| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
|---|---|---|---|---|---|
| 1667 | ‘Studies’ showing dad bods are more attractive to women | DISCUSSION | Imaginary-Driver-767 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/03/21 07:41 PM |
| 184 | Easy vetting strategy | DISCUSSION | Imaginary-Driver-767 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/07/21 07:53 PM |
| 1 | Women Making it Happen | STRATEGY | Imaginary-Driver-767 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/08/21 02:52 PM |
| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
|---|---|---|---|
| 4 | The Hardest HVW Lesson *for me*: No one is going to save you.Thank you for sharing that. I feel the weight of this reality more heavily on some days than on the others. But it’s true. No one is coming to save the day, and you’re your own super hero. It is comforting because it means you’re on no one’s mercy and frightening because it’s a lonely feeling. I love how you don’t let your disadvantaged past get in the way of your future. I’m rooting for you. You have a lot of success and well being coming your way. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/03/22 07:48 PM |
| 31 | Where do men go to find the audacity? What kind of good man is this? Is this the standard? Because if so, then sorry to this man. 33 and childish with his priorities out of order. What an embarrassment. Feel sorry for that baby.If you kno you kno Just…. Kno!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/03/22 05:15 PM |
| 118 | I lost track of how many red flags I heard.Dis dude broke. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/03/22 11:30 PM |
| 75 | post about hating women topped off with a picture of an on-screen abuser and the girl he abused!A bit of a tangent but I found euphoria to be its own kind of messed up. Sexualizing high school children to this extent should be illegal. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/03/22 07:11 PM |
| 23 | He was fine with 50/50 until she told him the cost of having a childThis woman is a boss! I don’t know her, but I love her. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/03/22 06:59 PM |
| 7 | TikTok “Feminist Woke” Man With Millions of Followers Exposed In Violating Informed Consent via Unprotected Sex & Cheating On His Partners Who He Mislead into Believing They Were ExclusiveCame here to say this | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/03/22 08:38 PM |
| 28 | She quit her job and is live-in childcare for her husband’s affair baby and is now being asked to cancel her birthday trip to babysitShe forgave him and had to sacrifice her career to take care of his love child. Umm.. what?! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/02/22 10:50 PM |
| 4 | Why you should vet harshly. Please learn from my story.Just here to say I’m rooting for you and your kids. And thanks for sharing your story. ❤️❤️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/12/21 05:55 AM |
| 1 | Kevin can go F himselfLOVE this show | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/11/21 02:26 PM |
| 10 | AITA, boys shouts at girlfriend, girl moves out the next dayThis makes me so happy! Hope she has a wonderful life! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/08/21 02:57 PM |
| 29 | Love seeing women not falling for manipulation tactics.Same thing happened to me. This guy I went out with turned out to be a RPiller and used all kinds of tactics with me. I stopped replying to him and he kept texting. One day he asked me if he should stop texting me. I said that would be best. He stopped for a while only to start again. Ended up blocking him. Thank you FDS! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/08/21 10:11 PM |
| 30 | Love seeing women not falling for manipulation tactics.Hahahahaha | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/08/21 02:03 PM |
| 8 | "Women aren't funny"That’s such bs. This is projection by men because the truth is that men aren’t funny. If you take away racist, sexist, homophobic jokes from male comedians, they don’t have much of anything else left. Women on the other hand are so apt with their observations and hilarious without putting anyone down. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/07/21 07:54 AM |
| 3 | Easy vetting strategyThat’s a good one! She’s amazing. Female comedians are a good litmus test most of the times. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/07/21 07:09 PM |
| 234 | A reminder from history not too long ago: many of your elders didn’t have an easier time in marriage as men like to claim. It was only because of the RvR case in 1991, that the English court system legally recognised that raping your wife was a crime.Right now a bill called domestic violence bill is under scrutiny as it pertains to Islamic law in pakistan. This bill makes it illegal for men to beat their wives and kids and guess who is opposing it like their lives depend on it under the guise of religion? Men! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/07/21 11:41 PM |
| 50 | Easy vetting strategyYes! You’d be surprised it’s not limited to white men. Even brown men (who think they’re white on the inside or something) have issues with a diverse cast. It is amusing to me to watch them being Chad. Like sit down Ahmad no one cares if PC culture is ruining your TV time. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/07/21 09:04 PM |
| 19 | Easy vetting strategyI respect your reason. It’s not why men stopped though. The stopped because they were upset that someone is getting accountability | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/07/21 08:36 PM |
| 99 | Easy vetting strategyYes crying over ‘spoiling a powerful franchise’ by using women and people of color for main roles. That is definitely a red flag. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/07/21 08:25 PM |
| 37 | Easy vetting strategyHe gets fired from the show. And the point was that men had a problem with him being fired over allegations. That is very telling. He’s no where in season 6. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/07/21 08:23 PM |
| 17 | Easy vetting strategyYes! Even though it’s fiction it is unbearable for these scrotes. I realized even the self proclaimed woke dudes had an issue with her being president. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/07/21 08:22 PM |
