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| 2 | How can I develop a social life?What do you like? Pursue that. That will put you in contact with other people who like that. Strive to become a leader in that interest/ group. Be outgoing and personable. The social circle will follow! Use meetup.com. Find Facebook Events. There's tons of resources out there for finding and pursuing interests. | /r/seduction | 16/06/16 02:54 PM |
| 3 | Opinion on dating cardsPart of the attraction process is having the confidence to go through a conversation that escalates into a personal exchange of contact information. Be bold, say hello, and politely excuse yourself if it still feels like you're intruding. A dating card seems like an excuse to put her in the position to pursue you, which I can't see high value women doing with any sort of consistency. | /r/seduction | 15/06/16 06:39 PM |
| 1 | This Sub-Reddit is absolutely terrible.[META]I'd highly recommend Models by Mark Manson. A real focus on developing yourself, your mental health and an inner game that exhudes confidence. | /r/seduction | 09/05/16 10:35 PM |
| 4 | [xMODx] Seddit Simple Questions Thread 3/14/16Start commenting on her stories, build to a conversation. | /r/seduction | 15/03/16 12:20 PM |
| 10 | Alcohol and Pick UpI wish it was different, but my best game is after 3-4 drinks. The conversation just flows, my approach anxiety melts away and I know I'm the baddest motherfucker in the room. I did an experiment a little awhile ago with going out and totally abstaining from alcohol. It took a little longer to get into state, and it was much harder to socialize in loud clubs, but overall not too much worse. | /r/seduction | 12/02/16 03:11 PM |
| 3 | Girls keep inviting me to partiesWhat age range are you in? In college this was pretty common for me. Parties and nights out are what's seen as the norm and usually make for good dates. Plus, she has the benefit of being around people that she knows to reduce the risk of meeting up solo with someone she recently met. | /r/seduction | 08/02/16 09:40 PM |
| 4 | How do I stay in the friend-with-benefits zone? I don't want a relationship with anybody.That's a great line. It hits that perfect balance of "I'm open to something down the road" that gets you through the first hurdle and "I'm not looking for a girlfriend" that gets the honesty across. | /r/seduction | 08/02/16 09:36 PM |
| 2 | How do I stay in the friend-with-benefits zone? I don't want a relationship with anybody.Good point. I would want to be careful about the wording. "Are you seeing any other guys?" on a first date comes off as jealous. | /r/seduction | 08/02/16 09:32 PM |
| 7 | How do I stay in the friend-with-benefits zone? I don't want a relationship with anybody.Hmm, I haven't gotten a setup like that on the first date. The closest I've experienced stems from how we met. Something like: "Have you met many girls from Tinder/OK Cupid?" "So I bet you get a ton of girl's numbers at bars." / "How often do you do this?" I usually either acknowledge and amplify playfully: "Oh all the time!", or a partial truth: "I've used Tinder as a way to meet more people because I recently moved into the area." The best way to approach it from a conversation like this would… | /r/seduction | 08/02/16 07:22 PM |
| 9 | How do I stay in the friend-with-benefits zone? I don't want a relationship with anybody.How do you go into it? Any lead-in techniques? How do you phrase it? It's tough to find that point where you break the momentum and chemistry on the first date. I need to get better about being clear with my intentions up front. I'm coming off first dates with a relationship vibe that I can sense in follow-up texts and dates. | /r/seduction | 08/02/16 06:50 PM |
| 2 | App for handling phone numbersGreat functionality, this is absolutely perfect for me. I travel up and down the east coast frequently and it's a super easy way to visualize who I know where. | /r/seduction | 29/01/16 12:09 AM |
| 2 | From Virgin to Dating a Fitness Model: My ProcessIt's outcome independence and some practical techniques. You want to get into a mindset that women aren't the end-all be-all, they're just one aspect of a happy and fulfilling life. That's not to say you shouldn't approach women, you should! You just shouldn't focus all your energy on it because it seeps into your mindset and comes off as needy and nonindependent. | /r/seduction | 08/12/15 03:13 PM |
| 2 | From Virgin to Dating a Fitness Model: My ProcessStart hosting and organizing events of your own. It doesn't have to be anything major, just get a few people together with some kind of common interest or theme. Once people start seeing you as a connector, a fun person to hang out with, the invites will come your way. | /r/seduction | 08/12/15 02:49 PM |
| 9 | How To Get Sexual QUICK! (video)Great technique to hold physical contact throughout the entire conversation while keeping it fun and playful. | /r/seduction | 01/11/15 04:21 PM |
| 1 | [xMODx] Seddit Simple Questions Thread 9/15/15At least you could break it down and critique yourself. Sounds like it was great practice! Did you start off with a hug? Playful shoulder taps? Guiding hand on the small of her back? Those plus high-energy, flirty conversation are huge attraction builders. | /r/seduction | 26/09/15 06:36 PM |
