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| 1 | Internalised Misandry: Men Feeling Bad Just For Existing…the men they want interacting with them arent the ones who will actually try to not scare them | /r/EverydayMisandry | 13/11/24 12:48 AM |
| 1 | This might sound harsh but you guys seriously need to get off the internet and go outside more. It’s the only way you’ll get better.I even agree with some things you're saying, but you literally chose to make the most generic post possible. Its even more clear in your responses. Where, when questioned about the effectiveness, you throw vague terms and literally missdirects the conversation to seem like you arent doing things to get woman, when we literally are. You can go out, build a community or whatever, vibe with girls like they're your homies, etc... Then you get friendzoned... | /r/seduction | 31/08/24 07:40 PM |
| 3 | No excuses, just go talk to her🤣 | /r/seduction | 12/07/24 01:39 PM |
| 5 | No excuses, just go talk to her*probably because he's atractive | /r/seduction | 12/07/24 01:38 PM |
| 1 | Social skills are fundimental to being successful in relationships, and they are more important than looks, status or wealth.wait a sec. You said being friendzoned is a sign of lack of social skills, as otherwise he would leave, yet you claim relashionships needs to develop through time (through friendships i presume) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/06/24 05:07 PM |
| 2 | Social skills are fundimental to being successful in relationships, and they are more important than looks, status or wealth.wait...so you just said that your premise isnt true in the US? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/06/24 04:52 PM |
| 2 | Social skills are fundimental to being successful in relationships, and they are more important than looks, status or wealth.LMAO by your logic if red pillers begged to you to belive their ideas you should push aside your "fragile ego" and belive their ideas | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/06/24 04:49 PM |
| 2 | "Male entitlement" is a thought-stopping cliche*Every phrase from every ideology ever | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/06/24 02:37 PM |
| 4 | Red pillers see women as dishonest / out to get them / subhuman / only good for sex, because due to RPers own behavior / attitudes, they only attract bottom-tier, psychologically damaged women, which then reinforces their attitudes and causes them to attract even more of the same in an endless loop.Firstly your point gets dangerously close to circular reasoning, if a red pill clams something is x, then its only that way because they are red pill. Most importantly, there's a difference between red pill and blackpill/incels/people complaining about their miserable love live. There's intersection of course but most red pillers i have met are delusional hopeing for an amazing relashionship | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/06/24 05:56 PM |
| 1 | The solution is not women lowering lower their standards - it's males stepping their game upEven a politician lies better | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/06/24 09:47 PM |
| 1 | Most red pillers are very bitter, paranoid and materialistic people, and don't treat relationships like interactions between real human beings. They also rely on the same social shaming tactics and fearmongering that toxic women do to "keep men in line", and in that way are a mirror of FDS.only god knows if this men spited fax or cap | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/06/24 07:57 PM |
| 11 | Autistic men should accept that autism is a serious condition and people have the right to not want to date an autistic manthis is the story of this sub. People are allowed to complain about everything else but how dare you complain about your experiences in dating | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/05/24 06:16 PM |
| 9 | Men are never allowed to be "Good enough"never though i would agree with a communist, much less that it would be a flair in ppd | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/05/24 11:30 AM |
| – | Why are "traditional / red pill" anglo-westerners obsessed with pushing a hyper-masculine characture of men (the roided out lumberjack or gymbro) as the only way all men should be allowed to appear or act, and the only kind of man that can attract women?While a push in masculinity exists, specially because its belived it atracts females and/or is the natural destiny of men. I never saw what you described in great intensity | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/05/24 05:04 PM |
| 6 | "You should get therapy", is chasing women all there is to mans life?People seeking intimacy so much is just a consequence of a generation with no purpose. But its not their fault really, its the way of coping their brain finds | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/05/24 11:24 PM |
| – | Why is there this obsession in the manosphere with wanting to ‘replace women’?I think you are all overcomplicating it. These men either dont get sex or see in their minds all the complications that relashionships/dating have. Then they seek alternatives to satisfy their needs without all the troubles of human connection. I have heard arguments about it being a clear sign of males seeing woman as object and, while this is technically true, everyone utilizes the other as objects in relashionships (its not like unconditional love exists outside of blood relations). After som… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/05/24 12:52 AM |
| 3 | If men spent more time working on themselves instead of chasing women and trying to get laid, they would be a lot better off.you hit the nail in the head. Humans are just pathetic as always | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/05/24 05:55 PM |
