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Purge Week!Im_The_Daiquiri_Man/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/20 09:41 PM
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DiscussionIm_The_Daiquiri_Man/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/22 10:16 PM
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DiscussionIm_The_Daiquiri_Man/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/22 09:22 PM
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Question For WomenIm_The_Daiquiri_Man/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/22 02:29 AM
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Question For WomenIm_The_Daiquiri_Man/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/22 02:12 AM
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DiscussionIm_The_Daiquiri_Man/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/22 09:43 PM
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Im_The_Daiquiri_Man/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/21 12:37 AM
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DiscussionIm_The_Daiquiri_Man/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/21 04:19 PM
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Question For WomenIm_The_Daiquiri_Man/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/22 12:56 AM
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Lots of betas can be good in bed because of hidden anger. Based and Betapilled. 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/22 12:33 PM
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Not to self - throw all garbage in one bin when you want to be fuckzoned.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/22 12:31 PM
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Crazy thing is - I personally don't even mind this - short of making out / fucking some dude, let her get her flirty fun in - IDGAF - I know I'm an outlier here. I also wouldn't date a woman who freaked out if I went to a strip club w/ friends. What I won't tolerate is the denial that women engage in this in the first place, or the insanity of those same women accusing men who watch porn somehow betraying their relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/22 09:32 PM
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I’m talking about the trick that PPD women and white knights pull on the forum in general constantly: Take one position on thread A because it makes women look virtuous and strong, then take an entirely different position on another thread to make men look bad. I’m sick of it. The best / most recent example is after god knows how many threads with posts by women claiming up and down they “have to know a guy before they feel any sexual attraction to him” being flipped upside down when it was conv…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/22 09:10 PM
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Yea you can say both. If you are deemed Chad / Chad lite they break the rules for you, if you are deemed not among the hottest guys in there you get cockblocked. This isn’t difficult to understand. And just lmao saying it’s not “common” if you go to bars and clubs in any US city on the weekends and don’t see this , you are either hanging out with librarians or are being willfully blind.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/22 09:03 PM
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Some white knight chiming in about how men should stfu about girls grinding on guys dicks because it gives them “time to themselves” is precisely the same as a man telling a girl she should be happy the man is beating it to porn because then she “doesn’t have to have sex as much”
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/22 09:00 PM
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Huge doubt. Unless your girls night is a knitting club, there’s no way in hell you haven’t seen this shit play out at a bar or club.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/22 08:33 PM
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Uh huh. How about PPD women constantly claiming men merely watching porn is some “disgusting betrayal” much less men going to strip clubs. But Women sucking Chad’s tongue in the club bathroom is just “girl fun” teehee.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/22 08:32 PM
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Why is every woman on PPD compelled to add in some editorial about how “one hand hand RP wants X and then on the other hand Y!1!1” (ignoring that X and Y are totally contextual) And then proceed to hand wave away the fact the the phenomenon exists at all. Every man has seen this. A girls night out resulting in one or more women who have a BF or Married bouncing on Chads dick on the dance floor for fun “whoooo!! Get it Becky!!” Personally I’ve been the guy some girl was “just having fun with” and…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/22 08:24 PM
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Clearly what you really want to say is “if you can’t handle me at my worst you don’t deserve me at my best” You also keep ignoring the utterly common phenomenon of women saying “I’m done with men because they don’t give me what I want” You can’t have it both ways. Either walking away is a “hissy fit” or “wanting to be treated with respect” you can’t have both just because you are “team women” You’re talking in circles.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/22 07:25 PM
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You lost. Just stop.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/22 07:22 PM
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You’re hamstering and you know you’re hamstering. You called him (and implied those who “think like him”) entitled for saying it wasn’t worth the headache and hassles to “get pussy” so he was giving up. Making a determination that something isn’t worth pursuing and that your own peace of mind and well being is better off if you let go of the pursuit of it is literally the opposite of entitled. You were wrong. Own it.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/22 07:19 PM
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Kind of like what you’re doing with men by calling them “entitled” for making a conscious choice from disengaging from dating women? You’re almost there.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/22 07:13 PM
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Lol what? Jesus Christ. I’ll say it one last time. Saying “it’s not worth enduring endless humiliation and women’s bad behavior to have a chance to get sex” is “entitled”? On what fucking planet is that “entitled”? BTW - Men use the term “get pussy” colloquially / interchangeably with relationship, intimacy and dating. Don’t act like you don’t know that. And don’t language police. Entitled would be saying “I shouldn’t have to lift a finger for women, they should just give me sex because I want i…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/22 07:03 PM
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I see. So men that don’t want to be treated like simps, eunuchs, errand boys, bank accounts or status symbols are asking for something more than “respect” and are acting “entitled”? Face it. You just want to label any man who calls out women’s bad behavior and chooses to walk away from it a “bitter incel”
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/22 06:59 PM
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So women don’t complain about (hot) “fuck boys” that don’t want to settle down (with them)? Sure, Jan.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/22 06:53 PM
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As others have said womens preferences are often driven by a man’s relative status to other men If you’ve ever been a relatively average man in a group of well below average men (say elderly, very overweight, etc) you’ll observe that the way women treat you in that scenario is night and day. If you were in a group of high status chads, you’d be invisible. This is hypergamy in a nutshell. She wants “the best available” not “good enough” If the “average” height is 5’6 she’ll say “ewww that’s short…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/22 04:38 PM
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What about simply fucking one?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/22 05:05 AM
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Yes. And they get labeled “TERFs”
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/22 05:03 AM
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Almost all discussions here on PPD are about “the west”. We don’t need to discuss a Pigmy tribe to understand trends and reality in the western dating market. So you are correct there. It’s not “all” women. It’s most women in the west. Is that better?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/22 05:58 AM
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Yes. As we all know, scholars from Plato to Freud posited that “women love to fuck as many random partners as men” This must explain the phenomenon of lesbian bath houses. 🤔
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/22 05:36 AM
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Again, if you can’t take a lifetime of experience and observation of womens behavior, and millennia of this subject being talked about and dissected take it up with the hundreds of PPD women who claim the opposite. I could care less what some woke gender studies or feminist class wants to put forth. Those are the likely same people who call women “birthing persons” Anyway, go ahead. Make a new post called “Q4W: when out and about, do you think about fucking anonymous hot guys without any informa…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/22 05:30 AM
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So your argument is that men and women’s sexuality is identical and it’s merely “social conditioning” that makes women feel an internal impulse to want to fuck every hot guy they see. So, Women look at a guy on shorts on a beach with a six pack and a bulge and think about deep throating him, him pounding away on her the way a man sees a hot girl in a bikini and involuntarily thinks of fucking a her and cumming on her tits. That literally flies in the face of how every woman on PPD describes thei…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/22 05:23 AM
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The data is not “skewed” women always say this shit whenever something comes out that utterly and completely matches what men have been saying for years because … as you just did “not all women like tall guys!” Teehee. If that isn’t gaslighting and being deliberately pedantic and obtuse I don’t know what is. It’s a social study, it’s not chemistry so of course you’re never going to get some binary result. It’s like saying “not all gay people are born that way!!! Stop generalizing! Maybe they can…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/22 05:21 AM
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You'd be surprised how horny women are. In the right context they are as horny as men but because danger is a factor to consider, they are not horny all the time, like men. FOR A SPECIFIC MAN. Which was the whole damn point of my differentiating how women and mens sexual imperatives. If you’re gonna go down the “mUh social conditioning” road with male and female sexuality we have nothing to talk about.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/22 05:16 AM
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The fuck did this “flashing” come from. Save the “women are teh scaredez!” Shit. That’s not remotely what we’re discussing here. Are women “scared” of going to male strip clubs? Another fucking person wanting to debate the apparently controversial notion that men’s sexuality is far more visually stimulated than womens is. Jesus Christ this place sometimes. 🤦🏻‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/22 04:54 AM
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Your entire premise was / is invalid and you have shown no sign of debating on good faith. Claiming I am making a “moral judgement” on simple biological facts is not indicative of somebody wanting to dive deeper into the reasoning. But, please, feel free to figure out on your own what human beings have known for thousands of years.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/22 04:52 AM
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I am aware of that. The fact that their sexual organs are largely internal would make this pretty obvious. Thank you, Thickcock_69. I can put this mystery to rest now.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/22 04:50 AM
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I don’t care. You aren’t operating from any basis of fact or reality and just want to argue obvious truths. I’m not that bored.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/22 04:48 AM
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Oh cool. That explains all the female porn magazines, and male strip clubs and male escorts. Absolutely. It’s just about “danger”. It has nothing to do with women’s different attraction cues (aka status, confidence, swagger, game, etc) Nope. It’s that “men are scary” 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/22 04:47 AM
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Username makes me think this is an authoritative source.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/22 04:46 AM
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“Worse” as in it is more indicative of a woman having her foot out the door of a relationship and being completely done with the man she is cheating on. Keep up. Why the motherfuck is this controversial now? Men want WOMEN women want A MAN. Fucking comedians have covered this for decades yet here come the hamsters to argue the color of the sky yet again.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/22 04:44 AM
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Lol. Another woman that won’t be satisfied unless … what? Women’s brains are scanned for the “real truth”? This is the kind of shit women always bust out with when the cold water is thrown on their gaslighting “well maybe it’s sort of true but it’s not the whole story! I know a midget who takes girls home at the club every night!2!2l” Hear that guys? Data is no longer useful here on PPD. Nope. It’s all feelz and “not MEEEEE!!” Teehee.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/22 04:42 AM
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I’m hamstering? First, as has been pointed out repeatedly in this thread those stats are from 2021, well before these were a “premium” feature. So put that one to rest. Next, you are literally just theorizing about “mAybE itS tAlL woMen!1!” With zero evidence. In my experience and the experience of many many men who date women, it’s actually shorter women with the heigh preference. So… again. Inventing shit. Dude. Just give it up. Why tf do you think men are making this shit up? There’s always o…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/22 04:39 AM
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And as many comments pointed out, this data is from 2021 well before this was an exclusively premium feature. Anything else?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/22 03:35 AM
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Falling asleep next to her while my hand is on her hip bone contour (don’t know why) Road trips / traveling / sharing experiences together Pet names Watching movies on the couch then talking about them Roasting each other Sharing porn memes Checking out hot women together Threesomes
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/22 02:55 AM
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I said good day.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/22 02:48 AM
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The motive for cheating is the same for both genders. No. It isn’t. No matter how much you want to believe otherwise. Good day.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/22 02:07 AM
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Oh my bad. Women constantly fuck some other dude even though they really still respect, love and desire the man they are cheating on. It’s not that they have checked out of the relationship and are moving on to a new dude entirely… nope. No siree. Never seen that.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/22 01:48 AM
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How are you not understanding the difference between “feels the biological urge to do X” and “goes out and does X”? How do you not understand that men and women sexually cheating has different motivations and different meanings in terms of how they view their partner and relationship? (Neither are good, but they are very different) Anyway this looks like yet another “Hey! let’s argue about obvious facts!” treadmills so I’m out.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/22 01:45 AM
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Well with that well thought out response, how can I possibly refute you? You win. Women go out to strip clubs and fuck randoms even when they are happily in a relationship with a man all the time because of their notorious biological desire for a variety of mating partners. Of course.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/22 01:34 AM
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One word: algorithms. If you come and borrow my cell phone right now you will think that crocheting is now the most popular hobby for Gen Z women in America and Walt Disney is the second coming of Jesus Christ. So damn true. This algorithm based media world we live in is an elephant in the room as far as how many ways we figure out how to divide ourselves into groups to hate. This is absolutely a right and left phenomenon. I’m RP but I stay the fuck away from YouTube “Guru’s” of any kind. They a…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/22 01:31 AM
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A.) STDs are a risk in any sexual encounter outside an LTR. B.) Lying isn’t a “risk” it’s a means to an end. C.) When women cheat they are almost always “done” with the man they cheated on. Not so for a man. The end.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/22 01:25 AM
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Go touch grass Parody confirmed.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/22 01:23 AM
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Ok. To be fair, it’s not bad advice it just is so reminiscent of old school stuff. Thanks for sharing.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/22 12:16 AM
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Just imagine if women could throw in "dick size" and "income" on Bumble.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/22 12:12 AM
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Lol @ posting literal models as your "example photos" Jesus, this is like early 2000's PUA shit 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/22 12:11 AM
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Lol this sounds like some "Mystery Method" shit. Do you also approach from a 32 degree angle and talk about how delicious strawberries are? This shit only works if you are already in in the first place.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/22 12:10 AM
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Username explains it. Chadfish confirmed.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/22 12:08 AM
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You don't need premium to filter by height. Try again.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/22 12:07 AM
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This has strong Poe's law vibes.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/22 12:05 AM
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This literally reads like satire. exactly this must be a troll / joke - because it sounds like exactly what RP types write when they are mocking women.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/22 12:05 AM
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lol no. A,) Women can still see a man's height when swiping, this merely allows them to mreeely not see them at all. B.) Women up until very recently had 2 free filters, so its not like this data is only considering the relatively modern phenomenon of filtering. Do you truly think that these statistics would look much different when compared to swipes based on height? Why is it so damn hard for women to #believemen on this one? Just because it might show some are :gasp: shallow too?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/22 12:03 AM
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Pearl Clutchers: They usually wandered in from some other sub, and express dismay and shock at things that both PPD men and women discuss openly and freely. (We've been seeing this more and more lately) FDS Refugees: Much like when when the !nc3l subs got shut down and we saw an influx of Blackpill posting, the FDS'ers have shown up to engage in their "Dunk on men at any cost" crusade to jam up otherwise interesting threads with their boring and uncreative ad hominems. The Denialists: These are …
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/22 11:52 PM
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Women are absolutely “put off” by men crying if it’s not on the “Woman Approved ™” list of things men get to emote about. Women cry like men sneeze and often use it for outright manipulation. (“Cry bullying”) I’m b4 the women start trying to “both sides” this with stories of some outlier dude who did this. Please just don’t. We are discussing generalities here. Children or animals in distress / crying will bring out women’s nurturing side. Men crying or in distress will make women recoil in disc…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/22 09:51 PM
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“Both sides”
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/22 09:48 PM
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Lol well that settles it. Dozens if not hundreds of men reciting stories to the contrary are meaningless because RocinanteCoffee said it was “so untrue”
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/22 09:44 PM
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While this is a nice sentiment it ignores this fundamental law of the universe: You cannot negotiate attraction.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/22 09:42 PM
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If you want to be pedantic we can throw in the elderly and burn victims in there. Trying to argue that men are “just as picky” as women are sexually? Why? Why tf do this? As ever, we have the usual women on PPD wanting to argue about the color of the sky and other self evident realities because they can’t come to terms with the nature of women in general, so they try the “both sides” approach when all else fails. Again, I’m over it.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/22 09:35 PM
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Now, please tell the class how a woman defines “hot” Would you like to start a spreadsheet?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/22 09:31 PM
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Yes. “Don’t be fat” Now do women.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/22 09:22 PM
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Is fire, rain and snow or gravity “a good thing”?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/22 09:20 PM
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But this is the fundamental difference between female and male sexuality. Men want to fuck “women”, women want to fuck “a particular man” This is one of the reasons sexual cheating is generally way worse when a woman does it. Women will walk around a beach and, at most, their lizard brain will cause them to notice one or two hot guys the way a guy notices a nice car. If that guy very specifically appeals to her niche, or he talks to her and gets in her head then and only then it’s tunnel vision …
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/22 09:17 PM
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Something bad that men do way more: “fucking men! Get your shit together do better!1!1” Something bad that women do way more: “meh …. Both sides”
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/22 09:12 PM
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Nah. You don’t want to get it. If I explain it you will pretend you still don’t get it. The fact that you’re pulling this “oNlY aBoUt 6%!” Horse shit proves you aren’t arguing in good faith. I’ve been down this road with PPD women wanting to argue over the color of the sky enough to recognize a good faith debate when it appears. This isn’t that.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/22 08:46 PM
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While the average woman prefers a tall man, the minority of women that do not have a heigh preference are much more likely to comment on those sorts of posts. Or the “average woman” will publicly declare “height doesn’t matter to her as long as he’s a bit taller” because it sounds better. But nah, whoever heard of women publicly professing things that make them look altruistic and above base instincts while doing the exact opposite in private. Women never prefer to tell a pretty lie over the ugl…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/22 08:44 PM
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Lol. You can’t actually be this obtuse. You just can’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/22 08:37 PM
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Oh for fucksake. Isn’t this precisely like men chiming in about how they personally love fat women, so there is absolutely no issue that fat women face in dating? Isn’t it exactly that? Except for the fact that there are actually men with fat fetishes, but I’ve never once met a woman with a “short” fetish.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/22 08:24 PM
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Lol a woman asking “why on earth would anybody discuss general disparities and unfairness within the sexes when it comes to their own gender?!?!” Stop and think about that for a second. As a woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/22 08:06 PM
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Lol imagine being a short guy seeing this brutal and soul crushing statistic and this is the thing a woman is really curious and upset about. 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/22 07:41 PM
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Correct. And I’ve never once seen a woman break up without an option ready to go. Not once. Even in cheating scenarios, what I will see is the woman not leave, but get pouty and angry for a while before she fucks some other dude (usually within a week or 2) then suddenly find the “courage” to leave. The only times women are left flat footed is when the man tells her to kick rocks point blank and she wasn’t expecting it. Guess how long it generally takes that woman to be get taken out on dates an…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/22 07:37 PM
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Actually no. If a woman fucks Chad in the broom closet and I find out, then break up with her as a result, technically I broke up with her. Guess who has already grabbed ahold of at least 2-3 branches at that point. If she meets Chad, doesn’t fuck him, then breaks up with her bf because he left the toilet seat up, guess how that turns out.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/22 07:35 PM
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Lol. And here it is. The hand waving away of actual fucking data. You literally can’t win with PPD women. It would take locking a thousand women in a room and giving them sodium penothal before asking and even then you would get told “they felt pressured into those answers!1!1” A bunch of Gas Lighting Amber Heards on this sub.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/22 07:33 PM
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And just like with literally every other study that slap women in the face with the reality of their action versus their words, the hamsters will become crickets. By tomorrow we’ll be hearing PPD women earnestly profess that “height doesn’t matter! Just be a little taller than me! (teehee).” It literally doesn’t matter how much or what kind of data you show them, they will hamster it away to make it mean “men bad women good” If PPD women can spin astronomically higher male suicide rates into som…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/22 07:27 PM
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Also good points. I’d also say that “free attention” is almost a currency in itself to women, so the monetary aspects are only part of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/22 07:06 PM
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Nope. At best, sugar babies are modern prostitution. All the other shit is merely “supplemental income” and will absolutely give outlets to the under 40 single moms that would otherwise have to date a BB to fund their lifestyles. Over 40 single moms were never in demand even with BB’s so that demographic is irrelevant. There is no “mass awakening” of men happening on a scale that will modify womens behavior or their options to be any different than what they have been for the past 50 years.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/22 05:33 PM
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Not implying that this is worth a ribbon campaign, just saying that sometimes our own nature can fuck our lives up. You ever walk around on a hot summer day in a city and realize you want to fuck more than half the girls you see walking around in daisy dukes and halter tops? I do. I hate it some days. It’s fucking exhausting and I have zero control over it. It’s my natural sexual attraction mechanism at work. Women will never have to experience that burden. The difference is, women will never ex…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/22 05:04 PM
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Maybe it’s an age / demographic thing. I’ve literally never seen it with myself or anybody I even knew peripherally. I’m racking my brain trying to think of a time a woman said to a guy “you know, I don’t think this is working out, I’m just going to be totally alone for 3-6 months” No, it’s usually “I met somebody else” or “I just don’t feel the spark anymore” (because she does with somebody else now) The only times I’ve seen that happen to a woman is when he breaks up with her
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/22 05:00 PM
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I’m somebody who definitely got “turned around” thanks to learning RP principles about 7 years ago and I believe it has helped a decent subset of men … BUT Onlyfans, TikTok, Twitch, E-Girls, Instathots, Gofundme, Patreon, etc has been a fucking boom for women - THIS is what the modern “BB” looks like. Add to that the fact that male sexlessness is still going up, and you will have a steady supply of save-a-ho’s at the ready. If anything, the demand for an old school BB is decreasing, not the supp…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/22 04:58 PM
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TIL since I used to just like tits, and now I like tits and ass, I have become “less shallow” due to having more “diverse” criteria for what I deem attractive. 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/22 08:28 AM
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Fucking nailed it. I was trying to figure out how to phrase this but you hit it perfectly. Simply adding qualifiers on top of already high criteria doesn’t somehow mean the existing criteria becomes “less important”.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/22 08:22 AM
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I said good day.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/22 07:37 AM
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If you think women liking assertive, confident and often aggressive men is “cultural” then we really have nothing to talk about here. Good day.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/22 07:35 AM
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People also like to dress as cartoon animals and fuck each other. I am not concerned with outliers my friend and they aren’t really helpful or relevant for discussions like this. It would be like talking about foot fetishists or denying that men like a nice ass, boobs, etc. What’s the point?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/22 07:30 AM
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Nah. My experience in nearly 50 years on earth is far too different than yours to have any productive conversation. I have also seen enough men think as you do who were utterly deluded about women’s actual sexual nature that it’s just pointless to engage. If it’s your starting point to say “The women I know prefer Sheldon over Don Draper” well then… I can’t really speak to that other than to say, not on any planet I’ve lived on. But if you exist in some subculture where that is the case, carry o…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/22 07:05 AM
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The ones I like to attract are definitely the ones that prefer Tom Hanks over Christian Grey and Sheldon over Don Draper. This explains well… everything. Good luck buddy.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/22 06:58 AM
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Uh huh. Am I supposed to start a gofundme right here on this sub? This is PPD. Guess what the D stands for? And the most helpful thing I can do in this particular venue is verbally extinguish the lies and misandry women continue to peddle on this sub. It just one young man sees through the bullshit enough to realize he’s being conned and gaslit, it might turn him towards a path of self respect and awareness. Some people would rather peddle shit like “mens inherently violent nature leads them to …
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/22 06:55 AM
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Maybe if you’re in highschool. No grown ass woman is going to not get the cringey ick from some quivering neurotic simp no matter how much she virtue signals how important “enthusiastic consent before holding hands” is. Ask yourself a simple question Do most women want to fuck Luke Skywalker or Han Solo? Do they cream over Sheldon from Big Bang theory or Don Draper from Mad Men? Tom Hanks or Christian Grey? There’s your answer.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/22 06:48 AM
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No. This is what I said: A meek simp saying "mother-may-i" is how they get dry as the Sahara and issue a one-way ticket to the friend zone. How I know is I used to be that simp that was too terrified to make a move even when the signals where there. A lot of that is because the hysterical gaslighting that women feed men about “asking permission”. Literally every time I’d do this I’d get out in the friend zone while those same women went off to fuck some aggressive “confident” man who had balls. …
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/22 06:39 AM
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How did people “know” when to initiate a first kiss over the past 3000 years?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/22 06:34 AM
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Yeah. that must be it. 🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/22 03:51 AM
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People who can't read body language shouldn't be having sex in the first place. If you need a "discussion" before every sexual interaction, you are an extreme outlier. This is not, and has never been how human adults relate sexually. Autists? Yes. Average people engaging in sex? Nope.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/22 12:48 AM
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Yes. "Many studies". Like the studies that say video games create school shooters and Bugs Bunny made that kid drop an anvil on some other kid's head. Those "studies" What do those studies say about rom-coms, romance novels and reality TV?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/22 12:46 AM
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Oh. You have? Well, case closed then. I guess the dozens of women I've seen do otherwise in my 4 decades of dating and seeing other men date is of no relevance, because one individual woman didn't do it once.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/22 12:44 AM
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Yah. This some of my exes have been so 'about' this that it would slip out in public. That was always awkward.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/22 11:16 PM
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I've never been into the whole DDLG thing. I'm so glad that it seems to have left the mainstream's pop culture trends because it was an "ick" thing for me. I feel attacked.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/22 11:07 PM
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You are out of touch with reality. Also you: I have never seen even one only woman express disgust at men’s pain or weaknesses. Uh huh.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/22 10:58 PM
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this is WAAAAAY deeper than just choking and dirty talk in your bed, people can and have gotten actually maimed and injured doing these things. Fair enough. Many people ITT are lumping in this stuff with "BDSM" - Obviously if contraptions, ropes, hooks, candles, baseball bats, whatever are getting involved then yes, grievous injury is possible and at that point you are engaging in the equivalent of stunt coordination, so yeah... Not the same as a hook up that gets more enthusiastic as things get…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/22 10:56 PM
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Interesting. Obviously you had a much closer and deeper look into this than I ever did. I was always at arm's length. I just don't have any interest or fascination with things like ropes and suspension and shit like that. It all strikes me as unsexy and contrived. I totally get the artistry of it all, but it doesn't seem sexual to me. It seems like naked woodworking. Crazy that you entered that scene as a young woman. I'm sure that was an adventure. And yes, I'm sure the dudes there are gonna wa…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/22 10:54 PM
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This is sounding an awful lot like rape culture Sorry. I don't speak buzzword / woke. If you say this in plain English, maybe a conversation is possible. I could see it in her eyes even though she never said yes This is how the world of adults works and has worked for thousands of years. If you think we live in a world of cringey "may I kiss you now?" shit, well... good luck with that. Your over confidence is how people develop trauma. No. It's how women get wet. A meek simp saying "mother-may-i…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/22 10:48 PM
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I've been in about, 8-10 serious LTRs in my life (not counting short term / hook up things) Number of times things just kind of fizzled out and we went our separate ways without an existing person waiting: 3 (these are the ones I generally remained friends with to this day) Number of times I left the relationship with no backup woman waiting in the wings because I felt it was more prudent to save my sanity due to unrelenting drama: 7 Number of times girl left relationship without existing backup…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/22 10:44 PM
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Exception != Rule
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/22 10:38 PM
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It's not fucking "patriarchy" - stop using SJW buzzwords meant to demonize and blame men. It's just as valid to say this is a result of gynocentrism in the modern west that shits on men and dismisses their problems. You don't have to read this sub for more than a few minutes to see this phenomenon in action. Male behavior is dictated by the feminine imperative. Men base their public behavior on what gets a positive response from women because they are driven by their approval (ie sexual desire).…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/22 10:24 PM
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I've only really had this happen once, and I realized it and apologized in real time, and we went on just fine and dated for months after that. We had had a few drinks and I was being a little too enthusiastic when she was giving head, which started to make it seem like some rough 'face fucking' was happening - In that case I sensed it, and just looked at her and said "too much?" and she said "a little" and I apologized for getting carried away and that was that.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/22 10:22 PM
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Ho. Lee. Shit. Somebody being real for a change. I live in a city absolutely known for kink and swinger parties. They are utterly notorious for being frequented by 3 types: - Tons of men - Very unattractive / overweight women - Sugar babies Whenever I had hot girlfriends that wanted to dabble in this stuff it was indeed a shit show of thirsty dudes and "free love" types being cringey and creepy and dogpiling on her. As a result, we ended up just going out and finding hot women once in a while an…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/22 10:17 PM
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People express consent (or disapproval / discomfort) with their eyes, facial expressions and body language and ... you know... sounds during a sexual encounter. This shit isn't hard unless you are incapable of reading all of those. Funny how I never once had to question that a girl was into rough shit like slapping or choking and I never heard "I consent to you choking me" once.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/22 10:14 PM
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It says men don’t learn to cope emotionally as well as women. They are taught not to "cope" BY WOMEN. Women demand men are their "rock" and don't express problems outside of their dog or mother dying. Feeling overwhelmed with life? "Pussy." Feel like your identity has crumbled because you got fired? "Loser." Feeling hopeless because your fiancé cheated on you with Chad in the broom closet, left you and you now have the stench of loser and women won't touch you? "Eww shitlord, you're not entitled…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/22 10:02 PM
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Fair. In my experience it’s easy to “test the waters” with this stuff. If you simply lightly grab her throat and she grabs your hand to pushes it tighter (this happens often) you kind of know the deal. Where any words used? Nope. Similarly, if I grab her face forcefully and she moans and pushes her pussy into you it’s a pretty good indication you can increase the roughness. Same with hair pulling, spanking, etc. No “sit down and talk” happening anywhere here.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/22 10:00 PM
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Goddamn it. (Zips back up)
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/22 09:52 PM
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I don’t know if I’d say I “feel sorry” about it, just that it is a unique phenomenon that they must contend with. The notion that what constitutes an acceptable mate for them being such a moving, and ever out-of-reach target must kind of suck. Similarly, let’s be honest, men want to fuck many many women that they have absolutely no ability to either and that sometimes overwhelming desire must be dealt with and it’s not always easy.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/22 09:50 PM
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I mean, yes, if you are letting some anonymous beer bellied dude in a gimp suit plow your fat leather clad wife who is strapped to a gurney while you sit in a corner with his cock locked in a cage, sure I guess it behooves you to say "please don't jam that baseball bat in my wife's ass and is it ok for me to rim you while you are inside of her? Please don't shit in my mouth, but you're welcome to piss on me." or whatever. For 2 regular people hooking up who happen to like rough shit, that's not …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/22 09:39 PM
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For purely scientific reasons, what scene is that and who is the actress? also, that is why I love petite women.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/22 09:36 PM
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True. I think that's the real phenomenon. Just the lying and plausible deniability while claiming they pick men based on their "cool personality" out of the other side of their mouth.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/22 09:34 PM
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Broken "personality detectors"?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/22 09:29 PM
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Uh huh. Save those contracts and consent forms for the "kink community" out here in normal-world, people can read body language and understand the dance involved with sexual encounters is almost exclusively non-verbal. But, hey, maybe some people don't start dancing with people on the dance floor because they didn't get "consent" but pull them away and discuss exactly what steps they are going to do and how close they are allowed to go. Doesn't sound autistic at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/22 09:28 PM
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As a man in his late 40's, I've had a pretty interesting view of this phenomenon. AFAIK, it definitely wasn't a big thing in the 90's, but then again, I wasn't super sexually successful or active in my 20's, so I can't say for sure. As I got to my 30's in the mid 2000's, I started to encounter this a bit more. The most prudish sheltered girl loved to be slapped, held down, choked, face-fucked, called "daddy's little slut" etc As I got older, and adopted a more traditionally masculine look and I …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/22 09:22 PM
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I've never seen a "kink" community that didn't basically consist of overweight unattractive nerdy people that like to cosplay in leather and do cringey AF role-play. The whole notion of "having very specific discussions" is just utterly bizarre. People can read body language.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/22 09:12 PM
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Whenever this subject comes up there is always the sentiment that it's never women's doing but - it's the big bad porn monster. How about, women have their own kinks and should own that like grown ass adults? Nope.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/22 09:10 PM
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I was speeding through the steps. I have the system that... I was demonstrating value on the dance floor, and then I engaged you physically when I put my hands on your hips. Now I'm nurturing your dependence by letting you talk shit about your boring, worthless, piece-of-shit husband. Then I was gonna take you into an empty broom closet and I was gonna bang the shit out of you. And then I was gonna neglect you emotionally. That's what I do, Christie. And it was working. I was manipulating your f…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/22 05:46 PM
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Yeah, again, it’s just a whole experience I recognize that, as a man, is so foreign to me. And combine this with the fact that women tend to be more “in their feelings” which would only amplify the discomfort experienced in these situations. It’s one reason I have so much respect for women who navigate this stuff while remaining cool chill people.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/22 05:39 PM
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There is but one correct answer to your question: The D.E.N.N.I.S. system.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/22 04:24 PM
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It’s “very common” for deluded FDS misandrist to see around every corner. Out here in reality, I’ve literally never seen this put forth on PPD. So, no. I don’t think I’ll go hunting for Bigfoot. Thanks.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/22 03:50 PM
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What does this even mean? “Men are meanies so let them kill themselves. Now let me get back to talking about manspreading and how traumatic it is” Basically you’re just selling the trope of “men bring it on themselves because men are violent animals … oh well… teehee” Those shitty “violent and impulsive” men you just cited include: Robin Williams Anthony Bourdain Kurt Cobain Chester Bennington I guess it’s just their inherently toxic nature. Best that women throw up their hands and get back to t…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/22 03:47 PM
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Then why do women absolutely demand men listen to every problem no matter how small (real or invented) while simultaneously ignoring much larger and severe issues men face? Things that women scream to the fucking heavens about while not even giving a squirt of piss over male suicide: “rape culture” manspreading “sexism” in video games invented salary gaps mansplaining body shaming (of women) the “orgasm gap” invisible woman syndrome sexist air conditioners Those are literally all things women ha…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/22 03:37 PM
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This. This is the correct question. Awaiting the answer …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/22 03:33 PM
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Oh my bad, I must have missed all those hashtag campaigns from women about the mental health crisis among men. Or are you saying that women decide to give a shit when it eventually hits close to home (ie a brother or father) because yeah, that’s true. The rest of men on earth are seen as “taking out the trash” to many women.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/22 03:31 PM
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A.) he asked B.) TIL every drunk chick at Mardi Gras who flashed her tits to a crowd is a “sexual predator” because she didn’t get “consent” from everybody in the crowd. Think of all the lives and dreams those women have crushed.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/22 03:29 PM
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https://www.newsweek.com/office-aircon-temperature-sexist-unfair-women-overcooling-study-1663949?amp=1
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/22 07:45 AM
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Legalize assisted suicide in more countries for a wider array of issues. Holy shit. I didn’t realize you get get more nihilistic than black pill. Is this Onyx Pill? 🤔
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/22 07:32 AM
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Agreed. But this is what happens when you are held up and present yourself as a moral and thought leader. If the man had much more of a humble “I am a flawed and weak human being too, and you all should know it’s ok to have flaws and set backs” Instead he talks about and incessantly demonizes cultural marxism, post modernism as if they are the root of all our ills. Somehow that postmodernism didn’t cause him to pop benzos because … well his circumstance is different Oh and lobsters. Can’t forget…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/22 07:04 AM
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I can’t hate on him that much tbh. I do think he does more good than not. Just wish he had a bit more social grace because he’s become very easy to make fun of.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/22 06:52 AM
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Correct. That’s how he slipped into his benzo addiction. Which, yeah I feel bad for him about that, but the man hasn’t exactly shown a lot of understanding for others dealing with similar issues. He’s shown a whole lot of judgement though.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/22 06:39 AM
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Shit did his wife die? That is sad. I don’t wish any I’ll will on the guy (besides my roasting of him) I do have empathy, but the man is preachy as fuck. Let’s be real. He aligns himself with assholes like Ben Shapiro and makes Trump noises more often than not. Still, you are correct that many of his ideas are sound and it’s honestly a sad state that he is among maybe 3 human beings out there that are actively trying to help young men develop a sense of direction and self worth outside of the gy…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/22 06:34 AM
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Dude. I’m as RP as it gets but Kermit the Benzo addict needs to stop getting held up as this paragon of male virtue. I say this who has read his book and liked it, but the man has jumped the shark.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/22 06:25 AM
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Why the actual fuck did you have to throw in the straw man of “they aren’t killings themselves because females won’t fuck them!” You were actually making some decent points before you blew it up with that tropey nonsense. Your points about the proportionality of depression and despair are quite correct. What you seem to be missing is the HUGE disparity between male and female suicide. For you to just whistle past that fact says a lot tbh.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/22 06:22 AM
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My bad , your “this should be fun” preface sure sounded a lot like “let’s watch men try and fail to show empathy”
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/22 06:10 AM
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That maybe you meet a guy at work that likes Calvin and Hobbes and he never once flirted with you but after a week of sending each other Calvin and Hobbes memes he calls you a cunt for not liking his dick pic. 😂 I like to call this “subtly flirting” … cunt.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/22 06:03 AM
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Despite what the bigger PPD misandrists think of me, I come from a family of almost exclusively women for whom I care very much. 3 sisters, single mom, grandmother, 2 aunts. One mostly absentee alcoholic father who never guided me for shit. Many of those women I’ve had to help through hard times and sickness up to and including moving in with them to take care of them almost full time. Bottom line, I’ve had a front row seat to the myriad of unique ways that women can and do suffer. So, just some…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/22 05:51 AM
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It’s not a trope. It’s literally what some people are suggesting in this very comment section. Link please?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/22 05:38 AM
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force women into sex or relationships with you Lolwut? When will women retire this fucking bogeyman argument? I can give you in spades. That makes one of you. You can start by dropping the “force women to have sex” trope.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/22 05:31 AM
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The discussion ITT is one of empathy and womens inability to show it towards any issue that men deal with because “wHat aRe wEEe suPposeD to sO aBoUt it?!?!”
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/22 05:26 AM
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Yes. Even though suicide is orders of magnitude higher for men, let’s just dismiss that as not a men’s issue. Is this like how sexual assault and rape is just treated as a “people” issue? Oh wait … See, the point is that mens issues no matter how severe are barely acknowledged much less addressed by women. How could they be expected to give a shit about men’s mere loneliness and romantic difficulties?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/22 05:19 AM
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How about stop gaslighting men that these things don’t exist for one. Stop acting like you as an individual don’t see it. Stop acting like women are above all manner of baser instincts when picking mates and stop making excuses for them. Stop calling men misogynists for calling out women’s rank hypocrisy. Stop trying to shut down male spaces where these things are discussed openly and candidly because you think any negative behavior patterns identified among women by men amounts to “misogyny” Do…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/22 05:16 AM
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JFC. Listen to yourself. “I don’t have empathy for men’s issues because some mean men said mean things” No. People don’t have empathy for others because they are solipsistic narcissists.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/22 05:10 AM
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Yes whoever heard of women demanding society at large stop and listen to to their problems no matter small and launch national campaigns to deal with such urgent matters like pink legos, sexist air conditioners and misogynistic 12 year olds playing call of duty. All while ignoring the astronomically higher numbers of male suicide because that’s nbd teehee.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/22 05:05 AM
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“The boy was 7 years old, so it’s not like he was a baby or anything…” 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/22 04:55 AM
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… Says the person stalking me.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/22 04:53 AM
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Lol BABP based and blackpilled.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/22 02:32 AM
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So is the qualification for a fetish that something has to be uncommon and thus if it is uncommon it is destructive to desire it? So by that measurement than women’s propensity to pursue men that are in the top 5 to 10% are fetishists by that definition, correct? Hey! Maybe you can pray away this fetish like they try to do with gay people! Did you miss the part of the class where we explained that attraction is not negotiable?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/22 01:43 AM
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i get all the benefits of commitment without having to pay with sex 😆😂🤣😭
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/22 12:47 AM
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Holy shit. The amount of fallacies in this one post is actually impressive. I actually didn’t know hamsters could do gymnastics. This truly sounds like a diatribe straight from the westborough baptist church. “GAWWWWD didn’t mean for you to have that deeEeEeviant sex you heathen!”
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/22 12:46 AM
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TLDR: person without male sexual organs and associated brain chemistry tells those with them what “sex is like” for them. Zero understand for men’s different biological sexual imperatives not the challenges they face when dealing with those. Again - zero empathy unless it is something you can somehow claim you experience. You’re making no effort to understand the male point of view and holding on for dear life to a myopically gynocentric outlook. This conversation can no longer serve any purpose…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/22 12:41 AM
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All totally fair. A rare agreement on PPD. Wow. And yes, I realize I seem to be in the minority in thinking that women having sex when they feel like it isn’t something to be shamed. Personally, I really don’t have any problem even dating those women, so long as they don’t engage in that behavior while we’re dating obviously. I am a degenerate and I enjoy the company of others like me.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/22 09:29 PM
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Ah yes. Misogy-Con. My favorite.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/22 09:17 PM
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I must have missed the part where I claimed women should be "shamed" for engaging in a pleasurable activity. The absence of praise is not shame. I don't "shame" a person for doing any number of pleasurable activities. I had 4 drinks last night. It was pleasurable at the time. Do I expect "praise" for that? No. I also have a friend who got his shit together and lost over 100 lbs. That took effort, focus and is not easy. It was praise worthy. If an average woman offers up sex to a guy at a bar, sh…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/22 09:11 PM
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"Body positivity" and fat acceptance are such bullshit. Some people should hear the cold hard truth. Everybody can improve and put in work and should strive to be the best looking, healthiest version of themselves. Thank you! This is one of the most toxic gaslighty things women do to each other IMO. The latest Bill Burr stand up had a great bit about just this phenomenon.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/22 09:04 PM
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Shhh. Don't tell her that men secretly have "rape contests" where we all get together and add up our weekly rapes. Bonus points for murders. And definitely don't talk about our sister group: The "paternity fraud and false rape accusation society"
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/22 08:55 PM
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They themselves have created the culture of inequality by beating us, raping us, harassing us, stalking us, and killing us because we don't want to drink with them then suck them off on their roomie's couch while watching the Netflix account he shares with his sister. ​ Spread the word to your bros and tell them to stop raping & killing women After reading this unhinged screed? Nah.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/22 08:52 PM
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Lol yet here you are on a thread full of women saying how it’s not ok for men to feel “disgust” at a woman who got run through by the Lacrosse team because that’s “in the past” How about you have your preferences and let other people have theirs?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/22 08:30 PM
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Thanks.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/22 08:22 PM
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Why do you think that you know how men experience their own sex drives? I don’t believe I know what PMS or pregnancy feels like, and I sympathize with women for having to contend with the monthly fluctuations in body chemistry and the sometimes brutal physical challenge of pregnancy. Yet, every woman on PPD seems to think they fundamentally understand what men’s sex drive is like and proceed to judge them against their own. That is not how empathy works.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/22 08:20 PM
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The fuck is this even about? Now we’re talking about men in relationships that use porn? That is a completely different issue from what we’re discussing and one that has other connotations and reasons. We are discussing the general disgust PPD women express about men who use porn under any circumstances.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/22 08:08 PM
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my bf is with me knowing that ill never have sex with him and spent a lot of his hard earned money on me without ever expecting anything but love and maybe a kiss if hes lucky in return No way this isn't a joke. And a hilarious one at that. Well done. 👏
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/22 08:06 PM
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I’ve acknowledged that engaging in obsessive novelty seeking can be very destructive. Even collecting cars can be destructive. We are discussing the reason that one behavior is admired and rare and the other is not.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/22 07:56 PM
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You know what. I have a new policy on PPD. I’m no longer going to debate the color of the sky with the usual suspects here. It’s a useless time sink and inevitably ends in some cliche hamstering about “social constructs” and “women aren’t a monolith” or whatever. We all know what we experience, feel and see in other human beings. If you don’t understand the myriad of ways men are by and large physically, psychologically and sexually different from women there is really no point in having this co…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/22 07:53 PM
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The difference is playing lots of video games isn’t difficult and doesn’t require any exceptional characteristics, watching lots of porn isn’t difficult and doesn’t require any exceptional characteristics. For a man to have casual sex at-will and reliably (the way a woman can) does involve difficulty and requires exceptional characteristics. It’s not hard to understand and I wish women would stop pretending they don’t get it because it hurts their fee fees.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/22 07:50 PM
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But... "I want him to be taller than me so I feel small and protected" also... guns exist. 🤣 Nope. No sympathy whatsoever.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/22 07:47 PM
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Nature is sexist.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/22 07:44 PM
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This is the only correct answer. IMO, it isn't so much that women are "bad" for sleeping around, it's that the likelihood of a man being exceptional in some way is far far higher if he is able to sleep around. The end.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/22 07:43 PM
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Preselection. Either it is or isn't a thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/22 07:42 PM
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Just say it. We know what you really want to call him, but you can't because it would prove his point 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/22 07:33 PM
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Sorry, I applaud the effort, but no matter how much women try to reframe this debate, it is undeniable that people are judged based on their ability to achieve the difficult. From climbing Mt Everest to running a marathon. Look at it this way: Men having the ability to have casual sex on-demand is like 5'9 Nate Robinson dunking over seven foot defenders. Women doing the same is like an 8 foot tall person putting in an uncontested layup.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/22 07:31 PM
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How about common sense. Lmao. Seriously? “Common sense”? This is exactly the same argument the assholes use that scream “it’s Adam and Eve not Adam and Steve!!!” Common sense can tell us a lot in terms of which kinks are more harmful. Putting a dick or pussy in your mouth has been shown to lead to potential throat cancers. Is that less “harmful” than dressing up like a furry or DDLG kinks? kinks such as OP's (presuming his fetish is limited to a small percentage of abnormally tall women Lol. The…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/22 07:20 PM
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Most women will call men like this a bitter !nc3l before insulting his lack of success with "real women". Be honest. I say this as a man who has zero issue with women who like to fuck. Zero. I think it's one of the dumbest parts of RP to "want virgins" or whatever.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/22 07:14 PM
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Women enjoying sex is not a bad thing, nor is sleeping around if they enjoy it. That's my opinion. But it is not the same and never will be. Men are admired for sleeping around because it is a very tangible and visible demonstration of their value and skill as a man. Even other women admit this (preselection)
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/22 07:12 PM
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I've had many opportunities and still do but I can control myself very well. Are you a woman? Do you have 10x the testosterone? Then this isn't any kind of accomplishment. The saying "a man is only as faithful as his options" exists for a reason. If you want a faithful man, choose a man who all other women don't want for sex. Funny how women don't want to do that though. Wonder why that is...
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/22 07:10 PM
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Now this is the crux of the issue. Thanks for crystalizing it so simply. The biggest problem here is that you are looking for a new high. Weather that's "banging that hotter girl" or "fucking that celebrity" - it comes from the same place. This is really it. The issue becomes one of availability. Being an alcoholic is far more likely to be a problem when you live in a city and work in a bar and people are buying you shots all night than if you live in the mountains and work on a farm and you hav…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/22 07:06 PM
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Consequences for one. Men can't get pregnant. A man being a sex addict isn't great, but it's like being a broke guy dreaming of eating at huge meal at a 4-star Michelin restaurant every night. It ain't gonna happen, and if he makes it happen a few times a month, he's probably got something that makes him valuable in at least a few other ways that allowed him to pull it off. A woman being a sex addict is like a fat woman wanting McDonald's every night. She can and does do it with no effort and be…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/22 07:03 PM
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Men and women are not the same. Men and women are not the same. Write it a hundred times.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/22 06:59 PM
2

