ImStatus Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
4	[IAMA] I am Status, a no-name pua, and was asked to make a post of my own after commenting on another post and getting a lot of responses.		ImStatus	/r/seduction	20/06/17 12:46 AM

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1	Cold Approach Will SAVE YOU. God, no wonder you struggle with this so much. I can tell from this you're just an insufferable person. Keep searching for confirmation bias in your own little bubbles and hugging that comfort zone of failure you've created. No one is going to want to help someone like you.	/r/seduction	29/08/25 06:01 PM
3	Cold Approach Will SAVE YOU. You couldn't be more wrong. I have taught MANY men at this point in my life, and I taught them the same way I learned. "Talk to everyone. Today we are going to the mall, and you aren't leaving until you have 20 positive conversation with women. You don't have to get a number, or even ask, you just have a positive conversation where the woman is smiling after the conversation, and the vibe was fun. We gonna be here til you get it done." is literally the first lesson. I have a 15 year old nephew t…	/r/seduction	28/08/25 01:20 PM
2	1000+ approaches, lots of instant rejections, how to stay motivated? Horrible advice lol.	/r/seduction	05/05/19 01:40 AM
13	1000+ approaches, lots of instant rejections, how to stay motivated? Okay, So just because you claim to be so damn dedicated, I'll respond to this. that's a lot of text. So here's the deal guy, I'm not all that attractive. Middle of the road. A few extra pounds, like 5'7, Bald, I don't do the best with approaching results wise - but girls who are around me end up being really into me. I've dated strait tens exclusively, and unfortunately meet most of them through work (Last girlfriend strait up quit her job to date me). Energy is everything. And I do no…	/r/seduction	05/05/19 01:33 AM
3	(FR) Shortest “date” of my life A girl I regularly spend time with, have fucked, and like being around says this to me occassionally. I just ignore it. She's a big girl, she can decide what she wants on her own, and I don't really care to hear about what she wants to tell me she wants in those terms. I'll just go off her actions. Women (and people in general) rarely are able to verbalize what they want, most of the time they don't even know where to start. I just have fun, do what I want to do, and enjoy life. Stop being so ne…	/r/seduction	11/04/18 04:58 PM
22	Models by Mark Manson - What is Neediness? Posting this as it's own comment, incase reddit does the get burried thing on the one I responded to, incase someone else might benefit Man, I read some of the responses to other comments, and you're just not getting it fully, and that's okay. Neediness is about defining your life by someone else's terms, placing someone on a pedistal, deriving your self-worth from external validation, being supplicative, over investing, and sacrificing your own values for those of someone else. Models talks a l…	/r/seduction	07/04/18 04:56 PM
22	Models by Mark Manson - What is Neediness? Man, I read some of your responses to other comments, and you're just not getting it fully, and that's okay. Neediness is about defining your life by someone else's terms, placing someone on a pedistal, deriving your self-worth from external validation, being supplicative, over investing, and sacrificing your own values for those of someone else. Models talks a lot about vulnerability - and the idea that being vulnerable while being non-needy can be very attractive. However, being vulnerable for…	/r/seduction	07/04/18 04:55 PM
1	I became awesome and the girls didn't come That's the guy. He's the only coach I found that I liked.	/r/seduction	22/06/17 02:20 AM
1	[IAMA] I am Status, a no-name pua, and was asked to make a post of my own after commenting on another post and getting a lot of responses. Is what's going right now fine? I don't really consider myself a celebrity, a few guys asked, so I was answering.	/r/seduction	20/06/17 04:44 AM
1	[IAMA] I am Status, a no-name pua, and was asked to make a post of my own after commenting on another post and getting a lot of responses. Good luck man :)	/r/seduction	20/06/17 04:42 AM
2	[IAMA] I am Status, a no-name pua, and was asked to make a post of my own after commenting on another post and getting a lot of responses. Honestly I can't really give you decent advice on moving on, I did in a huge clusterfuck of a way. I drank a lot, engaged in super risky/wild behaviour, and fucked almost a hundred girls in a years time. yeah, I tried to win her back, and did, a couple times. It just kept on failing because she wasn't a good girl. She had a good heart, but she made god awful decisions, and I was tired of being her hero. For me, I just have to know she's trying. If I don't feel like she is, then I am out. At this…	/r/seduction	20/06/17 04:04 AM