| 0 | This sub is all negativity and debate. Post what you admire, appreciate, and enjoy about the opposite sex.woman have the potential to have the closest thing to unconditional love. The love of a mon for her child | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/05/24 08:50 PM |
| 1 | One of the best things men can do for their sanity is to walk away from dating and chasing women.Brazil doesnt matter? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/05/24 09:25 PM |
| 2 | Do Some Men Prefer Women with Low Self-Esteem? Why?i cant say how much i am goal post moving but i always see people using low self esteem/insecure as an empty insult to something they dont like. So you will see people saying that not showing your body means bad self esteem but you will also hear people saying that showing your body is low self esteem | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/05/24 09:20 PM |
| 0 | One of the best things men can do for their sanity is to walk away from dating and chasing women.i mean...I am at the top 5% of my country just by knowing english, And i know lots of people who know English... Moral of the story: 10% of 3 billion is quite a lot | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/05/24 09:10 PM |
| 6 | For men who prefer that women don’t wear makeup or say it’s not necessary - share a picture of a woman you find attractive not wearing makeup?i dont get it. 50% is a high enough number. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/05/24 08:08 PM |
| 1 | How do you think the men mental health crisis is going to end?Read again. I said that the cost necessary for 100% (at least as much as 100% means in the human world) was inferior to the cost of 100% in regards to support. Also, can you tell me how do you quote something like you did with the "100% chance of success"? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/05/24 11:59 AM |
| 2 | How do you think the men mental health crisis is going to end?a good portion of the therapist's job is to indentify problems you might be missing out and then convince you to do solutions you might be relunctant about. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/05/24 08:50 PM |
| 1 | How do you think the men mental health crisis is going to end?I think this "mental health crysis" wont even be remembered in the history books but as some people said, new parents may protect their children a little more from the internet and porn. But.....if things like AI girlfriends become mainstream and things get worse, it will just become the new normal | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/05/24 08:05 PM |
| 1 | How do you think the men mental health crisis is going to end?conversational AI may be gatekeeped but other types of AI will definitly extended the lifespam of porn and other types of media/copeing | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/05/24 08:00 PM |
| 1 | How do you think the men mental health crisis is going to end?Capitalism as we know can be overthrowed with AI but the Stade? It has been thousands of years and no signs of it weakning | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/05/24 07:58 PM |
| 2 | How do you think the men mental health crisis is going to end?maybe? Still, the laters generations will also have problems (like AI) and at the same time the parents are inventing ways to protect their children, social media are inventing ways to attack them in creative ways | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/05/24 07:54 PM |
| 1 | How do you think the men mental health crisis is going to end?can you elaborate? i am not that familiar with american history | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/05/24 07:52 PM |
| 3 | How do you think the men mental health crisis is going to end?As one mentioned below, the problems wont be fixed if the causes arent bandaged. Also, theraphy cant solve all issues | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/05/24 07:51 PM |
| 2 | How do you think the men mental health crisis is going to end?maybe? Theraphy has way more difficulty in engaging with humans and creating a bond (i am talking about the human making bond with the AI, in the sense that one wont feel the same with artificial words) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/05/24 07:49 PM |
| 7 | How do you think the men mental health crisis is going to end?one of those has 100% chance of sucess with less cost and more long term benefits. I am just saying 👀 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/05/24 07:46 PM |
| 1 | "Men socialize less" is bunk.here's my opnion on the loliness epidemic. In most it will manifest as the need for other-sex attention. Those who feel loliness beyond that still exist and need help, but its less then people claim. However the thing about the loliness epidemic is that its only that bad because people today dont have any purpose and thus have their life meanings set on attention. And why they wouldnt? They dont have religion or the american dream to blind them anymore | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/04/24 03:13 PM |
| – | How Should Women Hold Themselves Accountable?From what i see on your responses you take woman as literally the entire set of woman. In that case no claim can be made as woman are a vast set where some of them wont fit any criteria you chose. But obviously, when people say woman is because they belive something is true for majority of the gender and not its totallity | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/04/24 02:58 PM |
