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| 7 | In-field footage of being outcome independent. Favorite Keys to the VIP Episode. | Inner Game | ImChrisBrown | /r/seduction | 15/10/12 08:23 AM |
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| 1 | The struggles of gaming in a small mountain town. Don't lose hope my dudes.I've been wanting to go to bariloche for years. I lived in a ski town for 6 years. Just get good at snagging the weekend women | /r/seduction | 22/11/19 04:07 PM |
| 6 | Storytelling is a great skill to have when going out. Listen to the podcast The moth to improve that skill.More exposure makes you more competent with the skill | /r/seduction | 17/08/19 08:16 PM |
| 3 | Switching Jobs - I Need Advice Cause I want A Place Where I can Practice GameBecome a restaurant server, ideally at some super fun place where all the hot women go and focus on making everyones interaction world class. | /r/seduction | 30/07/19 08:47 PM |
| 1 | Lost my virginityI also lost my virginity at 26 and share a lot of the same stats as you and had similar feelings afterwards. It's cool and great and fun but it's not the end all be all to a happy fulfilled life. Nice little write up, thanks for the reminder of my mindset when I lost it | /r/seduction | 16/06/19 11:07 PM |
| 111 | How can a 21 year old virgin increase his chances of getting laid?Since you're a law student hopefully you don't mind picking up another book. Models by mark Manson is a great starting point | /r/seduction | 12/06/19 02:45 PM |
| 4 | Got a date with a very hot girl tomorrow, tips? Haven't been on a date for a while.Pay for lunch. Pay for the date. It's foolish not to | /r/seduction | 10/12/17 09:01 AM |
| 18 | Thoughts on hitting on girls while at work?I'm a server at a high volume nicer restaurant in a resort town and I close my customers pretty often. It's to late to go out and flirt and drum something up by the time I'm off so if I don't get a number while I'm working I've got very little opportunity. Get good at it. My bar manager just called me the Barney Stinson of our restaurant hahah | /r/seduction | 06/02/17 01:55 PM |
| 24 | [5/5] The Snapchat Guide to Game: how to get more dates.It's called a yes ladder. Someone rebranded it to some cringy ass name | /r/seduction | 09/01/17 07:21 AM |
| 1 | anyone here having sex with the women they WANT?Taste is subjective. Showed a co-worker a customer I recently slept with and she said she was perfect and a 12. I don't have the same opinion but she was a lot of fun. | /r/seduction | 02/01/17 09:22 PM |
| 1 | Help a 32 year old guy out. Some question and experiences.I live in a ski town of 8,000 people, the ratio is absolutely awful (an honest 4:1 guy:girl). I'm currently in Stockholm and the talent is blowing my mind. That said, go where the talent is. I don't even bother with local chicks back home because I know they've all blown my friends, I'll only run game on visitors. Go to the nicer neighborhoods and meet fly women there, don't bother where there's not opportunity. You'll do plenty fine. Read models and be willing to get out there | /r/seduction | 01/12/16 08:01 AM |
| 36 | "We're not having sex tonight."The brain initially interprets things in the positive, no matter the statement, then assigns truth to it. When we hear something in the negative our unconscious brain picks it up in the positive. We're not having sex tonight may as well be "we're having sex tonight" | /r/seduction | 27/10/16 06:55 PM |
| 1 | Is opening up a Tinder account a good idea if you're just starting out to learn seduction?Ha. I'm likely moving to a large city in 8 months when my lease is up to make more money and pursue for women. | /r/seduction | 24/10/16 05:01 AM |
| 0 | Is opening up a Tinder account a good idea if you're just starting out to learn seduction?My in person appearance is solid. My wardrobe is decent and demographically appropriate. I'm 26, have a car, a dope job, a 2bedroom+loft apartment with one other roommate. I just dont bother taking good photos or having good photos saved and sent to me. I also live in a resort ski town of 8,000 people thats highly seasonal and majority dudes. There aint shit up here for tinder/bumble action during the week or the shoulder season. | /r/seduction | 24/10/16 03:37 AM |
| 1 | Is opening up a Tinder account a good idea if you're just starting out to learn seduction?I have shitty pictures and haven't made an effort to fix it. Get extremely low matches. I do plenty fine in real life, I may actually devote some energy to getting good photos | /r/seduction | 23/10/16 11:39 PM |
| 3 | Guys be more self aware. Saw a pair of dudes working the room at a bar the other day, and everyone was laughing at them.I appreciate the consistent tone with which you make these posts when they appear. Ive seen some newbies in the field and an old post of yours runs through my mind to cut them some slack. I've had women tell me about awful approaches and I tell them that dudes gotta start somewhere and that's its actually hard as shit for dudes to get out there and approach. | /r/seduction | 18/10/16 06:03 AM |