| 1 | [xMODx] Seddit Simple Questions Thread 9/15/15How'd the date go? | /r/seduction | 26/09/15 04:09 PM |
| 1 | [xMODx] Seddit Simple Questions Thread 9/15/15Yes, absolutely. Be the man, take the initiative. Just substitute whatever you want to do as a suggestion. Don't put the onus on her to plan a date with "So, when are we meeting up?". Put in the effort and thought. Plan a fun date. Invite her on it. | /r/seduction | 18/09/15 07:24 PM |
| 1 | [xMODx] Seddit Simple Questions Thread 9/15/15It's different for every girl. Some girls would rather for you to come out and say it, some girls prefer you to speak with your actions, (arrange the second meeting during the first meeting.) I would just focus on getting the date and evaluate from there. How can you be sure she's worthy of a relationship with you if you've never seen her in person, heard her laugh or heard her stories? | /r/seduction | 18/09/15 05:26 PM |
| 1 | [xMODx] Seddit Simple Questions Thread 9/15/15Don't ask her when you're meeting up, tell her. "Let's do drinks downtown this Tuesday evening!" It's your job to take the guesswork out of it. Make it so all she has to say is "Yes." | /r/seduction | 18/09/15 05:16 PM |
| 1 | [xMODx] Seddit Simple Questions Thread 9/15/15It can be too late in that you might not have as much success as if you hadn't hesitated, but it can't be too late in that you're already not with the girl- what do you have to lose by going for it? | /r/seduction | 18/09/15 05:14 PM |
| 4 | [xMODx] Seddit Simple Questions Thread 9/15/15Reducing AA is a difficult process, absolutely. However, you don't need to approach 10's with romantic intent to practice. Start by finding a group of people you can practice social skills, networking, and develop new friendships with. Thrust yourself into a new social circle. Go on www.meetup.com and join a running group, a traveling group, a young professional happy hour. Find a club, a preferably active, non-male dominated activity. You play music- check out an open mic night, to play or scou… | /r/seduction | 16/09/15 03:04 PM |
| 2 | NextingThere's no set formula of how many tries- gauge her reaction. If she can't make a few specific date proposals, but is still engaging through texts, I ask her for a couple nights that work for her and go from there. | /r/seduction | 16/09/15 01:03 PM |
| 2 | [xMODx] Seddit Simple Questions Thread 8/17/15That's right! You'll find a looot of Tinder girls will flake on you. Just keep going at it and you'll break through. | /r/seduction | 25/08/15 07:45 PM |
| 1 | [xMODx] Seddit Simple Questions Thread 8/17/15Just go for the hug on a first Tinder date. You gotta warm up to more than that in my experience. | /r/seduction | 25/08/15 07:07 PM |
| 1 | [xMODx] Seddit Simple Questions Thread 8/17/15Build it up beforehand. Slip in earlier that you want to show her a new song or a funny video on your computer. Reference back to that and it'll ease the transition upstairs. | /r/seduction | 25/08/15 07:05 PM |
| 4 | Don't Be This Guy [3rd person FR]Sleeping with crazy builds character. Keep on doing you, man. | /r/seduction | 14/08/15 02:44 PM |
| 2 | My 8+ Month Real-World Experiences, 18 Tips & 9 Realizations Using Tinder Across 6 Countries… (Inside)I responded with this a little farther down. Hopefully it helps. There's a few good posts on here that go into more depth. It all comes down to DHV pictures. Girls want to see you having fun with other girls. Dressed up. Having adventures/ doing cool things/ demonstrating high value interests. Playing an instrument. Showing a caring side (animals and kids.) Try and look tall, interesting and social. For your description give them a bit of information that helps them paint a picture of the succes… | /r/seduction | 08/08/15 05:45 PM |
| 5 | My 8+ Month Real-World Experiences, 18 Tips & 9 Realizations Using Tinder Across 6 Countries… (Inside)There's a few good posts on here that go into more depth. It all comes down to DHV pictures. Girls want to see you having fun with other girls. Dressed up. Having adventures/ doing cool things/ demonstrating high value interests. Playing an instrument. Showing a caring side (animals and kids.) Try and look tall, interesting and social. For your description give them a bit of information that helps them paint a picture of the successful and interesting man you are. Where are you from? What do you… | /r/seduction | 07/08/15 09:02 PM |
| 2 | [FR] So I just approached a gorgeous girl sitting down with her PARENTS.I always ask for the number. Girls are more likely to respond to your message than to initiate conversation of their own. | /r/seduction | 15/07/15 12:12 PM |
| 3 | What is the one piece of advice you would give, if you had 10 seconds?Intense eye contact. Master the smirk. Use in combination for devastating results. | /r/seduction | 06/05/15 01:06 PM |
| 1 | Kissing on first date?Wise words. | /r/seduction | 10/04/15 04:12 PM |
| 1 | Kissing on first date?Why is it counter-productive? | /r/seduction | 10/04/15 03:32 PM |
