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Everyone clamors for state involvement - so the state should be paying this
/r/MensRights05/03/26 08:18 PM
6

You still perhaps unconsciously still make the case: if she's convicted why will he likely have a better shot? The children are his. Should they go to the state? That's going to work. The system is biased against fathers. Children will go to unfit mothers or the state before a good father who has to prove his case.
/r/MensRights02/03/26 11:46 AM
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Drag. I feel for this. It was man space with at least a possible ambiguous sexuality. Then it went full white woman and can any man even participate ? There's Ru Paul et al but at the local level it's all white women.
/r/MensRights19/01/26 03:22 AM
3

Men have created the wealth that allows others to explore these soft points in life - my journey, me, studying various relationships between groups predicated on a continual stream of wealth. But the world is always grounded in those that produce physical and basic necessities. And oddly enough women have removed themselves from participating in farming, cottage industries, cottage manufacturing etc. women have become priestesses of the temple but the temple needs gold and that gold is the resul…
/r/MensRights19/12/25 06:14 AM
6

Women's violence is actually at epidemic levels. From grade school to adulthood. Women and young girls are going off the rails. Male crime was dropping for years; upticks are in communities where antisocial behaviour is applauded and celebrated so of course it's going to go up. But violence of workaday tax paying men is way down. We're just working and repeating. We're the bedrock as always.
/r/MensRights08/12/25 04:46 AM
4

Yes. And I understand why you would ask about the presence of children because practically speaking it does matter as a relationship without children is sort of in abeyance - it's neither here nor there. But it's was said and twice. It was an intercultural marriage which was doomed from the start as her concerns where uplifting relatives not building our family home. Lesson learned for me. Went in with cataracts and gained clarity over time. Such is life.
/r/MensRights05/12/25 04:50 AM
5

You're not my family - wife to husband.
/r/MensRights05/12/25 02:07 AM
10

Yes exactly. The process including the financial cost is the punishment. $10-20k + in legal defense for the average person can represent months to years of after-tax discretionary income. Which is labour, stress, time, opp cost - all wasted on a false claims. And that's if the person is settled enough to have access to cash or loc to fund the defense. Many don't and can't afford a proper legal defense . As an aside when someone says "it's only money" I spit back, "yeah the thousands of hours I h…
/r/MensRights27/11/25 10:38 PM
88

Door Dash Girl. Accusation of sexual assault. Changing story to test fit until finding the "narrative" of events that works. It didn't even have to get to court to be disproven but won't show up in false accusations stats. It's a specific event for sure. But I suspect and from my own experience not rare. Drumming up a false accusation is one of the first lines of attack. Police need to employ ample judgment to resist bringing cases to court that have no merit. For men the legal process is judgme…
/r/MensRights27/11/25 03:36 PM
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Wear it with pride. One of the last bastions of free speech where one well argued point can be countered by another - almost like the way discussions are supposed to go rather than descending into dogma and self correction against the approved thoughts lists or idiotic snark.
/r/MensRights15/10/25 04:13 AM
8

It probably has to do with the iron supplement. Vitamin c helps with iron absorption and if you see the iron value is higher in the women's vitamin - probably menstruation related.
/r/MensRights27/09/25 05:08 AM
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Again, the sexist language in the media. She didn't persuade she groomed and raped. Persuasion assumes the other party can agree and has the faculties to understand what's being requested. Example, "when I went in for my morning coffee the clerk persuaded me to try a freshly baked muffin saying they were delicious. I took one bite and was glad I took the suggestion." Children and people with serious mental illnesses aren't persuaded into such activities- they are manipulated, groomed.
/r/MensRights25/09/25 04:14 PM
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Yes absolutely true. Physicality as a matter of good health is essential for everyone but can be overlooked. Some take it to more focused places and that's great if you got the interest and the genes for it, it just doesn't have to be the trope of the buffed out guy (it does help). There's lots of weird looking dudes who are notable in their fields and they don't have worry about bench presses. Lol.
/r/MensRights11/09/25 09:43 PM
8