| 1 | Where to meet active girls?Get there early. Like 30-45 mins early. Spend some time warming up and being friendly and I'm sure you'll do fine | /r/seduction | 16/10/16 10:16 PM |
| 1 | Where to meet active girls?Law st yoga in pb Saturday and Sunday at 10 I think. Hundreds of women. It'll atleast get you around them in an active environment. | /r/seduction | 16/10/16 08:16 PM |
| 1 | Where to meet active girls?I can relate. I'm in a small mountain town and there's no talent at any of our yoga studios as best I can gather. Try finding some outdoor free classes if your climate allows it. | /r/seduction | 16/10/16 05:58 PM |
| 1 | Where to meet active girls?Start yoga | /r/seduction | 16/10/16 04:33 PM |
| 2 | 2 year dry spellIf you're 22, in college, 6'1" and slim youre probably just not taking enough shots or socializing often enough. Read models. I'm in Mammoth lakes and am frequently in socal. Shoot me a pm if you wanna meet up | /r/seduction | 03/10/16 05:20 AM |
| 1 | Do girls go after the barback?I pulled as a barback. | /r/seduction | 01/10/16 12:31 AM |
| 1 | Girl I've never met before is coming to visit. How to make the most of it?What do you like to do? Do those things. When I'm in so cal it's usually beer, yoga and training for me. Typically you want to invite a girl to come do the fun shit you're already going to be doing. Concerts, farmers markets, breweries, festival (beer/wine/spirits/music) plays, museums. Whatever. Plan some breakfast and a fun day and then leave the second day open ended so you can act accordingly to how day one goes. | /r/seduction | 27/09/16 07:07 PM |
| 2 | [FR] - Bringing two girls home in two nights - A tale of two oppositesSometimes shitty logistics don't allow you to just bring them home and you have to masquerade around for an hour with them or whatever. Sometimes you just need to pick her up and bring her with you. | /r/seduction | 19/09/16 07:44 PM |
| 19 | Is 'Game' Really Necessary? How To Pull Hotties By Being Yourself And Boring +INFIELDMy good looking 6'7" friend has women throw themselves at him. | /r/seduction | 16/09/16 07:02 PM |
| 3 | How do you friendzone a girl?"let's be best friends forever!" The reaction is always fantastic. | /r/seduction | 27/08/16 06:40 PM |
| 19 | How terrible of an idea is it to just simply state you want to fuck?If you're in college that's normal. Gotta spend a lot of time shedding past self and what's "OK" in college. | /r/seduction | 26/08/16 04:13 AM |
| 2 | Being rich can be a problem! How do I explain a complicated career and significant wealth?Closer to $35k actually. Dunno why I said $40k. | /r/seduction | 22/08/16 05:45 AM |
| 2 | Being rich can be a problem! How do I explain a complicated career and significant wealth?Just don't put as much weight on it. Steer conversations elsewhere. I've traveled 4.5 out of the past 9 months (thailand, india, australia, chile, peru). In that time I've been to a full moon party, went to yoga school in india, swam with a manta ray in aus, snowboarded 65 days, drove and jumped trophy trucks in vegas, been on several cruises, married my best friends, hiked to macchu pichu and went to the driest spot on earth in Chile. You don't need to explain that you're fabulously wealthy to … | /r/seduction | 20/08/16 06:56 PM |
| 2 | Vulnerability: Your Most Powerfully Attractive QualityStop asking yourself if you're being too harsh or too soft and just be. If you want to say some asshole-ish thing say it and don't be apologetic for it, it's an honest comment and it popped into your head so go for it. If you do over reach be honest about how you think you're too soft and are making an attempt at being, well, not so soft, and you completely missed your mark. I occasionally apologize and say that I don't mean to offend. I also openly state that I'm kind of an asshole early on and… | /r/seduction | 09/08/16 06:16 AM |
| 2 | Vulnerability: Your Most Powerfully Attractive QualityI was vulnerable and honest with a girl a few weeks ago as it's my character to be so. I was also funny and charming and enough of an asshole. Hooked up 4 out of the 5 nights she was in town, it was great. Vulnerability, honesty and authenticity are hugely important. | /r/seduction | 09/08/16 04:37 AM |
| 0 | For the romantics out there - Advice from a 49 yr. oldSolid words. | /r/seduction | 27/07/16 08:54 PM |
| 1 | Help: Why would a man in a relationship be subscribed to the seduction sub reddit?Knowledge is power. Knowing more typically makes for a better life. Seduction is for everyone to be used on anyone, including bosses, coworkers or anyone with influence | /r/seduction | 22/01/16 04:17 PM |
| 6 | So many girls on Tinder say they aren't looking for ONS but is this really true?Totally forgot about that. His acting is so damn good. | /r/seduction | 01/12/15 09:53 PM |
| 129 | So many girls on Tinder say they aren't looking for ONS but is this really true?"We are not having sex tonight" | /r/seduction | 01/12/15 05:21 PM |
| 1 | [FR] Picked up a gorgeous rich girlWe were outta town camping for a few days and when we did go out really didn't see anything that piqued my interest | /r/seduction | 25/11/15 03:36 PM |
