ImStevenOutLoud Archive

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1	Differences between a guy she wants to date casually vs someone she wants to date seriously? Im coming in here because im the exception to this rule lol, and there are women that will be open to casual. I actually asked out one of the upper tier ones id been seeing casually, she felt FWB vibes, i was stunned someone that attractive wanted to be casual (with me, at the time my confidence was much lower) It may be uncommon but it does happen.	/r/seduction	14/08/26 05:35 PM
83	How can I stop feeling nervous around big tiddy girls? "Ma'am, we've got to acknowledge the two elephants in the room.. are those -shoe brand?- Wow!"	/r/seduction	16/07/26 09:00 AM
11	Can We Please Stop With the Dating Coaches and "Gurus"? The issue isnt the Dating Coaches or Gurus, its a combination of: "Ill watch this instead of taking action" And "Ill listen to this guy tell me how to actually attract women, despite having heard how to multiple times from multiple different people" Amongst other excuses. If there's a fire, the attention goes to the action of putting it out last, and goes to: Is it actually on fire? Should we let it burn? Who's fault is it? Etc. Nothing that involves taking actual action and achieving a result g…	/r/seduction	15/07/26 05:34 PM
1	A Different Perspective on Why to Get a Women’s Number ASAP when on dating apps Ive only used Snap personally so I cant speak for IG, I just know it also has stories	/r/seduction	09/07/26 09:46 PM
7	A Different Perspective on Why to Get a Women’s Number ASAP when on dating apps I've had significantly more success in the past with adding someone to a story-based app (snap, IG, etc) than texting. If you have any sort of personality, anything that can help you convey that is preferred over just text. If you wanna set dates like a job interview sure, but I always found it more effective to put the personality on display with stories/passive viewing, and then doubling down with it in person. Builds trust fast.	/r/seduction	09/07/26 05:53 PM
13	How do i initiate w/out coming off as creepy/weird Creepy and weird: fixating on taking "the step", leaning into being about to do it and leaning away like its a hot stove Not creepy and weird: having fun like two old friends, going for the kiss at the peak of the hilarity, like laugh/playful shove/frig off/get closer/make the move The more you weave it into a natural high the less performative and "i just gotta go for it" you'll feel.	/r/seduction	07/07/26 08:28 PM
3	34M. Experienced with dating. Met a girl I liked a lot & dropped other options. Then got dumped. What’s my mistake? Id bet that your approach changed after you dropped your other options. You also lost frame by being pulled into her 40 acre farm fantasy and responding logically. The honesty of "I dont plan on being that rich" is respectable, but whether she was joking or serious you're kind of killing the fun with that response at that point. Something like "Yeah girl, ill get my hands dirty and you bring me a glass of lemonade in an outfit that would make the chickens blush" would've been great here. If its …	/r/seduction	25/06/26 11:57 AM
45	How To Make Any Boring Conversation Flirty Despite the quality of this, ill entertain the discussion anyway: "One of the biggest mistakes men make is saying something playful and then immediately laughing at their own joke." Lol. This is the most unnecessary micromanaging imaginable. Can you imagine if a guy was hanging out with his friends thinking this way? Why treat a woman any different? They literally just want you to fuck off with the optimization and have fun with them, not sit there overanalyzing everything thats said. You should…	/r/seduction	25/06/26 11:44 AM