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Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

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3	I feel invisible to women You already have the confidence. Confidence is like a muscle 💪. You just need to take the chance. One thing that helps is being “outcome independent”. This means that you are reaching out and shooting your shot while being fine with whatever outcome ends up happening. This takes just being okay and unbothered being rejected. You only build the skill and the calmness by experience and observing your inner state. You know you’ll be fine if they reject you and you know you’ll be fine if they don’t …	/r/seduction	03/07/26 01:26 AM
2	I feel invisible to women Game and being around women matters more than looks. Catch some L’s, get some tangible experience, and then you’ll get some wins. I’m not that attractive but being confident enough to shoot your shot and be turned down allows you to handle it gracefully. Handling it gracefully and well makes it not scary. It’s just an opportunity to connect. Most people just need to learn a little about you or have something interesting about you so it can go somewhere (get your foot in the door).	/r/seduction	02/07/26 10:40 PM
1	She said "I've never done this before"... Do they usually say that? That’s just a line	/r/seduction	06/04/26 05:08 PM
0	How do you handle dead chats when girls suddenly go cold and stop responding? So true	/r/seduction	26/03/26 01:15 AM
1	"Choose better" until men also have to choose better. Then that's just "female nature". Eh fair enough. There is a weird bubble or disparity in the advice given to men and women, and I also kinda think that the bubble or fake “alpha” advice pushed in society might be leading some men to adopt maladaptive and unhealthy ideas about dating, self-love, and women that can lead to incel anger, poor mental health, and poor self-treatment. That’s my theory. Does this make sense? 26 year old man here.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/02/26 02:58 AM

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