| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 207 | When you are ”nice” and men automatically think you’re “flirting” | RANT | Ilovetaquitoes | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/04/20 08:45 PM |
| 1 | “You can’t be vanilla sexually and you have to like aggressive men” AKA you must be willing to let me abuse you sexually | RED FLAG 🚨 | Ilovetaquitoes | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/05/20 07:43 PM |
| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 13 | Don’t follow your Heart or Lady Parts 😂 they get you in trouble every time (Sidenote: she’s hilarious)Lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/05/20 08:07 PM |
| 25 | God I love this! I hate mornings and men that expect you to wait on them hand and foot....sorry if it's a repost. I'm just so tired of being expected to be happy and functioning in the morning....mornings are stupid.Haha I like this! If he’s up at 9 why can’t he make breakfast for me?🤔 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/05/20 12:24 AM |
| 7 | Reminder that what you really want and need is respect and to feel valued. There’s nothing wrong with that.one day you will look back and cringe at how much you put someone else on a pedestal. Put yourself there instead. Love this 💗 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/04/20 09:15 PM |
| 2 | Well, I finally did it.Okay I’m not perfect at it but here are some tips: -try grooming them after you shower so they’ll be nice and soft -clip them and then just file them with any basic nail filer. All I do is make sure the edges are nice so they don’t chip -I use toilet paper to keep my toes apart -apply a protein base -apply base coat -apply color (two coat) (if you use a dark color 1 coat is enough) -topcoat -I wait about 10-15 min between each layer so it doesn’t clump up -allow it to try for as long as possible | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/04/20 09:50 AM |
| 7 | Well, I finally did it.Hey I’m sorry you’re going through this. I know it hurts to walk away from someone who you once loved and thought was right for you. I think it’s wonderful that you want to be selfish and work on yourself. That’s the best thing you can do right now! When I was dealing with my own heartbreak, I made a list of every thing I didn’t like my ex-partner doing and how bad it made me feel. On days that I thought of him, that I questioned my decision, Or got lonely, i read that list over again. Don’t all… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/04/20 11:01 PM |
| 13 | Was talking to a guy friend of mine and he said "that alpha men don't want relationships", so I should give up on looking for someone with an alpha personality.I applaud you for this!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/04/20 02:29 AM |
| 41 | “Don’t listen to what men say, watch what they do” - my mom, who passed away two weeks ago“Get a prenup” I LOVE that!!! My condolences to you and your family, may she rest peacefully. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/04/20 09:03 AM |
| 5 | When you are ”nice” and men automatically think you’re “flirting”Thank you for this. I’m still in my early 20s and I’ve had my issues both with men and women. Sometimes I begin to think I’ll never find genuine friendships. This gives me hope!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/04/20 01:54 AM |
| 6 | When you are ”nice” and men automatically think you’re “flirting”Haha same! It’s like ok? Good for you I guess? What do you want me to do with this information? Lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/04/20 01:33 AM |
| 6 | When you are ”nice” and men automatically think you’re “flirting”Maybe they know if they take a shot they’ll be rejected so they try to flip the script? Lol 🤔 idk how else to make sense of it | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/04/20 01:20 AM |
| 9 | When you are ”nice” and men automatically think you’re “flirting”I really wonder what goes through their head? Like honestly how can you create this entire scenario in your head of a woman liking you when that’s not what’s actually happening? Like seriously delusional. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/04/20 01:18 AM |
| 6 | When you are ”nice” and men automatically think you’re “flirting”I need to practice my poker face honestly | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/04/20 01:15 AM |
| 5 | When you are ”nice” and men automatically think you’re “flirting”Yes!! They begin to feel like they have some power over you because of their own illusions! It’s like AS IF! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/04/20 01:14 AM |
| 6 | When you are ”nice” and men automatically think you’re “flirting”Ugh that’s happened to me before. & their wife/gf don’t even question THEM! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/04/20 01:12 AM |
| 20 | When you are ”nice” and men automatically think you’re “flirting”I really like how you said “reserved for family” you’re so right. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/04/20 10:16 PM |
| 10 | When you are ”nice” and men automatically think you’re “flirting”It honestly comes off as desperate 😂 like you’re ever here bending over backwards pretending not to like me just to get me to like you? What? Lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/04/20 10:09 PM |