| 66 | Women just need to lower their standards 🙄As a person who’s dated beneath my league almost always I can testify that ugly guys are not only worse but they carry around a lot of insecurities and will drag you down to their level. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/06/21 07:32 PM |
| 10 | When the mask comes offShe’s 22 and a mom of three. If this sorry excuse of a man is in his late twenties to thirties or beyond I’m gonna puke. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/06/21 05:07 PM |
| 19 | Saw this on my Instagram feed and I’m completely wrecked for this woman. This man had a “report card” for his wife that he eventually murdered. TW: Domestic Violence, Religious AbuseI’m just praying he’s someone’s bitch in prison and getting a D everyday twice a day | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/05/21 06:05 AM |
| 69 | I saw this going around on Facebook with women swooning, I need a break from it 🤢Does it still count as sex if she shoves the bottle up his arse? Asking for a friend | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/05/21 06:16 PM |
| 7 | A woman I know shared this...😬Pickme signal has been lit, now we pray /s | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/05/21 06:55 PM |
| 7 | The wall is real. For men. Exhibit #7777 😉Wow! And these are the men who have access to the same luxury these women do. No excuses there. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/05/21 02:33 PM |
| 28 | My boyfriend is contributing nothing but wants all the say in our new house. How do I nicely ask him to be reasonable?Why are high achieving women carrying so much dead weight? She needs to drop him and do whatever she pleases with her money and live as she pleases. Is having a partner really worth all this trouble? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/05/21 06:02 PM |
| 70 | I've also been compared to having "steak " every day and other objects that grow old or boringThis dude is sticking his dick in a car and no one is talking about about that smh | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/05/21 05:33 PM |
| 2 | wow.He is a little bitch tho | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/05/21 08:13 PM |
| 1 | Ladies, can I please hear your success stories on divorcing abusive partners?It’s the worst right before you leave. Once you do it’ll be so easy you’ll wonder why you didn’t do it sooner. Leave sis. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/04/21 01:20 AM |
| 6 | “iT’s a VeRy ReWaRdiNg JoB! YoU gEt To MaKe ThEsE aMaZiNg CoNnEcTiOns Of InTiMaCy WitH SoMeBoDy!”Thank you! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/04/21 11:15 PM |
| 354 | If you're a Brown Woman dating a White Man, survey his inner circle of close friends and family. If you are the only POC in his life, you are a source of entertainment and validation of his liberal views, not a partner.Haha on the other hand, brown men widely believe that white women are crazy good in the sack that’s why a brown man dates a white woman. Men from all race and ethnicities are crap in general. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/04/21 07:47 PM |
| 4 | But if we say these porn-fried brained, repellent scrotes have absolutely lost it, we are wrong? (TW: necrophilia, rape)Thanks fds for putting me off men forever. 🙏 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/04/21 04:11 PM |
| 7 | I have questionsI think a cult has to have a manifesto/s | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/04/21 02:41 PM |
| 7 | Ofcourse she cleans this..Replace the husband and also the carpet in that order | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/04/21 04:00 PM |
| 4 | Found this on a relationship sub. Women think this kind of behaviour is endearing ?! Nah sis 🤦🏻♀️🤦🏻♀️🤦🏻♀️ makes me wonder what else he thinks gets done by magic. Some guy commented and argued with me about how men do more domestic labour lmao I can’t handle this sub. I never want to be married.I read he didn’t notice how much she does. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/04/21 02:56 PM |
| 9 | I have to laugh at this, but I worry for the PickMes who will fear that their value might decrease (hint: it won’t).Women can’t make money? It seems he’s saying the value is in money and not him, anyone can get money right? So what’s so special about him? Appreciating asset.. haha you’re no property by the lake. Go take a walk. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/04/21 04:33 PM |
| 48 | Soundin' like the queen of Pickmeisha's Hell because you can't spell...This may very well be true (not a typo) because some men don’t know how to wipe 🤣 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/04/21 03:14 AM |
| 16 | Reason #6567 why being single is better than settling.Lol amen sister. (I didn’t, but rooting for you!) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/04/21 06:59 AM |
| 11 | Ya’ll, please tell me I did not just read what I read? After seeing that I went and made a donation to FDS. It was the only way I could calm down. Is this a thing?!?!?!?!Umm they should feel terrible and if I have a say in it should be shot at sight. Why are we making it okay for men to fuck babies? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/04/21 06:56 AM |
| 5 | STOP 👏🏻PROCREATING 👏🏻 WITH 👏🏻 SHIT 👏🏻 MENYikes! Head injury in children is no small matter. This person needs to take charge of her kid’s care. She also needs to evaluate if it’s worth being with someone who doesn’t have basic instinct to care for his offspring | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/04/21 03:26 PM |
| 8 | I'm sick of pop music!The driver license song, girl he was trynna groom you smh | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/03/21 04:19 PM |
| 3 | I'm sick of pop music!I changed my radio station to play soft rock and so glad ariana doesn’t make the cut on there haha. I was sick of her overly sexual lyrics on my commutes with my six year old. Like sing about something else babygirl. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/03/21 04:18 PM |
