ImStillHavingFun Archive

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6	Men without money hit the wall way harder than the average woman I’m an older guy. I can tell you men DO hit the wall. They let themselves go physically. They often get off the fashion train sometime in their 30’s. I can’t tell you how many “jorts”I’ve seen. But most men are blue pilled. Most men aren’t willing to do the work necessary. But these aren’t typically the men on this sub.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/11/22 04:15 PM
4	Q4M: What are some red flags in men and which ones do you think you fall under? Fedoras. They’ll likely to bore a woman to death. Man buns. They’re far too Left. Fashy haircuts. They’re far too Right. Tbh, a guy who spends too much time on his physique. He’ll prioritize the gym, not you. I fall under the latter. Up at four to practice forms, then run. Gym after work.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/11/22 05:31 PM
0	Most average males should not bother with most women unless they are really willing to lower their standards. Sure it does. But it’s a horrible way to go through life. If you embrace it, more power to you.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/09/22 12:55 PM
18	Most average males should not bother with most women unless they are really willing to lower their standards. OP, it seems as if you’ve discovered the black pill. It’s really just nihilism repackaged for the current century. You really have to ask yourself if you want to live by that philosophy. No judgement, you do you. But if you don’t, there’s all kinds of people willing to help you out. But unless you make that decision, no one will be able to convince you otherwise.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/09/22 12:53 PM
2	According to surveys, among people over 50 women are less interested in dating and relationships than men but among people under 50 women are as interested in dating and relationships as men. What is the reason behind this difference? I always thought I was older than most on this sub. Now I have confirmation. Gen X here, officially over 50. I’m active in r/DatingOverFifty. Yes, we geezers date. I know my experience doesn’t necessarily reflect reality. Though many have left the dating scene altogether, it seems as if more women at this age are seeking as opposed to men. Sex is still on the table. We’re older, not dead. Most are fatter and/or balder. It’s rare to find someone who’s actually fit. Catfishing is even more common.…	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/07/22 02:45 PM
1	As a man, I think the men here who utilize their fundamental advantages of being a man in society get called creepy and sexist I’m comfortable and over 6’ , and I agree with you. Every man has to ‘leverage their position’ a little. In general, people of both sexes are going to disagree with you though. It’s just not socially acceptable to have an age gap. No one will admit it, but they’ll always think guys should date an age equivalent woman +/- 5 years. It’s just how the culture is wired. Stop trying to convince these others of the righteousness of your ideas. Just implement them and roll.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/06/22 03:08 PM
1	[Q4All]What are Your thoughts on Strip Clubs/Strippers? I was in the Army for a long time, so I have zero problems with strip clubs. They’re ubiquitous around military posts worldwide. When I was a young man I went often. Though you tend to grow out of it. Personally, I don’t believe in handing over hard worked for money just bc I got to see someone naked. I’ve dated two strippers. Soldiers and strippers kinda go together. What do I think about people who frequent a club frequently? A lot of Reddit posters seem to think they’re incels. I find that to…	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/06/22 03:02 PM
1	A world were women would all behave like TRP would tell them would be worse Ah, I see what you mean now. I don’t think women are all Machiavellian monsters who plot things to the Nth degree. Sure, some post epiphany women infiltrate the church or cling to traditional beliefs to find “good men”. That’s their concern, and many will be successful. I don’t think the RP is a placebo. But I do think a lot of RPers only use the parts they like. It’s a way for many men to wag their fingers at women. The RP works. It’s not necessary to know why. It is really self improvement by …	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/06/22 03:10 PM
2	A world were women would all behave like TRP would tell them would be worse RP isn’t for everyone. Most guys, even if they’re redpilled, won’t or can’t live up to it. Most people are very comfortable with their blindfolds on. But more “normies” are waking up to some basic truths. It’s the reason why marriage rates are so low. There is little a man receives from being in a marriage that he can get without being in one. But he can lose quite a bit. Teaching RP to women probably wouldn’t result in the type of world you envisage. Women who want to work would. Roving gangs o…	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/06/22 02:26 PM
2	Men and women, have you ever been the "Chad/Stacy" who she/he was cheating with? What are your feelings on it now? I have. Sometimes I knew before. Sometimes I found out later. Never had much guilt about it. Don’t have guilt about it now. The way I look at it now is that it’s simply not worth the drama. I’ve had jealous husbands /bfs come at me. I don’t like to use violence, but it’s a skill I’ve worked at since childhood. Sometimes you win. Sometimes you lose. But why am I fighting this guy over faults in his relationship? Not my problem.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/06/22 01:58 PM
0	An Older man (30s+) Dating a Younger Woman (18+) is NOT Gross or Creepy. Age gaps are a bigger deal in society when one person is much younger. 18 and 30? BIG deal. 38 and 50? NOT a big deal. You’re never going to get society at large approving that age gap. Yup, younger people are generally more physically attractive. But they’re basically children. They’re going to change soooo much in the coming years. Im pretty certain 18 yo me wouldn’t even like the man I am today. Just don’t, if you want other people to see you as “normal”.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/06/22 01:45 PM
3	What were you told about attracting the opposite sex as you were growing up? The best advice I got was from a gay uncle. He stressed the importance of looks. He told me that there’s absolutely no excuse for a young man to be out of shape. None. That you don’t have to be the most fashionable guy, but that you have to wear clothes that actually fit. He told me to learn how to dance. He said women of all ages, whether they admit it or not, appreciate a man who can dance. Other than that, my parents told me absolutely nothing.	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/05/22 07:59 PM
4	How will the increasingly large education between the sexes affect dating in the future? I think it will effect all sorts of Western life, not merely dating. In the short term, it’s all golden for men who attend(ed) university. College educated women most often seek college educated men. Since most men want to have s*x with as many women ( or guys, your tastes really don’t matter ) as they can, that small amount of men probably won’t commit. A man is only as faithful as his options; those men will have plenty. Politically, it’s a truly bad idea for 1000’s of military aged men to be …	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/05/22 01:41 PM
1	Q4M On a Scale of 1-10, how attractive does a woman have to be for you to approach? If we’re talking cold approach, I strike up conversation with cute women, but rarely gorgeous ones. I’d say probably 5. I don’t trust OLD pics. Too many tricks with lighting and angles. I’d rate myself a 5 out of the shower. Hey, I’m “cute”! Yes. Cold approaches work, but it’s like sales. You hear no a lot more often than yes.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/05/22 11:11 PM
5	Alpha Fcks/Beta Bucks Situations Wow, lots of tangents. I’ve been in both situations. I’ve had one morph into the other. Tbh, it’s better to be the former. I’ve dated where I often heard “You’d be perfect if you only did x.” Now, I fall more into the former category. I’m not willing to give beyond a certain point. I don’t think you should put anyones needs above your own. It’s like “Nah. This is what attracted you in the first place.” Guess I’ve become the dck. It’s much better here.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/05/22 09:46 PM
2	How does your PPD persona differ from real life when it comes to relationships? Only half true. A rich man ( someone making twice the national average really is rich ) will date a broke woman who only makes $25k. But yes, you ARE right about not being interested in a woman not pulling her weight. It all depends on the definition of pulling your weight is.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/05/22 10:30 PM