2	[IAMA] I am Status, a no-name pua, and was asked to make a post of my own after commenting on another post and getting a lot of responses. Honestly, the correct answer in this situation is always "move on". You're placing wayyyy too much value on her, and because of that you're approaching it from an aspect of she'd be lowering her standards - which fucks you. "Give me a chance" never say that. Say you'll give them a chance to impress you. that being said.... Now, I don't know if you can pull off the comic frame or what kind of frame you have - me - I always have a comic frame. I'd walk up to her with a shit eating grin and say som…	/r/seduction	20/06/17 04:00 AM
2	[IAMA] I am Status, a no-name pua, and was asked to make a post of my own after commenting on another post and getting a lot of responses. Honestly, there wasn't that much of that for me. I had a decent social basis to build from, which was my greatest asset going in - that's why I recommend to anyone to develop that skillset further. Just be likable. The part I struggled the most with, was feeling like I'd never have a girl like the one I was engaged to again. I had be truly happy with her - and I was super down on the idea that I might not have that again. I struggled with feeling broken a lot, feeling like I couldn't love/trust …	/r/seduction	20/06/17 03:22 AM
1	[IAMA] I am Status, a no-name pua, and was asked to make a post of my own after commenting on another post and getting a lot of responses. Yes it is. Read that book. Good job on getting to the top of the social ladder. Depending on your school, everyone knows everyone is possible, or the other side is possible where you're pretty anonymous. Go talk to underclassmen, hit on freshmen or sophmore girls, because ya know, you're an unknown to them - they haven't seen you be awkward, and you have a ton of social status on them. You probably have your own car, etc. I guarantee you if there's 100 sophmore girls that are attractive, atleast…	/r/seduction	20/06/17 01:21 AM
1	I became awesome and the girls didn't come Brother, I can't do this for you. You can argue with me every step of the way if you want to. I'm going to say this once more. Be as attractive as you can be physically - but understand that it honestly is only maybe 20% of what a woman finds attractive. It's about how you can make her feel. Think about this, if a very attractive guy, a tom cruise type, stutters and says weird shit and talks about how awesome his anime collection is, smells bad, is in awful shape, and generally says super creepy…	/r/seduction	20/06/17 01:18 AM
2	[IAMA] I am Status, a no-name pua, and was asked to make a post of my own after commenting on another post and getting a lot of responses. Honestly, girls don't "hit on" guys a whole lot. They can show indicators of interest - but those are harder to pick up on. Don't beat yourself up over not seeing those right away. Girls are just like you in a way - they get afraid at the idea of putting themselves out there and being rejected, so they typically show interest in very subtle ways. Further more, being 17 is a hard time. You have a huge detractor from any 18+ girl, in that there's legal shit to consider, and venue restrictions. Hig…	/r/seduction	20/06/17 01:08 AM
1	I became awesome and the girls didn't come https://www.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/6iaob9/iama_i_am_status_a_noname_pua_and_was_asked_to/	/r/seduction	20/06/17 12:48 AM
1	I became awesome and the girls didn't come Here's an AMA if you have questions. https://www.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/6iaob9/iama_i_am_status_a_noname_pua_and_was_asked_to/	/r/seduction	20/06/17 12:47 AM
1	I became awesome and the girls didn't come Honestly, I don't feel like education factors into whether you can get laid or not at all. Most of the girls I've fucked probably had no idea if I had a degree or not. I get the fear - it's called approach anxiety. If you're looking to be who you want - you gotta own that shit and go for it. I promise the worst thing that can happen is she says no.	/r/seduction	19/06/17 10:27 PM