| 1 | Got a girl's number when she had a boyfriend. Whats your favorite response to "I have a boyfriend"?I'd rather not react to it. Pretend she didn't say anything at all and keep the prior conversation flowing. This line has become a tool for many women to automatically deflect guys, sometimes they don't really mean it. I'll watch her body language closely and decide if she's interested or isn't open to anything further. | /r/seduction | 03/04/15 02:57 AM |
| 2 | [FR] f-close with girl from OkCupid (plus thanks)Your dog is adorable. I might be planning a heist. Is that beach in X? It's gorgous, you're making me wish for summer! Oh you live in X? I looove Y bar, restaurant, whatever. Have you ever been? Can you keep a secret? It's just an excuse to get a conversation going. It can be about anything on her profile. Make snap judgements, assume things, tease, etc. If you can't think of anything (you should be able to) then use something generic like the last one. | /r/seduction | 27/03/15 11:25 PM |
| 3 | Creative first date ideas on a College campusFroyo and a walk is a classic. | /r/seduction | 04/11/14 09:38 PM |
| 2 | [NSFW] Sexting TutorialAwesome, thanks. Where do you meet these girls? Tinder? Online dating? It seems like this is being done before the first in person meeting. | /r/seduction | 16/10/14 02:17 AM |
| 3 | [FR] Beginner 1st Time Nightgaming at Small ConcertEither stick in with the sets a little longer, or end them early on a high note, so you're able to go back as a familiar face. Keep it up! | /r/seduction | 20/06/14 09:04 PM |
| 1 | Small change to Tinder game that makes a HUGE difference.You can match with fb friends on there. That's where most of my success has come from. | /r/seduction | 09/06/14 09:09 PM |
| 1 | [Reverse FR] Or what worked on me in daygameIt's a mixed bag. In most American Universities, students will live in dorms for the first year or two, then move out into apartments or houses. | /r/seduction | 10/03/14 08:10 PM |
| -4 | Great line given to me by girl at a music festivalMy opener at concerts/ when something's playing on the radio, etc: "I had no idea this song would be this popular when I wrote it." Said with a big smile of course. | /r/seduction | 02/09/13 08:09 PM |
| 6 | I interviewed a group of 10 girls about their dating/sexual history and preferences... Here's some of what I learned.He directly stated his intentions in 99% of approaches. Like "Hi, I thought you were beautiful and wanted to come talk to you." | /r/seduction | 16/08/13 01:42 PM |
| 5 | My therapist told me to check out this video this morningWhat worked better for me was Mark Manson's masturbation diet. You get once per week to masturbate, with lube/lotion, thinking of a girl you haven't had sex with yet. Try to make it last. | /r/seduction | 15/08/13 05:08 PM |
| 9 | This Craigslist Missed Connection really captures the feeling of not being able to approach.Nothing worse than that senseless paralyzed feeling. | /r/seduction | 08/08/13 02:35 PM |
| 3 | Models by Mark Manson is blowing my fucking mind4 Hour Workweek inspired the fuck out of me. It's an in depth guide to living an attractive, financially stable life and cuts through the bullshit people make you think you need to be happy, and helps you see what you actually need. | /r/seduction | 30/07/13 07:34 PM |
| 5 | How do you approach random women in public places?Stranger guys are good conversation and random approach practice as well. Talk to everyone. | /r/seduction | 11/07/13 05:34 PM |
| 3 | How do you approach random women in public places?Yeahhh maybe skip that step. | /r/seduction | 11/07/13 05:31 PM |
| 2 | [Journal] Breakn' A Sweat In SWEDEN (Week 27)What happened after the 4 way makeout? Why didn't anything escalate from there? Overall great post, it's inspiring to see you hold yourself accountable for your goals and push yourself to get better, something I definitely need to work on. | /r/seduction | 08/07/13 03:25 PM |
| 1 | Something I just realized. Whenever you do something to lead the interaction, she will look in your eyes to see how she should react. Your eyes dictate the frame, and she follows the frame that you dictated.This is always a winning strategy. | /r/seduction | 08/07/13 04:30 AM |
| 2 | Something I just realized. Whenever you do something to lead the interaction, she will look in your eyes to see how she should react. Your eyes dictate the frame, and she follows the frame that you dictated.I'd like to see this instant date 2 concept developed. I see potential there. | /r/seduction | 08/07/13 04:29 AM |
| 9 | An Overview of the Apocalypse OpenerThen you are "The One." | /r/seduction | 08/07/13 04:23 AM |
| 7 | [FR] Decided to try something new, can't believe it worked! F-CloseThis is fun. | /r/seduction | 08/07/13 04:10 AM |
| 1 | Not enough girls my age at the mall?God yes. There's no way to tell! | /r/seduction | 05/07/13 06:01 PM |
| 12 | [FR] Kissing a stranger in less than a minuteWhat's the 2:3 ratio? | /r/seduction | 04/07/13 04:59 PM |
| 1 | What's the one thing you changed that you feel has had the biggest effect on your game?Showing attraction and romantic intent! | /r/seduction | 02/07/13 03:35 PM |
| 1 | The first thing you need to know about seduction.This subreddit is all about self-improvement. If you are already the person you want to be, why are you here? | /r/seduction | 25/06/13 10:37 PM |