And again, I’ll ask you, who gets to define this? The Church? Feminists? Islam? … You?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/22 06:56 PM
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They say that because they know it gets under your skin. That's really why. Or it's because when women are mad they inadvertently go 'mask off' and express their true views on how they feel men's value is represented. But nah. Let's go with the more virtue-signally explanation - they don't actually mean it, or believe it - they're just saying it because they think it's a clever insult.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/22 06:46 PM
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Well I'm not lying, and I'm only speaking about myself. I never said otherwise. I simply said women in general are notorious for lying about their true sexual nature. Every man has multiple stories of this. Also worth noting that 80% of men are weekly porn users, like that's excessive! No. It seems excessive to you because you have orders of magnitude less testosterone and don’t have a dick and balls with spontaneous hardons creating embarrassing situations if you don’t get release. Not to menti…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/22 06:39 PM
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How is it odd? It’s directly related to the discussion. The point is, how do you define “kink” and who gets to decide that. Is anal sex a kink? Many women would say yes. Those same women would then unironically say gay sex is not a kink at all even though it involves anal sex. If blowjobs aren’t a “kink” is swallowing a kink? Is throatfucking? People who chime in with this shit are no different than the religious puritans telling people to “pray away the gay” You can’t negotiate away your sexual…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/22 06:27 PM
1

As I said, this is nowhere near a “100%” thing for women. It’s also not something I’d say most women even do as a matter of course. But enough women do it at certain points throughout their lives. In fact, I’d say it’s far more likely that by 30, a woman has at least had one of these casual sex encounters with a very attractive guy to “feel sexy” after a bad break up or similar event. Mind you, I don’t believe there is anything wrong with doing that whatsoever (men do this shit constantly if the…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/22 06:24 PM
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Not a big surprise. I’ll be more careful with my post wording then. I do appreciate the warning.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/22 06:17 PM
2

Is oral sex a “fetish”?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/22 06:09 PM
2

Thanks for the heads up. I guess candidly talking about men’s mental health issues is “hate” now, but that’s Reddit I guess.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/22 06:08 PM
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I agree with that. I’ll look forward to seeing you respond to the countless women who castigate men who occasionally watch porn as “pornsick sexual losers” because that is far and away the dominant narrative here.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/22 05:16 PM
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I understand that and obviously you are a reasonable person having good faith discussions here. However, saying “women are not a monolith” on PPD is like saying “!nc3ls are not a not a monolith” PPD women exhibit certain very consistent traits and being anti-porn is absolutely one of those. Women in general are also far more likely to be judgemental about porn in general. Again, it’s another annoyance that many women on PPD engage in time and time again - making us argue over the color of the sk…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/22 05:13 PM
3

PPD Women: “Porn is the devil. We women never watch it. That’s for pornsick loser men who want to watch women get abused and raped because they can’t get sex with a real woman” Also PPD Women (when it suits their argument in the moment): “A lot of women watch porn”
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/22 05:02 PM
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Well - I’m not going to say I’ve never known a woman who has done that, but it’s still a minority. A majority of women are notoriously secretive and shame filled about shit like this. Could that possibly explain why it seems like a “minority” of women have engaged in this? I myself have been the “I gotta get my groove back” guy for a few women. You guarantee you they aren’t going back to their friends in Kansas telling them how they fucked some well dressed man in Las Vegas because they needed a…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/22 04:59 PM
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This was a very (very) long way of saying “there are some women who don’t respond like this. Yes. That’s true. The amount of women who do respond like this to watching a man they were on the fence about suddenly getting interest from other men is significant enough that just about every man has experienced. I’ll also just ask you this: Women are known for: A - being very self aware about their own sexual cues and always telling the truth about them regardless and of how unflattering and “problem…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/22 04:53 PM
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While it is absolutely true that no woman wants to be in a situation where they are openly sharing “their” man, the reality is many many women choose to be in de facto harems. The saying that “women would rather share an alpha than have a beta” is one of the more silly RP saying but there’s some truth to it. Women will use their super power - plausible deniability - to fuck Chad and hope to lock him down while acknowledging he may be “seeing other women” Eventually, when they can’t lock him down…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/22 04:13 PM
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The fuck does this reply have to do with anything. It’s just a long winded “uR an 1nc3l!1!1” post. The point is being “single” does not mean remotely the same thing for an average man vs average woman. This is why it is “easier” for women to be single. That’s not even considering the far far lower sex drive.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/22 04:04 PM
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No idea what this means. Yes you have your hands… until you start to question your attractiveness and need to fuck a Chad to “feel sexy” again.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/22 04:01 PM
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Every bit of my lives experience, countless studies and even 90% of PPD women seem to vehemently disagree with you.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/22 04:00 PM
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It’s something few women do with regularity, but almost every woman I know has pulled the “emergency Chad dick” lever a few times in her life to make herself “feel sexy again”
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/22 03:58 PM
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Safe and approved" as in probably not a serial killer or something bad like that Lol stop. How many stories do you need to hear from men of the utterly indifferent woman who friend zoned them only to freak the fuck out and getting all flirty and sexual when that man starts dating another woman. And if that woman he starts dating is hotter than her (ie a threat) the sparks really fly. I’ve had some more self aware women straight up tell me “you became hotter when you showed up with her” Sometimes…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/22 03:55 PM
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The virtue signaling hamster parade in this thread: “IDGAF what other women think of him!1!1 Other womeb’s opinion makes literally no difference!!!” In other threads with less virtue signally implications “ummm okay. Yes Preselection is real because if other women like him it means he’s safe and approved! Teehee” Make up your fucking mind.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/22 05:00 AM
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Yes. That famous epidemic of “underweight” Americans. 🤦🏻‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/22 04:54 AM
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Uh huh. Porn and Prostitution. Just a mere coincidence those are the recourse of sexually unsuccessful men. Now, how do you feel about women sport fucking Chads when they are horny? Because essentially, that is what “porn” is to women. Women don’t need porn because they can fuck real Chad dicks at will.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/22 04:52 AM
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men and women both throw tantrums, and it’s bad behavior for both of them. False equivalence as you well know. This is like saying “men and women both commit violent crime, so it’s an equal issue among the sexes”
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/22 12:04 AM
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Women cannot just act as we wish. For the most part. Yes they can. I am a woman. I have been friends with women. Trust me: if you lose your marbles and cry all the time about dumb shit, your female friends will drop you. Not in my experience. Their friends will bring over a pint of Hagen Dasz, wine and some rom coms. Barring that, one of many simps will sure as shit come to her rescue. When we do talk about our emotions it’s typically calm and rational discussions. Is this a joke? The amount of …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/22 12:01 AM
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First, I appreciate your constructive tone and objectivity. However, I do have to just be honest and say that what you see is not remotely what I see on PPD and I think the evidence and objective assessment of the usual exchanges here would verify this. I can empathize as I’m sure most women can. Hard disagree. Most women cannot and do not empathize with male loneliness especially when the very unique challenges men face are brought up. As OP points out, this is almost invariably met with derisi…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/22 07:45 PM
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Whoosh. The point is what women call “happy being single” is not remotely what “being single” means for men because none of those things I listed are available to all but Chad tier men. You think it would be deemed difficult and lonely if men had women simping on social media, a sea of sex on tap and people jumping at the chance to be their “activity partners”?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/22 03:33 PM
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I think it is important to remember that lots of women nowadays are really happy single. Reasons for this: They now get all the benefits of feeling “seen” that they used to get from relationships via social media and OLD. Easy to not feel alone when your “idk what to eat!” post on insta with your pouty face garners you dozens of replies telling you how beautiful you are and offering to buy you dinner. Women call it being “single” when the reality is she had the option of ordering up Chad dick wh…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/22 03:02 PM
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This X1000 and i predict PPD women will deny it to the ends of the earth.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/22 04:50 AM
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A few of them.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/22 08:31 PM
1

Lol. Welp when I banged 2 strippers I sure didn’t feel like a cuck … but if that’s a cuck. Guilty as charged.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/22 08:02 PM
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Lol. Good point. If she was scissoring with Hannah Gasby I might not be as forgiving.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/22 06:25 PM
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And those people can end their relationship with the woman who cheats with another woman. I’d prefer to just fuck both of them.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/22 05:31 PM
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I don’t doubt that many (maybe most) people look at it that way. For me, a girl eating another girl’s pussy is not a threat to me and my experience has born out that her hooking up with a girl isn’t necessarily a harbinger of her loss of interest in my dick. Her hookup up with another man is always indicative of her having lost attraction and desire for me though.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/22 05:11 PM
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If she’s sneaking around with that woman, and fucking her while neglecting me? Problem. If the woman she hooked up is hot, and she brings her home and we can both fuck her? No problem. I’ve had exactly this scenario happen more than once. In either case it’s not remotely the same (to me) of her letting some other dude rail her.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/22 04:58 PM
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Lol you actually think men who have MFF threesomes are “cucks”? 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/22 04:54 PM
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(Walter White voice) “You’re goddamn right”
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/22 07:18 AM
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Man. 18 year old man. And no I absolutely would not find it creepy provided there was mutual attraction. I don’t make it my business to police other peoples sexual preferences. I’m not gay but I don’t go on the internet criticize male on male sex either just because I don’t participate in it. Next question.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/22 06:50 AM
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Yes. Somehow PPD women continue to insist having sex means something gets “taken away” instead of the mutually pleasurable activity it is. Compare that with “he took me Tahiti, helped me move, bought me dinners for a year teehee” which actually costs money.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/22 06:48 AM
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I’ve used it several times on here. I’ll be waiting for the check.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/22 05:27 AM
2

I love when PPD women obviously have no clue what the fuck they are talking about then start desperately moving goal posts. Lol at bringing up teenagers again as if that’s what we’re talking about. Women can be utterly subtle about using men. They are very practiced at it. Spare me the “not all women” shit. A woman dating a man to “show off” to their friends is a form of using. A woman dating a man who can help her career is a form of using. A woman using men’s protective instinct to bail themse…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/22 05:05 AM
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A. Where did my post talk about teenagers? B. PPDWomen, as you well know freak out over consensual relationships between a 25 woman and a 40+ year old man because “mUh undeveloped brain” C - Just fucking lol at “its very easily tell when a woman is using a man”. Yes. As we all know women never engage in skillful manipulation, gaslighting and plausible deniability. suuuuuure Jan. Where the fuck do women come up with this stuff? 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/22 04:57 AM
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The behaviour is predatory for reasons I can explain. There is no hypocrisy here. Uh huh. But seeking out a man because of what he can “do for you” and his resources and clout isn’t “predatory” using / exploitative behavior somehow. No woman’s gonna attack you for wanting someone young/attractive/agreeable whatever. Own goal. You literally just did
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/22 04:51 AM
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Translation: It's okay when women do it, but not when men do it. How many threads, and replies do you see on PPD where women castigate men for merely desiring younger, attractive more pleasant and agreeable women let alone dating and fucking them because that's "predatory"? When the hypocrisy is pointed out, the goal posts predictably move to "jUsT doN't dO iT aT wOrK!1!"
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/22 04:37 AM
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Tell that to literally every woman on PPD. lol
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/22 04:35 AM
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“if women only fucked men who do handstands, every motherfucker would be walking on their hands tomorrow” This is my line. I demand royalties.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/22 04:35 AM
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A good start would be showing women respect. You know I had thought about doing just that, but then I’ve been reading your replies which made me realize my disrespect was very well founded. Thanks for the encouragement. I’m going to go out and cat call some schoolgirls now.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/22 11:39 PM
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Damn. This is a great and we’ll thought out argument based on facts and evidence.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/22 11:35 PM
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The Bay Area is just as expensive.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/22 11:34 PM
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Lol you keep turning this from one thing to another: Me: “Men do X that is reality, whether you like it not, most men do X. Think of it what you will but don’t tell yourself it’s some small group of losers doing this” You: “women don’t like it!” Ok. Great. They don’t like it. Have a fucking parade. IDGAF. They’re still fucking and dating the men that do the things you claim make them losers.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/22 09:06 PM
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Again how clueless women can be about men is really astounding. Keep telling yourself it’s “losers” that watch and use porn and not your brothers, fathers or boyfriends. Keep telling yourself that celebrities and athletes don’t use prostitutes. 😂 PPD womens world of delusion continues unabated.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/22 08:04 PM
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The greater LA area has a huge tech industry (men) as does the Bay Area as does Seattle and Portland is full of woke sjw’s. Compare that to NYC which is full of advertising, media, financial companies and a huge fashion industry not to mention a man all night heavily used subway system and a completely walkable 24 hour city. LA had sprawling suburbs with small areas of activity which have to sit in a car for hours to get from what to another. So yeah. LA does indeed not have what NYC has.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/22 07:56 PM
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Not on the west coast. No.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/22 07:48 PM
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You’re not good at this. The arguments put forth: “Only ugly derelicts use prostitues” Utterly and completely false. As you well know. There is something “new” about men’s sexuality nowadays because porn is widely available. Also false. Also fucking completely deluded as I guarantee you that every man you’ve ever dated has beat off to porn. Statistics should make this obvious to you. Whether he lied to you (and you believed it) is besides the point. But, please, keep talking about what “losers a…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/22 06:10 PM
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Lol @ moving the goal posts. Now it’s an argument over what wives “want” their husbands to do rather than the argument that men are somehow uniquely sex driven today vs in the past. If your contention is “women have never liked it when their man fucks other women” yeah … big revelation. You win.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/22 05:50 PM
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As a man who has lived in several big west coast cities, New York City is like a different world for dating as an older man. Even older women there are way hotter, more fun, more interesting and far more open to talking to new people.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/22 05:27 PM
1

