ImNotYourGuru Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

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3	How to show my ex-wife's new boyfriend that he has no authority over my children or me. I once dated a woman who was in a similar situation. Her second husband was exactly how you described this asshole and he was damaging a good coo-parenting relationship between her and her kids dad. The dad of the her girls decided to do a background check and found that the asshole had a record of being violent, punched someone else kid too. He threatened to take the girls if the asshole, she divorced the asshole a few months later. You could start with that.	/r/Divorce_Men	02/07/26 07:15 PM
2	I feel like i'm the villain “Discipline is no longer optional” -DudeforRighteousness (2026)	/r/Divorce_Men	12/01/26 07:41 PM
3	Post Divorce Shower Thoughts I have seen it. My ex used to send me a bunch of reels about the tired spouse/mother. And I really get it. Most men do. But as friendships, a marriage is about filling each other glass. Most women that I know don’t understand they can’t try to make someone accountable if them themselves can’t be. If I know that I’m hurting you because I don’t have the energy to be as lovely as I “used” to be and I tell you is because “X” and you pretend “X” don’t exist because it hurt your ego, then don’t expect…	/r/Divorce_Men	20/08/25 10:54 PM
4	Be honest: how many of you were still attracted to your wife when you divorced? Still legally married but separated. Few months before she brought the divorce for the last time, 2 years before she actually moved on she had a surgery to lose weight. She looked “better” but for me she looked even better before. Sex was pretty bad so while I think she maybe still good looking, I get grossed out by the idea of having sex (aka being sexually attracted to her). And I think is more related to how she treated me than how she actually look. Since she moved out I have lose around 50l…	/r/Divorce_Men	22/07/25 04:13 PM
1	I might get a divorce and I’m scared So being mean was not a reaction to her and more like a learned behavior. You were mean to everyone else too in other words?	/r/Divorce_Men	02/04/25 01:16 AM
2	I might get a divorce and I’m scared Man, I’m sorry to heard that while we men tend to be more accountable you need to learn to hold other people accountable too. You are doing your part by admitting, that you were at fault in some aspect but what did drive you to be the way you were. Why do you think you were abused to her? Did you felt abusive to any other person?	/r/Divorce_Men	01/04/25 07:04 PM
6	Want to divorce but will cost me too much... That woman used you to finish school.	/r/Divorce_Men	11/03/25 02:18 PM
6	Want to divorce but will cost me too much... I really wish that during a divorce a partner not wanting to work or progress their career or education would make them receive less in the divorce. It’s just a pain knowing that you are forced to bust your ass for love working so much to be able to live the life you want and then someone who just want to enjoy the ride take half of it when they leave. Fuck guys I’m already sound like you all lol	/r/Divorce_Men	11/03/25 01:42 PM
8	Keeping your last name. unless you are a Rockefeller I don’t feel you should worry that much. Have in mind that if she change her last name the kids and her will not share last name and that can be a little weird no?	/r/Divorce_Men	27/02/25 05:18 PM
3	Keeping your last name. Never thought of this. In my culture kids have both last names and the wife normally keep her parents last names. Having in mind in the USA everyone use 1 last name would make a lot of sense. Mom not having the same last name as her kids is weird, like if they were someone else kids and not hers.	/r/Divorce_Men	27/02/25 05:17 PM
5	Solo trip for her birthday I don’t think “solo birthday” is an actual thing but it sound like a perfect excuse to spend some time alone doing something that you would love. The same way some people ask for their birthday to no one bother them. Like we sing happy birthday but that day I’m not doing a single chore or take care of the kids. I would be worry exactly like you, more now that I supposed you two are not “completely separated” but do we/you really have a say? I don’t feel like is completely real but at the same ti…	/r/Divorce_Men	25/02/25 07:17 PM
1	Lets say you have rock solid proof that your wife cheated with a married man. Do you tell the wife of the AP or keep silent to maintain the peace for the sake of your kids? There is a movie (I can’t remember the name). Where the husband get home and find his wife cheating with a married man. He made the guy call his wife at gun point and confess. The wife ask to talk with the AP’s husband. In short she ask for the address. She go to where they were and fuck AP’s partner in front of them as a pay back. While part of me say is wrong I can deny that is badass.	/r/Divorce_Men	01/02/25 04:46 PM