| 10 | Teenage girl watching red pill content.Yes. This is a commom tactic used eveywhere. But if we didnt generalize we couldnt have this sub in the first place | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/04/24 02:37 PM |
| 5 | What would addressing structural inequality in dating actually look like?That's an interesting post and a good question, unfortunately I don't have an answer of the same caliber. In other areas we fight to remove unfair expectations, for example, we fought, so a woman could be contracted despite being a woman (which was considered a bad thing by the employers at that time). However, this is not the problem in dating. It's way closer to unemployment than anything else. What I see people suggesting for unemployment is having those unemployed match the expectations of t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/04/24 12:42 PM |
| 3 | It's important for BOTH genders to have their feelings of inferiority/disadvantage validated.Please dont get offended because its a genuine question but, what are really woman's advantages when compared to men besides carrying babies and being able to manipulate men better in most scenarios? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/04/24 02:16 PM |
| 2 | People in PPD, what would you like to change with regards to modern dating and relationships?i know, but there are still several ways we can hurt another even if we are trying to make them happy | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/04/24 04:49 PM |
| 0 | People in PPD, what would you like to change with regards to modern dating and relationships?There some ways we can solve the dating issues in an ideal world: Death (Although you could apply it to every single problem) Make sexual desire dissapear (Yes, this leads to the death of humanity, but this is great actually) Have everyone in a matrix where everyone lives in their own reality where they are omnipotent, this includes forgeting they live in virtual reality and changing their own psicology | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/04/24 04:47 PM |
| 2 | People in PPD, what would you like to change with regards to modern dating and relationships?This sounds like hell. We would literally be tying happiness and health to something as volatile as another person in unseen ways. Imagine all the kinds of suffering this could lead, for example, this is a very easy way to lead the other person to commit bad decisions. Also, other people could abuse and torture (socially or otherwise) the people in the relashionships in several ways | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/04/24 04:30 PM |
| 1 | People in PPD, what would you like to change with regards to modern dating and relationships?This sounds like hell. We would literally be tying happiness and health to something as volatile as another person in unseen ways. Imagine all the kinds of suffering this could lead, for example, this is a very easy way to lead the other person to commit bad decisions. Also, other people could abuse and torture (socially or otherwise) the people in the relashionships in several ways | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/04/24 04:29 PM |
| 1 | People in PPD, what would you like to change with regards to modern dating and relationships?How it would be hell if woman would enjoy it? How one could suffer in a world where happiness is build into its conception? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/04/24 04:14 PM |
| 1 | People in PPD, what would you like to change with regards to modern dating and relationships?didnt he say we are talking about the ideal world? The true delusionals are those who want to work/suffer in the ideal world | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/04/24 04:11 PM |
| 1 | People in PPD, what would you like to change with regards to modern dating and relationships?what isnt? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/04/24 03:58 PM |
| 1 | What is causing gen z men to be "pill theory" obsessed?No one ever accused commies of having high IQ Actually they were. I could casually make a correlation between High IQ and being lefty, but that would be useless | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/04/24 10:04 PM |
| 1 | Love bombing vs feigning low interestif manipulation were a crime everyone remotely sucessful would be in jail. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/04/24 10:10 AM |
| 2 | Mental issues are not as prevalent source of problems as you might thinkmy wording was imprecise, what i meant was that he assumes wanting to kill oneself is a mental issue because he's doing something considered bad by society. Which you can infer means that being mentally well means following society's values. Thats why i said he was right. Because that might as well be the only valid definition for mental health besides brain damage edit: for the why i didnt like it that much is because we already considered things like homosexuality some kind of mental problem (… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/04/24 09:30 PM |
| 3 | Mental issues are not as prevalent source of problems as you might thinkI belive this to be true also. We live in a society where young men (and other people for that matter) will be constantly bombarded with opposite ideas and then realize there's no true reason to live | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/04/24 04:43 PM |
| 4 | Mental issues are not as prevalent source of problems as you might thinkI think this falls into circular reasoning as it makes the original premise impossible to be true because we always will assume the premise is false. "Mentally health people dont commit suicide" The definition of mental ilness is neurological, so yes, one's minds may be calibrated but still want to commit suicide | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/04/24 04:40 PM |
