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I didn't see the tag on top lol sorry
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/23 07:39 PM
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I purposely don't shave to stop myself from the temptation 🤣. It's about 20% effective 🤣. Some guys really don't care what goes on down there lol
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/23 01:00 AM
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I totally understand this lol. You don't want a fresh shave to go to waste 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/23 12:59 AM
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Too late, I already did 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/23 12:58 AM
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100% 🤣 to show off what you could get to your friends There was a gorgeous marine I knew who everyone said was out of my league. I made a bet that within two weeks I could get him to take me on a date. It worked! 🤣 We slept together after the third date. He was very 'meh' in bed tho....Me and him became really good friends and talk periodically to catch up. get revenge I slept with my best friend the night I broke up with a controlling boyfriend just because I knew it would piss him off 🤭. We ar…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/23 12:56 AM
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Yea but what women think is "huge amounts of make up" and what men think is "huge amounts of make up" are vastly different 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/23 12:42 AM
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Where I live guys prefer childfree women because they want to find a free baby sitter or are looking for a step mom 🙄. Or they try to match with me since I don't want kids and they don't want more than they already have. I've asked them why they match with me and they say "oh, I don't want any more kids! So you're perfect!" 🥴. Then they get offended when I tell them that I DON'T WANT KIDS, including their kids. I don't wanna be a step mom or a mom.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/23 05:06 PM
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No If I'm not feeling well or am super tired then I'm not in the mood
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/23 04:23 PM
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30F I would never stay with a man I'm not attracted to. What would be the point? To be miserable?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/23 03:20 PM
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Maybe it's just the women where you live, because where I live I see women using filters for the aesthetic, not because they're trying to hide flaws. Very few women I know use filters to hide wrinkles, a couple others do it for funny effects. But a lot of my friends don't use them at all
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/23 03:11 PM
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Me too. Thank you
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/23 03:09 PM
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A fat ugly guy in a tailored suit is still a fat ugly guy Beauty is in the eye of the beholder. Having a clean sense of style is important to me. Any guy can look good with styled hair and a well tailored suit. I can't tell you how many times I've been on dates and the guy has pit stains, dirty pants, or smells because they don't use deodorant. I had a crush on one of my guy friends, but I was instantly turned off by his dirty teeth, greasy hair, greasy skin, and God awful BO. He was helping me …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/23 05:42 AM
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My dead bedroom was because of multiple reasons: My ex had horrible hygiene and didn't think it was a big deal. I got vaginal infections because he didn't wanna clean his foreskin. His odor was so bad I finally just moved into a different room. He gave himself foot fungus from not changing his socks regularly, and the fungus was so bad his nails got thick and would cut open sheets on the bed. He couldn't take oral meds cus he has a family history of liver issues, but he didn't try to investigate…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/23 05:20 AM
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I've seen guys use filters, old photos when they were in better shape/younger, only post pics wearing sunglasses, and lie about having kids in their profile so they get more swipes. It's not just women Also, I posted a recent full body pic and pics of me without make up on my dating profile so guys know what I look like on a regular basis, and I still get about 60+ likes a day. I don't look drastically different with make up and don't use filters 🤷‍♀️. I really don't think this is as big of an i…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/23 03:27 AM
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Hello, it is I, a female lol. I have more male friends than female friends 🙂. Usually it's just people I've worked with, bar buddies, and Marines I took care of. If they're not in your social group already then it's not a good idea to go find women just to be friends with them. Why do you want female friends? Are you trying to find a girl to be friends with so you can pretend to be her friend while trying to get in her pants?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/23 02:44 AM
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But they have their own pressures society puts on them to be successful in order to be "more desirable".
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 03:14 PM
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Why would any woman settle down and spend all of her youth with a man who will eventually start lusting after women younger than her. Why would a man settle down and spend all his youth with a woman who will eventually start lusting after men younger than him? Men who don't have ED and aren't balding? Men who stayed in shape and have a bigger D? Men who can actually satisfy her in bed because they're not selfish? See what I did there? Men aren't perfect as they age either.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 03:02 PM
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Of course we do, are aren't inhuman. I won't date someone if I'm not physically attracted to them. IDC about a specific body type, as long as they're healthy and in relatively good shape then their body is fine to me. I prefer tall, husky men ideally
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 08:08 AM
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30F Maybe a year, a couple years ago It was frustrating but you get used to it. I wouldn't say it was a struggle to tolerate, either you do or don't have sex. Nothing huge to worry about. My life wasn't crashing and burning because of the lack of sex lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 06:24 AM
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But it also shows they don't respect me, my opinions, boundaries, and comfort. What they want is more important than what I'm comfortable with
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/23 08:32 PM
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You think it's nonsense that anyone in a relationship can deny sex for any reason? You don't believe in bodily autonomy? Why did you use the contraction for one and not the other? Idk 🤷‍♀️ I didn't realize it lol
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/23 08:18 PM
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100%! It is the WORST feeling to know a guy essentially faked being my friend just to get in my pants/date me.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/23 08:13 PM
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I think this makes a lot of sense
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/23 08:09 PM
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I 100% don't because it gets annoying when they constantly try and convince you to date them and get mad at you when you don't give them what they want.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/23 08:07 PM
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tell your current boyfriend he will no longer be having sex with you, then gauge his reaction A. Boyfriends aren't entitled to sex B. Friends are not entitled to sex C. Romantic partners are granted more privileges than friends. Typical romantic relationships will entail some sexual activity, so you comparing the bf to the friend getting "denied" sex is comparing apples to oranges. Also, if I date a guy who will get mad at me for denying sex for any reason, (because there are multiple reasons so…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/23 08:06 PM
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No. r/whenwomenrefuse
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/23 07:55 PM
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Yes. Prostitutes do what they do because they don't have other means to support themselves. With you being a paying customer, there's a significant power imbalance.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/23 07:46 PM
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I can only speak for me and the people I know. I've lived all up and down the East Coast and have met very few women who had a laundry list of demands
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/23 08:43 PM
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Oh that's very fair! I can definitely see where miscommunication or not paying attention to little details could definitely push people in the wrong direction
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/23 08:43 PM
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So? I'm in NC 🤷‍♀️ where you are doesn't negate what I said. It's usually people who live in the sticks that have super strict standards like that
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/23 08:34 PM
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I live in the South and don't know a lot of women like that in my area. Those are girls who live in the backwoods and marry their cousins lol
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/23 08:30 PM
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If a guy swears up and down that he’s JUST your friend and has no interest, then turns around and does what you say when he finds out there will never be a chance at more, yeah I agree, shitty thing to do. Agreed, that's the situation I'm thinking of in my head. I've been through that and it hurts a lot. Idk, I just think a guy shouldn't bother trying to be friends with a woman if his only goal is to try and get laid
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/23 08:24 PM
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I'm in the US, but I think you're thinking of city girls, not all American women
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/23 08:16 PM
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I'm a woman and can attest that not every woman has a long list of demands like this. Even women think women this picky are ridiculous
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/23 08:05 PM
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no matter how hurt a person is by someone declining to continue a friendship when they learn it won’t become romantic/sexual, it doesn’t make that person an asshole by default Yes, yes it does. It means that guy only saw me as a hole. A prize. He didn't care about being my friend, he just pretended to. I've had guy friends act like this and it is an awful feeling to know the whole friendship was faked so they could see if they could get in my pants. They were just waiting their "turn" they thoug…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/23 07:58 PM
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I think we have every right to be upset if a man we thought was our friend only saw us as a sexual conquest
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/23 07:53 PM
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IMPO it makes the guy look like a pig. It just comes off as if they're just pretending to be my friend, it feels like they're lying to me. How rude is it to form a friendship with someone and then leave when you can't get in their pants? What does that say about his character?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/23 07:41 PM
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100% agree
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/23 07:38 PM
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One of my coworkers said she was a SAHM until her kids were school age. Her husband was in the Navy so during deployments it was all on her, but during normal work days she would take care of the kids until her husband got home, then her husband would watch the kids for 4 hours so she could nap, shower, run errands, work out, etc., Then they would split getting them ready for bed which would give the husband a few hours of relaxation before bed. And she said when the kids were babies they would …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/23 12:37 AM
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I agree, they're the dad which means they're still responsible for helping me raise another human. I didn't get myself pregnant. If my spouse was working 12+ hours then I would do a little more since they'll be tired when they get home, but I would still expect them to help with some things on their time. A wife isn't a maid, they're a partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/23 12:34 AM
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Fit 50 year old
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/23 04:23 AM
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I can verify that it does not get loose with more use 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/23 04:13 AM
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It's not a problem where I live (near a marine base lol)
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/23 02:55 AM
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Because according to the guys in this group I'm as loose as a hallway 🤣 allegedly, according to them lol
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/23 11:04 PM
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Psssst......it's a joke 🤭
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/23 08:12 PM
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Yes and some people don't want to develop eating disorders in order to fit into your box of what is considered beautiful. When was the last time you dated a woman with a curvier figure? It's almost like beauty is in the eye of the beholder 👀
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/23 04:35 AM
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I broke things off with a guy because his profile said he was 6'0 but when he showed up in person he was about 5'8 WITH boots on. When he took his boots off he was the same height as me. I asked him why he said he was 6'0 on his profile he said "oh that's my height when I wear my work boots". I asked him why his profile didn't specify that and he said it wasn't important to mention since it was partially true 🙄. I will not date someone who starts things off by lying. That's why I don't swipe rig…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/23 04:28 AM
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/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/23 04:17 AM
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You could say the same thing when guys are particular about a woman's weight. God forbid we don't look like super models, we suddenly are not worthy of a man's attention. I'm playing my own devil's advocate here (lol) but I definitely understand if someone lives an active lifestyle and they want their partner to be active too. Usually when I'm doing OLD I swipe left on guys who do a lot of physical stuff cus I know I can't keep up 🤣 But!!!!! Some people aren't picky about body size as long as th…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/23 04:13 AM
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Same 🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/23 03:14 PM
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There are a few of us explaining why we disagree with his POV, so what we have to say is for him to understand someone who doesn't have the same thought process as him. Multiple people said they wouldn't go on a second date without feeling sparks
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/23 02:49 AM
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I never said it had to be generalized, it's just my POV. I can tell pretty quickly when I have chemistry with someone. I have a lot of dating experience and I worked in the medical field so I was used to socializing a lot.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/23 02:42 AM
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It usually is immediate. I can usually tell within a few minutes if I have chemistry with someone
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/23 02:35 AM
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Playful flirting and getting me to laugh is the best. I had a date who had me in tears when we went on our first date 🤣. I laughed so hard I snorted! It was humiliating but I couldn't stop laughing 🤣. The waiter thought it was fantastic and joined in with cracking jokes and my face was red from laughing lol. I wish I could remember what he said cus I was howling 🤣. Thankfully we were at a small beach bar so it was a place I felt comfortable laughing loudly lol
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/23 02:29 AM
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I disagree. If there's no tangible chemistry why would I waste our time and go out with you again? That chemistry feels really good when you find it, that's what I am looking for. And yes, I do expect fireworks to shoot out my butthole!!!!! 🤣 Edit I wanna add that the best dates are ones where the chemistry is so good that you don't wanna go home. I LOVE that feeling 🥰. That's usually how I end up inviting someone home with me. It's so much fun finding good chemistry with a guy
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/23 02:23 AM
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Female women? 🤣 As opposed to male women? 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/23 01:56 AM
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that will probably give you the ick Don't tell me what I do and don't like 🤣. I know for a fact that I love when men can take a chance and be vulnerable with me. Those are the best midnight conversations
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/23 01:53 AM
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Omg I know 🥺. The older I got the creepier I realized the attention she got was. They were so proud of it when we were young, but now I'm just like omg this girl probably has so much to deal with now....
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/23 11:52 PM
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That happened to one of my friends in elementary school. I met her in late fourth grade and she was already a D. By 6th grade she was a DD if not larger. I used to envy her when I was younger, but now I feel kinda bad cus she was forced to grow up too fast
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/23 11:46 PM
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His comments made me very uncomfy
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/23 11:38 PM
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I reported your comment
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/23 11:31 PM
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I reported your comment
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/23 11:28 PM
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14 and 20 EXCUSE ME!? You think little teenage girls are at their PEAK when they near 14!?!?!?!?!?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/23 11:25 PM
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🤢
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/23 11:16 PM
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Jennifer Aniston 🥵
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/23 11:08 PM
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You are the most mature person in this group ❣️
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/23 11:05 PM
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I have too
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/23 04:25 AM
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I've been on dates where the guy was attractive but we just didn't have chemistry. It's a real thing. Some people just don't click 🤷‍♀️. It has nothing to do with looks. You can be a super model and I'll still think you're boring if you can't carry a conversation
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/23 04:21 AM
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Lmao 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/23 04:13 AM
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I don't want kids and can live happily with us making under 100K a year. It's totally fine with me 🙂. Also, just because a guy makes less than 100k doesn't mean he's not career oriented
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/23 04:11 AM
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And they get good benefits with those jobs
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/23 03:28 AM
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Blue collar guys are my bread and butter, especially sexy contractors lol
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/23 03:27 AM
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Enough that he makes a livable wage, the amount doesn't matter to me
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/23 03:26 AM
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Good for them?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/23 08:16 PM
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I'm going to hell for saying this, but when you said 'deletion' all I could think about was someone pressing CTL, ALT, DELETE on their keyboard and they just fucking disappear 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/23 03:55 PM
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Depression and suicide rates also skyrocket when men feel like they need to bottle everything up. We won't see change overnight, these types of statistics take years to improve. There are so many other factors that contribute to SI besides being "emotional". I will not marry a man who isn't willing to go to couples counseling before we get married. I love a man who can open up and be vulnerable with me, but that is different than a man with a short temper
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/23 03:51 PM
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In the US you'd have to file legal documents like a medical POA. And most states don't recognize common law marriage unless you've been together for more than ten years. Some hospitals don't recognize common law marriage. So if I had a bf of ten years and he went into a coma and was in the ICU, I wouldn't be allowed to visit him or assist with any decision making concerning his treatment or end of life preparations. Also, if someone dies and they don't have a will, and y'all aren't married, that…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/23 03:11 PM
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But you get more legal benefits with marriage. Like if they are incapacitated, I'm their legal NOK and can be there to make important decisions. Things like that are very important to me
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/23 02:59 PM
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Spending the rest of your days with the love of your life 🥰
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/23 02:54 PM
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I would refer to that as FWB(Friends-With-Benefits) But it isn't FWB. We would be exclusive, go on dates, take pictures, act like a normal couple that's dating. I'm sorry if that isn't something that fits your narrative, but it's a fact of life. FWB don't go on dates or have bf/gf benefits like relationships. They're usually just friends who sometimes hang out and also have sex. Being monogamous for a "while" knowing that it won't work out just seems a bit pointless It might be pointless to you,…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/23 01:14 PM
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There is a difference between dating people that clearly wasn't suitable for LTRs during the span of multiple years due to prioritizing the wrong things or having the right prioritizes and being bad at vetting or simply straight out deceived. Have you never heard of dating for companionship? Where you know things won't work out long term, but you don't wanna miss an opportunity to date someone special or fun? That's what some of my relationships were. I was also in the military, so LTRs were ext…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/23 12:51 PM
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I haven't been dating him long, but I am very happy with the way our relationship is going. I cannot tell for sure whether it'll end up being long term or not 🤷‍♀️, it's too early to tell. All I know is that I love being around him and spending time with him. So you can come to whatever conclusion you'd like about that, but that doesn't make you correct
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/23 12:44 PM
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I think my point is that every woman has different opinions on what a high value man would be. You need to find a woman with similar interests as yours For me, I plan to move to the mountains and live off the land, so I need to find a guy who fits those needs for me. I've always loved more rugged men. A girl who lives in LA will not think a guy like that will fit their needs
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/23 12:41 PM
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No lmao it's from Pinterest when I searched "sexy guys with beards" But man, if I saw him in real life 🥵 woo!
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/23 12:38 PM
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Most men get more charming as they age
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/23 12:28 PM
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So your standards have always been the same depending on age? Is that what you mean? Like you always expected more from someone who was older and less from someone younger? That's interesting! I don't think I knew enough at 19 to have high standards lol
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/23 12:24 PM
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I know my standards are fine and he meets them all wonderfully 🤣. He's the most mature guy I've dated and it's such a breath of fresh air. It's easy to be with him 🥰
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/23 12:17 PM
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You literally just repeated what I said. My standards for someone my age are higher than someone who's younger than me. I expect someone my age to be more established or settled in life
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/23 12:15 PM
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I mean, I have a bf so obviously my standards were realistically met lol. Sorry to burst your little bubble Also, I didn't spend a decade screwing around, I also had a few LTRs mixed in there. 🤷‍♀️ No one is born with all the knowledge in the world about what they look for in a partner. Very few people get it right in the first try. So me having a healthy dating life and seeing what I do and don't like in a guy is perfectly normal 🙂. I can't marry someone if I don't know who they are. As I've go…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/23 12:13 PM
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But I'm also ok if I have to move to the Philippines to find a young woman. 🚩🚩🚩
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/23 12:01 PM
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But I have a bf 🤣 which means I found someone who meets my needs lol
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/23 12:00 PM
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For me, this man looks wise is a 10/10 🥵🤤. I would give him all the babies he wants if he asked me 🥰 I love guys who look like this and are sweethearts who don't have a temper. One of those teddy bear guys who is soft and sweet on the inside 💞 I've dated guys who looked like this but had wicked tempers and attitude issues (always wanting to fight, getting drunk every night, flirting with other girls and saying they were just being friendly, etc) Their personality is just as important as their lo…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/23 11:37 AM
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If I tell you my standards are higher, then my standards are higher. Don't try to tell me what you think I mean to say. At my age I expect more from a man because he should have his life together or should be actively getting his life together. In my early 20s I didn't care about much other than looks because the rest didn't matter. But as I've gotten older I'm realizing how much maturity, financial stability, and other factors matter along with looks.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/23 11:30 AM
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Lol I got told recently that since I'm 30 there's no possible way I could still look young and I need to lower my standards for men my age 🤣. I told them my standards are higher than when I was in my 20s because I expect more from a man my age. But since I hit "the wall", according to them, none of that matters lolololololol
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/23 11:04 AM
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A lot of men in this group hate women. Sometimes I forget these people are constantly online, so I gotta log off and get back to real life lol. I have men in this group trying to tell me my "sexual market value" is less and that I probably look like an old hag because I'm 30, even though I told them I still look very young 🤷‍♀️ but I guess they know me better right!! Oh I also got told I should lower my standards since I'm 30, because why should I have any expectations for a man now that I'm ess…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/23 11:00 AM
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Would you like to see a picture too? Lol It's not just people telling me I look young, it's people in society still treating me like it too because I do, in fact, still look young lol. Sorry to burst your little 30 year old wall bubble lol
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/23 10:45 AM
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Yup, I said something similar
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/23 04:54 AM
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I'm the same way. Sex is so much fun and really helps me connect on a deeper level with someone. I feel unattractive if a guy I'm dating doesn't want to sleep with me (unless he has a good reason like you stated)
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/23 04:54 AM
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You wouldn't change much if everyone HAD to wait until marriage, because then we would all be in marriages with terrible sex and no way to explore and find what we like. We'd all have to settle for the first person we married.....and that's it. Look at the dead bedrooms reddit. Look how many women are unhappy with their sex lives, even if they waited for marriage. Waiting doesn't mean it'll be good for either of y'all, and some men just aren't capable of change 🤷‍♀️. I married a guy who wasn't s…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/23 04:51 AM
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For me it was a little bit of both. Sex is fun but also comforting 🙂
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/23 03:59 AM
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R/asablackman lol
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/23 03:31 AM
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Explain how pointing out the biological fact that hymens can tear during sex makes someone by definition a misogynist? I never said pointing out that it can tear (for some women) during sex is sexist, but what's sexist is your view that it should, otherwise she might not be a virgin. Or you thinking that you should be able to see it. It's been proven time and time again to not be a correct assumption to be had scientifically. The problem is that you even THINK that this is a sign she is/isn't a …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/23 02:36 AM
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Exactly, so even though you made edits, your view on hymens and virginity is extremely sexist and misogynistic. I'm not a super Uber feminist by any means, I hate modern day feminism, but holy shit. And how many times do I have to clarifying that I was saying it's one of multiple signs that may show that a woman isn't a virgin The problem is that you even THINK that this is a sign she is/isn't a virgin. You need to get that outdated mindset out of your head, because I'll PM you a pic of me right…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/23 02:09 AM
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Mine didn't bleed the first time I had sex, and it never tore any other way that I was aware of, so....... Also, some people's hymens don't "break" they'll just stretch out. I still see remnants of mine 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/23 01:56 AM
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seems that lie would be pretty easy to discern with the lack of a hymen Your words, not mine
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/23 11:55 PM
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According to YOUR opinion. I don't believe in that SMV bullshit lol So no, I expect more from a man around my age then I would from a man in his 20s. You have more time to get your life together at my age, so I expect such. And just because YOU think I have less value, doesn't mean other men think the same as you. My body and face look the same as I did when I was in my 20s. I'm one of the lucky few who hasn't really shown signs of aging yet. I still get the same creepy old guys assuming I'm a t…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/23 11:51 PM
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Wth is a passport bro?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/23 08:02 PM
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This is a huge generalization for women. I can't tell you how many men used either weaponized incompetence or genuinely were too lazy to take care of themselves in order to get me to care for them like their damn momma, but I don't think all men are like this.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/23 07:52 PM
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You can be my ex and then we'll pay each other's phone bills 🥰🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/23 07:49 PM
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Where's the dislike button?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/23 07:48 PM
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I don't need to get married, I want to get married
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/23 07:16 PM
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Lmao loose lips sink ships
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/23 06:55 PM
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Sometimes I wanna show a pic of my pussy to see how many of y'all would be able to correctly guess how many men I've slept with 🤣 cus every single one of y'all would be wrong lolololol. I'd even offer myself up as tribute to let you get a feel for it, and I guarantee you that you STILL would guess incorrectly lol
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/23 06:52 PM
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Lack of a hymen doesn't mean someone isn't a virgin. You can't look at a vaginal opening and know for a fact whether or not a woman is a virgin. Also, sex should NEVER hurt a woman. It should never be painful. If it's painful for her then she is not properly aroused or she has an underlying medical condition.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/23 06:43 PM
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There's 101 reasons why I don't like some of my attractive friends 🤣 I could write a whole book about it lol
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/23 05:54 PM
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Being attractive isn't all it takes to be relationship material 🙄. Y'alls personalities didn't click 🤷‍♀️. There was no chemistry. I've been on plenty of dates where the guy was super cute but we just didn't mesh. Sometimes we view too many things differently and it's off putting. Sometimes they're too much of an A-hole and think that's a personality trait 🙄. She said you have a "cool" personality, which to me says y'all just don't have common interests so the conversation wasn't fun for her.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/23 05:52 PM
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30F I think it can be a little bit of both. As I've gotten older my standards have definitely risen. When I was younger, as long as they were physically attractive, that's all I needed. Now I have other things I want a partner to have so we can have a successful relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/23 04:55 PM
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Just being a good person will make him a good man 🤷‍♀️. A man is only as good as his character and his word.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/23 09:09 PM
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Lol sure 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/23 03:34 PM
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Tell me you don't know what good sex without telling me 🤣 anyone who thinks mainstream porn is good sex has never had good sex in their life lol. That shit is SO FAKE. It's so hard to find good porn
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/23 03:10 PM
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I'm gonna put in my 2 cents, but please be kind in your responses, I am not saying this to be judged, but just want to give my point of view on this. I have slept with over 40 men in my life, but it was something I wanted. I liked having situationships, and I am perfectly fine with casual sex. Some of my best friends in the world are people I've slept with. Some of my flings became relationships, some just stayed flings. The biggest thing I learned from all this is intimacy. I know what makes so…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/23 01:13 PM
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Depends on what they look like and if we have good chemistry But if I were to take away the looks factor for my personal comfort and go based off my dating history, I sound really cocky saying this, but I think I could get at least 75% of them to go on a date with me. I'm very bubbly and charismatic and social. I have friends of all different personalities and interest types. I've been on a lot of first dates, some good, some bad. I've been told on numerous occasions that I'm fun and easy to fli…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/23 12:29 PM
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If we don't see a pic of you and aren't there to witness your social interactions then it'll be hard for us to tell you what to fix 🤷‍♀️
/r/seduction31/07/23 04:39 AM
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Stop generalizing all women together because not every single woman on the planet is hypergamous
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/23 03:24 AM
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No, someone wrote the actual Merriam-Webster dictionary definition and you responded to it
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/23 03:11 AM
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Someone else did in the comments, you even responded to them. That's why I didn't repost a definition
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/23 03:05 AM
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I make my own money, so as long as the guy I'm dating has a steady source of income I don't care how much he makes
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/23 02:59 AM
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They're obviously different, they're two completely different words with different meanings
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/23 02:49 AM
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Why did you make this post if you're not willing to have a true discussion. You asked a question and multiple women are trying to tell you why you're assumptions are wrong, but you keep pushing back harder as if your opinion is correct. So why are you here? There are real women here trying to talk and you're shutting is all down
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/23 04:37 PM
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I love a nurturing man, so you can't speak for all women because your assumption is incorrect. I don't want a hard man who will never care about me, I want a man who is tender and sweet
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/23 04:36 PM
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Likes cute plushies or cartoon characters like this . Similar to kawaii culture That's not a feminine trait, lots of people like plushies and are men Is scared of spiders or insects Also not a feminine trait. Being scared of spiders is a natural instinct because we know they're dangerous and creepy looking Thinks lifting weights is for guys Weight lifting is not just for guys and has health benefits for both sexes prefers running / tennis / golf or non-lifting sports Lots of men excel and become…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/23 04:22 PM
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Because they want to?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/23 03:53 AM
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In general I don't want my partner to get involved if another man hits on me unless he isn't taking NO for an answer. I don't like jealous men. If you don't trust me then don't be with me. There's no need to be territorial over me, I'm not your property. We are a couple and are supposed to support each other. Jealousy ain't cute. I've delt with too many guys who had jealousy issues and it's not attractive at all. If you calmly express a concern then I'll gladly talk it out with you to make sure …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/23 11:39 AM
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I'll never settle down with someone I'm not sexually compatible with again. I married someone I wasn't compatible with in hopes things would get better over time. They didn't. He just got worse.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/23 12:37 AM
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Wrong. I suggest befriending some women before you make bold claims that can't be backed up by anything except your opinion 🤣. I'm a woman, I don't need a man to mansplain what is attractive to me, what isnt, and how I think 🤯
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/23 09:00 PM
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That is 100% false 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/23 07:59 PM
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Because he's not a woman so he cannot speak for us and say how we think
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/23 06:10 PM
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Just keep in mind that skill is more important than looks. The best sex I've ever had was with someone that wasn't my type. There might be an increased chance if you're more masculine, but masculinity doesn't equal skill. I know this for a fact lol
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/23 12:20 PM
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Thank you for sharing this! I was wondering when someone was gonna provide real evidence 🤣 It was an interesting read, but doesn't apply to myself specifically. Some of the hottest guys I've been with were awful in bed 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/23 12:19 PM
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Oh ok lol not like flicking something normally then. That's fine
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/23 01:34 AM
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It depends on what type of flicking action you're talking about lol
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/23 12:44 AM
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I'm 30 and I'm still putting it off to enjoy myself.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/23 11:06 PM
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Yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/23 11:05 PM
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It sounds like you're upset because women are making more informed decisions about having children. The human brain isn't fully developed until 25, before then is the time to be young and dumb and enjoy yourself. Make mistakes, grow. There is so much I learned about life before I turned 30, and I'm glad I didn't have kids to bog me down. I was so naive and easily impressionable. I was terrible with my money in my 20s. I didn't have to care for anyone but myself, so I definitely made a lot of fin…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/23 03:34 PM
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I don't really understand what you mean by "experimenting" however. He's essentially fetishizing virginity. He thinks women don't wanna get married and have kids young so they can sleep around. It couldn't possibly have anything to do with wanting to build a life for yourself. Apparently all women want these days is sex (according to these types of men). And if they did, there's nothing wrong with that because we are free thinking individuals who can do what we want.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/23 03:24 PM
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I agree! We aren't living in a time of war, disease, or short lifespans. We don't need to have a bunch of kids to continue our lineage anymore now that we have vaccines. We don't have to arrange marriages to secure a future for our daughters. We aren't living in medieval times where things like this mattered. It's the 21st century, some people need to get with the program.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/23 03:21 PM
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No, no, no, he didn't say anything about RAISING kids, he just wants to find a young woman to HAVE his kids. There's a 100% chance he'll be the dad who doesn't do anything because it's the "woman's job"
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/23 03:16 PM
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Also, all these men talk about wanting to have healthy kids with a younger woman, but what makes them think women wanna have kids with them to begin with? What are they bringing to the table that will make them good fathers? Do they want to raise kids or just be a fun dad while mom does all the work?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/23 03:08 PM
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I love your flair 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/23 03:05 PM
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Because you're making a claim and I want to see where you got your evidence from. You can't seem to grasp the concept of credible sources yet you think I can't grasp statistics? I want to know what study you got your information from to see if it's credible lol. If you want to prove your point of view you need to be able to back it up 🤣. You can't just say "studies show......" And then NOT show us the study 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/23 12:40 PM
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And you still haven't cited your source for me to read and check to see if it's credible. That's what happens when you go to college, you learn how to filter and find credible sources written by professionals in their field.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/23 05:11 AM
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No they don't, they will give you a specific number, not a generalization. Not to mention, any credible source will number the population pool and demographics of the women interviewed, and will document limitations to its study. So if you're reading something that says "studies say most women" then it's false. It should give a specific statistic, the number of women interviewed, their demographics, and limitations to the study. Please cite your sources so I can read through it to see if it's cr…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/23 04:38 AM
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I've had that happen a lot too, I kinda like being held down sometimes lol. It's so hot. But I agree, the whole clit feels good in general but I definitely have certain spots that feel the best to stimulate
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/23 04:19 AM
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No, I'm wiggling because it feels fantastic and my body can't stay still hehe
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/23 04:18 AM
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Care to site that specific study? Because you can't say women as a whole, you can say SOME women. But you cannot say attraction means better skills in bed. If that were true, everyone would be in a perfectly happy marriages if they're attracted to their spouses, which is not the case. Go look at the "dead bedrooms" reddit and tell me how many of these couples aren't attracted to their spouses 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/23 04:17 AM
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As a former promiscuous woman, I don't judge a man JUST for being a virgin. His character is what I judge.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/23 03:04 AM
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BRAVO! You, sir, know exactly what you're doing and I'm proud 🥰
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/23 03:01 AM
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"There are more than 8,000 nerve endings in the tip of the clitoris alone. That's double the number of those in a penis. A clitoris is made up of 18 distinct parts – a mixture of erectile tissue, muscle and nerves" What made you think they weren't that sensitive? Hmm?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/23 02:59 AM
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I second this about the flicking. If a man were to do that to me I'd probably slap him
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/23 02:58 AM
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don’t use teeth Teeth can be used VERY VERY gently. There are some techniques where using teeth feels otherworldly, but it must be done correctly and with great precision
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/23 02:57 AM
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Generally the best weapon on your side is to LOOK GOOD. If a woman is highly attracted to you, generally it makes for good sex. This is completely false. Good looks don't equal good sex. I would know, I've slept with a male model and some very good looking Marines and Sailors. A good majority were quite bad. I was shocked honestly. I always hoped it'd be like a movie where the hot guy is amazing in bed naturally. NOPE. I think they thought their good looks meant they didn't have to try as hard?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/23 02:55 AM
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As a woman, I will say that if I'm being eaten out I tend to throw my hands, arch my back, and wiggle more, but during sex I usually tense up. I don't think lots of movement means it's fake. I've seen some women act like they're possessed by the devil, screaming at the top of their lungs and spasm like having a seizure 😳. It's not as common, but it can certainly happen lol. I've also seen some women who barely let out a whimper. I think it's important to learn that each woman can look and act di…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/23 02:51 AM
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Same. Some of these guys are chronically online and don't know what real life is anymore. How arrogant is it that a man thinks he speaks for all women?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/23 08:11 PM
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It seems like you're fetishizing the less dating experience instead of getting to know someone as a whole.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/23 12:40 PM
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Ok, but you're forgetting there are two people in those relationships. Sometimes things end because of what we do wrong, sometimes it ends because of the other person, and sometimes people just aren't a good match. Staying with someone for the sake of staying with them is miserable and feels like forced happiness. If I'm not happy with you why would I stay with you?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/23 12:40 PM
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But that doesn't apply to all women, just the ones you've encountered. It sounds like those women were immature. But everyone has damage, no one's perfect, and to think you're better than someone else because you dated less is a bit arrogant, which means you have a flaw that some wouldn't find attractive
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/23 03:06 AM
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I'm not understanding how it's a yellow flag? I think it's because I'm former military, so people come and go all the time. I knew going into relationships that they wouldn't last because one of us was bound to leave or we would simply drift apart due to work schedules. So for me, having past relationships isn't a yellow or red flag. Granted not all of these ended on good terms, but I got older I learned that it usually takes two people for a relationship to end badly unless one person is abusiv…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/23 03:02 AM
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No. I don't like kids lol. Single dad's are fine, it's their kids I can't stand. I dated a single dad once and it ruined it for me. Never again
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/23 10:09 PM
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I think it needs to be mandatory Look at how many people find out their dad isn't their biological dad because of DNA testing. Look at how many men have to pay child support for kids they find out later are not theirs because they signed birth certificate. Everyone wants to talk about how men cheat in relationships, but look at how many people find out they're not related to their dads, it's awful
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/23 10:06 PM
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Wtf kind of question is this
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/23 09:57 PM
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I agree
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/23 09:49 PM
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How is crying 2x a month considered "very emotional"? But I would pick Shawn if he's my ideal guy in every way, who wouldn't want that?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/23 09:45 PM
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I completely agree with this!
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/23 09:42 PM
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But we don't get to choose how a relationship ends. How is that a negative reflection on us? Some relationships end amicably, some end with sour feelings. Not every guy we want to date ends up being the perfect match we thought they'd be. How is that our fault? Why are you blaming women for a relationship going badly? It takes two people to date
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/23 09:39 PM
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Excellent comparison!
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/23 09:37 PM
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Everyone has some type of emotional baggage. To expect none because she dated less is unrealistic
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/23 09:37 PM
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Agreed!
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/23 09:27 PM
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For me it's not the sexuality, it's my attraction to them. I've dated one bi guy and was very close to another bi guy, but these guys were also my type so the attraction was natural. I don't date bi guys just because they're bi, I date them if I think they're cute
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/23 09:27 PM
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I just love how these guys need to find a way to be in control. Like, they NEED to find a way to make sure people know that things didn't work out because THEY said so, and not because the other person wasn't interested to begin with 🤣
/r/seduction21/09/22 11:50 PM
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She already friendzoned him first by saying she wasn't interested. He can't friendzone himself 🙄
/r/seduction19/09/22 11:44 PM
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This guy need to do something to make himself feel like the bigger person for being turned down. Like it's his idea or something? Even though she told him first she's not interested lol. It's not some amazing revelation, it's common sense like you said
/r/seduction19/09/22 11:41 PM
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How does one friendzone a girl who already friendzoned you 🤣
/r/seduction19/09/22 11:38 PM
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I will still be cordial and polite but I won’t flirt, compliment, or give her attention Well duh, she said she isn't interested, there's no logical reason to do those things once she says she's not interested lol is this some sort of revelation for you?
/r/seduction19/09/22 11:36 PM
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I personally think you're wrong yes, but did I not state earlier we could agree to disagree? Is it really hard to understand that someone else in the world thinks differently than you? Also, you keep talking statistics but have yet to give me a single shred of evidence, so I can't take what you say at anything more than face value of your own personal experiences. Edit: I'll no longer be responding since this conversation has reached an end. We are going nowhere but in circles. Goodnight
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/22 11:36 PM
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Like I said, we can agree to disagree. You think one way and I clearly think a different way. I don't agree with what you think, and you don't agree with what I think. It's not the end of the world and I'm tired of talking about this. This is what I don't like about reddit, there's so many men on here who look down on women who have a past, like we are damaged goods, but we aren't. And there's really nothing you can say that will make me understand your justification for caring unless you're rel…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/22 11:19 PM
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Do you have those studies that have been posted in peer reviewed journals? Or are you just listening to ".com" websites? Also, those surveys are most likely self reported, which means they interview a small number of people and hope they're telling the truth. It's impossible to get accurate data from a self reported survey. Also, isn't it interesting that the one man who showed how he cared about you having slept around was the guy you married, He didn't tell me it bothered him until AFTER I mar…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/22 11:06 PM
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The way I was raised, a man who cares too much about a woman's past is either controlling or insecure. Of course, this doesn't speak for everyone, and that's the point, not everyone will be the same. Your opinion is not more correct than someone else's, because we've all lived different lives. Your lifestyle is not more correct than mine because we both want different things out of life. But remember, you are no better than anyone else just because you've had less sex. I am not less valued as a …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/22 10:57 PM
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Where did you get the number 50% from? And if guys cared about it so much then why did they sleep with me when we dated 🤣. I can assure you, many men don't care. I've only met a select few that actually cared, so what does that say about other experiences besides your own? If that many men cared, it would be a lot harder for me to have intimate relationships. Please remember that your personal opinions don't speak for everyone. You can feel however you want, that doesn't mean a majority feel the…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/22 10:50 PM
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I think saying most is too broad of a statement. Only one guy in my past didn't want to date me because of my past, and my ex husband was the only man who made a real issue out of it. His insecurities ruined our relationship. Nothing I said or did helped and he always called me names when we fought. He was also a hypocrite, his list was longer than mine, but he for some reason was mad I had a past too? Idk lol. I asked him why he married me and he said so I wouldn't sleep around anymore (I wasn'…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/22 06:57 PM
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Oh no, I'm a very passionate lover. I make sure they enjoy themselves 🤗. I am not in fact as loose as a hallway. You'd never know 🤫. I don't like being called queen, it's cheesy lol
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/22 06:15 PM
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No not really, just 30+ guys. Everyone would be pretty hard to achieve 🤣. Your opinion is not fact, unfortunately lol In my real life, literally no one cares
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/22 06:11 PM
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😬 we can agree to disagree because I don't agree with a single word you're saying 🤣. Based off my personal experience, this is all hogwash. Some people just don't do it for each other and it's ok. I've experienced enough to know that love doesn't conquer all and solve all the problems. Communication only goes so far if the other person cannot physically do what you like. I've been in LTRs and some of those people would try to satisfy me but they just couldn't grasp the technique I needed. It was…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/22 06:09 PM
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You should check out r/deadbedrooms and tell me if love is enough to create chemistry in the bedroom 🤔
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/22 06:02 PM
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Or you can keep fucking everyone under the sun until the stars align and you find a guy that gets you off. Whatever floats your boat, sis. When did I say I was fucking everyone? Or are you assuming? There's a difference between fucking everyone and being selective while not being too strict with myself. If it's not working with someone then I move on 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/22 06:01 PM
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Communication doesn't equate to skill my guy 🤷‍♀️. Some people don't listen, some people just don't know what they're doing no matter how many times I walk them through it. No, you don't need to care about someone to make them cum 🤣. And yes, some of these guys did care, they just could not comprehend female anatomy. It's laughable that you think you know my sex life better than me. We're you there 🤔 do you know every guy I slept with? Sexual chemistry is a very real thing. It can be learned and…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/22 05:58 PM
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So back to my original point, you’re sleeping with guys who don’t love you. Don’t do that And you're missing my original point, romance does not equal sexual chemistry. It is either built over time or happens naturally. Loving someone doesn't mean they'll be good in bed. I've dated plenty of guys who loved me and cared about me who like I said, bumbled around like an inexperienced teenager. Someone's love for you doesn't make them a good partner in bed.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/22 04:38 PM
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Do you have a peer reviewed academic journal article that states this? Or is it another incorrect assumption you believed from a non reliable ".com" website?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/22 02:53 PM
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I hate to use Wikipedia, but it has sources cited down at the bottom that prove other species have sex for fun and self pleasure. There's one tab specifically for "non-reproductive sexual behaviors". I only used this wiki because it would've taken me forever to find these other sources. The sources cited are from published academic journals. https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Animal_sexual_behaviour what I’m saying is being able to get good sex is no accomplishment to brag about because anybody can…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/22 02:52 PM
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Through brain scans. Depression changes your brain chemistry, it can be physically seen through special scans
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/22 02:43 PM
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But how can you physically prove it?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/22 02:39 PM
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Do you have documentation to support this? Because plenty of animal species don't feel pleasure when they have sex, and they procreate just fine. Also, why do women have a clitoris? A woman doesn't need to orgasm to get pregnant 🤔 please explain this for me. Plenty of other animal species have sex for fun. So I'd love to see the peer reviewed journal you used to find this information in.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/22 01:55 PM
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It's a team effort, not a solo act lol they're just as responsible as we are lol
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/22 01:06 PM
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How can you prove she's not a virgin? You already admitted earlier there's no physical way to tell. Also, there's no such thing as a virginal personality, so that theory goes out the window. So how would you know who is who?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/22 07:06 AM
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Oh bet 🤣 do you have evidentiary support for this claim too? Or is this just your personal opinion as well?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/22 06:50 AM
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And how do you know they're telling the truth about being sluts? Sometimes I say I'm the biggest wh0re in the world just so some men will leave me alone 🤣. Can you prove I slept with 30+ men?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/22 06:43 AM
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No, I'll call it an opinion and not true science because there is no factual way to tell if a woman is a virgin. There is no such thing as a virginal personality, it doesn't exist. People who fetishize virginity have an unhealthy obsession with it. 🤢
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/22 06:28 AM
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That is 100% unequivocally untrue. There is no such thing as a virgin personality. Where is your evidence to prove this?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/22 06:24 AM
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No, I will take it into consideration, that's how debates work. Just tell me you made up those facts or you got them from an unreliable source. But if you're going to spit facts then I will ask to see your evidentiary support
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/22 06:20 AM
