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DiscussionImOnTheSquare/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/22 01:48 PM
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I know that lust has and probably will again, cloud my judgement. That's not a defect in women lol. That's my own biology making me stupid at times. Be a man and control yourself. It's had less of an effect on me as I've gotten older.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/24 12:41 PM
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I was gonna say I do think about the Roman empire a lot. Julius Caesar was an incredible man. Not a very a good guy in a lot of ways but what he accomplished is amazing.
/r/MensRights21/09/23 04:09 PM
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Hard disagree and this is coming from a man. There's been a couple relationships in my life that went long term and both times there's was a spark and one of those the girl was definitely not conventionally attractive. Not even my type really. The spark exists.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/23 11:43 AM
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I don't care what people wear as long as they aren't flashing anybody.
/r/MensRights23/08/23 01:18 AM
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I have two kids and trying for a third soon lmao. I got flamed for saying this the other day but you can still very easily have sex after having kids. Take time off per doctor's orders and it'll probably slow down some when the baby is young, but my wife and I have sex 2-3 times a week still after having kids. This whole nonsense about once or twice a month being a necessity after having children is pure nonsense. If you want to have sex you'll make time for it. If you don't want to then you won…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 05:45 PM
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I don't see it as a limiting factor. Just a fundamental incompatibilty. It would be like if I was super into fitness and working out and eating healthy it wouldn't make sense for me to date someone who is the opposite. They're different views on life and it would create too much conflict. Plenty of people out there have matching libidos. If anything I would say that forcing myself to be with someone who doesn't match my sex drive would be a major limiting factor. Why would I put myself into a po…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 05:29 PM
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I wouldn't be in a relationship with somebody that would just go without sex for 1-2 months without a medically significant reason. If that's your drive then cool, but don't know that about yourself and then purposefully date someone with a higher libido and act like there's something wrong with them for wanting sex the way they're wired to. This whole scenerio is stupid and shouldn't be happening in the first place. I know it does but still. Why would anyone even put themselves into that situat…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 05:16 PM
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I would 100% get a vasectomy over her continuing to take BC or getting tubal ligation. Way easier/cheaper for me to get snipped than her. But that would necessitate that were done having kids and were planning to have one more next year. She'll probably get her tubes tied while they're in there but if not I'll gladly get a vasectomy rather than put her through the more invasive and strenuous tubal ligation.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 01:49 AM
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You had a bad experience with one American woman. Lots of people have bad experiences with their relationships. That doesn't mean that's how all American women are. It means that how YOURS was.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/23 03:16 PM
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Not currently lmao. I did date American women though and then I married one. I'm pretty sure I have the experience necessary.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/23 11:11 PM
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Bro get off the internet. This is not how women think. That's how some nut jobs think but most definitely nowhere near most women. Maybe like 2% are like this.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/23 08:14 PM
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Thanks.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/23 09:23 PM
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But what do you think of a man that refuses to date a woman who has participated in sex work. I'm not asking if you think he has a right to. I'm asking what would you think of a man who did that.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/23 07:57 PM
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That's great and all. But what is your opinion of a man who refuses to date women who have participated in sex work?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/23 07:16 PM
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What's your opinion on a man refusing to date a woman who has participated in sex work?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/23 07:00 PM
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Not in this case it doesn't lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/22 12:53 AM
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As stupid as I think the alpha/beta thing is, you literally asked him lol. He didn't volunteer that information.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/22 12:32 AM
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Thats a weird conclusion to jump to. I have no desire to have sex with random women. But in your eyes, because I'm under 30 I shouldn't have a LTR?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/22 01:43 AM
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You gotta be about 60 then. Assuming you started dating at 16, dated for a year before being married and divorced right at the end of a year back to back. Then had 7 relationships last more than 4 years. Against that's with zero downtime in between would put you at about 58.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/22 10:36 PM
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I met my wife on tinder. Most of the women before that I met through mutual friends, online, or at events. Like before my wife my previous relationship I met volunteering at a haunted house.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/22 05:59 PM