I would devote your energies to self improvement - not necessarily physically but in terms of career, education, skill mastery etc. build yourself up in a certain arena - some choose physical, but there's your chosen profession, there's hobbies, art and music etc. don't waste energy on what other people are doing /thinking. You can't control them directly. You can only make the best of yourself for yourself and let the interpersonal relationships unfold. But don't focus on it. It's not directly …
/r/MensRights11/09/25 05:01 PM
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You're right. There is no fundamental benefit to men to vote for any mainstream political party. A man wants to build, but he buys the bricks and the tax man takes 55 percent away. He buys land but even bare land has unending taxes. I'm not against taxation. I agree with a degree of pooling of societal resources for common interests - roads, water, essential health care, basic state level controls on quality standards of like raw materials, food, import inspections. But it's been out of hand in …
/r/MensRights08/09/25 01:04 AM
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I was once a liberal - very much so. But as you describe the identity politics, the intra-group combativness - where there should be some commonality - has given way to a complete destruction of almost anything and replacement with nothing. Common law attacked in favour of race based sentencing, prejudice against certain perceived advantaged groups without acknowledging other groups advantages and benefits, lack of any long term understanding of consequences of decisions, frankly racist and ridi…
/r/MensRights07/09/25 04:35 AM
194

This is why western post secondary education is a joke. Keep the politics and the social justice opinions out of it. Stick to actual disciplines and mastery of material.
/r/MensRights06/09/25 03:30 PM
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Some legitimately care. In particular those that have male relatives/friends chewed up by the system. And then those of the strong intellect that can understand the faults with popular feminism, the politics at play in both men and women's issues, the deceit, the failure with any sort of black-white philosophy, arguments against a straw man etc. some genuinely get it but many it's a trend, intellectual junk food nothing more.
/r/MensRights05/09/25 11:04 PM
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The mental gymnastics some will go through will prove that based on such and such events we can't have a democracy and therefore need an authoritarian regime. It's the standard, so and so vote this way. Well that's because of bias, cultural this or that or internalized whatnot and therefore we can't give them full power of vote. Us the enlightened must save them from themselves. It's the usual well rehearsed trope. But everyone thinks they just came up with it. I smh.
/r/MensRights04/09/25 02:35 AM
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I agree under Jagmeet and company it became an embarrassment of party that could've tasted power and been an official opposition with broad based appeal. Instead it chose fringe issues better suited to a student union to make a national campaign and program on. Horrendous. At least Jack never got see this mess. He was good, honest and had integrity. Not perfect but good. And Canada needs good more than ever.
/r/MensRights04/09/25 12:50 AM
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Well I won't be voting for NDP again. They were always a conscience vote where if things were ok and libs and cons weren't seriously off the rails I'd vote NDP so they could maybe have more leverage in parliament when things were good and stable but this making voting power for leadership contingent partly on sex is appalling. It gives credibility to some unsavory ideas in other parties. It also takes any moral authority they have away as it shows that they are just human and simply have a diffe…
/r/MensRights03/09/25 02:32 AM
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And then they wonder why men are stingy with the empathy? You can't see all the snakes in the grass. And if you get bitten they take care of the snake.
/r/MensRights30/08/25 03:25 AM
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I support this. So many female "crash outs" that are applauded are just the personality and psychology issues and maybe neurological issues that need to be condemned for their display and treatment sought out.
/r/MensRights13/08/25 06:49 PM
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It exposes the double standards in society's response. A man would be destroyed and made a pariah. But what's more interesting is the man took steps to keep her out of legal consequences. I had to do that with my ex. Keep her out of jail. It's a male trait predominantly. I find women want to punish their partners physically and/or legally. Men are less likely to do that in terms of instigating physicality and involving law enforcement. His response is the real interesting thing here. Her respons…
/r/MensRights04/08/25 06:20 PM
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It's not a thought or a feeling. It's biological imperative. We are not this free beings born with a blank slate. We come programmed and hormonally adapted. Women with child can have more children. So there's less risk as you've done the deed before and you're fertile . Step out of this human existence frame and just look above like a group of beings was trying to survive as species. Ignore the political and existential fatalism and the opinion that humans are a virus or cancer. Just step back a…