| 1 | [FR] Picked up a gorgeous rich girlDamnit. I was just backpacking and spent 10 days in Perth and did not meet beautiful rich Aussie women. damnit. | /r/seduction | 25/11/15 07:19 AM |
| 1 | Seduction whoesDefinitely your footwear choice. IE: give us more information you dolt. Humans are complex. | /r/seduction | 21/02/15 05:41 PM |
| 3 | After about 1-2 months of seeing a girl, they always hit a sort of peak of interest, where they clearly show they're very interested. Then it quickly fades away and they lose interest...That's your problem. You dont know what you want which means you're definitely not stating your intention. You're leaving them in purgatory. | /r/seduction | 24/10/14 03:28 PM |
| 1 | Now what (with a moral?)Hah! I chased fun and I just moved back in with my parents at 25! I caught a round of bad luck and I'm taking a few months to stack chips before winter hits to relocate back to a mountain town for the season. | /r/seduction | 22/10/14 04:43 AM |
| 2 | [Mini-FR] I friendzoned a virginThat last line got me. Freaking awesome. | /r/seduction | 18/10/14 02:02 AM |
| 1 | Someone posted in my first thread that there are MANY guys that get great results from cold approach. Where are these guys?Every scene has those guys | /r/seduction | 16/10/14 05:07 AM |
| 1 | [FR] Today I set boundaries.Agreed. Good on you. Get better friends. It feels more fantastic than it sucks, I guarantee it. I'm VERY selective about those I allow close in my life. | /r/seduction | 13/10/14 05:15 AM |
| 1 | Inner Game for Men - In A NutshellThat would be ideal. But I'm very social and a job is a great way to develop a social circle, especially when you move somewhere you've never been. It's rough. I know I will be depressed atleast 2x a year because moving always stimulates feelings of depression. The good thing is though, I'm only 25 and I don't have it all figured out, there's still a lot to learn and that means there's still much to be gleaned from life. | /r/seduction | 12/10/14 09:07 PM |
| 2 | Inner Game for Men - In A NutshellI need to pick a career. I'm 25 and I've been a gypsy for the past three years, moving to winter every year to snowboard everyday and moving somewhere radical for summer. It's been fun but it's taxing and it's hard to create a stable income. Thanks for the read. | /r/seduction | 11/10/14 04:34 AM |
| 3 | ParallaxYou didn't state what you want. How do you want help? Its hard to be successful if you haven't defined it. | /r/seduction | 04/10/14 06:13 AM |
| 1 | Advice on heating things up a bit.Read and stop asking for advice | /r/seduction | 16/08/14 04:48 PM |
| 1 | Any older virgins successfully turned it around?Aye, you're plenty fine at 22. Nearly 25 now and i have plenty of it being thrown my way. But im older now and since ive got it ive decided id rather keep it. Know this. Things are only as big a deal as you make them. | /r/seduction | 08/04/14 12:37 AM |
| 2 | After you've constructed a fulfilling life for yourself, and have attained a confident, comfortable mindset, here are some concepts that I've learned through trial and error over the years.Your psychology is awesome. Our psychology shapes how we view every event on the planet and we both take a positive disposition to anything that happens. Its rad to read something so true that i can relate to. Where do you live? Itd be cool to meet up and talk life. | /r/seduction | 07/04/14 02:40 PM |
| 7 | I’ve been a good girl, a slut and everything in between: tips from a different perspectiveSame. I'm a driven, attractive, funny, energetic, social quality dude with a lot of female friends and only a one or two of them have ever thought to introduce me to other women. They all say I'm a great dude and they can't wait for me to find someone but noone seems to have an interest in speeding that process along. Being friends with a bunch of women has been great and is highly recommended. I just wanted to agree here. | /r/seduction | 03/04/14 12:52 AM |
| 3 | See her, DATE HER. Instant dates are are awesome.Meh, i did 32 days in costa rica and panama for a little over $2k with flight being another 600 to/from socal. Pretty much the same/less i would have spent living anywhere in california. And i was inbetween leases so i had no rent. Travel can be cheaper than most people think. | /r/seduction | 01/04/14 06:00 AM |
| 1 | [FR] California GirlsGoodness gracious we own the beer game here in California. I just got back from San Diego and it's always as delicious as ever. Any bar you go to is running 20+ craft handles. Heck, chili's and applebees run craft. | /r/seduction | 31/03/14 04:01 PM |
| 1 | GUIDE: Kino (touching a girl) [Thijs Quality Post]The claw! | /r/seduction | 26/03/14 09:59 PM |
| -4 | How I picked up a model in the mall (Infield Audio)No one wants excuses. Care enough. | /r/seduction | 26/03/14 08:18 AM |
| 0 | 7 Long Years In The Game. Here's The Novel I Wrote About It. Free for Seddit Today. A Thousand Tiny Failures - Memoir of a Pickup Artist.Link? Sounds interesting. | /r/seduction | 01/03/14 03:57 AM |
| 3 | So Reddit got me laid, not in the way you would think.Dont drink rubbish beer. | /r/seduction | 27/02/14 07:48 AM |