That wasn’t him, it was Patricia.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/22 03:40 PM
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You act like vhs tapes, DVD’s and magazines didn’t exist. How are people this fucking dense? You notice it’s only women on this thread that are having such a hard time grasping this? You ever wonder why this is? Could it be that men have been sex crazed pervs for all of human existence who always found an outlet for their sexual impulses and you’re just now seeing it and can’t accept it? This is like saying “we’ve been creating so many gay people ever since queer eye for the straight guy came ou…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/22 03:27 PM
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It was only ever “accepted” as an unconquerable evil in Christiandom. Wait what? Oh, Maybe you’ve not heard of pre-Christian Rome, harems, geishas and courtesans? Lol. Man this horseshoe phenomenon with modern woke feminists and old school religious nuts is really something to behold as is watching the female hamster try to come to terms with men’s sexual nature which has remained unchanged for millennia. 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/22 03:25 PM
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Lol. No. Men are resorting to porn as a coping mechanism for the alienation resulting from the mass demonization of men and male sexuality in the last 15-20 years. People abuse video games, social media and their fucking phone screen time, so guess we should just not date people who ever use any of those things too. This “porn is the devil” is just a modern version of Playboy is evil. And again, just ignoring the ubiquity of prostitution through the centuries before porn even existed.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/22 09:12 AM
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Once we get into this type of dogmatic SJW line of thought the conversation is pretty much done. The nebulous “patriarchy” is every woman’s get out of jail free card for accountability and reason, so it’s pointless to discuss somebody who subscribes to this religion. Also I don’t speak woke.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/22 09:04 AM
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Lol “‘most men can’t afford it” is basically throwing in the towel and giving up attempting to make any semblance of a point. Anyway I’m done trying to help you come to terms with me men’s sexual nature. Continue living the pretty lie. That always works out.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/22 08:54 AM
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Cool story. I guess 10,000 years of social order was just some big conspiracy and women’s fundamentally sexually submissive nature and sexual dimorphism has absolutely nothing to do with it. Lemme guess, it’s the “patriarchy” that women want to swallow because that’s “degrading” … 😂 Fucking gender studies FTL.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/22 08:50 AM
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Now do prostitution. For thousands of years that was porn. Man… how do some women get this far and develop such little understanding of men’s internal reality?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/22 08:48 AM
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You tried to equate women watching porn to “being drawn to misogyny” As if their poor little minds are somehow poisoned by the bad menz which leads them to wanting to watch degreasing sex acts.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/22 08:40 AM
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People can “survive” without a lot of things. But good luck trying to keep mens desire to visualize sexual fantasies driven by a primal desire for sexual novelty and partner variety. That usually goes about as well as you’d expect.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/22 08:38 AM
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Yep. Like clockwork. It’s not their submissive and primal sexuality, it’s “societally induced self hatred” Women win the victim Olympics for the 100th consecutive year.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/22 08:30 AM
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This is like saying “if a man thinks lustful thoughts about other women I won’t date him” Good luck with that.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/22 08:28 AM
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You seem to have me confused with somebody who doesn’t have tons of lesbian friends. In fact, most of the people I hang with these days are lesbians. I’ve seen their relationships up close. I’ve had to play middle man in some of their drama more times than I can count. Fucking L O L at the notion that their relationships are any less toxic and filled with lies than a hetero relationship. 😂 They’re still women
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/22 08:16 AM
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No, we’re not fucking Chad. Uh huh. All those women chasing Chad fucking him are actually just sentient AI robots I guess.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/22 08:14 AM
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But some people do obsessively eat chocolate cake, just like there are no doubt some people that watch porn so often they rub their dick raw. So what? Those are outliers. You can abuse literally anything. Do you seriously think with porn it’s either “addicted” or “never watch it”?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/22 08:12 AM
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But if a difference between societal acceptance of prostitution and brothers, mate. Alcoholics also exist and alcohol is abused far more frequently and with far worse consequences than this supposed porn scourge. Guess nobody should ever have a drink by your rules then.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/22 08:09 AM
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Uh huh. Women have never had a problem saying words about what they supposedly “want.” The problem is what they actually do that contradicts those lofty words. Also, guess which demographic has the least amount of sex?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/22 08:08 AM
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If you think men are the ones who “live a lie” when it comes to their own sexuality,I don’t know what to tell you. 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/22 07:53 AM
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Several times. I usually just said “yup” and leaned into it. I ended up fucking more than a few of them.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/22 07:51 AM
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Yeah. Good thing there weren’t things like abundantly available prostitution in the good old days. And women aren’t “choosing not to date” they’re simply withdrawing from dating average men. They still fuck Chad when they get tingles.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/22 07:43 AM
2

So weird how polarizing beards are and how much some women like, if not outright demand them. Thank Christ I can grow one, because I have such a shit lower third without it. Id look like I had on a bee keepers mask without the beard. It also helps offset my big nose. It’s funny because I always tried to be a “pretty boy” growing up but just got forced into leaning into the masculine look and had way more success with it.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/22 07:41 AM
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According to 99% of PPD women, they “can’t get turned on just by looking at a guy” so … pressing F to doubt this.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/22 07:33 AM
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Sounds like a problem for people prone to addiction. Meanwhile the vast vast majority can use it without it getting in the way of our lives short of preventing us from getting so sexually frustrated we start snapping at people. Anti porn crusaders almost always express these type of hysterical opinions. It’s like saying the existence of chocolate cake is responsible for obesity and the cake industrial complex is the root of all evil. BTW before “internet porn” there were DVD’s, before DVD’s ther…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/22 07:32 AM
1

So yes. Neo-Puritanism. Most evolved and enlightened societies (say, Buddhist cultures) were ones in which sexuality was not remotely shamed. You must be stuck on later Christianity’s obsession with “chastity” Pagans sure as shit weren’t prudish either.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/22 07:26 AM
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why not have real sex instead of wasting your time watching porn? Take a wild fucking guess.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/22 07:17 AM
1

Lol the fuck you talking about? “Ancient wisdom”? Good thing the ancient world didn’t indulge in harems, sex slaves and prostitutes 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/22 07:15 AM
3

Except men think about fucking them. That’s the difference and it’s a big one.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/22 07:12 AM
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it was mainly used by dirty, ugly derelicts who women wouldn’t touch. Lol what the actual fuck. Boys beat off to the fucking Sears catalog back in the day. This diatribe is so clueless about what 99% of men do in private it’s frightening. How do women like this even exist?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/22 07:09 AM
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What kind of bible thumping neo Puritanism is this? How about prostitution? How about rom coms and 50 shades of grey? Lol Jesus I can’t believe people this tight assed still exist.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/22 07:05 AM
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Funny how it’s women that gravitate towards the most “misogynist” porn like gangbangs and rape fantasies. Let me guess… “internalized misogyny”?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/22 07:04 AM
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Uh huh. So you basically still have 90% chance of dating guys that watch porn … or liars. I’ve met girls like this and it’s fucking hilarious how deluded they are about their ability to police mens thoughts. Good luck.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/22 07:02 AM
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Nofap is a cult.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/22 06:56 AM
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Lol nofap freaks are so fucking weird. You can engage in things in moderation. If I’m on 2 weeks of no sex and no nut, you’d better believe I’m calling on Riley Reid or Abella Danger (or both). There’s a difference between an indulgence and habit.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/22 06:54 AM
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Lol so how about rom coms and romance novels?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/22 06:51 AM
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Again, this is utterly the exception to the rule. Most women in Chad’s rotation are hoping he will “pick her” out of all his options. When he doesn’t, they retroactively claim that Chad is a fuck boy and was “just for fun” I and many others have seen this countless times.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/22 05:00 AM
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Lol. Yes. And unicorns exist. For every “demisexual” hot guy there are 100 playing the field and sampling all the flavors by pumping and and dumping women. A man is only as faithful as his options. How do women not get this?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/22 04:45 AM
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One quick lesson I'm human biology will let you know women are designed to preserve more fat. MUh thyroid condition and “big boned” huh? Yes. They are supposed to have higher BF. In the hips, tits and ass not their fucking stomach, calves and back. Just anything to let them off the hook for their poor choices. Meanwhile, here you are downplaying the extent that men go to improve their appearance because you consider eating salads a “disorder” fuck you guys love your small margins, it's the only …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 07:46 PM
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Yet more women are morbidly obese than men. Funny that.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 07:35 PM
2

They usually just want someone who’s like 2 inches taller than them lmao riiiiiight.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 07:28 PM
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Lmao do you understand exceptions and rules? Are you also one to call women “birthing people” and “chest feeders” because some “women” have dicks and don’t lactate? “Men like sex” “What? I know a guy that *hates sex!” I win! Teehee.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 05:20 PM
2

Where’d there goalposts go? I swear there were just here a second ago. 🤔
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 04:26 PM
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Lol. That was incomprehensible pointless word salad that didn’t refute any points so I’ll make it simple: Men will date broke women Women will not date broke men. The End.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 04:18 PM
4

Black Pill is just nihilism and resignation. Red Pill is far more proactive and actionable.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 04:16 PM
1

Except Blue Pill is by far the dominant and only publicly acceptable paradigm. Red Pill truths are relegated to stand up comics and dark corners of the internet. Do you not see the difference here?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 04:15 PM
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In other news, according to women, Lizzo is “gorgeous” , she likes Chad “for his personality” and their fat friend “looks great in that dress” etc If you ever needed more proof that “what what they do not what they say” should be etched in stone, you can stop.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 04:13 PM
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Not true. Why don't you go Daye a homeless woman then? Fucking go. Do it. You can.. you don't want to. Fucking do it. Lol calm the fuck down. You honestly think men here haven’t / won’t date broke women? That’s fucking comedy. I’ve dated plenty of women who were “between jobs” and when they did work they were a part time hostess or some shit. Hell, plenty of them had to live with me while they “found a new place” and my protective male instinct made me save-a-Ho (never again) Show me the woman p…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 04:09 PM
2

This is the concept behind “negging” Of course it’s been reduced to some comic book version of delivering backhanded compliments; but the concept is still valid. Being aloof and indifferent is effective with women who are used to the opposite (if you are attractive).
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 04:04 PM
3

Ted Bundy and Richard Ramirez entered the chat.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 04:02 PM
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Far far from it.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 10:48 AM
2

“Just have perfect model tier bone structure and skin bro!” Uh huh.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 09:24 AM
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Yeah and I’ve seen morbidly obese women excel at that “talent” Who gives a fuck if she learned about eye liner and lash extensions. They are still cheats and shortcuts. To compare make up to grinding at a gym is just laughable. It’s closer to a man dressing well or getting a good haircut. Not exactly a heroic feat.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 09:23 AM
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If I could paint young Brad Pitt or Jude Law’s face on my own you think I wouldn’t? Half these women doing “contouring” shit are doing literally that. You want to compare this to the discipline and willpower it takes to get to the gym 3-5 times a week for years on end? Suuuure
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 09:09 AM
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Those women are almost always doing it so they go from being merely “hot” hyper sexualized instagram hot For every woman getting reconstructive implants for a mastectomy there are probably 1000 doing it so guys will drool more than they already do.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 09:08 AM
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TIL it’s a “disadvantage” to get DD breasts when you already had dudes lining up for you with a B cup. Jesus fucking Christ. And women would still not do it if they could “work out” their way to huge tits. They would still opt for surgery because it’s easier.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 09:04 AM
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Still ignoring height while talking nonsense about hair transplants.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 09:04 AM
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Lol. “Just go to the personality gym bro!” What kind of bloop drug induced fever dream is this. You conveniently left out womens merciless and ruthless judgment of men’s height. Funny. Also just lol at comparing transplants to breast implants. No dude no. Transplants basically require you to remain on potentially chemically castrating anti-androgen drugs and even then they are iffy. And lol again. Literal years of dedication in the gym is what it takes to get anything resembling an exception phy…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 09:02 AM
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How can a woman not see the problem with this? I only act like X because MEN MADE ME! Yes. Totally does not sound like children. Nope.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 08:48 AM
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Banned and I’m sure it’s only a matter of time before I engage in PPD wrongthink again.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 08:47 AM
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Unlike, say, being a garbage man, a fry cook, working on an oil rig or a in coal mine. No exploitation there huh? Nope. The only fans thots monetizing male loneliness are the real victims here. 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 08:40 AM
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Tough shit. Maybe women shouldn’t have spent the past 15 years shitting on men then suddenly surprised Pikachu when that resentment manifests as toxic political ideologies. I’m as liberal as it gets and I won’t be lifting a finger to help with any exclusively women’s causes ever again. Why the fuck am I going to rally for people who can’t stop shitting on me?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 08:38 AM
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Yes by all means let’s hand wave away male suicide and men dying in wars as “individual problems” then unironically complain that you “didn’t get taken seriously” while playing League of Legends. Because you know, nobody talks shit to anybody in online gaming to anybody except women. Never happens to men. Nope. Women must march for more rights because a 12 year old called her a bad name in voice chat. What the actual fuck is going on here? 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 08:35 AM
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Holy fuck. This is where we’re at? “Men are dying in wars trying to protect their country” … yawn. That’s not important. Let’s talk about how this guy didn’t take me seriously when I was playing call of duty!
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 08:31 AM
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men are the ones consuming pornographic content and buying it, and women who are desperate for money are the ones doing it. Oh for fucksake. Only in America could women turn making effortless fast and easy cash from lonely simps as “men badz!!!” You hear that guys? You made her commodify male loneliness because she’s “desperate for cash” But not desperate enough to collect garbage or learn a trade … ewwww. That’s for losers! Just when I think womens wanton solipsism can’t get any more insane… 🤦🏻…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 08:27 AM
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When does that get factored into the wage gap? Or is that called a thigh gap? Who are we kidding, women in the US don’t have thigh gaps. Not sure if that’s a privilege tbh, but Ben & Jerry has mad profits. B.A.S.E.D.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 08:21 AM
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I knew somebody would come back with that. The “drugged out rockstar” thing is indeed a real phenomenon but they are celebrate despite this and it’s generally equated with a very high popularity (ie “partying”) lifestyle
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 02:17 AM
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Not at all. I do find fat women’s propensity to throw their weight around, Chad chase and gas each other up so they fuck up the dating economy a bit annoying though.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 02:15 AM
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Should we celebrate alcoholism and heroin addiction as well? “Love yourself! It’s ok to shoot that shit into your arm! You’re stunning and brave! Who am I to tell you to stop???”
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 02:06 AM
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I’m old so it is too late for me, my son - but I’d have a hair transplant in a heartbeat if I could tolerate finasteride. (I can’t) Other than that, some minor facial surgery is prob the best I can do. But I had my shot and my only play now is to play “sexy old daddy” game for a few more years before retiring from women altogether. It still occasionally works but it’s getting harder each year.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 02:02 AM
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So telling them it is beautiful and literally celebrating them as “heroes” for being “fat and proud” is the proper response? Dog piling on people who encourage weight loss as “toxic bigots” is cool? Locking down an entire country and demanding all manner of sacrifices while refusing to acknowledge the biggest contributor to hospitalizations and deaths? Do you realize that we live in a world where a substantial portion of the population actually shamed Adele for no longer being fat? Think about t…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 01:58 AM
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I remember a meme that summed this up pretty well: On social media: Girl posts: “I’m bored” Results: 126 Likes and 37 comments. Man posts: “Just got into Harvard” Results: 2 likes, 1 comment From Mom: “Nerd”
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 01:55 AM
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Low value woman is at least at the same level as average man and probably above. The rest is correct though.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 01:52 AM
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Women are essentially gaslighting eugenicist Based 😂 it is a gift to not be desired by them. Freedom from all that manipulation, projection and disrespect. And blackpilled. 😳
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 01:45 AM
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100% this and you don’t have the option of using your genitals as a means of obtaining attention / validation.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 01:42 AM
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So, is this woman in OP going around saying “we should shame and ostracize bisexual men”? It sure looked like she was saying “I do not wish to enter into a relationship with a bisexual man” at which point you claimed she had “bigoted views”
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 01:39 AM
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I don’t care that they exist. I have plenty of overweight people who I care greatly about. What I hate is the normalization and celebration of a destructive life style and the cancel police freaking out whenever somebody calls it what it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 01:38 AM
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Because heart disease is the number one killer in the country, not to mention strokes and diabetes. Want to guess what their comorbidities are? As a fit person I would like more people to be healthy and ideally attractive so we could reach some kind of sanity in the dating world again. Did you also find Michelle Obama’s fight against childhood obesity to be “hateful” After all, why should she care right? Not her kids!
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 01:35 AM
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like air conditioners being sexist? lol holy shit I got about that one. That might even beat “manspreading”
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 01:30 AM
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Yes you dgaf but say “killing children”. Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 01:27 AM
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I could give a fuck about fat people walking down the street. I just don’t want them presented in entertainment or news as something they aren’t. And I won’t even get into how that utterly blatant comorbidity for Covid deaths was swept under the rug because it might hurt the fats fee fees. That’s right. We’d rather let people die than tell them “hey losing weight will exponentially reduce your risk of hospitalization for Covid. That’s where we’re at right now. Finally, again, this sub in particu…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 01:22 AM
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You’re not wrong about rage bait I’ll give you that. But being constantly told that you must say up is down and black is white and “fat is beautiful and brave” is fucking rage inducing after a while. Women are the ones that love the pretty lie rather than the ugly truth and it’s bleeding into so many art-forms and political movements it’s legitimately annoying. Finally, women telling men to not bitch about things that don’t concern them? The group that forced girls into the BOY scouts? 😂 That’s …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 01:19 AM
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You know what else is difficult to overcome? Alcoholism. But we’re not telling our friends how great they are when they wake up face down in their puke. We’re telling them to get their shit together. And thermodynamics are not “over simplistic” Food addicts exist and they should not be told “you’re fine just how you are” any more than an alcoholic drinking themselves into liver failure.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 01:13 AM
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We have long since swung the pendulum from “shaming” to “enabling” if not outright “celebrating” How do you think people in Asia see this shit? As utterly laughable and they’re right.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 01:10 AM
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TIL being in the sports illustrated swimsuit edition and making a spectacle of your giant ass at an NBA game is “simply existing” Stop acting like it’s not part of the modern zeitgeist to deify and celebrate fat women. We know what the fuck is going on.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 01:08 AM
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I can’t think of two. Jack Black and Tony Soprano. Complete outliers and if they were not famous nobody (especially women) would give two shits about them. And neither was being celebrated / called “brave” because they were fat like Lizzo, etc. Regardless, we’re on a RP debate forum. What do you think the very first thing RP men would tell a fat guy looking for dating advice? Now do women. That’s what I thought.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 01:06 AM
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Not the same thing in the slightest. Lizzo twerking at an NBA game comes to mind. She was a “brave hero” for doing that.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 01:04 AM
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Please show me the fat man in a swimsuit issue, beauty product campaign or “sex symbol pop star” (Lizzo) I’ll wait. Being fat is a fucking choice can we please stop pretending otherwise? Because it’s “hard” doesn’t make any difference. It’s entirely in your control. Put it this way, I’ve now lost most of my hair. Do you honestly think that if the solution to getting it back and looking better and being more attractive was diet and exercise I wouldn’t have a full head of hair? that is why fat peo…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 12:57 AM
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Do you feel the same way about people who shame, say, age gap relationships?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 12:52 AM
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Yeah. No. This is like saying “support the troops” or “support the police” So, support “the police” because, reasons. Ignore the systemic issues with the cops high on power trips and seeing the public as adversaries. Just “support the police” Kind of you’d better “like and appreciate women” Okay.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 09:26 PM
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Oh. I see. Is that like when men say “she’s a bitch, she doesn’t give me a chance because I’m not Chad”?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 09:24 PM
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Ah yes the Ali Wong school of thought where her deepthroating you and having a threesome with her friend constitutes “disrespect” because you don’t get to co-sign on a mortgage with and listen to her bitch about her coworkers for years. 🤣 Comedy gold I tell you.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 08:05 PM
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Who exactly cares about hook ups? 🧐 Men. I knew girls who had ‚bang an older dude‘ on their bucket lists. Is that supposed to be an achievement? When that girl is hot and comes back for more? Yes. Yes it is an achievement for a man. Let me guess, you think the real “win” here is “sit on the couch and listen to her problems and watch rom coms” right? Your solipsism is showing. BTW if you met any other young “bucket list” types like that, send them my way. Also, according to PPD women they don’t e…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 07:52 PM
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ITT women clinging to the fairy tale because … well, they can. Why? Because they have an army of simps waiting in the wings, all their girlfriends lined up to openly call the guy an asshole, and incredibly easy access to “rebound sex” with a guy way out of her league which they invariably indulge in so they can “feel sexy again” (ask how I know) Men have … their hand As a result men have to be extra cautious about hitching their wagon to a woman because, let’s face it, in the early stages of a r…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 07:42 PM

everyone here knows my motto Do they? For me, I got my shit together around early-mid thirties then another next level around 40. On an individual level, I have great admiration and respect for almost all the women I chose to date and spend time with, despite their flaws (many of which seem to be mostly exhibited in women in general) they all had something really unique and special and I am a better person for having known them. In the abstract, I have grown to be pretty annoyed if not disgusted…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 06:11 PM

Lol. One of those iconic PPD moments: “Hey, maybe you should contemplate what you bring to the table to keep a man around besides sex?” “NoOo! iT’s tHe mEn!!!”
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 05:29 PM
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I didn’t understand a word of this.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 05:25 PM
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Thanks for understanding. That means a lot.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 04:14 PM
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I’m going to admit something that I dislike about myself, and I’m trying to work through but damn if it isn’t a primal reaction. When I see a very attractive man (aka Chad) strutting around effortlessly getting attention from women with a cocky smirk, I feel a stab of hate for him. Yes, it’s jealousy. And no it isn’t healthy.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 04:13 PM
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Lol the fact that you had to describe real oppression versus “this man took up too much space on the bus seat” should tell you all you need to know about western feminism.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 04:11 PM
2

Yes. You got me. My hobby is creating a Reddit account so I can LARP as a middle aged man who usually dates and fucks my own age but sometimes dates and fucks younger women. Somehow, I’ve thrown in lots of other unflattering stuff in the mix, like having depression and anxiety and balding, but - you know it’s just part of my elaborate rouse.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 04:07 PM
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This is one of those discussions I’ve just given up on. I will continue to fuck younger women and let the hamsters talk about how it “Never happens” or fantasize that I must be a sugar daddy. Doesn’t mean shit. One thing is for sure, women’s solipsism extend to each other as well when it suits their narrative. If they like K-Pop twinks, than all other women do. If they like dad bods, then “women don’t care about muscles” etc. For all their crowing about “women are not a hive mind!” That sure goe…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 04:03 PM
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TIL I “dreamed” half of my past hookups were with girls were 15-20 years younger than me 😂 It felt so real! 🤯
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 03:59 PM
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Are these threads disparaging and saying the man in manipulative Yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 03:54 PM
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When things have gone sideways, it’s always been my male friends who have reached out a hand to help - female friends usually start acting weird and distance themselves. Fucking Facts. There are maybe a few encouraging “words” but then they (women - friends or girlfriends) make themselves very scarce while shit is going down. “Support system” my ass.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 03:48 PM
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Lol PPD women “we aren’t too picky! Men have become the problem!” Also PPD women ITT - massive laundry lists of some the dumbest most nitpicked y judgmental shit I’ve ever heard where there is no way in fuck those women are matching all those demands.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 09:28 AM
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Lol so just all “women” in general? How about particular women? Yeah, that Amber Heard, Mattress Girl and Susan Smith… great people them. This is like saying you hate women because you think Captain Marvel sucks even though Ellen Ripley is your favorite movie hero.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 09:16 AM
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“Just be honest about your intentions and you’ll be fine!” … “Not like that!!!” SRS tho the balls on that guy for just straight up saying “All I want is to fuck your titties, also I’m married.” 😂 That’s some Dennis Reynolds’s shit right there. “Listen listen listen… I want to be inside you.”
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 06:06 AM
1

potential companions You're almost there. And what was your suggestion? Cultivate potential companions for pickle ball?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 01:10 AM
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You were the one quibbling over what "spinning plates" meant precisely. The point of "spinning plates" is synonymous with options and abundance, which RP preaches almost more than anything - it does not only mean "Having no-strings sex with multiple women at once" it can often mean "dating and cultivating women who are sexual prospects and dropping those who are not"
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 01:05 AM
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Lol look at any one of countless threads on Reddit where women are crying about a guy bailing after sex because he had done "boyfriend stuff and implied he was serious"... note the catch-all term "implied" is almost always present in these stories.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 01:02 AM
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The amount of shit women will count as “leading her on” is insane. This from the same gender that insist that she isn’t “leading you on” no matter what she does.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/22 08:33 PM
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Only when it’s convenient to a woman’s argument. Depending on the conversation they are asexual or insatiable fuck machines.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/22 07:30 PM
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This is embarrassing. 🤦🏻‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/22 07:29 PM
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her wanting to cheat on her (now ex)-husband. She just felt so much “respect” for her husband that she felt the need to go out and disrespect other men. 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/22 07:20 PM
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Talk about it in whatever sense you want. It doesn’t change the concept of spinning plates. Spinning plates means keeping sexual options open at all times. The end.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/22 06:18 PM
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Women seem so totally incapable on contemplating any of these utterly common scenarios it’s honestly frightening. They absolute must spin it into being his fault so they can avoid feeling rejected / romantically undesirable. You know, what men have to live with every day. I can cite these exact “she might be girlfriend material” scenarios that happened 3 times just off the top of my head: we vibed great in private but she constant caused drama with my friends. she seemed sweet and chill but ende…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/22 06:11 PM
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Take a look at FDS, or any female oriented sub then get back to me about who sees sex as a tool, a reward or manipulation tactic. Also ask a man how often a woman has used the carrot of sex of her sexuality to get what she wants. Don’t ask women in person though because you’ll never find a single one who has done this. 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/22 05:01 PM
1

Yes. Lying is bad. Great.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/22 04:58 PM
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Oh I know to act in my best interest regardless, but it’s a perspective I hadn’t thought of before and actually has some logic to it.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/22 04:56 PM
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He doesn’t say I want to get married before they have sex he just says “I want to see you again” She’s just believing things she wants to believe about getting a relationship from him.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/22 04:51 PM
1

You were the one that chimed in to try to tell me what “spinning plates” means because you seemingly didn’t want to accept you inadvertently promoted a basic RP principle.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/22 04:39 PM
1

Women call it “lying” if a man said “I’d like to see you again” but then changes his mind. Would you call it “lying” if a woman implied she wanted to have sex with a guy then changed her mind? Here’s a hypothetical - say I take a girl out on a couple of dates, we get along, we do fun stuff. I tell her I want to keep seeing her. Then on date 3 we have sex and her pussy smells like rotting fish and she has a bush like 70’s afro. If I stop calling her again after that, was I “lying”?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/22 04:34 PM
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Why do you think a relationship with Ali Wong is “winning”? https://www.vanityfair.com/style/2022/04/ali-wong-divorce-husband-justin-hakuta/amp
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/22 04:33 PM
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What’s more common: Man explicitly states a desire for a relationship or even marriage before sex happens then steps back and says “PSYCH!” after he busts a nut Man is nice to girl, romances her a bit, has sex with her and at some point realizes she’s not all that and steps away from the pursuit resulting in her saying “he said he liked me, took me to dinner and a movie - that’s girlfriend stuff! He lied to me!!!” Funny how women can “change their mind” or “withdraw consent” at any time, but if …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/22 04:30 PM
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Men who are fucking other women on the side can wait as long as they want. If the woman is hot enough they will bide their time until she fucks. Women count men “lying and manipulating” as “he spent the night after we fucked. That’s lovebombing!!!”
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/22 04:26 PM
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Oh cool. I guess you agree that women should just give up their pussy right away. Feelings be damned. Glad we can agree on that.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/22 04:23 PM
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Tell this to the women who post countless threads about how Chad didn’t “give” her a relationship after sex. Also what is this obsession with this “nobody oWes yOu sEx!” Cliche? You realize that’s not remotely what’s being argued here right? It’s just tedious language policing so I’m done with this thread. Thanks.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/22 04:22 PM
1

Jesus fucking Christ. Can we add this to the totally anti-man PPD “rules” here? The amount of responses from women that simply contain “nuh uh uR an incel” followed by some cringe inducing snark is a fucking cancer ok this sub. Should I also “touch grass” and “treat women as people”?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/22 04:17 PM
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Lol @ saying that in a thread in which women are literally saying they will put a guy in a blue-balled simp-zone because it “hurts” if he fuck zones her. Sounds healthy.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/22 04:11 PM
2