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There is no way of knowing if a woman is a virgin. None. I work in GYN, there is know way to tell if a woman is a virgin. None. So you better pray she was telling you the truth. There was a study done in the Czech Republic where a group of men slept with a group of women that consisted of virgins and prostitutes, and the men were given a survey afterwards and had to give their opinion on whether or not they could tell if the woman they slept with was a virgin or not. None of the men were able to…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/22 06:19 AM
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No no no, you said it, so I wanna see what factually based evidence you have that proved this 🤣 otherwise what you're saying is hogwash
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/22 06:14 AM
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Then don't sleep around 🤣. Also, how will you know she's a virgin? She could be lying just to get you to marry her 🤔
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/22 06:13 AM
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incompatible to you means 'he didnt fuck me like my ex' Wrong, it means we don't mesh well together. It means they didn't satisfy me or had bad technique. Different men have different styles, not every two will be the same. you can't just throw two people in bed together and expect them to be compatible. You sound a bit naive on this topic. you are putting men in a situation where they are competing with the ghost of your ex Any man who thinks this way is not mature enough to have sex with me, s…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/22 06:12 AM
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Show me the stats please? That's the national rate, not rates for previously promiscuous people lol I want your source to be from a peer reviewed journal and not a random website you found on Google
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/22 06:05 AM
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That's a disturbing mindset, but I guess more power to you? Let me know how that works out. Tell me how many women you're able to sleep with by being such a mean asshole 🤣 like I said, you still need to be charming and charismatic. I can sense insecurity 1,000 miles away in some men lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/22 06:04 AM
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dude you just said you brought what other men did to you in the relationship Yes, but I don't mention people by name 🙄. Am I supposed to never feel pleasure again to shelter a man's ego? it is a competition, you just don't know it. Only insecure men think that way in my opinion. if a man cant satisfy you the way you want, then you'll decide your incompatible. you already admitted this. Yea......why would I stay with someone who I'm not compatible with????? i never mention things other women did …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/22 06:00 AM
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You do know that people divorce for all types of reasons right? Not because someone had a promiscuous past 🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/22 05:53 AM
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So be an asshole 🤷‍♀️ see how far it gets you. You'll probably end up unhappy and alone. But it'll be your choice and you'll have to deal with whatever happens
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/22 05:53 AM
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You clearly do because you're responding lol
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/22 05:52 AM
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and what you like was what another man did to you. See you're forgetting the part from earlier where I said I also found out what I like through self exploration. your new boyfriend has to compete with that feeling, It's not a competition if you're already dating. Only insecure men see it as that way. My ex husband was insecure about that, that's why he's my ex husband, amount many other reasons. The constant reassurance got exhausting. He called me all types of derogatory sexual names during ar…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/22 05:48 AM
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Believe it or not, women are not objects, we can't be "used". Also, plenty of promiscuous people find love and happiness in life, it is not exclusive to less experienced people. If that were true, most people wouldn't be married or in LTRs 🤣.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/22 05:31 AM
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I think you're just mad that other men have more sex than you, so you wanted to complain
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/22 05:29 AM
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So be an asshole if you're not looking to get married? But as I REPEATED MULTIPLE TIMES, I've slept with both, so clearly there's an advantage to both 🤷‍♀️. Don't make me repeat myself again it's exhausting to talk with a man who won't listen to me
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/22 05:28 AM
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can you honestly say you have never told a man to do ANYTHING because another person made you feel that way? Of course not, SOME of my exes gave me the best sex of my life. BUT I'm not asking for someone to change things up because I miss the person, I'm asking them to change things up because I found out what I LIKE. There's a very big difference. I can like what I've done with someone in the past without harboring feelings for them anymore. I just want to enjoy the sex I have, which means I wi…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/22 05:23 AM
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The only possible reason to be a nice guy would be to get a virgin wife. That's a disgusting way to fetishize virginity 🤢 Also, yes, if you don't want women to stick around, be an asshole. But it's an art form, you can't just be flat out rude, it takes skill to be a charismatic asshole 🤣. You gotta woo them into sleeping with you first lol
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/22 05:19 AM
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I mean I've never called men out for that so I wouldn't know 🤷‍♀️ might have to ask someone else who cares about men watching porn. Watching porn is no biggie to me, I watch it every night. Me and some of my exes watched it together and even made some videos 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/22 05:18 AM
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Please reread my last statement, I don't feel like repeating myself 😊
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/22 05:16 AM
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Because, like I stated earlier, but you still didn't listen, assholes get tiresome after time. They're always surrounded by drama. Maybe learn to listen to what a woman says to you and you'll be more successful.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/22 05:14 AM
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/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/22 05:12 AM
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Because there is this thing called masturbation, which means I play with myself and find out what feels good. So if I know what feels good to me, I want someone to do it to me as well. Also, sometimes things just don't feel good, and it's not because we were with someone else, it's because it just doesn't feel good. Stop being so insecure and think we are trying to make you into a past fling, we aren't, we just want to be pleasured during sex. Is that too much to ask for?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/22 05:12 AM
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women do this to men all the time. I never once said that, you did. Again, don't put words in my mouth that I never spoke. I have been with many men and know for a fact that every guy likes it differently. Some have been similar of course, but no two are exactly the same. So you are wrong, women do not do this to men all the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/22 05:10 AM
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Resorting to personal attacks are we? How amusing 🤗 I mean, be who you want to be, just be prepared for the aftermath of whatever you choose. Also, as I repeatedly stated, I slept with both assholes and nice guys, so being genuinely nice will still get you laid in my book 🤷‍♀️.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/22 05:08 AM
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To be a good person? What kind of dumb question is that?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/22 05:05 AM
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So explain why my sex life has been so successful if this were true? You still haven't explained that to me 🤣why can I get off so quickly if according to you I have brain damage from too much sex 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/22 05:05 AM
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So you think a man gets to dictate what does and doesn't feels good to a woman? When you admitted earlier that women know each other's anatomy better than a man? You're contradicting yourself sir
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/22 05:04 AM
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How is that a point proven when those words literally never left my mouth? You didn't prove anything 🤣 wth are you even talking about? I never once said that quite, YOU did
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/22 05:03 AM
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The point of being a nice guy is that you'll be someone she wants to spend time with. Assholes are only good for short periods of time before you get tired of all the drama that follows them. But a nice guy will usually be better in the long run because they're easier to be around. But I'm taking about genuinely nice guys, not r/niceguys lol
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/22 05:02 AM
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How many times do I need to repeat myself?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/22 05:00 AM
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Please show me the evidence that prove that. Also, explain my very successful sex life if this were true? Wouldn't I be incapable of having an orgasm after being with 30+ guys using your logic? 🤣 Where are you getting your info from 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/22 05:00 AM
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Actually it does, because if I had issues getting myself off then it would mean I'm not easy to get off. But since I am capable of having an orgasm, and other men have given me orgasms easily, then that means I am easy to get off. But a big chunk of guys I slept with bumbled around down there, completely clueless on how to touch me. So when I gave direction they still didn't do it right, even with extremely detailed and step by step direction! Some guys really just don't understand how to touch …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/22 04:58 AM
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But you're still cherry picking because I said I sleep with nice guys too.....so stop cherry picking to prove your own point, it's invalid. My statement stands, I have slept with assholes, but I have also slept with very nice men too. Stop cherry picking
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/22 04:56 AM
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So you're admitting men don't understand women's anatomy, thus making it harder for them to get us off lol. Men don't take the time to learn a woman's body and wonder why she won't orgasm 🤔. Also, every woman is different, every woman likes different things. Every guy is different, but I have made every guy orgasm when I have sex with them. So I don't really get what else you're trying to say, other then some men are inexperienced and don't know how to pleasure a woman 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/22 04:54 AM
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Well yea, I can get myself off in less than 5 minutes. I'm pretty sure that means I'm easy to get off 🤣. A few good men have gotten me off quickly, but unfortunately most couldn't due to a lack of skill 🤷‍♀️. If I struggled to get myself off then it wouldn't be a different story, but since I can successfully get myself off, and so have a few men, then that means a majority of men don't have enough skill to. It is incredibly easy to get me off, but can be made difficult if a guy doesn't know what…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/22 04:52 AM
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I don't think anyone should stay sexually ignorant. R/deadbedrooms is a thing for a reason 😳. I had a dead bedroom with my ex husband, I'll never settle again
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/22 04:49 AM
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I also slept with the nice guys, so I am indeed disproving your point. You're cherry picking 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/22 04:48 AM
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So if I can get me or my friends off in 5 minutes or less, and a guy can't, who do you think the real problem is here?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/22 04:45 AM
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Not true, especially not for me 🤣 I am incredibly easy to get off. Where did you even find such ridiculous information? Have you ever tried to get a woman off? It is so easy to do. I got friends off super easy every time I played with them and they were all very promiscuous like me 🤷‍♀️. More sex doesn't mean less orgasms 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/22 04:43 AM
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No, I didn't not say I preferred assholes. I never once said I preferred them, don't put words in my mouth that I didn't say. What I DID say was that I wasn't afraid to fuck the assholes. What I DID say was that I also fucked nice guys too. So don't make a conclusion that isn't there
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/22 04:40 AM
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You do realize not everyone wants kids right? Your valued don't speak for everyone 🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/22 04:39 AM
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Omg same! I didn't have an orgasm until I was with guy #5! He actually cared about getting me off and letting me explore my sexuality with him. I legit had a summer of love with him when I was 17 and it was the best summer of my life. I should write a book about it 🤣. It was like a movie! After him, I knew what good sex was and couldn't wait to find my next best partner!
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/22 04:38 AM
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Someone sounds racist among other things. I'm so glad someone else noticed this. He keeps saying Tyrone, which I'm assuming means a black guy. So is it wrong for people to sleep with black men in OPs eyes? Why does he keep bringing Tyrone up? OP clearly doesn't understand that a big dick doesn't actually stretch out a vagina to make it loose 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/22 04:36 AM
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I have no idea what that means
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/22 04:34 AM
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How is it a problem? Do explain? I didn't have an orgasm until I was on dude #5. Five! That means four other men failed to make me orgasm 🤯.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/22 04:33 AM
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I'll never understand this. They really think if you just stick it in we'll just magically orgasm lol
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/22 04:32 AM
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Of course, I was young and dumb once lol. Nothing wrong with sleeping with the enemy 😏 makes for some spicy sex, especially if you keep it a secret from everyone and all your friends think y'all really hate each other 🤣 lololol
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/22 04:32 AM
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As a woman who has slept with 30+ men, I can tell you communication doesn't mean shit if your partner isn't willing to listen and try. I could say "do it this way" until I'm blue in the face, and some men legit don't try or don't know how due to inexperience.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/22 04:31 AM
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This is so untrue I've slept with a good chunk of guys I had amazing chemistry with! Some people just click in bed and it's awesome and I wish everyone could experience this. Where do you get your data from that states sexual compatibility is a myth?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/22 04:29 AM
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This is completely untrue. Just because you love someone doesn't mean y'all will be compatible in bed. Romance doesn't equal sexual skill. People who think this are naive on how sex actually works
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/22 04:27 AM
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I agree with this whole heartedly. I've been with 30+ guys and maybe only 10% made me successfully orgasm. I didn't have an orgasm until I slept with #5 and I thought I was dying lol. Imagine if I stayed with the first guy? I'd be living an orgasmless life! I'm not hard to get off either, some guys really just aren't good or don't care about pleasuring me. They could be the nicest guy in the world, that doesn't make them good in bed. And like you said, sexual criticism is like a shot to the hear…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/22 04:25 AM
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The man's personality has nothing to do with his sexual charisma. I've slept with very nice men who just didn't know what to do and had terrible techniques. I've slept with complete douchers who made me cum easily. In my mind, practice makes perfect. You can't have no experience and expect to be good at it. I will not sleep with someone who is inexperienced again, I deserve better than that. And if he isn't willing to learn then he is definitely a no-go for me
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/22 04:23 AM
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I've slept with many men and a majority of them didn't make me orgasm. A lot of them had terrible techniques, and I am extremely easy to get off normally. Only like 10% of them made me orgasm. I don't have crazy fetishes, so your assumption is wrong my good sir. Some men just really don't know how to have sex
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/22 04:20 AM
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I'm sorry, but how will i know someone is narcissistic and selfish in bed if I've never slept with them? It's not like they have a sticker on their forehead. I've slept with nice guys who were shit in bed, and slept with assholes who were rock stars. Being a nice guy doesn't make you good in bed
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/22 04:17 AM
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If you truly love someone and they truly love you in a romantic way, congratulations you are sexually compatible, Loving someone doesn't make you sexually compatible 🙄 Sex is not hard to figure out, and most people don’t have sexual likes and dislikes that are all that unique. This screams "I've never slept with a lot of people". As someone how has, sex is incredibly hard for some men. Some guys legit don't know how to pleasure a woman and don't take direction well because of their egos. Finding…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/22 04:15 AM
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Again, you're wrong. We also know she's 5 months post partum which puts her in a category of being at risk for PPP/PPP. Many people seem to be forgetting this little tidbit. As soon as I heard that part I knew she was suffering from something beyeond her control. I was not making a blind accusation, post partum depression is common, but it doesn't make you beat your kids. That would most likely fall into the realm of psychosis. I never once stated for sure she had it, so I'm still not sure what …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/22 01:43 AM
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Nope, just assuming based off the info I have. Never said I was a doctor, never once said I could diagnose. But that doesn't mean I can't assume she has something based off my years of medical experience, knowledge and the info presented. My doctor's always encouraged me to learn to recognize conditions and ask questions. They loved having me help diagnose patients with them, I did too. I love learning
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/22 01:33 AM
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Are you in the medical field or have any medical training? Because if not, you're just being ignorant Check your ego? This was not meant as an insult, it's a legit question. People without medical backgrounds don't normally have the training and education to understand mental health conditions. Usually they'll understand them if they suffer from it or have a family member they need to assist with. It's just easy to tell who has an educated background on the subject or not
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/22 01:06 AM
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I understand how psychosis works and I assume they're pretty similar. I don't have to suffer from psychosis to be able to recognize it. My job is to have situational awareness and help my docs treat patients. Aaaannnddd what are her symptoms aside from abusing her son? Being 5 months PP and abusing your child would be enough evidence for any doc to do further evaluation for a PPP diagnosis. Also, the husband didn't give us any other info, so that's all us internet plebs can go off of. Like I sai…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/22 01:03 AM
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psy·cho·sis /sīˈkōsəs/ noun a severe mental disorder in which thought and emotions are so impaired that contact is lost with external reality. Tell me you don't understand how post partum psychosis works without telling me? If you're not in the medical field and haven't worked with women and patients like this daily then you don't understand enough about these conditions to comment on them so concretely. Not to mention, there's no particular reason to believe this woman is suffering from any sor…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/22 12:41 AM
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If you don't know anything about PPD/PPP or psychosis then it's best you don't comment. Your comparison is wildly inaccurate, distasteful, and quite frankly immature. psy·cho·sis /sīˈkōsəs/ noun a severe mental disorder in which thought and emotions are so impaired that contact is lost with external reality.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/22 12:26 AM
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A. Why are you concerned about what I do in my personal life? That has no bearing on this conversation. B. You're comparing to wildly different things, so saying I accept pedophilia is disgusting and you should be disgusted with yourself for even coming to that conclusion. Why was that even on your mind? This also proves you had no better information to give, so you resorted to personal insults, which can have your comments removed from this thread. Speak like that again and I'll report your com…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/22 12:18 AM
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Please tell me when and where I said that?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/22 12:08 AM
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Read through some of my other comments on this post and that should give you your answer. People who don't know anything about mental health should not be acting like they do. Go to my page and read my other comments on this post. I am in the medical field and have been for 10+ years, OP is not. Bullshit. Been there, done that. Bullshit Please check your ego and remember that your personal experiences don't speed for everyone. Sleep deprivation was and is used as torture methods because it can c…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/22 12:08 AM
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Most likely that is the case. We don't know for sure because we are not her, but sleep deprivation and PPD/PPP can make you do things you don't mean to do. Things you're not aware you're doing.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/22 11:58 PM
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Sleep deprivation alone can cause psychosis, that's why it's important to share the work, not just leave it up to the mom since she's the mom. Some of my docs used to get so fed up with husband's who didn't wanna share responsibility since they worked full time while mom recovered. They thought they shouldn't have to lose sleep since they were working and mom wasn't.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/22 11:52 PM
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Is it really so hard to believe that some men have more sex? Just because YOU aren't getting laid doesn't mean other men aren't. Sure, some people fudge numbers, but is it really that hard to believe that a man could possibly having more sex? The numbers got you so heated you made a whole reddit post? Just because it might be hard for you doesn't mean it's harder for other men
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/22 11:42 PM
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Of course, certain things are beyond our control, but we can't use it as a crutch. It means there's a clear issue to be resolved
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/22 11:30 PM
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Yea that's the hard part with mental health issues, they can make you do things you wouldn't normally do, and then you still gotta put all the pieces together at the end 😞
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/22 11:27 PM
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I agree with you 100%. We don't know all the facts and the dad didn't give us the whole story, just the part where he saw his wife hurting their baby.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/22 10:47 PM
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Oh for sure, and people in this sub clearly don't know enough about OBGYN and mental health issues to be talking about them like this. I work in this department, I do this everyday, this is ridiculous and exactly why women don't want to reach out for help when they make a mistake, because they face harsh criticism instead of compassion. Everyone acts like we have double standards for men, but when I worked in the ER I've held men in my arms as they cried after having a psychotic or drunken episo…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/22 10:41 PM
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Of course she shouldn't have access if she's harming them, but she doesn't deserve to lose parental rights forever for a condition she had no choice to have and can be easily managed with time. She most likely didn't choose to do this, so you can't blame her personally. That's why some women don't get charged with things in course if they're found to be suffering from PPD/PPP, because they can lose touch with reality. It's not then acting consciously. A conscious action means you chose to do it.…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/22 10:26 PM
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If it has reached the point of psychosis then no, she is not actively aware of her actions. From my experience, if someone reaches the point of injuring their baby while 5 months post partum, the doctors gets them immediate treatment for post partum psychosis care.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/22 10:22 PM
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People can be admitted to a mental health ward very easily. I worked in multiple departments in a hospital, including the ER. A mental health admission was a common, daily corruance for us. All he needs to do is bring his wife to the ER and have her evaluated for mental instability. That will get the ball rolling and an on-call psychiatrist will evaluate her to see if she meets criteria to be admitted. Some admissions can be a routine 72 hour hold for evaluation, while others can be 30+ days for…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/22 10:20 PM
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It's actually not because I work in OBGYN, they aren't loose assumptions, they're firm assumptions. And no one is saying she deserves the benefit of the doubt, but you can't say you understand PPD/PPP and then get mad when a person acts out while suffering from these conditions, that doesn't make sense to me. Either you understand what psychosis is or you don't. And no, I never said the man was accountable for everything, but as a partner you need to be aware of what's going on with your spouse …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/22 10:04 PM
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That we can never know since we aren't in their home, but new parents lose 6 months of sleep within the first two years of their child's life. Even more over their lifetime. I think regardless if it was PPD/PPP or sleep deprivation, the mother clearly doesn't seem to be in her right mind and needs help.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/22 09:47 PM
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Again, like I stated before, if she's FIVE MONTHS POST PARTUM, she is most likely suffering from it. Do I know? No. Do I assume? Yes. PPD can be diagnosed up to a year after birth. You keep glossing over that fact like it doesn't exist to prove your argument. Just because she isn't diagnosed doesn't mean she doesn't have it. I'm not blaming the man for her actions, I'm holding the husband accountable for his probable lack of situational awareness. Like I said, this stuff doesn't develop overnigh…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/22 09:43 PM
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Which means they're not consciously choosing to do something. So why are you judging them if it's something out of their control? You can't say you understand a condition, then criticize the person for their actions. 🤔 And no, this is not most women on the PPD sub
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/22 09:34 PM
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Well since I work in OBGYN I'm pretty certain I know it better than you do. But go on and act like you know more than people who literally work with post partum women everyday! People like you are the reason women don't seek mental health help when they're post partum. They get shamed for their actions even though they're not conscious decisions. They're embarrassed and upset about their thoughts and actions. They need support, not ridicule
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/22 09:32 PM
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psy·cho·sis /sīˈkōsəs/ noun a severe mental disorder in which thought and emotions are so impaired that contact is lost with external reality. He clearly doesn't understand how post partum psychosis works 🙄. You can't say that you understand a disorder and then immediately blame someone for their actions because of that disorder, that's not how this works. Either you understand the disorder or you don't. Sleep deprivation can cause psychosis. It doesn't sound like she was in her right mind, and …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/22 09:30 PM
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If she's 5 months post partum then there's a greater chance she has it than doesn't. You can be diagnosed with PPD up to one year after you have a baby. Only her doctor can diagnose her, but we are assuming that's the issue at hand. So for a husband to judge so harshly means he's not aware of his own wifes mental health status. This doesn't develop overnight, so I question his situational awareness in their home on a regular basis Also, no one is defending her, we are pointing out a VERY REAL me…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/22 09:26 PM
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Tell me you don't understand PPD/Psychosis without telling me
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/22 09:23 PM
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PPD/psychosis is a VERY real mental health condition where mother's lose touch with reality. Your whole post basically states you don't believe it's a real condition that affects a woman's mental status. You don't sound like you're looking to debate, you sound like you just want to yell loudly about how right you think you are, but aren't
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/22 09:17 PM
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Lmfao your doomed to fail because you know literally nothing about what you're trying to talk about 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 02:50 AM
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You're contradicting yourself because you said you're going for sex. So if those are the types of women you want then you better get yourself checked regularly, most of them don't use condoms if that's the type of woman they are. Some can't afford condoms. Have you ever seen any documentaries about sex tourism like ever?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 02:48 AM
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You think there aren't STDs in asia?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 02:46 AM
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Tell me you don't understand human trafficking without telling me
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 02:41 AM
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Thailand has a huge human trafficking issue, why on Earth would you want to be a sex tourist there knowing how they treat their women?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 02:40 AM
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I mean I'm only going based off what you're saying....
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 02:37 AM
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So you support sex tourism? You're literally admitting you support sex trafficking
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 02:36 AM
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I am for sure devastated that this absolute gem of a man will not longer be here for us to claim as a sutor 😔
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 02:35 AM
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Never once said that, but tons of people would love the chance to come to America and live the American dream. 90 fiance is a show for a reason 🤣.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 02:34 AM
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Well if you're going overseas just for sex that would make you a sex tourist
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 02:31 AM
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So you support human trafficking?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 02:29 AM
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You better have a big fat bank account and a good job to sponsor them for a visa, because a lot of those women would love to live in the states and have a better life (if their home life is bad).
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 02:26 AM
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Everyone wants something different, and it's ok. You don't like marriage, so you don't have to get married. It's a pretty simple concept. I can't wait to fall in love and get married again. I love the idea of marriage. But if I don't get married then I will be ok with a LTR. Marriage, no kids, a house with a big yard, on a quiet street 🥰 Your way of life is not for everyone, and someone else's way of life won't be for you. What you want won't match what everyone else wants, and it's ok. What's n…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 02:06 AM
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Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/22 11:51 PM
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Agreed. I'm like a hippie, I don't care about the number, I just want to find someone I mesh with and enjoy our time together 🥰
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/22 10:58 PM
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Yes, but being conservative in and of itself often involves a strong moral code and self control beyond that of “just don’t hurt anyone.” So people who have slept around have no morals or self control? That's incredibly rude and presumptuous to say about people you don't know. There are SOME people who sleep around that have no morals or self control, but a majority of us are aware of what we're doing and have morals. Having sex doesn't mean no morals. What you should say is "I want a girl who's…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/22 10:56 PM
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I had one guy reject me for my number count just because of rumors people spread about me. All these guys were claiming to have slept with Mr when we never did. I kept a list on my phone, but he didn't care, he chose to believe other people instead of ME, the person these rumors were about 🤯. At that point I knew he wasn't worth it.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/22 10:52 PM
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I LOVE this answer! You've captured my thoughts perfectly! I have a very sexual past and never could quite understand how people on here see it as a bad thing. If I want to date someone, I date them. If I want to be single, I'll be single. I'm clean, always have been, always will be, and take care of my body. I think a lot of this fetish has to do with insecurity, but they don't want to admit that. It's ok if you're bad in bed, just be flexible and have the ability to learn, otherwise imma move …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/22 10:49 PM
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Yes! These guys know they can't satisfy a woman, so they want to make sure she doesn't know any better, which is manipulative
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/22 10:44 PM
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They fetishize virginity, that's what they're doing
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/22 10:43 PM
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Virgins/low N count women still have exes and trauma just like every other woman in this planet. They are not exempt from a hard life just because they didn't have sex. To think so is just foolish. Just because they didn't have sex doesn't mean they didn't date guys in the past. Also, she is not guaranteed to stay with you or be more loyal just because she's a virgin. There's a really good chance you won't satisfy her and she'll want more if you don't know how to please a woman already.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/22 10:39 PM
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I dont have to assume, OP made his intentions very clear here
/r/seduction01/09/22 09:17 AM
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I thought you meant cus he has a lot of kids so hes very social 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/22 06:24 PM
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But it doesn't look like he has social skills, otherwise he would be nick Cannon. He is not assertive and didn't talk about doing fun stuff together, he just wants a broodmare. Being smart doesn't mean you'll be a good partner
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/22 04:44 PM
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That's great for him, I didn't bash his intelligence at all. But his personality seems as exciting as a wet cracker Being smart doesn't make you a good partner
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/22 04:35 PM
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What was so exciting about him that makes him more than average?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/22 04:32 PM
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Initial reaction: I don't think he is physically attractive, so I would pass After reading the profile: He sounds really boring. Nothing made me smile, nothing made me laugh or chuckle. Nothing was exciting or stood out to me. He's just an average guy looking to settle and have kids. He didn't sound romantic at all. He really is just looking for someone to pop out his kid.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/22 04:26 PM
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He probably lives in a big city with lots of people. People from smaller towns wouldn't understand how easy it is if they never experienced it. It's super fun when you don't have to worry about running into the same people everyday lol
/r/seduction29/08/22 02:10 PM
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And girls do know how to flirt lmao, maybe he's not as hot as he thinks. Yes this made me question his story because I was like wtf girls love flirting lol. Some of what he's saying seems very made up
/r/seduction29/08/22 02:02 PM
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Here are my rules for hook ups: ALWAYS wear condoms regardless of her birth control status No oral for either of us If they stink, don't do it, even with a condom because condoms can break If you feel a lot of lumps and bumps and are unsure if it's their natural anatomy or an STD, ask or politely leave. Get tested regularly if you are active regularly with multiple partners. TRUST NO ONE I've never caught an STD and had a very productive sex life lol. Once I get to know someone then we can exper…
/r/seduction29/08/22 02:01 PM
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I agree, I had that phase in HS and early adulthood to try and be 'different' and "one of the guys". It wasn't me at all and I really enjoyed getting dolled up to hang out with my friends. I could still talk shit and feel pretty at the same time 🤷‍♀️. I also don't like girls who would try to talk shit on me for being feminine. If they did it publicly I would throw it right back.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/22 12:40 PM
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That is the most absurd thing I've ever heard. A majority of people due their hair and are completely fine. Dying your hair doesn't equate to mental health illness
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/22 12:24 PM
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Aw thanks!
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/22 12:18 PM
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I mean it's true, we aren't some alien species with wildly different interests than men lol. I'm moving in with a male roo mate today, so we spent last night chatting and catching up for a few hours (we haven't seen each other since 2013/2014). Things flowed easily and we just talked about life and how we got to where we were today. It's such a small world since we are both former military. It felt like no time had passed since we last saw each other, it was awesome. We cracked jokes, gossiped a…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/22 12:08 PM
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We don't notice unless it's a big difference. One guy told me he was 6'8 and he wasn't anymore than 6'0 max. Idky he lied about his height with such a drastic difference but it was a huge turn off. Just tell me your real damn height 🙄. It's not the end of the world if you're not a tower in the sky Another guy told me he was 5'9 and he was exactly the same height as me (I'm 5'4) when we met. I've been the same height since middle school, it's really easy to gauge someone's height based off visual…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/22 11:51 AM
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Actually it is, you don't make the rules of this group 🤷‍♀️ Plenty of people use personal anecdotes here, so don't single me out just because I'm a woman you don't agree with Go make your own subreddit with only data driven evidence of that's what you want, you don't own this group, stop gatekeeping
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/22 06:42 PM
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I'm saying it because they need to hear that not everyone is obsessed with the data like they are. This page is a debate page, there's no criteria to be met to be here. Not everyone here needs to think the same way, it wouldn't be a debate page if we all had the same thought process And I'm not trying to say I'm not like other girls, I know there are plenty of other girls on this page who see the same way I do, I've talked with a few of them before on here. So I will continue to put in my two ce…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/22 04:31 PM
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Of course. Looks are on a scale, not a binary. There's super model hot, and unfortunately ugly, but in-between is a whole host of looks. Just because someone isn't a super model doesn't mean they're not good looking.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/22 04:27 PM
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The amount of people who think women turn into old, loose hags at 30 really blows my mind 🤣
/r/AllPillDebate28/08/22 11:05 AM
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I prefer offline OLD in my area, no matter the platform, is just military guys looking for hook ups 🙄
/r/AllPillDebate28/08/22 10:59 AM
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You do realize there's more than just attractive and ugly right?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/22 10:16 AM
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The debates?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/22 04:39 AM
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I mean......I haven't been here long so idky you're assuming I know everything about this sub lol
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/22 04:27 AM
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Well I don't go based of percentages, I just like what I like. I'm not concerned about those numbers
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/22 11:48 PM
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What does SMV mean? Also, if someone's cute then I think they're cute. I don't care about percentages or whatever. I don't base my likes off some ridiculous scale
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/22 11:32 PM
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Being friends doesn't mean you're obligated to get in my pants. Also, being friends doesn't mean you need to be concerned with anything I do with my alone time. So it's not "behind their back" it's personal privacy How can I be unfaithful to someone I'm not dating?
/r/seduction27/08/22 11:30 PM
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What do you mean?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/22 11:20 PM
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Lmfao!!!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/22 09:18 PM
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Oh this is quite often for me. Some people look great until they speak and you're like "oh god shut it off!" The super hot guy could be rude, stuck up, entitled, arrogant, sexist and it'll be an instant turn off. Plus, not all super hot guys are good in bed, some expect the woman to do all the work since they're gods gift to the world While the cute average guy could be flirty, charming, confident, and funny and I'll melt lol. These guys can be hard to predict in bed, it could go either way. But…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/22 09:18 PM
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Ok troll 🤣
/r/seduction27/08/22 07:43 PM
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Well that's extremely insulting to say since I'm a 29F. That's probably why you're single, you're rude and make assumptions
/r/seduction27/08/22 07:40 PM
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You're only 22 not 75 🤣
/r/seduction27/08/22 07:31 PM
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Nice guys who pretend to be nice just to get in my pants will finish last. Nice guys who get mad that I have a sex life that doesn't involve him will finish last. Nice guys who feel entitled to my body just because we are friends finish last. Nice guys who call me sexual slurs when I turn them down finish last. I could go on forever.
/r/seduction27/08/22 07:02 PM
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Nah you sound fine to me! You're young, enjoy being reckless 🥰 don't settle if you're not happy! When you're ready you'll find the right woman and want to build a fun life together (if that's what you eventually want). Just let her down gently and say you don't feel enough chemistry with her, that way she'll hopefully understand she didn't do anything wrong. It's better to be up front and honest
/r/seduction27/08/22 06:21 PM
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You too 🥰
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/22 04:51 PM
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Oh it's ok, but thank you. I get to file for divorce now and I'm excited. In my state we have to live separately for a year before we can file 😑. I'm excited to fall in love again and have a real and healthy relationship. I look forward to it
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/22 04:46 PM
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Oh it's a long horrible story of me ignoring every Red flag because "daddy I love him!" 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/22 04:42 PM
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I think I'm just pushy because I settled once and it blew up in my face lol. I would not recommend 0/10 lol
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/22 04:39 PM
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Sure, but the way you phrased it comes out like you don't wait to see if you click with your partner, but immediately jump into bed and only after judge whether you have chemistry or not. Sorry if it sounds offensive, None taken! I don't like ONS because of the risk of STDs, they run rampant in my area due to a large military population. I prefer dating or FWBs. So I like to get to know the person first. Once I know them enough, the sex will determine if we have good enough chemistry or not. It …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/22 04:31 PM
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If I hear another humble brag I'm going to get ass cancer. This made me laugh so loud 🤣 thank you!
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/22 04:13 PM
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Well I guess I'm just an ugly hag at my ancient age of 29 🤣. I think this is completely untrue, I look just as good now as I did when I was 22. I plan to take care of myself and look good well into my 50s. Look at Jennifer Anniston, GORGEOUS! Plenty of people age well. You don't just turn wrinkly and fat once you're 30 🤣 it's just things guy say to fetishize younger women and not date someone in their age group. Men get denied by women in their age group for various reasons, so they make up reas…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/22 04:09 PM
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I mean, I'd try to find the groove before I get naked with a woman, not while I'm balls-deep inside her, but you do you. But you can't find a sexual groove until you actually have sex. Y'all can have the best chemistry out of bed, that doesn't equate to chemistry in bed. There's always a learning curve when you sleep with someone new. you cannot deny that a number of people always somehow returns to their toxic exes just because sex is good. Yes, I can deny that. Most people stay because they're…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/22 04:04 PM
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Please don't fetishize Japanese women like that, they're people too
/r/seduction27/08/22 02:47 PM
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No, people enjoyed sex before contraception. We were evolved to enjoy sex. We didn't develop a sense of pleasure after BC was made, I think we've always had it. But if we didn't, it developed dozens of thousands of years ago.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/22 02:11 PM
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Uh.....we are biologically designed so enjoy sex, that doesn't happen overnight. We didn't develop pleasurable sex after contraception was invented. 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/22 01:50 PM
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Intimacy is so important to me too. It's comforting. Check the dead bedrooms subreddit, sex is a very important part of a marriage lol
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/22 01:40 PM
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Good sex is also a determination of good sex. If I don't have chemistry with someone in bed, and we can't find out groove then it probably isn't meant to be as can be seen from all the toxic relationships people stay in just because sex is good. This is wildly untrue, people usually stay in toxic relationships because of DV and don't know how to leave. You can't sit there and say people stay solely because of sex because that is factually not true. I'd rather settle for a good woman with relativ…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/22 01:22 PM
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Well I better get my walker ready, I'm 29 which is an old hag in PPD years lol
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/22 01:12 PM
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You don't, it's extremely unprofessional
/r/seduction27/08/22 06:29 AM
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I can't get drafted if I was already AD 🙄 I was active duty for 8 years. Did YOU join the military?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/22 06:22 AM
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Dude I was in the Navy for 8 years, you're preaching to the wrong woman
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/22 06:17 AM
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I support mens rights activists and I support feminism SOMETIMES, but you cannot sit here and say women have be treated equally to men throughout most of America's history.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/22 06:08 AM
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And when we're young we are usually too scared to go against what they say
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/22 02:56 AM
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The problem is everyone asks looking for an answer, but in reality, we can't give one. Every girl likes something different. Get to know the girl and you'll get an idea of what she'll like. If you don't actually listen to what she says then you're setting yourself up for failure.
/r/seduction27/08/22 02:31 AM
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Lmao!!!!! If I must 🤷‍♀️ guess I'm just a used up harlot lol. Not like I brought someone to his knees recently from how good it was or anything 😉
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/22 01:09 AM
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I will
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/22 12:38 AM
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Well yea, there's always factors that need to be accounted once you get to know someone, but this guy was saying that if a woman showed interest in him, but had a sexual past, he wouldn't be interested in her anymore. Thats insane but I guess his preference.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/22 12:36 AM
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Especially with time passing and views changing, it's nice they can still discuss big life choices and see how they feel
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/22 12:31 AM
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Exactly, that's just what you and the people you know feel. Me and my friends and the guys I know don't feel the same 🤷‍♀️ preferences are not universal
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/22 12:30 AM
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But you're speaking like this is all fact and it's not, it's just personal preference
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/22 12:22 AM
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For SOME people, not all, so you cannot state it as if it's a fact
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/22 12:16 AM
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No I see your point, I just see it differently is all. No biggie 🙂 getting to know someone intimately is fun, I want it to be carefree and relaxing
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/22 12:15 AM
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You immediately feel less connected with that person upon knowing of their history if said history is filled with many partners. That's not a fact though, that's just personal preference (which I totally get lol I just love a healthy debate) Other things can be concerning, yes, but sexual history is not important to me if they're clean. With dating, someone is choosing you regardless of their past, they want to get to know you and be with you
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/22 12:13 AM
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It sounds like those women weren't worried about the chemistry then which can be a mood killer
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/22 12:07 AM
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I think it's just because most of my experiences were so much fun so I never saw a problem. To me it's an insecurity thing if someone has an issue with my past. If I choose to be with someone, why should my past matter? Why are you worried about things that didn't concern you? (Rhetorical question) My ex husband was obsessed about my past and always called me names when we fought. He was extremely jealous and hated when I dressed up or did my make up. He was always concerned about his size cus h…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/22 12:06 AM
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But you said most women were the same......
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/22 11:55 PM
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One night stands do not prepare you for this Oh they absolutely do, but so does FWB. Experience is experience. Every person uses their experiences differently. I loved learning and perfecting. Look at how many forums there are about dead bedrooms or failing sex lives in marriage, some of them are because they have no experience and don't know what to do. Not all, but some. Learning to have great sex with someone you love and care for as a person is a beautiful and loving experience I don't disag…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/22 11:54 PM
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Ohhhhhh ok so you just haven't been with a woman who knows what she's doing in bed. Well that sucks, I'm sorry. Sex is fun and it's super fun watching a guy's reactions to the things I do. Hopefully you find someone willing to please you in the future. I love pleasing someone Im with
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/22 11:48 PM
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So you don't know everything? How will you have a successful sex life with no experience? 🤔 Do you even know how to pleasure a woman?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/22 11:44 PM
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I'm assuming you must be a sexual dynamo who knows everything about sex? If you want a girl with no experience then you must be able to teach her EVERYTHING! TEACH US YOUR WAYS OH WISE ONE!
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/22 11:41 PM
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I'm pretty sure I was aware and in control of my body every time I had sex 🤣 So you don't think a woman who can pleasure you and suck your soul out of your dick is wifey material?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/22 11:39 PM
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Younger girls......and me 😬 I'm a huge romance lover lol. But I know what's realistic and what isn't, young women don't. That's why they're called YA novels/movies, young adults eat that shit up like it's gospel lol
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/22 10:53 PM
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So because you're not the first you won't date her? She has to be a virgin? Edit: sorry, I thought you were the same person 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/22 10:52 PM
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It's so romantic that you and your husband have been together for so long and are willing to openly discuss your lifestyle after years of time!
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/22 10:49 PM
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it has to feel somewhat demoralizing that you know you'll never have your own kids or family. How is choosing how I want to live my life demoralizing? Also, being single now doesn't mean I'll be single forever. But if not wanting kids it's something I want in life, I won't see it as a negative for not having kids lol. I don't know if its truly a preference or if its the women that nobody wanted It's a preference. If I wanted to have kids I definitely could've been a teen mom I feel no matter who…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/22 10:46 PM
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No. We can say anything and they'll push it off as us being in denial
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/22 10:42 PM
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at the ripe old age of 25 I've been told by multiple guys on here that I'm old and used up for being 29 🤣. Homeboy I still get carded and called "honey" due to my looks 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/22 10:37 PM
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Yes, being fun to date doesn't mean you're toxic 🤣. You're just mad that I poked holes in your logic and you don't like it. You really thought we would all agree with you, and you're mad that there are women in here calling BS to your statement
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/22 10:34 PM
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No? Sleeping around isn't a toxic trait, that doesn't make them a toxic person
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/22 10:33 PM
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So you won't date a girl who shows interest in you????🤯😵‍💫 You're literally self sabotaging Maybe Id make her fall in love with me then have sex with her or something, Do.......do you even know anything about attraction? If I wouldnt be your first pick then you dont get me when you exhausted your other options So you're just mad you're not the first, that's what it really is. You're the type of guy who shames a woman for having a past, but you'll be a hypocrite by sleeping with her too. Got it l…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/22 10:32 PM
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You thought they'd be fun to date because they are toxic. No, stop speaking on my behalf. I'm literally telling you that I dated/slept with guys if I liked them. Them being toxic was not the reason I liked them Just say you are salty because you have trauma and incapable of bonding. I'm not salty at all 🤣 but it certainly sounds like you are lol. I can 100% bond with people, I've had two LTRs and am working on a new relationship right now lol. Will it work out? Who knows, but I hope it does. Als…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/22 10:30 PM
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If you’re actively trying to ignore red flags because you’re attracted to him and want to make it work, then you do know hes toxic even subconsciously. False, some people have little behaviors that will change in time, some people don't. Having a small thing wrong doesn't make someone toxic. Dating shouldn't be dealt in absolutes. I also call bullshit on the “good actors” thing. Just because you haven't experienced life the way I have doesn't make it any less true. I never asked if you believed …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/22 10:26 PM
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You wouldn't be interested in a woman who's interested in you???? 😵‍💫🤯
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/22 10:22 PM
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They did, in the past No, I was not attracted to someone because they're toxic. I was attracted to someone because I thought they'd be fun to date. When I saw serious red flags I'd break up with them. Sometimes with LTRs you give more leeway because you hope you'll work as a team now the good guys gotta deal with the used goods Women are not objects. I'll never understand how someone with a past dating history is seen as used goods. Just say you're salty because you're single, don't be rude towa…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/22 10:21 PM
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That too! Then I go outside and to a bar and instantly feel better lol
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/22 10:18 PM
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Because bad boys are better with being social and knowing how to create that initial attraction. There are plenty of relationships I had where I didn't know the guy was toxic until we were already in a relationship because they were good actors. Sometimes we ignore those little red flags and assume they're nothing, but in reality they're slip ups
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/22 10:18 PM
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Lol sometimes I have to remember that real life is real and not this subreddit 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/22 10:13 PM
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But that's not a fact, it's your opinion. Toxic men do not arouse me WHATSOEVER
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/22 10:11 PM
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This group really sets me off sometimes lol. The guy literally proved it's just younger women who don't have a lot of life experience who often want the bad boy. But no one PREFERA toxic men
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/22 10:04 PM
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(~18-23) Those girls are young and easily impressionable, what they want isn't realistic. A lot of them think it's like romance movies, and it's not. It's the first time they're away from home and have free reign to date who they want. Nobody gets into a relationship hoping to be treated badly, that's just completely false. Some of them stay because they hope they can change a damaged man, but they can't. Some get so deep in those relationships that it's hard to get out without some type of cons…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/22 10:01 PM
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We're gonna rule the world one day!
/r/seduction26/08/22 09:47 PM
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Fair lol I'm a mixed baby so I feel like I don't have to try either lol it just always works well most times
/r/seduction26/08/22 09:23 PM
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Those are boring, I would've said "I had this store, they never have what I'm looking for yet it's always in someone else's hands!"
/r/seduction26/08/22 09:12 PM
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I'm part of the PPD subreddit and it is full of socially awkward and immature men that think they know more about women than women. Enter at your own risk 🤣 It doesn't matter what we say, they think they're right and will find BS "studies" to back up their claims.
/r/seduction26/08/22 09:10 PM
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That's your POV, not everyone else's 🤷‍♀️ some of us can be social without cheating, it's an amazing phenomenon called ✨ loyalty ✨ lol. How many times do I need to repeat that? Are people in relationships never allowed to socialize with anyone but each other? That sounds unhealthy
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/22 08:48 PM
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But not all drunk guys are trying to hit on me. Some just like to talk. And if you read my statement earlier, I said if they push it then I tell them I'm taken and I'm just there for fun. So a guy can try to flirt with me all he wants that doesn't mean I'll accept it ✨loyalty✨. I won't be rude to people just because I'm in a relationship either. If someone is friendly and charming then I will talk to them. There is no law saying I can't talk to people once I'm in a relationship lol. Bars are a s…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/22 08:04 PM