| 5 | "You're a different man than I knew a few months back, you're happier, friendlier and more fun to be around" ~ Thank seduction.Reality is what we make of it and our destiny is as we design it. It's only as tough a choice as I decide it to be, and most of the time it doesn't bother me. I'm successful. People older, wiser, and with far more influence than I often let me know that I'm doing life right. I change and shift who I am, all the time because I'm a growing, ever-adapting beast. I alter who I am for every person I interact with and I'm different day to day. If you make plans of coming to Mammoth before March I have… | /r/seduction | 04/02/14 06:39 AM |
| 1 | "You're a different man than I knew a few months back, you're happier, friendlier and more fun to be around" ~ Thank seduction.Ha, I'm purposefully celibate. I have plenty of opportunity with women now that i've refined my game and the jist of what you're preaching is the core: its not about getting with women, its about getting better with people and connecting with people. | /r/seduction | 04/02/14 05:49 AM |
| 32 | Practicing the art of conversationThe format is mighty wonky. Perhaps you can fix it so my eyes, brain and desire for sensible structure can be in harmony. | /r/seduction | 23/12/13 02:57 AM |
| 1 | 25 year old virgin here.Its conduct and psychology brah. Come to mammoth mountain and we'll talk about it. | /r/seduction | 29/11/13 09:13 AM |
| 1 | 25 year old virgin here.Pretty much. Not kissing is unimportant, it just hasn't happened. My life doesn't make sense to anyone. It doesn't make sense to my closest friends and hardly makes sense to me. I'm a huge contradiction. | /r/seduction | 27/11/13 11:25 PM |
| -1 | 25 year old virgin here.There's a lot of good suggestions here, here's my input. I'm a 24 year old kissless virgin. I'm well traveled, interesting, live a very active life, attractive, in good shape, funny, blah blah blah - a ton of great qualities. I lead women on, often, I love Jesus Christ and i'm celibate but I find the sport entertaining. I find that I take such an alpha role that the women 'sit back' and go along for the ride, i have such a strong sense of direction that they let me make every move. I'll usually … | /r/seduction | 27/11/13 11:14 PM |
| 15 | [FEMALE PERSPECTIVE] Average guy success, attractive guy failure and some common AFC mistakesGood G-d woman, how much have you read and researched? Your posts are invaluable and i continually look forward to them. Thanks . | /r/seduction | 23/07/13 05:27 AM |
| 7 | CAN. NOT. APPROACH."and i choose not to get it out of my head" Framing. You've go to reframe your life. You're approaching left and right but you dont frame them as approachs and you crush the set. Outcome Independence will likely be your salvation here. Look it up on this sub and browse /r/howtonotgiveafuck | /r/seduction | 19/07/13 07:13 PM |
| 2 | Talking with a pen in my mouth has helped me become a better communicator.Ate a few words in a 5-set last night. Instantly decided I'm doing this. It's old, but thanks for the post. | /r/seduction | 25/06/13 03:30 PM |
| 0 | Mystery vs. IntrigueGreat words. I've been saying for years, "Always gotta leave something to be desired." and I've found that even when I'm in a situation where im with the target ALL the time I still have ~5 days of interesting information about myself. Its the nuances of your life, really, that provide intrigue. | /r/seduction | 21/06/13 05:39 PM |
| 12 | So I just approached random girls at the mall for the last half-hourMetal was my initial reaction. I'd listen to metal. | /r/seduction | 12/06/13 06:56 AM |
| 2 | The real reason girls flake on you, and how to prevent itAnd this is exactly why i recommend the game to all my female friends. You make the world a better place. Good words. | /r/seduction | 04/06/13 07:31 AM |
| 1 | [FR] 'Celebrity' CrushGreat responses. Seriously. Also that card idea was brilliant | /r/seduction | 02/06/13 03:54 PM |
| 1 | Tonight, on my date, I applied EVERY single "PUA" theory. WOW!If you dont have a comfort zone the your inner game should be fine (bolstering self confidence). Just continue to act and do whatever the hell you want and become whoever the hell you need to. It is by doing whatever that you become whoever - Remi Gaillaird | /r/seduction | 28/05/13 03:26 PM |
| 2 | If i am good looking would it be obvious to me that girls are checking me out?For the most part; yes. Gay men at festivals are overly aggresive/open often. Also, youre a departure from the norm (yolked up gays) which makes you rare, which makes you desireable. The good news is if gay dudes are checking you out so are women. Source: born and raised in palm springs, ca - huge gay community. Im very straight. | /r/seduction | 26/05/13 02:59 PM |
