ImANerdAndCantFlirt Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

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2	Tell me a story.... (F) r/storytime	/r/seduction	11/08/19 06:33 PM
4	Tell me a story.... (F) Why are you posting this on here?	/r/seduction	11/08/19 06:20 PM
1	In clubs, several girls are kissing me and grinding on me etc. but only for a minute or so before going somewhere else I think that sort of behavior is disgusting. Imagine if I just went and fondled a girls breast right? Police officer: Why are you sexually assaulting this woman? Me: But officer I just wanted to have fun! Point don't let them have fun if you can't have fun too. Girls grinding up on a ton of guys should be socially and morally unacceptable. Just like I'd would be for guys to touch and grope girls. So either stop em or do what you want to do too.	/r/seduction	10/08/19 12:15 PM
1	Why is most advice on here so goddamn contradictory? Can't be bothered to read it all... The whole thing why it's so contradictory I'd that 1. Some people give shit advice and some not. 2. Context is missing. The whole change thing isn't that you are supposed to change you! But try new things. Experiment and grow. If you never change nothing new never happens in your life and then you are boring.	/r/seduction	10/08/19 12:09 PM
1	What are some examples of push-pull? You could joke and say "What you don't like Star wars??? I'm not so sure about you anymore.." in a light and joking manner.	/r/seduction	10/08/19 12:04 PM
3	What's with the whole "no-porn" and so on Porn ruins your life. It makes you a spectator to sex not a participator. If ruins your image on women. And it's a superstimuli and leads to issues in bed for alot of us.	/r/seduction	10/08/19 09:45 AM
6	Texting a girl during the week before the date Dude. Calm down.... If a message can make her cancel the date she isn't worth it. Just wait for the date. U don't have to keep things warm.	/r/seduction	09/08/19 07:01 PM
1	How often do you have success with girls that are slow at responding to texts? I've been friends with her before I grew interrested and this has been the case with other women. It really isn't as simple as you seem to think it is.	/r/seduction	09/08/19 12:17 PM
1	How often do you have success with girls that are slow at responding to texts? Well then please elaborate to me why you think it's a bad idea.	/r/seduction	09/08/19 08:06 AM
1	How often do you have success with girls that are slow at responding to texts? Yeah	/r/seduction	09/08/19 08:00 AM
1	Hot girls all around me on plane but of course it’s an old guy sitting next to me, is there still hope for seduction? Really the only and best advice we have to offer XD. I can't think of a worse place having to get a number. Everyone's uncomfortable and want the trip to end..... Sure great place to pick up gals XD	/r/seduction	08/08/19 09:20 PM
2	Girls that wants you to buy drinks Listen mate. That girl is only out to use guys she can get to buy her drinks. Don't. Actually just don't ever spend money on someone you don't have to. Or owe anything. I buy my friends drinks at times because they will give me drinks later. Random chicks in town who call you cheap are dirtbag humans trying to shame you into buying them stuff. I outright as a rule never buy random people drinks. Never ever. Listen I'll put it this way. You should not have to pay for the privilege to talk to the …	/r/seduction	08/08/19 09:16 PM
1	How often do you have success with girls that are slow at responding to texts? I just have your account a glance you seem to be an all round reasonable fella so why you use friend zone is a mystery to me. But I do find some anger too... And lack of respectul discourse in discussion.	/r/seduction	08/08/19 09:08 PM
1	How often do you have success with girls that are slow at responding to texts? I have a date with her sunday. Don't think you know all the details.	/r/seduction	08/08/19 08:59 PM
5	How do I get over approach anxiety? Fix my self esteem? And get better at sex? I would not be embarrased by it if i were you. Well i mean at least not focus so much on it. Everyone has something to be embarrased about, i was nervous about what looked like a huge zit on my sack for a while. Turns out it's fairly common and like a fat sack in the skin that become enlarged. Bassicly it looks like zit on the sieze of a pea. None of the girls i have been with which is numerous have ever made any remarks. Im sure most of it is in your head that it is embarrasing. But yes, the fa…	/r/seduction	08/08/19 08:19 PM
1	I think that the next text I send is crucial. What's the best way to go about it? I don't know, just don't make some dumb sexual inuendo.	/r/seduction	08/08/19 07:52 PM
-1	How often do you have success with girls that are slow at responding to texts? No. This playing costly game is hurtful to both parties, i have a good female friend i have been interested in for a very long time. She is just busy and doesnt respond very quickly, she usually responds in the evening. Doesnt matter when i send it. Don't play unintersted, but dont flood her with attention either.	/r/seduction	08/08/19 07:47 PM
7	How do I get over approach anxiety? Fix my self esteem? And get better at sex? Repetition. Sounds like you got everything else going for ya. But the Job and car should not be a factor in how you succeed with women. Simply keep approaching women till you stop being afraid. Regarding the sex, i was so nervous my first time i was shaking. Which my girlfriend at the time found extremely unattractive. XD Sex. well... just do it. if you are nervous it should go away after doing it a couple of times.	/r/seduction	08/08/19 07:44 PM
3	how many girls have you ? Yes	/r/seduction	08/08/19 05:41 PM