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I never said I was flirting with all those guys though. Getting drunk and talking to someone doesn't equate to flirting, that's just you're assumption of what happens. Being friendly is not flirting.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/22 07:57 PM
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I wouldn't say I go out LOOKING for male attention, but it happens when my friends and I go out 🤷‍♀️. Just because a guy gives us attention doesn't mean we need to accept it. It's called ✨loyalty✨ lol. I don't go out with my girlfriends to feel single, I go out to hang out with my friends. Are we supposed to never go out once we're in a relationship? Also, when I'm drunk people are so easy to talk to, so I usually talk to a lot of different people. If someone gets too serious then I'll tell them…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/22 07:53 PM
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If you need to ask this question then you need to go socialize more and worry less about our opinions. Different women like different things. What works for one may not work for another
/r/seduction26/08/22 07:31 PM
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There's no right answer, every guy likes something different
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/22 07:24 PM
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He doesn't accept anyone's answers either. He says anyone who shuts down a cold approach is picky 🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/22 07:16 PM
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I love this story so much because it's totally something I've done 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/22 07:15 PM
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I get cold approached pretty frequently. It very rarely ever works on me because I'm not attracted to 99% of the guys who approach me. They're either cocky, not physically my type, or don't know how to converse. If it did work they were always military guys I was stationed with. SOME of them are good at flirting and being charming enough to want to see again. Some, not all. Since I lived in the barracks most of my military career we didn't normally have to exchange numbers right away since we'd …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/22 07:11 PM
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Why is there no in-between? That's so unrealistic. I would choose neither, both sound terrible long term
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/22 10:20 PM
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Not once did I see you mention Chihuahuas
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/22 09:36 PM
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What the hell does this have to do with cats? Lol. None of what you said added up one bit lol They have bigger dogs for the security, not because cats love less
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/22 09:29 PM
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If you marry someone and don't discuss if you do/don't want kids before you get married then y'all are both the problem. You should never assume someone wants to have kids with you. alpha folks, beta Bucks? Y'all need to stop using this dichotomy already, most of us don't think this way when it comes to your personalities. Is it a massive sign of disrespect or lack of love to a man if a wife says she doesn't want your children? No. A woman's purpose in life is not to have a man's children. We ar…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/22 12:33 PM
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Even if I misquoted the exact words, the meaning is still the same. Possibly is less definite than probably anyways, so you're proving my point. She did not say yes because she's busy training for a run. How anyone can think she said yes is beyond me. You need to play serious word games in your head to think she actually said yes. If she wanted to go for a walk she would've gave a more definite answer
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/22 09:03 AM
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But you're purposely excluding the rest of the sentence. "Probably, if I wasn't training for a run". Which means "no, I'm training for a run". She might be open to a walk at a later date if he asks, but for right now she's busy training for a run. I really don't see how this is a YES 🤔. As a woman it's really concerning to see how much our words get misconstrued by some of y'all 😳
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/22 08:53 AM
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But that's the thing, we don't have enough context. All I see is a woman turning a man down. I really don't see how it can be interpreted any other way 🤔
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/22 08:49 AM
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🙌
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/22 08:44 AM
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Those are two completely different scenarios. This girl clearly denied him because she's training for a run. As a woman, it's really frustrating when we turn down a guy and they try to play word games instead of accepting the truth. I would've said yes if I wanted to or had time 🤷‍♀️. Don't twist a response into something that isn't there, it makes you look desperate
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/22 08:41 AM
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What else are you bringing to the table besides a ridiculous outfit?
/r/seduction24/08/22 08:36 AM
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"possibly, if I didn't have to train for a run" idk about you big dog but that's not a YES. 🤔 That doesn't sound like she agreed at all. How could this possibly be interpreted as a yes when she didn't clearly express interest? I don't understand how you got that conclusion at all. If I was her, that would be me gently turning someone down.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/22 08:34 AM
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I feel like people who don't have relationships regularly are the ones that are making all these strict rules and societal standards that a majority of people don't think about or follow
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/22 07:18 AM
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Ah I see All relationships take work. There may be dry spells due to stress or struggles, but you have to eventually work to keep the spark alive, or you get too comfortable
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/22 04:34 AM
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What's NRE?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/22 04:29 AM
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I don't know where men got the idea that marriage equals no sex 🤣. I wanna rock my man's WORLD! If we dating you better be ready 🤣 take your Flintstones!
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/22 04:28 AM
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Just remember you are not obligated to socialize with anyone you don't want to. If you're not attracted to them, don't match them. You're setting yourself up for more stress when you talk to someone you're not even attracted to. You can't complain about something you have complete control over. No one is making you talk to anyone
/r/seduction24/08/22 04:23 AM
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As a guy, would posting gym clips to Instagram stories come across as too egotistical or douchey? For me personally, yes, but it always depends on context. Are you reaching a personal goal you want to share? Of course I'd love to see it. Are you just lifting weights and staring at yourself in the mirror? No, I don't want to see that.
/r/seduction24/08/22 04:20 AM
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I'll never get tired of sex for as long as I live. Whoever I marry better get ready lol it's gonna be like the sex scene from "A haunted house two" "NO MAS! NO MAS! Baby you gotta train for some shit like this" "Come on Malcom, bells ringing. Time for round four" "No baby, my ding-ding is knocked out cold. I can't do it! The Corners throwing in the towel!" "Let's go Malcom" "I gotta get some enswell if we keep going!" "Malcom!!!" "Wait, no baby!" Gets dragged back to bed by his feet while scream…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/22 04:16 AM
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I'm so glad you said it. People who think this way in general are not mature enough for relationships, which is probably why they're all single virgins and complain about it daily lol Normal people don't think this deeply into fake social dynamics
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/22 04:06 AM
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“holier than thou hoes" YES! If we sleep with a guy we are dating we are a hoe giving up to "every guy" If we don't sleep with a guy we are dating it means we don't love them. We can't win.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/22 04:03 AM
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but the level of emotional importance tied to being allowed to put your peepee in someone’s poopoo who doesn’t want it in there, is getting plain weird. The way you wired this made me laugh so hard 🤣 but it's so true! They're obsessed with anal!
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/22 03:59 AM
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But aren't women doing the same with their Alpha Fucks - Beta Bucks behaviour? No. It's more complicated than two types of personalities or looks. Also, not a single woman I know, nor myself, refers to men like this. This is a thing men made up and assume women think, but we really don't. Usually men are relationship material, FWB/hook up material, or friend. There is so much grey area inbetween, but these are my "categories" for men. There is potential to be moved around depending on their beha…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/22 03:58 AM
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🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/22 03:16 AM
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Uh oh 😬 I'm sure they have support groups for people who suffer from smaller than average sizes 😔
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/22 03:13 AM
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It's ok lol it's hard to remember when you think with your peen
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/22 03:09 AM
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What the heck 🤣 that's not how it works lmfao
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/22 01:55 AM
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I'm sorry she was mean 😭 we're not all bad just because we had bad relationships in the past! LEANRING to move on is so important
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/22 12:36 AM
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I think it depends on how it's brought up and why. I usually like to joke about being divorced when a guy asks what brought me to my town lol, but I don't go into detail if it's a first date. I live in a military town where divorce is pretty common, so me saying it isn't a big deal and can be a common thing to bond over. Ill usually say "oh, you know, fell in love and married the first guy who said hi to me, same as everyone else". It usually makes a good ice breaker and laugh lol. The context i…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/22 12:35 AM
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You do realize women are more than cum dumpsters right?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/22 12:25 AM
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Lmao!
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/22 12:25 AM
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I have been the on-again-off-again mistress to a married man since 2014 and I don't feel bad.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/22 12:24 AM
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Thank you for your candor lol
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/22 12:13 AM
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I think how they address it is important. It's important to know someone's past once you get past a certain point in dating. If you're looking for short term then it's not important and doesn't need to be discussed. But simply talking about their past to be informative (if that's the topic of conversation being discussed) is not concerning. What's concerning is people who think discussing their past is grounds for not talking. How are you supposed to get to know people if we can't talk to you ab…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/22 12:11 AM
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I see nothing wrong with maintaining basic hygiene lol
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/22 11:41 PM
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Agreed! I love that comparison. It's not right to use someone for selfish reasons as if they won't be affected by it, msn or woman
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/22 06:06 PM
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This is the best response ever because I knew there was a reason, I just didn't know how to explain it 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/22 05:43 PM
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Then he needs to rewrite it, but I'm not gonna sit here and talk about this all day lol. He chose to write it this way, all I did was point out that he made it sound like women were ripe for the picking which is not exactly a good phrase to use regarding women in this group. Honestly it's not a good phrase for anyone because it's creepy
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/22 05:09 PM
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Of course people can settle matters if they disagree, it's called healthy communication lol
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/22 04:14 PM
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That doesn't sound healthy or fair They just need to find someone who is compatible for them
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/22 04:03 PM
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What 🤣 why lolololol I think everyone should have sex before a LTR so they can learn how to satisfy someone else
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/22 03:53 PM
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So you chased a woman for her looks and you're mad that she didn't give you more? You already got what you wanted. There could've been 101 reasons why she wasn't interested. Just because it was good for you doesn't mean it was good for her. Maybe she's just the type of girl that's one and done? Maybe you weren't good? Maybe she settled and didn't like it? We will never know 🤷‍♀️ that's what happens when you chase people for superficial reasons, you get a big dose of reality check
/r/seduction23/08/22 03:32 PM
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Make sure you have good social skills or you won't make it past dinner. Nothing is worse than a boring date
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/22 03:24 PM
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Oh for sure, but there's still a personal choice involved. Sometimes things go great and I'll initiate the conversation, it's all situational
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/22 03:23 PM
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This is what happens when you look for misogyny in everything... I don't, I'm actually middle ground when it comes to these types of politics, that's why I'm in this group. Y'all just think all women here hate men and a majority of us don't, sorry to burst your bubble. I'm not the girl you think I am 🤷‍♀️ But you won't change my mind. Stop telling me to read it again, I read it plenty of times. I interpreted it as him saying men are angry at women who were ripe for the picking. You interpreted i…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/22 03:22 PM
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Parks aren't sexy though, you don't normally get privacy and theyre usually pretty well lit or monitored by police at night. A nightime walk on the beach (which is what I originally stated, I never said during the day) can usually ensure privacy and it's pretty dark. They're two different scenarios.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/22 03:18 PM
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Of course not But he was someone that played me and I fell for it (I was young and dumb) lol. His whole goal was just to see if I was easy so he purposely sweet talked me. But I also am not afraid to put out if I feel like it, but I don't like someone being a hypocrite when they directly contributed 🤣. I didn't have sex with myself good sir lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/22 03:15 PM
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A point of view is not a pitfall 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/22 03:12 PM
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It did because it wasn't planned, we just got in the car and went for a drive and I said let's go to the beach
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/22 03:08 PM
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Oh no, I've had guys sleep with me then immediately call me names after wards. "you're the sloot that let me sleep with you" 🤯 excuse me 🤣 that was a two person activity sir! "I only did it to see if you'd let me". 😑 This actually happened to me, someone slept with me just to test if I would, then they proceeded to bash me around our friend group for being easy 😡.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/22 03:07 PM
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So you gotta make yourself look like a male model 🤷‍♀️ if you're gonna be shallow then you better bring more to the table than a nice personality. I wanna be 👏 wined 👏 and 👏 dined by a sexy chad!
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/22 03:05 PM
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Oooooo yes! Gimme that pumpkin spice latte baby! Oh more cream! MORE! almost! Right there!
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/22 03:03 PM
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A walk in the park doesn't scream "building sexual tension" to me. Taking me on a midnight stroll on the beach (I live by the beach) 100% better. We can lay out a blanket and I will suddenly get "chilly" and need to be warmed with your body heat! It just writes itself
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/22 03:02 PM
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But then they get mad that we have a less than desirable number 🙄. Like do you want me to put out or not! If I do, you better not complain!
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/22 03:01 PM
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I don’t know any who randomly pick up women at a coffee shop and have sex in the bathroom sober. Sorry but that imagery cracked me up 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/22 03:00 PM
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29F Being at a bar is the best way to meet men for casual hook ups. I personally never took someone home the first night I met them because I'm scared of STDs, but it is a GREAT place to meet people casually. I would meet someone at the bar and meet up with them a time or two to see if I still liked them, then I would sleep with them lol. A majority of the hook ups I had were while I had been drinking. You can be drunk and still be coherent and consnsent. If you can't stand up, can't walk, can't…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/22 02:59 PM
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Most people are attracted to average looking people. If we were all attracted to models, we would all look like models. So you're looking for a superficial relationship then? Where both of y'all only care about looks and money? Do you have a job? If someone like you is going to be this picky then surely you make 6 figures?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/22 02:51 PM
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But they're not attracted to you, so why try so hard? You're not their type 🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/22 02:49 PM
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I still see no other way to read it, sorry 🤷‍♀️ I don't like the way he worded it. You read it one way, I read it another. In my opinion he compared women to fruit 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/22 02:48 PM
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So you're basing your opinion that all girls love bad boys from the behaviors of a few college aged girls? Seriously? Those girls are away from home and can act however they want for the first time in their lives. Let them live their lives and learn lessons the hard way, that bad boys aren't what they're cracked out to be. It's actually not like the movies where you can change him with sex and your heart and he suddenly becomes the love of your life 🤣 that's just a fantasy
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/22 02:47 PM
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Nope
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/22 02:44 PM
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ghost are badass. HELL YEA BROTHER!
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/22 02:43 PM
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If you ain't committing tax fraud, you ain't the one for me 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/22 02:42 PM
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Does no one realize that there is a middle ground between hot and ugly? There are normal people in the middle who are readily available 🤣 the world is not black and white lol
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/22 02:41 PM
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No, not really. And a lot of women don't like having a man tell us what we love either. Your problem is you're looking to sleep with basic college girls who are superficial. You're clearly not their type so why are you trying to attract them?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/22 02:38 PM
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Your flair cracked me up lol
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/22 02:36 PM
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No, he just worded it as if women are ripe for the picking, so that's how I interpreted it 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/22 02:18 PM
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I think the only time it should matter is if a person wants to stay at home and take care of the house, otherwise it shouldn't be important as long as they can afford their life
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/22 02:17 PM
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And no one said they were, I sure didn't say they were. I'm not sure you said that in my thread 🤔
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/22 12:59 PM
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That's not how it reads at all....
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/22 12:53 PM
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Except your logic falls over when it's almost never guys she just met that are the intimate partners thar do it I'm sorry, but when I get cussed out at the gas station because some random man wanted to hit on me and I turned them down, it makes me scared to drive home because they'll know where I live. I've been followed home before by complete and utter strangers.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/22 12:36 PM
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Even sex without an orgasm can be amazing with the right person for women I'm sorry but if you can't get me off after a certain amount of time I will be EXTREMELY unsatisfied. Sure, we don't have to have an O every time, but that's not an excuse to NOT try. I will make my frustrations known and give recommendations on how to fix it. If there is still a lack of satisfaction after so much time then I will leave. Never assume your partner is happy just because regular sex feels good. Never assume t…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/22 12:32 PM
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Interestingly, when it comes to long term relationships, women seem less likely to be picky about physical standards and more willing to date an uglier guy provided that he satisfies her emotional needs in the relationship. This is false for me. I want who I'm in a LTR to still be attractive. Why would I date someone if I don't think they're attractive?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/22 12:12 PM
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But marriage is also about love and respect, not just sticking it out through hard times for the sake of being married. Also, people change in life, they're not always the same person you originally married. I can say from personal experience that my ex-husband is not the person I thought he was when I married him. I technically could've filed for an annulment because of his rationale for wanting to get married was fraudulent. Being married doesn't mean it's always magical rainbows and butterfli…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/22 11:21 AM
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Lol touché
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/22 11:13 AM
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The fact that you think this means you don't know the history behind DV in marriage, and how it's still legal in a lot of states and countries. Just because people get married doesn't make someone a good husband (or wife, but my focus is on husband's for this argument). Someone's bad habits don't change once they're married. A lot of women aren't choosing certain men because they are humans that deserve to be treated with respect and love. We don't have to settle anymore. Most marriages were peo…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/22 11:05 AM
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feel frustrated toward women who are ripe for the picking Women are not fruit 🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/22 10:54 AM
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When I wasn't in a relationship, I wasn't wasting time looking for hook-ups But that's YOUR value, not someone else's. For me personally, that doesn't make me a red flag because I had fun when I was single and not actively looking for a relatjonship. If I'm in a relationship and still seeking intimacy with other people, sure lol. If I don't have periods where I can be single and happy, sure. But simply being intimate with other people just doesn't scream red flag. But to each their own, being ex…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/22 07:40 PM
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Really? Because you called me a red flag without knowing anything except that I have a promiscuous past lol. That's fairly shallow
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/22 07:26 PM
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That's absolutely how you came off lol Please remember that having high standards for shallow reasons doesn't mean you'll have a more successful relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/22 07:16 PM
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Nah, it doesn't, because it means I'm very capable of finding a long term relationship 🥰. So IDC if I'm a walking red flag to you, someone as judgemental as you wouldnt be my type anyways
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/22 07:08 PM
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I didn't date dozens of men, I slept with dozens for fun when I wasn't looking for a serious relationship 🥰. And my method for loving for partners worked VERY well. As for dating, I didn't have as many boyfriends while I was younger because I had issues and didn't know how to maintain a relationship. As I got older I sought mental health help and each relationship I had lasted longer until I eventually got married 🤯. I am currently separated for issues that were not related to my sex life, and n…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/22 06:57 PM
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I don't refuse to date/sleep with anyone just because of a number or what their sexual past is like. If they are frequent fliers than I'll always recommend protection if they don't want to get tested. If they refuse both then I won't sleep with them. I always offer to get tested if someone wants to sleep with me. What they did in the past doesn't affect me and it's none of my business. If we start dating then I like to know if there's a history of infidelity or crazy kinks so we can be on the sa…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/22 08:00 PM
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I think most girls would probably call the police and be like “there is a naked man in my bed” Hey! I'd this is a daydream then that means I want him there! If I walked in and say that I would definitely be like "omg is it my birthday 😀" 🤣
/r/seduction20/08/22 06:30 PM
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A little more xtreme example: If i were to walk into my house and just happened to find a hot woman face down ass up i would clap her cheeks. No I think a lot of people would if we knew there would be no negative consequences (STDs, rumors, degradation etc) But imagine you walked in on a hot guy laying down his hard dck is out would you still clap? If it was my ideal hot guy and he has a smirk, then yes, yes I would, no questions asked 🤣 I've always been more open with my sexuality, so that's ju…
/r/seduction20/08/22 06:25 PM
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I really hope you're trolling 🤣
/r/seduction20/08/22 05:47 PM
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Well unfortunately I am a woman and happen to love sex, so you're already wrong 🤣
/r/seduction20/08/22 05:20 PM
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You can learn a lot from the right videos!!! Mine always watched the fake stuff 🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/22 03:56 PM
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Lol believe what you want. Have a nice day thinking you know everything even though you're 100% wrong 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/22 03:51 PM
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I used to tell my ex this too, that I'm very easy to get off, but it was like he didn't know how to touch a real woman and he didn't like me giving direction 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/22 03:47 PM
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No, I'm a woman and you're wrong. Chemistry: maybe, depends on the situation. I've slept with plenty of people in situations where we get sparked from literally nothing significant lol Emotional connection: no We aren't dating, we're trying to slap each other's cheeks. I don't need to be emotionally connected to take you home, just don't be a douche lol. But hey, sometimes it feels good to hate fuck your enemy 😈
/r/seduction20/08/22 03:18 PM
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My cats name is Satan 👀. Is this his secret social media account? The username would check out since he is a psychopath at night time 👀
/r/seduction20/08/22 03:12 PM
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Emotional connection could be as simple as forming chemistry. But not every woman wants chemistry 🤷‍♀️ some legit just want to get laid 🤣
/r/seduction20/08/22 03:07 PM
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Ah ok, so all the other hospitals I asked were being difficult for no reason? Got it lol. I've tried getting this done at three separate hospitals and they each one said I wasn't old enough, needed mental health counseling first, or said they would reconsider after a year or two. But I guess I just made up those scenarios right? And no, none of the ones I went to were Catholic hospitals. I am well aware they have stricter criteria due to religious beliefs. The ones I went to were very public, so…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/22 03:04 PM
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Many hospitals don't cite it for religious reasons, but they still do it 🤷‍♀️. Also, some doctors have ridiculous criteria, like they'll only do it for women who already have kids, they won't do it if you're under 30, they won't do it if you're in perfectly good health etc. And the hospitals will back them up on that decision. So not only do some hospitals deny you if you don't have spousal consent, then you have other hospitals that will deny you because you don't meet candidate criteria. They …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/22 02:52 PM
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If it was illegal, more hospitals wouldn't require it 🤷‍♀️. You may think it's illegal, that doesn't mean it is. And yes, it did happen. Go read up on how many hospitals require a husband's consent for a wife to get sterilized, it's astronomical. This hospital asked for her dad since she was single
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/22 02:35 PM
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You do realize that's how those studies are done? They're just surveys, which is all subjective information, none of it can be proven since it's by word of mouth. So I personally don't trust those studies. Have a nice day!
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/22 02:16 PM
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I'd love to show you her FB message where she showed me her consent form, but that would be a violation of her privacy. We live in the south and the hospital requires her to get a male family members approval in order to get it done (usually a husband/BF). Just because you don't believe it, doesn't mean it doesn't happen to some women.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/22 02:11 PM
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I'll take that as a "Yes", have a good day. Good luck making relationships work when you don't know how to listen and read.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/22 02:03 PM
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The quadratic formula?
/r/seduction20/08/22 01:56 PM
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Lmfao ok
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/22 01:53 PM
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That's not what I said at all, what I said was we have control over our reactions to some degree. Have you never been so angry you just snapped or popped off? The same goes for a woman on per period or PMSing. Her hormones are going up and down to adjust to changes during her period. During this time it can be really easy to get upset. I'm not saying it's ok to scream at someone, but people snap and get moody, it's not their fault for being moody, but their response to being moody is their respo…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/22 01:52 PM
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There is if they have a doctors approval to be off for a few days. Their job has to accept it and give her PTO during those days. You cannot reprimand someone for being sick
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/22 01:47 PM
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So out of everything I said, about how those studies are subjective and not objective, that's the only thing you took out of it?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/22 01:45 PM
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Nothing, but they needed a man's approval to make sure she was doing the right thing lol. A lot of hospitals require a man's approval for a woman to get sterilized
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/22 01:44 PM
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Ew, how do you expect to get better in bed if you're always doing the same thing?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/22 01:40 PM
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That is 100% false. Like I said, we can control our response to a degree, but we cannot control mood swings. Mood swings are a result of fluctuating hormones, which is not in our control. The brain tells the body "hey, it's period time" we literally have no control over that. Horniness is completely different, you can calm yourself down in a minute and be fine. Horniness doesn't last for days, it lasts either until you calm yourself down or get off. Just don’t be a bitch with your words and acti…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/22 01:35 PM
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You're not their type? You're not making yourself sexually appealing? They don't like your personality? The list could go on and on. But the biggest one is your probably not their type
/r/seduction20/08/22 01:32 PM
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If a woman starts giving orders during sex, yeah -- it's a turnoff I'm sorry, I wasn't "giving orders" I was telling him how to pleasure me. I would tell him what he's doing didn't feel good, and what to do to make it feel good for me, but he didn't want to do any of it and would say "well this always worked for every other girl I was with". No one is perfect in bed and everyone needs something different to get off. No two people get off with the same stimulation. Any mature adult is well aware …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/22 01:23 PM
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Yes, but that study doesn't account for everyone, that's why I gave that disclaimer. People with a sexual past don't cheat as often as you'd think. Also, it's hard to prove statistics when people could easily lie on those surveys. Anyone can say they never cheated, and there's no way to prove they're telling the truth 🤷‍♀️. There's no way to get accurate data from a survey. You can prove statistics for physical things, like kab tests and medication trials, but for personal anecdotes, it's almost…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/22 01:17 PM
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What are you 12 and never worked before?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/22 01:05 PM
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Bruh ..... Did you even read the page? "The Americans with Disabilities Act of 1990 (ADA) makes it unlawful to discriminate in employment against a qualified individual with a disability. The ADA also outlaws discrimination against individuals with disabilities in State and local government services, public accommodations, transportation and telecommunications. This booklet explains the part of the ADA that prohibits job discrimination. This part of the law is enforced by the U.S. Equal Employme…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/22 01:03 PM
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No, they have a whole sub of men clearly advertising they don't know squat about women's anatomy. The page was made to show how bad sex education is in most schools, or the lack of willing to learn with all the resources available on the internet. It's also funny to see how bad some people are at the anatomy of something so simple 🤣. I haven't seen a single post on that sub where someone made fun of penis size after a man showed he was incorrect about women's anatomy. The only butthurt person he…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/22 12:59 PM
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Because that's literally illegal and they can be sued for that in the blink of an eye, and they WILL lose. Do you not know anything about job hiring? A company has a legal responsibility to accommodate disabilities if that candidate is the best fit for their company. You cannot under any circumstance deny someone due to a disability or you're gonna pay a hell of a lot of money in legal fees in court. https://www.eeoc.gov/publications/ada-your-employment-rights-individual-disability#:~:text=The%2…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/22 12:53 PM
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That's my point. Someone can tell you one thing and be the complete opposite behind your back. Even the most pure of pure people can be devious. Look at religious folk, a majority wait till marriage and don't have a past, yet look at how many sex scandals they have. You can't assume someone will be faithful just because you're their first partner, temptation is everywhere and no one is immune to it. In my mind, and this is strictly my own logic and personal experience, people who haven't been ad…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/22 12:49 PM
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Aw, did you called out for not knowing a woman's anatomy? 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/22 12:35 PM
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Lmfao! I love this
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/22 12:34 PM
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I've only ever been called the N word with the hard R by other black people 🤷‍♀️. I'll never understand that backwards logic, and I'll certainly never forget how many of my black co workers don't agree with me dating outside my race. I've never had someone tell me to break up with my white boyfriend and get me a strong black man besides other black people. No race is perfect, so no race should act like they're "no fault".
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/22 12:29 PM
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That's discriminatory though, so it wouldn't be legal. Some women get doctors approval to stay home during rough period days. You can't deny someone who has any other disability and may need time off work, some periods are literally debilitating. Not all, some.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/22 12:25 PM
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Lol I was gonna quote this 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/22 12:22 PM
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Yes 🥰
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/22 12:20 PM
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Good luck getting that done in most states if you're unmarried. My friend had to get her father's consent and she's 28
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/22 12:19 PM
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Hello
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/22 12:18 PM
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After working in the medical field and seeing how many "loyal loving spouses" gave their partners STDs, I can assure you, there is not causation, just correlation lol
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/22 12:17 PM
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And I agree, I know I needed it. My period pain would be intense, I'd have to hold in crying at just about anything, and I would bleed through my period products quickly in the first few days. It was not a fun time. Three days off would've been heavenly
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/22 12:14 PM
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Why do we accept the effects estrogen have on women, such as mood swings, decreases sex drive, PMS etc Because those are things we can't control. We can control our reactions to things to a degree, but until you've experienced mood swings due to hormones, it can be hard to understand. My mood swings would be so bad I would act like a pregnant woman. Im not trying to justify it, it's the truth. I would always warn my boyfriend's, and I would say "please, PLEASE be patient with me, it's not easy f…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/22 12:06 PM
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It took 7 years for your wife to do that? Is everything ok with y'all?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/22 11:51 AM
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I guess 🙄🤣 I just want to go back to sleep 😭 I'm all warm and cozy and they came screaming like it was the end of the world lol
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/22 11:43 AM
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They'll say anything to avoid being with someone with a sexual past and feel self righteous about it lol
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/22 11:42 AM
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Correlation does not equal causation. The manner in why someone has a high number is important, not the number itself.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/22 11:41 AM
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I married a guy who secretly didn't like my sexual history (I didn't find out until after we were married) and would always use it against me in arguments. It's degrading and immoral. It's literally just a number, that's it. and are concerned that they won't measure up. This is a fact. My ex husband ALWAYS complained in bed. I would tell him how to change his technique to satisfy me because he failed to get me off all the time, he would complain "I can't do that, I'm not like those other guys yo…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/22 11:40 AM
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Being a good guy doesn't make you less hot. Good men are hotter than the average "hot" guy because they got their life in order AND they're attractive. It's sexy AF! So just because a woman settles down with someone, it's not because he's not good looking. I don't want to spend the rest of my life with someone I don't find attractive 🤣. If we're gonna die together I better be attracted to you lol
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/22 11:25 AM
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Justifying getting laid by saying "it's ok, it's not my relationship" is a bit messed up. Granted, I've been a mistress before, so I sound like a hypocrite, but that would make me an expert in the field 🤣. There is something morally wrong with it, you just choose whether or not to believe that in your head. When I was a mistress, I knew it was wrong, I just didn't care. You cannot say it's ok, because someone is cheating, you're helping someone cheat. I also never wanted to date the guy, just wa…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/22 11:20 AM
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Good morning! My cats woke me up at an ungodly hour of 0700 and it's practically illegal on a Saturday 😭. I'm going on a battleship ghost tour tonight though and I'm pretty excited
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/22 11:11 AM
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Anyone who believes amber has screws loose in my opinion lol. There was so much evidence pointing against her 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/22 11:09 AM
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should she disregard school & work and find the highest quality man then marry him? You can't do that, the men in here will be mad at you for chasing money 🤣 It's lose/lose for us women in this group. Nothing we do is right. If we don't live life the way they like or find acceptable we are 🤷‍♀️ I've chosen to do what's best for me and disregard anyone who is unhappy with that
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/22 05:19 PM
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This group takes a toll on me mentally when I stay in it too long 🤣 it's like a black hole and SUCKS you in and you can't escape 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/22 04:27 PM
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I used to when I was younger, but not anymore. There's nothing to envy, I like my life the way it is finally ☺️
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/22 03:19 PM
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I agree with this, not all age gaps are created equal, but the things you listed are extreme red flag behaviors in age gap relationships
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/22 02:37 PM
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Don't call me "dear", I did not give you permission to call me that. Did you even click on the link in the article from jezebel dear? This still isn't an article from an academic journal, it's a website called "Tech Guru Daily". They still never cited their source of info. If this were for a collage paper your source would be thrown out as 'not credible'. Please find an actual academic journal that cites the source from medical professionals. I'm not going to listen to medical info posted on a t…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/22 02:18 PM
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also, the article is talking about how semen can possibly trigger ovulation (to aid in reproduction) in some (not all ) mammalian species. where on earth did you get the idea that semen controls a woman's mind? Did you even read your own source? Also, this just proves you are not a college educated man, and that you therefore must be uneducated, because any person with a real education knows that you can't trust online articles that are not from a medical journal because their information is cra…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/22 01:58 PM
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Yeah we're done here We've been done lol. Don't try to act high and mighty because multiple people called your sources BS
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/22 01:50 PM
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I don't trust your sources, sorry. They are unreliable
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/22 01:50 PM
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Most men treat us like garbage just because of the number. They don't even want to hear why we are the way we are. Then I realize I can put my phone down, go outside, and no one in a real life setting actually cares as much as these men do. I can have a healthy social life surrounded by people who don't judge me because they aren't insecure enough to actually care about it lol. But this group is supposed to be about debating, not spouting rude "facts" about why men hate women because of their la…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/22 01:47 PM
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Assumption. Got it lol
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/22 01:37 PM
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Yes because now you have to disprove the science in which semen controls the woman's brain and with that in mind The fact that you even believe this is possible is comical. Please tell me sir, how many women have you been able to mind control with your semen? How many women have been lucky enough to experience your magical semen? Do we get a hive mentality and lifelong love for our creators? How come I haven't been able to be control mmby a man's semen in the past? 🤣 Are you 12 or something? You…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/22 01:37 PM
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Someone already explained to you the issues with your articles, please refer back to those comments instead of acting high and mighty like you really did something here. Semen is not a mind altering drug. These numbers that you're talking about are SO MINISCULE that it is hard to prove if it's woman wide or just this small group that was tested. Your articles said MIGHT, not WILL. It is not a proven fact. Please relax 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/22 01:35 PM
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At some point that "insecurity" crosses over into her legitimate lack of trustworthiness Actually, no. Your insecurities are your issue to work on if that woman never did anything to you within your relationship. God you sound like my ex husband. He always accused me of cheating for letting other men be nice to me, he did like me putting on make up or dressing nice. If I got mad and went out for a drive (something I often do, even when I'm not mad, I love the scenery here) he still accused me of…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/22 01:33 PM
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And ......and you really think you did something here?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/22 01:20 PM
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About FLIES lmao 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/22 01:20 PM
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I see your point though, with differentiating between people who are safe and people who are completely careless. I worked in the medical field and it completely changed my behavior when I saw how quickly STDs spread 🤢 everyone and their mom was coming in to get tested. Although I will say, some people thought they could trust their partners, so it wasn't always their fault. I felt so bad for some patients
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/22 04:24 AM
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For me personally, I just don't like the feeling of being judged just on the number. A lot of guys here clearly don't like how high it is lol. But they're assuming it got that high due to reckless behavior, but that's not true. Being unsafe is completely different than what some of us have done
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/22 04:23 AM
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But that's the thing, everyone has a different definition 🤷‍♀️ by almost everyone's standard in here, I am a hoe. But am I really? I will be faithful and honest and loving. But my number seems to piss off a lot of men in here 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/22 02:25 AM
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Aw that's actually nice to say 🥰 I won't say you're flat out wrong, I just don't agree. Being promiscuous doesn't mean you're good in bed. The ability to learn and use the skills you've learned makes you good in bed. Women deserve the same pleasures a man has, and if a guy isn't willing to adapt then why should we settle?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/22 02:18 AM
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You misquoted me, I said a majority of guys seem to think that. Did you see the answers some people put for what they deem as acceptable? It's ridiculous lol. So just saying a woman who is a hoe is undateable doesn't seem logical, because everyone has a wildly different opinion on what that word means. But a good woman, regardless of her past will let you know you're enough. But we can't fix each other's insecurities
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/22 02:16 AM
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I mean I called you a hypocrite that clearly means I don't agree with what you've said at all. How is that not a response? Hmm? I'm literally responding to what you're saying lol
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/22 02:07 AM
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Here's some attention for you hun 🥰😘✨🌈✨🌈✨
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/22 02:06 AM
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So how many women have you successfully given orgasms to since you think men are such studs, you must be one yourself right?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/22 02:04 AM
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Omg you're serious 🤣 you're such a hypocrite lmao. A promiscuous man is no better than a promiscuous woman, you cannot change my mind.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/22 02:01 AM
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Please tell me you're joking 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/22 02:00 AM
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But from the responses I've seen on these posts, any woman is a hoe if she's not a virgin. So just saying that a guy shouldn't get in a relationship with a hoe is unrealistic because of the ridiculous standard that men have in this group. So if you're not self-confident, you're going to keep having issues in your relationships like this. A confident man won't even question a woman's past because he won't care. Confident people don't care about someone else's past because they know it doesn't mat…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/22 01:59 AM
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Lmfao! After we separated he told me that he got another girl pregnant, and was relieved when she miscarried. He couldn't even last a few months without knocking somebody up. Yet here I am comfortable, happy, peaceful, relaxed with my three cats and not having pregnancy scares LOL. I've started going out more to the social scene in my town and it's so relieving to have a fresh start again
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/22 01:51 AM
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So you have a double standard then?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/22 01:50 AM
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Would you say the same thing about a promiscuous man?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/22 01:49 AM
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If a guy is constantly worried about those things, then that means he needs to go do some self-love exercise, and not take that out on the woman he's dating. It's not her fault that he feels inadequate. That's a self-esteem issue that he needs to improve on for himself. Also, if he's so worried about her being unfaithful, that shows that he didn't put in the effort to trust her. There are a lot of women that have promiscuous past that get labeled as cheaters before anything even happens. They're…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/22 01:48 AM
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An experienced women is more likely to judge their performance on a realistic scale, This was a point I made on my own comment. Now I know what I like in bed, and I know what it takes to have good sex in bed. If I had stayed with the guy that I lost my virginity to, I would be having terrible sex for the rest of my life. I didn't have a PIV orgasm until I slept with guy #5!!!! FIVE! Four other guys failed to help me achieve this! I literally thought I was dying because of how intense it was lol.…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/22 01:44 AM
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🥇 take this!!!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/22 01:38 AM
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My ex-husband was more promiscuous than I was, but when we got an arguments he would always call me derogatory names because of my sexual history. It was so hypocritical and I called him out on it all the time, but he never wanted to accept it. It was completely unfair and messed with my mind for a while.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/22 01:38 AM
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i have options and i don’t need to impose your more lax standards onto myself as my dating pool is already large enough I never once said you needed to relax your standards. And I've slept with two guys in the last 18 months, how are my standards lax? Please explain? I have options if you were in my boat you’d do the same. Oh, there are plenty of options in my area, like I said, it's a military town with sexy Marines everywhere. So again, you're assuming I have low or no standards for myself whi…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/22 01:34 AM
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Your flair made me cackle 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/22 01:30 AM
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29F, I am a veteran so I got the luxury to move around a lot and meet men from all over the country Sex is about chemistry and companionship. It can be used as a source of comfort, it brings people together, it's fun, it's messy, it's loud, it's quiet, it's gentle and rough. It can be all types of things. It's not just chasing an orgasm I love experiencing sex with someone new. It's so exciting! Getting to know someone intimately for the first few times is such a thrill to me. What type of lover…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/22 01:22 AM
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I love how a man is trying to tell me how easy it is to find a man, although he himself is single and has unattainable standards. "If you jump from relationship to relationship, that's a red flag. If you can't be single without having a hoe phase, that's a red flag. If you can't be in a long-term relationship for more than a year, that's a red flag" You do realize some of this is outlandish? How is it my fault if a relationship doesn't last a year? A relationship consists of two people, not just…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/22 12:54 AM
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So you're saying women can't experience post nut clarity? Do you have a source or is that just your assumption? A lot of what I read in your comment is just sexist BS men use to shame women who are no longer virgins
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/22 12:48 AM
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The ability carry one child at a time doesn't make a woman monogamous, it just means she can only carry one child at a time. She can still sleep with whoever she wants before, during, or after the baby because humans are not hard wired to pair bond.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/22 12:46 AM
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You did not just use an alpha term on a thread and expect me to take you seriously. Say psych right now
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/22 12:45 AM
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Hedonism! Yea! 🤜🤛
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/22 12:34 AM
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So you are single due to your own strict criteria then. Some of those things I can totally understand, but it sounds like your standards are too high for anyone to possibly achieve them
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/22 12:33 AM
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Bruh I read your original comment, you basically said everything is a red flag 🤣 Is she breathing? Red flag Wearing red panties? Red flag Rolls towels instead of folds them? Red flag lol
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/22 12:32 AM
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but when dating them it is generally easy to spot the obviously bad individuals. You never met my soon to be ex husband then. Some people are expert liars and manipulative. You're blaming the victim for not knowing she's being manipulated? Sometimes it's not so clear cut like it is on TV. A huge can of worms opened up AFTER I married him. Just like my ex fiance. He showed his true colors only after we got into a serious relationship. And you can say I was blinded by love all you want, even our f…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/22 12:25 AM
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I don't live in a big city, not everyone liked big cities, it's a Marine town 🤢 so I unfortunately will not be dipping my feet into the dating pool here willingly. If I meet someone organically and they prove they're not a typical marine, then sure! But I'm prior navy and know a lot of military guys are not my type for a reason. They have low morals. So I was only asking about your looks because you had strict standards for a woman's sexual history. A woman's past does not determine the type of …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/22 12:19 AM
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I never once said I didn't have a relationship for ten years though. I'm still not sure where you got that number from. Are you a walking red flag? Are you? Just because you had two LTR relationships doesn't mean they were good or successful. There are people who stay married for 20 years and get divorced, does that mean they did a good job since it was a long time? Oh I'm ok with different mindsets as long as they're logical. You don't seem to have shown any logical reasoning behind your standa…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/22 12:11 AM
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But you don't know until you try 🤔. Also, who said anything about not having a relationship for ten years? Also, we don't know why someone didn't have one for so long, that's why you need to communicate and talk to them. Get to know them. Also, Why does ten years matter? Also, you still haven't given me your physical description or financial status lol 🤣. Like I said, a man with such high standards should be the picture of perfection right?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/22 12:05 AM
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Also you dodged my questions good sir. If you have such high expectations that I assume you're a male model from Italy 🤔
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/22 12:03 AM
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Why are you assuming I'm butthurt? You seem to have a knack for that, assuming lol
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/22 12:02 AM
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i’m going to assume you are the problem not everyone else. But you can't do that, you don't know the history behind someone's past. That's an extremely shallow thing to do
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 11:55 PM
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And how can someone expect you to be a good partner if you've only had two relationships and are sexually inexperienced? Are you in a current relationship? Whats your financial status? If you're gonna judge me based off my sexual past then you better be making six figures and look like Jason Momoa 🤣. Also, how tall are you? What's your weight? How big is your D? What's your stroke game like?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 11:54 PM
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How old are you and how many girl friends have you had in your life? How many LTR? How many sexual partners? With such strict criteria, I'm sure you must be so successful right? You found your perfect, loving, doting, virginal wife who gave you three kids and y'all have a puppy?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 11:37 PM
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Your comment screams ignorance and inexperienced......like wow
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 11:34 PM
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no amount of what she can offer will ever compensate for the damaged pair-bonding and lack of novelty in the relationship. But you're self sabotaging by having such strict criteria. Your never gonna find someone who fits this mold exactly, and then you'll be mad at women for this, and not yourself for being so strict. I don't know a single woman who would meet this criteria. Also, having a past doesnt affect someone's ability to connect with someone in the future. Also, we are not like other ani…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 11:23 PM
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Not spectacularly That's all the info I needed to know 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 11:17 PM
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How is it a red flag that we haven't found someone to be in a LTR with? Maybe we just haven't met the right person? (I personally have had two, but still) how is that a red flag? You don't know the circumstances on why someone did or didn't have them. Most guys I dated in the past were trash and a water of time. I'm not gonna force something to work that isn't working. I can't predict what type of bf someone will be a year from now 🤷‍♀️.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 11:17 PM
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I always say that people who care about a number are insecure. They don't think they're enough so they need to shame the woman for their insecurity. It's extremely immature and contributing to why they're single I only have one guy in my past care about my number, no one else even bothered to ask, we were too busy building connections like real people
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 11:14 PM
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How come you don't care about women are are 35+? Are they just old cattle ready to be brought back like ole yeller?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 11:10 PM
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Dude stop 🤣 you sound absolutely ridiculous right now 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 11:09 PM
2