| 2 | The first thing you need to know about seduction.Realize that girls don't owe you attraction. The hard truth is that the common denominator of getting rejected is you. The good news is that you have total control over that factor. Make yourself someone people would want to meet, then introduce yourself. | /r/seduction | 25/06/13 07:46 PM |
| 1 | The first thing you need to know about seduction.If you're not leaving women with positive experiences, you're missing a key part of this seduction stuff. Be a value giver and there should never be a moral hindrance. http://www.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/1gkth6/above_the_game_part_9_giving_back_be_a_value_giver/ | /r/seduction | 25/06/13 07:35 PM |
| 51 | The first thing you need to know about seduction.Close, close, close! | /r/seduction | 25/06/13 05:38 PM |
| 45 | The first thing you need to know about seduction.And normal guys are awkward as fuck when they do make a move. Worst case, you're average. That said, there's nothing worse in this world than being average. | /r/seduction | 25/06/13 05:37 PM |
| 2 | [xMODx] Seddit Simple Questions Thread 6/14/13 (please upvote - zero karma)Travel is always great. | /r/seduction | 15/06/13 11:19 PM |
| 5 | Rules of dating a friend's ex?That, and no friend's sisters. | /r/seduction | 15/06/13 11:11 PM |
| 7 | Why She Stopped Sleeping With YouThese concepts are important to be worked into relationships from their inception. Keep reminding yourself not to fear being completely open about your and your partner's sexuality. | /r/seduction | 12/06/13 04:22 PM |
| 6 | [xMODx] Seddit Simple Questions Thread 6/10/13 (please upvote - zero karma)Check this out: http://www.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/1epgwd/above_the_game_part_8_relationships/ | /r/seduction | 10/06/13 10:00 PM |
| 2 | How do you guys feel about SnapChat?Anyone with some experience escalating over SnapChat that wouldn't mind sharing some tips? | /r/seduction | 03/06/13 01:44 PM |
| 2 | How do you guys feel about SnapChat?There was a recent post here about SnapChat. http://nb.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/1e6h4f/snapchat_as_a_way_of_creating_social_proof_and/ | /r/seduction | 03/06/13 01:40 PM |
| 6 | If you're going on a date, make a reservation and chat with the hostess for a minute on the phone.The reason for doing it is is to get better at it. Then when it counts you're a smooth mammajamma. | /r/seduction | 01/06/13 07:12 PM |
| 1 | Sunday Field TestsI love #3, will definitely be trying that one out. | /r/seduction | 27/05/13 05:14 PM |
| 2 | Ways to meet women in the summer without hitting up bars or clubs?New girls are always more exciting than ones you already know. | /r/seduction | 23/05/13 10:49 PM |
| 1 | An Incredibly Powerful Technique to Get Any Girl To Follow You Around a RoomWhat are some other compliments you could use? | /r/seduction | 16/05/13 02:01 PM |
| 5 | "Practice" Girls - Good Practice or Bad Habit?That was poetry. | /r/seduction | 12/05/13 10:10 PM |
| 8 | Snapchat as a way of creating social proof and gauge interest?Deep, bro. | /r/seduction | 12/05/13 09:31 PM |
| 5 | I want to remind everybody of 2 very important rulesIt builds character! | /r/seduction | 07/05/13 05:34 PM |
| 1 | [xMODx] Seddit Simple Questions Thread 4/29/13 (please upvote - zero karma)There are a few different conversation guides that have been posted here. Try a search on the topic. | /r/seduction | 01/05/13 06:49 AM |
| 1 | [xMODx] Seddit Simple Questions Thread 4/29/13 (please upvote - zero karma)The trick here is not to make the number the goal. Make a date/hangout the goal, and use the number to coordinate it. So say hi, maybe ask about her weekend plans. Mention fun plans you have/will make with friends. Then follow up with something like "My friends and I are (rock climbing, partying, studying, whatever!), you should come with us!" If she responds positively, ask her for her number so you can follow up with details. Boom. | /r/seduction | 01/05/13 06:47 AM |
| 1 | Your greatest moment of triumph so far in seduction?Damn, man. Looks like you have your muse. | /r/seduction | 01/05/13 06:28 AM |
| 2 | Your greatest moment of triumph so far in seduction?Thanks I practice everyday. That is way too smooth. | /r/seduction | 01/05/13 06:25 AM |
| 4 | Your greatest moment of triumph so far in seduction?The last night of my junior year of college is tomorrow. You have inspired me. | /r/seduction | 01/05/13 06:23 AM |
| 17 | Your greatest moment of triumph so far in seduction?Brilliant. What'd you say to her afterwards? | /r/seduction | 30/04/13 07:37 PM |
| 10 | So take all this stuff you know now back to yourself in high-school. What would you do different and how would you do it?I'd sit at a different lunch table every day. Fuck the system. | /r/seduction | 29/04/13 02:31 PM |
| 3 | [FR] F-Closed 2 set (cold approach)Past and future travel is always a great conversation. | /r/seduction | 28/04/13 07:27 PM |
| 8 | 5 Exercises for better eye contactMake great eye contact with the 1/100? | /r/seduction | 24/04/13 06:47 PM |
| 3 | 5 Exercises for better eye contactWell, the trick is to smile/ make faces to make it feel comfortable. | /r/seduction | 24/04/13 06:46 PM |