| 1 | If i am good looking would it be obvious to me that girls are checking me out?I started to notice i was catching glimpses in waikiki (a lot of them, which was new and rare) when i would 'look last' or take the last moment to look at them. Women are sooo used to being checked out theyll notice instantly if youre looking their way and generally not mirror the gesture. You have to be actively not looking for women to check you out. It happens.>Basically i worked out and got a decent body frame, got really fashionable clothes and shoes, and styled my hair nicely. I went out t… | /r/seduction | 26/05/13 02:56 PM |
| 2 | Beach game advice?Opened once with a "me and my buddy over there are playing a game of local vs. tourist. We find the oddest looking people we can and find out if they're a local or tourist." blah blah blah improvise | /r/seduction | 24/05/13 05:51 AM |
| -1 | I Think I May Have Found The Perfect OpenerFunny, the women give me the same guff for having a famous name but they're atleast half way creative with it. | /r/seduction | 20/05/13 07:11 PM |
| 0 | I Think I May Have Found The Perfect OpenerIf she's cute enough, yea, anything will work. Got opened on wednesday by a girl who wasnt cute enough and i was already surrounded by 5 women so i blew her off. | /r/seduction | 19/05/13 01:57 PM |
| 7 | The Last Pick Up Book you'll ever have to read...Models - Mark MansonNot 22 seduction books. 22 in total. Mans search for meaning, pitch anything, how to win friends and influence people, the definitive book of body language and think and grow rich. (top 5 for this field. Blue like jazz, motherless brooklyn, come be my light and a few other make the all time list.) | /r/seduction | 23/04/13 09:08 PM |
| 6 | The Last Pick Up Book you'll ever have to read...Models - Mark Manson'pitch anything' was refreshing. Game theory applied to business. One of my top 2 books of last year (read 22 books total) | /r/seduction | 23/04/13 08:23 PM |
| -6 | An easy way to impress just about anybody. [Field Tested]I've read 6 of the major books on influence/manipulation. I've know game theory, have read the 48 laws of power, influence, and a few others. I have far better, much more meaningful tactics than leaving mints on the check. | /r/seduction | 19/04/13 05:26 AM |
| 9 | An easy way to impress just about anybody. [Field Tested]I apply this tactic in many forms of my life. I tell people i'm "not so good" at something when im actually decent or excel at it. I tell them what to think (im not good) then impress them by being completely normal and average. I'm a waiter and tell my tables, in a joking manner, "ahh, yea, sorry, you got the slacker server. Could've been sat in any other section but you ended up in mine. sorry." and then provide completely normal or above average service. They jokingly expect terrible service … | /r/seduction | 18/04/13 08:42 PM |
| 1 | Places to meet more women....Ski resorts? I live in Mammoth and we have a 8:1 guy:girl ratio. We get a new shipment in from LA every weekend - other than that....the talent is lacking | /r/seduction | 02/12/12 05:13 AM |
| 2 | [FR] Being yourself is more rewarding and easier then trying to be what you are not - with How To Caress A Boob guideBoob guide was great. Top shelf. | /r/seduction | 29/10/12 06:30 AM |
| -5 | [FR] The best rejection I've ever gotten.scale is not subjective. It's in the sidebar somewhere. 10's are used to being approached all the time, hearing the same lines, and require an insane amount of game to get through. Their looks could be a 9 or a high 8, but if they've got it, and they're used to it, it could make them a "10" in difficulty. Approaching a 10 with low self esteem is no challenge. | /r/seduction | 25/10/12 01:12 PM |
| 1 | I don't drink alcohol. How can I still fit in at bars and parties without being seen drinking?"Why aren't you drinking?" "I pickup women better when I'm sober" get some practice in now with being straight forward. You'll be killer with another few years on ya | /r/seduction | 15/10/12 09:14 AM |
| 4 | In-field footage of being outcome independent. Favorite Keys to the VIP Episode.http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=noWlCTuwTn0 non-hulu/non-american/actually watch this one, theres no ad's. | /r/seduction | 15/10/12 08:53 AM |
| 2 | Ugly Guy GameI like Keys to the Vip. Classic good lookin guy vs. super dweeb with solid game. I personally (male, straight) do not find Mike attractive at all and I assume women would be slightly revolted by him. However, his game is tight as hell. Watch. http://www.hulu.com/watch/203474 | /r/seduction | 15/10/12 08:20 AM |
| 1 | How to force myself to escalateYup, thats it. Bravo seddit. | /r/seduction | 15/10/12 06:20 AM |
| 7 | How to force myself to escalateSomeone link to that seddit post about escalation anxiety and what to do with/about it, it was great. Basically, the post summarized that when you feel escalation anxiety (ie: "uhh...should i touch her leg?" I'm nervous about it) That's your cue, thats when you know exactly what you have to do. Same applies for "should i kiss her..but what if?" boom, that's your cue. | /r/seduction | 15/10/12 12:58 AM |
| 12 | Enough inner game can we get more little 'bullets'? Your favorite tricks/tips/logistics shortcuts. I"ll startway to respond with an insult. seekingalpha is a famous stock trading website. | /r/seduction | 10/10/12 07:25 PM |