What in the name of all that is holy did I just read 😨🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 11:08 PM
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I am a past whore according to the numbers these men suggested, but now that I'm separated I need to pump those numbers up. Those were rookie numbers. In fact, I wanna go higher just so disgusting men like this aren't attracted to me. Although in my real life, only one man had an issue with my past and that was it. No one else actually cared enough to ask lolm it's something in my opinion only immature people care about.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 11:05 PM
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Source or assumption?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 11:01 PM
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One thing I learned is that a high number doesn't equate to skill (either that or some guys lied about their number). A majority of the men I slept with weren't good in bed, and some said they had numbers in the 60s. How can you be with 60 women and still not know how to pleasure one? Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 11:01 PM
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I think anyone concerned about a number is just insecure with themselves. So much research has shown that more sex doesn't change a woman's body. Why does someone need to know what I did in my past as long as I'm healthy? You know? Clearly I chose you which means (hopefully) my standards are rising. How does anything I did in the past affect our relationship? I simply don't get it. My ex husband always degraded me during arguments and used my past to gain leverage to try to win arguments. It was…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 10:58 PM
2

Your comment made me nauseous 🤢
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 10:52 PM
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The problem is, y'all think we are going around and sleeping with random strangers off the street, a majority of women don't do that. I like to meet people and hang out with them before I sleep with them. I'm not standing on a corner and taking home the first guy who smiles at me. Also, I don't get why there's a negative stigma with women who have casual sex while they wait to get their life in order before settling down. Why is that such a problem for men? I personally don't have impulse issues…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 10:50 PM
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Agreed. It's no one's business and you never know if they're telling the truth. I could say 5 and there's no way for you to know the difference lol. I could say 30 and there's no way to prove it. The number is just like virginity, a social construct to degrade someone
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 10:43 PM
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What's annoying is these guys with a body count if 0-5 complain how no women will sleep with them, but they call women hoes if she has any previous sexual experience. It's a total double standard "She gets 5 dates and I'm out if she doesnt put out" "She let me sleep with her in the first date, but must be a hoe" Like wtf 🤯
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 10:42 PM
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🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 10:39 PM
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Can't sex life be improved over time? I'm separated for my ex husband's lack of enthusiasm in the bedroom. I made an assumption that things would get better with time, but over the course of three years they actually got worse. If you can't get your shit together in three years then that's on you. Good sex is an important part of a healthy relationship. Anyone who has had good sex knows how important it is. I will never settle with someone who doesn't satisfy me in bed, I can't, it's unfair and …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 10:23 PM
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Why does any of this matter? Why are women being reduced to a number? This feels so degrading because I have a past. So to y'all I'm just suddenly not a good person? What if we had amazing chemistry? You'd break things off with someone like me for something as trivial as a number? Guys always complain about being single yet don't count certain women because of age or a number. I'll never understand this logic. How can people constantly complain about being single while actively working on pushin…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 10:18 PM
1

