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2

Lmao ok dude
/r/seduction27/10/22 12:16 PM
-1

The minimum amount of women you should date at once (unless you get lucky and meet someone awesome) is now 2. People just aren't worth effort nowadays.
/r/seduction15/06/22 04:21 PM
3

But what if u get pussy out of it
/r/seduction14/06/22 05:08 PM
1

Hormones
/r/seduction14/06/22 05:01 PM
1

Whys that lol
/r/seduction14/06/22 05:00 PM
16

Tell her you saw it and thought it was funny af and see if she wants to get a coffee
/r/seduction14/06/22 04:14 PM
2

Mainly at bars (both as a customer and as an employee), but smoking sections are common, I've been hit on in a pizzeria and a bank within the last couple months. It's pretty random outside of bars being the clear number 1.
/r/seduction12/06/22 03:55 PM
2

Second all of this. Also, just saying, height isn't everything. I do well for myself but the best I've ever seen at this was 5'8.
/r/seduction12/06/22 11:12 AM
13

I am 6'2 and get approached about once a month as a man, so yes.
/r/seduction12/06/22 10:11 AM
1

You know me too well. Love my book worms, and they love a man that looks like Robert Pattinson.
/r/seduction12/06/22 12:42 AM
1

A true gentleman doesn't need to kiss and tell 😉
/r/seduction12/06/22 12:24 AM
1

Read models. Friends create friction through fear of social judgement.
/r/seduction12/06/22 12:21 AM
4

You're in the right, poster above you is reaching. She brought multiple people who would see her leave with you on the first date. Not totally impossible but the friends aren't making it any easier lol
/r/seduction11/06/22 02:43 PM
2

I only meet 1 of your criteria
/r/seduction04/06/22 11:47 PM
68

Lmao what the fuck
/r/seduction04/06/22 08:38 PM
5

She's a waste of time even if she's being real. Big part of dating is planning tbh, do you wanna have to plan everything around someone else's poor time management ad infinitum?
/r/seduction30/05/22 12:59 PM
2

How to marry a 30 year old chick who was ran through in college from your office job dot thread
/r/seduction29/05/22 02:36 PM
2

Asian Chad with the guide to slamming 5s
/r/seduction24/05/22 12:58 PM
-1

Lie
/r/seduction09/05/22 03:07 PM
3

If u got piercing blue one like me, then yes.
/r/seduction03/05/22 08:24 AM
0

But unfortunately, things never get that far even after buying dinner for women that I go on dates with This is your problem right here. You're actually hindering yourself by doing this, as counterintuitive as that might seem. Ask yourself: if she knows you can afford a dinner for two, what are you proving by treating and what exactly did she do to deserve one outside of possessing a vagina in this context?
/r/seduction29/04/22 09:31 AM
1

You don't have to be witty or try very hard to flip a shit test thats the thing. It is undoubtedly the best way to handle it though. Simple one for new ppl reading (I totally agree with you on that part): why do you think that? 🤔 Shit tests are poorly designed bluffs to the point there almost jokes. Best way to react to a joke is to play along and have fun.
/r/seduction25/04/22 08:00 AM
1

Don't try to flip it is some of the worst advice I've ever heard
/r/seduction25/04/22 06:56 AM
8

Best game I ever met happened to be around 5'7 - 5'8. Big part of it was the lackadaisical attitude and he was an artist (painter + screensprinter) which seemed to carry a lot of weight.
/r/seduction15/03/22 01:32 PM
1

Tell everyone you fucked her first and keep doubling down till your friend Othello's out completely, then ghost them both.
/r/seduction27/02/22 06:17 PM
1

I don't even know what that means lol
/r/seduction27/02/22 06:01 PM
1

Cold approaching has no opportunity cost. Even if you go 1 for 10, if the 9 doesn't affect you mentally, its a quick way to get what you want.
/r/seduction26/02/22 11:02 AM
1