| 8 | Enough inner game can we get more little 'bullets'? Your favorite tricks/tips/logistics shortcuts. I"ll startRan a warm up set the other night. Saw an hb8 eyeing a good looking guy and being in proximity to him. I met the guy, got his name and some information, then walked over and introduced myself to the set (hb8, hb7) and told them I wasn't there to hit on them, i had a friend I wanted them to meet because I think they'd get along well - I'll just introduce them and they can take it from there. Social proofed myself (more) gave me a set to talk to all night (revisited like 3 times) and was super win… | /r/seduction | 10/10/12 07:21 PM |
| 1 | [FR] Cross-Dressed, Got BitchesWay to own the frame. | /r/seduction | 06/10/12 03:17 AM |
| 2 | Mini-FR Updates on progress, Apocalypse Opener used etc :DAO got used and worked! Schwing! | /r/seduction | 01/10/12 08:26 AM |
| 0 | [FR] The moment you truly stop giving a single fuck about trying to get laid, you have the gravitational pull of 1,000 sunsIm celebate and my game is/has been fire precisely because i have no intention of beatin guts. I just run game and make friends | /r/seduction | 30/09/12 02:25 AM |
| 1 | Sarcasm and foreign girls.Least you got your spit back | /r/seduction | 29/09/12 07:25 PM |
| 3 | Patience.More words on the femine energy opener please | /r/seduction | 29/09/12 12:48 AM |
| 2 | Is there seduction or game for women?I think i just laughed and owned the frame. So much can be achieved by being unaffected. | /r/seduction | 25/09/12 08:28 PM |
| 1 | Is there seduction or game for women?Ha. Didn't even bother to check the username. Give a honey friend (hb7.5+, preferably friendzones) the game and have them read it. They get hit on often, it'll be intriguing to them, to see the tricks that have been used on them. After reading they'll critique your game and help you out. It's good stuff. | /r/seduction | 25/09/12 07:55 AM |
| 1 | Is there seduction or game for women?In all seriousness, it's a shame there isn't. Really, the goal of seduction is for you to end up with a "higher value" target/individual. Just saying "hi" to a model isn't going to cut it for you if you're not on the same level. Most dudes guys on here will tell you, "your a woman, seduction is easy, say hello!" But really, it encompass so much more of that. Seduction is about push/pull, about getting someone to value something, about making every social interaction fun, about being interesting … | /r/seduction | 25/09/12 06:59 AM |
| 1 | [FR] First field report: Getting over Approach Anxietykeep reading, keep approaching, keep scaring the hell out of your self. Build on positive experience. IOI returned? Start kino (never had any experience with kino? just go for it. hand/arm/should/back touch and act like its normal, tell yourself, make yourself believe that you do this ALL THE TIME and that its normal) #-close and move forward. Well done dude | /r/seduction | 24/09/12 11:13 AM |
| 2 | I am attracted to too few girls... Help!lawyer up? lol wtf | /r/seduction | 24/09/12 11:10 AM |
| 3 | [FR] Out alone. Take lead.made me lol so much | /r/seduction | 24/09/12 05:56 AM |
| 1 | My name is hard to pronounce. How can I use this to my advantage?Nope. Currently waikiki. Hope to make it to Aus sometime though | /r/seduction | 23/09/12 03:57 AM |
| 1 | What the other side knows (Comment thread from 2XChromosomes)...Ha. What lowly human being's. I purchased The Game for a target of mine (second time i've done that, btw) and the wench at barnes & nobles gave me guff for buying a sleazy book so I could learn to seduce women. I wanted to make this interaction as short as possible but she had other things in mind. I told her it was for a friend, she said, 'thats what they all say' i replied with 'no really, i read it a few years back. I use the material occasionally.' She proceeded with more guff (hb5, noo reas… | /r/seduction | 21/09/12 09:43 AM |
| 1 | Best response to: Why don't you have a girlfriend?"You cant hold this down. You can't tame Chris Brown" is the answer I give when I've been asked this question (which is rare). It goes along with my personality. On top of that, I'm nomadic (6 months and then I move) | /r/seduction | 21/09/12 09:25 AM |
| 7 | My name is hard to pronounce. How can I use this to my advantage?"I'm Chris Brown, like the famous guy." Is what I usually get away with. I usually get to play a bit off the 'woman-beater' stigma from the famous guy. tl;dr: I contributed nothing to this thread. I have an easy and famous name. | /r/seduction | 21/09/12 09:23 AM |
| 3 | When I dress down I pull more chicks, anyone else?are you good looking? If you're good looking and dress down you'd appear more approachable. If you're good looking and dress up you'll look top shelf, less approachable, harder to attain, stuff like that. Same situation with girls just reversed. Dime's just hanging out in casual wear seem wayy more approachable then done up tightwads | /r/seduction | 18/09/12 08:47 AM |
| 2 | How to get a guy numbers?Twice, recently, I've had honeys say, "let me give you my number, lets hang out!" It shows initiative and is a VERY good thing. (still talking to one, other one is MIA. whatev) | /r/seduction | 17/09/12 07:33 AM |