“If I dangle the prospect of sex in front of him, he will take me to dinners, and help fix my toilet”
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/22 04:09 PM
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I don’t know. You tell me. You were the one who took issue with the phrasing.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/22 04:08 PM
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No it doesn’t make sense because you are thinking like a woman. No man does this “just because” no matter how much he virtue signals. He’s talking to the women he would like to fuck and verifying if they see him as fuck material as well. As women so often point out “just being nice and friendly” doesn’t mean shit, so how does a man gain legitimate options? By gaming multiple women to the point at which he very least has verified she is sexually attracted to him. Simply “talking” to women at a pa…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/22 04:05 PM
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Bullshit. Women that call themselves “healthy” usually drone on about “boundaries” and “respect” which is code for “I’m going to starfish you” And who the hell said only crazy women do kinky shit? The point being made was crazy women on average fuck with more intensity and lack of inhibition than your “average well adjusted girl” You really think Brittany the bi-polar, bisexual tatted up stripper who does Molly on the weekends isn’t more likely to have crazy sex than Becky the church mouse? Come…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/22 03:59 PM
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Because they are hot.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/22 03:53 PM
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Well I can agree there. Those men are pathetic simps who are whistling past the graveyard of their own failures. Personally, I love sluts. I don’t judge them at all, but I would be more cautious about marrying a woman who has a propensity / compulsion to engage in sex with new guys very often for the simple reason that it is so abundant and available to her.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/22 03:52 PM
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As I said in another thread: “Thank you Ali, I felt very disrespected right after I busted down your throat. Oh how I wish I could be the guy you see as marriage material so I could listen to you gossip, and complain while watching rom-coms with you before you giving me unenthusiastic sex and a begrudging blowjob.” Could you disrespect me next week on Friday too? Also just LO fucking L at this “we are kicking you out of our future” as if women don’t catch feels for guys with good dick game. 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/22 03:49 PM
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And women aren’t “entitled” to relationships no matter how many times Chad spooned with her after rawdogging. Yet there are countless threads all over Reddit with women calling these men assholes and liars. Funny that.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/22 03:43 PM
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Jesus Christ. PPD Women’s need to language police is the most annoying (and unhelpful) shit ever. We all know what it means, it means women very often see sex as a bargaining chip and use it as such. That is simply a fact. Take a look at FDS to see an extreme mask-off example of this. Stop trying to spin it into some nefarious “problematic speech” issue.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/22 03:41 PM
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No it means she sees it as a bargaining chip / dog treat to be withheld until he does enough tricks for her.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/22 03:36 PM
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Men have a much higher biological and innate desire for sex, so, God’s fault?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/22 03:32 PM
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Lolwut It’s women who use phrases like “let him have sex with me” or “don’t give him sex until he’s proven X”
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/22 03:30 PM
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Holy shit. An actual new (to me anyway) perspective on PPD! Honestly, I’ve never thought of it like this from the woman’s perspective, but this makes total sense and explains some of the easier lays I’ve had. Some guys call this putting themselves in the “fuck zone”. I think guys can relate to this line of thinking very well as our parallel is the “friend zone” While I have plenty of female friends I’m sexually / romantically indifferent toward, I will absolutely bounce on a girl who I have caug…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/22 03:27 PM
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Can confirm the strippers thing, which I guess isn’t super surprising. Still the freakiest girl I was ever with was a sheltered near virgin who was incredibly shy and anxious in everyday life.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/22 03:22 PM
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Except you said “having lots of deals on the table so you have options” How do you think a man does this? Just by existing? Men don’t get to be passive like women in attraction and dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/22 03:17 PM
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Whoosh. The point is that calling men sexual failures is an insult used by pretty much everybody.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/22 07:25 AM
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Women demand tons of things of men that they themselves don’t possess. Bottom line: it takes no skill / work for an average woman to rack up a high n count, it would take immense skill and effort for an average man to do so.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/22 07:03 AM
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No they just shit on sexually unsuccessful men by calling them incels and virgins which is tacit praise for men who get a lot of pussy.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/22 07:01 AM
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Ok. Now do “confidence” and “assertiveness” from women who are meek mice. Oh and my favorite “he needs to be funny” from women with the wit of a rock.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/22 06:39 AM
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Who said it’s “crazy”? You want me to go down the list of freaky shit the crazier women I’ve dated have gotten up to? The normies are the ones that think swallowing is some kind of “degrading kink”
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/22 06:33 AM
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No problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/22 06:31 AM
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With all due respect, in my opinion you are overthinking this stuff to an extent that it has entered an entirely new realm that I am not really interested in entering. It feels like we are going to get into the nature of reality and discussing time and space and god. No thanks. Crazy chicks fuck like wildcats. The end.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/22 06:13 AM
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It’s frustrating but if you were my son the advice I’d give you is that you’re not looking to close every deal. You’re looking to get lots of deals on the table so you have options. Then the deals that get withdrawn aren’t that important because you know they’re not the only ones (and most aren’t the spectacular anyway). I believe we call this “spinning plates”
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/22 06:06 AM
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So “not all X are like Y” Okay. Great. As a man who dates women and has seen other men date women I can safely say things like “hot women are generally cause more drama” Or “fat women are often more combative” I don’t need to write a treatise citing Plato to understand that that doesn’t literally mean every hot woman on earth is entitled and bitchy to know that this is a common trope for a reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/22 05:44 AM
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Not sure what I just read here but there is such a thing as over-intellectualization. First, I don’t do language policing. Second, the saying “crazy in the head crazy in the bed” didn’t just come out of thin air.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/22 05:27 AM
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In order to make a counterpoint a point needs to have been made in the first place. Unless one counts “huh huh uR weird saying daddy is weird huh” as some kind of stunning revelation.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/22 05:19 AM
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Lol @ “weird ass America” Uh huh. Now do Germany, Japan or wherever the fuck you’re from. Do you also go into gay / lesbian subs and squeal about how “weird” they are too?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/22 05:12 AM
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You think you only get that type of sex from crazy women? ... being called daddy is gross Claiming to understand freaky women while also calling a common kink "gross" Unintentional self-own. Very nice.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/22 04:46 AM
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the kink community Yeah no. First, the "kink community" in near every instance I've seen it consists with a bunch of blue haired hambeasts and other assorted unattractive / overweight people. I'm talking about regular people, not pretentious subcultures that are one step removed from live action role players. They are no more representative to normal human sex than furries are. Second, no it has nothing to do with how "toxic" the relationship is. I've had great relationships with women that had …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/22 04:40 AM
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Uh huh. You want to know "the science"? Her laying on her back, then hanging her head over the edge of the bed and saying "fuck my throat daddy" There's your "science"
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/22 03:12 AM
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I would have killed for a dad (or any male figure) like this in my life when I was young. Would have saved me a lot of unnecessary pain.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/22 03:06 AM
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Bullshit. "well adjusted" women are by far the least adventurous. The craziest women have always been the freakiest in bed. It's not close.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/22 02:02 AM
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The top 3 for me (other than "lift like your life depends on it"): 1 - Ignore what they say, watch what they do 2 - You can't negotiate attraction. and the one for me personally that completely turned things around 3 - Risk "creepy" Now, let's see what women try to give to men as advice: Oh yeah, unironically saying: If you're not SURE the answer is yes, don't ask her out 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/22 02:00 AM
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You know what else is simple? This is an anonymous subreddit, not a date.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/22 11:19 PM
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no wonder why women aren't flocking to you This is the verbal equivalent of shooting at somebody, running out of bullets and throwing the gun at them.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/22 09:57 PM
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I’m saying if the woman is hot enough Chad is more likely to wait because the sex she is withholding from him isn’t preventing him from getting sex elsewhere while he “waits” An average dude has to be more judicious with his time because it requires far more work for him to get sex anywhere. Why is this hard to understand? If I want a Ferrari and I’ve got a fleet of Porsches it’s no big deal to save up for the Ferrari because I simply want to own one. If I want a Honda and I’m riding the bus, al…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/22 05:40 PM
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This narrative thankfully only works on young naive women. There’s that just-world fallacy again. Right up there with the “only assholes don’t get laid” and personality detectors. 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/22 05:37 PM
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Lol. Fat women get hit on for 2 reasons. They are easier to bang The guy actively desires fat women. Stop thinking a fat woman “getting hit on” means anything. It doesn’t. Guess which one is more common.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/22 05:35 PM
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No. 2 fives do not equal a ten. That’s not how it works. Chad will simp for in-her-prime Jessica Alba while banging trolls to get his nut off if he has to. Then when he bangs alba, if the pussy isn’t fire, he’ll probably get bored quickly and move on.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/22 05:33 PM
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Saying “it happens” is meaningless. Sure. It happens. People also get struck by lightning so “it happens” Yes, men lie about all manner of shit to get sex. As women lie and misrepresent all manner of shit to get what they want. What we are talking about is the distinct and easily observable phenomenon of women hamstering away consensual sex as something they were “tricked” into. We aren’t talking about a man saying “I love you baby, I want spend the rest of my life with you!” because you know in…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/22 05:30 PM
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For the last time, this is a red pill oriented debate forum. RP Men aren’t the ones living with the delusion that “fat is beautiful” regardless of sex, BP women are.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/22 05:24 PM
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This is a truth bomb. We’ll really just rare insight and honesty. Thank you. I have to ask, why do you think it’s so hard for women to look at things this way and discuss it openly without clinging to a victim narrative when it comes to sex?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/22 05:23 PM
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On that we can agree.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/22 05:13 PM
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What part of “buying dinner for a guy with a good income is like buying coffee” didn’t you understand? If I’m trying to bang some model tier woman with an ass that I have wet dreams about, you better believe I’m going to run the game on her. This isn’t rocket science.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/22 05:11 PM
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What fucking planet is this from? Fat women are deified as “sexy” “stunning” and “brave” in the US. They are on billboards and squeezed into swimsuit issues in a desperate effort to normalize what is unhealthy. Other nations would laugh their ass off at this glorification of gluttony and rightly so. On the other hand, Fat men are openly ridiculed with zero consequence. Where is the “body positivity” movement for men? That’s what I thought.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/22 05:10 PM
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If only there were a framework by which men exchanged ideas about what does / doesn’t work with women. I’d imagine there might even be a debate sub built around it.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/22 05:07 PM
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We’re on PPD. No TRP man is saying “why don’t women want me” while being fat because other TRP immediately will tell him “stop being fat before you even try” and tell him to get his ass to the gym and stop stuffing his face. Now, compare that to FDS.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/22 04:53 PM
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The fact that it is even a debate that those women are fat slobs is pathetic. Go to France, Eastern Europe or any country in Asia and try to sell them on the delusion that those gluttonous buttergolems are “hot” and you’ll rightly get laughed at. Face it, in the west, being fat is easy. It shows low character and a lack of Will power. That’s it. Being fit is difficult and requires self discipline and awareness. Something in very very short supply with American women in particular. And a fat woma…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/22 04:35 PM
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if he won’t even take me on an actual sit down date or go do some type of activity then I’ll assume he’s not that serious.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/22 04:20 PM
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Fucking lots of women, even average ones, requires skill. The amount of skill varies with the attractiveness of the man. Fucking a man as a woman requires no skill whatsoever. The end.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/22 04:19 PM
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What I’ve found is that many many times women will resort to the “he used me for sex!” nonsense simply as a defense mechanism to tell themselves they aren’t sluts. Basically, it’s far easier to claim “he tricked me into having sex with him” to friends and even themselves than to say “I had a primal instinct to fuck this guy in the moment and I did” But no. That would imply women are just humans that like to fuck and not these “sapiosexual” higher beings they must see themselves as.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/22 04:18 PM
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Men know all this kindergarten level shit and can easily work around it.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/22 04:15 PM
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If there is one thing that could clearly be called “toxic femininity” this is it. The entire concept of being “used for sex” and “letting him have sex” is absolutely toxic and insane and is representative of how shit womens attitudes have truly become. Bill Burr also had some bit about this “stop acting like fucking a guy you are attracted to is suddenly like you’re out in the drive way raking leaves”
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/22 04:14 PM
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This is so utterly dumb. I’ve paid for dinners with women just to be polite more times than I can count. Because I can afford it and it’s like buying coffee is for some guys. I also fucked a lot of those same women. Apparently they subscribed to this FDS nonsense that the mere fact that I paid for them at my favorite sushi spot meant I was “serious” 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/22 04:11 PM
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Lol. This is your brain on FDS. Any man with a brain knows this is the dumb game women try to play and can work around it. And men who don’t work around it, who are often the ones you are trying to get will bounce due to the very apparent fact that the woman is using sex as a bartering tool for a relationship. Either way, you lose.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/22 04:09 PM
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Lol just posted the exact same point. Not sure why people realize that guys with abundance are in a far better position to “wait” for sex with a particular woman since they are getting it elsewhere.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/22 04:05 PM
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This is just incorrect. A man who is a Chad and has tons of sex options with lesser women on the side, can and will hold out for that hot 9/10 who is playing the “make him wait” game. He’ll get what he wants, and if her pussy / sex game isn’t goddess level he will bounce.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/22 04:03 PM
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Going slow is super fun anyways. Having the first kiss, the first handjob/fingering, the first oral sex and the first PIV sex all be different events on different days makes for much better memories imho You know that’s never thought of it like this, but this is absolutely true. Some of my best relationships built up like this and it made it exciting. I’ve had plenty of good relationships that were first night sex as well though. The real problem is when girls are basically giving you none of th…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/22 04:01 PM
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Stop using the exception when we are clearly discussing the rule. In the vast vast majority of cases the man is the one who does all the hoop jumping (even Chad) not the woman. This is why women who sleep around are not respected. It’s an unskilled act akin to gluttony. You don’t get respect for getting fat in a cake factory. For the vast majority of men fucking a large number of women requires various traits that make him high value in the first place.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/22 03:48 PM
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Incorrect. Even Chad has to make the girl comfortable, tell her something flattering, not make himself look ridiculous, plan out all the logistics. Women have to … exist and let the guy do everything.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/22 03:44 PM
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Holy shit. I’ve had this a couple of times and yes. That is the woman I would marry on the spot next time I find one.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/22 03:39 PM
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No.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/22 05:32 AM
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Lol exactly. Some of this shit reminds me of those crudely drawn |ncel comics where a male feminist is talking shit about how she’s just “using” Chad and will really “grow up” and want him someday. 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/22 05:32 AM
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Women vote with their pussy. Guess who they are voting for…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/22 05:28 AM
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Lol every woman is “mentally ill” for the right Chad.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/22 05:28 AM
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*with Chad
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/22 05:27 AM
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It generally takes skill and game, even for Chad to bang a chick quickly. That is why a man will never, ever be ashamed of being “used” Why would Chad be ashamed for going ass to mouth with some thirsty bar slut?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/22 05:26 AM
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Reminds me of that Ali Wong bit that had all the hens cackling in approval “We don’t fuck you on the first date because we don’t respect ourselves, we do it because we don’t respect you” Uh huh. Please, Ali, continue to disrespect me. I think I’ll get over it right around the time I bust down your throat.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/22 05:24 AM
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Do people pile on women when they “bring sexism and entitlement into it?” when discussing how worthless and sub-par men are? I think you know the answer to that, and that should end the debate as to the difference.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/22 04:51 AM
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Lol. No. Women get support from everybody What planet are you people living on that doesn’t have the army of simps and male feminist chiming in to exclaim that Lizzo is “beautiful” , smash the patriarchy, go girl boss! Women: Fighting for every sweet victim morsel possible. None can be forfeit.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/22 04:50 AM
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Because unlike “the other side”, honest discussion about female nature is absolutely forbidden IRL and is likely to get you fired or canceled. Let’s face it - in 2022 “women good, men bad” is basically religious dogma. The only place to explore the ideas and, let’s face it, often self evident uncontroversial facts about women is an anonymous sub. the fact that any criticism or analysis of womens sexual and romantic behavior has to be done in almost a dark web ghetto should tell you something. Re…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/22 04:29 AM
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What about women who want “experienced men” because virgin men are “lame and unsexy” Is that fetishization? I’m guessing you’re A-OK with that.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/22 12:51 AM
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Women are just as sexist. And get praised for it. Try again.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/22 09:43 AM
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You wanna know how I got these scars?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/22 09:42 AM
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Lol. This anecdote does not represent anything. 80/20 absolutely holds true IRL as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/22 09:39 AM
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The reality is men are getting as much sex as women, This is absolutely false as proven by any recent statistics involving sexlessness.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/22 09:35 AM
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ITT: I only fantasize about Prince Charming making sweet love to me or … nothing at all. IRL: Statistics show all manner of the most violent and degenerate porn including rape, gangbangs, choking and slapping are most popular with women. Women: teehee.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/22 09:30 AM
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Conveniently leaving out the “scenarios” you’re reading.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/22 09:24 AM
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Yep. Absolute #1 hamster cliche. Much original.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/22 07:34 AM
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Because women perpetuate and virtue signal a just world fallacy all their lives and they have finally get slapped in the face with the truth.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/22 05:08 AM
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Lol @ the good ole. FDSesque version of a just world fallacy. “If you are having a hard time dating keep your damn mount shut or I will call you an incel / scrote / angry neckbeard!” I also love how it hasn’t occurred to you that this bitterness is actually an effect of the constant rejection rather than the cause.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/22 08:27 AM
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No. On OLD and IRL, If you are a woman with 100 options, and only find 10 of those options acceptable to pursue a potential romantic relationship with, you still have 10 more options than most men and that is with virtually no effort. Just sitting around waiting for mens to come to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/22 08:24 AM
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Because FDS said so. (clearly)
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/22 08:21 AM
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Sharing Chad.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/22 08:14 AM
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Lol. The amount of girls I know that fish for compliments on social media from guys they’ll never meet can’t even be counted. They are doing it for the ego boost and validation. The end.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/22 06:01 PM
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If “field reports” means decades of relationship experience and seeing this happen to countless men that I personally know, yes. “Field reports” I’ll trust my eyes rather than women’s words. Thanks.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/22 05:59 PM
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No. IN here with that crap. Lmao at denying the epidemic of modern women literally addicted to using their sexuality for sweet hits of validation and attention on social media. 🤣 Oh wait. It’s just her “hobby” of showing off her ass and twerking on Tik tok. Outta here with that crap.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/22 03:06 PM
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She cares about the number of likes she gets likes from men regardless of what they look like. She only wants to be approached by Chad. Is that some kind of news flash? Then you have women complaining about “invisible woman syndrome” later in life. Hamster that all you want.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/22 03:03 PM
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Funny the main tag for [the wonderbra](WonderbraFullEffectGelBra8144https://a.co/d/bHo3WSN) is “increase the bust by 2 cup sizes” sure sounds like it’s main purpose is “stop creeps from leering” lol 😂 Who ever heard of women trying to use their tits for attention??? It’s literally never happened.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/22 03:01 PM
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The fuck? “Likes aren’t men”? What does that even mean. Likes are anonymous dopamine hits for women who, despite their dumb fortune cookie quote in the text accompanying it, want their ass photo to serve as a reminder of how fuckable (ie valuable) they are to their army of simps.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/22 02:55 PM
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Nobody is buying this. Nobody. First, Women lie about their true sexual motivations at every turn and especially “team women” types who are just trying to score points and perpetuate that women are wonderful. Just fucking lol @ trying to claim thirst traps are merely a “hobby” and not blatant seeking or validation of sexual attractiveness. I mean. That’s a new level of hamstering even for PPD. Hey maybe guys sending dick pics and cat calling are just exercising their “hobby” too? 😂 Side note - A…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/22 02:52 PM
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Or it could be, you know, the myriad times it’s happened to me if I lost a job, got sick or showed anxiety / depression around various exes who then did the “slow fade” where sex and respect dried up in the following weeks and months. Then magically they “meet someone else” after I stood by them / took care of them through every self inflicted / invented problem they had. Or the countless times I’ve seen it happen to other men. But nah. PPD women are different. Of course.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/22 02:47 PM
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This is why discussion on this sub is useless more than half the time. If the question ever boils down to: “women do you ever do something that a perfect higher being wouldn’t do?” - you will just get a 3-ring hamster circus.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/22 02:43 PM
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Push up = low cut / Padded bras.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/22 02:40 PM
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I would ask that people take note of how every single girl ITT is playing the “I didn’t know” card where men are just owning up to the reality by saying: “yeah. I did it.” Sure, Jan. You’re the innocent angel as always. Now ask yourself, IRL, have you seen women willingly fuck guys they knew had gf’s? I sure as shit have. Just as much as I’ve seen men do it. Yet on PPD, it’s all “I would never!” Think about that the next time you ask PPD women to admit anything that could remotely have a negativ…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/22 08:43 AM
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Explain thirst traps and other validation seeking behavior which are absolutely rampant with even average women these days. Also, believing you wear lululemons, contouring makeup and push-up bras “for meeeeee!1!1l” is the definition of a lack of self awareness. Yeah, and that girl on Insta with her ass sticking out of her yoga pants really just wants you to appreciate the amazing vista she’s looking at along with that fortune cookie motivational quote. 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/22 07:40 AM
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Insta thots, egirls , onlyfans. Even “normal” girls post thirst traps. The truth is blatantly obvious. Women love attention and validation, yes even from random men. The end.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/22 07:35 AM
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Spoiler alert: She’ll cheat on him when he has a low point himself.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/22 07:30 AM
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Again. The gender of empathy strikes again. “Men share your emotions more!” … “NOT LIKE THAT!1!1” Yeah. No shit. Men should be helped to not look at women as these innocent angels to be deferred to and “protected” at every opportunity. Womens idea of helping with mens mental health boils down to “Be more feminist you toxic male!” Real helpful. Meanwhile men have to dress in pink for breast cancer awareness month.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/22 07:07 PM
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Ah the old “dick wet” retort. The sure sign of a good faith engagement. Yes. Not ever experiencing sex, social interaction or intimacy will not result in sudden death. Nor will not having any friends, love, or even sunlight. I guess you’ll just shrug at how “entitled” people are when they take their own lives due to a miserable existence. I suppose you’d be fine living in a gimp crate so long as your “needs” are met such as food and water. Cool. Anything that doesn’t literally kill you within da…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/22 05:27 PM
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How does this refute the point I just brought up. A minority of sociopathic men who rape are not representative of lonely / sexually unsuccessful men in general. By conflating the two it’s basically saying “it’s ok to hate and castigate men who see sex as a need because they are rapists” No. The two are not related. Not remotely. It’s like telling a broke person who says “I need more money to be happy” that they should STFU because somebody stole their wallet the other day and you are not entitl…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/22 03:33 AM
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Neither is giving birth yet many women find it very very important. But, let me, as a man tell that woman getting IVF to STFU about it because “giving birth is not a need” See how that works out.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/22 03:19 AM
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This is not how you logic. If you complain about income inequality, does that also mean you are automatically demanding people just “give you money” ? No. It generally means that “something is wrong with the system and many people are falling through the cracks and being left in a sometimes miserable state of affairs and we should try to address that in a holistic way” Would your answer be that “people steal all the time and there’s also welfare. You’re not entitled to Elon Musk’s money you bitt…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/22 03:03 AM
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Men literally do just take it all the time. Be that through groping, rape, sexual harassment. Which men do this? Answer that specifically. Can somebody explain to me how this line of thinking is this any different than answering an argument around income inequality among urban minorities with telling them that they are acting entitled to jobs because “Blacks steal”? It’s insane that we can just let this shit roll off as “men do [insert evil thing here], therefore young men who are literally dyin…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/22 03:00 AM
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I made the accurate claim that merely saying “hello” is cited as harassment by many women of the man is deemed “creepy” which is another catch all phrase women use to mean “guy who is unattractive to me”
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/22 02:52 AM
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Light speed hamstering. First, my condolences on FDS closing down. Second, all you are doing here is arguing with straw men. You keep using catch all phrase like “Ill mannered” without ever defining the behavior because you know it’s outlier and not representative of the meek timid guys working up the courage to shoot their shot only to get treated like potential rapists. Third, your just world fallacy crap about “ugly guys are the disrespectful ones” flies in the face of reality and shows you a…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/22 02:12 AM
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Lol nice try. A. Keep trying to act like some guy dressed like that wouldn’t cause anybody to bat an eye when you know goddamn well if some dude was just chilling in a bar or cafe like that women would be complaining about being made to feel “uncomfortable” by the guy showing off his giant hog. You know this is true. Hamster all you want. B - Solipsism. Women’s definition of “leering” and “bothering” depends entirely on how attractive they see the man. More hamstering. Finally your passive aggre…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/22 01:33 AM
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I guess this is what the men at your Trader Joe’s and the local bar in your neighborhood dress like. Sure thing. See it every day. 🤣 Wonder what would happen if I went to work / ran errands like that. 🤔 Women have made it crystal clear that being creepy / harassing or as you put it being “Hard up and weird to women” = the crime of saying “hi” and smiling while ugly. Somehow Chad says “sup” and is banging you in the ass within the hour and isn’t “creepy” Funny that.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/22 10:14 PM
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Lol. Yes. Swimmers wear swimsuits when swimming too! What a revelation! On what planet are you on the guys are just waltzing around in biker shorts at a bar, grocery store, Starbucks or at work. Not this one. However, you do see women routinely half naked, either painted on yoga pants or ass cheek showing daisy dukes *nowhere near a gym or physical activity” This is maximum deliberate obtuseness on fully display. “mEn aNd wOmEn bOtH wEaR skIn tIgHt aNd rEvEAlInG clOtheS!1!1l” Lmao. Stop it. If w…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/22 08:56 PM
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You brought up niche physical activities in which men wear somewhat revealing clothing. Contrast that with women who wear that shit when they’re getting groceries. Nah you won’t do that because then tyour straw man would be revealed for all to see. Women who wear revealing clothing will get looked at and sometimes approached by men. The end. Your inability to understand much less empathize with men who experience sexual attraction and drive far far different from your own is unsurprising. Give w…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/22 06:15 PM
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Bingo. As with just about everything women bitch about when it comes to men: Apex Fallacy
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/22 05:06 PM
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Lmao bringing up cyclists. Stop it. At the gym wearing that nut hugger shit for a guy is such a rarity it’s laughable and when you see it everybody is thinking “look at this showboating douche” Contrast this with women, where they all wear pussy showing lululemons and daisy dukes, around town, to bars, just around town and sometimes to work and then have the nerve to complain “ewww creeps keep eye raping me!” For you to compare some dude showing off his junk in skin tight shorts to women walking…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/22 02:55 PM
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Men who are honest and respectful about their struggles don’t get hate. Absolute bullshit. Lol cruise to literally any subreddit and watch men get called entitled misogynists for everything from not wanting to fuck fat women to complaining about getting strung along by a girl using him.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/22 08:14 AM
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Stop trying to tell men how to talk.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/22 08:12 AM
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Stop trying to police how men communicate with each other.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/22 08:04 AM
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You know damn well “harassment” is when an ugly guy looks at a hot woman let alone talks to her. Here you are already trying to make some ridiculous false dichotomy of a momentary glance and basically being chased down the street. Most women would call a man turning around to see a girls ass “harassment” And for the love of fuck stop with the “women don’t do X so men shouldn’t either” Women are NOT men. You don’t have visual sexuality, the testosterone nor the onus of being the approached while …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/22 08:00 AM
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Yes wear clothes so tight people can literally see your pussy lips then get mad when you get checked out. This is such nonsense. Women would lose their shit about being made to feel “uncomfortable” if some guy was strutting around with leggings so tight his cock and balls were completely visible.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/22 07:55 AM
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Don’t forget “Gay Lube Oil” Holy shit there are some storytellers on that sub.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/22 07:48 AM
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“Good person” = “man who serves women and puts their needs before his own and never ever calls women on their shit”
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/22 08:47 PM
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TF are you talking about? Lol. This is literally a discussion about men doing romantic things for people they are in a dating / in a relationship with.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/22 03:47 AM
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Yes. As we all know a woman shows how special she thinks a man is by not fucking him. Damn. Now it all makes sense. 🤣 Also, of course women are never, ever transactional with their “romantic” behavior towards men. Nope, as ever on PPD, women are selfless angels whose only motivation is to “make the world a better place™” It’s especially comedic hearing somebody hamster that when a man in a literal romantic relationship can’t even want sex in a romantic context as a component of such a scenario l…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/22 03:20 AM
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Not saying that’s a picnic, but if you’ve tasted (and smelled) some of the pussies I’ve had to go down (and stay down) on, you probably wouldn’t pat your self on the back for swallowing a salty load.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/22 02:18 AM
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Wtf do you think RP tells men to do it not introspect? It certainly doesn’t do what FDS does and tell you to fold your arms and stubbornly declare yourself a kween who is perfect as is.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/22 12:13 AM
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Keep touching me like that and you’ll draw back a stump.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/22 03:21 PM
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How TF can anybody make the case that the cancer that is social media has not been incredibly detrimental in ways we can’t even fathom yet? Not all media trends are “neutral” like the telephone. Can anybody say with a straight face that we are a more informed and intelligent populace since the rise of 24 hour cable news? Those mediums trade on anxiety, fear, frustration and rage. They feed it at every opportunity. Social media is even more insidious because it’s wrapped up in a “fun” facade. The…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/22 06:02 AM
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my tenure at The Red Pill University. Man ya cum loudly
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/22 05:43 AM
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“Just grow a jaw bro!” And what people keep missing about the notion of the top 20% is that it’s the top 20% of the perceived available men. Not men in general. If a woman is remotely attractive and on social media, she’s gonna get hit up by Chads left and right. Those Chads now represent the aspirational “top 20” Likewise, it can work the other way… If you have ever walked into a bar full of disheveled elderly alcoholics and you happen to be a fairly well groomed but average guy, you are now go…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/22 05:34 AM
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Every man needs game and strategy. Every single one. Only a (theoretical) dumb fuck who has no clue how dating works for men would insinuate they just walk into it without optimizing their strategy.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/22 05:25 AM
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Sounds like you're just bitching people don't want to have sex with you. Paging Mrs. Degree to say "Don't make things personal / keep things civil" and ban your ass - Oh wait - that's only for men... How in the fuck is pointing out that men have to optimize their strategies to have sex? If befriending a woman can lead to sex why TF is that "wrong"? Because woman says so? Okay. I've had tons of women that I was like "I'd love to bang her" then hung around and legitimately enjoyed their company, t…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/22 05:16 AM
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Women (the gender that gets sex effortlessly) telling men what’s “right or wrong” for men to do in pursuit of obtaining that which is very difficult. Now it’s “don’t befriend women you want to have sex with” Lmao. Is there anything short of being a groveling simp who declares “I would like to chaperone you on a friendly tea courtship” that PPD women would think of as not creepy / asshole behavior? Jesus.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/22 05:04 AM
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Behavior doesn’t matter “more” than looks to women lol - it merely is another in a long list of deal breakers that women have the privilege of choosing from. Women will take a poorly behaved Chad over a compliant beta any day of the week and everybody knows it. On the other hand, Most men have to put up with histrionic social media addicted narcissists. It’s just accepted because it’s so common for any remotely attractive woman to have those characteristics.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/22 12:03 AM
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Something wrong, hungarian_builder? You’re sweating.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/22 07:32 AM
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Also… chincel baldcel
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/22 06:32 AM
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I’m saying the guys women publicly claim they want nothing to do with are very often the same guys they will fuck in the bathroom and hope nobody notices. Hence - trusting women to voluntarily and truthfully tell you what “they like” is pointless.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/22 01:48 AM
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Disagree based on several decades of lived experience but ok.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/22 01:45 AM
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Yeah I’ve seen girls who like fat bear guys too. That’s the exception not the rule.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/22 01:42 AM
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The only way Height > Face is if you are below 5’9. No girl is passing up the 5’11 guy with model looks for the 6’7 ogre.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/22 01:31 AM
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Thanks, I will. Why, because women lack self awareness or are abject liars when it comes to what they are attracted to. Is that even a debate anymore? That’s not news. The amount of times I’ve personally witnessed girls call some hot dude an “asshole” before fucking him is beyond counting. I watch what they do, and DGAF what they say, especially on PPD where the women will always parrot whatever they think makes them look virtuous. Or maybe I should listen to the same women calling 6’2 West Elm …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/22 01:25 AM
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That first photo of him looks like every other skinny dork in my office. Sure, Jan. Blonde hair, blue eyes, high cheek bones, sharp features, defined jawline. Just your average “dork” lol. You expect people to believe this shit?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/22 12:50 AM
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This notion that a tall ugly ass guy will pull with ease is only something shortcels say. Sorry no. SMV isn’t this straightforward. It’s a game of demerits rather than a game of force multipliers. Being 6’7 might get you attention from some niche of extreme height queens, but 6’0 is more than enough to get the height bonus. Under 5’10 you’ll get no bonus and under 5’8 you will lose points. In any case, anything above 5’9 and face is by far the most important factor.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/22 12:49 AM
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100% exactly. Guys that have anything resembling a dating life in my industry is about 20-25% at most. There are another 25% who are married and aren’t in the game anymore. The rest? I haven’t seen them with a woman in several years. It’s Video games, Netflix and (I assume) porn for them. Oh and they are all the nicest chill guys I’ve ever met. The same guys PPD women claim should have e no problems because of their great personalities.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/22 12:44 AM
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Riiiight. nothing special. Nope. Just an average joe. I’m sure your best buddy looks just like him 🤣 Lemme guess, in reality every woman secretly prefers this douche TF is with guys being unable to understand why somebody who isn’t a generic jock Chad having panty dropping appeal. Is this like a midwestern thing where it’s only some generic corn fed bro with a backwards hat that they see as appealing? Lemme guess, women don’t actually want to fuck russel brand either because he’s not “ripped” Je…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/22 12:08 AM
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Ok. There’s a reason people say “clothes make the man” Some people can Nichemaxx and MGK is one of those because his foundation (facial bone structure) is there. If he had a face like Squidward, it won’t mattered what he does. And that’s the point.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/22 10:53 PM
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Uh huh. Gonna have to agree to disagree. Some of my closest friends were goth band guys who those girls gushed over. Muscular they were not. Do bigger guys exist in that demographic? Sure. But they by no means out did the skinny / pretty goth guy. The hyper masculine thing doesn’t buy you shit in that demo. But maybe you were in some midwestern goth club where it’s a bunch of suburbanites playing dress up. You are succumbing to the trap that so many RP men do. You are thinking what you deem attr…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/22 09:49 PM