| 3 | Mental issues are not as prevalent source of problems as you might thinkwhat makes you think otherwise? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/04/24 04:30 PM |
| 1 | Mental issues are not as prevalent source of problems as you might thinknot disagreeing with you but i th8nk you just described war in the last sentense | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/04/24 04:29 PM |
| 3 | Mental issues are not as prevalent source of problems as you might thinkWhat are you trying to say? Reality is even shittier to other people and thus i am wrong? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/04/24 04:26 PM |
| 3 | Mental issues are not as prevalent source of problems as you might thinki guess you are right. But this is too much of a antropocentric view of mental health | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/04/24 04:23 PM |
| 1 | Low expectations, high effort?I think i will be a bit bitter then i should but i think this "do it for yourself" is a massive cope. The idea of turning off expectation is very commom and there's nothing wrong with it. However its still undeniable a major reason you did this this things for girls. After you fixed your bad habits and more concerning physical matters, you realize that you have put all this effort into hundreds of habits and didnt change nothing. When faced with the fact of impotence, people give up or adopt mor… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/04/24 08:03 PM |
| – | Are men in competition with women to make them happy or other men?suicide is better then seeking relashionships | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/04/24 07:33 PM |
| 4 | Discouraging men from approaching women perpetuates a culture in which only the least desirable men approachobserve that i was referring to understanding something. Its normal to people be frustrated by endless nuances. I, however, still belive the biggest nuance when aproaching someone, besides the words that leave your mouth, is how atractive you are perceived as | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/04/24 12:08 PM |
| 7 | Discouraging men from approaching women perpetuates a culture in which only the least desirable men approachbecause nuance is a pain to anyone who's trying to understand something, basic game design. Also, real life is even more problematic when it comes to nuances | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/04/24 11:14 AM |
| – | CMV: A lot of men claim they want a submissive woman, but don't seem to actually want one. Often guys secretly want feistier women but don't want to admit it.this post just saddens me. To see woman suffering the same thing men suffer and get conflicting answers just like men receive. Humans are, indeed, very troublesome creatures | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/04/24 08:51 PM |
| 2 | People are way too obsessed with finding happiness and it's one of the reasons why relationships are in such a poor place.happiness is literally the only thing all humans searched for throught all history. I actually agree with you that happiness isnt dependent on external factors, however that requires you to abstain from the truth (generally speaking) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/03/24 12:51 PM |
| 1 | What’s your opinion on the 4B movement coming to America?I never saw something like that outside of the internet. I mean, great for them i guess. Its not like it will change my life in any way | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/03/24 11:16 PM |
| 1 | What is a red pill and a blue pill opinion you have?Devil's advocate here. She said modern feminism not feminism as a whole, which classifies your argument as a strawman | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/03/24 03:19 PM |
| -1 | Do RP and BP (men and women) have drastically different ideas about what constitutes a healthy relationship?I think healthy relashionships are something very hard to define and very hard to achieve. Blue pills dont realize relashionships are transactional in nature and how selfish human beings can be. Red pill realizes this but i think they're still unhappy in the end because they dont have the blue pill delusion. Relashionships is one the many things humans seek that causes more suffering to them | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/03/24 11:00 AM |
| 1 | A huge chunk of women find it sexy to feel vulnerable in relationships with explains the appeal of bad boys as well as the appeal of large menDo you realize how atractive you need to be to pull that off? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/03/24 10:21 AM |
| 2 | All your dating problems come down to one thing....Nah, actual self improvement doesnt help too | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/03/24 10:15 AM |
| 1 | Why do men catch feelings for their female friends than vice versa?I agree with the comment here that says the only difference between friendships with the oposite sex and relashionship is that in relashionships both find each other atractive. In the case of men, they will most likely find their female friend atractive but she wont | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/03/24 12:31 PM |
| 5 | Why are women so keen on having male friendsDisagree. Men share their emotions with male friends. Not all, but ones that actually care about them | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/03/24 11:58 AM |
| 2 | Disregarding appearance, modern dating dynamics naturally select for emotionally unavailable menBeing manipulative and emotionally intelligent arent mutually exclusive | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/03/24 01:54 PM |