| 3 | Red Pill/Seduction knowledge implementedAlpha as fuck date idea: bring her out on a date with you. Oh the possibilities! | /r/seduction | 04/04/13 07:56 PM |
| 1 | Is this texting convo dead?Don't set her up for an out, " Pick you up at 1:20?" This goes along with setting her up so all she needs to do is say yes. | /r/seduction | 28/03/13 09:00 PM |
| 2 | Is this texting convo dead?Let it go until closer to (maybe day of?) then send a confirmation. "Still on for today?" It sounds half hearted, if she skirts out of it once more it may be time to shift your focus. | /r/seduction | 26/03/13 10:23 PM |
| 2 | Is this texting convo dead?Yup, or " Sound good?" in my previous example. | /r/seduction | 26/03/13 07:36 PM |
| 1 | Is this texting convo dead?My pleasure! No I don't, direct is good! It's bold and confident. It definitely takes some practice to get comfortable with, but there's no downside to it. Your new text is better than last time because you set a specific time. I like to leave the actual date pitch as a declaration, then ask the confirmation question. | /r/seduction | 26/03/13 05:20 PM |
| 2 | Is this texting convo dead?Nice on with meeting the other girl. Don't worry about it not going well, just take a few things that you could have improved on and make it a lesson. That's good, but I'd take it even more specific and direct, say "My Friday just opened up, I'll pick you up at 1 for rock climbing then we'll get something to eat. Sound good?" Then if she says she can't, don't go crazy out of your way to make it work. The goal is to simplify it enough so all she has to do is to say yes. An added benefit is that i… | /r/seduction | 26/03/13 03:46 PM |
| 0 | Daygame- I need some high energy openers that work on groups, 2-3.Hey! You guys look fun, I'm JustAMan. | /r/seduction | 25/03/13 03:37 PM |
| 2 | Is this texting convo dead?What's the latest? I woulda not texted her, then picked it up later with a date invite with a time. | /r/seduction | 25/03/13 03:24 PM |
| 2 | Is this texting convo dead?Okay in the future pitch a time and place, so all that's left is for her to say yes. If she says she can't, you can just say "another time" and not be left hanging. From here I'd tell her don't worry about, another time. then don't waste those passes, ask another girl! | /r/seduction | 22/03/13 04:35 PM |
| 2 | Part II: Interesting vs. Factual (a series on word pair problems)So instead of saying "then she said girly voice 'I've already got a dress like that'" say "it turned out the reason she was so upset was because she already had a dress like it". Care to explain why this is? My natural inclination is that the first way would be more interesting. Breath of fresh air for Seddit, man. Keep it up! | /r/seduction | 21/03/13 05:13 AM |
| 1 | Is this texting convo dead?Yup, with a date plan. | /r/seduction | 20/03/13 05:35 PM |
| 2 | [xMODx] Seddit Simple Questions Thread 3/18/13 (please upvote - zero karma)Shopping trips work better than you'd think! Go out for something you need, end it with a trip to the store for brownie mix/ ingredients (automatic excuse to bring her back! | /r/seduction | 19/03/13 11:36 PM |
| 1 | [xMODx] Seddit Simple Questions Thread 3/18/13 (please upvote - zero karma)Smile mischievously, like you know something she doesn't. Don't feel creepy and you won't look it. | /r/seduction | 19/03/13 11:28 PM |
| 2 | Seduction is a Tool or: How I Learned to Stop Reading and Hate the SedditPick up artist. Check out the sidebar for more stuff to know before you dive in. | /r/seduction | 15/03/13 03:26 PM |
| 1 | [xMODx] Seddit Simple Questions Thread 3/4/13 (please upvote - zero karma)Just continue with the flow of the conversation before you said it. | /r/seduction | 05/03/13 07:16 PM |
| 1 | [xMODx] Seddit Simple Questions Thread 3/4/13 (please upvote - zero karma)No way I'm letting myself think like that. Think of each interaction as the potential it has, then be willing to let go at any point. Don't forget these "HB"s are people. Sure the more you approach, the more successful interactions you will have, but calling it a numbers game dehumanizes it. | /r/seduction | 05/03/13 06:15 PM |
| 19 | Building attraction with "text game." The unexplored frontier.gamechanger. | /r/seduction | 05/03/13 02:04 AM |
| 25 | Building attraction with "text game." The unexplored frontier.When I see an /r/aww post that's particularly cute, I save it. I'll send it to a girl with a casual text like "What's up?" Bitches love smiles, but they go NUTS over puppies. | /r/seduction | 04/03/13 10:58 PM |
| 2 | Seddit, I need your help.Leave at the same time she leaves, strike up a conversation on the way out. Make her laugh, tell her you should go out to coffee sometime then get the number! | /r/seduction | 26/02/13 05:46 PM |
| 29 | What early warning signs have you picked up on to avoid "sticking dick in crazy"?Besides the more fun bedroom antics, sticking your dick in crazy builds character. | /r/seduction | 25/02/13 06:41 PM |
| 1 | [xMODx] Seddit Simple Questions Thread 2/19/13 (please upvote - zero karma)Try giving em a call. Text them once or twice, then call after she texts back. Chat for a little then set a date. | /r/seduction | 20/02/13 02:23 AM |
