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| 1 | Many redpill communities say modern women need to change, but is the average male fueling women to not change?I doubt you can tell if someone is wearing natural makeup or not. People usually can't without looking very closely Shit, I can't tell if someone is wearing makeup at all without looking closely, not like.. consciously, at least I was with this one girl for ~2 years, and still messing with her for another year+ after that, and in that whole time I saw her only one time with no makeup at all, no eyelashes, nothin. ONCE! When I saw her I was caught off guard and actually thought "huh.. she's reall… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/07/22 11:20 PM |
| 1 | Many redpill communities say modern women need to change, but is the average male fueling women to not change?No, I'm just thinking of makeup in general. It looks worse than if you just wore no makeup lol Clearly, men in general tend to think that women look better with makeup, otherwise they wouldn't bother. You'd think this is how things would work but uhh.. yeah, doesn't seem to work like that. Woman just don't listen, no matter what guys say I bet every dude on here has had a girlfriend who he told "I think you look better without makeup" and she just completely disregarded that and carried on doing… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/07/22 10:13 PM |
| 1 | Many redpill communities say modern women need to change, but is the average male fueling women to not change?I genuinely think no makeup looks better 100% of the time. I don't know what women are thinking wasting so much time just to make themselves look WORSE Ive dated a woman who didnt wear makeup she was beautiful. Note, ladies: she was "beautiful." Not "hot," but "beautiful" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/07/22 09:48 PM |
| 1 | Are women attracted to ambition or results?He had good traits- he was extremely loving and caring, he paid attention (at the start), we had shared interests. I felt safe and loved when I was with him (until the end). Feeling "safe" is such a bizarre thing to me, yet I hear girls say it all the time. My first gf would always tell me how important it was for her to feel safe, and would ask me if she was safe with me. I'm like "uhh.. sure?" Still don't know what y'all mean by "safe" I stuck around because I have horrifically low self esteem… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/07/22 07:09 PM |
| 1 | Are women attracted to ambition or results?Alright, yeah, that would be pretty annoying, especially #2 for me. Hard to believe a woman would actually stick around with a dude like this. Like.. what did you actually like about him? lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/07/22 06:46 PM |
| 1 | The reason why you struggle dating as a guy is because you lack fundamentals of attraction.to be fair love is a huge part of the equation but a lot of men have different standards for love that they find acceptable. what one guy finds clingy another will find adorable, and what one guy finds to be too avoidant might be another mans perfect match. even aside from this you have to prove your love in more ways than just spamming "i love you" and that goes for women too. I dunno, I think men's standard is pretty much just "are you there at the end of the day?" Don't cheat, don't leave me,… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/07/22 06:29 PM |
| 1 | Are women attracted to ambition or results?I suppose the same reasons you would marry anyone else | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/07/22 06:08 PM |
| 1 | Are women attracted to ambition or results?I’m not lazy, and I find lazy people insufferable to be around for any length of time so dating one is off the cards (made that mistake in the past). What do you consider "lazy?" I’m happy to date a student starting out, or a trainee x. As long as they are moving forward. And this attitude leaks into other parts of their life/personality. What is "moving forward?" And what are we moving forward towards? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/07/22 05:54 PM |
| 1 | Are women attracted to ambition or results?I wouldn’t marry a man who was a billionaire due to inheritance - and was lazy anf had zero ambition. Why in the holy hell not? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/07/22 05:45 PM |
| 1 | Why do women push back so hard on the notion that dating may be easier for them?So that's a no on her posting proof then, I'm guessing? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/07/22 05:08 PM |
| 1 | The reason why you struggle dating as a guy is because you lack fundamentals of attraction.Let's see some proof | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/07/22 04:27 PM |
| 1 | Imagine your most controversial reddit account, posts and comments become publicly linked to you. How would your husband/wife/boyfriend/girlfriend react, as well as friends and family? Would you lose any relationships?They would probably be surprised at how tame I can be. I assume they wouldn't know about how easy it is to get banned on Reddit.. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/07/22 12:25 PM |
| 1 | What do y'all think about this list of red flags?On that note, you could add to the list the exact opposite: "I would never do anything with a girl/I've never done anything with a girl/I'm not interested in doing anything with a girl" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/07/22 10:55 AM |