| 22 | Struggling to see value in myself because although I'm fairly attractive (or so I'm told) literally every guy I come across just wants to sleep with me and it's emotionally exhausting.Value comes from within. If YOU think you deserve nothing but the best YOU will not settle. It took me 30 some years to realize that we need to put value in ourselves and not be shaken by outside critics. Despite brains or beauty or degrees the low self esteem sets you up for failures and compromises. Live your life with the confidence of a middle aged white man. And drop the guys who treat you less than because the world is full of average and below average men and it’s on you to screen them ou… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/03/21 05:36 PM |
| 25 | If you are just wishing he would hit you, so you can have a legitimate reason to leave, leave anyway.I remember thinking and saying it out loud so I wouldn’t feel like a crazy woman for resenting him for the emotional abuse. Crazy times! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/03/21 04:03 PM |
| 51 | ‘Studies’ showing dad bods are more attractive to womenIt’s no better than glamorizing kinks. I’m just appalled by how these subtle messages are published again and again until people start to buy into the ideas. Ever since I have realized that modern day feminism benefits men at a cost to women I have started to see these signs everywhere. Things which only benefit men are normalized as ‘inclusivity’ and it boils my blood how sneaky it is. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/03/21 08:22 PM |
| 2 | The same day that I posted a shot of my scientific publications on my social media, he ended our relationship with this text...So a huge win at work AND trash took itself out? How does it feel to be god’s favorite? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/03/21 08:25 PM |
| 85 | Accept responsibility when your partner cheats? How about hell no!Let me guess, written by a man? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/03/21 08:12 PM |
| 16 | miss me with that coddling bsThey’ll cry that ugly cry and continue to be misogynistic. This is a good distinction. It’s manipulative that men have disfigured feminism to benefit them. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/03/21 07:56 PM |
| 2 | The "bed nest" post that was mentioned in the podcastNooooooo.. like just.. no! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/03/21 07:46 PM |
| 21 | FDS Podcast Episode 2 is HERE!!! FAQs about Feminism, Double Standards, Being Friends with an ExI love you ladies! You’re my source of strength nowadays and I was so scared that you were gone (yesterday) 🥺 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/03/21 01:40 AM |
| 11 | This is why FDS exists. To counteract the army of redpillers/PUA who have been taught to prey on vulnerable women.Woah ! This could be predator 101 telling men to prey on a woman with psychological issues. Yikes! They’re all trash. So glad I’m done with men. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/03/21 08:27 PM |
| 4 | 💯% true for me.What’s stopping straight men from saying they’re gay to get you into a false sense of security, I know most of them are homophobic but still? I wouldn’t be too quick to let my guard down. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/03/21 04:49 PM |
| 39 | Had a comment removed from a different sub because telling someone to wait longer than 2 dates to have sex is apparently “dehumanizing” to men?How dare you try to deprive men of their entitlement and right to women’s bodies by using logic./s | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/03/21 09:23 PM |
| 5 | Anthony Spade. LVM. Avoid this type of man and all men in the comments.Haha stoped after two minutes because this is absolute garbage. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/03/21 07:29 PM |
| 158 | You read about us on Vice. She said we hate men; she said we’re no different than the redpill. You were disgusted by us. Yet, somehow, you felt some urge to come here.A fellow single mother shared this sub on a FB group as an answer to some dating question. I thank her from the bottom of my heart. This has been the support group I wish I had when I was in my late teens/early twenties, but better late than never. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/03/21 04:31 AM |
| 5 | What Dominique Sisley (Vice) said she was writing about FDS vs. what she actually wroteYou know you’re doing something right when you get criticism from men and pickmes on that scale. This sub has been my favorite ever since I found it 3 months ago. It has made me realize how flawed my approach was to dating and relationships and that I need to grow a spine whe it comes to romantic relationships. Thanks to this sub I dropped this male child I was talking to who despite being broke and below average looks made it pretty clear that I was to put in all the effort and he’ll show up wh… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/03/21 04:15 PM |
| 17 | “Imports” poor wife from developing nation to cook and clean whileOmg that’s so true. Even ‘good’ desi men are inherently misogynistic to some extent and lose their shit if the status quo is challenged | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/03/21 07:06 PM |
| 2 | The REAL reason men are on dating sites often isn't to find a date.That makes so much sense in retrospect. I talked to some guys through online dating sites and their personalities take a serious downward slope. They’re just looking to see who takes the bait so they can feel good about their porn induced ED and bottom of the barrel personality. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/02/21 04:36 AM |
| 5 | They never change! Abusive husband on fetlifeI could have written this myself! I was married to a guy who engaged in high risk sexual activity on a regular basis while keeping it a secret. I have never felt so disgusted by a human in my life! I thank my stars everyday that I got out of that marriage without an std. when men go low, they go really low. I can’t imagine the stuff I found out he’s been engaging in. Makes me want to shower just thinking about it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/01/21 04:15 AM |
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