| 1 | So /r/seduction, what is something interesting about yourself?I'm nomadic. I live 6 months at a time in a place. This year its been 6 months in Mammoth Lakes, CA snowboarding everyday and 5 months in Waikiki, HI. I'm also a former CEO. | /r/seduction | 13/09/12 09:03 PM |
| 1 | How can I go out?5'11" or 6', depending on if yoga has actually made me half an inch taller or not. | /r/seduction | 10/09/12 05:42 PM |
| 2 | How can I go out?Definitely not. Im likely average. I cant remember a single time when a girl seriously complimented me on my looks. Im a 6 or 7. Im interesting (im nomadic. I currently live in waikiki and i spend my winters in mammoth snowboarding everyday) im confident and outcome independent. Hot girls get hit on all day long all the time. We're all just looking for someone to rescue us from our boring existence. Be that someone! Be interesting | /r/seduction | 08/09/12 07:55 PM |
| 1 | How can I go out?Been one of my best week's as far as escalation and # closing goes. # closed both Heineken girls at the bar a week ago. I'm unemployed, have $23 to my name and I'm $200 in debt. | /r/seduction | 08/09/12 07:06 AM |
| -9 | BallsNLP always works "for you" if you commit to it (or ANYTHING) itll work for you. | /r/seduction | 03/09/12 01:28 PM |
| 1 | (20/Virginfag) Just started Sedditing, have a date with an HB9 I work with this Friday, not sure what to do (yes I've read all the FAQ's/Guide's, just wondering your guy's opinion on my situation)Dont get oneitis Have fun Talk about whatever the hell you want to. Seriously. | /r/seduction | 03/09/12 06:51 AM |
| 1 | How to be AFOGFind a mentor, stat! Seriously. You need someone working with you hands on. I've changed a few of my AFC friends into regular dudes/alpha's (whatever the goal was) but it required me knowing them and working with them. | /r/seduction | 03/09/12 06:42 AM |
| 2 | [FR] A party I knew no-one. Alpha, k-close, multiple #-closesclearly not alpha enough. Look at his username. | /r/seduction | 03/09/12 01:47 AM |
| 3 | The very first day - a huge failureDon't put too much pressure on yourself. Making it day #1, having a structure, ish like that. You're going out there talking to people. You're talking to people who go places and talk to other people, that's it and that's all that it is. Put too much pressure on yourself and you'll start messing up at the simplest spots. You have, if you so choose, YEARS to learn this material. Chill. | /r/seduction | 01/09/12 08:33 PM |
| 27 | Why Girls Flake - I asked a Friend, Here's her ResponseYou're in extreme AFC territory. Keep reading. Oh, and self preservation is the #1 law of nature. | /r/seduction | 28/08/12 08:44 AM |
| 0 | Is it even possible to approach a girl when she is with a parent?i think that was the point and this was satire. Yay, opinions! | /r/seduction | 27/08/12 10:20 PM |
| 2 | [FR] First application, single pickupI just ran this exact scenario last week, except i'm the hardbound christian and she's the agnostic. She wanted the boom boom and i didn't and now she wont talk to me. hahah. anyways, reminded me of one of my favorite lines lately, "i gotta go to the store but you can't come with me, that's wayyy too domestic for me." hahahaha. | /r/seduction | 27/08/12 10:19 PM |
| 1 | I know it's bad to ask /r/askwomen, but I couldn't help myselfno context makes this impossible to follow. Did you forget there's humans that aren't you that will be reading this? | /r/seduction | 27/08/12 10:15 PM |
| 1 | Girls on my street selling lemonade in bikinis. Sometimes the universe conspires in your favor"being non-reactive is key". Create your own reality and dwell in it. Do whatever the hell you want with the words honeys throw your way and act however the hell you want. Own the frame. Just make sure, while you're owning your own reality, you stay tied to earth - don't want to go crazy celeb freakout style here. | /r/seduction | 27/08/12 07:56 AM |
| 1 | I have not posted in almost a year but I overheard this gem and thought I would share.Was a barback. Currently a bell/valet. Former CEO. Tip jobs make my life work. | /r/seduction | 26/08/12 08:13 PM |
| 3 | I have not posted in almost a year but I overheard this gem and thought I would share.It's great when your life becomes a natural string of DHV's. I'm nomadic, I spent the winter in Mammoth and bagged 102 days snowboarding this past season. I moved to Waikiki for the summer. Last night a honey sat down next to me on the bus, we both had backpacks, she apologized for her's being in the way, I said I had the same problem. Asked if she was coming from work, she said yea she was. Asked where i was coming from. My boss had given me a free roundtrip ticket to any island, had to be used… | /r/seduction | 26/08/12 04:00 AM |
| 1 | [FR] Got approached by the girl...:tup: for the wing | /r/seduction | 19/08/12 12:11 AM |
| 2 | Where do you guys go to read up on tips, advice, articles, etc?Good G-d I hope you're not a college professor. Read the sidebar and read the comments. People drop knowledge all the time. | /r/seduction | 16/08/12 09:56 AM |