| 3 | Females can't guarantee success in dating women, but what about the reverse?One underlying premise of pill thinking and the manosphere is that men understand themselves and women better than women understand themselves and men. Another is that women hold significant baseline advantages and power in dating. Even if both these premises are only 60 to 70 percent true, they combine to fuel a pretty interesting and compelling thesis: A woman, advised by a man, could basically be hugely successful in dating, possibly nigh unstoppable. Think Gary Kasparov or Magnus Carlsen get… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/07/22 08:17 AM |
| 3 | The reason why you struggle dating as a guy is because you lack fundamentals of attraction.Good girl | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/07/22 07:03 AM |
| 2 | Are women attracted to ambition or results?The answer is that they don't know. Women don't know what they want. This has been a well known fact for centuries now, right? They don't have a god damn clue. One day they'll say this, the next day they'll say that. They'll say one thing while doing the exact opposite and they'll act like that makes total sense | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/07/22 07:01 AM |
| 0 | What do y'all think about this list of red flags?This is a pretty shitty assumption. I grew up with two parents who loved me and raised me well. I don’t have daddy issues or mommy issues. I don’t have any trauma that would’ve “caused” my sexuality. I’m 21 years old and my N count? 1. And it’s with my current long term partner. Apparently I have “loose sexual boundaries” now because I think both men and women are attractive? I understand you saying that about polyamory, that’s definitely a specific lifestyle, but that is not at all the same thi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/07/22 06:18 AM |
| 4 | The reason why you struggle dating as a guy is because you lack fundamentals of attraction.support, finances, talent, wisdom Hah hahaha. And you figure you can find those in a woman?! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/07/22 04:25 AM |
| 1 | What do y'all think about this list of red flags?You left out one of my personal favorite, and one that I cannot believe men will ignore/believe.. Says that she can't get pregnant/thinks she can't get pregnant. Bonus if she's never even been to the doctor about it (99% of the time she hasn't) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/07/22 04:14 AM |
| 2 | The reason why you struggle dating as a guy is because you lack fundamentals of attraction.Doesn't nerdy = shy? All you need to do is push the right buttons with the right people. Well I think I can get just about anyone to like me, but is that the right way to be going about things? Like, should I be acting a certain way because I want this person to like me? I'm thinking the answer is no, not if it misrepresents who I am, right? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/07/22 04:01 AM |
| 3 | The reason why you struggle dating as a guy is because you lack fundamentals of attraction.Pussy? Pussy isn't crass.. Now CUNT is crass! And vagina just makes me want to vomit | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/07/22 03:51 AM |
| 2 | The reason why you struggle dating as a guy is because you lack fundamentals of attraction.Personally, I want someone who shares an interest. Someone I can talk to who and learn from. I’m busy, jaded, and old, so I’m not holding my breath for someone to appear and fulfill my needs, so I couldn’t give you a complete answer Ehh I want a toilet made of solid gold but it's just not in the cards. I think people have too many "needs" a lot of the time. I've whittled it down to basically just pussy and love, yep. Whooole lot of things I want, but as far as "need" goes? Those two pretty much … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/07/22 03:38 AM |
| 2 | The reason why you struggle dating as a guy is because you lack fundamentals of attraction.Oh right, I forgot to mention love, man's greatest weakness What else could they "bring to the table" that would make them not interchangeable, and make commitment not a face? That's a serious question, by the way! I'm curious.. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/07/22 03:08 AM |
| 1 | The reason why you struggle dating as a guy is because you lack fundamentals of attraction.For example - looking for a nerdy girl you can share all your hobbies and interests with? She might not have the same physical standards for you that other women do, but she certainly still needs you to be confident and charming otherwise you won't stand out among the swaths of other guys interested in her. You'd think this would be the type of girl who wouldn't necessarily be into the whole confident and charming thing, or at least wouldn't require that in a guy I guess that depends on what you… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/07/22 02:58 AM |
| 14 | The reason why you struggle dating as a guy is because you lack fundamentals of attraction.Ok, but what do women bring to the table? Pussy! Seems kinda obvious, right? Of course it's the pussy.. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/07/22 02:51 AM |
| 5 | A simple take: The two all-important and most fundamental basic masculine traits that attract women is strength and ability.When I’ve had candid talks with women about this I have found that they mostly say that leadership is what gets them off. What the hell is "leadership?" Never really understood what that meant. I mean, I know leadership like Napoleon was a great leader, but what is "leadership" when it comes to relationships? How can someone be the leader? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/07/22 09:05 PM |