Not long after that I ghost them
/r/seduction21/02/22 05:08 PM
1

I did until I was in a serious relationship/past age 22
/r/seduction18/02/22 06:56 AM
1

Good look I would've never figured that out myself in a million years
/r/seduction17/02/22 06:49 AM
1

Everything in your post is so wrong it hurts mate.
/r/seduction16/02/22 08:50 PM
1

Compare hand sizes but going palm on palm or saying "I'm scared hold my hand" is a good first kino step
/r/seduction15/02/22 10:06 AM
8

Tinder used to be the best now it's bumble imo. Don't know wtf is going on with reddit recommending Hinge. All I ever see is obese people on hinge (literally like 90%) and I still never match on hinge even though I've been more successful than average on tinder and bumble over long periods of time.
/r/seduction10/02/22 10:53 PM
196

Do it seems like she'd be dtf
/r/seduction08/02/22 03:20 AM
2

Text him and tell him what's up if you're into him. Communication eliminates misinterpretation.
/r/seduction05/02/22 08:17 AM
6

There must be something else going on I'd think at 6'2 any type of non obese body + just looking normal and you would see some success out of 20 approaches let alone 100. Maybe go to bars and try to observe while sober so you have a better radar on what women are single? If you are cold approaching during the day repeatedly you could, statistically, run into 10 in a row with boyfriends etc.
/r/seduction05/02/22 07:35 AM
3

I have a large gap, large overbite and a visible cavity on an upper front 4. I have women try to hit on me all the time at work (I work in a large bar).
/r/seduction05/02/22 06:58 AM
11

And yet here you are
/r/seduction05/02/22 06:54 AM
5

Flex a muscle for 30 seconds
/r/seduction18/01/22 11:55 AM
3

Not that guy but your best bet is to get a social hobby (hiking as a group, martial arts, dancing, yoga, Alcoholics anonymous can be good if that's your Forte). People aren't necessarily designed to be alone all the time, but if you aren't comfortable in your own skin people are gonna sense it. Also, personal experience if you don't talk to people in person often enough you get rough around the edges with it.
/r/seduction15/01/22 03:58 PM
5

Eh people just get cold feet, or self-doubt, or maybe your "game" is good and then later as they cool down on you, they aren't as interested. A lot of pick-up will tell you that escalation is linear, but that just isn't always the case over multiple days. I've had first dates where I hooked up with the girl then in subsequent dates, they wanted to go really slow etc. You never really know, too many variables to isolate one. Edit,: I think the nightclubs lend to this pitfall more though, 1. They …
/r/seduction03/01/22 09:04 PM
8

I've been ghosted on great day dates where I made out with women. Sometimes it's just luck of the draw, 50% of any given outcome doesn't have much to do with who you are.
/r/seduction03/01/22 07:32 PM
-2

And who's problem is that? (Hint: not yours if you're past age 12 and insults no longer hurt your feelings).
/r/seduction31/12/21 03:32 PM
1

Cut body fat % to sub 15% and you will start seeing major results. Affects your face a lot. Stand up straight Smile genuinely
/r/seduction30/12/21 04:24 PM
2

Honestly a little bit of a red flag imo if you're looking for a truly LTR.
/r/seduction26/12/21 02:19 PM
2

I always wondered if Mystery would've been even better at it if he just dressed like a normal person. He was pretty attractive iirc (tall lean etc).
/r/seduction23/12/21 11:25 PM
2

Statistically the opposite is true of the currently in hs generation just fyi
/r/seduction23/12/21 01:27 PM
2

For this age group I'd recommend day date for coffee with a plan to walk around somewhere else if it goes well.
/r/seduction16/12/21 09:03 AM
2

Hey if she's still into you without deodorant you know it's real
/r/seduction18/08/21 12:10 PM
4

I do no deodorant first date, always worked like a charm.
/r/seduction18/08/21 02:35 AM
2