Oh Christ 🤢
/r/seduction16/08/22 08:47 PM
1

So you get to dictate what's a relationship because????? You don't know me or those people. Friends call, text, watch movies together 🤣. My friends give me presents on special occasions and I give them some when I can. You are not the decider if something is FWB or dating. Only the people involved can. All FWB relationships are different
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 08:46 PM
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Same, I don't bathe daily unless it summer or I was out all day doing something. BO is just a huge turn off. I've dated guys with horrible hygiene and can't go back, I can't unsmell
/r/seduction16/08/22 08:30 PM
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Similar to most women these days, if my standards aren’t met I’ll just stay single Then that would make you a hypocrite. Well obviously no, you are not an “old hag”, but in the dating world, that age is getting to the point where it could be a light red flag. I would be curious why a woman is still single at that point since it’s so easy for you guys to get into a relationship How come you get to choose to stay single without question but I can't? There's a reason I'm single right now, and it's …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 08:25 PM
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I am a woman, yes lol. I don't always like eating ass, but if the opportunity presents itself I would prefer a freshly showered one 🤣. Everything else is usually fine if you shower regularly, but I'm not a "hit it after the gym" type of girl, that's too much for me. The person doesn't have to smell like roses either, just don't smell bad
/r/seduction16/08/22 07:59 PM
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No, I'm sorry but you don't get to dictate the terms of my relationships. We were not dating, we were enjoying each other's time without a deep emotional connection. If one of us found someone they wanted to date, we could break things off and there would be no hurt feelings. We were allowed to date other people and explore other options if we wanted to. I don't thinks bf/gf would be happy to know their so wants to break things off to date someone else 🤣 Things were exclusive for sex but that wa…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 07:55 PM
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NOOOOOOO lololololol I cannot relate 🤣 I did date a guy who wanted me most after I worked out at the gym 🤢. I was more grossed out than he was, but he was like "there's something about a well seasoned vagina that just turns me on" 🤣 he was so adorable about it lol
/r/seduction16/08/22 06:20 PM
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A. Why does it matter how old she is? Am I suddenly an old hag for being 29? My Fetlife profile shows that plenty of people are still very interested in seeing my body even though I'm not 22 and super skinny 🤣 B. Why does the number of men she's slept with matter? By the time I was 23 I had already slept with like 15-20 guys Again, if I'm clean, why does it bother you so much if I've slept with a lot of people? Also, if you're gonna be so judgemental of women with a higher body count, you can't …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 05:41 PM
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Someone else commented that a woman with a high body count gives it to any guy on the street. And I said no, we choose every person we sleep with. I've only met a few people who got black out drunk and slept with random people. Those people were what we called alcoholics lol. So if you're not an alcoholic, you're usually aware enough of who you sleep with to say yes or no. And even then, the occasionally black out does happen to some people, but it's not the end of the world to have a slip up. B…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 05:24 PM
1

Oh no, everything I lick better be spotless, especially butts
/r/seduction16/08/22 05:04 PM
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Actually that couldn't be further from the truth People who aren't getting sex from the girl they want think that's what we do, but we don't. I've only ever been called names or such by people I didn't sleep with 🧐. Anyone I slept with had no issue or didn't called me names for what I did. We don't have impulse issues by having sex with people we are in relationships with or FWBs with. If I come clean on an STD test then it's no concern of someone else what I did in my past. Sex is not less impo…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 04:54 PM
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Are you really comparing DA and SA to you not getting a second date? Seriously? Insensitive much?
/r/seduction16/08/22 11:57 AM
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I'm still awake but good morning 🥰
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 11:28 AM
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I have no idea what you're trying to say....
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 11:05 AM
1

