ImFinePleaseThanks Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
138	Watched a man be who he was when he thought no one was watching IRL. There are far more tricks to hide activity than I ever knew. And then you're accused of homophobia for stating the facts.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	22/10/21 09:31 AM
2	Husbands consent to being there for their wife in sickness and in health when they marry, yet they're statistically shown to fail at this even when it's the bare minimum. Strategy: see how he reacts to you falling sick and block + delete if he in any way seems unsympathethic I'm so glad you had sisters in need that helped you get out. Your comment was a good reminder of the women's charities I want to support this Christmas.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	20/10/21 08:08 PM
8	Husbands consent to being there for their wife in sickness and in health when they marry, yet they're statistically shown to fail at this even when it's the bare minimum. Strategy: see how he reacts to you falling sick and block + delete if he in any way seems unsympathethic He probably lied like mine did.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	20/10/21 11:15 AM
10	Bachelor Party And Strip Clubs There are A LOT of things that we don't think about or pay attention to before we get married that then come to bite us in the a** later. I urge you to inquire about sex work, about what kinds of things he thinks is normal to share/keep to yourself in a marriage... and then I'd dig deep into gender roles, who is going to take care of the household chores and how will they be split, who will do what when parties are prepped etc. This sounds so anal before we get married but once you're 'in it' yo…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	19/10/21 11:51 AM
58	ladies whats some red flags that tell you a man is low key sexist? I have a strong reaction to anyone that calls women bitches and find it embarrassing how many women have adapted the use in an attempt to sound cool and feel empowered by its use, when in reality using it is a sign of the powerless. Using the word is either a deliberate or unconscious attempt to dehumanize women and make us appear less than. Think for a moment where the 'trend' to call women bitches came from. It became normalized through gangsta rap and urban culture where men are called the N-…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	15/10/21 06:52 PM
24	No words. Rest in beautiful peace, Agnes And then they talked sympathetically about it as his sex addiction drove him to it and not a) sexism and b) racism. And no mention about all the women that are trafficked to these 'massage parlors' and work there under threats. Most mass-murderers kill women and most mass-shooters start their murder spree by killing first the woman in their life (mother/girlfriend), then they go out and shoot another woman and then they start shooting randomly. The murder rate in the US has jumped 30% since the …	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	15/10/21 11:38 AM
1	Props to the US for taking out some gold digger trash Not enough.	/r/PussyPassDenied	19/02/21 04:32 PM
23	When I finished my thesis and was handing it in, I also posted DOB, length (in pages) and weight to my Facebook timeline, intendedly making it sound like I just gave birth to a baby. Congrats! I've just spawned mine. I really hope my boobs won't grow bigger, I can't take that back pain with the typing.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	19/02/21 10:43 AM
4	She's in a "traditional marriage" but works full time AS WELL AS acting like his servant... Someone save this woman unfortunately you are right about this being horribly common	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	16/02/21 04:32 PM
25	She's in a "traditional marriage" but works full time AS WELL AS acting like his servant... Someone save this woman Yeah, why would we assume they had morals. Or a sense of equality. /s Marriage is a partnership, most people don't enter into it to squeeze as much as they can out of their spouse but to establish a partnership to raise kids and have a good symbiotic relationship.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	16/02/21 03:47 PM
30	Men can be a gamer OR he can have a girlfriend. Not both. I'm so sorry about his lack of care. He just confirmed that his view of you was what the other gamer expressed, that his girlfriend was just something to stick his dick in inbetween gaming sessions. So many women are just BangMaids™ for selfish assholes. It infuriates me how many women are duped into this role with minimal effort on his part.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	16/02/21 01:03 AM
84	Hint that I come straight over to your place and then ask me to decide the plans? Blocked I'm still mad about a date I went on this summer with this grown man that I had made a deal with beforehand on Tinder that if he'd bring a good joke I'd pay for dinner. (This turned into a weirdly long story that I almost deleted but I'm leaving it anyway.) Date #1, dinner at a fancy restaurant, my choice of place. Dude did not bring a good joke or a good story. Gave some lame excuse. I felt a bit cheated about him not bringing a joke as discussed, but wrote it off on him being shy and decided t…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	12/02/21 01:08 AM
10	Why do men complain about marriage, when marriage for women is... WoMeN WaNt t0 Be d0mInAtEd bY mEn	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	11/02/21 11:38 PM
24	Got this gem from a guy I used to see in college(my 19-year-old pickme era) OP to Nice Guy™: "Funny, because I think most men, including you, are worthless."	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	11/02/21 10:00 PM
14	Literally every guy I meet that I’m nice too thinks this. It’s why they hate women who are snarky. Unkind women are the worst thing on the planet according to them. In many countries we also have laws where it is illegal to LIE to another person in order to get them to have sex with you. In other places that's just considered fine, but strangely these places will still have laws making sure you can't lie in order to swindle goods and services out of people. As if swindled sex is worth less to oneself than goods and services.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	11/02/21 11:02 AM