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I mean I met my wife on tinder 5 years ago. I'm under 30. Still married.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/22 05:34 PM
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Nah I rent my house. My point is that there's all these dudes out here saying you gotta make over $100k and be ripped and all that shit and you fucking don't. I'm just me. I have confidence in myself and my abilities. Sure not every woman is wanting me but there ain't no dude out there like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/22 05:34 PM
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Thats the thing though isn't, strictly following BP or RP isn't going to get you a successful relationship. So why do people go so hard on it? ITT there's been a lot of people say they're in successful relationships, and almost all of them say they don't subscribe to either/or or do a mix of both, which is where I would put myself. I just don't understand why the people who are unsuccessful in love wouldn't want to listen to the ones who HAVE been successful.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/22 02:20 PM
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See its nice to read this. There's more here with a good relationships than I thought. I feel the same way about my wife. Like obviously nothing is set in stone, but we have a good relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/22 02:15 PM
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So I'm curious? I see a lot of people here say they won't date or won't get married etc. I myself am married. Just curious how many here are actually successful in dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/22 02:09 PM
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Yeah I guess but thats no way to live your life. If you spend your whole life looking over your shoulder you can't see whats in front of you. Nobody knows what the future holds, especially in a relationship, but I feel like a lot of people here suck at dating. I see men and women here say they've given up on dating, they won't get married, they won't commit to a relationship for this or that reason and I guess I wonder why the fuck are they here then? I know its not technically an advice sub but…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/22 02:07 PM
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I come back cause it’s like watching a car crash Haha same.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/22 02:06 PM
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Its not, but I feel like theres gotta be a sizeable portion of users here who are here to try to "get better" at dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/22 02:05 PM
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Do you get what I mean then? Like I feel like I don't hit the stereotype of that top 1% male at all. I'm a good 100 pounds overweight. I make good money for the area I live in but its nowhere near fantastic, under 6 figures. I own two cars but they're both older than 2010 and rent, not own, my home. Never had a problem obtaining relationships or even just sex if that was what I was looking for. I just don't understand subscribing to these belief systems. Like BP seems completely pussified to me …
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/22 02:05 PM
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I can't tell if you're being purposely obtuse, or you really don't see how ridiculous you sound.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/22 05:58 PM
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That may be so, but it's because of the results that men act the way they do. It's because women seek out men with those behaviors. If that's the case you honestly still believe that those women bear no responsibility? If I ask to to punch me in the face and tell you that if you do I'll give you $100, that's on me. Punching people is wrong, but you wouldn't be doing it if I didn't reward the behavior. Do you understand what I'm saying here?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/22 05:40 PM
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Well you don't want men to exhibit toxic behaviors right? But the men are only doing it because if they do have those behaviors they get sex. So if they stop acting that way, they won't have sex. That's your solution. Its just men don't have sex. I'm only assuming that you don't fuck men with those behaviors. So men stop the toxic traits and they no longer are able to have sex with the majority of women that desire those traits and that only leaves people like you. It's not women's responsibilit…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/22 04:16 PM
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So in your fantasy world, men don't have sex with anyone that isn't like you specifically. Good luck lol
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/22 12:48 PM
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If you dont like those behaviors then don't sleep with men who exhibit them. How do you propose to stop the other women from sleeping those men though. It's not your problem. You don't have an responsibility in stopping those behaviors, but you seem to want men to stop doing what they (and the women who sleep with them) want to do. So men need to stop acting a certain way. Fine. So the women who want that behavior and are actively seeking it out play no role in the fact that men behave the way t…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/22 01:15 AM
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Ok, if he's making choices based on what successfully gets him laid, your solution is that those men stop having sex? So what you're saying is, that women need to be forced to accept men that they don't want? I'm just trying to understand your line of reasoning here. This hypothetical dude is an asshole because it gets him laid. So him being an asshole works because women are fucking him because of how he acts. And the impetus for change is on the men and not the women who are directly enabling …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/22 01:07 AM
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I need to have sex. Desire and companionship is also a need, but that doesn't mean sex isn't just as much of a need.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/22 06:11 PM
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