| 14 | When you are ”nice” and men automatically think you’re “flirting”I know exactly what you mean! They pretend like YOURE the one who’s interested when in reality it’s them. I think it’s an attempt at manipulating you into chasing after them. They think by “playing hard to get” they’ll get your attention. Meanwhile we aren’t even interested in the slightest. So annoying. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/04/20 10:06 PM |
| 11 | When you are ”nice” and men automatically think you’re “flirting”Yes! When I was younger (middle school/high school) I got along so well with boys. And we were genuinely friends. They wouldn’t hit on me or make a move. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/04/20 10:04 PM |
| 4 | When you are ”nice” and men automatically think you’re “flirting”Yikes that’s so freaking scary!! And she was simply being herself. That’s the worst part. You’re yourself and start getting these reactions from some men, you begin to question if you’re doing something wrong. I used to feel like I was provoking them until I realized I wasn’t the problem. They are. I’m glad she had you to guide her! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/04/20 10:02 PM |
| 12 | When you are ”nice” and men automatically think you’re “flirting”I’ve seen some images too & I agree! Friendship is just like the jeans & t. Such a shame honestly. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/04/20 10:00 PM |
| 16 | When you are ”nice” and men automatically think you’re “flirting”Thanks for the tips! I always tried to be “nice” bc I didn’t want to come off as bitchy but I’m now realizing, being “nice” only gets me unsolicited attention. I don’t want that. What I want is respect. And everything you just described, I think that’s the best way of achieving it. Props to you for being such a boss lady!!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/04/20 09:45 PM |
| 15 | Why just why😂😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/04/20 09:41 PM |
| 9 | When you are ”nice” and men automatically think you’re “flirting”😂😂😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/04/20 09:38 PM |
| 11 | When you are ”nice” and men automatically think you’re “flirting”Ugh! I hate that you had to deal with that. Simply looking for a hobby and it being ruining by men and their entitlement. & I agree! If you’re not flirty you’re a bitch. I think your reasons for not going back are valid, I think I would’ve stayed away as well. It’s such a shame that this is the reality of things. I hope you find another hobby at a place where you feel safe and comfortable. 💗 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/04/20 09:35 PM |
| 17 | When you are ”nice” and men automatically think you’re “flirting”THIS!!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/04/20 09:22 PM |
| 24 | When you are ”nice” and men automatically think you’re “flirting”Yup exactly!! They feel entitled to something simply for being a decent human being! My favorite is when they complain about holding the door open for a girl and “sHe BAreLy eVeN SaID ThANk YOu” | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/04/20 09:20 PM |
| 21 | When you are ”nice” and men automatically think you’re “flirting”I’m going to try this honestly I’d much rather be standoffish than have to deal with this non-sense. Anything you do they consider flirting but the one obvious sign (marriage) that’s right in front of them, they overlook? Delusional. 🙄 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/04/20 09:17 PM |
| 18 | When you are ”nice” and men automatically think you’re “flirting”I’ve come to realize this as well which is kind of a bummer but you’re right, my energy is too valuable for that. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/04/20 09:10 PM |
| 47 | When you are ”nice” and men automatically think you’re “flirting”I know exactly what look youre talking about. It makes me so uncomfortable bc soon as I notice it I realize what’s next. & fuck that guy! Telling you “you’re too friendly” like what??? I hate that they put blame on women for being “too friendly” or “too nice”. Why not instead focus on how men perceive our energy due to the way that THEY think. You’re not being too friendly & yes go back!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/04/20 09:08 PM |
| 47 | Sometimes the AITA sub has weird judgements, but comments like these are gold (link for the post in the comments)Prior to joining this sub I really didn’t think age difference mattered but omg! She’s 23 & he’s 31 and the pattern repeats! So grateful for what this sub has taught me | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/04/20 09:34 AM |
| 11 | I just dumped my bf because he said me having a bikini photo on IG is the same as him secretly posting photos of his dick on Reddit!I love this especially the fuck you to an invisible camera haha | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/04/20 09:55 AM |
| 6 | Is he serious? 🤣Hahaha I’m dead 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/04/20 09:07 PM |
| 12 | Guy I know called his daughter a chick magnetI agree with you 100%. That’s so insensitive! Idk how his wife didn’t flip out. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/04/20 09:04 PM |
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