6	Laughing so hard right now at all the ridiculous conspiracy theories being spread about FDS 😂 I absolutely LOVE how obsessed they are with us. My distrust and contempt for men stems only from mens own actions, particularly a general sense of entitlement, senseless violence and your animalistic sexual violations. Men: you created my contempt for men with your actions.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	09/02/21 07:58 AM
99	Why is it that I’m supposed to specify “not all men” when discussing rape when 1 in 10 men are rapists? Oh, in some countries 1 in 3 men will admit that they've raped a woman https://www.theguardian.com/world/2010/nov/25/south-african-rape-survey and that's only the ones that admit it. Then we have all the men that will try to coerce a yes. I have very low expectations for them, yet I frequently get disappointed.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	08/02/21 07:47 PM
39	Women are 6x more likely to end up divorced if they are diagnosed with cancer or MS, than if their male partners were facing the same illness. Credit: IG @wokeblackprincess Thank you for your kind words. I feel in my bones that I'm not done making history. Something's brewing.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	06/02/21 10:24 PM
273	Women are 6x more likely to end up divorced if they are diagnosed with cancer or MS, than if their male partners were facing the same illness. Credit: IG @wokeblackprincess My husband divorced me on my death bed. I recovered miraculously but I was literally getting divorced with in the hospice. Women saved me, my aunts and my old friends. All but one male friends cut contact and some of my more self-absorbed female friends. I have such a low opinion of men. Based solely on experience and the ability to read statistics.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	06/02/21 08:26 PM
91	Don’t...give men your number while out anywhere! Funny how this guy wants to have a word with Hannah but not the abusive idiot that berated him. Cuz Hannah is obviously the problem in his mind, not the dude.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	28/01/21 08:38 AM
18	Society has conditioned women to keep mute and accept whatever crumbs we get from nvm/lvm. It’s time to speak up 👏 They don't have the initiative or innovative spirit to come up with stuff on their own. To be fair all women are not the same so what one woman wants another woman doesn't like. If you set clear expectations then they can't turn it around on you for not being clear enough in what you wanted. It wasn't until I made demands that some of them were met. Before I said what I wanted I got nothing.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	25/01/21 01:02 AM
66	Don't let them trick you, BDSM was never empowering. I've never understood angry sex or even makeup sex when you haven't really made up. It's such an intimate thing to me... so I'd be sweet-talked and lied to only for the asshole to turn around afterwards and show me who he really is.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	14/01/21 03:49 PM
21	Don't let them trick you, BDSM was never empowering. I always took those as the ravings of paranoid schizophrenics - I would very much like to hear somebody in the know do a tell-all.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	14/01/21 03:47 PM
112	TRIGGER WARNING: PLEASE RE-CONSIDER DATING APPS!!! WITH COVID , ETC MEN ARE GETTING INCREASINGLY DESPERATE AND DATING APPS OFFER LAX VETTING AND ZERO PROTECTION FOR THIER BAIT-US!!!!! Whenever something online is 'free' the user is the product. The product sold on dating apps is access to women.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	10/01/21 04:19 PM
41	Imagine thinking women owe you something, and “arresting” them when you don’t get your way 🤮 Remember the unprocessed rape kits. There are hundreds of serial rapists all over the USA that have not been identified, or have been identified and not brought to justice because cops won't do their jobs. While I absolutely think it is true that the US police force has failed people of color I think their failure to women is no less serious. Thousands of women have died because police officers failed to do their job or were too sexist to do shit.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	09/01/21 08:55 PM
148	Equip yourself with facts so men can’t bully you at work/dating/etc. And as doctors they fatally misdiagnose 33.000 patients in America alone. Male doctors are also way more 'prone to' misdiagnosing women than men. https://blogs.sph.harvard.edu/ashish-jha/2016/12/19/do-women-make-better-doctors-than-men/	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	09/01/21 08:50 PM
17	Men are not stupid. They are smart. They know when they are doing something wrong, they just don’t care. Stop giving them the benefit of the doubt that they don’t know what they are doing Good point! Some might absolutely turn violent in anger of being called out for their actions.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	09/01/21 08:19 PM
46	Men are not stupid. They are smart. They know when they are doing something wrong, they just don’t care. Stop giving them the benefit of the doubt that they don’t know what they are doing While I absolutely agree with you about them knowing what they're doing is wrong I think giving it a name and confronting it with the name can be a reality-check that's worth the effort. That wannabe-rapist knew what he was doing but hearing it being called what it was and hearing him being called out for what he was made him realize that he would have no moral defense as he would have claimed otherwise. His actions were given the appropriate name in the moment. I've managed to stop incidents be…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	09/01/21 07:43 PM
16	Sis better drop him. He’s clearly a pedophile This is unnervingly true. I wish somebody had explained to me that I was not special just because some hot guy wanted to fuck me. He would have wanted to fuck any girl that was good to go and just because that night he saw me as an opportunity that did not make me special in any way. I also wish somebody would have explained to me just how much guys will lie in order to get you to sleep with them. They will literally say anything, including giving you a lot of bogus complements that are only des…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	05/01/21 09:34 PM