 08:06 PM
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sign up today lol Ok but get tested every week,get paid a percentage, never reject sex with anyone no matter how old or dirty they are and there you go. Who's stopping you?
/r/seduction02/02/26 08:04 PM
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Blah blah blah you can have safe sex without fear if being trafficked or anything for like a 50 whenever you want and people won't slutshame you for it either. The whole approaching thing smells like being desoerate to stick it into ANYTHING (especially when youre approaching a modest ugly woman) without having to spend the said 50. So we assume you live in a basement and don't wash your ass.
/r/seduction02/02/26 07:57 PM
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Not if he approached me on the street in the middle of the day. I would simply assume hes been doing it all day along the street and got like 17 numbers already and I'd get discusted. Do I look like I'm swiping tinder when I'm actually trying to buy some cabbage? Time and place for everything, people who don't understand this seem insane and dangerous.
/r/seduction02/02/26 07:54 PM
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Almost every woman would like to be able to just pay a male prostitute and not have to worry about her safety and the drama lol. If your argument is true then ehy do men run away when women approach them? Cause they don't like not being in control, which is understandable cause no one likes that shit.
/r/seduction02/02/26 07:42 PM
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Do men get approached? Do men get bullied for wanting to work normal jobs/trades? Why can't I just be an electrician and have a quiet life, no expectations to have children, no fear of being raped. Why can't i just sit in a random bar or restaurant and have a couple of drinks? Why cant i buy myself something nice without being accused that my man/sugar daddy bought it for me? Why do I have to wear a bra everywhere, to work out in oversized clothes so I don't get posted online and mocked by shirt…
/r/seduction02/02/26 07:40 PM
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Yeah I'm also very kind whenever it happens, at least I try to be, then I go home and stare in the mirror with disgust and blame myself for deserving it somehow. Like, im below average by all means, my clothes are boring and conservative, I'm just trying to live normally and be treated with respect like an equal person but I know im created lesser and not equal and it will never change. I've been considering transitioning but I'm too short to be a man. Fucking hate being short either way tbh.
/r/seduction02/02/26 07:31 PM
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I mean like I've heard that prostitutes do the same but at least theyre doing it to survive but why do men offer themselves to random women for free
/r/seduction02/02/26 07:28 PM
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Imagine begging random people on the street to fuck you. FOR FREE 😭 Like, a guy approaches you while you're minding your own bussiness right. And he wants a number, and then he will want to go out with you, and then he will want to meet uo again somewhere more private etc etc. Might as well just skip a couple of steps and jump straight onto asking me to suck his dick cause what else is the fucking point anyway, not like he knows me enough to like me and not like he has any respect for me or for …
/r/seduction02/02/26 06:59 PM
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Idk I'd end up being traumatised if I made myself do it with someone I don't like, that's why I don't get golddiggers. Like, I'd probably kms and I'm not even being dramatic. Would much rather never have sex again than do it with someone who I find ugly or gross in any way. Weird how most men don't feel that way and most women do.
/r/seduction02/02/26 04:23 PM
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Feeling lazy when someone asks you to come over isn't being on the fence. Imagine the first time with someone feeling like a chore lmao, what for
/r/seduction02/02/26 08:11 AM
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Wtf
/r/seduction02/02/26 07:42 AM
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Be playful ffs. How about "I'd prefer to see you in person" or "maybe you can teach me"
/r/seduction02/02/26 06:40 AM
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But why force yourself into being a fwb with someone that you find unattractive
/r/seduction01/02/26 04:20 PM
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But like if he clearly knows he doesnt want her, he doesnt want her. Why not just find a girl that he, you know, actually wants. A super small chance to click during sex vs a huge chance to get limp/embarrassed/feel like shit tomorrow. Just why.
/r/seduction01/02/26 04:04 PM
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I genuinely don't get why so many men tend to advice other men to basically rape themselves. Like, if you don't like someone, whats the point in forcing yourself to do stuff with them, it's not like he's a prostitute.
/r/seduction01/02/26 03:50 PM
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You need to tell us what do you want out of her before anyone can guess is what she wants worth it for you. Two dates should've been enough for both of you to have an idea of what you want from each other - by the third date you should be able to discuss it like adults and figure out will it work or not.
/r/seduction01/02/26 07:03 AM
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They never get to meet them considering the places where they go, where their friends and families go.
/r/seduction01/02/26 06:47 AM
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I'm not a "10/10 influencer girl" type thing, I'm a normal woman who doesn't like snobs and flashy people to begin with.
/r/seduction01/02/26 06:42 AM
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They can't feel your energy before they even know you exist? And to get to places where such people hang out you need miney simple as.
/r/seduction01/02/26 06:40 AM
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I guess it's not just the money, it's the right circles and the right energy/behaviour. But they don't date brokies.