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The proportion of how much of a man's attractiveness is facial vs bodily wasn't the question, it's how much any individual man's attractiveness changes based on his body type. MGK would be rated more attractive by almost every single woman if he were more muscular, that is an indisputable fact based on the literature. No. He would be rated more attractive by a different, albeit larger demographic of basic bitches and soccer moms. So, basically he’d spend inordinate hours in the gym to switch fro…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/22 09:32 PM
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Agreed. It was confusing wording. I’m giving the benefit of the of the doubt because the tone of the post seems reasonable.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/22 08:45 PM
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Autistic and binary thinking. You are imagining a generic guy. Yes, for most guys with an average face, having abs is better than a dad bod. For young men, being a muscular jock is going to be better than a lanky nerd. But you have enough women that actively like the MGK type that a guy who looks like that will get laid at will anyway. He doesn’t need to work out to have girls trying to fuck him. Face is 100% the most important thing and it’s not close. Put some guy with a busted face on roids a…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/22 08:42 PM
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No. There are tons of women that like him precisely because he has that emaciated “heroin chic” look. He would be leaving those womens demographic in order to appeal to another group. You’re thinking like a guy. Possibly a gay guy. Muscles aren’t remotely important as immutable genetic characteristics like jaw line, eyes, skin quality, bone structure, etc. Does it hurt the average guy? Of course not, but the diminishing returns of lifting is clear. I say this as somebody who lifts regularly. It …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/22 08:29 PM
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Yes. A guy who looks like a male model would appeal to an even larger demographic than he already does if he put on some muscle. Guess what? a guy that looks like MGK can fuck more pussy than he would ever possibly want without lifting a single weight. An ugly guy putting on muscle would go from appealing to zero women all the way up to a very tiny minority of them. If you want to use terms like “better” or “improve” you need to specify the proportion here. Gymcels are a thing for a reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/22 08:26 PM
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To be fair, I’m assuming the example was referring to the “male counterpart” being the abuser in a particular relationship rather than a man being abused by a woman in another relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/22 08:24 PM
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Saying it’s “better” for an ugly guy to be strong is like saying it’s “better” to smell like onions rather than shit. I mean, okay yeah. Your chances go from zero to .01 at the expense of spending half your life obsessing over diet and PR’s. Simple question : would the more women rather fuck emaciated but pretty Machine Gun Kelly who has never seen the inside of a gym or jacked but butt ugly Mike “The Situation” who had to use gear and lift religiously? That’s what I thought.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/22 08:01 PM
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Personally, I believe in taking care of myself, and a balanced diet and a rigorous exercise routine. In the morning, if my face is a little puffy, I'll put on an ice pack while doing my stomach crunches. I can do a thousand now. After I remove the ice pack, I use a deep pore cleanser lotion. In the shower, I use a water activated gel cleanser. Then a honey almond body scrub. And on the face, an exfoliating gel scrub. Then apply an herb mint facial mask, which I leave on for 10 minutes while I pr…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/22 07:39 PM
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Thought I’d get some kind of gaslighting non-answer like this. Dave, this conversation can serve no purpose anymore. Goodbye.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/22 07:36 PM
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You are mistaking cause and effect. I’m guessing this discussion isn’t going to lead anywhere, so before I engage further, I’ll ask you this simple question: What is mens primary motivation in life, what most influences their behavior and directs their life pursuits?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/22 07:33 PM
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Oh well if BeauifulTomatillo says young men are merely choosing porn over an actual sex life, I guess it’s case closed. Clearly, women’s dating and sexual habits haven’t changed whatsoever in the last 15-20 years with the advent of social media and online dating. Nope. They’ve stayed exactly the same as they’ve always been. I’ll just ignore the countless evidence and stories that indicate the exact opposite because we have such a scientific and well thought out thesis.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/22 07:23 PM
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Shocker. ITT, Women claiming everything is working out swimmingly. All the “guys they know” have no problem hooking up even when out or a relationship. And the only guys having trouble are merely “toxic RP types” No gaslighting going on here. Nosiree. 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/22 06:57 PM
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Social media entered the chat. Also, it’s a point that’s been a thousand times, but I’ll make it again: Porn and video games are a symptom of the hostile and soul destroying dating environment young men experience and not the cause. No young man is actively choosing porn over having a real girlfriend. None.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/22 06:51 PM
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Another study that proves a well understood RP point and another thread full of Amber Heards quickly yelling “nuh-uh!” then plugging their ears while screaming “lalalalala” Now let’s get back to how important it is that we create laws to stop ugly men from talking to women at bus stops. The empathy gender strikes again.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/22 05:07 PM
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Out here gaslighting at every opportunity then claiming it doesn’t happen. The irony. Men value sex differently and society values men who are sexually successful differently. That is what you aren’t understanding. Or you’re simply refusing / pretending not to. Almost every insult and dig aimed at men, especially those levied by women is about his sexual / romantic competence or their general utility to women. Why do you think that is?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/22 04:53 PM
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Same. I’ve found 9/10 times I’ve ended up having the “oh well tough shit” attitude towards other peoples problems. Especially womens problems when it comes to things like being made “uncomfortable” I could give less of a fuck and I sure as shit am not going to “call out” some other guy for doing it. 10 years ago I might have but today when it’s been made clear that I’m “the enemy” I will no longer lift a finger.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/22 04:28 PM
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“I just stare at my desk but it looks like I’m working…”
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/22 03:59 PM
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We’re talking about how easy sex and dating is not who has more time to play video games or can reach the top cabinet. Even if the woman you described only had time for a couple of dates a week, that’s still 8 a month and with virtually no effort on her part other than swiping on an app. Compare this with the average man who has to work his ass off to get even one date a month regardless of how much time he has.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/22 03:27 AM
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I agree with all that. I’m way more relaxed when in an LTR. But your post only confirms what we all know, and what women seem to be incapable of acknowledging. Dating for single women is a passive hobby Dating for single men is a second job
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/22 02:02 AM
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Ich habe genug von dem affentheater.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/22 07:46 PM
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Cultural atomization and social media entered the chat.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/22 07:34 PM
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Correct. Where is the “choose which dinner date to go on when I don’t feel like cooking?” Because that’s what an average woman can do every night of the week if she wants. Even if she doesn’t want to, the chances of her grinding some crazy schedule like that are very small since her income doesn’t effect her SMV whatsoever and barely effects her RMV if she makes even a livable wage.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/22 06:03 PM
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Lmao Works til 3 half the year Wonders why men grinding to be deemed merely “average” to women don’t have an easy time having an active social life. Checks out. 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/22 03:09 PM
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I run on my ten hour days when the weather is nice. My commute is 20 minutes. My budget doesn’t allow for eating out daily. I cook. Paddling, hiking, bowling and every concert and farmers market are opportunities for socializing. Uh huh. Let's see: 8 AM - Wake up, cook, shower, get ready 9 AM - Go To Work 9:30 - Start your 10 hour day 8:30 - PM - End your 10 hour day 9:00 - Home, start cooking 9:30 - Eat dinner 10:00 - PM ... presumably read, hike, paddle and run all while meeting and socializin…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/22 02:49 PM
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Show me where you work out, much less run hike and paddle ON your “four ten” days. Then show me your commute schedule. Then show me where you cook your meals. Show me how you turn running, paddling, hiking and reading into opportunities to socialize and meet women on a regular basis. Even when if you do all that. The average church mouse woman still can passively get asked out / invited to shit by merely existing and making a couple of posts on social media. EDIT: Oops. Just realized you’re a wo…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/22 02:28 PM
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Tell me what a real schedule looks like for a single adult man with a career who also wants to date.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/22 01:51 PM
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4 days a week.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/22 01:50 PM
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This nonsense again. In 2022, if an average guy over the age of say, 25 wants to even appear on a woman’s radar he has to: Have a “good career” Have a nice place or his own Have a nice car Be fit That’s all in addition to the already high looks threshold. 1-3 invokes likely 50+ hours of grinding. Add in a commute and you’re easily at 60 hours. Let’s say you leave for work 7am, work until 6pm and get home at 7pm. 12 hours burned. Oh, I almost forgot. You have to work out because women demand fit …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/22 04:53 AM
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Imao. Yes. Real estate agent … barista. Same thing. 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/22 08:33 AM
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“Hey. The kid was 8, not like he was a baby or anything. Anyway lemme get ur number”
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/22 08:26 AM
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Lmao. Rome lasted as an empire for 500+ years and the Byzantine version of it 1000. But keep telling yourself the the modern wests 200 years is “very stable” 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/22 08:23 AM
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You mean like decadence, gluttony, a loss of cohesive cultural identity, constant civil strife, cynicism, government corruption and a loss of influence all while having an apathetic population being pacified by bread and circuses? Yeah. That sounds pretty familiar.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/22 08:19 AM
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Lol listen to the excellent “Fall of civilizations” podcast and you’ll get proven wrong about a hundred times. Countless empires have come and gone and many have collapsed over far more trivial things than the rapidly unfolding social cancers we are seeing in the west.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/22 08:18 AM
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Imagine you are an infertile woman and are having severe existential pain over not being able to have a child and, instead of recommending the accepted and legal method of adoption, every man tells you "Just hire some kid to pretend to be your loving child for a day! Problem solved!" That's what women throwing out the "just get a hooker!" canard are doing.The punchline is that those same women would call you a pathetic loser for having to pay and a predator for "exploiting a woman".It's female g…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/22 01:59 AM
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women love all kinds of men
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/22 09:08 PM
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#1 - Not wrong about #1. You simply thought you were a case of #1(Hard No), when in reality you were a #2 (Soft Maybe) If you are a maybe and simp hard enough for a woman and provide enough utility to her, she may throw you some crumbs. This isn't the same as legitimate attraction. You also have no idea if she had considered you fuckable in the first place. The other way around #2 is to have enough game, but well... #2 - Lol If a girl doesn't like you, "You're personality sucks"? Great advice, "…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/22 06:53 PM
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You’re pointlessly talking in circles here. None of this speaks to any of the points in OP. We’re getting nowhere and seemingly having different conversations so I’m gonna punch out of this reply chain. Thanks.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/22 09:31 AM
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“Your post partum depression is just a temporary feeling like “Your angst over being touched by your uncle is just a temporary feeling” Getting burned by that hot stove is a “temporary feeling” So fucking what?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/22 09:25 AM
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My question was in regards to the categories I cited. The MGTOW category is simply a sub category I didn’t add which is “men who have moderate amounts of sex but withdrew entirely from the SMP out of frustration” That is not what we are talking about for item 1. Most frustrated average men are the types you see on RP. That is, guys with scarcity but not absolute zero. They live a life of opportunistic foraging for sex basically. That, again, is Not #1. I am talking about men who were / are all a…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/22 09:20 AM
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Who said I wasn’t capable of seeing this? At best it means there is one category I left out “the average man who is fed up with the effort required to get pussy” MGTOW basically.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/22 09:13 AM
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Um ok. Sure. Men can beat off. That’s not news. The fact that if men do not beat off for long enough they teeter on the verge of violence doesn’t tell you something about the nature of the male sex drive? The issue is that a lifetime of beating off often takes a heavy toll on a man as he comes to realize he will never feel the touch of a real woman. There is such a thing as “skin hunger” and all sorts of subtle effects from leading a sexless existence for so long. Jesus. Why are people acting li…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/22 09:09 AM
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Platitudes. If you go your whole life without sex, but wanted to have sex you are a sexual failure. Society (and especially women) aren’t shy about saying so to men. If you consciously decide “sex isn’t something I want or desire to have” that’s one thing. What percentage of men do you think truly feel that way?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/22 09:07 AM
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Ok so you are coming with the “people are people” cop out / catch all argument in regards to sex, as if men and women don’t experience sexuality and sex drives very differently. Not much more to discuss then. Women don’t experience sexual frustration with near the ferocity and all encompassing physiological effects that men do. That is not debatable. Comparing men and womens horniness is laughable tbh.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/22 08:49 AM
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This sounds like a healthy way to look at it. But how does it feel when women here on PPD basically ridicule you by implication? Ie saying men who masturbate to porn are creeps, etc or that men who can’t get sex are just defective losers with bad personalities?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/22 08:47 AM
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So in the midst of all that, you failed to answer the main question: Ask yourself honestly, would you feel so pragmatic and dispassionate about sex if you spent your entire life as a sexual failure? Very doubtful.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/22 08:44 AM
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That’s a fair assessment. But It’s sort of a chicken and egg thing for a lot of men I believe. Being made to understand you are a sexual failure and a completely unfuckable person can take its toll on men because men are expected to be proactive and thus take countless soul crushing rejection while playing “the numbers game” This is something women don’t experience and they are just fine with that.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/22 08:42 AM
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So is your claim that men do not have far higher and proactive sex drives than women? That men do not think about sex very very frequently whether they partake in it or not? How is it relevant that men choose to not go out and actually do the fucking?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/22 08:32 AM
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But again, the fact that you never hear somebody reach the mentality you have without also saying basically “I fucked it out of my system” is telling. If you hadn’t “burned out” JT were in fact facing extreme scarcity and rejection, you’d likely still be pursuing it.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/22 08:17 AM
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Allow me to interrupt this circle jerk of clit rubbing to point out that you are all doing the exact shit being talked about. Literally incapable of taking a momentary break from your own victim identity to contemplate unique challenges another group of humans (men) face because you feel you are higher in the oppression pyramid. You then use your experiences with select shit / evil men as the reason why you “don’t need to care about men at all” and, hilariously, rehash the trope that “men need t…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/22 08:08 AM
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Furries also exist. They are also not the subject of this discussion. We are talking about generalities because that is how human beings navigate social structures.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/22 07:51 AM
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Yes. Whoever heard the notion that men are very sex driven and are preoccupied with obtaining it. Never happened.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/22 07:18 AM
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Being the exception to the rule doesn’t make the example “wrong” let alone “offensive” lol. Thanks for sharing though.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/22 06:44 AM
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Again, taking your partner for granted is all people in all relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/22 06:39 AM
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This post is very sensible and helpful so I’m not going to harp on the negatives this time (again, making mens unique problems sound like universal “human condition” issue when it’s clearly almost exclusively unique to men, and thus nobody gives a shit) I will only address the notion that because never experiencing intimacy won’t literally kill you it’s no big deal in terms of a fucking with a persons mental health. That is not how it works. There is living and then there is “existing” You can “…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/22 06:16 AM
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It's not hard to understand why a man who faces a dry spell of months to years would be more inclined to be more attentive to and prioritize a woman's needs. Men know their place in the SMP and generally act accordingly. A guy that knows he could be fucking some new hottie within a week is the guy who is going to not give a flying fuck about pretending to like that Rom Com you want to watch.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/22 05:34 AM
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Lol. I'm definitely not one of those guys. Most of my friends know me as a chronic misanthrope (I know - not surprising) But, it's part of what we laugh about. Making fun of our difficulties and anxieties.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/22 05:31 AM
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Wow. This is probably the most interesting story in this thread. Basically you experienced the benefits of the old dating paradigm before "OLD" dating came of age to upend everything. A time where less conventional guys weren't compared to a literal endless catalog of genetically engineered Chads. I think you got the best of both worlds honestly. Being a non-chad guy who already "had his fun" is about the best case scenario. I'd say even Chads who are still stuck on the hedonic treadmill have it…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/22 05:30 AM
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It started off strong, but then turned into yet another flippant post along the lines of "too bad you can't get your dick wet! teehee!" nonsense. There's a reason people talk about "the hierarchy of needs" The mantra of "get over it" is unhelpful. It's like telling the guy locked in a cage to "get over it" because he's watching people from his cage bars happily go about their normal lives. (and yes this is hyperbole before somebody chimes in with some straw man) Would you go tell a woman with po…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/22 05:25 AM
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Probably true. But in tech I know many people around my own age (btw 40-50) that fit this description. True that many, maybe most are paired up by then, but it's very common to find in the tech industry.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/22 05:19 AM
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Thanks for sharing. It's interesting to hear how different people arrive at this place. ​ though most people seem to believe that women have a lower sex drive overall, due to hormones) To be clear, this isn't a "belief" it's a biological fact. I've never experienced the thought of 'that person walking down the street is attractive, I would like to sleep with them'. Every normal boy past the age of 14 has felt this. That is the difference between male and female sexuality.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/22 05:18 AM
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True. It's hard to separate which is the symptom or cause.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/22 05:13 AM
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Oddly, as much as I rant and rave on this sub, I've had similar experiences. Although for me it has always been feast or famine, which is oddly more frustrating than the periods where I had just "given up" It has a lot to do with the fact that women are repelled by men who are in a funk or a down turn, so you are just stuck waiting around to "get lucky" unless you are good looking enough to get women expressing unsolicited attention (as you were). As another poster here recently said: "When you …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/22 05:12 AM
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Fair.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/22 04:52 AM
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It’s called intimacy and there are different kinds. How is this confusing.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/22 04:23 AM
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Nice try. It’s more that mens sexual experience is more centered around an actual living breathing human being present. Lol @ trying to reframe this shit as “you just want to use women!” Mutually enjoyable sex is not “using” anybody. Fuck outta here with that nonsense.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/22 04:17 AM
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Who the hell is talking about women “not having a choice”?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/22 04:15 AM
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This is fair, but there is birth control so claiming “baby” is the issue is kind of weird.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/22 04:12 AM
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Again with the “dick wet” nonsense. Disregarded.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/22 04:11 AM
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If you literally can’t have sex regardless of effort, you are an incel no matter how you see yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/22 04:11 AM
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Cool. The vast majority of men aren’t like that. They don’t remotely get satisfaction from “toys” or porn in the way they do from actual sex. I realize women seem content fucking pieces of rubber and plastic and I don’t hate on them for that. It’s their inability to understand how to be sane doesn’t go for men that’s the issue.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/22 04:09 AM
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it seems like you think empathy means they should have sex with you, which frankly demonstrates that you don't understand what empathy is. Male suicide is the example you’re looking for, not “casual sex.” Another lazy ass “can’t get your dick wet!” post added to the pay no mind list. Fuck modern women have really been poisoned to see men in the worst light at all times.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/22 04:06 AM
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False dichotomy. A life without intimacy or feeling legitimate feminine desire is not analogous to “putting women into on a pedestal”
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/22 04:05 AM
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Thanks for sharing your story honestly and not projecting any judgment on the other examples. It was legitimately interesting to hear how you arrived at the place you’re at and it does make a lot of sense. I will say, I can’t see most men arriving at a place of peace with their situation without first experiencing the dead ends and ubiquitous sex you had in the first place. This is similar to women “settling down” A man who is starved for intimacy is going to have some detrimental effects to his…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/22 04:01 AM
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Again, a fake dick apparently is “enough” for most women. “Fake pussy” has no such equivalent.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/22 03:55 AM
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Oddly I have a similar experience. Raised by women. I was the youngest of 4 children and the only boy. Single mother. 2 aunts. MIA dad etc. I have seen the drama and for the first half of my long life thought it was my duty to indulge it and comfort them / solve their issues like a “good man” does. No more.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/22 03:51 AM
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First what’s the point in engaging those who use the unbelievably tired straw man of “I don’t feel bad just because men can’t get their dick wet” That’s the laziest and irrelevant shit ever. It’s also utterly disingenuous to conflate men who die virgins to men who “can’t easily get casual sex” Second, please show me all the hashtag campaigns that women have launched supporting, say, astronomically higher levels of male suicide that goes beyond complaining about “tOxiC mAscYlinIty!1!”
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/22 03:42 AM
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That’s all reality. I wish more people would just be this honest about things but too many cling to a just world fallacy. The inability for of women to feel empathy for anything men (and only men) experience remains shocking to me but no longer surprising.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/22 03:36 AM
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It was a bunch to pseudo intellectual nonsense with no more bearing on reality than saying “go become a monk in the Himalayas” It’s basically nofap babble.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/22 03:28 AM
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No thanks. Not in to cults.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/22 03:27 AM
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Cool. Men don’t work like that. Can women respect that rather than constantly saying “just do what we do! Fuck an inanimate object! Except. Don’t use porn because we don’t need to. And that’s gross and problematic. Teehee”
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/22 03:26 AM
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Women are taught to defer to men, to support men, and to be understanding of men's emotions and urges. They are taught to forgive men's anger, and not set them off. Lmao. This isn’t the 50’s, It’s 2022. In 2022 this is absolute bullshit. No reasonable person would say that men are “deferred to” much less “their urges should be understood”. Only somebody that has been living under a rock would believe this. Society doesn't shrug at the higher suicide rates. Go to websites of suicide prevention we…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/22 03:23 AM
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Many many women in this thread seem to be very content with sexlessness. I still think voluntarily going sexless is vastly different psychologically than knowing you cant get sex it / when you want it.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/22 03:16 AM
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Girl dad was huge and trending when Kobe Bryant died taking his girl to her basketball game. Then women started bringing up rape allegations like clockwork lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/22 03:12 AM
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If I’m expected to believe that women commonly express sympathy for issues men / boys face issues (not just general human empathy with your child or spouse) then we are not living on the same planet. Show me where women empathize with the pressures men and boys face with romance, sex and dating. All I have seen for the past 20 years is a mass demonization of men and boys, and subsequent skyrocketing suicide rates. Not a whole lot of noise being made about that by women. Plenty of noise about “ma…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/22 03:10 AM
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Ok. So asexual. Gotcha. Not really relevant to the discussion.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/22 03:05 AM
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Then you are an extreme outlier and if you are honest you will admit this.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/22 03:04 AM
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Here’s the difference - women often say how masturbation is “superior” to mediocre sex. Virtually no men say this. A hand is no substitute for a pussy.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/22 03:04 AM
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You ignored the entire point. You listed a whole bunch of ways in which women have it uniquely bad (which I acknowledge) but seem to be incapable of acknowledging the vast disparity in frequency and severity men experience rejection in regards to dating and sex. It would be like me telling the (true) story of a married woman hounding me at work to go for a lunch quickie with her to the ubiquitous sexual advances so many more women face so much more often.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/22 02:11 AM
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For category 1, when someone doesn't have sex for so long, their body eventually gets used to it and thoughts about sex and erections become almost non-existent. Your dick eventually becomes limp and almost never gets an erection. That's why so many virgin men experience erectile dysfunction - they don't have sex for so long, their dick doesn't know how to properly work around a woman. Ugh. After 6 months this is what I’m experiencing and it’s fucking terrifying. I’m ready to try an escort just …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/22 02:00 AM
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Do you masturbate?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/22 01:55 AM
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Lol. Yes. Did fucking happen. Or maybe I imagined all those times I was called gay, had a drink thrown at me or was straight up punched in the face. #believemen
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/22 01:54 AM
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Your point is well taken. I made the same mistake I complain about. I don’t have a huge sample size of how men behave in relationships so I can’t speak to that the way a woman can. I can speak to how men behave publicly, and by a huge margin it is the less sexually successful men who simp and buy gifts and do favors for women. The Chads I’ve known treated their women like Realdolls and humiliated them for sport in front of their bros.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/22 01:53 AM
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First, can we do away with this “people are people” both sides trope that gets thrown around as a means of dismissing the stark differences in the experience and difficulties men face. It’s always “sexual harassment” this and “sexualized” that when it comes to issues women face. When men discuss their experiences, it seems like every woman has a Tourette’s like “pEopLe arE pEOpLe!1!” response. End of that rant. Now, the point here is that even Chad, by virtue of being a man, has likely experienc…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/22 01:35 AM
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I do also know I can just go on Tinder and get sex, even at 50. I can go get some young Chad with hard D and not even have to deal with men my age and going soft for casual sex. I also know I can ride a Chad and get off. I'll get mine. I mean, you’re smart enough to know that a having the tacit knowledge of this availability is half the battle right? Something so abundant and easy has very little value. It’s why a Chad doesn’t feel the sting or rejection nearly the way an average dude does. He k…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/22 01:02 AM
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Male sex drive does not work like this. Sex is a desire that borders on need for the vast majority of men regardless of “self esteem”
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/22 12:30 AM
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Yeah I really wonder if this is more common than it appears on the surface.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/22 12:28 AM
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No. Fundamentally men can’t relate to any of those but they sure as hell try to and are taught to respect and empathize with women from an early age. They are naturally inclined to feel protective of women and comfort them when they seen them in pain. Men in general are expected if not demand to declare how they are “allies” and awesome “girl dads” See: Gillette Ad for this in action. Ever hear the term “boy mom”? Nope. Meanwhile society shrugs at exponentially higher male suicide rates and wome…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/22 12:20 AM
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I’ve seen women make this exact same claim repeatedly on PPD. I’ve also seen the same women claim that good looking men become ugly based on their personality. Just look at West Elm Caleb. So many women said that they thought he was ugly because they already knew what a douche he was. The attempt here is to clearly imply that women choosing hot guys only makes sense because the ugly guys are just as likely to treat them like shit. This utter bullshit to anybody who has observed the way average g…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/22 11:17 PM
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Right. That’s what I mean. You are in a stasis. It will take a guy to “bring it out” which is why guys are so proactive (ie “harassment”) when it comes to sex and dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/22 11:00 PM
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+1 can relate to much of this. I just can’t jump through the hoops anymore for a lifetime of shit tests and passive aggression.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/22 10:58 PM
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Quite possible.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/22 10:54 PM
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Fair. But 99% of the women on PPD and most that I’ve talked to vociferously profess how they “can’t get turned on by strangers” etc. So, maybe you are an outlier.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/22 10:53 PM
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You’ve got plenty of time. Also, as I said, women’s sexuality is mostly reactive. It will take the right guy to unlock that for you. Nothing wrong with waiting for that.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/22 10:52 PM
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It is. And I’ve honestly come to a place of peace with this thanks to PPD. The literal inability for women, even completely well meaning, kind hearted good women to empathize with any uniquely male experience seems to be absolutely a biological thing. Now I no longer judge them morally for it because they are still good people who just have an inability to understand something as we all do in some cases.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/22 10:50 PM
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Do you see a man and instinctively think “I want to suck the cum out of that guys cock and gargle it”? Because that is basically how me think about women constantly Not the cock and cum part. But you get the point.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/22 10:48 PM
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This has nothing to do with biological reality any more than pontificating on the true difference between need and desire. At the end of the day, human beings can “exist” locked in a 5x7 cage their entire lives. Whether that is true to their nature is another discussion.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/22 10:46 PM
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The environment is ever changing and there is no accounting for individuals because their internal experience is so different. Basically chaos theory. That has nothing to do with evolution. Evolution prefers organisms that have adapted to their current environment which takes millions of years When an environment changes too fast for that organism to adapt to through tens of thousands of years of selective breeding, you have extinction events. Guess how old humans are.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/22 10:44 PM
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I can be aroused by people or situations. But I'd say about 90% of the time it just comes in like a breeze on a summer day, without warning, in response to nothing in particular. This is just an elaborate way to say situations that may or may not be sexual trigger some response. This is not how men work. Men don’t get turned on because they felt the breeze on a warm spring day. They get turned on when they see a girl with a nice ass walk by or talk to a girl with DSL’s or when they even think ab…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/22 10:40 PM
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“Having sex” is not the same as “Feeling the intense desire to have sex” any more than sitting on a couch is the same as having PMS.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/22 10:37 PM
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Right. Which absolutely illustrates the reality: Women’s sex drive is reactive. Men’s sex drive is ever present.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/22 10:35 PM
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Yah I understand and I know these girls exist. Just saying this inability for women to accurately judge girls they like on a personal level is a pretty common thing. IE - Lizzo is “Hot”
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/22 10:34 PM
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Men don’t have this option. It would be like saying women “just don’t prioritize PMS” This is why women have such a hard time understanding how integral this sex drive is to men. They look at it only through the lense of how they experience it and never try to think “what if I wasn’t me, but me with 20x the testosterone? What would that feel like?”
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/22 10:32 PM
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For me, foreplay IS sex. And your brain is your biggest sexual organ. It's entirely possible for you to have a fulfilling sexual relationship with yourself. No. If they are still masturbating they aren't sexless. HELL NO
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/22 10:28 PM
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If you are voluntarily going without sex for "moral reasons" you have a low sex drive by definition, and I promise you have no idea what the male sex drive feels like. The fact that you understand you can easily avoid pregnancy (let alone STD's) yet still elect to abstain indicates you are not fighting as hard as you may think.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/22 10:26 PM
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It's possible that your 'cute chubby' friend is more like 'ugly and obese' and you are wearing your girlfriend glasses when looking at her because she is your friend. I'm just saying, I've seen this many many times with women. "OHHH so-and-so is sooo cute! she's so sweet, and that makes her beautiful!" that's not how guys work at all. Similarly, I've seen women call well above average men all manner of shit. Look how many women on PPD were calling West Elm Caleb a "4" lol. Finally, any guy who c…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/22 10:24 PM
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True, it may be a very pragmatic calculation just based on effort vs reward. It's a terribly dark example, but I suppose if you were a burn victim you would have to choose whether to end it or make peace with your new reality, which thankfully many do.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/22 10:20 PM
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Almost all of my examples are guys who know very well shit is over for them and they've completely accepted it. There is no more hope for any chance meeting in the future for them and they clearly know this. They still seem to be A-OK
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/22 10:14 PM
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Yeah, evolution doesn't work like that. We are running the exact same software we did 100,000 years ago and our hardware hasn't changed much for the last 5000 (since civilization and agriculture became a thing).
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/22 10:13 PM
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The thing is, I've never a met a woman who wasn't morbidly obese or deformed who couldn't find a man to make her feel "special" with relative ease. The issue is almost always they can't find a good looking enough guy to 'make her feel special' because an average boring schlub doesn't make her 'feel special' no matter how good he treats her. This straw man of guys who just 'use women as a fleshlight' does not remotely match my observations. It's almost always that those women are pursuing men who…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/22 10:11 PM
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This is basically my theory too. I think they've arrived at a point of accepting their lot and making the best of it. That lot is that they will likely never feel the touch of a woman for the rest of their lives. I honestly can't imagine arriving at that point.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/22 10:09 PM
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This is very true. And I've met and experienced many women who were basically "sexually dormant" that suddenly activated for me and became fuck machines. It's just odd that they can simply store it away for months and years at a time.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/22 10:08 PM
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Sex drive for me has never 'gone dormant' - It's been a resignation to a phase and even then it's mediated with porn. Obviously, it's not static. 14 year old me is much different than middle aged me, but the urge is still there.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/22 10:07 PM
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I don't know. I know these guys very well, and they've heard me express my frustration plenty around similar issues so they know I wouldn't judge them for it. It really feels like some guys are ok with video games and movies and hanging out w/ buddies once in a while.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/22 10:06 PM
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Birth control exists? Also the notion of needing to reach that level of "vulnerability" illustrates the point. That women have such a low and reactive sex drive that they can dismiss it because the situation isn't perfect.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/22 10:05 PM
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Right, but I think this is predominantly a woman thing because woman's sex drive is pretty reactive. The vast majority of men would count as "hypersexual" if they were women. I'm confident that short of a woman blasting herself with testosterone, there is no way she can have any inkling of what the male sex drive feels like and how all encompassing it is. It would be like a man trying to imagine what a woman feels like during her period, pregnancy or menopause. Men's sex drive is literally a sur…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/22 10:01 PM
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You’re absolutely right. The issues women face are very real, important and in need of addressing and discussing. The issue is when it becomes a zero sum game, and women see men discussing their unique difficulties as somehow taking away from their own issues, and in turn shit on men even more for daring to talk about their own unique issues because they see women’s problems as far more important.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/22 08:50 AM
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Men are driven to be leaders, pioneers and prominent by the very same drive that makes them relentlessly pursue sex. It’s pretty simple.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/22 08:47 AM
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I don’t disagree with anything you said and appreciate the insight. I also don’t believe it’s all on women or feminism. It’s really a product of social media mobs and corporate virtue signaling as much as anything IMO. But the demonization of men and masculinity is fucking a generation of boys up majorly and there is no movement to help outside of telling boys to “be more like girls” That’s a problem IMO. Take a look at the latest story of the kid killing himself because he sent a fucking dick p…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/22 08:05 AM
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The vast majority men greatly desire and prioritize sex and think about it almost constantly. That is a fact. How men handle those feelings is another matter. Similarly, the vast majority of women are inclined to desire the top status men available to them. That is also a fact. How women handle those feelings depends on the individual. RP rightly observes that, in 2022 women are basically celebrated for being “bad bitches” and using men for resources and clout. The lack of accountability / shami…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/22 07:48 AM
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Yes they do or they get swiped left.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/22 06:05 AM
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Preselection entered the chat.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/22 06:01 AM
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Lol wtf. Exact Height is literally front and center on every online dating profile.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/22 05:57 AM
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Lol I guarantee you that you or your friends have said “men do X” many many times. Stop hamstering. People have lived experience that inform their understanding of the way the world works. Bottom line: Hypergamy is real whether you like it or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/22 05:55 AM
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It’s also my “opinion” that a woman can dunk a basketball. Therefore, Lebron James has it just as hard as a woman in a dunk contest. Disagree? Just your “opinion”
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/22 05:52 AM
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Dude likely banged every hot twitch girl plus countless porn stars. It’s hilarious when he tried to give “advice” to guys as if his experience is any more relevant than a hot woman’s.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/22 05:30 AM
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we only took a couple of generations to go from home entertaining and dinner parties being the norm, to people having social anxiety any time they get a package delivered. Depressing. And true.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/22 05:22 AM
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It’s only available on their late night “U Up?” menu.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/22 02:35 AM
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Women arent interested in men who arent personally interested in them. Stop. Lying. What is the purpose of women on PPD blatantly gaslighting like this? Women are “interested” in men who give them tingles. Period. Women will happily date and fuck the aloof, indifferent Chad if he’s hot enough to her. Posts like these are mind boggling in that they must assume men don’t have eyes and a lifetime of experience that shows what abject bullshit this “women are sapiosexual angels” horseshit is.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/22 06:12 PM
0