| 2 | The best and most healthy relationships in the real world usually involve women who are crazier for their male partner than the other way around.So...Yandere supremacy? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/03/24 01:50 PM |
| 2 | What's your dating unpopular opinion? Something you truly believe, but would get you down voted?You're pushing those factors way too far. I will admit that men get some unconcious advantages in the workplace. However those wont be enough to negate other factors to the point a man not earning more then a woman equals to him being lazy. At least its an actual unpopular opnion | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/03/24 01:46 PM |
| – | What's your dating unpopular opinion? Something you truly believe, but would get you down voted?I think it would be more mature if you just said both of them do that. Beaultiful people get with each other, uglt people dont | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/03/24 01:30 PM |
| – | What's your dating unpopular opinion? Something you truly believe, but would get you down voted?Its because its quite risky. The woman may be in a more vulnerable position for abuse (specially if she stays at home). And the men can easily commit to the relashionship more then the woman and serve as an ATM. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/03/24 01:28 PM |
| – | What's your dating unpopular opinion? Something you truly believe, but would get you down voted?What if they are some random woman in Pakistan? How would i find them? Also, seems like an emotional argument rather then anything else, people probably wont be atracted to someone as atractive as them, as ugly men dont get with ugly woman and vice versa, and wont be able to get someone higher. Being the best version of yourself is a kind of meh advice. Being the best version of yourself in practice just means being the thing that society likes the most while being able to act that way with cons… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/03/24 01:26 PM |
| – | What's your dating unpopular opinion? Something you truly believe, but would get you down voted?Textbook of falacy falacy. Just because of one unimportant thing he said was wrong doesnt mean everything else is false/incorrect | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/03/24 12:44 PM |
| – | What's your dating unpopular opinion? Something you truly believe, but would get you down voted?You're right however its not in real life they will find the solution to their problems. Not on the internet either | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/03/24 12:35 PM |
| – | What's your dating unpopular opinion? Something you truly believe, but would get you down voted?People think emocional vulnerability is when you are emocional but i dont get annoyed. There are people who are years into relashionships and get dumped after opening up. I think this is the perfect example of just how performatic human relashionships are. You sell the fantasy of a loving woman to me and i sell the fantasy of a gentle strong man to you. If someone breaks performance for long enough the person gets dumped. Still, people these days keep talking about loving their partners and othe… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/03/24 12:27 PM |
| – | What's your dating unpopular opinion? Something you truly believe, but would get you down voted?You cant put government and efficient in the same sentence | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/03/24 12:17 PM |
| – | What's your dating unpopular opinion? Something you truly believe, but would get you down voted?I dont get why people in this sub are so pro-pornography. Its literally something you should avoid even if not looking for a relashionships. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/03/24 12:16 PM |
| 1 | Fellas, you’re not single because you are unattractive, short, broke, play video games, watch anime, or other generic guy shit your single because you’re boringI dont know if i live in a different world then me because they say they get gains in 6 months or so and mine are almost non existent. Sure, my diet isnt the best in the world. But in its essense its rice, beans and meat, which i eat just after exercise | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/03/24 04:33 PM |
| 1 | What is your solution to the issues in dating?Because people who want to be in relashionships dont have purpose, simple as that | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/03/24 04:29 PM |
| 1 | Fellas, you’re not single because you are unattractive, short, broke, play video games, watch anime, or other generic guy shit your single because you’re boringI can confirm that exercising and going to the gym for 3 years didnt change jack shit about my atractiveness | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/03/24 01:36 PM |
| 1 | It's rare for a man to be with a woman who likes him for who he is as a human being instead of what he can provide.Nothing you have said is incorrect however, what many people dont realize in this sub is that man are also this way. Relashionships are selfish by nature and people are dumb thinking otherwise. True love doesnt exist so you have some options: Being all sad about it and suffer Be dumb enough to belive relashionships are selfless and beautiful Find a way to rationalize why you enjoy relashionships even if they are that way Finding some other dumb thing to care about rather then relashionships. Peo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/03/24 06:42 PM |
| 1 | I am scared I would be judged by someone or be called a creep if I flirt with someone.Woudn't she just make fun of me to her friends? | /r/seduction | 04/02/24 09:27 PM |
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