| 2 | [xMODx] Seddit Simple Questions Thread 2/19/13 (please upvote - zero karma)Focus on other girls, have an abundance mentality. If it happens, sweet! If not? Plenty of girls out there for you to show how awesome you are. | /r/seduction | 20/02/13 02:20 AM |
| 10 | [xMODx] Seddit Simple Questions Thread 2/19/13 (please upvote - zero karma)Pretend she's 18. Laugh off and dismiss any talk about the age gap. Add sexuality to your conversations, then pitch an innocuous excuse to get together in a private place. Assume attraction and escalate until success or rejection. | /r/seduction | 20/02/13 02:13 AM |
| 1 | [xMODx] Seddit Simple Questions Thread 2/19/13 (please upvote - zero karma)Read up on building attraction. Kino and outcome independence are your friends. | /r/seduction | 20/02/13 02:08 AM |
| 2 | [xMODx] Seddit Simple Questions Thread 2/19/13 (please upvote - zero karma)Light hearted teasing and joking around is a great way to make your interactions more flirty. | /r/seduction | 20/02/13 02:05 AM |
| 2 | [xMODx] Seddit Simple Questions Thread 2/19/13 (please upvote - zero karma)Yessir | /r/seduction | 20/02/13 02:01 AM |
| 7 | [xMODx] Seddit Simple Questions Thread 2/19/13 (please upvote - zero karma)Don't make the goal her number, make the goal a date and use the number to set it up. Follow up after a few days if she doesn't contact you about when she's in town. When you know when she's around, pitch a time and place for a date, then get her number for logistics. | /r/seduction | 19/02/13 11:08 PM |
| 2 | [xMODx] Seddit Simple Questions Thread 2/19/13 (please upvote - zero karma)Ask her out to a casual dinner with friends or something. In some alone time, bring up what you're looking for in your relationship. ("I'm not looking for a relationship right now") You want to be clear about this before you go forward and she'll respect you being clear. Try not to text her as much without specific plans, being aloof is attractive. | /r/seduction | 19/02/13 11:03 PM |
| 11 | [xMODx] Seddit Simple Questions Thread 2/19/13 (please upvote - zero karma)...a party? | /r/seduction | 19/02/13 10:55 PM |
| 5 | [xMODx] Seddit Simple Questions Thread 2/19/13 (please upvote - zero karma)Good tip! | /r/seduction | 19/02/13 10:54 PM |
| 2 | [xMODx] Seddit Simple Questions Thread 2/19/13 (please upvote - zero karma)Just skirt away from the hookup part of your relationship, you can still talk about how you meet, for how long, etc. If you start to feel uncomfortable about it, change the subject. If she already knows about it and she agreed to go on a date with you, then you're in the clear. | /r/seduction | 19/02/13 10:49 PM |
| 8 | [xMODx] Seddit Simple Questions Thread 2/19/13 (please upvote - zero karma)Invite her out to eat. Jokingly claim you don't want to feel used for your body or something silly like that. Other than that just keep acting like you did before, don't make a big deal out of sex and she won't either. | /r/seduction | 19/02/13 10:43 PM |
| 4 | [xMODx] Seddit Simple Questions Thread 2/5/13 (please upvote - zero karma)She was embarrassed. Don't take it personally. If you like her, go for it. If not, forget about her and her friends. | /r/seduction | 06/02/13 06:39 AM |
| 6 | [xMODx] Seddit Simple Questions Thread 2/5/13 (please upvote - zero karma)Atta boy. Treat her the same as any girl you'd be interested in. Be discreet. | /r/seduction | 06/02/13 06:36 AM |
| 3 | [xMODx] Seddit Simple Questions Thread 2/5/13 (please upvote - zero karma)Smile! | /r/seduction | 06/02/13 06:35 AM |
| 2 | [xMODx] Seddit Simple Questions Thread 2/5/13 (please upvote - zero karma)Take control of the situation. Girls don't want to make the plans. They don't want to show interest first. If you're interested in her, let your actions show it! It seems to me she was just trying to figure out what you thought of the situation. Take the lead and say you want it to be just you and her. When you meet up, compliment how she looks (something she has control over like clothes). Touch her on the shoulder, the arm. If she seems receptive go for the small of the back. Have fun, relax a… | /r/seduction | 06/02/13 06:32 AM |
| 1 | [xMODx] Seddit Simple Questions Thread 2/5/13 (please upvote - zero karma)She'll see you how you choose to present yourself. Pay attention to your body language. Start acting confident. Faking confidence has a funny way of creating real confidence. Keep reading up on some techniques here. I'm sure it's in your head. | /r/seduction | 06/02/13 06:28 AM |
| 3 | [xMODx] Seddit Simple Questions Thread 2/5/13 (please upvote - zero karma)The only thing that should change is your frame. Be sexual. Be confident. Know exactly what you want and don't be afraid to be open about it! | /r/seduction | 06/02/13 06:21 AM |
| 1 | [xMODx] Seddit Simple Questions Thread 2/5/13 (please upvote - zero karma)That's the spirit, man. Better to find out sooner than to put more time and effort into it and be hurt even more in the future! | /r/seduction | 06/02/13 06:16 AM |