1	I became awesome and the girls didn't come Op says he's awesome. I disagree with that. He also says he's awesome by the standard of dating advice, which I disagree with. While he's onto something with the making girls feel a certain kinda way - it's fairly evident he hasn't been able to do that, and hasn't really tried much. This is how you become awesome, as far as my definition of awesome with girls goes.	/r/seduction	19/06/17 10:14 PM
1	I became awesome and the girls didn't come Haha, I don't have one of those. That's an amazing compliment though, so thank you for that.	/r/seduction	19/06/17 09:57 PM
1	I became awesome and the girls didn't come Never read Models. Go back and re-read carnegie. You missed some important parts. Every time I read that book I have new takeaways.	/r/seduction	19/06/17 09:52 PM
2	I became awesome and the girls didn't come "I get what you're saying. I'm sure you read that from my comment but I don't really feel like I'm down on myself, I guess I'm just a realist to be honest. I kind of base things on facts and evidence and form thoughts and beliefs from there, I don't really feel bad that I'm not attractive to women, I mostly just wonder what should I work on myself to fix it or what am I missing and all that. I try to tackle problems that are tangible or in my control." Bro, I respect the logical approach, I do t…	/r/seduction	19/06/17 09:52 PM
1	I became awesome and the girls didn't come Hey awesome man. I'm happy to hear that. Like I said, I don't go on seddit much, I just had a few minutes. If you regularly post - don't be offended I didn't recognize you - I just haven't been around a ton. Good work - keep on living the dream:)	/r/seduction	19/06/17 09:22 PM
1	I became awesome and the girls didn't come Thank you for the compliment marthdotsk. Saying nice shit to people though - that's the real MVP move.	/r/seduction	19/06/17 09:20 PM
1	I became awesome and the girls didn't come I'm right there with you. My 10 is more of an 8, but the objective ten - the swimsuit model or whatever - I don't like going for those anymore.	/r/seduction	19/06/17 09:19 PM
1	I became awesome and the girls didn't come Like the OP, you're misdefining (is that a word?) awesome. It's easy enough to do, sure - I get it. But the thing you're not getting is that you're talking about things that can be components to being awesome in a sort of fringe way. Part of being awesome is being shameless about who you are. Read the part where I talked about the name I chose (status) and why/what it meant to me. You seem to understand that you need to evoke emotions and interactions that go beyond "cool guy, make a nice friend…	/r/seduction	19/06/17 09:19 PM
4	I became awesome and the girls didn't come What do you think I'm trying to prove, dummy? you're the ONLY negative response I've had in my inbox. I have no physical ties to this reddit account. I don't monetize shit. I don't give a flying fuck about karma - honestly this is probably my highest karma post in all of like 5 or so years of reddit. Who the fuck am I here to impress?	/r/seduction	19/06/17 11:09 AM
5	I became awesome and the girls didn't come okay, dude, seriously - I'm gonna bet 10 to 1 your biggest problem is your confidence right here. Holy shit I'd feel like hell if I was this down on myself. I don't know if you caught the bit earlier, but I have a missing front top tooth currently. It's blatantly obvious. I am 31, chubby, and honestly, I could do a ton to improve my appearance. I've slacked lately to be fair, because idk, I've just been interested in other things, and gotten kind of bored with "game". I go through phases. Congra…	/r/seduction	19/06/17 11:05 AM
1	I became awesome and the girls didn't come Read how to win friends and influence people - it's a good base to build upon. As far as feeling stuff - I mean it depends on what you want them to feel. Comfort is important, but some girls, you want them to seek approval - that's why negging works. Lots of people talk shit about negging - and while I don't do it much, I do do it. Most people talk shit about negging because they don't understand at all how it works. It's about throwing a tiny little pebble. Fun Banter. A good description of neg…	/r/seduction	19/06/17 10:39 AM
3	I became awesome and the girls didn't come Everything is about building on something. You gotta have a window. For me, when a girl smiles at me or laughs or anything - that's my window and I build. Escalation is VERY important, and building comfort is very important as well. The more you talk, the more I get the idea that you are socially awkward as hell - not intended as an insult, but an observation. Read "How to win friends..." - I linked it earlier. This will help you a ton. I gave you a freebie on making someone feel something - say…	/r/seduction	19/06/17 10:31 AM