Damn. Ultra rare thought provoking post.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/22 08:12 PM
4

From 2016-2020 it was a ridiculously common for Trump simping to be woven into every discussion. Shit, you even see it here where “the left” is blamed for sexual failures.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/22 09:54 PM
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I’m RP and this is a dumb take and does not match any reality I’ve ever observed. The only women that women instigate frustration for men are the ones that hurt to lose (ie hot women) From my observations, the primary source of frustration directed at specific women is based on their fickle and hypergamous nature. It’s generally when some woman expresses some interest in a man and then suddenly pulls the rug out due to some dumb shit like finding out he likes some band she hates or a hotter Chad…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/22 09:06 PM
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I’m as red as it gets but before I’m RP I’m honest and self aware. The honest truth is that the RP sub devolved into a circle jerk of Trump Fetishists and anger stage rants. And yes, there was a ton of awful (and sometimes so awful it’s funny) shit posted there. It’s not a surprise that Reddit quarantined it. The main gripe was then not applying the same rules to FDS, but with FDS going away, that is moot. The bottom line is, if you want to have uncensored fringe discussions like RP and FDS do, …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/22 07:34 AM
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Large rabid fan base != main stream. Here’s a clue, when your fan base calls itself an “army” you can rest assured its pretty much a niche. Trump rallies and mega churches can pack stadiums too. Try this: Walk into a bar, club, pool party, whatever where there a lot of attractive and social people. Ask them what their favorite BTS song is, then ask them what their favorite Drake song is. That will show you what mainstream actually means.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/22 06:01 PM
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First off, the pathetic attempt to accuse me of being “anti Asian” really blew what little credibility this reply had but still… Yes they are the “biggest” boy band in the world for a simple reason - they are basically the only boy band. In case you haven’t noticed corny ass boy bands with matching outfits and choreographed dances fell out of favor in the west about a decade ago. They may come back again, as they always do, but for now it’s like Menudo in the early 80’s. They are the only game i…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/22 05:52 PM
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Absolutely, I went from super-simp to a who buys jewelry for a girl on the 3rd date, and literally crying when a girl didn’t like me back to guy who leaves at the first sign of drama. My policy is that I will not ever pursue a woman at the price of my self respect. If you are lukewarm or expecting hoop jumping, I’m out. But, realistically, this has led to dry spells going on months at a time, which didn’t happen before and it’s often hard to fight off the loneliness, skin hunger and basic unfulf…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/22 05:37 PM
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Yes, boy bands have always been around, but we’re talking about Korean pop idol fandom in the west. Don’t act like this is the same as British girls screaming over One Direction. This is a different phenomenon. This is like comparing anime geeks to people who watch Toy Story movies. BTS fan girls are basically female Otaku’s.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/22 05:23 PM
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Really in the sense of them repeating the same pattern: Meet girl and literally / deliberately make an effort to be indifferent if not outright insulting to her. Ordering her around, making his power over her known. Girl continues to pursue him anyway / stick around and try to win him over, which oddly made him disgusted and more cynical about how women are just chasing his newfound Chad looks. At this point he’d really start testing how far she’d go. Typical “u up” stuff. Proceed to test her by…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/22 07:55 AM
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Ah yes. TikTok clout chasers, ever representative of the average Jane / Joe. I can probably pull up some attractive Magic the Gathering players too. PS - HERE is a photo of a BTS fan get together. Yep. Looks like the pinnacle of hot band groupies. No tumblr vibes at all … But hey, maybe a misogynist orchestrated this photo shoot.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/22 07:01 AM
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100% true. Girls think a bitter ugly guy is the worst thing, but formerly ugly / outcast Chads can reach Bundy level bottled anger because they see and experience the utter contrast and hypocrisy of women. Sometimes the exact same women. And eventually these Chads get the double whammy of being both spit on by girls when younger, then blatantly used by women for clout when older. Easily the most casually cruel Chads I’ve know were precisely the type that wore coke bottle glasses, had a bowl cut …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/22 05:37 AM
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The effort is not commensurate with the results. This is the brick wall I think many RP men (myself included) eventually face. After you’ve lifted all the weights, read all the tips, heard all the advice - you are still ultimately at the mercy of a very unfavorable crap shoot. The only exception to this is if you are basically an undercover Chad who got suddenly revealed when losing some body fat and getting a new hairstyle. For the vast majority of guys, you will go from below average / undatab…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/22 04:01 AM
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Lol. Because as all men know, women notoriously treat men “as human beings” and not at all as meal tickets, errand boys, validation factories or full time simps. It’s utterly common for women to literally give dirty looks to a man for existing in her presence while committing the crime of being unattractive. Every man has this experience. Meanwhile, men fall all over themselves to make sure a woman “feels seen”
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/22 03:48 AM
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Nobody said nerdy / geeky girls don’t do drugs to stay out late. The rave scene was full of these types that liked to dress up like the cat in the hat because it was soooo quirky! then down a bunch of molly and drink “smart waters” That is irrelevant to the conversation. Yes, women choose to read “erotica” (gag) far more than men do, but get back to me when the cool / interesting nerd is getting women wet like the millionaire model with a horse cock, Christian Grey. Having a bunch of quirklordes…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/22 03:09 AM
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The thin guy + very attractive / model tier face will pull way more than the “ripped” guy with an average face. Think, prime Leo or Depp vs “The Situation” The Situation is gonna desperately pull up his shirt to show his abs while the girls go home to fuck Leo. The fact that “Jon Snow” would undoubtably be able to pull just as many women as Momoa should tell you how important muscles are.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/22 02:57 AM
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Ah yes. Comparing literal celebrities and movie stars, or in the case of Jost a man who literally stands to inherit an insane fortune. I do agree that this notion of being “jacked” as a prerequisite to being “hot” as a man is dumb though. A tatted up heroin chic “bad boy” with a good face and jawline like MGK for example will still pull.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/22 02:47 AM
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And in my experience almost every woman who openly fawned over androgynous Kpop kids were pasty fat geek girls or middle aged white women with a cat colony. Britney the fit and tanned shots girl is not giving a flying fuck about some goofy ass Kpop boy.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/22 02:44 AM
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This shit about “Hiddlesdick and Cumberbum” somehow being more universally attractive than guys like Evans or Hemsworth is laughable. It misses the utterly obvious caveat here that they are liked and fawned over for their roles Normal girls aren’t “storysexual” out in the world. This is how overweight slashfiction reading geek girls operate. These same types of tumblrinas wrote stories about Harry Potter fucking Snape for Christ sake. Here’s a simple fact: Send Momoa, Evan’s and Hiddlestone into…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/22 02:35 AM
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No. No they don’t have to be any of those things. Any other questions?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/22 11:29 PM
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“Get laid” = dry duty sex with their frigid wife. Shapiro expressed confusion over vaginal wetness and Crowder self declared he was a virgin until his wedding. Pool is a self admitted incel. Try again.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/22 09:46 PM
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Yeah. Fuck everyone else. No social safety nets. PS - Ayn Rand died on social security.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/22 08:40 PM
2

Lol @ Implying that two Walmart trolls spitting out kids = “sexual success” as defined by TRP.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/22 08:35 PM
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Lol. You honestly look at that simpering, scowling elf and think “that is a well adjusted happy man. “ Stop it. He’s reeks of sexual repression and is 100% an incel in spirit it not practice like most right wing pussy repellants like Tim Pool and Crowder.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/22 07:21 PM
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Your claim was that it’s “easy” to satisfy superficial preferences. Maybe for men. Men’s superficial baseline is generally “don’t be fat” (and even that is often negotiable) Women’s superficial preferences (requirements really) are invariably focused around immutable and uncontrollable traits like height, hair, jawline and dick size. So yeah, no “stylish outfit” is turning that chinless balding manlet into a “slayer”
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/22 05:15 AM
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Your claim was that it’s “easy” to satisfy superficial preferences. Maybe for men. Men’s superficial baseline is generally “don’t be fat” (and even that is often negotiable) Women’s superficial preferences (requirements really) are invariably focused around immutable and uncontrollable traits like height, hair, jawline and dick size. So yeah, no “stylish outfit” is turning that chinless balding manlet into a “slayer”
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/22 05:14 AM
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They’re called eyes.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/22 05:11 AM
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So? Men are superficial as well. And it's very easy to satisfy someone's superficial interests once you know what they are. Lol maybe for women, not for men. BRB just gonna get 4 inches taller, and regrow hair real quick and get a massive hawk real quick 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/22 05:08 AM
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Lol the guys who do this are the guys with so many options they can walk away at any time - aka top 20% aka Chad. No regular simp is going to be this lazy and clueless because he faces months or years of sexlessness should he get dumped. Play Chad games win Chad prizes.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/22 05:46 PM
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Hey man leave her alone Also Simpa
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/22 05:40 PM
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Dude. Just no. In 2022, A mere accusation can ruin a man at any level of society. If you don’t see that, there’s really nothing to discuss.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/22 06:26 PM
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I’m saying listen to women, but “believe” the evidence. And do not publicize a man’s name without a legal conviction.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/22 06:18 PM
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Lol of course you do. The issue isn’t “standing with the victim” it’s who gets the benefit of the doubt and who is even deemed a victim in the first place.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/22 05:35 PM
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You know how women like to say stuff like: “Not all men assault and abuse women but all women have been assaulted and abused. Men, you need to call out your bro’s!” That, except flip the genders, PPD women. I won’t hold my breath.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/22 10:21 PM
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Lol @ this straw man. Yes there are some asshole men who will ask about what a victim is wearing, then a larger subset who will ask other specifics like if alcohol was involved or was this a misunderstanding, etc Was it “asshole men” who picked apart the Aziz Ansari, Matresss Girl or Duke Lacrosse cases? Hell, if there wasn’t literally multiple tapes of heard admitting this shit, most women on PPD would absolutely be defending her still because #believewomen. You are correct in that womens stori…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/22 10:16 PM
2

I’d go 1 in 5. Easily. It’s more of just a matter of how long they contain it.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/22 10:11 PM
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Lol. Right. Because women are lining up to give guys a chance if it looks like they “give orgasms” Nope. Instead, they line up for the hawt guys that don’t have to do jack shit because they have a bench 5 deep or other girls ready to bang the minute they get a “u up?” text. I guarantee you there is an immense number of uncool, nerdy, less prestigious men that would eat pussy and give organs until the girl couldn’t walk. Women don’t want those men.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/22 03:27 AM
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True and fair. PPD definitely self selects for certain types of debaters, myself included.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/22 08:12 PM
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Yet you can browse PPD for an hour and find countless women denying every phenomenon you just listed because it doesn’t serve their argument. It’s the gaslighting and lying of women about their own sexual nature that’s the problem: ie “women are not a hive mind”
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/22 07:56 PM
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There’s no “essentially a child” there’s only “a child” There’s no “grooming”. She was a groupie who wanted to fuck a rock star. A story as old as time. Then she chose to enter into a weird ass / unhealthy kink relationship with him. I’ve dated plenty of younger women into weird shit like choking and slapping. Guess I can count the days where they retroactively decide they were “groomed” (in their 20’s) to like that (even though they asked) and now I just be “held accountable” Again, this is jus…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/22 07:40 PM
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Uh huh. Have you been asleep for the past 6 years while people like Louis, Franken and Spacey got de-personed even though not a single criminal act was comitted? It’s how this all happened to Depp in the first place. One woman’s word is enough to get a man fucked. Acting like it hadn’t been open season on men for the past 6 years is fucking hilarious.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/22 07:35 PM
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Thanks. Many years of therapy and many years of recognizing patterns have helped. What has helped more than anything is the tacit knowledge that being trapped in a chaotic and suffocating relationship with a woman like this is 100x worse than crushing loneliness ever could be. So, through age and experience, I’ve learned to recognize the signs well ahead of time and basically walk away before I get trapped in a situation that is prohibitively difficult to escape. That said, I’ve had to walk away…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/22 10:08 AM
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This is an utter cunty take that could be applied to every accuser of Weinstein (they offered up their pussy for roles) See: patently nuts Rose McGowan Also: Rhianna and Evan Rachael Wood. Basically, you are applying conjecture to dismiss one verifiably psycho bitch who tried to make hay out of being a “victim” when in reality she was the aggressor.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/22 08:46 AM
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MEEEEE!1!1!1!1! Okay great. Yes women report more physical abuse and likely, per incident suffer more physical damage. That’s not news. The prevalence of women who behave as Amber Heard does is far far greater than any women want to admit, because odds are that woman has done some similar shit in her life. I know, I know - all PPD women are altruistic perfect angels who never ever act crazy… who ever heard of women doing that?! The point is, women are just accepted if not encouraged to act like …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/22 05:34 AM
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I’ve had girlfriends: punch me in the face when I wasn’t expecting it and break my nose hit me in the back after I just had stitches for a surgery had plates thrown at my head and through glass doors drinks thrown in my face These were all done by different women over the years. Those are just ones that come to mind. I’ve been with women who were utterly emotionally abusive (one went ape shit and started throwing things because I went to a restaurant without her for example) In every instance ab…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/22 05:20 AM
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“Both are toxic. He shouldn’t win the case” Uh huh.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/22 04:53 AM
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Pathetic. Evan Rachael Wood and Rihanna had it coming by your standards because they had their own “issues” too.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/22 04:45 AM
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Do you date women as a man?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/22 04:43 AM
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You have no. Fucking. Idea. Every man with more than a few relationships has dated a woman like Heard. Fucking women’s empathy on full display again on PPD. 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/22 04:42 AM
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Just like Evan Rachael Wood and Marilyn Manson right?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/22 04:41 AM
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Yet we have to hear constantly about how “1 in 4 women have been sexually assaulted!!!” Yes. By the overwhelmingly small percentage of creeps who do that. Yet all men are called on to answer for the creeps. What do you want to bet that 1/4 men have been victimized in some way by some bipolar nut like Heard? Yet women (like we’ve seen here) have to equivocate and revert back to the “no PEOPLE are bad!” Ok. Then y’all can shut the fuck up about bad “people” sexually assaulting, cat calling and har…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/22 04:39 AM
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And if just one piece of evidence was missing, all of team women would be launching a #believeamber campaign. In 2022, men live in Rainbow Six “Realism” mode. One shot (accusation) kills. Women have to step on multiple claymores to get a low armor warning. I want all PPD women to think about this when they both sides this shit: Amber Heard is still attached to her movie projects Amber Heard is still the domestic violence “ambassador” for the ACLU Amber Heard has faced zero criminal penalties for…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/22 02:34 AM
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I’d be very surprised if the majority of men who have had more than, say, 5 serious relationships in their lives haven’t dated at least one Amber Heard type. In any case the one thing the Heard case should show is just how willing some women are to weaponize and capitalize on things like #metoo. It also shows many women’s uncanny ability to frame themselves as the victims even when they are the clear villains and for other members of “team woman” to hold on to the bitter end defending them. Thes…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/22 11:46 PM
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It was a confluence of many things, and of course this was a deliberate and stated goal of the GOP. They were always trying to do this. I’m looking at the preventable and negligent actions that could have easily been avoided if people weren’t spoiled brat purists who took their ball and went home.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/22 06:32 PM
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Trump supporters and their ilk are a known evil. We knew what their stated goals were from the jump. Now I’m thinking back to 2016 with the countless millennials and younger supposed liberals who basically shrugged and said “Eh Hillary, Trump, I mean they’re both just corporate politicians” etc. Don’t act like those people weren’t all over the place.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/22 05:27 PM
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Hears that shaming and violence done against men by women is trivialized, ignored or laughed at. Sees evidence illustrating the point. Ignores evidence and makes personal attacks rather than addressing points. Kewl.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/22 04:46 AM
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It involves the guy being anally penetrated by barbed wire, with the woman in full physical control, and the woman has 95% chance to orgasm while the guy has 2% chance to have a prostate orgasm. … That's what receiving casual sex is like to most women, Uh huh.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/22 04:43 AM
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I have no idea what this bizarre word salad is supposed to convey but basically the doubling down on women equating casual sex with getting fucked with barbedwire is so off the rails that there’s not much point engaging. Good luck to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/22 04:34 AM
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Cool. If you truly believe it’s “murder” then you are not to be reasoned with as anybody who believes this would (rightfully) tell any lie and commit any violence to protect “countless children from murder” Thanks for letting me know.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/22 03:28 AM
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On a side note, I predict this fucks over the lower tier men even further. Why? women will now understand that if they are fucking a guy casually, it better be an insanely hot guy. No more “meh I guess I’ll fuck this guy” because the implied stakes are higher Women will be more in their head about sex and the notion (and let’s face it, reality) of men wanting to control their bodies. women will make damn sure you can beta bux up if you want to fuck so broke and non hot guys may as well accept a …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/22 02:46 AM
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Is the morning after pill “killing a baby”?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/22 02:40 AM
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Yep. As predicted, hamstering and mental gymnastics. Lol. You: Accuse me of some conspiracy nuttery in regards to the specific points I was making Me: Give you clear example illustrating said point You: Go off on tangent rant about how I just “hate women” You just performed a greatest hits of PPD logical fallacies while failing to admit that you were proven wrong. Well done.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/22 12:37 AM
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This is delusional. If you haven’t heard men getting ridiculed for all of the above in television, news and movies (even children movies) you are being deliberately obtuse or lying. https://www.reddit.com/r/trashy/comments/chosrq/hosts_of_the_talk_joke_about_a_man_whos_penis_was/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=ios_app&utm_name=iossmf
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/22 12:01 AM
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So, a woman engaging in casual sex is like getting fucked with a barbedwire cock huh? Damn, that’s news to me based on all the repeat customers I’ve had that started out from casual sex. Good to know they were just closet sadists. Jesus. I wonder why women aren’t listened to more about sex… 🤔
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/22 11:57 PM
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Congratulations, you played yourself. Here you go. I’ll await the inevitable light speed hamstering and mental gymnastics to explain this one away.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/22 11:54 PM
0