/r/seduction31/01/26 06:59 PM
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So you basically have two types of women who date, wast majority are looking for someone for LTR, a part of them is open to have some fun until they meet the right one. The minority are junkies who party too much and fuck anyone, I would strongly advise to stay away from those not only because of the diseases but also because they'll often find a way to make everyone's lives shitty around them in this or that way. So I guess for a man to have some fun and date safely you should be going for the …
/r/seduction31/01/26 10:33 AM
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Yeah seems like they both saw through your bs sadly, so it's pretty much the same outcome, the first one just wanted sex and the second one didn't even want that cause she saw that not only she could but any girl could. Being a provider of free drinks and free dildo won't get you further than that. Try being more shy and humble, let them pay, let them take you where they go, get involved in their lives, get them to invest some time and money in you or at least an equal split. Don't rush with the…
/r/seduction31/01/26 09:55 AM
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Why would "a baddie" live in Dubai to begin with, and even if she's there with her parents and its not her fault she lives there, then she's probably not looking for ons cause those families are traditional leaning so she also won't be looking like a "baddie". Be fr.
/r/seduction29/01/26 11:45 AM
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You do understand girls in dubai who date foreigners are professionals and any illusion of game and genuine connection will be charged as well?
/r/seduction29/01/26 11:34 AM
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Ask him out and have an adult conversation over a cup of coffee. But if you already have a feeling your goals are different, start chatting with someone else first even if it's just online and leads to nothing real so you have a safety net, that will help you stay strong and stick to your boundaries.
/r/seduction29/01/26 09:03 AM
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He's not looking for a relationship, he's looking for sex. He won't get any sex because the women who do like ons go for experineced and confident men. He's miserable and his best bet is deceiving equally miserable women who will mistake his weakness for a good character. He won't get a relationship either because he's emotionally inexperienced as well which is far worse than being sexually inexperienced. You can't help him at this age cause hes too old to start seeing women as humans now.
/r/seduction23/01/26 07:19 AM
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This whole sub is people teaching each other how to play while getting played themselves. In your case, you went a step further and played yourself 3 times over. How about try getting a stable connection with one girl for starters before cheating on her.
/r/seduction18/01/26 08:06 AM
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Those aren't signals, she seduced you.
/r/seduction17/01/26 04:34 PM
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I mean you could just compromise and meet up after golf? Can she not finish her class during the day as well and meet you in the evening? Are cooking classes and golf appointments a 24 hr thing now?
/r/seduction13/01/26 12:22 PM
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Okay now I NEED to see what you find attractive, if you can't post an image here dm me, I'm genuinely curious
/r/seduction13/01/26 07:19 AM
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Well I didn't know you were a teenager, that changes a lot. Good looking teenagers do exist but for a 30+ adult man to find a 22+ woman who looks like an Instagram model he will need either money or to be crazy attractive.
/r/seduction13/01/26 07:08 AM
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I'm bringing it up exactly because you men don't get it cause you look but you don't know what you're looking at. For a perfectly symmetrical face 95% people will need masseters botox twice a year. Hip to waist ratio is just gym and that if you have wide hips. Nicely shaped breasts are always fake, natural ones never stand on their own like that. Most men say "women who do plastic surgery/botox/fillers are disgusting" but they only mean like the most fucked up cheap jobs. You can not recognise g…
/r/seduction13/01/26 06:24 AM
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Look son, a young woman who is making a lot of money on her own never cares about her looks that much. And beauty is expensive af. You can't study engineering for example and simultaneously go to the gym every day, tan, do fillers, get your hair and nails done etc. And once you get that check you have more men chasing you than the pretty ones and they're treating you better than theyre treating them anyway so there's no motive either. Every single woman who has hair, nails, makeup, fillers etc b…
/r/seduction13/01/26 06:08 AM
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You do understand that men who can afford them have never used tinder in their lives?
/r/seduction13/01/26 05:49 AM
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I'm literally a woman lmao. We're both being attacked by bots.
/r/seduction12/01/26 10:07 PM
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There's nothing confusing about it. Either be beautiful or pay a prostitute. Why would anyone want to fuck an ugly guy for free?
/r/seduction12/01/26 04:04 PM
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It keeps you swiping and sets unrealistic standards so you never settle down for a human because the app needs you too keep chasing bots.
/r/seduction12/01/26 03:37 PM
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If neither gender wants to hang out with you, you might be the issue.
/r/seduction11/01/26 10:58 AM
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My body count is 98, why no one wants to date me? Cause it's gonna be 200 by the time she divorces you. You're not ready to date before you get your shit in order and even then people will talk. If it was me I'd just get tested, moved cities and seek therapy.
/r/seduction10/01/26 08:25 PM
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Idk who said "look at the spiral of your growth from abive and you will see a circle". But yeah, you have a point.
/r/seduction10/01/26 01:55 PM
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Bro just discovered the concept of being a normal and balanced person.
/r/seduction10/01/26 01:15 PM
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Same reason men do it. Listening to online advice about playing non-desperate and nonchalant.
/r/seduction09/01/26 07:56 PM
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