You gotta be trolling 😂
/r/seduction14/08/21 11:34 AM
1

Thing is, you really should know 99% women don't have the ability to go outside of a social comfort zone by now
/r/seduction10/08/21 07:26 PM
-2

Harsh truth of the matter is, if you can't succeed on tinder in some capacity, you need to work on how you look/present to women.
/r/seduction06/08/21 12:03 PM
-5

Great post, the women and 18-20 year olds of this sub might not like it, but that's how good advice goes.
/r/seduction03/08/21 11:40 AM
2

Stand up straight, chest out, arms back, shoulders down. Look at the middle of women's noses when you talk to them and smile. I find women are very attracted to people that have itineraries, know where shit is, pick the restaurant, make the group plans and heard the group etc. Of course in a 1 on 1 date scenario, this is even more important.
/r/seduction01/08/21 04:47 PM
2

In my experience, I find if I'm good and I don't wanna get closer, relaxing floor helps. I find if I'm struggling to control it and already getting close, kegels help as a last resort and can keep you in the game. I think kegels do physically make it slightly harder to ejaculate, but I also think they make your penis more sensitive. I certainly recommend kegeling right AFTER the point of no return (and flexing your legs if you're laying down). Amazing sensation.
/r/seduction01/08/21 04:38 PM
2

Nice but I still got ya beat
/r/seduction01/08/21 04:33 PM
3

It should be pretty obvious why women give out bad advice on this sub often: How many straight women has Op gone home with as a 32F?
/r/seduction01/08/21 12:15 PM
0

"Your life meets a minimum standard I deem acceptable, so I don't want to hear you complain or try to improve yourself."
/r/seduction31/07/21 11:40 AM
10

Honestly would've left it after the first bartender interaction. Why would showing so much interest in another person while on a date be even remotely acceptable lol
/r/seduction31/07/21 11:36 AM
1

What if you're able to socialize with women you wouldn't wanna fuck, but you simply see no reason or benefit to doing so often?
/r/seduction31/07/21 12:49 AM
3

r/angionmethod Don't believe "your body is telling you you're not attracted to her." Your body is telling you your cardiovascular system (and vasculature itself) needs to improve.
/r/seduction29/07/21 03:03 PM
3

Kegeling can lead to premature ejaculation if you make it a habit, and instinctively do it during sex. In fact, a key to preforming well in bed as a man is relaxing your pelvic floor so as to stave off ejaculation in some cases.
/r/seduction29/07/21 03:01 PM
1

Ignore your cousin. Just because he's in the nba, doesn't mean you can't improve in your local pick up games. If anything, he might be able to give you tips but I'd just ignore his results, they don't matter to your results in the grand scheme of things. Ask for more numbers. You said in your post it's been 6 months since you have asked for a number. Be happy with your results so far. You've already said you've worked on your appearance and got laid 2x off tinder which is more of a starting poin…
/r/seduction29/07/21 12:27 PM
2

Where are all those threads? Do you think your thinking might have something to do with your approach anxiety maybe?
/r/seduction29/07/21 10:45 AM
2

If a girl hits you with the 'I don't fuck on the first date" shit test, lots of better banter than "I know". At least say , "well obviously, you haven't even taken me to dinner". That's basic boomer-tier easy banter that works almost every time.
/r/seduction19/07/21 03:45 PM
3

Women only feel bold enough to pull this around their friends don't sweat it. Opener is fine if you're smooth and well adjusted enough imo. Keep it rolling
/r/seduction11/07/21 10:18 AM
2

Why even be on this sub lol
/r/seduction10/07/21 07:49 PM
1

You need to juggle 2 plates at once.
/r/seduction10/07/21 07:47 PM
2

I feel your pain 😞
/r/seduction06/07/21 06:15 PM
0

I'm already past the physique point of easy returns with women :( (I was 6'1 with wide shoulders before I ever picked up a weight). Nothing about the 3K - 3.5K daily calories I'm forcefeeding myself to grow makes me feel better lol. The mirror does occasionally, but I've been told women don't like it when you stare in the mirror as much I do. If you're talking about the mental benefits, you can refer to my post above about optimized Cardio for GABA release. https://www.healthline.com/health/gamm…
/r/seduction06/07/21 03:46 PM
-4