| 3 | [Q4All] To what extent does mental health actually play a role in strategized dating?Does somebody having a specific disorder or mental health red flag serve as a dealbreaker for you? Yes, without a doubt, anything cluster B is a dealbreaker. Not necessarily based on a single "red flag" or even several of them, but at some point things will be familiar enough to me that I'm gonna get my ass outta there pronto Are you currently struggling with your own issues that makes dating more of a challenge? Not really Does somebody having issues that are being addressed through therapy les… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/07/22 08:09 PM |
| 2 | Would you prefer to just sleep around with multiple women instead of a relationship?I want to simp for just 1 woman :'( But I wouldn't get married to one. No man that lives in the US (dunno about other places, can't speak for them) should be getting married enthusiastic sex, not just a duty starfish sex like in marriage. Definitely shouldn't be getting married to a woman like this. If a woman isn't doing everything you want to in the bedroom (within reason..) then you should kick her goofy ass to the curb I mean, give training her a fair shot but if she's hopeless then don't fe… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/07/22 12:49 PM |
| 1 | The entire crux of every debate ever had in the pill ecosystem is rooted in the fact that women are looked down upon for having sexMaybe you missed the whole point of his post? If all women were like you, then we would achieve world peace in no time | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/07/22 12:30 PM |
| 1 | The entire crux of every debate ever had in the pill ecosystem is rooted in the fact that women are looked down upon for having sexThat's not I meant. What I meant was "are you one of the ones that will lead us to world peace?" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/07/22 11:33 AM |
| 1 | The entire crux of every debate ever had in the pill ecosystem is rooted in the fact that women are looked down upon for having sexAbsolutely not true for any grown up, liberal woman. I've never "looked down on myself" for having had sex or not. I might have had regrets about some relationships, sex included, but my regrets included many other things about the relationship. If that's true then does this post even apply to you? Is someone else looking down upon you? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/07/22 11:23 AM |
| 1 | The entire crux of every debate ever had in the pill ecosystem is rooted in the fact that women are looked down upon for having sexYou're close to the right answer, very close. The outcomes are all reasonable too, even world peace, amusingly Here's the part where you got it wrong: it's not that women are looked down upon for having sex, and it's not that men treat sex as an implicit deed to a woman's womb (I don't even know what that means but I know that's not it lol) Nope, it's not that men look down on them, or the world looks down on them for having sex.. it's all themselves. They look down upon themselves for having se… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/07/22 09:19 AM |
| 2 | Does anyone actually talk about *having sex* on this Sub?I'd say at least 1/3 of all the conversations I have are about sex or become about sex Not sure my endgame is to have an orgasm with someone else though lol. Fucking is good though, yes | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/07/22 08:52 AM |
| 1 | What do men feel emasculated on / double standard?Should this really be a question for women? Not saying you should completely disregard their input but I think most of the time this would just be an assumption on their part, unless men have told them "this makes me feel emasculated!" It's not feasible for one person to work and one to stay home in the United States either I personally couldn't fathom someone getting upset if their partner (woman) out earning them, like wtf? That makes sense, because it never happens. Your friend is just full o… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/07/22 06:19 AM |
| 1 | If you and a girl sleep together on the first date, do you become uninterested in her?I most likely wouldn't have sex the first time I meet a girl but if, hypothetically, that did happen, then hell no it's not going to make me uninterested! The only man that is going to become uninterested after you have sex with him is a man that is just seeing if he can get into your pants, then moving on to the next one. It wouldn't matter if you fucked him on the first date, or if it took 50 dates, he'd still do the same thing. That's what he does Really doubt most guys are going to see this … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/07/22 05:12 AM |
| 2 | What do men feel emasculated on / double standard?I gotta admit it, she's right on this one. Not sure what you consider a "good friend," but out of the dozen good male friends you have, I'd bet 10-11 of them would do it 5 years is a long time yeah. My experience was with ~15 years and 25+ years of friendship, and I mean about as close as friends can get, not "they're cool to talk to when we see each other at the bar" kinda shit | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/07/22 03:48 AM |
| 1 | Why do women push back so hard on the notion that dating may be easier for them?Is there any proof she posted somewhere? Or we just taking her word for all of this? Oh why am I even asking.. 50% of the messages she received weren't harassment/rape. She's lying | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/07/22 03:33 AM |
| 1 | Why do women push back so hard on the notion that dating may be easier for them?Probably the fear of being taken advantage off, pregnancy (especially with the current political climate), and being viewed as a tramp if it takes a few men to find your man. Being taken advantage of how? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/07/22 02:02 AM |
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