......sure bud
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 11:03 AM
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I mean Google is a real thing, and you can find any paper to back up your POV. I can show you papers if I find them later (anyone who knows anything about research knows it takes hours and it's 7 am here so I'm not doing that) but that doesn't mean you'll take into account anything I find. So if you're so interested in learning about human mating and interactions go check the library yourself. There's plenty of studies done that show humans interact differently than other animals in much more co…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 10:59 AM
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I'm aware of the mindset, I just disagree and science disagrees too. We are not objects and we are not our traits. Humans are more complex than other animals in that regard. There's more to dating than looks and financial status
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 10:52 AM
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Y'all need to go outside This same question/comment gets posted AT LEAST once a day and none of y'all take any of the advice we give
/r/seduction16/08/22 10:51 AM
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I'm actually not an object, I'm quite human so you're already wrong lol
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 10:49 AM
1

Lmao what does it rhyme with? Can you substitute a letter with an asterisk?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 10:37 AM
1

Huh?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 10:36 AM
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yes I have eaten ass and licked feet before. All of which were clean and free of copious amounts of saliva
/r/seduction16/08/22 10:36 AM
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The issue I'm seeing is you haven't developed yourself enough to know what you want. All the answers I read were generic and vague. Nothing stands out as something unique. Almost everyone wants to travel or eat at nice restaurants, what is it you want out of life specifically? My list would look like this: I would prefer a guy in his early to mid 30s with a stable and reliable career that pays the bills with enough extra to save for trips or frivolous spending periodically. I would ideally like …
/r/seduction16/08/22 10:35 AM
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It doesn't even sound like you know what type of guy you're attracted to.
/r/seduction16/08/22 10:17 AM
1

C word?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 10:11 AM
2

That is absolutely disgusting. There's no justification, that's just gross I'll stick with BDSM like a normal person
/r/seduction16/08/22 09:40 AM
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You drink their spit, breathe in their breaths and lick every crevice of their mouth? 🤢
/r/seduction16/08/22 09:11 AM
2

Oh no 🤣
/r/seduction16/08/22 08:30 AM
0

Bro WHAT!? Lmfao 🤣 Tell me you're jealous without telling me 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 08:09 AM
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How the HELL do you sleep with 14 different people by the time you're 19? It's not hard to have sex with people lol When I graduated HS I had already slept with 8 or so people. When I met my ex fiance at 19, he was number 10. It only takes a few minute to sleep with someone, sometimes shorter if they're really bad in bed 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 08:08 AM
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You gotta pump those numbers up, those are rookie numbers
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 08:03 AM
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More like the only man of 30 willing to commit lol Not every guy we sleep with has to end up in a relationship. I didn't bang 30 dudes to find a husband. I banged 30 dudes to have fun. I CHOSE not to be in committed relationships. What don't guys understand about that? Being single was a CHOICE. When I was ready to settle down, I found someone who wanted the same thing. When I wanted a fuck buddy, I found someone for that. Life is about finding someone with the same goals as you. I didn't assume…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 08:01 AM
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I already reported it for going against CMV and Incel regulations I haven't seen him discuss with anyone. He's stating his opinion as fact and isn't looking for his mind to be changed.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 07:55 AM
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OP is saying women are damaged goods if they're not virgins, he is slut shaming anyone who isn't a virgin. He's mad that a woman had the audacity to sleep with tiher men before she met him (hypothetical him)
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 07:51 AM
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They always demonize women in this group in order to feel bad for the way their love life has gone
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 07:50 AM
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Imagine comparing women to objects and expecting people in the comments to agree with you Women. Are. Not. Objects. We are humans who are not damaged goods if we aren't virgins. Stop slut shaming women because you weren't the first one to sleep with her.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 07:48 AM
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.......have you ever kissed someone before? Because it doesn't sound like you have 🤢 kissing me like that would make me gag. Please tell me this is satire 🤣 Say psych right now
/r/seduction16/08/22 07:18 AM
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Some people have different likes and dislikes for kissing. I don't like tongue. A little tickle is fine, but I honestly hate feeling spit while kissing Honestly, you just have to practice with someone. You need to practice moving your lips with theirs while not doing anything crazy. To me, the best kissers have soft lips that feel nice and relaxed while we kiss. Some people's lips tense up so much, or they focus too hard on making a pucker movement with their lips that they forget to kiss back. …
/r/seduction16/08/22 07:15 AM
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You have to take into consideration that she might've dropped hints and you missed your window. Unless she REALLY likes you, be prepared for her not to be interested anymore. There is such a thing as going too slow. For me personally, I'll break the touch barrier myself, and if the guy isn't into it then that's my hint he isn't interested in taking things further. Maybe she tried already and you didn't reciprocate?
/r/seduction16/08/22 06:53 AM
1

Aw that's cute, I like relationships like that. Where it can be casual and work out so well! As for me, thankfully I don't see him often so I don't feel AS guilty...
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 05:39 AM
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I feel shitty saying this but he's married 😬 but like......it's been going on for so long it doesn't bother either of us 😬. He was cheating on her with me when they dated, we were sleeping together before they dated. It's really fucked up 🤣. When I get a bf I tell him I don't wanna hook up, and he pouts but accepts it. But idk, I'm in the mindset of "it's not my marriage". It's so fucked.....I like being on the side, there's no strings attached, just our friendship. Sometimes he'll come over to …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 05:33 AM
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I only see my FWB once or twice a year, but we shoot pool, gossip, slow dance, and end up fricking on the pool table like horny teenagers. We talk regularly each month, but our schedules conflict so much 😭. We've been FWB on and off for 9 years. When I'm single he's the first person I call 🤣. He's also an amazing friend and I trust him to have my back, especially because we served in the Navy together.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 05:17 AM
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I don’t think many women are mature enough to have that balance. Who are you to decide that? I don’t need to go out to dinner with you every week, talk and text you all through the day, or even hang out with you whenever you want because then it becomes a relationship What does the F stand for in FWB? FRIENDS. So you have to be friends with that person. Hanging out, going to casual dinners and movies, texting, calling, spending the night is all important to maintain a friendship, especially a FW…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 05:14 AM
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29 F here. For me personally a FWB was never about power, it was about having fun sex with my friends 🤷‍♀️. I don't give a rat's ass about power. I care about hanging out with my friend and getting my cheeks clapped while watching a show we both like lol. Not all women are feminists who care about a power balance. It's not always a calculating maneuver, sometimes it's just chemistry 🥰 In my experience a FWB relationship ends because someone catches feelings, someone caught feelings for someone e…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 05:08 AM
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Oh how the turn tables
/r/seduction16/08/22 04:15 AM
1

It's hard because I want him to get better, he has PTSD but thinks he can will power through it instead of get real treatment. He's also a bro vet and thinks the world owes him something for getting a purple heart in Afghanistan. Ill always love him because he was my first serious relationship, but I couldn't be with him anymore. His views on the world and women are so deluded and extremely concerning, but if I expressed those concerns he'd yell and say "you sound just like everyone else! No one…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 04:13 AM
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My ex fiance was like that 🙄. He always wanted me to prove my love to him and would be mad when I failed his little tests. He'd even admit to me "I was testing you and you proved you dont love me". I broke off the engagement in 2013 and reached out to him recently to see how he's doing. He still tried to play games and say "well if you really loved me you'd do A,B,&,C for me to prove it". Sir, it's been 9 years since we were an official couple, enough playing games already! I'm 29 and he's freak…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 03:56 AM
2

When they play games or when they let you choose what happens? Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 03:29 AM
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swoons
/r/seduction16/08/22 02:44 AM
2

I don't see why though? Will that change your view on what I said?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 02:38 AM
1

Why?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 02:33 AM
2

I've done a lot of things for ex's, but the most recent thing I did was made a small, light-up LED sign that had his gamer tag on it
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 02:33 AM
3

She's willing to do whatever makes you feel comfortable and you're upset about that?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 02:24 AM
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So you're playing dating games then? You're testing her and getting mad when she doesn't answer the right way? Is that what I'm gathering?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 02:23 AM
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I don't get what she said wrong, she left the choice up to you. What's the issue here? Sounds like you were looking for something wrong where there wasn't one ....
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 02:22 AM
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My ass/legs and eyes I wear jeans or shorts that accentuate it's shape, and I'll pair them with flip flops or shoes that make my feel look small. I don't like clunky shoes I make sure my eye make up compliments my eye shape. I love having long yet natural looking lashes, so I'm always on the hunt for the best mascara lol
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 02:17 AM
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We all face setbacks When I gained weight I missed the attention I used to get when I was thinner. Then I had to remember that I'm not everyone's type, and I'm working and successfully losing weight. Nobody gets instantly success, not even the better looking guys.
/r/seduction16/08/22 01:46 AM
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Based off your Q&A I would take the loving husband of course If he's my type, supportive, and a team player then why wouldn't I want that?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 12:07 AM
1

We're not some endangered species of animal that will run away or bite your head off. Just say hi
/r/seduction15/08/22 08:59 PM
1

If it's urgent or something sure, tell me there's a spider on my back and get it off, but I'd you're trying to flirt then please go somewhere else. I hate being bothered when I'm trying to work, it's a huge pet peeve and I always get frustrated
/r/seduction14/08/22 07:49 AM
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I am white And that matters because......? I didn't finish reading the rest of your post because of this. Are you saying non white people are unapproachable? You should probably edit this post ASAP because this looks so racist to say about yourself. There's no way this wont come off as racist.
/r/seduction13/08/22 12:51 AM
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Well I guess I'll take my fatass somewhere else then 🤣. I may be overweight but that doesn't mean I'm not working on it. I've made a lot of great friends who were happy to be gym buddies with me and help keep me motivated. Gym dates are fun. 🤷‍♀️ I think you're getting too hyperfocused on negative things and need to relax and enjoy life a little more. Stop and smell the crystal meth 🥰
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/22 12:44 AM
1

It's all cat pics lmao, there's like maybe two pics of me on there 🤣
/r/seduction13/08/22 12:22 AM
1

It. Is. MA'AM! 🤣
/r/seduction13/08/22 12:05 AM
1

I agree, I would be frustrated if I went somewhere quiet to work and someone started bothering me because they think I'm cute. That means they don't respect that I'm obviously working on something, and think their need to chat me up is more important than me trying to work. I wouldn't approach someone who's actively doing something
/r/seduction12/08/22 11:51 PM
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I've been to raves, I will not try that 🤣🤢
/r/seduction12/08/22 11:37 PM
0

My advice would be to enjoy the rave and not use it as a hook up spot. You don't know those people and they could be dirty 🤢 remember the herpes outbreak at Coachella 🤣
/r/seduction12/08/22 11:20 PM
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What does being fit have to do with having fun at a rave?
/r/seduction12/08/22 08:04 PM
3

Your flair has me in stitches 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/22 03:43 AM
2

29 F here ☺️ For me it's because I've lived life and know what I'm looking for (mostly lol). Why would I settle for someone that I'm certain won't make me happy? Normally the older we get, the more we want to find someone to stay with us for the long run. I'm not 22 and looking for a companion to waste time with, I want a best friend and partner to share my life with. I want to make sure I'm doing that with the right person. When I was younger, I'd see red flags and ignore them. I'd see things I…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/22 03:36 AM
2

Uh.....this is false. I've made many approaches to men first and they almost always work well. You can't say a girl will never make the first move, it's wildly inaccurate. If I see a cute guy and we are eye fucking, I'm gonna go say hi. If we have chemistry I'm gonna ask for his number. If things are going ridiculously well I'm gonna ask him to spend the night. Sometimes they beat me to it, but I am not afraid to ask first 🤷‍♀️
/r/seduction07/08/22 05:58 AM
1

There's always a chance the kiss was bad and now she's not interested 😬
/r/seduction07/08/22 05:43 AM
1

🤣 this is a perfect response
/r/seduction07/08/22 05:31 AM
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Thank you for this comment! There are so many negative comments here making us women sound like hussies and it's honestly offensive. If we aren't serious then I have no need to share my date pics. It's like we're damned if we do and damned if we don't. If we share pictures of all the dates we have, then guys will say "oh my God she's constantly posting pictures of her with other men". But now apparently if we don't post pictures of us with guys it's because we're trying to make it look like we'r…
/r/seduction04/08/22 04:46 PM
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No, not at all. Some of us only date one guy at a time, but until the relationship is serious we don't want pictures of him all over our feed. When it hits a serious point then we will share him to our friends and family. It's insulting to some of us to know that a guy thinks we are looking for other men just because we don't want to take first date pictures. I learned at a young age not to share pictures of every single boyfriend I date because then people get really judgmental in the comments.…
/r/seduction04/08/22 04:43 PM
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Same! Sometimes it's a first date and you don't know where that date will go. But the experience is worth sharing. There are so many guys on here assuming women are hiding the men, but we are waiting until he's share worthy. It's not because we're talking to 5 men at once 🙄 lol. The assumptions people come up with ti villainize women is ridiculous and insulting.
/r/seduction04/08/22 04:39 PM
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I have exactly 3 pictures of me and my best friend together, and we've been friends since 2018. But I have tons of pictures of the adventures we've been on. Don't assume every woman uses social media the same way
/r/seduction04/08/22 04:37 PM
4

True! I've been to some NICE dinners and places with my best friends 🥰 we love girl dates!
/r/seduction04/08/22 04:37 PM
2

The guy might not be forever, but that experience is still worth sharing. There's nothing worse than seeing your ex on your timeline. I don't want to delete the memory of a good thing just because I dont like the ex anymore. If we had a good time then good! If it was a bad time then that's different 🤣. I have plenty of pictures of experiences I've had with exes, but I always delete the ones that have their faces after we break up. We never know how long a relationship will be, I don't need const…
/r/seduction04/08/22 04:33 PM
1

😃 aayyyeeeee
/r/seduction29/07/22 05:20 PM
1

Oooo I have an idea https://www.squishable.com/mm5/merchant.mvc?Screen=SRCH Buy one of these! Then you'll have a Chicken! And you can ask if she wants to touch your c*ck 😏😏
/r/seduction29/07/22 04:35 PM
2

If you don't have a problem with it then why did you make this post?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/22 04:21 PM
1

My cats are like parents and C block me whenever they get the chance 😑 they barely even let me play with myself without trying to intervene 🤦‍♀️
/r/seduction29/07/22 03:46 PM
2

No, my cats name is chicken 🤣 she's a demon baby with creepy ass eyes that stare into your soul 🤣. Everyone needs to experience it at least once
/r/seduction29/07/22 03:45 PM
2

Lmao we've been dumped, bamboozled, SMECKELDORFED!
/r/seduction29/07/22 03:31 PM
1

Twin is too small, at least say Queen lololol
/r/seduction29/07/22 03:29 PM
3

Does it have the cool water filter thingy? I get thirsty in the middle of the night and want my water crisp and cold
/r/seduction29/07/22 03:28 PM
4

Not the bees! Nooooooo!
/r/seduction29/07/22 03:28 PM
3

As someone who loves naps, I would accept this offer. I love tired sleepy s*x too!
/r/seduction29/07/22 03:24 PM
4

I have nothing cool in my house 😭 "Wanna come over and watch a movie while my cats stare into your soul? Chicken is really good at it!"
/r/seduction29/07/22 03:23 PM
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Hey if I was really attracted to you and we had amazing chemistry, I would probably let this work for me because it would make me laugh. Then we can go back, start folding, strip and fold those clothes (because duh, we didn't say it was only the clothes on the bed), then get in bed and fold our bodies together 😊
/r/seduction29/07/22 03:20 PM
1

Lmao!!!!!!!
/r/seduction29/07/22 03:17 PM
4

Phub would tell you that this is a lie
/r/seduction29/07/22 03:16 PM
2

Tell her you think there's a monster in your closet and need someone to keep watching while you sleep 😜
/r/seduction29/07/22 03:15 PM
0

That's fair, but there's clearly something they're sending from you that they aren't attracted to. Or maybe you're just not their type physically
/r/seduction24/07/22 07:37 AM
2

If you think you're well balanced then you're not as well balanced as you think Everybody has something that makes them unbalanced.
/r/seduction24/07/22 03:41 AM
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If you don't know what to improve on then it sounds like you have some soul searching to do. No one here is perfect and we could all use improvement on something
/r/seduction24/07/22 03:39 AM
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The problem I have with people who use all these different pickup strategies is that they get upset when things don't work in the long term. These pickup strategies only help men initially attract women and that's it. They don't teach you how to maintain a relationship, they don't teach you how to be good at communication, and they don't teach you how to care about other people. They just teach you how to attract women and that's it. There's a lot more that goes into having a relationship then j…
/r/seduction24/07/22 03:38 AM
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Lmao
/r/seduction24/07/22 03:00 AM
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......maybe to you.....
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/22 08:11 PM
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Did you not read the rest of this comment thread? Someone was asking what type of expectation is set for "real women". I never said this was something I believed. You should definitely read the rest of the comments before jumping down my throat bud
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/22 11:19 PM
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Exactly. Everyone has unrealistic expectations
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/22 11:18 PM
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Real women are stay at home moms and still look like runway models for their husbands
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/22 01:01 PM
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Lol yes! I also think some some moms have a huge sense of entitlement, like the ones who lay around all day. Some do the bare minimum and I think the husband's know 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/22 06:51 PM
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Watching tv with your kid I would not consider work Oh yea for sure, parents like that are just bullshitting lol But there's also breadwinners who bullshit at work all day and claim to be too tired to help out with daily chores (my ex was one of those people) There's two sides to each coin.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/22 06:29 PM
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People don't un-mature People who say things like this have never experienced it first hand. My ex never acted like this when we were dating and I couldn't believe it. IDC if you don't believe it, I'm not trying to prove it to you 🤷‍♀️ I'm just telling my story that not everyone is honest up front. Haven't you ever seen the show "who the bleep did I marry?" It's a show choc of of liars and how their spouses found out AFTER they got married. Lol. Just because you don't believe it doesn't make it …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/22 06:26 PM
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Parenting is a 24/7 job before those kids go to school though. That's why a lot of stay-at-home moms get frustrated when the dad comes home from work and doesn't help out with the kids because he's complaining that he's been working all day. What do you think she's been doing all day? Baking pies? That's what some of us are trying to argue is that when you have to spend all day with toddlers And then you have to spend the afternoon and evening taking care of them because your husband doesn't wan…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/22 06:08 PM
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It depends on how good the benefits are for his job. I'm working at a job where I get 30 days of leave every year, so I'm allotted time to stay home if I don't feel well. I would hope that my future husband has a job where he can stay home if I need help. My ex-husband worked in a job that had a very generous leave policy. So if I wasn't feeling well and he wanted to stay home with me, all he had to do was call out. So it always just depends on what type of job my future husband has. I would hop…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/22 05:57 PM
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You also are equally responsible for those kids as well. You guys are making a home together, you're not her parent. You don't get to dictate how and when things happen in the house just because you are the breadwinner. I'm going to make sure that my next husband doesn't turn into somebody with this type of mindset. A marriage requires teamwork, it's not a dictatorship. Giving your wife free rein to decorate the house in the pool is nothing compared to the effort it takes to parent and raise chi…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/22 05:50 PM
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Nope. If I'm not physically attracted to you then I won't settle. No one has to settle for anything if they don't want to. I want to be attracted to the people I date
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/22 05:16 PM
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It depends on what I'm sick with but if I have a partner then I definitely would expect them to help me if I'm not feeling well. Like I said, I don't have to be sick with pneumonia in order to justify needing to lay in bed because I feel physically exhausted from being sick. I've gone to my friend's houses when they don't feel good to help them with their kids if they're single parents. I don't like taking care of kids and they know that, but they know I'm a last resort to reach out to if they r…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/22 05:14 PM
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Honestly this is what scares me about wanting to have kids because I'm always worried that I'll end up doing a majority of the work. When my friend had her son, her and her husband agreed they would both be equally involved with child care. Then over the past year she told me that her and her husband have been arguing because he doesn't even know how to take care of his own son and she feels like she never gets any downtime anymore. She got lucky because her son has a very mild temperament, but …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/22 05:10 PM
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Some of these people on these forums seem to think that working a nine to five job means you're busting your ass everyday but you're really not. I've worked plenty of different departments in a hospital before and no two departments have the same workload. There are some departments where you get to sit on your phone all day and watch YouTube while sending emails. There are other departments where you're lucky if you even get to take your two bathroom breaks and your lunch break. So just because…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/22 05:09 PM
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It's exactly like when I told my company I was struggling to voice my opinions of how over worked I felt to my front desk manager. I worked for a contract company so the company was in a different state than where my actual job was. So a lot of the times I had to talk to my front desk manager if I had issues. My front desk manager kept using my position description against me by saying "well it's written in your position description that you can do this, so you can't really say that you're too o…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/22 05:03 PM
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If we are both sick then I would call a friend or family for help. And if his job doesn't give him time off then he needs a new job or I would reach out to a friend or family. I will not sacrifice my health just because I have kids. It's not healthy to always put your kids first like that. Everyone needs time to rest and recoup. Also it's not MY job to raise the kids, it's OURS. They are equally his kids as much as they are mine. So if he thinks it's my job to raise kids and not his then he is n…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/22 04:59 PM
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I know and the some of us get caught with the burden of parenting them. He used to always say "stop parenting me" but then I'd say "then stop acting like a child". We always went in circles lol
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/22 04:54 PM
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Also, I really love how hard you're trying to nitpick my comments as if you didn't dig yourself into a hole by contradicting yourself. You're going so deep into my comments about gender because you cannot accept the fact that you contradicted yourself. And trying to debate people like you is impossible because you cannot accept when you say something wrong. Is that a wound you haven't healed yet, that "because you're a man" part? No? Why do you assume that there's a wound just because I said I w…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/22 03:32 PM
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Are you single?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/22 03:28 PM
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Including the mechanical and "dangerous" parts of housework? You're questioning a woman on whether or not she does dangerous parts of housework which means you're assuming she doesn't. Do you not understand context? You're implying she doesn't do those things because she's the woman, so you felt like you needed to ask if she actually did those things. If you thought men and women equally pulled their way around the house then you wouldn't feel the need to question someone else's workload. No, I'…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/22 03:16 PM
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Just because the job description is the same doesn't mean that you're actually working the same job. Anyone who has worked multiple jobs in different settings will know this. Someone who has a 4,000 square foot house is going to have a larger workload than someone living in a 1000 square foot house. There are some people who have pools that need to be maintained, acres of yard, animals that need to be taken care of, children that need to be taken care of, errands that need to be run so you have …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/22 03:12 PM
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Things need to get done, noone cares what you're "rocking" between your legs. It seems like you care because you're the one that asked if women are capable of doing the more "dangerous" jobs around the house, as if only men are capable of doing those things. You're literally contradicting yourself. I know when a repairman is trying to swindle me for more money just because I'm a woman I don't know how to hold a screwdriver in my hand (which happens pretty often). If I know how to frame a wall th…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/22 03:10 PM
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I quoted it in my first comment, please go reread it
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/22 03:01 PM
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Well actually I work full-time, and my ex-husband worked full-time, yet he still expected me to do all of the housework around the house. We had a roof over our head because we both contributed money to the household. I don't have to be grateful for anybody when I can provide for myself just fine, but I married him for the partnership, not the ownership. I will never marry a man who says I should be grateful for him for putting a roof over my head if I choose to stay at home and raise his kids. …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/22 02:58 PM
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He didn't turn into a deeply childish man until after we got married. So how was I supposed to predict he would turn out that way if I can't see the future? You can't blame me for the type of man that I married when he was a completely different person before we got married. He admitted to me after we got married that he only married me so no other man could sleep with me. And he often got mad at me for talking back to him like I'm his slave. There was one time he actually told me "why can't you…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/22 02:53 PM
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Your comment is ridiculous, you're contradicting yourself a lot 😵‍💫
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/22 02:46 PM
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When she is sick he can help out a bit sure, but it's not like she'll be bed ridden in all but the most extreme scenarios. I feel bad for whichever woman is unlucky enough to marry you. If I'm sick then I intend to stay in bed all day and take care of myself. Everybody knows that if you're sick and you keep pushing yourself to work harder and harder then your body is going to have a harder time fighting off that virus. Your body needs rest in order to recover. So unfortunately, dad's going to ha…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/22 02:40 PM
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Taking care of the house and children is not at all equal to doing a 40 hour work week mixed in with commute time to make it ~60 hours. Completely delusional to genuinely believe that it's not fair for the mother to 'be in 24/7 for her job' while 'dad gets set hours' when you consider the fact that the father is clearly working far more hours than the mother. Whoever thinks this has clearly not spent full days taking care of multiple children at a time and it SHOWS. You can try justify this anyw…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/22 02:36 PM
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My mom says she could finish the whole house in 2 to 3 hours if she turned off the tv and videos. We don't know how big your house was growing up. My apartment right now is really small but it would still probably take me more than an hour to clean because it's old and accumulates a lot of dust and mildew in certain areas because of ventilation. Would you say this is not true? Yes. Different people parent differently. I despise the idea of putting children in front of electronics as a form of en…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/22 02:28 PM
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Also, we don't know the age of the woman who posted this. She could be in her late 20s or early 30s for all we know.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/22 02:22 PM
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Before I married my ex-husband I made sure he understood that if we are both working full time (Dual Military couple) then we're both responsible for taking care of daily chores around the house. At first he told me that he understood completely but over the next couple months things started to change. Soon it turned into "well you got home before I did so why can't you do it?" Then it turned into "well I'm infantry so my job is harder than yours?" (He was a corpsman with an infantry unit, the h…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/22 02:17 PM
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I don't know how to change my own oil, but if anything ever happens to your toilet IM YOUR GIRL! I would be a plumber if the job didn't stink so bad 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/22 02:06 PM
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Including the mechanical and "dangerous" parts of housework? I didn't realize that women weren't allowed to do these things....🤔 My dad raised me to be just as handy around the house as an average man. I liked helping him with household chores more than any of my other siblings, and I'll always be grateful for that because now I know when a repairman is trying to swindle me for more money just because I'm a woman (which happens pretty often). There were home repairs that I was able to do that my…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/22 02:03 PM
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I think this would depend on how many kids a couple has. Being a stay-at-home mom can sound easy if you have one kid, but as soon as you have two or more it's basically like having a full-time job at home. Kids are high energy and they're messy so the mom it's going to be spending a lot of her time picking up and entertaining the kids. I don't think it's fair that the working parent just comes home and does nothing. The working parent should come home and help out with the kids and help out with…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/22 01:57 PM
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Bruh you're complaining about the past 10-20 years!? Do you hear yourself!? And do you not see the tidbit where I said SOME colleges care about demographics, but not ALL. Some colleges have programs for low income people to apply and help them get through if they have the grades to support their education. And yes, I do know my own privilege. I spent 8 years in the military to afford my college and got in fair and square. I get all A's in my classes to get ready for nursing school so I can get i…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/22 10:09 AM
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Equality doesn't always mean fair. Fair doesn't always mean equal. Everyone deserves a fair chance to apply, that doesn't mean everyone will be accepted into school. That's all I care about, is getting a fair chance. If you're upset about your acceptance into school then call the administration office. Just like with child support, fair means the most fit parent gets custody, not the woman for being a woman. You need to go outside and experience the world instead of complainig about it. You migh…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/22 10:00 AM
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They act like we're supposed to care about men who get left behind, or men who are feeling like they're left behind, but what's the reason why they're being left behind? Is it because they don't want to make an effort? Is it because they have issues they don't want to put in any effort to fix? Is it because they have social issues that they don't want to fix? A majority of the times The Men who feel left out are the ones that have issues that they don't want to put in any effort to fix, they jus…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/22 01:12 AM
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You're not seeing my point. How come more women don't run fortune 500 companies? How come more women don't hold high ranking leadership roles in the military? The answer is over saturation. If there's more women looking to go to college for a specific job field, then more women are going to be in those classes. If more men are working in a specific job field in the military, then more men are going to hold high ranking positions. A lot of times it has nothing to do with sexism it just has to do …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/22 01:04 AM
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College isn't supposed to be about demographics (although for some colleges it is). If you were better qualified than you would have a seat. It's not my fault some men didn't score well enough to get into college 🤷‍♀️ study harder and apply yourself and you'll get into the program you want. If you sit on your ass and assume since you're a man you'll get in then you won't. What's sexist is you assuming you're more deserving than someone who applied themselves. Nice try though
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/22 01:01 AM
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I don't see men complaining about how many men run fortune 500 companies 🤔 oversaturated market much?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/22 11:56 PM
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That's too much work for these types of people. They're in for a rude awakening when they realize relationships take actual effort and not just love at first sight
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/22 11:55 PM
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They act like adults and move on? Wtf else are they supposed to do?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/22 11:54 PM
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How come you assume your studies are accurate but not someone else's?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/22 11:53 PM
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That's a fancy way of saying you're probably single and mad about it 🤭
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/22 11:52 PM
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Does anyone else see the problem? As a societal issue is this something that needs to be addressed? No? How is women taking control of their lives a societal issue? You can't force someone to stay married to you if they aren't happy being married to you. What is there to address? That women aren't property to be controlled?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/22 11:51 PM
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I usually like doing squats with weights instead of using the machine so I can focus on the movements of my knees, hips, and back because I'm trying to strengthen those areas. But unfortunately I can't do those exercises without guys literally stopping to stare to watch the entire time.
/r/seduction29/06/22 12:32 AM
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I'm just going to assume you're trolling. Bye
/r/seduction29/06/22 12:31 AM
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Same! Plus when you think about women summer clothes they're always a little bit more revealing, it's hard to find something cute that isn't as revealing. But like we wear these things because they make us feel good, we like how we look in them. We're not wearing these things because we're looking for someone to tell us how they think we look.
/r/seduction29/06/22 12:31 AM
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🙄 oh brother
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/22 11:22 PM
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If I go to the gym wearing gym attire then how is that me subjecting myself to being stared at? I am just a normal human trying to enjoy my workout. Some people need to learn that it's not polite to stare. You can't blame me for wearing something comfortable to the gym, that's literally the definition of victim blaming
/r/seduction28/06/22 09:42 PM
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I don't see how it's fluff if he asked for when it would be okay to approach someone in the gym. So I provided examples that would be okay. I don't see how any of this is fluff but thanks for the backhanded comment
/r/seduction28/06/22 09:14 PM
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Some people can be so cruel when they're jealous. I was always underweight as a kid, so when I turned 18 I finally gained healthy weight and my aunt couldn't help but point it out. "Wow! You sure did put on some weight" 😑 thanks
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/22 08:45 PM
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You do realize a majority of women's workout attire is skin tight right? It's better to have clothing that's tight and flexible so you can do your movements easier. It's not good to wear baggy clothes if your weight lifting or doing yoga. And how about people keep their eyes to themselves if we're in a public setting? Just because I'm wearing something skin tight doesn't mean you have to sit there and stare at me the entire time I'm in the gym. Taking a glance is one thing but I've literally had…
/r/seduction28/06/22 06:50 PM
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I'm a believer in "there's someone for everyone" Attractiveness is subjective. If "average or below average" men were seen as undesirable then none of them would get married and have kids, then we'd all be generically attractive, but we aren't
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/22 06:32 PM
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This is me almost everyday 🤣🤣🤣🤣 https://youtu.be/nCPfJxSxZQk
/r/seduction28/06/22 06:25 PM
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I have hearing loss from being at an air station so I do that too 🤣 Sometimes all I see is a mouth moving and I'm just nodding and smiling lolololol
/r/seduction28/06/22 06:25 PM
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Are you seriously saying I'm the reason I get hit on? Because of how I dress? SERIOUSLY
/r/seduction28/06/22 06:23 PM
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Lmao! Ok this may work 🤣
/r/seduction28/06/22 06:22 PM
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I am an extremely vivid dreamer so unfortunately I've had plenty of dreams about my friends that I did not want lol. But I don't go around and tell everybody about all the sexual dreams I had about them either. I would ask what her intentions are for telling you because if she has a boyfriend it shouldn't matter what her dreams are about because we can't control our dreams every single time There's also a chance that she lied to you just to see what your reaction would be. It sounds like she may…
/r/seduction28/06/22 04:40 PM
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No. There's so many issues wrong with this type of thought process. And yes, you need to know someone in order to love them. You can't love someone if you don't know anything about them. I don't know why you're fighting so hard for something that isn't true. they don't need to know that somebody when they can imagine how he/she is. that causes it. 🤯 What 🤣 do you hear yourself right now omg. I'm done, have a good day lol
/r/seduction28/06/22 03:13 PM
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People don't see anything other than their lover when they are in love. Yes, but you can't love somebody that you don't know. It's literally impossible. If you don't know anything about that person then it's just an attraction. It's not love. It's not like a cartoon where Sylvester sees the cat and is no longer focused on anybody else. That is so unrealistic on how to look at love. You can't just look at somebody, fall in love, and no longer be aware of anybody else in the world. It's such an im…
/r/seduction28/06/22 02:35 PM
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I never said there's anything wrong with doing a cold approach, I just don't think food shopping is the best place to do it lol. I was just giving my two cents on my opinion of the issue, I don't think there's anything wrong with the approach itself. They just need to be aware that it won't be successful for every woman. I also don't agree with this person's opinion on love at first sight, because there's no such thing as love at first sight. You can't love somebody that you don't know. People m…
/r/seduction28/06/22 02:32 PM
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my advice fits all Your advice does not fit all because I already said it wouldn't work on me. There is no piece of advice that's "one-size-its-all". You cannot think your advice is above the rest I only disagree with you on "love at first sight" because this is what the real love is. That is not what real love is, I would know, I've been in love and loved a few men in my lifetime. Love at first sight is really attraction/lust at first sight. You can't love someone you don't know. Love is built,…
/r/seduction28/06/22 01:22 PM
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Dude same!!!!!!! I mentioned that in my comment too! When I was in my early twenties I was in really good shape but I was harassed all the time. Now that I put on some weight I still get some attention but it's nowhere near as bad as when I was younger. And I had the same fear of losing weight because one of my co-workers said that her sister was sexually assaulted when she was thinner so she put on weight due to depression. When her sister got through her depression and lost weight she got frea…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/22 01:15 PM
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My aunt used to harass me as a teen for being to skinny because she was projecting her insecurities on me. I was always really thin and in good shape, so when I had started to put on a little bit of weight with age which is to be expected, she was so quick to jump down my throat and tell me I was getting fat. She was addicted to plastic surgery to make herself look better so I took everything she said with a grain of salt
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/22 01:12 PM
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Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/22 01:09 PM
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As we age vanity is less important to a majority of us. We are not unattractive if we no longer look like super models. Ive gained some weight and can still get boyfriends and fuck buddies. Looking like a slob is different from life or genetics catching up to you. It's easy to be thin when you're young because you're metabolism is faster and you have less health issues. My body is a bit broke from military service and I gained weight from never wanting to PT again 🤣. My younger coworkers laugh a…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/22 01:04 PM
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These dating advice threads get to be too much 🤣 some people really don't know better. I think this guy was sarcastic but you KNOW someone will believe it and try it 🤣 I had to throw a lifeline!
/r/seduction28/06/22 12:49 PM
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I think that's the trouble with these dating advice posts, advice isn't one size fits all yet some people act like it is. What one person finds charming another may find repulsive lol and you'll never know until after 🤣
/r/seduction28/06/22 12:45 PM
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You will be my friend if I'm not attracted to you You will be a creep if I'm not attracted and you won't take no for an answer There, I fixed it 🙃
/r/seduction28/06/22 12:44 PM
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I love talking about about the crossfitters 🤣
/r/seduction28/06/22 12:42 PM
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This is great advice! I mentioned in my comment that he needs to try approaching other people and places where it's more socially acceptable like at the front desk, or water fountain, before and after group classes, or even if there's a smoking area (if you smoke, that's where I met my best friend)
/r/seduction28/06/22 12:31 PM
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I am a woman and will give you my perspective on how I feel about being approached at a gym. I don't like it at all. I go to the gym to be by myself and work on my fitness/mental health. I'm wearing skin tight clothing, sweating, alone, and can always see guys staring. There's always a guy who feels the need to come up to me and critique my form or machine use (I've been going to gyms since I was 16 years old. I was a competitive cheerleader and swimmer in high school. My dad used to be a gym bu…
/r/seduction28/06/22 12:28 PM
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You mean "the love of my life"? I already have one but go on 🤣. I didn't fall for him with "love at first sight", it happened over a period of a few months. We had immediate attraction and chemistry, but the relationship took time before I realized he was the love of my life.
/r/seduction28/06/22 11:40 AM
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I can understand that if the music is too loud, for sure. I prefer lively bars that create social environments
/r/seduction28/06/22 11:38 AM
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Please don't speak on my behalf about how I would react on social interactions 🙃 it's very unbecoming. What does "the man of your life" even mean? Also this is why I started wearing ear buds when I shop, I got sick of being approached when I want to be left alone. It still doesn't work because someone will tap my shoulder to get my attention 😑
/r/seduction28/06/22 11:35 AM
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Me: reaches for Clorox You: tried it, it tastes terrible, would NOT recommend! Me: 👀 excuse me!? 🤣
/r/seduction28/06/22 11:14 AM
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I'm not gonna lie, if a guy said that with a good tone it might make me giggle lol
/r/seduction28/06/22 11:13 AM
5