5	how many girls have you ? Well I regret most of them. Drunken sex is not fun when you wake up next day and sober you would not have done it. But... First one was my girlfriend at the time. We broke up couple weeks later. Devasted me. Was already depressed. So I was like, I need to have some fun, I then spend a couple of weeks being out every weekend and actively learning to flirt. I went to town with alot of girls pulled alot of numbers and eventually the anxiety and giving a fuck just goes away. You don't have any issue…	/r/seduction	08/08/19 05:31 PM
2	Guy in the club slapped my girl's ass Aww I was too late..	/r/seduction	08/08/19 05:19 PM
3	Guy in the club slapped my girl's ass Just tell her the guy is a jerk and to let it be known he is harrasing her. Wether you are there or not. In the off chance he is spotted again walk up to him slap his ass and grab it. I'm sure he Is gonna be hella confused and pull away. Then ask him what's wrong? You walk around slapping ladies asses without asking but you can't handle your own medicine? That will show her you are fun and confident and humiliate him.	/r/seduction	08/08/19 05:18 PM
4	how many girls have you ? I was a Virgin in February. I've had sex with 6 girls since... 3 of them from the same party all in the same week...... And my username checks out.	/r/seduction	08/08/19 05:15 PM
2	Need your advice I'm not gonna tell you what to do. But from what I heard, id not persue has as a romantic interest	/r/seduction	08/08/19 01:05 PM
1	Give me advice guys,is there a chance to switch the situation? Ehm... If you are in love with her. Perhaps invite her out to begin with.... Don't use the word "date" just ask her out. And have fun.	/r/seduction	08/08/19 12:49 PM
2	19M How to strike conversation with a female classmate who is usually quite and don't interact with anyone? Talks to her..... You could also say "Hey you, I was give you some cheesy ice breaker but actually I just want to talk to you. So let's skip that part, my name is X, how are you?	/r/seduction	08/08/19 12:03 PM
2	Need your advice Alright... She's wierd. I wouldn't want to do more with her it seemed like she was actually trying to bring you down.	/r/seduction	08/08/19 12:02 PM
2	19M How to strike conversation with a female classmate who is usually quite and don't interact with anyone? You are a 19 year old male. Of course you will sexualize women it's bloody natural. The question is whether it is to an unhealthy degree. If you are undressing every woman you see in your mind you got a problem. If you have a couple of crushes and fantazise about some hot girls you know. That's normal.... Don't go running around thinking sexualizing attractive women is not normal. It's only if you simply can't stop even if you wanted to then it is a problem.	/r/seduction	08/08/19 11:54 AM
3	How to do night game sober? Just tell them the truth. You got a medical condition that does you can't drink.	/r/seduction	08/08/19 11:50 AM
3	Need your advice Wait.... What!?! I see red flags everywhere. She finds you unattractive and she is not interested in you but wants to talk to you. Dude you are just her online shoulder to cry on. You aren't gonna get anywhere with this. Or maybe. I thought the song was charming but damn... Red flags everywhere. And why did you decide not to show anything weak? You mean you want to appear confident? Honestly having emotions is not a weakness. Girls who doesn't allow you to have normal human emotions aren't worth…	/r/seduction	08/08/19 11:46 AM
6	I really like this co-worker and she rejected me for lunch and I want to know if she liked me or if my approach was just so bad she had to reject me. Best course of action is to apologize for that comment. I mean.... Dude that was creepy. That could only be interpreted as yeah I opened the door for you so now you owe me more than a thank you. 😒 It's a really creepy comment. And then you persisted when she said no. You royally fucked up. I think you should apologize to her it's 2 weeks ago so it's on the edge of being too old. But seriously tell her next time you talk. "Hey I'm sorry about that off hand comment at the door that was inappropria…	/r/seduction	08/08/19 11:35 AM
2	What gift to buy to a girl I like for her upcoming birthday? Okay well. Mix some cold water in your blood.... That's a saying that doesn't translate well. xD I guess calm down. I know the situation your in. And alot of overthinking goes with it. I don't know what age you guys are. But if you don't know her very well just take it slow. You don't need to be the guy that is just an aquaintance but gives her a gift like you are a best friend. It can backfire if the gift is too nice. I female friend of mine was embarrassed she got like fine perfumes and stuff …	/r/seduction	08/08/19 10:55 AM
3	What gift to buy to a girl I like for her upcoming birthday? I'm a guy. And well i think go for something anyone would appreciate. Perhaps a nice bodywash. But they can be semi expensive. Maybe ask some of hers friends. Literally just ask her close friends.	/r/seduction	08/08/19 10:38 AM
1	"You're a great guy, but I don't find you attractive" Okay listen mate. Stop beating yourself over the head with your sparse sexual life. Trust me. I did that for years until I popped the cherry. There is nothing wrong with having a sparse sexual life. It may not be what you desire. You might see it as a flaw. But Im telling you there are plenty of girls out there who thinks a scaresity is nice, because you aren't a fuckboi and some even gets turned on by the fact that they are the boss in bed. You said you had alot of female friends. So do I, but …	/r/seduction	08/08/19 09:45 AM
2	Is it a shit test when a girls says "Wait here I'll come back" when at the club? This tells me those women are shitty people who can't just be straight about things	/r/seduction	06/08/19 11:06 PM
1	How do i handle these types of shit tests? Id tell her I feel wierd about it and id prefer she don't go. Its fucking wierd dude	/r/seduction	06/08/19 11:03 PM
1	Some girls I speak with always say I look young, how should I respond with this shit test? Just over exaggerate tell her yeah I'm very young being with me could almost get you in trouble. Or find a way to make it a joke or play it as a strength	/r/seduction	06/08/19 11:00 PM