4	How and where did you tell her you want a divorce? We need to have accountability, we maybe have treated our wife poorly but it was not for no reason. Resentment is a poison that kill you slowly enough to make everyone in the relationship forget how they got to the point of no return. I recommend you to consider everything at your age, from mental to physical health and your finances. If you can really be by yourself go for it. Move on now before is too late and you fall from your “white horse”. Honestly if I was you I rather live my last 20-30 …	/r/Divorce_Men	30/01/25 03:20 AM
12	How and where did you tell her you want a divorce? It was after a fight. I was explaining her that she can’t expect me to be always available for her needs and just ignore mines. We cried together that night but we were in the same page. Every time we had sex it was just for her. I felt physically deprived, a hug from anyone felt like a poem. For years I sat down to fix things but she never saw the problem and I resented her. One time we went to get a massage, she was happy for it and I was stressed because someone was gonna touch me. I was at m…	/r/Divorce_Men	30/01/25 02:25 AM
1	Do language barriers prevent good relationships? You need the “que” here. This is one of those case were the reason behind it would be just “it don’t sound right”.	/r/seduction	03/01/20 09:41 PM
2	Do language barriers prevent good relationships? I’m not “espero” I’m telling him to have a good day. You can or not use it. It’s like “I hope you have a nice day” vs “Have a nice day”	/r/seduction	03/01/20 06:55 PM
1	Do language barriers prevent good relationships? Que tengas un buen día.	/r/seduction	03/01/20 05:39 PM
6	Ban on Infant Circumcision! Bro, can you link me what you found that it make you suffer so much? I’m not circumcised and the only thing come to my mind is that I need to be really clean down there if I don’t want it to smell like rotten tomatoes. A single drop of pee under the skin will make it smell bad after a while. Edit: fuck this I just read your comments in the post, I feel for you, man, I’m sorry.,	/r/MensRights	27/12/19 12:48 PM
3	Decent at getting laid, not so great at making them stay. “Beside me” hahaha	/r/seduction	30/10/19 06:07 PM
2	Friendly tip. If she doesn’t do this when you offer up a day to do something she’s just not interested. Move on. Women will offer up alternatives if they can’t when you ask them out This is true,... but let be honest most of us don’t want to wait for them to be in the “mood”. Life is short, if someone don’t show as much interest as you keep walking have fun and enjoy life with someone else.	/r/seduction	03/10/19 11:31 AM
8	yesterday’s Heartbeat Rate spike when I approached a cute girl at the library What did you used to track your heartbeats?	/r/seduction	14/09/19 11:41 AM
1	Pseudo-intellectual ladies are the worst. “Mensa” in Spanish mean stupid. Just saying.	/r/PussyPassDenied	27/04/19 05:49 AM
9	No one wants to date me, but plenty of women want to cheat on their boyfriends with me. Wtf is happening? I feel you bro. It used to be like that for me. The reason? I don’t know. It’s fun, but nothing more than that. Now I can date a single women and connect; what I did you may ask? Nothing. Women are weird. That’s my best answer.	/r/seduction	27/01/19 10:10 PM
1	Just matched with highschool crush on tinder Sex	/r/seduction	18/10/18 12:32 PM
2	How do you respond if your SO says the L-word too early in the relationship? “Yeah, you love me but I don’t give a dam fuck about your feeling” I’m here just for the Lolz	/r/seduction	12/02/18 08:01 PM
5	why does she think i will be friends with her and not change my behaviour after she becomes a non sexual option? This happened to me a few times. I normally just walk away slowly instead of just change completely. That way I don’t look like an asshole.	/r/seduction	21/11/17 02:21 PM
-2	why does she think i will be friends with her and not change my behaviour after she becomes a non sexual option? If you just change the word “narcissist” with another one with the same meaning you would not have downvote lol trust me	/r/seduction	21/11/17 02:00 PM
1	Getting Girls to text first Read again. You give her the typical "Good Morning" text por 2 days (maybe 3 if you want) in a row then you stop, she probably will text you first the day you "forget" the "Good Morning" text.	/r/seduction	28/07/17 10:03 PM
4	Getting Girls to text first You need to develop interest first. It's true that there are girls that will start a conv from nothing and that's great but most of them don't. Be funny, respectful, be interesting. Send a "Good Moorning" text two days in a row and chat (text) with her during the day. She need to enjoy chat with you... then suddenly stop. She will mis how funny you are or that little bright you give to her day, she will text back. If she ask about why you haven't text her NEVER said that you "forget it", you wer…	/r/seduction	28/07/17 02:26 PM