So wait in your “reality” body shaming men is met with the same backlash as body shaming women? Just want to get that clear.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/22 11:33 PM
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You just called Lizzo gluttonous walking diabetes instead of simply expressing that you didn’t like her. But I do like her. I think she’s immensely talented and entertaining. BUT the celebration of her physique is fucking pathetic. It’s not “brave” to stuff your fucking face to the point you need 2 seats on an airplane. And that’s the point. That we can’t state the obvious about a woman even when it’s that blatant, but can call men “napoleon complex, balding man babies with little dick energy” a…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/22 10:19 PM
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No. Women have god knows how many charities, shelters and support groups because women are wonderful and men are disposable. They are also given the privilege to vent and bitch about men with zero repercussions regardless of how much “body shaming” is involved. Let’s be real… women like Amber Heard don’t exist in a vacuum and there are far, far more of them than society lets on. But we can’t talk about them because mUh misogyny. Try brining that shit up and watch how shit like rape and sexual as…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/22 10:02 PM
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Why can’t women here address the real issue that leads men to things like RP in the first place: One form of judgement of another’s body is socially acceptable and the other is not We can roast and humiliate men for god knows how many things that are completely out of their control (height, dick size, hair loss) while simultaneously calling them misogynistic shitlords for not wanting to date obese women. We live in a fucking world where people get to claim a gluttonous walking diabetes ad like L…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/22 08:42 PM
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If you come to me with respect and an acceptance of my experiences that’s one thing. But you don’t come to me with respect. You reply to my post and tell me how I’m wrong and that girls “aren’t like that” or at least you dismiss my and countless other mens experiences in your tone and words. Now you ask for good faith dialogue. Anyway I got a cinco de mayo party to go to so I’ll finish this up tomorrow when I’m hungover.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/22 03:38 AM
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Lol. Diatribe where you dismiss every experience you’ve just heard from a man’s perspective, before trying to sneak in the “incel” insult and then say “you should learn to listen” The painful irony. PS - the majority of my friends are bisexual / lesbians so you can save the “you don’t know how women talk” stuff.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/22 03:09 AM
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Yeah. Not really. It says you know yourself internally and how women around you act around you in particular in the context of friends and family. Hint: Women, when in relationships or a sexual context show a very different side of themselves behind closed doors or when away from the judging eyes of their girlfriends, that I promise you. Also, you will never get to see those things and they’d never tell you about them because women are terrified of judgment from “team woman”. That fear and fake …
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/22 02:41 AM
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My pleasure. I was raised by nothing but women and 3 older sisters. So, yeah you got the wrong guy to try to call out if you’re argument is gonna be “nuh uh! You don’t know women!1!1”
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/22 01:41 AM
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Lol. Just can’t resist the “both sides” thing huh? This isn’t a “men or women” thing. Branch swinging : The ho phase is a uniquely female phenomenon. The vast majority of men don’t have the luxury of going on a fuck binge after a break up for many obvious reasons.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/22 01:15 AM
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Lmao. Saved to camera roll. 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/22 12:40 AM
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And again, would you hold yourself up as representative of the general population of women?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/22 12:30 AM
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No. They won’t. They’ll say “omg! Look at Bertha! Go girl!!” Another phenomenon which I’m sure you’ll deny is watching hot girls short circuit and vie for attention when you talk to “the ugly one” over them. That one is always good for a laugh.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/22 12:21 AM
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Collective, observed and consistent evidence does not support your one-off anecdote. My experience indicates that the majority of women branch swing or go into Ho mode routinely after breakups rather than face a lack of “feeling desired” But yeah, let’s #believewomen about this. We all know how they never lie about their sex habits. But, congratulations.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/22 12:18 AM
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Riddle me this: If it’s all about girls just “looking out for each other”, why oh why is it never the other attractive friend who is also talking/ having fun with/ hooking up with a guy, but the girl shaped like SpongeBob SquarePants who was sitting alone with her cosmo that feels the need to poke the hot one with a spear like a threatened Ewok about how “it’s time to go!”
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/22 10:12 PM
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Jesus Christ. Imagining living in a world where this counts as logic and reason. No, walking up to somebody and having them look you up and down and turning their lip up and saying “ew” thats rejection Chad didn’t come talk to me is not rejection.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/22 08:53 PM
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BWAHAHAHAHAHA. Holy shit. You hear that guys? She got rejected THREE TIMES! Three fucking times!! You see how hard women have it!?!?! Now do you get how hard dating is for women? I mean rejected THREE times when asking Chad out. It’s enough for somebody to give up dating and end it all really. 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/22 08:50 PM
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Check the username and it will all make sense. We’ve been punked.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/22 08:45 PM
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Lol. So after god knows how many denials from women on PPD and insistence that “I pay my share! You’re just dating bad women!” it’s revealed that, yes, this is indeed the vast majority of experiences men have the answers is “huh huh news flash!”
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/22 08:43 PM
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Is it just me or have posts and replies like this skyrocketed since the disappearance of FDS? If this is the end game for any solid evidence that shows women behaving in utterly hypocritical ways, we can just close this sub down. Basically Spend literal years arguing with PPD women on a subject like 80/20, disparities in difficulty dating, facing rejection or paying for dates hypergamy, branch swinging, etc Solid evidence presented to show a given phenomenon is very real Women chime in with some…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/22 08:38 PM
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Would you rather be able to drink and fuck after a breakup or be stuck inside alone drinking while your depression and isolation skyrockets due to social atrophy and “skin hunger” “Coping mechanisms” are what allows people not to off themselves after a devastating breakup. Women have vastly more of these at their disposal.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/22 06:35 PM
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Just use what Trump and republicans use then: “Many people are saying…” Problem solved.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/22 06:31 PM
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Well, case closed then men. Don’t believe your eyes and lifetimes of experience. PPD women are here again to tell you these cockblocking buttergolems are all in your head! In other news, this literally happened to me last week. Me and two girls talking at a bar laughing it up joking about stuff and I went to go to the bathroom and FatFriend™ intercepted me and said “hey, don’t talk to them” Another time, a dear friend of years was out in front of a bar and I did the whole “tap in the opposite sh…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/22 06:24 PM
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I don’t know how I’ll sleep tonight knowing that ChocoOranges believes I’m making this all up to get anonymous reddit cred, but I’m pretty sure I’ll find a way.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/22 06:44 AM
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Sure. Now. let’s talk about that huge demographic of straight women who just hate male attention and absolutely love when they get zero sexual or romantic attention. You know, because women always handle sexual rejection with class and poise. They never call men gay, impotent or turn to petty insults or anything when men dare turn down their sacred pussy. Nope. Women are just A-OK with being sexual non-entities. Clearly that’s a huge demographic based on the makeup, lingerie, and plastic surgery…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/22 06:01 AM
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Furries exist too. So … NAFALT!!! Taking some anecdotal one off personal story is meaningless. We’re talking about patterns among a demographic. Like what is this Tourette’s like tendency for women to chime in with “not MEEEEE!!!” You want a parade? Men can fucking aggregate the observed behavior of women over time and recognize patterns. You do realize that right?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/22 05:58 AM
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Snark is literally the only response to this.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/22 05:54 AM
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Lol. I’m not going to write them out but I’ve seen plenty more than 7 examples of women who Broke up with a man either through her choice or his if it was her who got broken up with, go out to find a dude to make her “feel sexy and desired” as her self esteem was shattered. Pretty quickly hooked up with a guy they already knew who was waiting in the wings I am not going to list out the instances and stories of this but it is so common as to be comical. How about you ask a man: “Have you ever not…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/22 05:51 AM
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Lesbian women are notorious for jumping from relationship to relationship. They typically break up with their exes spend a couple of weeks feeling bad about it, then invariably “fall in love” with another woman promptly and move in with them. There is even a term for this: U-Haul. Source: many lesbian friends
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/22 05:40 AM
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Keep telling yourself that.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/22 04:58 AM
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I mean I’m probably one generation away from you and the amount of things I leaned about men and women in terms of their unique struggles just since I’ve been 40 has been immense. The difference seems to be, while I and the world developed new understanding and empathy for the road women just travel and the difficulties on it, men have been further demonized and shit on for theirs.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/22 04:51 AM
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Again, when will you people drop this trope of men claiming they are “owed” or “entitled” attraction or sex when all they want is basic acknowledgement of the harsh reality of being a man trying to date and not to be gaslit and made fun of by women for it? Apparently that’s a huge ask. The world helps old ladies across the street and absolutely honors mothers and grandmothers in a very unique way. How can you look around the world and honestly say that “womens issues” are not given enough attent…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/22 04:47 AM
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You are not a man and do not understand how men experience intimacy through sex. Say that one hundred times until you comprehend that fact.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/22 04:45 AM
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This might be a man's world but it isn't every man's world. Probably a majority of men struggle in a way that is mostly invisible to the world. This invisibility in and of itself makes their suffering more acute. Women may face more physical violence in the dating world but men face a mind blowing amount of rejection and loneliness. It really is horrific. Hang tough you guys. You all have some rugged reality that you deal with. I don’t know if you are a woman, but this might be the most compassi…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/22 04:38 AM
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Incorrect. The entire world is expected to stop and take heed for all womens problems including “invisible woman syndrome” and they do. Answer this - how many women on PPD who make it a pastime to shit talk and taunt sexual unsuccessful men would do the same to women complaining about what OP describes. I’m guessing exactly zero. This is the quintessential “empathy gap” example.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/22 04:35 AM
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Lmao. I feel like I’m talking to a bot who has a database of FDS talking points. Yeah. I said nothing of the sort. But I’m sure”the voices” may have.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/22 03:26 AM
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It took about 2 minutes of reading to realize you should take your own advice.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/22 03:24 AM
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I predict a vomit of cliches and SJW buzzwords and not a productive conversation. You’re starting out with straw men and red herrings so, I’m good.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/22 03:23 AM
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I have no desire to discuss this with people who do not communicate in good faith. Good day.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/22 03:22 AM
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At all points. Women should try it too rather than hanging every invented grievance and malady they have on men. “Manspreading” anyone? It would also be nice if women would try shutting the fuck up when men talk openly about their struggles and pain instead of screaming incel and man baby at every turn because they don’t experience it.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/22 03:21 AM
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Don’t make things personal.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/22 03:19 AM
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Why does every answer in here sound like a woman thought: “What answer can I give that will make it sound like the mass reports of brutal and difficult dating men experience are untrue and invalid? Maybe if I chime in with how happy and content every man I know is!” Meanwhile, ask men, who understand their own internal realities and that of their friends, I predict you’ll get a far different answer. I work in tech and have secedal very close friends that I’ve know for many years. a literal 40+ y…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/22 03:12 AM
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No, I’m equating it with intimacy. Nice try.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/22 02:39 AM
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I’ll let the men of PPD decide what to believe. frogsgorbbit737, or their own eyes. One woman talking about how she “isn’t like that” doesn’t offset the 10 more that are like that. We also know that something as unflattering as having rebound / self esteem booster sex is not something women would freely admit, even anonymously so they merely remain quiet because it tarnishes their veneer of virtue. The phenomenon I’ve cited has been observed likely by every man on PPD many many times.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/22 02:37 AM
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Ah the old derisive and dismissive “get their dicks wet”. The sign of a woman who truly “gets” men. And just lol women have no idea what goes on in men’s minds. None. Zero. Men would never ever tell you that because … well, look at this thread.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/22 11:22 PM
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Newsflash. Men have such a desire for sex as to border on need. A woman’s “choice” to create a cat colony is not remotely equal to a man living without sex or intimacy for years on end because, wait for it, men are not women. In other news, women use sex to “feel better” about themselves after break ups all the time So jot that down.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/22 11:16 PM
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And keep talking to men like they are defective women. Keep disregarding the mass alienation happening among younger men who have lost their usefulness to women and see how society fares. Take a look at Japanese Herbivore culture and the US rise of inceldom and corresponding skyrocketing suicide, depression and anxiety rates among young men and keep telling yourself that nothing is going on, that there’s no new issue rising among young men who struggle. Keep convincing yourself that “helping” by…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/22 11:08 PM
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Holy shit. The absolute solipsism and inability to comprehend the perspective from another point of view here is insane. Men kill themselves due to a variety of reasons and a huge one is the prospect of a lifetime lacking intimacy despite their overwhelming instinctual desire to do so. Other contributing factors are just shaming of male sexuality in general and ascribing collective guilt (toxic masculinity, rape culture, male gaze, etc) to the point where men enter a spiral of self hate and sham…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/22 10:35 PM
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No. They don’t talk about it. They just live lives of quiet misery and desperation before they rope. What’s disgusting is how male sexuality is demonized and dismissed as being some mere triviality rather than something men should address and take seriously without fear of being called “entitled incels” for doing so. Also, women don’t get to tell men what living with male hormones is like and vise versa deal? Or is it only women that have to be listened to and addressed when they freak out from …
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/22 10:13 PM
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Oh wait…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/22 10:04 PM
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You think it begins and ends with wet dreams? Male sexuality / sex drive is far more encompassing and existential than that. Their whole sense of being can be caught up in it. Again, none of this is to say there is a “solution” that involves women giving pity to men or anything, but the flippant way it’s dismissed by women is not helpful.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/22 10:03 PM
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So basically “Men are just women with dicks. Any physiological or psychological issues resulting from lack of sex or intimacy are identical to that of a woman’s” I know what long term sexlessness feels like for a man because it’s the same for all people. Men have no unique needs or physical responses to going without sex when compared to women. Also, here’s a list of “hormonal” issues women have that men will never understand.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/22 08:55 PM
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Do you have a dick, balls and 20x testosterone? If not, how are you telling men how they experience sex and loneliness? Have you asked a man what starts to happen to him mentally and physiologically after, say, 3 months without sex? I’m guess your take is “well it doesn’t bother meeeee so men should feel the same” Basically, male sexual desire isn’t a real thing men worry about. It’s just hormones. Also PMS is “very real” physical issue because hormones.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/22 08:46 PM
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How on earth is this a “troll” it’s directly related to the OP.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/22 08:40 PM
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Yeah as soon as a woman. brings up the pathetic FDS style straw men or “I won’t feel bad for men who can’t get their dick wet!1!” We’re done. Continue living as if every man is just a defective woman. Continue living as if women have the first clue what having 20x testosterone, a dick and balls and a 10x harder time obtaining sex or intimacy. Continue to claim that PMS is “a real problem” while men having mental health issues as a result of living an existence unable to address their most basic …
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/22 08:31 PM
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I see. post partum depression. premenstrual syndrome aren’t real physiological issues either because I, as a man, don’t experience them. Feeling suicidal after a pregnancy? Just drink a bottle of wine and call it a day! Again with the “men don’t seek help!” Forgetting how women, like you , call men babies for having these issues in the first place much less daring to talk about them. And you actually (inadvertently) made the case for men maintaining options: the importance of support systems. A …
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/22 07:51 PM
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lol “messes you up a bit”. Yes. Everything that doesn’t literally kill your is not a “need” Women can find “emotional connection” at will through friends and simps. So it’s not even equal in that regard. But Hey, you can live without sunlight in a 5x7 cell too! You don’t need sunlight to exist!
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/22 07:24 PM
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Oh cool. We’re comparing physiological needs like male sex drive to nebulous and invented “needs” like “emotional connection”? In other news, I “need” to own a yacht, so my not having a yacht is equal to your not having a home.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/22 07:20 PM
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Well how can I argue with such sound and eloquent logic?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/22 07:18 PM
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This is like saying “your need for clean drinking water is equivalent for my need for chocolate milk” Not the same. You have access to clean drinking water and just want more and better options and convince yourself it’s a “need” Men have 20x testosterone and far higher resulting sex drive. Sex is a component of a balanced life for men. Call it whining all you want. You don’t have a dick so your opinion is irrelevant.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/22 07:11 PM
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But you know you could have sex if / whenever you wanted it and that’s the point. And yes, I’m aware that after a while women settle down into solitude just fine. They don’t need sex the way men do, and they have other outlets for emotional closeness. However, watch women right after a break up, especially when they are in a phase of questioning their sexual “desirability” (doubly so if the guy initiated the break up) Almost invariably they will go through a “ho phase” to fuck away the existenti…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/22 07:01 PM
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Nonsense. Those “single” women are banging dudes whenever they need a self esteem boost before they go back to their “alone” life. This is classic womanese: “just because I’m banging some Chad when I feel horny every month, doesn’t mean I’m not single! TeeHee🤭” Women have far far easier time being “single” because they can summon up physical intimacy and self esteem boosts at will.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/22 06:50 PM
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Women are never “single”
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/22 06:38 PM
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So you all make dick abundant and low in value. You all created this problem and now your bitching about it instead of making yourself better. Wait what? Maybe you don’t understand that RP is all about making yourself better in order to improve your odds in dating. And it’s a loooong list of things. Women’s list of self improvement: don’t be fat. Y Eou say you should have more side chicks since we are so hard for you to get lmao. Hey, farmer, don’t store that grain! Just keep buying bread from m…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/22 06:33 PM
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You’re not seeing why it matters that a man lives in a relationship with a woman with both of them having the tacit knowledge that she’ll cruise through a breakup by exercising her power to obtain supposedly unimportant rebound sex and be over it within a week while he will face months or years of sexlesness and potential suicidal thoughts? You don’t see how this creates a bit of a disadvantage for the man where he will be putting up with all manner of shit from a woman because of this unspoken …
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/22 06:27 PM
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100%. I’ve occasionally been “the guy” that the girl shows interest over her current man to, but more often seen the girl make lovey dovey eyes at Chad friends I’ve had right in front of me. I’ve seen married women disrespect their husbands to their face for a whiff of Chad’s approval.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/22 06:20 PM
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Women don’t need to cultivate now “maintain” rebound dick. It’s understood that it’s ever present. And that’s the point. It’s like a scrawny guy walking around with 10 giant armed mma fighters behind him at all times bragging about how he “never gets disrespected because he’s a nice person. No, it’s because people understand the unspoken reality you have wherever you go. With women, they can go from zero options to 10 options in a matter of days and everybody knows this. It seems like women can’…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/22 06:17 PM
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Just because boys make themselves easy to get doesn't mean you should get special privileges. Holy shit. The unmitigated solipsism in this statement. “Just because I have a bunch of dudes that can and will fuck me at a moments notice, and I use plausible deniability to keep them around, doesn’t mean you can keep women around you who would do the same!” Silly Rabbit, options are for women!
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/22 06:11 PM
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This is what gaslighting looks like, gentlemen. I will not respond to this drivel of delusion, but only ask that men use their life experience and observational skills to honestly asses how women handle things post break up. Hint: it looks nothing like this Disney fairy tale.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/22 06:04 PM
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What is the relevance? Selective or not, a man giving up his options (that he likely worked his ass off for) that could take months or years to replace is not the same as a woman foregoing free and ample dick that can be replaced in hours from scratch.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/22 06:01 PM
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PPD Woman: “Why do you need options?!? Learn to be alone! You won’t die without sex!” Same PPD Woman: Jumps on a new “rebound” dick within 72 hours of a breakup because sex is so “unimportant” Women are so absolutely blind when it comes to the insane advantage and leverage they have in dating and sex that they can’t even fathom things like dry spells measured in months or years. In their mind it’s “no big deal! sure if you want to have meaningless sex after a break up, just go find a partner! Wo…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/22 05:57 PM
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I believe we call this “passive dread”
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/22 05:48 PM
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I don’t know. Ask every woman that does this after a break up?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/22 05:40 PM
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You mean like almost every woman? I don’t think I can remember the last time I knew a woman who didn’t jump on a rebound dick within a week of a break up. I can think of plenty of men who toiled for months or years to even land a date much less sex though. Funny that.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/22 05:38 PM
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I am a size 16. Buffalo Bill entered the chat.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/22 05:35 PM
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Lol the pussy cartel is real. “Let me monopolize not only your access to pussy, but any potential access as well” “By the way, you will passively understand that my access to dick is constant and ever present, so you’d better stay in line, slave”
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/22 05:34 PM
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Lol I love the dismissal of “rebound sex” because it’s understood just about every woman will engage in it, even though it’s supposedly “unimportant” Don’t believe this gaslighting shit, men. Watch how women react to being sexually rejected to know their real feelings on how “unimportant” getting their self esteem rank refilled.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/22 05:31 PM
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aaaand you just blew up your entire argument. Any guy that had a group of friends with an exceptionally good looking guy and went out on a regular basis knows damn well that Chad is very very real.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/22 05:20 PM
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Roseanne is the only one I can think of that got blown up the way most men do. I think they key is a woman basically has to blatantly go after somebody 2+ tiers higher on the “oppression pyramid”. This almost happened to Awkwafina too, but she seems to have survived as she was close enough on the pyramid and her transgression wasn’t as severe. Other than that, I can think of zero cases of women and more than a dozen cases of men off the top of my head.
/r/PussyPassDenied29/04/22 05:01 PM
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Anyone else notice there seems to be a type of face associated with this type of crazy (BPD)? Amber Heard, Elizabeth Holmes and, I know she’s a fictional character but Amy Dunne from Gone Girl all have the same vibe. I’ve dated 2 BPD girls and they also had similar facial structure. Big dead eyes, high cheek bones, angular jaw. They were hot and fucked like demons but would have insane emotional meltdowns and frantically invent conflicts when they didn’t get them naturally. Weird shit. Sometimes…
/r/PussyPassDenied29/04/22 04:21 AM
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Because human beings still have primal desires for things and their lizard brains find certain traits and dynamics attractive. Men do. And women do, despite what is often insinuated on PPD. Women are not some higher beings who have transcended their instincts for mate selection. We are running the same damn software we did 100,000 years ago. Women are attracted to genetic fitness, status (which can take many different forms), competence(same), aggression / assertiveness, ability to protect and r…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/22 04:01 AM
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Lol. There was a time I felt as you do. That was a long time ago. In reality, yes she did me wrong. Very wrong. But it didn’t happen in a vacuum. She was waiting for me to be more proactive about us getting married and i think it was clear I had cold feet about it. Looking back, it was important to her and not to me and it wasn’t until later I really thought about how it might have made her feel that I was dragging my feet on the whole thing. Anyway not an excuse for her. She did a lot of shady …
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/22 03:52 AM
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Well, I hate to break it to you but this was a long time ago, in era far far away. This girl would not have been able to exist today. No way. Back then, online dating was in its web based infancy and there were no smart phones yet. She had plenty of guys with crushes on her, but not the army of simps that would have been swarming her today. Also, we were together for 5 years, during which time iPhones, social media and “DM’s” became a thing. Then the simps came marching in. And eventually she go…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/22 03:27 AM
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And here is an example of why FDS exists. *existed.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/22 02:23 AM
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Your argument: X is not common, therefore people who claim X on PPD are lying!
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/22 11:26 PM
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Which is it? Does it “never happen” or does it “only happen for a little while? You count every not-for-life relationship as a “failure” I guess? Lol. By that definition … Are you on other threads lamenting interracial and cross cultural marriages? I somehow doubt it. Funny how this only comes up when it triggers womens existential dread and the prospect of them aging out of desirability. Then it’s suddenly a huge cause for concern.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/22 11:25 PM
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Neither are gay people or bisexuals yet, they exist.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/22 11:18 PM
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The anecdotal one I just invented, same as you did. To simply say “the average guy can’t date the average younger woman” is like me saying “the average woman is fat, broke and addicted to social media” If we’re talking about age gaps we are, by definition talking about outliers. It would be like bringing up “statistics” when talking about gay people because “most” men don’t fuck other men.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/22 11:10 PM
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Wait what? So LTR’s measured in several months to years count as “they don’t work” These are women I basically shared a life with for an extended period, several I lived with and all of them but one I broke it off not them. I also love how anti-age gap PPD’ers never bring up interracial or intercultural relationship statistics. An analysis conducted a decade ago found that 10 years after they married, interracial couples had a 41% chance of separation or divorce, compared with a 31% chance among…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/22 11:04 PM
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Statistics say most PPD women are fat angry or old. Ok.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/22 11:02 PM
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Youre right, I'm not sure what unattractive women can do. Lmao. Paging Dr. Based. Paging Dr Based. 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/22 11:00 PM
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Here: Some of the age gaps throughout my life: My age/their age - duration. 27/19 - together 2 years 29/40 - together 1 year 32/21 - Together 5 years 43/39 - Together 3 years 45/25 - Together 6 months 46/30 - Together 1 year 47/31 - Together 6 months Look at all that grooming and manipulation I did. /s
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/22 10:59 PM
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Lol yes. All men who have banged younger chicks are “lying” Stay mad.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/22 10:54 PM
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Sure thing. So, first, this was quite a while ago, but *she* asked me to go to lunch very enthusiastically when we first met. I wasn't even really feeling like going, but she sounded very into it, so I did it. She ended being much hotter / cuter than I thought she would be. From that point on, she would be proactive about meeting up with me, and text / call a lot. She would outright declare how "sexy" she thought I was, and jokingly complain that I "turned her on too much" etc Eventually I found…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/22 10:41 PM
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I've "waited" for women before and had no issue with it for one reason: Their (sexual) attraction to me was crystal clear and it was obvious their waiting was a matter of their own comfort rather than their attraction level. Anything less than that, you should bounce asap.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/22 09:13 PM
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Nice try. It won’t be that simple. A simple troll post isn’t going to be it. It’s going to be more along the lines with “my Tesla’s batteries caught on fire in the hot sun. Tesla’s cars are dangerous!” Or “many people are saying Elon Musk raped Grimes” Get either of those subjects trending to #1 then get back to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/22 08:19 PM
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Okay. Which of these qualifies as “freely communicate”? Dropping racial slurs Doxing Saying “this business is a child sex trafficking ring” and providing an address “many people are saying Sea_Constant_2047 is a child molester. Somebody should look into this very strongly” Here’s a bunch of nudes of my ex. Enjoy. The Jews have lasers in space starting California wildfires Please tell me which of those you’d allow and which you would not on your platform.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/22 07:05 PM
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All fair points. A constructive dialogue on PPD? I’ll consider this a win for this sub and move on.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/22 06:43 PM
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Teenager who just read “atlas shrugged” detected. You don’t get a “megaphone” that somebody else built just because it’s popular. Free speech prevents government interference If your argument is that capitalism has led to the commodification of information and speech, sure that’s the case. That ship sailed a long time ago. Mostly because of edgy libertarians screeching about “the market decides!” Well, the market decided. You win. What is especially hilarious is that all these people that crow a…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/22 06:39 PM
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Trump Lost
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/22 06:32 PM
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Could you please re-post this on alt.debate.purplepill?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/22 06:31 PM
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Lol “10 years of bullshit censorship” = I can’t drop N bombs and threaten to rape and kill people for nerfing my Fortnite character. Say it with me: Twitter is not “the internet” The internet is not “censored” Private companies who moderate their content because they answer to advertisers do. Why is this hard for these Ayn Rand fanboys to understand? The internet has been a free-for-all since the fucking days of Usenet. Usenet was / is basically Reddit in the 90’s. Literally the exact same thing…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/22 06:23 PM
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I can’t keep up with the tangents so I’ll just remind you of this: We do have a “pure” free speech forum. It’s called 4chan. It’s easily accessed from any web browser or mobile device. Apparently, because they don’t have a full time staff of people improving the UX there for you, it now doesn’t count? Lol. You don’t seem to understand that there is a place for moderated discourse like Reddit and twitter and free-for-all exchanges like 4chan and the countless private message boards that existed f…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/22 06:17 PM
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It’s not “free speech” in any case. I can’t go on twitter or Reddit and start dropping slurs and holocaust denial. I can’t urge people to inject bleach. Not without getting banned. So yes, it’s subjective. If twitter felt that pro-gay sentiment was against their views, they would absolutely be within their right to ban posts that they felt “promoted” being gay. I’m guessing Parler, Telegram and the like have plenty of anti gay stuff if that’s what people want. You can’t criticize Trump on “Truth…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/22 09:55 AM
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Lol @ Elon simps. Holy shit, talk about boot lickers. Yeah let’s worship the guy who makes customers sign NDA’s and promise not to say mean things about him or his companies. I get it. A bunch of edgy kids that just discovered Libertarianism really really want to drop n bombs and talk about adrenachrome. But here’s the problem, private companies can do wtf they want with the platforms they developed and the information stored on their servers. There is no shortage of true “free speech” platforms…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/22 09:48 AM
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Actually I think I replied to the wrong post. My bad.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/22 09:38 AM
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Good.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/22 09:26 AM
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I have never seen so many empty, self-important, mentally diseased pieces of human debris in the same place. That’s a bingo. Mos Eisley for butthurt women.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/22 09:25 AM
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Musk simps are the worst. Watch how quick his “free speech” ends when it’s him or Tesla getting roasted.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/22 09:15 AM
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Then they can take it to 4chan with the rest of the incels. What is it with people conflating a private company with a moderated service with some free for all libertarian anything-goes 90’s version of the internet? Nobody is stifling your damn “speech” by not allowing you to post on one particular private social media site. Go make a phbb on an overseas server. Problem solved. The end. It’s suddenly a a violation of mUh rights because you don’t get to use Reddits interface? Lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/22 09:06 AM
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Those same southern fat people would screech to the heavens if “personal responsibility” meant paying 4x for health insurance. Yes, institutions will tend to perpetuate the problem to which they are the solution. Fast food included. Cheap fast food places will not be lobbying for regulation of food. Of course. But the notion that we haven’t been inundated with fat acceptance and healthy at any size propaganda for the past 5-10 years just doesn’t match reality. You seem to be resting this solely …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/22 08:57 AM
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Ok. I mean it sounds like we both have reasonable takes. I do take issue with the whole “there’s a reason they see these men as creeps!” I fail to see how this is different than me saying “gay men have hit on me, gay men are promiscuous, and I’m not into gay men,therefore gay men are perverted creeps” No. Gay men are human beings and they are shooting their shot. If a gay man hits on me and starts getting hyper sexually aggressive and touching me, yeah that’s a problem. Same with an old dude. Sa…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/22 05:46 AM
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Ok. Well I guess we can agree to agree. I am in 100% agreement that the majority of younger women are not into significantly older men. I am also going to tell people that, based on my experience, enough young women are ok with dating older men, and that a few men that make the effort can date younger women. It would be really nice to be able to tell other men what things might make an older man attractive to this subset of women without getting called a liar, groomer or sugar daddy or worse. Bu…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/22 05:26 AM
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You know what, you made great points and I agree just saying “lose the weight!” Is an overly simplistic and unrealistic way to look at things from a public policy perspective. Still, if you don’t see how calling out obesity is a political third rail in the US I don’t know what to tell you. There are so many fat people in denial in the US that it’s now political suicide to even hint that they lose weight. Remember when NYC tried to control the portion sizes of sugary soda? Yeah that didn’t go ove…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/22 05:09 AM
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If I had made the claim that “the majority of women 25 and under prefer men 40 and over” then that might be relevant. I’ve made no such claim. The vast “majority” of men and women are heterosexual. I’m guessing you know some gay people. Do you cite statistics to them when they discuss their preferences? Does the fact that there are people with sexualities / preferences or priorities that may deviate from the “norm” and “majority” while being completely valid and legitimate bother you that much?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/22 05:02 AM
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Again, statistics have shown time and time again that young women aren't interested in significantly older men. Even when those men are of a higher educational and socioeconomic status. And again, this is deliberately ambiguous phrasing where it can mean literally anything. You're basically saying X is overwhelmingly true, except when it isn't. No shit. You left out the biggest variables here - LOOKS and STATUS (not 'socioeconomic' but purely social status i.e. fame, notoriety, preselection, etc…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/22 04:53 AM
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/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/22 03:04 AM
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Men DGAF about a woman’s status, career or even confidence really. Sure, but the self sufficiency aspect aside; status career and confidence are still of great value to a woman though. Agreed. It’s a plus In terms of RMV. Not SMV. Women of superior sociological or educational background tend to be in situations which they will be courted and pursued by high value men. Not really. Unless you’re in some for of high society, Men have no problem “dating down” socially and status wise the way women d…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/22 02:36 AM
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Number of times I’ve heard a man make fun of another man’a dick size / sexual performance: Zero Number of times I’ve heard a woman make fun of a man’s dick size / sexual performance: Probably hundreds
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/22 01:55 AM
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If there were billboards dating “Obese people have a 20 fold increase in mortality from Covid. Please discuss weight loss options with your doctor”, you don’t think a few people would have took notice? You know what else is notable? How many fat people do lose weight after a big health scare.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/22 01:53 AM
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That too. You’re right. Not claiming it’s all they talk about or appreciate, but it’s something that is brought up enough to notice. And the resulting “curiosity”, once word gets out is something I’ve consistently noticed before.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/22 01:18 AM
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Lol. Yes. And I’ve heard women talk about who has a big dick plenty of times.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/22 01:09 AM
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There was nothing wrong with being pro-mask in the early stages. We were still learning. It’s quite likely masking in the early phase of the pandemic saved countless (fat) lives. Encouraging people to lose weight over the last 2 years would have saved many many more by virtue of preventing other related diseases like diabetes, high blood pressure and hypertension. But no. Don’t hurt Lizzo’s feelings. We are in the vaccine / endemic era now though and it’s a different ballgame.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/22 01:07 AM
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I’m not anti mask whatsoever, I have immunocompromised people in my family and 100% understand the need to be cautious. BUT - being this far out of vaccines I’m more anti than pro mask for the general public. At this point it is ridiculous to say that masks are / were anything other than a stop gap solution. And that’s the damn problem. Nobody wants to address a long term solution (ie do anything hard) People would cry and moan if somebody came out and said “ladies and gentlemen, the best thing …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/22 01:03 AM
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As a guy who by no means has a big dick, there is such a thing as “adequate.” And the vast majority of guys are. It’s like with looks. Model looking Chad dudes can get laid at will because there are enough women, maybe even most, who will give it up to them just because their looks gives them tingles. But many of those women would not DQ every guy that “isn’t Chad” and may reject Chad for a less Chadly (but still acceptable) with better game and style. It happens. With size it’s similar. There a…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/22 12:52 AM
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Was her last name “Drago” by chance?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/22 12:25 AM
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Men DGAF about a woman’s status, career or even confidence really. They may not care, but it's still a massive advantage for women. Only in the sense that they can be alone more easily due to their self sufficiency. This is a good thing for women, to be sure. But it does not make her “more attractive” Just look at FDS. A “driven” bitchy, scowling old woman with a career is still a low SMV woman compared to her younger, more agreeable and broke self. An assertive, stoic and established man is mor…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/22 08:36 PM
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That’s true. I’ve definitely seen this with women too. Late bloomers can be a thing for both sexes. It just seems more common with men because things like confidence, status, wisdom and career success directly feed into their SMV whereas with women it’s mostly about looks. Yes, if you’re a fat young woman and become a health nut in your 30’s you will absolutely have more success. It just so happens the things that contribute to a man’s SMV in addition to being physically attractive that really d…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/22 08:11 PM
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True. And that also happens to develop with age and experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/22 07:32 PM
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I am most certainly not and FWIW neither are most entertainers. Stand up comics, for example, are notoriously mentally ill. Actors and musicians as well. You need to learn to work with your atypical mind and use it to your advantage. You can use therapy, life experience and over time, develop strategies to overcome all of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/22 07:27 PM
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Can confirm this happens. I was a gangly, neurotic guy in my 20’s. I would cling to lackluster LTR’s because I was terrified of being alone forever. Like op, I kind of “grew into my frame” and in my 30’s and 40’s banged banged 4x more 20 something’s than I did in my own 20’s. Masculinity is a different attraction equation than feminine beauty. With feminine beauty age is almost never going to contribute to characteristics that increase SMV. With men, there are women who like “rugged” looking men…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/22 07:08 PM
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All true. All confirmed in my own life. And all will be ignored or dismissed by PPD women.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/22 06:58 PM
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The fact that we just went through 2 years of a pandemic and the fact that around 80% of the people who were dying and hospitalized were fucking obese was scarcely talked about should tell you where we are at in terms of science being sacrificed at the altar of “body positivity” No campaigns telling those people urgently to lose weight. Nope. Just stay home and sit on your fat ass. Oh, and people that weren’t fat became fat, adding to the vulnerable demographic. Our coddling of fat people is jus…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/22 06:50 PM
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Competence = Confidence If you are a spergy weirdo who hates crowds like me, you’re never gonna be some “Club Chad” life of the party type, but you might become good at one on one conversation in a half empty dive bar and make individual people laugh and feel comfortable. If you go to a cooking class and don’t know a spoon from a fork, you aren’t going to feel confident, but if some girl wants you to mount her flat screen to the wall and you show up with a stud finder and impact driver, you will…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/22 06:32 PM
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Bill Burr explained this phenomenon: No means no
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/22 05:45 PM
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No you fucking wouldn’t. You’d have sex with the “idea” of him. If some motherfucker came into a bar looking and talking like that you’d call the fucking police. Jesus Christ do people expect to be taken seriously when they make claims like this. TIL, Mr Rogers gives tingles because he “treats women like people” 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/22 11:04 PM