I've heard it's good if you like male attention for sure.
/r/seduction06/07/21 01:03 PM
6

Tons of variables. I agree man vs same man + 5lbs lean mass, you're getting better results with the extra mass.
/r/seduction06/07/21 12:29 PM
-2

Eh maybe if you lacked confidence before, sure. If we're going to split hairs, scientifically, daily cardio will do more for your mind in regards to game (35 minutes above at 150 BPM specifically for optimal GABA release in the brain). Obviously, muscles are cool though but I think its overrated by young people, the mental aspect is the most important. All women kinda like some muscle but most of them aren't as into it as you will have to be to build significant amounts of it lol.
/r/seduction06/07/21 11:57 AM
4

In reality you're right, but if he had spent the time he used improving physique on getting even better at game, where would he be?
/r/seduction06/07/21 11:49 AM
17

You didn't even need to get ripped bro you could've been skinny fat and done just as well tbh
/r/seduction06/07/21 10:50 AM
2

I guess that's possible. If you wanna keep going you can just keep lightly messing with them with things like "hey now no need to get angry, I might have to call security". You wanna keep the same energy regardless of their reaction (positive negative angry etc), so if you started with banter you can double down on it a few times if you're unsure of how things are going, just gotta keep it light.
/r/seduction04/07/21 11:35 AM
1

If they're dropping hints I'd doubt they'd be outright rude (unless you've misread the situation). If they're shit testing you all you have to do is hold frame. Basically, you've bet so now you've got to at least keep checking. No sense in folding, since you made the bet.
/r/seduction04/07/21 11:15 AM
2

100 percent serious your best response is some form of banter
/r/seduction03/07/21 01:29 PM
5

"Oh so you're going to flirt with me now?"
/r/seduction03/07/21 01:15 PM
4

It's actually one of the most important things about this topic, this sub has just degenerated so far its full of shitty advice from a certain group of people.
/r/seduction02/07/21 06:48 PM
13

So why exchange socials in the first place?
/r/seduction02/07/21 05:04 PM
3

Tell me you're a woman without telling me you're a woman
/r/seduction02/07/21 03:48 PM
1

You can call me one now if you'd like, it makes no difference to me really.
/r/seduction27/06/21 06:55 PM
5

Dating apps are a SKILL Sounds like you're looking for Day Game. FedEx driver can be a cool one if you're hitting on like receptionists you see often. Since u say you don't have a job, a restaurant/retail job is usually GREAT for this purpose.
/r/seduction27/06/21 12:44 PM
1

8 not counting fooling around type stuff
/r/seduction27/06/21 11:43 AM
1

I don't believe that's a healthy mindset. Sex is 'always an option' for me too, I'm what 2-3 dates away at any given time if that? Not a good way to be imo. I disagree. Personally I need a couple weeks to even get over serious relationships in the past before I want to really see members of the opposite sex as possible dating pursuits. I definitely look disfavorably on people that break up/get broken up with and then immediately go out and start hooking up multiple times, man or woman. I think t…
/r/seduction26/06/21 11:34 PM
1

Probably where you and I differ is the idea that 'sex is always an option' and the idea that it's normal to have rebound one-night stands. I don't think I'd want to date a woman with those two mindsets at all. Edit: but the real key difference here is assuming you need to date someone who is 30 just because you are 30.
/r/seduction26/06/21 09:27 PM
1

Who would in all honesty 😂
/r/seduction26/06/21 09:16 PM
1

Understand that young attractive women want to be asked out on a date. It's flattering, they also want to be loved and touched, and statistically its impossible for all of them to be in committed relationships. Ask them if they wanna go to a place that sells craft beverages with you.
/r/seduction26/06/21 10:48 AM
2