| 2 | I'm 23 and have never had a girlfriend, had sex, or even held a girls hand. How do I snap out of my loser mentality and ruminating about the past?Everyone here has great advice. There's no theory or advice I could add that would be of benefit, the only thing I can do is bring personal experience in. I'm 23. I've never kissed a girl. Decent looking, great personality, my life is freaking perfect (i currently live in waikiki) It just never happened back when I was an AFC and now that I understand Game theory I definitely have the opportunity but never go for it. I'm celibate and decided to just save myself for my wife (old school christian … | /r/seduction | 14/08/12 10:50 PM |
| 5 | [FR] Got her number by walking away."I guess you already know that means a no lol. Where are you from chefporkchop?" / She's moving into qualification land and wants to find more out about you before she commits to a face to face interaction. Keep the text game tight and you could pull a date. Go beta and get blown out. | /r/seduction | 12/08/12 08:04 PM |
| 2 | Is there a /r/seduction for women? Cosmo just doesn't deliver in realityNeither, unfortuantely, though those may be of some value. The blog i was reading was from a fPUA, who know what she was talking about which added an immense load of information. She would say things such as, "he escalated kino, he pushed and pulled, he knew what he was doing, he had done this before", stuff like that. Blogs where women just talk about dates but don't have any games concept are weak. she wasn't ashamed to post pictures of her self and sometimes video blogs of the dates. She was … | /r/seduction | 11/08/12 09:11 PM |
| 5 | Is there a /r/seduction for women? Cosmo just doesn't deliver in realityAnd wtf is with you dolt's saying, "Your a girl, just approach" Have you spent all this time learning seduction & social dynamics yet learned nothing? We value what comes with effort, what's difficult to obtain, that's THE ONLY way the human brain knows how to assign value to things. If a honey just approach's and makes it too easy I can guarantee there will be no fun and no long term relationship. Girl's want to run game for the same purpose men run game, because it's THE GAME and it's meant to… | /r/seduction | 11/08/12 12:31 PM |
| 2 | Is there a /r/seduction for women? Cosmo just doesn't deliver in realitySomeone, a few months back, posted a link to a honey that was doing 100 dates in 2012. She had read The Game, understood game theory, and is gunning for 100 dates this year - she breaks down the dates thereafter and blogs about them. Super insightful to read from a male perspective. I thought I had bookmarked it but it's gone, anyone got the link? | /r/seduction | 11/08/12 12:26 PM |
| 1 | So, seddit: let's play the invent-an-opener game!I live in Waikiki. "Me and my buddy are playing 'Tourist or local' and this is the tie-breaker round". Opened a 2 set with a 10 and a 7.5. It went alright, no close. (first time opening a 10. solid 10.) | /r/seduction | 31/07/12 07:05 AM |
| 3 | Conversational Threading: Never run out of things to say, EVERSeek first to understand, then to be understood. Everything you read on human interaction has a psychology undertone, some of it's more heavily rooted in psychology than others (and most wont mention that they are) My personal library includes a lot of interaction, understanding, and success books. Off the top of my head; Think & Grow Rich, How to Win Friends & Influence People, Man's Search For Meaning, What Every Body is Saying, The Definitive Book of Body Language, Influence, The 48 Laws of P… | /r/seduction | 24/07/12 12:37 PM |
| 2 | Conversational Threading: Never run out of things to say, EVERI read books on psychology like crazy because it deeply interests me. I have an actual desire to understand people - I didn't just go to college and end up with as a 'psychology major'. I often know more real/applicable psychology than the psychology major's i meet. | /r/seduction | 23/07/12 08:17 PM |
| 2 | Conversational Threading: Never run out of things to say, EVERI disagree. I'm a psychologist by desire (definitely not be schooling). I understand game, body language, social positioning, framing, DHV's/DLV's, positive pyschology, success psychology, logotherapy, blah blah - I know A LOT about people. I LOVE IT when I meet another individual who actually knows what the eff they're doing. Whether it's genuine or not its way more entertaining than the normal dolt who has no idea why he has his arms crossed or why he's trying to justify himself after a commen… | /r/seduction | 23/07/12 08:51 AM |
| 2 | Has anyone else ever been called out w/ seddit terms?I have an hb7.5 friend that I gave The Game too so she could read it and call dude's on their ish. I friendzoned her and it was like, "hey, you need this. Here you go." She picks up on it when dudes are running game but if she likes it she goes with it. I'd recommend giving The Game to an hbfriend and getting their reaction/critique of your game. | /r/seduction | 18/06/12 05:00 AM |
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