11	I became awesome and the girls didn't come the advice applies to everyone. I doubt what I call very unattractive applies to you flat out. It's amazing what light exercise and eating right and hygiene can do for your appearance. Some people have some very real struggles - like a disability, that they can't help - but I think that I could even teach someone like that. The first thing we did when we did weekends, or 'camps' that guys paid ~12 grand to be a part of - was a make over. sounds girly but fuck it. If you get into decent shape - y…	/r/seduction	19/06/17 08:17 AM
4	I became awesome and the girls didn't come That's possible. Have you read how to win friends and influence people? https://www.amazon.com/How-Win-Friends-Influence-People/dp/0671027034 It's worth a read. You'll get more out of that than out of mystery's shit (though you should still read it....just as a basic understanding of the evolution of pick up, and what pitfalls not to fall in) - and there is some basic shit in there that holds up. If you want to read The Game - by style, that's fine too. Style's kind of....idk. I don't want to ra…	/r/seduction	19/06/17 07:56 AM
6	I became awesome and the girls didn't come I also wanted to touch on this, because it bugged me. "Yeah, me too, but I find that unsatisfying. I don't have enough time on my hands to go out 3 nights a week to pick up girls. It's summer, I'm horny, so I did put some other things on hold to make time, but that's not who I want to be." Unsatisfying? What is unsatisfying about finding fun, interesting people and sleeping with them? You don't have time to go out 3 nights a week to pick up girls. Fine. Always be in a set. I don't go to bars ver…	/r/seduction	19/06/17 07:49 AM
2	I became awesome and the girls didn't come if you're already thinking along these lines, that's great dude. Good luck on developing a more full and happy life.	/r/seduction	19/06/17 07:30 AM
4	I became awesome and the girls didn't come nah, this guy right here /u/thechaosz ;)	/r/seduction	19/06/17 07:29 AM
3	I became awesome and the girls didn't come Thank you for the compliment /u/galimocean	/r/seduction	19/06/17 07:28 AM
11	I became awesome and the girls didn't come I think you missed the point of it. Stop fronting and trying to impress people on the internet with what you think you've done right. come humble, and take to heart what I've said if you want help. You don't come off as if you believe that you're awesome. You believe some arbitrary achievements make you awesome. If you were awesome, you wouldn't be here trying to figure out what is wrong - stop acting like you're somehow ahead of the curve and just enjoy the journey.	/r/seduction	19/06/17 07:22 AM
267	I became awesome and the girls didn't come Man, I have to disagree with you completely. I also have to disagree with most of the people who commented on this thread. This is going to be harsh. You want help? Read it. You want to whine some more, or live inside your own comfort zone, thinking you're not the problem? Dip out now. I think you don't understand what awesome is. Maybe that's the disconnect. You talk about things like job, education, owning a business. I own my own business. Women do NOT give a shit about me owning my own busin…	/r/seduction	18/06/17 09:57 PM
5	The downside with being attractive Bro. Bro. Come on man. Being invisible in a nightclub is the absolute opposite of what you want. YOU WANT TO BE SEEN APPROACHING AND HITTING ON GIRLS. If you see a dude walk up to a group of girls and talk to them for a while, there's laughter and smiles, and then he walks away and talks to a group of guys and girls and befriends them...what do you think about that dude? It's never "oh he just struck out blah blah". It's always something like that dude has a lot of friends or that dude is really…	/r/seduction	29/04/17 05:55 PM
1	5 years, 100+ chicks later. Here's a distilled summary of what I've learned. As someone who lurks this forum because it was previously my job - you couldn't be more wrong man. There are many many types of "PUA" people. Some can be sleezy. I think the cringiest shit I ever saw was from a guy who uses the name "Gambler" and sells his services teaching guys how to get laid. He outlined a situation in which he invited a girl away from the club to his house for an after party, the after party was never gonna be a thing ever, and when they got there he just made her feel as co…	/r/seduction	18/02/17 07:55 PM