| 3 | Why would a girl pick me over a better looking guy?There's more than looks that goes into attraction, especially for girls. Confidence. Body Language. How you make her feel. You'll learn this stuff with time, and some practice. To start out, try faking it. Spread your arms wide out when your sitting. Cross your legs. Slap a self-satisfied smile on your face you didn't earn. How'd that feel? Pretty good? I thought it might. It's about the baby steps to start out. Start acting a little more confident than you feel. A little bolder. Step outside yo… | /r/seduction | 06/02/13 06:05 AM |
| 2 | [FR] Spanish Girl and "But I Have to Go Home With My Friends..."How does he handle it later on? | /r/seduction | 24/01/13 04:16 PM |
| 1 | Attracting & Seducing Women: How To Use 'Option Limitation' To Maximize Your SuccessAnyone tried this out before? | /r/seduction | 20/01/13 04:31 PM |
| 1 | [xMODx] Seddit Simple Questions Thread 1/14/13 (please upvote - zero karma)I'm great with okay girls. When I start talking to an HB8-10, my game drops off considerably. Will this get better as I keep practicing and improving, or is there something specific I should focus on? | /r/seduction | 15/01/13 03:26 AM |
| 2 | [FR] Blue Eyed Blonde - 5 Minute Makeout and More!Love the late for work line, totally stealing that! | /r/seduction | 15/01/13 12:33 AM |
| 6 | Help finding a lost Fuck Buddy guideWorth the read. Just look at the section titles and pick out what you wanna hear about. | /r/seduction | 13/01/13 10:19 PM |
| 6 | tl;dr for key things to rememberMaintain a dominant frame, take up space! | /r/seduction | 11/01/13 02:50 AM |
| 3 | I shut down in parties + trouble escalatingGet out of your own head and have some fun with it! First step is to get comfortable talking to everyone. Put yourself out there and just say hi, improvement will come. | /r/seduction | 10/01/13 05:51 PM |
| 26 | Are there any other games like the "5 questions game or the cube" that i could use?Make all 3 lies? Definitely trying this one. | /r/seduction | 07/01/13 07:32 AM |
| 1 | [xMODx] Announcing the newest Seddit lairs: Chicago and Washington, DC! (please upvote - no karma)My thoughts exactly! I'll be living there this summer and would definitely be an active member. | /r/seduction | 22/12/12 08:59 PM |
| 5 | I'm a 22-year old virgin (m) and I've been asking myself his a lot lately...realize your true potential as a man. Goosebumps. | /r/seduction | 21/12/12 05:57 PM |
| 5 | What was your big breakthrough moment?Better than enough. | /r/seduction | 16/12/12 05:26 AM |
| 22 | what are the significant differences between trying to find a girlfriend and picking up girls?Make sure you show your intentions as early and as clearly as possible! | /r/seduction | 08/12/12 06:15 PM |
| 0 | University dining hall...golden opportunity?Oof. Okay then, guess not! | /r/seduction | 30/11/12 04:11 AM |
| -8 | University dining hall...golden opportunity?Whip out Facebook on your smart phone and tell her to put in her name to see if you have any mutual friends. You probably will, talk about them, your relationship with them, how she knows them, etc. If that doesn't work out, play the people watching game. | /r/seduction | 29/11/12 08:07 PM |
| 1 | [FR] Stewardess on a 30-hour layoverKino is making a physical connection with a girl, a big part of engaging and escalating. | /r/seduction | 28/11/12 08:50 AM |
| 1 | Alpha guidelinesBro. | /r/seduction | 28/11/12 08:43 AM |
| 1 | To college students, or those with poor funds, how do you live an exciting life?Clubs are key! | /r/seduction | 26/11/12 09:22 PM |
| 1 | The best thing you've done to improve your attractiveness? Any other quicktips from you pros that's not game related?Hell yeah! Work on extended eye contact. If you break eye contact with a pretty girl, you're doing it wrong! As the eye contact goes on, smile more (try to avoid creepyness.) If she's still holding after a good few seconds, say hi! The feeling of a girl smiling back at you/ saying hi back is just the best. This technique develops a confident look that is essential to catching her eye. | /r/seduction | 26/11/12 09:16 PM |
| 6 | Game On [Part 2]: An Amputee's Seduction Experiences and FailuresSuccess story #2 left me smiling like an idiot, nice work man! | /r/seduction | 26/11/12 02:56 AM |
| 1 | Nightgame: "Buy me a drink?"My favorite answer. | /r/seduction | 14/11/12 08:05 AM |
| 37 | What sort of tricks do you guys use to get women to be more comfortable with initiating physical contact with you?Initiate the contact with her. Tap her arm when you tell a joke, guide her with a hand on the small of her back or, if things are going well, push back her hair. She will naturally mirror your touchy behavior if you seem confident, smile and build attraction. | /r/seduction | 14/11/12 07:32 AM |
| 2 | Why nice guys and gals finish last in loveBRILLIANT | /r/seduction | 07/11/12 08:12 PM |
| 1 | What ONE change gave you the biggest improvement?Hell yeah, man. | /r/seduction | 25/10/12 02:49 AM |
| 2 | I’d Rather Die on My Feet Than Live on My KneesPlus it's a sweet feeling when you walk away and they chase after you. And you just keep walking. | /r/seduction | 19/10/12 06:40 AM |
| 3 | [FR] "You can be my wingwoman!"The kind of FR that leaves YOU feeling awesome by the end of it. Good show man, I learned some solid tips. | /r/seduction | 13/10/12 07:02 PM |