Lmfao!
/r/seduction28/06/22 11:12 AM
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Me: yea, they look fine 🙂 proceeds to walk away lol. I personally don't like grocery store pick up games. I don't see how we can have a full Convo 🤣 I always smile and walk away lololol
/r/seduction28/06/22 11:12 AM
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Me: fine 🙂 walks away That's how I handle grocery interactions. There's almost no situation that would warrent a full conversation in a grocery store for me. So I just smile and walk away to finish my errands
/r/seduction28/06/22 11:11 AM
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Please don't 🤣 you know someone with poor social skills will believe this and do it and wonder why they're labeled as a perv!
/r/seduction28/06/22 11:09 AM
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Never If Jennifer Anniston asked me to commit a crime so I could marry her I would 😍
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/22 09:51 AM
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I guess I'm already an old hag at my ripe old age of 29 🤣 I've been blessed with a baby face and intend to use it for as long as possible
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/22 09:48 AM
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It depends on the chemistry I have with the guym there is no right or wrong time
/r/seduction28/06/22 01:42 AM
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If I decided to chase I would expect my friends to follow 🤣 true friends help with your dreams of world domination
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/22 12:45 AM
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Lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/22 12:44 AM
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No. The person who stole my purse could be dangerous. Being masculine doesn't mean you purposefully put yourself in dangerous situations. I've had my purse stolen before and my friends helped me look for it, but after a while we couldn't find it. It wasn't the end of the world and I didn't expect a guy to come to my rescue over something little like this. Women are not damsels in distress that need constant saving. Feminine does not equal weak. I'm friends with my guy friends because I enjoy the…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/22 12:42 AM
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Lol ok👌
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/22 11:52 PM
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Where are you getting your info from?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/22 10:39 PM
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The only thing I'm questioning is the teenager hiding behind the mom like a toddler
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/22 08:56 PM
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They found that in instances where the man was less attractive IDC if someone else thinks my spouse is less attractive, all that matters is what I feel. I commented on this because it felt like OP is trying to convince women to lower their standards to someone who is less attractive than them in the hopes they'll be a better spouse. I don't agree with what they said so I put in my two cents
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/22 08:09 PM
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Oh no, I think you're certifiably nutty. This conversation has just reached a point where you're no longer looking for a debate. You're no longer open to any other viewpoints besides how you feel. You keep pushing as if your viewpoint is fact and once a conversation gets to that point it's no longer worth my effort to talk to that person anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/22 06:21 PM
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Lol sure Jan 🤣 whatever you need to say to make yourself feel better lmfao
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/22 06:17 PM
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What 🤯🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/22 05:15 PM
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I see the point that you're trying to make, but if someone doesn't like my advice I'm not going to get upset about it. If they choose not to take my advice then that's on them. Maybe my advice doesn't fit their lifestyle. But I'm not going to sit there and blame all men for a select few that don't like the advice that I give. I can't tailor all of my advice to every specific situation out there because there are 1 million and one different types of social interactions that could happen in the wo…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/22 05:05 PM
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A. I've personally experienced this. I'm not meeting myself at a bar, I'm meeting a guy. Which means if I'm meeting guys, then guys are meeting girls. We're not taking ourselves home 🤣 I don't see how you can't process this info. I'm not talking to a ghost at the bar, I'm talking to a guy. Which means that guy is getting success meeting girls at the bar 🤦‍♀️ B. Just because you think I can't back it up that doesn't mean I have problems with English comprehension. That was such an unnecessary thi…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/22 05:01 PM
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. If you couldn't find a guy to talk to, you're not being forward enough. No, it just means I wasn't their type and it's not the end of the world. I can't force someone to be attracted to me. I just let it be and move on. There are a lot of nights where I went home alone, or with my friends, and I didn't blame all of mankind for me going home alone. I just talked it up to not finding a guy I liked or not being the type of girl that a certain guy liked. I'm not going to blame every single man bec…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/22 04:51 PM
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SOME women or ALL women? Also, we're allowed to have preferences if we want. Usually a woman is extremely selective because of her own personal preference from past experiences. Just like guys think it's below them to date uglier women, a woman wants to date someone they're attracted to who will treat them fairly. This might not be the standard for all women, but it is definitely a standard for some women. The problem is these guys get hurt by a few women and they think all women are exactly the…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/22 04:45 PM
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I just dont understand the point of blaming somebody else for your own failures. It's not an attractive character trait to have. Guys that consistently blame women for their failures are more likely to do the same thing in the relationship (from my personal experience). this is what you get when you constantly look and ask for 'understanding' and 'approval' of women. Anytime that I've given advice to a man on Reddit for what they could do to be more successful in their dating life, I called a cu…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/22 04:29 PM
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I don't know why you keep doing a certain approach if you know it's not successful. I met more people organically doing things I enjoyed than I did going to bars. I like going to the local Pier at night because it's less crowded and it's really beautiful at night. Sometimes I'll see people who are night fishing and I'll shoot up a conversation with them and have had a lot of success because we have something in common and it's a lot easier to talk when you're not in a crowded environment. I didn…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/22 04:17 PM
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Not for me, no. Their personalities will dictate how much effort they need to do to be with me. You need to stop thinking of dating as instant physical attraction because that's not all there is to dating. Your personality is more important than how you look (at least in my opinion, and I bet a lot of women might feel the same). I'm willing to bet if I did a poll for just the women, more women would vote that your personality is more important than your looks. The women who are only concerned ab…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/22 04:09 PM
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Facebook lol Nowadays there's Facebook groups for everything. So I think what will help is if you find a Facebook group for people who like disc golf and put yourself out there on that group. Where I live there's actually a pretty healthy mix of men and women who do disc golf at one of the local parks. What you also might want to consider is let's say you meet a girl and she says she doesn't like disc golf but she's open to trying it, now you have an opportunity to teach her a fun new game to pl…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/22 04:03 PM
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It's not like women don't do this shit too I think what you're meaning to say is SOME women, not all. There's a big difference. Women do need to take some responsibility here for causing a very competitive SMP. We don't all have to be blamed for the behavior of some. People who think in extremes like this are their own worst enemies. Where I live there is a very open and equally distributed dating pool, so if a guy can't find a date it's something he's doing wrong. Gotta love women giving men ad…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/22 03:57 PM
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I would hope people find their spouses attractive lol otherwise why date them? What one person finds attractive doesn't mean everyone will find attractive
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/22 03:25 PM
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Doesn't sound like English is your first language. What made you say that? I don't speak anything else but English 🤣. I really don't know what type of areas y'all live in that you think average men don't get sex but it's not true where I live lol. It's a pretty equal distribution of action around here
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/22 03:02 PM
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I'm not sure where you got that assumption from but I have trouble believing it. Where do you live where average men don't have sex? Where I live the average man has as much sex as the average woman. I don't think I've ever met a man in relationships life who thought the way you do unless they were religious. I've never met a man who thinks so negatively about women off the internet
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/22 08:30 AM
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Yes, but I've met too many guys on here who blame women with high standards for them being single. They don't look at themselves or their behavior as a contributing factor. They just strictly blame women and that's it.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/22 08:19 AM
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That doesn't make sense. If it's easy for women to get then it's easy for men to get. We're not having sex with ourselves 🙄 once a Man lies with a woman he is her equal. He is no better or no worse than her. He's contributing to the sexual act just like she is. I'll just never understand why some men view women being sexually active as a bad thing 🤷‍♀️I never said having a high body count was a flex, me bragging about my number would be a flez, but I haven't done that. So I'm not sure who you th…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/22 08:16 AM
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I wouldn't recommend anyone settle with dumpster diving lol
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/22 07:31 AM
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So why you acting like one? Why are you acting like I'm somehow beneath you because I've had different life experiences from you? As I've stated, you're not perfect either and I'm sure you've got plenty of flaws that other people would see as red flags. None of us here are perfect so I don't see the point in judging me the way you are lol You are not holier than thou just because you've had less partners than me
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/22 07:28 AM
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I don't think any woman has a problem with a man venting his frustrations about being single. The issue we run into is when men seem to blame women for them being single. I don't think it's fair to blame someone else for your relationship struggles. I've had a lot of conversations with disgruntled men on this app and a majority of them have said that I'm just a cum dumpster for having a casual sex life when they don't. So I can guarantee you it's thought processes like this that keeps some of th…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/22 07:10 AM
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Omg you're still not getting it. It sounds like you're just mad because you're not having sex with someone so you're mad and name calling anyone else who does. That's just rude and doesn't make you better than someone else who has causal sex. I'm sure you have plenty of undesirable flaws that women don't like. You're not perfect and have no room to judge.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/22 06:54 AM
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Why are you attracted to these type of men? It's not like I went out and purposely looked for people who had these type of issues. Some of these guys hide that they have these issues until you're in a serious relationship with them and then this stuff starts to come out. If I had known at the beginning that both of them had problems that were this serious I probably wouldn't have dated them in the first place. And then they would both be complaining that nobody ever dates them and they don't kno…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/22 06:51 AM
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It's amazing how many times a woman can explain that we're not just pump and dumps for every guy we have sex with, but a guy will still see it however he wants as if he has a higher moral compass than me for that.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/22 06:24 AM
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What do you mean by "falling out" with fiance's? I've only had one husband and two fiance's (one was my ex husband). There are two people in those relationships, not just me. And those relationships ended because of things that had nothing to do with my body count. My point is that having a higher body count doesn't mean I can't have a long and meaningful relationship. Like I stated earlier, those relationships both lasted a few years each. It's not like I just ended things for no reason. My ex-…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/22 06:20 AM
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You can not build long term relationships which indicates you are a horrible partner I've had plenty of boyfriends that lasted a few months, I've had one fiance that lasted a couple years, and I had one husband that lasted a few years. I think I'm okay for the future lol. I never once said I had trouble committing to partners. When I find someone that I'm interested in they are my sole focus, nobody else matters. I will make sure that person knows that they're all I care about. Secondly, you are…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/22 05:22 AM
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Most of the guys I know that are young and have a good social life will get a few hookups a year Same. I think a lot of the guys complaining on Reddit have something wrong with their personalities but they don't want to admit it.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/22 04:53 AM
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Lol thanks 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/22 04:37 AM
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I think being attracted to your partner physically is just as important as emotionally. If I'm not attracted to you physically then why would I want to be with you? I want to be with someone who I think is sexy who I can't get enough of. But for every guy I've dated that level of attractiveness was different. For some guys they could look like the average Joe but I was just ridiculously attracted to them because of their personality. Some guys were models and they were still good people. Regardl…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/22 04:35 AM
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Being attractive doesn't make you a better person. Being less attractive doesn't make you a better person. Your personality is what makes you a better person. I've dated guys who were solid 9s and we're complete gentleman or the biggest assholes I ever met. I've dated guys who I would rate as maybe a 5 or 6 and their personality made them a 10. But I've also dated guys who were a 5 or 6 who were assholes so their ratings dropped even more to the point that I wasn't interested.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/22 04:32 AM
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Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/22 04:30 AM
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This sounds like another post of a guy who's mad because he doesn't have anyone to date. He thinks men should have a more attractive partner while women need to settle with a less attractive man. I'm not settling for shit! I did that once with my ex-husband and I'll never do that again. Settling on looks in hopes that someone's personality will be better is not going to end well. What you need to do is find someone you're attracted to who you have good chemistry with. You need to be attracted to…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/22 04:30 AM
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If you don't think this is a reason for settling then why did you make this post? If you don't agree with the ideology and the conclusion of that study, then why you talking about it?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/22 04:25 AM
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Are you going to cite this study or are we just supposed to take your word for it? Because I definitely want to be attracted to the person I'm in a relationship with. I feel like this is just something that some people tell themselves to get pitty and hope that they'll find a date.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/22 04:23 AM
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Also, I've had plenty of nights where I've gone out to bars looking for a guy to talk to and I wasn't successful. We don't just have to show up and men just flock to us. It's interesting hearing a guy try to explain how easy dating is for a woman when they're not a woman......🤯 Please tell me more about your dating experience as a woman
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/22 03:30 AM
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A woman getting a lot of casual sex is nothing to brag about. Some would say it’s the opposite. Well the good news is this isn't the 1950s and women are allowed to have casual sex just like men have casual sex. And I'm not going around saying "hey everybody! Look how much sex I'm having!", It's actually the opposite. My sex life is personal and it's nobody else's business, so I don't talk about it with anyone other than my partners and my best friends. It is literally nobody else's business what…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/22 03:29 AM
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How is it useless when we were all sure that she was cheating and he didn't want to listen. Then it came out later that she was cheating and he didn't know what to do anymore. We were all giving him very logical advice on what to do and he didn't want to listen and now he's an empty shell of a man with a woman who treats him like a sugar daddy
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/22 03:16 AM
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For what exactly?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/22 01:57 AM
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If that happens then I'll usually still be okay with casual sex as long as we have good chemistry together. Some guys just don't want to open up too soon and that's okay. But I think communication is really important when it comes to protecting yourself emotionally. You want to make sure that the person you're sleeping with is on the same page as you
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/22 01:53 AM
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I love your username BTW! lol
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/22 01:33 AM
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You mean the full moon rituals we do when we're all on synchronized period cycles?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/22 01:33 AM
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As a woman I would say that it's hard for the average guy to stand out because unless they wear some type of crazy outfit they're going to blend in with the crowd like everyone else. A lot of its just going to come down to what a woman finds attractive, which is going to be different for every woman. So all this guy can really do is make himself the best he can be and then hope that it works out
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/22 01:29 AM
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My best advice is to listen to the women who are close to you in life. Like your mom, sisters, cousin, friends, coworkers. There was a guy I worked with who was going through a rough breakup with his ex-fiance because she cheated, and all the women were giving him the same advice, that he should kick her out of the house and move on. He decided not to listen to any of us and just to listen to his guy friends, so he ended up staying with her and now he's constantly on edge thinking that she's sti…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/22 01:28 AM
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But I've had some relationships that started as casual sex and then turned into dating. I've gone on dates with guys and slept with them on the first date and those relationships went well. I've also had some friends that I've known for years and then I sleep with them and then things don't work out so we stay friends. I just don't see how sleeping with someone "too soon" in your terms so should qualify somebody has a slut. I also don't have to have deep relationships with a guy either. Sometime…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/22 01:17 AM
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But having sex with someone doesn't mean we want to date them. It just means we want to have sex with them. Every girl is different, but it's generally understood that sex doesn't equate to a relationship status. Those are things that need to be discussed between the two people.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/22 01:13 AM
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I never said that I was asking him for a relationship as in dating. Relationship just means the dynamic that you have with somebody else. So I like to know ahead of time what type of relationship this guy wants to have with me before I have sex with him. Does he want to be fuck buddies, does he want to be friends with benefits, is he looking for something casual that will turn into something more once we get to know each other. There's a ton of different Dynamics that can be had when you have se…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/22 01:12 AM
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It's never to late! Lol
/r/seduction27/06/22 01:06 AM
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I know, I was just putting in my two cents
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/22 01:05 AM
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Of course they will if we ask
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/22 12:58 AM
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The only value you have is between your pants to these men Sometimes yes sometimes no. It's not a black and white situations. There's too many variables with each guy to make a singular conclusion
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/22 12:58 AM
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I appreciate your kind response though!
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/22 12:57 AM
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There's too many dynamics involved to make a conclusion like that unless the woman specifically tells you "I thought sleeping with him would work"
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/22 12:57 AM
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No one said sleeping with a good looking guy makes us feel empowered, but it is confidence boosting. And I don't think sleeping with a good looking guy makes us sluts being used either. When I sleep with a guy I prefer to always do it sober first and talk about what type of dynamic we want (even if I haven't known them long). I was never the one to do hook ups with strangers. But I always got called a slut for sleeping around 🤷‍♀️ Why do you think a woman having a sex life makes her a slut? I've…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/22 12:56 AM
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Agreed. There's also nothing wrong with a more generically attractive man sleeping with the average woman. That doesn't mean he's lowering his standards, it doesn't mean he's using her, it doesn't mean she's dumb for sleeping with him. They might genuinely like each other and want to be together. I hate this notion that looks determined how much someone will like you.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/22 12:48 AM
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I'm getting so tired of these posts blaming women for having healthy sex lives when the reality is they're just mad because nobody wants to have sex with them. One guy tried to say that women are just too stupid to realize we're being used, and I replied with "I'm the one who's getting laid, you're the one that's stupid enough to not even be able to attract someone to want to have sex with you"
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/22 12:42 AM
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I think they don’t know that they are being cucked Some of us aren't that dense. As we get older it's a lot easier to tell when a guy is playing us. The type of girl you're talking about here is the 21-year-olds who are just getting into the partying scene and don't know any better because they don't know how to handle their liquor. But I don't understand is why you're upset that somebody else has a healthy sex life and you don't, and why that has anything to do with you. If I'm having sex with …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/22 12:40 AM
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the sad part is she doesn't even know A majority of times I have been well aware that a guy is just looking for sex and it rarely ever hurt my feelings. Lol There's nothing wrong with having casual sex with somebody that I find attractive. But to say that women are too stupid to know means that you think you're smarter than me because you're a man. But obviously you're not that smart if you can't find out a way to have sex and I'm out here getting sex whenever I want. 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/22 12:36 AM
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Yeah but the point is the attractive guy is not gonna commit to her because she’s just not that attractive How do you know that? Also, why are you saying these women are unattractive and not good enough for better looking men? Why are you trying to date a woman that you don't think is attractive enough? That's extremely rude and no woman is going to want to have a relationship with you knowing that you think she's too ugly for different types of men. If a guy doesn't want to sleep with somebody …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/22 12:33 AM
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There's a big difference from being used and being rejected. They are not the same thing. Also, a majority of women choose to sleep with better looking men and usually discuss what type of relationship they're going to have either before or after. If a guy decides that he just wants to have sex with me and I'm okay with that, then that's what we're going to do. If a guy tells me what I want to hear and then turns into an asshole afterwards, then he's the asshole, I'm not stupid for believing his…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/22 12:31 AM
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Having sex isn't a bad decision though. Correlation is not causation. One does not directly correlate to the other. Somebody can have a really bad past, but that does not mean they can't turn into a better person in the present and the future. If somebody doesn't want to sleep with me just because I've been with a lot of people, that shows what they think of me as a person. Someone should decide they don't want to sleep with me because of their own personal values, but to turn away somebody that…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/22 11:37 PM
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Stop contradicting yourself. I already got your entire post removed because it didn't follow CMV guidelines
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/22 11:29 PM
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I'm so sorry you experienced that. I'll always advocate for people to be in healthy relationships regardless of their past. Everyone deserves a chance to be happy and satisfied in their relationships 😔💕
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/22 11:25 PM
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Odds are those guys were assholes day one. You just chose to ignore it, and everyone telling you it Odds are, you're probably wrong because you don't know the guys that I've dated in the past. Some of these guys acted amazing, but as soon as we got to any type of disagreement they turned into assholes. You can't just say that we chose to ignore it. You weren't there and you don't know who these guys are. I don't know why so many men have trouble with accepting the fact that some guys really do p…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/22 11:15 PM
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Thank you
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/22 11:09 PM
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Why did you make this a CMV post if you're not willing to debate other people and listen to other points of view? The point of CMV is to be open-minded and not present your personal feelings as facts
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/22 11:09 PM
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What is moderator mail?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/22 10:47 PM
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https://www.reddit.com/r/changemyview/wiki/guidelines/
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/22 10:23 PM
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So what's the point of having group rules if you guys get to pick and choose who follows them? Because CMV means that he needs to be interactive with people and be open to other perceptions. It literally means change my mind. All he's doing is being argumentative and acting like his opinion is fact. Does that sound like someone who's open to having his mind changed?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/22 10:20 PM
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You not listening to anyone else's viewpoints is all so against the rules for CMV posts. Change my view means that you need to be open and willing to listen to anyone else's viewpoints in this post. You can't just sit there and argue that your side is right. Why else would you classify this as CMV if you're not going to follow the rules for your own post? I already reported about half your comments because you're not following the rules for your own post!
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/22 10:15 PM
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Also, OP categorized his post as CMV and he's literally bickering and arguing with other people in the comments who don't agree with him. He won't accept anyone else's viewpoint but his own. This whole post needs to be removed from this page. Or I'll report this group for not following its own standards
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/22 10:07 PM
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I already did for one but I will
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/22 10:06 PM
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Have you not been reading any of the comments in this thread?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/22 10:03 PM
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So OP gets to attack everyone who is a non-virgin and that's okay to you?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/22 10:03 PM
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That's not true. You can't determine someone's worth just because they slept with other people. Also, there are people who have done shitty things in their past and they change for the better to better themselves. The past doesn't determine who you are now. And people who think that way are self-centered and think they're better than everybody else.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/22 10:02 PM
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But there's a difference between having sex and being addicted to assholes. Just because you're a virgin doesn't mean you won't be attracted to someone who is an asshole. And some guys like to pretend that they're the greatest thing since sliced bread until you make them angry and then they turn into an asshole. Correlation is not causation. I unfortunately don't get to choose whether or not a guy is an asshole. I usually hope that a guy that I want to date is a nice person, but it doesn't alway…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/22 10:00 PM
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Please cite those studies for me. Because every time I see one of those it's always christian-based or from the 1980s
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/22 09:50 PM
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I've dated men who weren't as promiscuous as I was and a lot of them had no issue with my previous sex life. Most of them didn't even care to ask, we would both get tested and as long as we were clean then neither of us would bring up each other's past. I've also dated guys who didn't want to have sex at all just because it was their personal preference and I respected that. It wasn't because they didn't think I had less value, they just wanted to be in a serious relationship before they had sex…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/22 09:48 PM
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You still never answered my question. Besides being a virgin, what else will you bring to a relationship for a woman? There's more to a relationship than sexual activity or lack there of.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/22 09:32 PM
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No it isn't. Your personal opinion does not speak for all or most men
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/22 09:31 PM
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Show me the resources where you found this to be factually evident
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/22 09:30 PM
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And saying that men only value women if they're virgins is not only rude, disrespectful, but it's also disgusting. I don't have less value as a person just because I'm not a virgin. I am not less capable of falling in love and being happy just because I've had other partners in the past.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/22 09:28 PM
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That's not a fact. Because if that were true nobody would want to marry anybody who wasn't a virgin. Virginity doesn't determine the value of a woman. And it's insulting when men say things like this about women.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/22 09:27 PM
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No man should have to compete with a woman's ex Who said this was a competition? You're not competing against anybody if we're already single. It sounds like you just don't have anything to offer to the table other than being a virgin and you think you're better than everybody else for that. What else would you bring to a relationship besides being a virgin? Being a virgin doesn't guarantee that our relationship will be successful
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/22 09:26 PM
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That's literally not true!
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/22 09:23 PM
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Where are you coming up with this information? Do you have any data to back any of this up? If any of this were true then a lot of people wouldn't get divorced. There's no magical bond that happens when you have sex with somebody for the first time. We we're not like animals where we mate for life and have a life-long mental connection to the first person we sleep with. Having sex for the first time does not change your brain chemistry and make you spiritually connected to the person you have se…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/22 09:20 PM
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You fetishizing virginity is just disgusting. How does me pointing it out make me rude?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/22 09:17 PM
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I agree. The only men who have complained about the number of partners I've had were always the guys that were terrible in bed
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/22 09:16 PM
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You keep contradicting yourself in these comment threads because you don't seem to know the difference between your personal preference and what the average man wants. You're also fetishizing virginity and it's disgusting
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/22 09:15 PM
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But your contradicting yourself because you also said in another comment thread that you want a harem full of virgins for yourself. That would prove that you have a virgin fetish
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/22 09:15 PM
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I'm not a feminist
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/22 09:14 PM
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being the only man for several women You're contradicting yourself because you said men desire being the only man for a woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/22 09:13 PM
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Those types of men are disgusting and have a virgin fetish.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/22 09:12 PM
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There's a difference between boyfriends and lovers. Dating someone does not mean you'll sleep with them. You don't even know what you're taking about
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/22 09:10 PM
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It's not your point, it's your personal opinion. You don't speak for all men and women on the plant
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/22 09:08 PM
1