Bro you might need to get your Testosterone checked the way this thread is going and a 55 lb bench. You might have hormonal imbalances making you less confident than you might normally be.
/r/seduction26/06/21 01:56 AM
10

Losing body fat actually does great things for your facial features so there quite literally is a gym for your face.
/r/seduction26/06/21 01:53 AM
2

Old and desperate huh 😏
/r/seduction26/06/21 01:31 AM
2

I'm sure that they do, which is another reason I've turned down one-night stands. I don't want to lose out on someone I really feel strongly about bc I enjoyed a few nights with people I didn't (and no guarantee of enjoyment either ofc). Part of the male ego/identity is having some kind of thing that you excell at. That's what makes you non-disposable, gives you that edge and validates you (my opinion). It just creates comparison problems for men OR women now that I think about it, with men it m…
/r/seduction25/06/21 08:12 PM
2

Well, if it really just casts doubt on some aspects of the relationship if a woman has a high body count in my opinion, and, if I'm turning a woman down I already know that any sex wouldn't lead to a LTR, so I kind of try to spare them future consequences that they might not be aware of. I think in most men's minds, it makes us question your motives as to why you have a high body count. It also creates a dynamic where a woman could normally make a man feel masculine (this could be in a sexual co…
/r/seduction25/06/21 07:44 PM
4

Well, I am a man with a body count of under 10 and I've turned down quite a few opportunities to do the deed (both in and out of relationships) with women in a 'one-nighter' context because of the lack of connection. I would honestly rather not hook up with women that I go on a date with, respect, but am not into it, even if they are about it, because I feel the body count is a real thing that ruins relationships later on. Turning them down can create a bigger problem later on though if they're …
/r/seduction25/06/21 07:09 PM
4

I've had 2 serious relationships (and some hook ups) stem from Tinder. Basically tinder is a social media oriented toward dating. Once you meet up face to face the game is exactly the same.
/r/seduction25/06/21 07:24 AM
44

Double digits = ain't it for me
/r/seduction25/06/21 07:05 AM
3

Big game changer for me was correcting women and saying "I'm not your friend, I'm not trying to be friends". You make your intentions clear and you'll get clear answers, but then again I've been on seddit for a long time and I think this advice was probably geared toward less experienced young guys.
/r/seduction15/06/21 09:12 AM
2

Completely disagree.
/r/seduction15/06/21 12:09 AM
2

As long as something works! I think online dating can make your cold approach game significantly better in the long run if you do it enough!
/r/seduction14/06/21 09:32 AM
2

I assume any other man who avoids eye contact is submissive prey when I'm prowling the streets personally.
/r/seduction14/06/21 08:57 AM
7

Definitely agree that the world of "don't text unless it's setting up a date, no social media, cold approach only" is over. Too many young women who have had social media over half their lives at this point to ignore it. I do think GIVING UP cold approach is truly the biggest mistake you could make though. If you are at a bar and you ignore IOIs, you didn't take a wide open shot whether it's 1950 or 2030.
/r/seduction14/06/21 07:02 AM
18

"I don't make eye contact with people out of fear the will proposition me for gay sex"
/r/seduction13/06/21 07:49 PM
-1

Breath I'll give you for sure (you can buy gum though, barely hygiene). BO, honestly I find you can do fine with. People perceive odor of the opposite sex differently. Definitely laid women on days I didn't shower before. Edit: I'll go one further and say I think ppl saying cologne is more attractive to women than a muscular figure are outright delusional and do not understand how attraction works lmao
/r/seduction12/06/21 04:26 PM
-12

Lot of guys won't tell you this but hygiene is overrated.
/r/seduction12/06/21 02:39 PM
1

Try an ssri.
/r/askTRP09/06/21 05:43 PM
1

King shit.
/r/askTRP09/06/21 05:38 PM
2

Go to an AA men's meeting specifically, or a smaller meeting if you can't find a men's meeting.
/r/askTRP09/06/21 05:36 PM
3