| 2 | Sarcasm and foreign girls.Agreed. All my experience here and in the field would lead me to believe this would be a successful line. | /r/seduction | 30/09/12 02:30 AM |
| 2 | Sarcasm and foreign girls.Lol'd at numpty. Keep on keeping on. | /r/seduction | 30/09/12 02:20 AM |
| 12 | I'm going to a "write on your shirt" party tonight. What can I write on it to get some attention?Went to one of these recently. Some of my favorites to write on the ladies shirts were "Bad news." and "Up to no good." | /r/seduction | 19/09/12 05:42 PM |
| 35 | A gold mine of pickuo you may have never known: PetsmartInstant emotional recovery from rejection. | /r/seduction | 16/09/12 11:43 PM |
| 13 | The Big Compliance Test ListYeah, I'm kinda digging the increased female presence here. | /r/seduction | 15/09/12 01:47 AM |
| 2 | The Big Compliance Test ListHaha honestly though. It's not THAT big of a subreddit and he posts all the time here | /r/seduction | 15/09/12 01:44 AM |
| 1 | Can you guess how long it takes for her to decide if she’ll have sex with you? [x-post from r/sex]Makes sense, thanks man! | /r/seduction | 09/09/12 09:52 PM |
| 2 | Can you guess how long it takes for her to decide if she’ll have sex with you? [x-post from r/sex]Solid, thanks for the advice. What do you think of your chances if she sees you approach other girls? | /r/seduction | 09/09/12 03:19 PM |
| 2 | Can you guess how long it takes for her to decide if she’ll have sex with you? [x-post from r/sex]Do you guys agree that a brief approach followed by a temporary withdrawal is a winning move? Anyone tried this technique? | /r/seduction | 09/09/12 03:01 PM |
| 1 | [FR] State your fucking intentions.Haha just saw that! | /r/seduction | 07/09/12 01:04 AM |
| 1 | [FR] State your fucking intentions.Preach it, man. | /r/seduction | 07/09/12 01:02 AM |
| 2 | Let's share some beta stories to encourage each otherOh man. I winced. | /r/seduction | 29/08/12 10:41 PM |
| 28 | [FR] Testing out direct/aggressive text gameShit tests everywhere! itsatrap.jpg | /r/seduction | 18/08/12 08:22 PM |
| 3 | What makes an average looking guy instantly become “hot”?Sinisterly smooth. | /r/seduction | 01/08/12 01:01 PM |
| 4 | [FR] Bus GirlOnly the well written FRs get upvoted this much. | /r/seduction | 26/07/12 12:36 PM |
| 4 | [FR] Lorded the wedding reception; threesome F-close with the bridesmaids.Thanks for breaking it down, some really solid points in there. | /r/seduction | 25/07/12 06:15 PM |
| 3 | [FR] The Rubix Cube of F-ClosesThe one liners make the FR. "I'm much more interesting than whatever's over there, sweetheart." Byaw! 10/10. | /r/seduction | 28/06/12 02:00 PM |
| 2 | [FR] Asked out a girl from class, ejected awkwardlyGame = Changed. Epic line is epic. | /r/seduction | 27/06/12 02:27 PM |
| 7 | Getting paid to approach, smashing AA and rejection with a paycheck.Great incentive to approach! Definitely trying this. | /r/seduction | 22/06/12 06:04 PM |
| 2 | 6 Things That Nice Guys Can Learn from AssholesBut it's so hard! | /r/seduction | 21/06/12 07:31 PM |
| 40 | [FR] K-close at a partyAtta boy! | /r/seduction | 17/06/12 04:00 PM |
| 1 | Seddit, allow me to be your lab rat. I am graduating highschool in a month. Have a restart button when I go to college. If you were in my place, what would you have done?Your first close friends are often your best friends throughout college and they'll have a profound effect on who you become as a person. Make sure you find a good, supportive group of guys to surround yourself with. Also, try to keep plenty of single friends; going out with committed guys just isn't the same. | /r/seduction | 30/04/12 06:37 AM |
| 8 | Little trick!Bonus points if you let her tattoo her number on you! | /r/seduction | 18/04/12 05:59 AM |
| 5 | Dealing with The Cock-Blocking GirlfriendSo witty! I'm surprised you didn't end up with a threesome. Next time, eh? | /r/seduction | 10/04/12 08:08 PM |
| 3 | [LR] Shouted at a girl cycling past me. She stopped and I took her back to my place and we had some sexxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxNice turn of events! | /r/seduction | 24/03/12 05:48 PM |
| 1 | Ladies/gentlemen of seddit: I'm a woman who would like your advice on how to get asked out more.Sundresses. I melt every time. | /r/seduction | 06/03/12 11:52 PM |
| 1 | Setting yourself up to close the dealHaha yeah, thanks man. | /r/seduction | 18/02/12 06:55 PM |
| 1 | Setting yourself up to close the dealThis was at the end of perhaps our second date. We'd only made out and done some touching up to this point. It was really late, we were outside, behind a building when I made the move. We started making out and light feeling each other up. Her hands were around my belt line and I could have sworn she was messing with my belt/button, so I thought I was helping her out when I dropped trough. Nooope. She immediately stopped kissing me, took several steps back, and coldly asked, "What are you doing?… | /r/seduction | 18/02/12 07:52 AM |
| 7 | Setting yourself up to close the dealOnce I took off my pants while hooking up after I was sure i had it in the bag. Compleeetely misread the girl and situation. Tried to laugh it off, she just wanted to go home. | /r/seduction | 17/02/12 07:49 AM |
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