Why does it matter if they're virgins?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/22 09:07 PM
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Please don't speak on our behalf
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/22 09:07 PM
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You're talking about a small percentage of women. Not all of us are 22 year olds begging for attention. It sounds like you're just attracted to those types of women and you're mad that you don't stand a chance with them because of your personality.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/22 09:06 PM
2

Why does that matter?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/22 09:03 PM
1

Where are you getting your info from?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/22 09:03 PM
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Don't forget, he was a harem of JUST virgins. So these women get used once for his pleasure and then they get thrown away like trash because I guess if you're not a virgin you're no longer valuable. This guy sounds gross 🤢
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/22 09:01 PM
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FOR YOU it's more fulfilling, not for MEN, for YOU. You don't speak on behalf of all men. This is just your preference
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/22 09:00 PM
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🤢 oh god you have a virginity fetish
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/22 08:59 PM
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This is fine if it's your personal beliefs, but this is not true for all men and I don't even know how you came to these conclusions
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/22 08:58 PM
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I think they would be more desirable because they would be more mature mentally on top of looking youthful
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/22 08:28 PM
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It's too extreme. I think men and women both suffer and excel at different things. I'm egalitarian, but if I speak up about men treating women unfairly I get called a feminist lol. If I speak up about women treating men unfairly I'm brainwashed by misogyny
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/22 06:31 PM
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They're not exactly accepting of any of the advice we give. I get mansplained about how I don't know what I want and I often say things just to protect myself. I'm sorry but if you're trying to attract a woman, then a woman telling you how things are perceived is probably important to know. I'm not a feminist by any means, but a man telling me what I do or don't want, or how I don't know what I'm talking about is rude and shows you just wanna blame me for you being single. That's why the comment…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/22 04:55 PM
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Because too many men settle with women they don't like and think it'll make them happy but it doesn't. Don't settle gents!
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/22 03:44 PM
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If you expect a woman to lower her standards just to date you then you need to lower your standards for personal preferances as well. It's only fair 🤷‍♀️🙂
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/22 06:31 PM
1

Oh no 😨 fix it
/r/seduction25/06/22 05:29 AM
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I'm just explaining my situation vs yours. I've gotten lucky to have amazing freidns from all over the world that care about me as much as I care about them. I hope you can find that some day because it's amazing . Especially when you visit them after not seeing them for a while!
/r/seduction25/06/22 05:28 AM
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It's 50/50 honestly. Some guys I'm attracted to right away, some guys take some warming up to. But attraction to their looks won't always mean I like their personality. Once I catch feelings it means I like both about you
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/22 05:20 AM
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Ask OP that question, they're the one that started the topic
/r/seduction25/06/22 05:09 AM
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I was a Navy corpsman for 8 years and I have a group of friends, probably about 15, that were my old Marines and all of them were probably drop a lot if I ever needed them in an emergency. We're not all best friends but we're family.
/r/seduction25/06/22 05:08 AM
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Just because I've had fake friends doesn't mean they were my only friends 🤣 I have plenty of other friends that are real friends to me lololol
/r/seduction25/06/22 05:07 AM
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Lol hoes will be hoes 🤣 thankfully the state I live in has pro abortion laws
/r/seduction25/06/22 05:03 AM
1

I'm sorry if you haven't had good friendships in the past. I love having friends
/r/seduction25/06/22 03:58 AM
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You earn it by showing them you care about them and they can trust you. Like a normal friend lol
/r/seduction25/06/22 03:46 AM
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I have, but I would hate to know someone faked being my friend just to get a date. This guy sounds like Kim kardashian. She's only friends with people if she can gain something from them. You can't base your whole relationship with friends off of what they can give you, it's never going to last or end well.
/r/seduction25/06/22 03:40 AM
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Aw thank you! You too! It's always interesting to see things from the other side. You hear things you don't think about
/r/seduction25/06/22 03:22 AM
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I learned pretty quickly after it happened a couple times that a lot of the guys were doing that because they wanted to be with me and we're just a little jealous because I didn't pick them. So they ended up taking it personally even though I was unaware they even felt that way the whole time. So of course you're going to think you're not enough because I'm busy sleeping with other guys even though you're spending the most time with me lol. I completely understand why it would happen but I just …
/r/seduction25/06/22 03:13 AM
1

Lol I'm upset about the ruling but totally agree with you
/r/seduction25/06/22 02:48 AM
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No BC is 100% affective except hysterectomy and abstinence. Everything else has failure rates. After working in OBGYN I've seen PLENTY of babies conceived using every method you could think of. You can be as careful as you want and still get pregnant. A lot of women still ovulate while on BC.
/r/seduction25/06/22 02:48 AM
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Nope. Happened to me when I was a junior in HS. It was a new condom and busted like a water balloon at the tip. We checked before we started and he applied it correctly with a pinched tip. I've had a fear of it happening again ever since. I've experienced lots of slip offs or minor leaks. I'm not sure if it was the brand or batch batches, but it definitely happens lol.
/r/seduction25/06/22 02:46 AM
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If that guy is a good friend to me then I have no reason or thought ti cut them off. I'm not friends with them just because I'm young lol I'm with them because I enjoy their company and friendship
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/22 02:43 AM
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So he's using other people to get women. Wow, he sounds like a winner lol
/r/seduction25/06/22 02:41 AM
1

Tell me what?
/r/seduction25/06/22 02:34 AM
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🙄 that's what they all say in the beginning. Why does it matter how attractive they are? He's not forming a very strong base for friendships by only caring about how attractive they are. He sounds like Kim kardashian, he only wants people around him if they're useful. Imagine someone not wanting to be your friend just because they think you're not hot enough
/r/seduction25/06/22 01:36 AM
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Same I have a friend I've been hooking up with for over 10 years in between relationships. It's not because I'm just waiting for him and he's waiting for me, it's because we have great sexual chemistry and we never really hang out unless we're having sex. He's literally no threat to any of my relationships and he's actually met one of my ex-boyfriends and they got along great. The guy that was my friends with benefits understands the dynamic between us and so do i. Anyone who is that threatened …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/22 01:30 AM
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B.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/22 01:26 AM
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Yes lol (to a degree) You never know how you'll be attracted to until you meet them. Someone could be the opposite of what you want but you two click and feed off each other in perfect harmony and it's awesome!
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/22 01:20 AM
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But you asked what you could do to make yourself even more attractive. We are giving advice and you're not accepting it lol
/r/seduction25/06/22 01:16 AM
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I don't think you need to change a think, you're gorgeous
/r/seduction25/06/22 01:15 AM
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I felt lied to. These were people that I would call in the middle of the night if I was upset, we would hang out all the time, I really enjoyed their friendships. But they used that against me when they got upset about me not liking them back. So they knew that if they were always there for me that I would have to see that and accept it. I don't know why you would want to bend over backwards for someone who's clearly not showing interest in you either.
/r/seduction25/06/22 01:06 AM
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The issue I'm seeing is that you're looking for attractive female friends. You shouldn't be friends with somebody because you think they're attractive. You're already going to start off with the wrong motivation if that's the only reason you want to be friends with a girl I ended a lot of friendships because I found out the guys were only my friend because they were trying to date with me or sleep with me. That's not a real friendship if that's your motivation for being my friend. True friends a…
/r/seduction24/06/22 11:34 PM
1

In some states, simply abandoning your child, and never showing up in their lives, for a period of 6 months or more can be grounds for legal termination of parental rights. If your parental rights are terminated then that means you no longer need to pay child support.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/22 08:58 PM
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Different states have different grounds for termination. Sometimes it's court ordered and sometimes the parent can fight in court if they really don't believe they're stable enough to have anything to do with that child. They'd have to determine that it's in their best interest for them to not be involved with the child at all. So my dad was in the state of New Jersey when my mom terminated her parental rights. I was a baby when this happened so I'm always curious to what happened that she actua…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/22 08:54 PM
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In some states a man can waive all legal rights without having to pay child support. I think that should be legal in more states. That's what my mom did, she waived all rights and my dad was mad cus he had the burden of paying for two kids at the age of 25 lol
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/22 07:12 PM
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Ok 🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/22 11:00 AM
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Oh yeah, she's definitely trying to date him
/r/seduction24/06/22 01:27 AM
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No, he and I were just friends, just wanted some sex. I didn't want to date him at all
/r/seduction24/06/22 01:12 AM
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It doesn't go anywhere, not that I expected it to, but after a while I just got old
/r/seduction24/06/22 01:06 AM
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By going outside
/r/seduction24/06/22 12:56 AM
1

That doesn't sound healthy
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/22 12:51 AM
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😬 I hope that works lol
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/22 12:47 AM
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I can't judge her on that because I've been a mistress before 😬. But in general I don't think this is a good idea! I know from experience!!!
/r/seduction24/06/22 12:46 AM
2

Had a work husband? It's not like any of us admit it to our spouses 🤣. My ex had a work wife and it was funny to meet her 🤣 she was like "oh! You're the home wife" 🤣 and I knew immediately what she was saying haha. I didn't get offended at all. She was nice and really sweet, I could understand their chemistry. In my opinion work spouses are not a threat, just harmless chemistry with no action. A majority of people I've met have/had one lol. You can be upset and say you don't agree, but it's just…
/r/seduction24/06/22 12:45 AM
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Or what will happen is he'll take the opportunity to sleep with her and then go back exactly to the way he was before, not talking to her as much. Some people will take the opportunity if it presents itself, but that doesn't mean they're interested in anything more. Maybe he'll take that opportunity for some quick and easy sex and then he'll go back to not talking to her as often. Seducing him doesn't guarantee that he's going to like you anymore afterwards.
/r/seduction23/06/22 11:46 PM
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Yes we are animals. The most intelligent animals, but animals nonetheless
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/22 11:43 PM
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So I've been in the medical field for about 10 years and the way I accepted that I needed medication was that there's something wrong in my brain that needs to be fixed. Those meds fix those problems (the right ones for you will). I feel like there's a negative stigma about taking meds because people will get prescribed meds that don't work for them and they automatically think all meds are terrible. Unfortunately doctors don't have a perfect way to see what's wrong with our brains so they need …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/22 11:30 PM
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I mentioned that too. If she's reaching out and he's not reciprocating then he's not interested. If she's sitting by waiting for him to reach out, he might not be interested but he also might be too shy to reach out first. It is weird that they haven't had full conversations though.
/r/seduction23/06/22 11:23 PM
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Or you risk him not having the same feelings. To me it sounds like you like him more and he only sees you as a work friend. It doesn't sound like he's reciprocating any of your feelings. I'd be concerned that you might freak him out a little bit. Maybe he sees your light flirting and friendliness as just a little bit of harmless fun. He might not have seen it as a big hint like you're seeing it.
/r/seduction23/06/22 11:18 PM
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Don't. He clearly isn't that interested. Some people briefly flirt because it's fun, not because they have intentions of persuing anything. You haven't had full conversations with him so it doesn't sound like talking to you is important to him. People will reciprocate if they're truly interested. I've had plenty of "work husbands" that I've harmlessly flirted with, but we don't plan to do anything more because we have lives we care about outside of work. Some people just click at work and they s…
/r/seduction23/06/22 11:15 PM
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As rude as it sounds, some of these people are not ready to date. I've seen people get sexist, rude, condescending, and gas lighting in the comments and they say I'M the problem for saying the advice they're given was not good. But apparently a woman won't know what attracts a woman lol If that's how you act towards anonymous strangers, how will you act towards a possible spouse?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/22 11:07 PM
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Or taking advice from people who are clearly exaggerating. I saw a guy claim he could approaches 8,000 women in his whole life and slept with 100+ women in the past year or two. Sure JAN!
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/22 11:06 PM
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Yea this study is 30 years old ...
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/22 10:57 PM
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No, it's so they know what I've tried, what's worked, what hasn't. It's also to see if we have common interests or not. Sometimes two people who aren't interested in the same stuff can hook up and experiment with their fetishes. I'm a very flexible person when it comes to my tolerance for certain things in the bedroom. I'll try anything once. But consent is always key. Sometimes you need to try something new to see if you like it. I've met guys who didn't want to have sex the way I did because t…
/r/seduction23/06/22 10:46 PM
2

In the butt lol
/r/seduction23/06/22 10:14 PM
1

I've definitely talked about my past encounters with new dates (if the topic comes up) how welse will they get to know me?
/r/seduction23/06/22 10:14 PM
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Some of us don't know what we want until we see it 🤷‍♀️
/r/seduction23/06/22 10:12 PM
1

ficticious character Say that again.......but slowly......
/r/seduction23/06/22 10:11 PM
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I had to do cognitive therapy with one of my docs. I literally had to try and retain myself to think differently. It was not easy....
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/22 10:07 PM
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Oh ok lol. It's just interesting to hear other people discuss their mental health and how it affects their relationships or things they've tried that works well. I have anxiety but it's well managed but I still have some bad habits in trying to break
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/22 09:32 PM
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🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/22 09:25 PM
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From talking to and reading women’s experiences most don’t have this happen. Many don’t start masturbating until their 20s and some never do. Same with orgasms. Do you mean religious women or women in general? Through conversations with my friends we all started learning to masturbate around when we reached puberty or earlier lol. This comment made me feel like a little freak. I knew how to get off within 2 minutes 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/22 09:21 PM
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It's not that we dont want it (sometimes), sometimes it's because the guy won't try to arouse us and just expects a magic waterfall. Sometimes it's because we lost interest halfway through, sometimes what the guy is doing doesn't feel good. It's not like a dick that gets instantly hard, female arousal takes a few minutes to be acceptable and longer to be sufficient. Our body needs time to make lubrication. We literally need to make it 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/22 09:17 PM
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Omg yes! Some guys don't even TRY to arouse a woman, they think we will just be aroused in their presence (that only happens to me with someone I'm REALLY attracted to). Most times you gotta do foreplay and give her an orgasm before she'll be wet enough for sex. Sex when you're not as aroused as you need to be is so uncomfortable and not enjoyable. It feels eh when it should be AHHHHH!!! lol
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/22 09:14 PM
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For me personally it's because of my previous dating experiences. Certain traits revealed patterns in behavior I didn't like. I've settled before and it didn't end well...I'm trying to protect my feelings and sanity. I want someone who will be good for me. I've had too much toxicity in my past that I'm not looking to repeat
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/22 09:03 PM
1

I didn't ask why lol I asked HOW. What's so bad that it's hurting your relationships?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/22 08:54 PM
1

Does anything specific make you neurotic though? Lol you never actually explained anything, you just did a humble brag
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/22 08:30 PM
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I hope you can get the help you need. What makes you neurotic? If you don't mind me asking. I'm curious
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/22 08:14 PM
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Yes that's why I told him how he acted bothered me. I try to stay open minded but things just didn't add up 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/22 08:10 PM
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Why do you think that? I'm not being sassy, I'm honestly interested in how you think that? It's an interesting concept I didn't think of
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/22 08:01 PM
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Oh ok lol the door is always open 🤣
/r/seduction23/06/22 07:54 PM
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Go fucking wild (safely) Fuck a stripper Slap donkey ass Have an orgy Let a Domme shackle you up and have her way with you Make a sex tape Have your fun while it's easier and you have the energy lol. Some of my friends who got married in their early twenties regret not being able to have a hoe phase. I loved having a hoe phase and I think everybody should at least try it once. Just make sure you have good friends guiding you to make sure you're being safe with everything
/r/seduction23/06/22 05:02 AM
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Hypocrisy isn't a thing in dating There was a guy on another post who said he's okay with a woman having multiple partners if he's sleeping with them casually, but when he's looking for a wife he expects that woman to only have three partners at the max. How is that not hypocrisy? He's out sleeping with other people casually and enjoying his life, but he expects the woman he marries to only have three partners? That's a complete double standard. There is absolute hypocrisy in dating sometimes. I…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/22 04:43 AM
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we're both highly neurotic and both want someone who is more emotionally stable.. That's not healthy at all and I would seek help for that. You shouldn't depend on somebody else to help you get better. And an emotionally stable person is going to get tired of your antics really quickly. Emotionally stable people know the difference between someone who has a few issues and someone relying on them to fix their issues.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/22 04:38 AM
1

I think it's probably untrue that you would date a physically unattractive man, When did I say this? I said there's physical characteristics that I can look past even if they're not my normal type. I never said anything about lowering my standards because somebody is unattractive. I never said that someone who isn't my normal type is unattractive. That's not what I said at all. Why did you label this as CMV if you're not willing to listen to other people's POVs and thought processes different fr…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/22 04:30 AM
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He asked for some details and didn't say much after that lol. Never checked up afterwards for follow up info or asked how I was feeling. He's so hard to read 😑 it's hard because we've known each other so long so I just wanna say "dude stop being fucking dense and tell me how you really feel". But then I remember I'm trying to attract him to me and I realize this isn't a good idea 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/22 04:24 AM
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Damn it 😔
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/22 04:20 AM
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It has nothing to do with you being a women and has everything to do with it not being great advice for a 24 year old young man But I'm a woman and he wants to learn how to talk to women, so shouldnt my POV matter? Being able to separate personal experience and bias from the advice you give is paramount I disagree, a person needs to be made aware that some people think differently based off experiences they've had. When I ask for advice from my friends I never get the same answers from them unti…
/r/seduction23/06/22 04:20 AM
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This varies for me. There are some things I can look past: size, height, body type, etc. Because I have my usual type, but sometimes someone comes out of the blue and you're like 😍 oh ok! Different, but I like it! But there are certain personality traits I will not accept: rude, snobbish, stuck up, entitled, constant complainer, always the victim, doesn't listen, assumes everything etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/22 04:07 AM
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That's what he said (lol) but the emotion in his voice when we spoke on the phone didn't show he was too concerned either. I tried to give him the benefit of the doubt since we both worked in the ER together so he's familiar with emergency situations, but I kinda hoped that someone I was dating would still sound a little bit more concerned lol
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/22 04:01 AM
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, the guys that you decide to approach. Are they well dressed, carrying themselves with confidence, seemingly sure of themselves? No, I live in the south so there are a lot of outdoor events we do without having to be well dressed, especially mudding where it's expected to be dirty and smelly. The clothing doesn't matter as long as they don't have a gross odor and don't look like they're homeless. Certain characteristics of a person's clothes will make me less likely to approach them Ie. Ill fit…
/r/seduction23/06/22 03:59 AM
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If you aren't willing to take our experiences and possible advice and point of views into account then why are y'all even here? Does our opinion not matter since we are women?
/r/seduction23/06/22 03:20 AM
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I mean you can get upset about this all you want, this is what has happened to me and this is how I feel based off my personal experiences. Like it or hate it, this how things are for some people 🤷‍♀️ This is probably why so many of y'all are single because you constantly victimize, think your life is harder, and blame women for everything. If y'all hate women so much just date a man.
/r/seduction23/06/22 03:18 AM
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Oh my god I actually found one 🤯 I never thought I'd actually meet a guy who thought this 🤣 please tell me you're trolling 🤣
/r/seduction23/06/22 02:57 AM
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I'm not talking down to every man, and I was hoping this seduction group would have more information other than men complaining 24/7. It seems like it's mostly men crying about being single. I was hoping it would also have women talking about things that work for their husbands that I might be able to use with the guy I'm seeing. Like some extra stuff to add that I never thought of. But it isn't. 🤷‍♀️ And you're not innocent in this comment thread either, as I stated before you are a hypocrite s…
/r/seduction23/06/22 02:50 AM
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its just that grasping what im trying to tell you isnt quite within your range of capability Care to explain why you think so? Are you calling me stupid but trying to be polite? How can you know my range of capability if you don't know me personally?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/22 02:45 AM
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I don't understand how you don't like that statement though. What's wrong with it in your eyes? Because I've had to deal with a lot of guys that don't seem to treat women like people, they treat us like numbers or just a notch in their belt. Why can't they treat us as someone to be friends with or someone to talk to or just someone to shoot the shit with. I don't see how that's too much to ask to be treated like a person and not just someone you're trying to hook up with 🤷‍♀️ Are you just mad be…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/22 11:37 PM
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Did you ever think maybe some of us have had a lot of experience with guys trying to hit on us and they smell like straight ass? Maybe you might not think that it's a big problem, but some of us recognize that sometimes it is a problem. That's why it gets mentioned all the time for guys to shower and make sure that they smell good. If it wasn't a consistent problem it wouldn't keep getting brought up by women.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/22 11:35 PM
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You'd be surprised 😳 I've declined many a second dates for this reason alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/22 11:06 PM
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I will quote SpongeBob as often as I can and i always crack myself up for it 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/22 11:05 PM
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