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Lol @ 304. Took me a minute.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/22 10:59 PM
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I’ve often said - 95% of women live in a permanent state of Kayfabe. It’s super obvious when you meet a woman that is not in this state. They are often comedians, strippers or in some other kind of industry that absolutely forces them to do away with the comforting delusions.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/22 08:27 PM
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The alcoholism is used as a crutch so that he can keep smashing you without having to square emotionally with lying about himself. Holy shit. I took this personally. At this point it’s more of a wheelchair than a crutch, but yeah… Cheers. 🍻
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/22 07:48 PM
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A short fat dude beta bux’ing a couple of LTR’s and being on the hood for child support, I can believe. A short fat dude pulling NSA sex and dates from bars with any consistency whatsoever I cannot believe and I have decades of observation in such venues to confirm this.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/22 04:26 AM
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Yeah man. I’m gonna try to be a tall, ripped, facially good looking guy. Why didn’t I think of this before!?!
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/22 04:20 AM
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Are you fucking joking? I am not an incel. I’m an average chump who suffers from dry spells months at a time while enduring countless rejections. Such is life, and I accept it. What I don’t accept are the pretty lies told around women’s actual nature and how they select mates. Now onto your “I know chads that don’t have a 100% conversion rate” You don’t say!?!? How does that illustrate anything? First, plenty of dudes I’ve know have literally acted like spergy autists and still had girls making …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/22 04:05 AM
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Of course I'm good looking, tall and ripped so there is that too It was here that I began to believe this was a troll post. but I learned this from a quite short and ugly dude who had lots of women. And it was here that I knew it was a troll post. 😂 Schrodinger’s Chad strikes again.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/22 03:52 AM
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Don’t expect people to come to you with a relationship or offer for sex! Said unironically by a woman who has probably never asked a man out in her life.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/22 03:40 AM
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Lol you’re really gonna entrench yourself in this “loser” thing even though I just showed you how “guy who can’t get laid” is synonymous with “loser” for most women. Or will you deny that too? Thanks for playing.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/22 12:09 AM
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Losers as in sexual non-entities and low value men. Or did you miss how every woman’s favorite insult is some variant of “virgin” “incel” “creep” or “neckbeard”? Anyway, I can’t be teaching RP101. You can argue on these threads that should have enough data to keep you busy: https://www.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/b2h6nf/tinder_study_confirms_that_8020_rules_applies_to/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=ios_app&utm_name=iossmf https://www.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/p5hu4y/the_802…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/22 11:46 PM
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No. It’s not just that “one study” you all keep bringing up. It’s been several and consistent. Why are you gaslighting? This isn’t controversial.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/22 11:39 PM
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I mean, it’s literally been proven time and time again that the “average” woman rates the average man “below average” so - there’s that.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/22 11:34 PM
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Yeah. You seem very concerned with constructive discourse.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/22 10:13 PM
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/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/22 10:12 PM
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Go away.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/22 10:06 PM
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LTR’s
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/22 10:00 PM
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/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/22 09:54 PM
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I’ve done it 3 times lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/22 09:45 PM
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Notably you did not play my thought experiment and resorted to “I know a married bald guy”
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/22 09:39 PM
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I’m listening. What I’m hearing is this: Men should be not men. Their sex drives and priorities are “problematic”. Thus, men are broken and need to be “fixed” And you don’t see how this can fuck young men up in the head? Seriously? Look, I’m sorry shitty men did shitty things to you, but that is not the subject whatsoever. The overreaction and broad stroke painting of men as a class because some men abused women sexually is part of the problem. Young men are now told their are guilty by associat…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/22 09:37 PM
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I 100% agree. It’s just, in my experience, average guys simply do not get “FWB’s” because women have far too many options for those. Why slum it with an average dude when Mr Six Pack is a swipe away? Answer: they don’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/22 09:33 PM
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Lol. Yes. Celebrities have fan clubs. Because they are famous. That’s how it works. Now do this thought experiment: They are physically identical nobodies in a bar? I think you know how they’d be seen in that case.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/22 09:24 PM
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Lol. So we went from “I know what guys need to fix their mental health and it’s got nothing to do with sex!” To “okay, it’s sex” The point isn’t that men need sex to survive, but when all the other hierarchy of needs are met - it is very difficult for average men to feel a sense of purpose or motivation when they are seen as undesirable by women and told as much through actions and words on a routine basis. Nobody is saying there is a “fix” but damn it would be nice for women to stop gaslighting…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/22 09:22 PM
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Again, I have no argument with your premise. I agree with it. I was only debating the meaning of “I do ok in clubs” Which you’ve clarified to the basic notion of “getting lucky” which is not uncommon and, yes, is admittedly more efficient than OLD in most cases.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/22 09:18 PM
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Lol. Yeah outside of the possible exception of Murphy who literally has the chiseled face of a male model, I must have missed those guys on r/ladyboners
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/22 09:17 PM
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You went on a ton of tangents that have zero to do with the theme of this thread. Let me ask you one simple question: Throughout human history, what has been the prime motivator for male behavior? This isn’t a hard question, but I suspect you will find a way to make it far more complicated than it actually is.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/22 09:09 PM
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Show me their fan clubs. Show me the celebrities that fit this description with women creaming over them. I’ll wait.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/22 09:02 PM
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The part I can’t get past is “never had any problem in clubs” which clearly implies “I can pull chicks consistently” This sounds like the old canard or “I know this short fat dude who slays!” No. No you don’t. If you are saying you rarely pull some drunk mediocre chick, then sure, I can believe that. But this is not remotely the world a true top 20 Chad lives in, which is a constant state of abundance and options.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/22 09:01 PM
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Record suicide rates orders of magnitude that of women? Perhaps stopping the lies and woman worship indoctrination of young boys would be a good start. But yeah, I guess young mens suffering doesn’t mean much to PPD women though. So yeah, doesn’t matter.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/22 08:49 PM
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Lol no there isn’t. Women like the same basic genetic traits in men. Putting glasses or a leather jacket on a Chad doesn’t suddenly make him not a Chad. Show me a woman that prefers* a shorter or balding man for example.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/22 08:48 PM
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Your attitude is probably the problem cause you seem bitter Yes. Of course. This is a very original take. Why didn’t I think of it before. It’s the “attitude” of that 5’4 balding Indian janitor that is the problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/22 08:46 PM
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Cool. Except nobody is complaining about this fact. The issue is that women try to paint themselves as higher beings that are above such superficial behavior when every man knows it’s utter horse shit. Women break rules for Chad and enforce them strictly for Billy. Ever hear a woman admit this on PPD? It’s unheard of, even though every man has seen this shit repeatedly play out IRL. The only complaints you hear are not about the reality, it’s about the LIES and gaslighting.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/22 08:42 PM
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I'm 5'9", chubby and I wear thick glasses, never had any problems in clubs I’m pressing ❎ here so hard the rest rendered unreadable.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/22 08:34 PM
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To women, any man below the top 20% of attractiveness and status = “loser” That shit has been illustrated on PPD time and time again.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/22 08:09 PM
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Lol. No. Those girls nights out are not waiting for some “halfway presentable guy” to show up. They all have a bench 20 deep of Chads in their pocket on bumble and tinder. That’s who you’re competing with. Not the other guys at the club. You think Billy is going to get picked just because he nutted up enough to give an awkward pick up line to that girl that looks like a Bratz doll ordering her 3rd Appletini? That girl has a mile of “u up?” dick ready to go at a moments notice.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/22 08:07 PM
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Normal guys couldn't even fathom the kind of sexual access the top 10% of men have so for their own sanity and egos they just pretend like all guys get the same treatment or believe the lies these women tell. Bingo. This is mind of a blue pilled male. Try being roommates with a couple of Chad’s (as I have more than once) and watch how quick that narrative falls apart. Men have been fed the lie that “everybody struggles to find love and sex!” because average men quite literally couldn’t handle th…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/22 07:56 PM
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People who never have to ask the opposite sex out, face constant rejection, who have no dick, no balls and 20 times less testosterone telling men why sex “isn’t fundamental for happiness” Gotcha. Should I tell you all about PMS, menopause and post partum depression?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/22 07:46 PM
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It’s called: Dating and hypergamy in the age of social media.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/22 07:41 PM
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Lmao. Ok. “I’m lying” Well I guess you won this argument with your well reasoned rebuttal.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/22 07:32 PM
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You don’t seem to understand the words: abundance and options Women and very good looking guys have them. Average guys take what they can get.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/22 07:32 PM
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Dude. No. There have been countless threads posted on this sub and the end result is always the same: Facts dropped on bloops, bloops try to hand wave it away, more facts and data then finally bloops say: “Well yeah! Women like attractive guys! Of course!” Asking this shit on PPD is literally like climate change deniers at this point. Asking for “the evidence” ad nauseam because somehow they missed the other 50 studies that confirm it.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/22 07:30 PM
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Lol. Funny. How many times I’ve seen this happen then. I guess I was hallucinating.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/22 07:28 PM
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Hey people lined up at the soup kitchen! You have it no different than the multi millionaire with the personal chef! You’re both “eating” so shut up! How are you not getting the difference between abundance and scarcity and what it does to a person’s mental health and physical well being? Lol. Women literally can’t even comprehend the concept or lacking options.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/22 07:26 PM
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So only rich people eat food?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/22 07:22 PM
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Cool. Are you a student or work some low pressure service job? Now try living in a big city with something resembling a career where your day looks like this; 10 draining hours at an office job where you’re not supposed to ever ask a woman out. Get to the gym and spend 1-2 hours working out where you’re also not supposed to ever ask a woman out. Get home and prepare a healthy meal so you don’t get fat after all that find the energy to go out to some “social” event, when most of your friends eith…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/22 07:17 PM
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I’m not going to do your homework for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/22 05:40 PM
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“Sure some people wake up know knowing they’ll have 3 healthy meals a day, but you know, you can live off bread and water until some kind soul offers you their leftovers from the nice restaurant”
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/22 05:31 PM
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Lmao I can’t be arsed to dig up every damn article over the years that has repeatedly and definitively proven 80/20. If you’ve missed those utterly common and frequent articles and studies, that’s on you.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/22 05:26 PM
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Lol. A long winded way of saying “I want a guy with options” Aka Chad.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/22 05:25 PM
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Decades of lived experience and that of my friends?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/22 05:24 PM
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Tell me more about women’s amazing “personality detectors”. They seem to only work for ugly dudes.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/22 05:18 PM
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Lol. You seriously think 80/20 only applies to online dating? Sure, Jan. It’s just everybody’s imagination when they see Big Dick Rick get passed around by the girls in his social circle who want to “try him out” Or when they see their Chaddy friend leave with (often taken) girls consistently every weekend. Or when they see their good looking musician friend with a soft harem of women on rotation. Yes. It’s all a fairy tale.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/22 05:17 PM
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No. This isn’t about “maximizing” this is about sex being a fundamental component of happiness for men. When men have very few options (most men) they are forced to put up with insane amounts of shit to lock down sex from mediocre or toxic women. Stop thinking that men experience sex same as women.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/22 05:13 PM
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“Stop being poor! Ew.”
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/22 05:12 PM
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If men can only meet women trough social networks how are women meeting men? How in the ever loving fuck do people on PPD still not understand 80/20?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/22 05:10 PM
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No. It’s that only the top 10% get consistent action and never have to worry about dry spells measured in months or years. So, yes - those schlubby dudes you see with women landed a woman and are holding on for dear life. They are also likely putting up with a bunch of shit from said women that is emasculating and draining that a man with options would never put up with. It’s the same difference between “food insecure” and “starvation” - sure one is objectively worse, but both are not a happy / …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/22 05:05 PM
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I said it before and I’ll say it again: If women fucked men who could do handstands, the street would be crawling with motherfuckers walking on their hands tomorrow. Women vote with their pussy. The end.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/22 02:06 AM
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This is most women on PPD. The fact that you are on their side 9/10 times except for the fact that you’re a pro, in which case they turn on your and shoot venom is telling. This is how women do. I have dated sex workers and am friends with several still. The notion that these women are being manipulated or forced much less “trafficked” is hilarious. They do it because it’s a way to make a shitload of money in a short amount of time.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/22 01:32 AM
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Ok. We’re on an anonymous debate forum where we are ostensibly here to share unfiltered thoughts while trying to gain a deeper understanding of male / female relations through honest discourse. Thanks for verifying women aren’t capable of even this level of introspection and honesty if it doesn’t serve their deluded sense of self.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/22 01:24 AM
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Except 9/10 women who complain about men seeing prostitutes virtue signal that their “problem” is with the “exploitative nature” and “human trafficking”. Funny how that all goes out the window when it’s a team of athletes or celebrities doing the “exploiting.”
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/22 12:47 AM
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That’s not even close to the understood definition. You’re simply wrong and are contributing nothing with this take.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/22 08:12 PM
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Nevermind. You don’t really understand the Chad concept whatsoever, yet are here telling people such a thing doesn’t exist. Either gaslighting or ignorance. Makes no difference. It’s still not worth listening to.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/22 08:08 PM
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It’s almost as if every man has seen this shit happen after seeing “sapiosexual social justice sally” act disinterested if not disgusted when some dude tries to get to know the “real her”. She lectures him on respect and harassment. Then 6’2, square jawed, perfect hair guy walks in and sit ms next to and starts cracking sexual jokes and putting his arm around her. Fast forward 1 hour, and suddenly she’s telling her friends she’s gonna “go check out at Chad’s vinyl collection! Teehee” Women denyi…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/22 08:01 PM
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It’s 2022. Women are celebrated and rooted for for all manner of toxic and shitty behavior. You are blind if you don’t see that. No. Men do not use “cry bullying”, gaslighting or hysterics against their partner at remotely the same level and number that women do. Period. Put it this way, there are far more Amber Heards out there than women want to admit. And often it’s those women themselves that exhibit the same traits and are protecting their image as some altruistic angel at all costs.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/22 06:17 PM
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Those aren’t “personality” disorders, those are utterly common and often celebrated traits of modern western women. Because women never ever gaslight, antagonize, or use intimate details to attack men? For every time a man “punches a wall” a woman has told a man some shit like “no wonder your mom died young” or some foul shit like that. You think men are just making all this shit up? Women use “manipulation” as a survival mechanism and to navigate just about every personal conflict they have. Th…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/22 06:10 PM
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So you cry into a pillow except the times when you don’t because of a “harsh situation” . Got it. Very helpful.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/22 06:04 PM
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While women virtue signal they would accept some sensitive “sadboi” who can emote at will, what women actually want is basically Don Draper from mad men. Don Draper cried exactly once in that show - when his long lost brother committed suicide after he told him to stay out of his life. The rest of the time he was as stoic as a rock or just had a fuck or drink to forget his problems. Now, Look how many women get wet as a tsunami for Don Draper. Pete Campbell? Not so much.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/22 06:01 PM
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So true. It’s hilarious the amount of women that I’ve eventually fucked who talked incessantly about their own “struggles” Every time I would see them they’d pick up where they left off, like it was bookmarked in my mind. Oddly, those same women didn’t remember utterly basic shit about me or my life that I had just told them. “Oh you were in Paris last month?” “Yes, Amber, I spent half an hour telling you about it last week. Remember how I got robbed and spent the whole trip having to get a new …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/22 05:52 PM
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Ok now it all makes sense. Lmao. This is some solipsistic “women good men bad” shit if I’ve ever seen it. Women “just cry into their pillow” when they are feeling vindictive, angry or frustrated? Lmao 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/22 05:47 PM
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Holy shit this the knighting is so white that it’s blinding me. This whole posts sounds like Liberace talking about his “girlfriends” Guys don’t call each other “gay” when they are falling apart, and if they do it’s to get a laugh out of their friend before they take them fishing or to a strip club. 90% of Men also don’t have the luxury of saying “suzie, I’m gonna fuck but you’re not getting a relationship” because sex is so hard to come by for 90% of men.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/22 05:44 PM
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The DENNIS system. I - Inspire Hope
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/22 05:37 PM
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#believemen
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/22 05:29 PM
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It’s not common sense on PPD. Women here constantly talk about how men only need to do the “bare minimum” to get sex and relationships, how mens sole problem is their bad personality and “entitlement” while women live in a constant stage of fear of being assaulted and can’t find one good man out of the thousands they match with on OLD. So. No.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/22 05:21 PM
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This is a thoughtful take and one which I wish we’d see more of from women on PPD. Just being the somewhat ruthlessly selective gender does make women bad. Lying and gaslighting men and boys about it does make a person bad, however.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/22 08:46 AM
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a man that does simple basics gets praised as being amazing Lol can you give me a ticket to the planet on which this happens?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/22 08:35 AM
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Your double standard is this fantasy about people “communicating” enough to magically predict sexual compatibility. That’s not how it works. So while women are telling themselves they were “lied to” and “manipulated” by a fuckboi/ pick up artist, they are very often doing so as a means of sparing their own fragile ego. As the previous poster said, women come up with all kinds of reasons to ghost a guy for sexual reasons. Small dick, uncircumcised, he says weird shit, he makes weird sounds. Women…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/22 08:33 AM
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That sounds like a low T problem tbh. This isn’t how 99% of guys are.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/22 07:19 AM
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Lol. No. It really isn’t. Women are always just imagining some hyper masculine outliers like Statham or Diesel when they say things like “bald is hot!” You down to fuck scrawny diseased looking Moby, or Michael Stipe? How do you think Adam Driver would fair with a bald head? That’s what I thought.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/22 07:18 AM
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A - for women monogamy is a good deal. Not for men. B - Relationship sex only stays really good for the first 3-6 months then drops the fuck off a cliff 9/10 times due to boredom and familiarity. C - A HVM can spin FWB “plates” in perpetuity, so it’s not like he’s only having ONS’s with randos
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/22 07:13 AM
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Women: It’s not immoral to be unattracted to a man based height, balding or dick size. It is what it is. We don’t control what we like. Teehee. Also women: It’s morally wrong for men to pursue and date younger women. They should stop liking that.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/22 05:34 PM
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Except many many women do get weird when Billy is no longer “being himself” and stepping out of his lane. Women like men to stay in their box. “Timid Billy” becoming “assertive Billy” through deliberate practice is disturbing to them. bringing up things like some sex pest rather than Billy actually having the balls to walk up to a girl and say hello is a red herring. Women don’t want Billy to stop being the shy “harmless” guy so they start talking about asshole guys freaking out about rejection.…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/22 04:55 PM
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Have you seen r/whereareallthegoodmen? So what? Stop applying the ridiculous behavior of a few socially retarded men to conversations that have nothing to do with them. Derailing mens difficulties by screeching about “nIcEgUyz!” adds exactly zero.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/22 04:49 PM
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Lol @ backpedaling after throwing out the “you throw a tantrum because you didn’t get laid” trope. Face it. Women dgaf about mens struggles and OP is right. Women just find it annoying when a man shoots his shot, regardless of if it’s for a coffee date or to get a ONS.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/22 04:36 PM
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Those men, by definition, lack options and therefore are not “HVM” by the standards FDS women use.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/22 04:28 PM
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“Jake” from State Farm?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/22 04:27 PM
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This is one of the best assessments of FDS’ers I’ve heard. It all fits.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/22 04:26 PM
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You gather wrong. Men do that as a last resort. Kind of like porn. Men get called “sick” for using porn when in reality it’s simply a coping mechanism for getting shit on and rejected constantly. Women send the message in subtle and overt ways that an emotionally weak man is an unfuckable man. We also live in a world where mental health care is treated as a “luxury extra” behind dental and vision coverage.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/22 04:11 PM
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Dude. Look at this thread. Women straight up calling older men predators and younger women groomed victims. Come on. Those women do not have another woman’s happiness at heart. They want to judge strangers negatively because it makes them feel good about themselves and their own unhappy existence. Women sabotage each other all the damn time. If you grew up with women as I did, there’s no way you haven’t noticed this.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/22 08:55 AM
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Yeah. Except I grew up around women and know how this shit works because I saw it every day. Women don’t like when women deviate from their plan. They ostracize, shame and backstab each other over far pettier shit than them daring to date outside of the “approved range” of their social group. Trying to conflate this with mere advice is again hilarious. Women are down for team women. They don’t care if Suzie is happy with that lawyer guy if it means she can’t come to the sorority parties anymore.…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/22 08:43 AM
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A lot of things happen. So? Women don’t get to go campaigning and shaming adults having a consensual relationship without getting called out as the Karen’s they are.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/22 08:34 AM
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Yep. Miserable women seeing other women achieve happiness in a “non team women approved” way then trying to keep those women miserable just like them. I’m familiar.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/22 08:32 AM
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Yes they can. It would be nice if those women stopped trying to shame, socially ostracize and get fired men who engage in relationships that were willingly entered into.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/22 08:22 AM
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No. I see a bunch of busy bodies who stroke their own indignant rage boner because they don’t trust women to make decisions for themselves - basically because they hate that men can do it as they know it’s a fact that older men can become more attractive due to the very fact that they have become established men with status. The idea that this is solely about “me just looking out for my girls! Teehee” defies all believability and men know it’s self serving nonsense that women engage in in all as…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/22 08:19 AM
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Lol. telling me I dodged something while bringing up the utterly ridiculous outlier case of a man ending up with his adopted daughter as if that’s somehow representative of … anything at all. And yes, you saying that a 21 year old woman can’t decide who to date because she’s “barely an adult” and should stick with getting plowed by the “age appropriate” lacrosse team is insanity and worse it is absolutely infantilizing to your fellow women. If the 21 year old wants to fuck a 45 year old lawyer w…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/22 08:06 AM
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Tell me how does one “groom” an adult? Tell me how I “groomed” the 21 year old who absolutely obsessed over me when I was 32? We then had a 5 year relationship. But “mUh grooming” Grooming is just the latest in another long line of words that hysterical women have now turned into a meaningless mantra like “rape culture” and “toxic masculinity” It’s just (yet another) one of women’s “get out of jail free” card so they don’t have to take accountability for their own choices or desires. Like ever. …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/22 07:53 AM
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Yep. “Pattern identification” based on arbitrary factors has another term: “prejudice”
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/22 07:36 AM
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Lol. Couldn’t possibly be because the age gaps usually go in that direction for very good reasons already stated. What’s next “I bet it’s a short girl and a tall dude”? See! I know it. There’s that “power imbalance” again. It will never not be hilarious how the biggest virtue signaling bloops talk about how “all love is love!” etc yet when it comes to the one single relationship setup that might possible not serve their delusions, then suddenly “EWWW!!! Freak! creep! Loser! Groomer!” It’s Saran …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/22 07:33 AM
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Cool. I’ve heard plenty of racists and bigots make that exact same argument: Group X does / did bad things, I’m going to sneer at, judge and shame people with no information other than that they belong to group X.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/22 07:31 AM
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OH NOOOO!!!!. I just got owned! Daaamn. Incredible roast skills there. “! uR older than 35 and only make six figures and have have hair loss! I win!1’1 TEEHEE!”
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/22 02:51 AM
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Is it possible, just possible, that many women over the age of 35 become bitter, jaded, insufferable, sexually repressed, combative, argumentative and demanding cunts just at a time where all a man wants is a nice cooperative fun relationship with a woman rather than having to be “challenged” by his strong independent woman who really don’t need no man? Oh they also aren’t as hot. I mean, I’m sure this is a biiig stretch. But, you know, maybe ask some of your guy friends about this and see what …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/22 02:34 AM
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Which is ironically what the person claiming to be a “hot girl with hot friends” is doing. Interesting.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/22 02:32 AM
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Its a minority and you know it. So are gay people. And trans people. Funny women on this thread aren’t concerned with finger wagging and judging them for their sexual behavior. Apparently only straight men over 30 get that “privilege” You know darn well sugars sites exist because young women dont want old men and thats the only way they can get young women to give them the time of day. So - throw out a theoretical nasty old fuck who needs to use sugar babies, and apply that to all men who can fu…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/22 02:25 AM
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Wow. But you just said “no hot girl wants X” and seemed to certain of yourself. I guess they do. Glad you are dealing with it so well.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/22 02:06 AM
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Random words.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/22 02:05 AM
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Then you are either a shut in or lying, or live on campus if you don’t see younger women fucking and dating much older guys on the on the regular. At least in Manhattan.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/22 02:04 AM
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Then say “Unexperienced women are more susceptible to being manipulated in their first relationship if it’s with a person who has significant relationships with relationship with women experince” because that would make sense. I’ve dated several strippers over the years. Do you really think they saw the dad bodded middle aged simps coming in giving them money held some “power” over them? Lol. And besides the supposed “age = manipulation” bogeyman: bad-boy 21 year old drug dealer banging the naiv…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/22 02:00 AM
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And not every young woman who wants to bang older men is a sugar baby, damaged manipulated or groomed.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/22 01:57 AM
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Wrong. The person who can walk away easier has the power regardless of age. That is almost always the hot young woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/22 01:49 AM
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And now tell me, are those things unique to an age gap scenario or are you just ascribing it to that because reasons? That’s what I thought.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/22 01:48 AM
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Then you’ve never lived in a city like LA, Chicago or Manhattan.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/22 01:46 AM
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Except “randos” on the internet do get men cancelled for all kinds of shit. Hauled into HR, fired, ostracized, etc. it’s what women do. It’s their form of violence and it just as often happens out of vindictive jealous as some self righteous desire to “help” Look at Amber fucking Heard. Stop pretending women are using social media mobs to attack men. People know what is going on. And just lol at “sugar babies exist!1!1” So do prostitutes. Does that make all women whores?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/22 01:45 AM
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You have zero knowledge of what sexual depravity your “friends” get up to in the bedroom. Zero. That I promise you.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/22 01:42 AM
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No. It’s literally not. In my experience, women poking their noses in other peoples relationships is “literally” women telling themselves a pathetically false narrative to try to spare their own less than virtuous and honorable motivations and feelings.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/22 01:41 AM
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Lol those women are actively trying to ruin mens reputations for literally no reason than their own self righteousness and bitterness. Trying to get men labeled “groomers” for all manner of consensual behavior is all the rage with children these days - oh sorry - “women” Apparently women can’t ignore old guys fucking willing hot young women?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/22 01:39 AM
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I’m going to get extra hard next time I’m banging my 17 years younger FWB, thinking about all the bitter FDS salt in this thread. 😂 Thanks ladies!
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/22 01:37 AM
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This is like a guy being pissed that gay dudes keep hitting on him. Who gives a fuck? Don’t fuck him. Problem solved.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/22 01:35 AM
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Bullshit. In todays world being young, hot and having a pussy are the ultimate “power” A hot young woman is the true holder of this supposed imbalance. The con is over.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/22 01:33 AM
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Now do dumb women.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/22 01:25 AM
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When was the last time you got “manipulated” into sucking a dick? When I was a teenager I had gay dudes making all kinds of attempts at me. Many tried persistently. I still never fucked them. Are women unable to accomplish this? What a wonderful existence to have zero agency.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/22 01:24 AM
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This is my favorite dumb take on the subject: “Older men are better manipulators so the girls just have to fuck them because their game is so tight!” Lol. As if Josh from the college house party isn’t doing the exact same shit. How is it that an older Clooney looking Zaddy is “manipulating” the girl but beer bong brad is just “a good honest guy” It makes zero sense whatsoever. You can be “talked” into sucking a dick you didn’t want to suck in the first place.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/22 01:22 AM
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Because who ever heard of young women wanting to “explore their sexuality” and do kinky shit with high status men! My word. I must clutch my pearls!
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/22 01:18 AM
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We have a winner. Watch how quickly that amazing sisterhood of “concern and support” that usually comes in the form of disingenuous toxic positivity turns into passive aggression or outright shit talking the minute one of the girls gets what the others want. It’s like clockwork.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/22 01:17 AM
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Making up statistics is fun. How is this argument any different than saying “all lesbians have been abused by men!” Please explain how it’s different?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/22 01:15 AM
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Lol. How the hell is this different than “pray away the gay” or “I hate race mixing” arguments? Basically, any woman who wants to fuck an older, successful, established, attractive man is “broken” because reasons. Sure, bitterness and insecurity and fear of aging out of being pretty has nothing to do with it right? Who ever heard of women worrying about that! 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/22 01:14 AM
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What manipulation factor? This is pure fantasy. A hot young woman holds all the power in the world over men of just about any age. The day where women can sell the “who me?” Lie about the power of their pussy is over. If a hot 22 year old woman wants to ride the dick or some silver Fox 40 year old, please tell me how that’s different than “age appropriate” Brad the prolific campus date rapist. Or Billy the fake as fuck white knight who will try to slip his dick in her when she “sleeps over as fr…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/22 01:09 AM
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Lmao. I love how somehow older men uniquely “abuse and manipulate” younger women. Like, how? Are those older guys forcing them into sex slavery or locking them in a gimp crate? Funny, how Chad the College Frat Bro who totally degrades his sweetheart or encourages her to “let the homies have some” somehow doesn’t require your hand holding sessions. I never realized being the same age suddenly meant your partner is not going to fuck your over. Somebody should have told me this years ago!
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/22 01:07 AM
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Horse Shit. You may say many or “most” but go look how many bitter harpies scream and hamster about how “any women who like much older guys are broken and being preyed upon” How do you not see that kind of language is utter cope? The truth is if an older guy can bang a younger chick. He’s won and bitter women can stay salty about it. Yet that’s not enough for them. They have to go on twitter Karen campaigns shaming men because their brains can’t handle the existential dread behind the knowledge …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/22 01:00 AM
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Because dumb cunts keep trying to cancel and publicly shame men left and right with accusations of being “predators” for all manner of consensual and legal behavior. That’s why.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/22 12:51 AM
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Lol. Making shit up is fun. “Let me talk about that one time I heard some guy say X and apply it to all guys everywhere and think I made some clever point”
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/22 12:50 AM
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Yeah unlike those hormonal young men who have girls best interest at heart. Face it, what is primarily behind this obsession many harpies have with age gaps are a couple of things: womens inherent fear andneuroticism of getting hurt or “taken advantage of” mainly because they don’t truly feel like capable adults. Talk about “telling on yourself” Women refusing to acknowledge the existential dread they face (both young and old) of losing the one power they rely on to get by in life - their attrac…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/22 12:48 AM
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Why would middle-aged women care what men in their early 30s are doing? Lol. If you are asking this, you literally don’t read this sub. Like ever.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/22 12:45 AM
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Except enough do, and I’ve fucked more than a few of them. The hottest girl I ever dated left her “age appropriate” boyfriend and simped for me for months when I was 32 and she was 21. Sorry that hurts you.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/22 12:42 AM
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Maybe the nicest person, maybe ever. And people come to her and say MADAME! You are so nice and it’s a beautiful thing. And many people are saying she leaves the nicest turds you’ll ever see. Beautiful turds. Like a Hershey’s kiss. Not a lot of people know that.
/r/PussyPassDenied20/04/22 04:26 PM
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I strongly prefer a woman who is down for an occasional FFM threesome. I would not engage in a MMF threesome, however. My threesomes have a one-dick maximum. I am very aware that this is hypocritical, but it’s not something I can actively control. I like what I like. Having said that, I’ve had 3 threesomes and they’ve all been various levels of disappointing due to my own performance anxiety. There’s nothing more humiliating than two hot girls begging you to fuck them, and sucking on your rubber…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/22 03:49 AM
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Not gonna lie as a lover of both Greek and Roman history, this is good shit. And I totally agree with the sentiment. I am an old dude and have learned that leaning into my age (just being the best version of it) is always the best way. Still, what counted as status in the ancient world (gravitas, wisdom, etc) might get you a harem in 30BC. Today it can get you called an old creep and cancelled. The 50’s gave rise to Youth Culture and it’s only become more dominant since then. As you probably kno…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/22 09:21 PM
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“Just shave it brosephus!” Forgot the ancient Greeks and Romans had societies that based status and value on how you look on Instagram and TikTok. They also celebrated small dicks as being desirable. How does that hold up in 2022?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/22 08:59 PM
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Unless they are in Jabba’s palace.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/22 09:48 AM
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FDS do not self reflect or “better themselves” they had each other up for every manner of shitty unattractive behavior and make believe they are “queens” when they are nothing of the sort. It’s inherently destructive and counterproductive. The only “flaw” they ever acknowledge in a woman is doing anything a man likes without some disproportionate benefit. RP says “lift, become better looking, dress better, be outcome independent, cultivate options, become better in social situations, have your l…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/22 04:22 AM
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Nobody who has any reasonable understanding and experience with of the reality of that cesspool believes this. This is like saying N-sells have “some good points”
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/22 01:35 AM
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Lolwut? You’re a regular at FDS but never heard them mercilessly shit talk short men for trying to look taller/ bald men for concealing hair loss/ weak chinned men for growing beards? I think you might be reading a different FDS.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/22 01:24 AM
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I’m ok with this though. I tend to think women have a more brutal genetic filter for men (ie short / bald = bad genes) but maybe that’s too blackpilled.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/22 12:08 AM
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I’ve seen pictures of what this looks like and I know how my dick works. So … probably not.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/22 11:59 PM
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Cool thanks. Still shocked to hear so many women being ok with a “big reveal” like this as, it FDS is to be believed this would be grounds for a “rape by deception” case against the man.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/22 11:41 PM
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It would likely be too distracting. Scars, stretch marks, cellulite, birthmarks, etc ok. But this would be close to saying “if somebody had no eyes in their sockets would you be ok with that?” I mean, it’s conceivable, but I don’t see my brain being able to move past it enough to allow my dick to get hard. That being said, it is probably not that black and white. I’ve dated completely flat chested women before and was totally attracted to them, so …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/22 11:37 PM
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You’re all a bunch of fucking assholes. You know why? You don't have the guts to be what you want to be? You need people like me. You need people like me so you can point your fucking fingers and say “that’s the bad guy." So... what does that make you? Good? You're not good. You just know how to hide, how to lie. Me, I don't have that problem. Me, I always tell the truth. Even when I lie.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/22 11:20 PM
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This is a good question actually and I had to think carefully. The truth is, I’ve experienced more than one woman who had to go through this and they both had received implants after the fact which looked great. If it was only mastectomy scars where breasts used to be, the sad truth is - I don’t think I could get past that sexually.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/22 11:03 PM
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This is why my instinct is to press ❎ on most of the replies in this thread. I’m trying to keep an open mind, but it truly sounds like women are giving the answers they are “supposed to” give.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/22 09:23 PM
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I think you are having a hard time believing you'd be fooled because you don't know how sophisticated modern hair systems are. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=TK0pcc28iuw
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/22 07:34 PM
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Ah ok. Both of those scenarios are understandable. Thanks for the honest answers.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/22 02:54 AM
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At least you own the blatant hypocrisy so props for that. Also, Who said anything about “a young man”? You seem to be trying to add context that wasn’t there.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/22 02:45 AM
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First of all that’s literally called “toupee fallacy” in that there are now “hair systems” that are quite literally glued to a man’s scalp so it’s undetectable even with that method. So please answer answer the original question.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/22 02:44 AM
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Surprising response actually. You’d straight up laugh? Would you be cool if a guy laughed when seeing you without makeup? Or a bra? Etc?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/22 02:41 AM
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Answer a question with a question. Ok?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/22 02:38 AM
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Happens all the time. And absolutely no big deal at all. Would it be the same for a hair piece for you?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/22 02:37 AM
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Sure they do. Sure they do.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/22 02:25 AM
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False dichotomy and disingenuous. We have already acknowledged that “vulnerability” much less “emotionally available” is not the same as being seen as “emotionally frail” Women get away with being emotionally frail without losing anything in terms of their attractiveness level or even social standing for the most part. Men can’t get away with being emotionally frail without repulsing women. I’m sorry those facts hurt to hear, but they are indeed facts.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/22 02:24 AM
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That’s just you saying “most women don’t have tons of casual sex” Which is utterly irrelevant. The point is they can and do engage in it when they feel like it.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/22 11:39 PM
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