Oof, I do cycling as I messed my leg up. You could probably run or walk and achieve the same things I'm sure, I was doing it to workout my heart but the brain effects are night and day for me, even compared to less structured cardio I was doing before.
/r/askTRP09/06/21 03:37 PM
2

"People who exercise have better mental fitness, and a new imaging study from UC Davis Health System shows why. Intense exercise increases levels of two common neurotransmitters -- glutamate and gamma-aminobutyric acid, or GABA -- that are responsible for chemical messaging within the brain." From Google. Basically, you work in the manner I described, you'll feel relaxed and the dgaf attitude for long portions of your day if not all day. I'd say I get a good 8-10 hours of enhanced mood
/r/askTRP09/06/21 03:16 PM
1

He handled it well if he decides to next her. Makes her look like an idiot to her friends when she inevitably gives them the "I don't know what I did wrong!"
/r/askTRP09/06/21 03:10 PM
0

Yeah definitely, conservatism in the US at least is pretty retarded, it just happens to be slightly less retarded right now than the opposition.
/r/askTRP09/06/21 03:07 PM
-1

Carido for 35 to 45 minutes at a heart rate of 145-150. Gaba release will make you Chad af
/r/askTRP09/06/21 02:32 PM
1

You CIA or just brainwashed?
/r/askTRP08/06/21 09:32 PM
1

2 was a lot for me and one of them I worked with 8 hours a day (still wanted to do work lunch/stay late together).
/r/askTRP08/06/21 09:28 PM
1

If you see a woman you are into, make eye contact. If she gives you IOI's, approach.
/r/seduction07/06/21 10:33 AM
3

How can I put this? You are missing how the factors fit together to magnify the signal. Especially, if she is close to you in age. Edit: I've never taken a group dance class though she might just want her own dance partner I don't know if that's a thing.
/r/seduction03/06/21 11:02 AM
7

Hmm why would a woman make it clear to you she's single in a context where you touch her 🤔
/r/seduction03/06/21 10:39 AM
8

How many new 9's turn 18 every year?
/r/seduction03/06/21 12:02 AM
-1

Absolute king shit ngl
/r/seduction18/05/21 11:11 AM
15

I think the advice here is good but I feel like omegle cannot have a good time investment to return ratio.
/r/seduction09/05/21 11:29 AM
1

Tell her that!
/r/seduction30/04/21 09:08 PM
-1

No matter how many matches a woman may get online dating, I can just approach more (they could do but its rare).
/r/seduction28/04/21 02:20 PM
1

Damn bro you sound tough. Just play it off say they look like someone you know and go 'my bad' Jesus lmfao
/r/seduction06/04/21 06:51 PM
1

Look at the bridge of their nose
/r/seduction06/04/21 06:49 PM
1

Simply put, more women.
/r/seduction27/01/19 12:32 PM
6

You're missing out by allowing yourself to simplify it this much.
/r/seduction26/01/19 10:35 PM
1

Like people have said hard to give advice here. To make people feel comfortable around you I'd suggest reworking how you converse entirely since you say looks aren't the issue here. First, less is more here. Being "comfortable in silence" is very powerful with women for a few reasons. People tend to think that people that aren't responding and instead are listening are agreeing with them. If a woman says something about who she is as a person, don't immediately refute it, just adopt a live and l…
/r/seduction11/11/18 03:21 PM
3

Going to a bar without drinking isn't anything too bad tbh
/r/seduction05/09/18 11:49 PM
7

I'm no expert, but it sounds to me like you were too invested in that one girl. Try pursuing a few girls, or supplementing with Tinder, etc. You can be as attractive, rich, or as smooth with women as anyone, but some girls just aren't going to be interested. It happens. The only surefire way to get around this is to pursue more than one woman.
/r/seduction15/02/17 08:58 PM
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