/r/MensRights17/07/25 05:43 AM
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True and that's good advice. But men must remember that regardless of what society says there is no relationship symmetry. Gender roles exist, sons imo tend to bear the failings of the father even if it is unfounded.
/r/MensRights17/07/25 02:24 AM
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It's totally true. She broke my foot, trashed my office, threw a mason jar at my head that missed me by inches - I could feels the airflow against my face, the damage to the wall, tried to strangle me with a cord, among other things. My family: we don't talk about that or address that. It simply doesn't exist to other people. It's a complete break in relationship and relational symmetry with other people. You'll never feel quite alone until that happens. But - the silver lining is you learn a lo…
/r/MensRights16/07/25 06:58 AM
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From changing other kids diapers at child care facilities? Like day cares? Then yes. I don't know what else to propose until they have better systems in place to address the issue and someone has to do it and men are.typically in the minority in these types of jobs. It ain't perfect; obviously that we are having discussion shows that.
/r/MensRights05/07/25 12:57 PM
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I side with your opinion. These aren't fathers in parental roles. There's no children separated from fatherly care. This a rogue pervert that slipped into a system for his own ends. I know some will say what about women predators - and yes it's an issue. But on one of pure risk mitigation it has to be done this way. Overall childcare needs improved systems and screening like no diaper care or bathing without dual parties and more screening of workers. There's steps to take.
/r/MensRights05/07/25 02:41 AM
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Yes. It's tired and lazy philosophy that runs a giant steam roller over the complexities of society to make very basic and antisocial policies. In many ways antilife itself.
/r/MensRights04/07/25 02:41 AM
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I agree. And it's worth pointing out that there's never really been an underlying concept of male equality or as a unified body ever as far as I am aware except for some biblical verses about the roles of husbands and fathers. Men are always stratified by class, propertied v unpropertied, learned v labourers etc. so it's not really an advantageous concept that either the left or right would take up. The left is obsessed with Marxian power dynamics that see men as intrinsically oppressors so you …
/r/MensRights04/07/25 02:32 AM
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What a load of bs. Men don't get blind procedural faithfulness and innocence until guilt is proven. Men are tried and convicted upon the most baseless accusation.
/r/MensRights03/07/25 09:39 PM
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Exactly. Just looking at it objectively women are primed to be highly attuned sensors; where as men discouraged from acknowledging it or finding a non legal or extra judicious means of redressing the problem. I look at my own life. I want peace with my neighbors. so their kid throws a ball and damages my property - I'm not going to flip out. I think the leniency that I was afforded as a kid and pass it along. I'm not running to the state teary eyed and runny nosed looking to get a cheque or take…
/r/MensRights02/07/25 02:01 AM
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Men have much higher threshold for social transgressions including violence - hence the idea that two dudes could get in bar shoving match and then after tempers cool still share a drink. I've been there. Lots of guys have. Men don't really want the state meddling in our personal lives. I covered for my ex-wife numerous times for her erratic behavior because there's no point in tossing her to the legal system. It will hurt children, costs thousands to defend, lost jobs, and then man gets hurt ag…
/r/MensRights01/07/25 07:10 PM
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Yes. Exactly. It didn't extract anything from women and was an elite cosmetic thing. Not an oppressive practice to keep women from leaving. There is so much muddling of the differences in high and low culture and elite vs everyday practices. It's a gross misrepresentation to make claims of complete women dominion by men. It's just not a thing.
/r/MensRights01/07/25 05:21 PM
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The patriarchy if it ever existed was maybe 20-50 years in the 1800s to help solidify social order for inheritance purposes. But this idea of male dominated society at the expense of women which is the key is just not a thing. Maybe in China with the foot bindings perhaps but it's just not reality for most people. It's a picture of the past that may be the case for a handful of people but isn't a rule that all should life by. It's a phantom in the machine or something they call it where you look…
/r/MensRights01/07/25 06:33 AM
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At least you acknowledge it's an issue. we are no longer together. she was in everyone's corner - and a people pleaser so she regularly overwhelmed/overextended herself. I would try to get her to pullback as it was causing problems in a variety of ways. At the end some people are just too concerned with others.
/r/MensRights26/06/25 01:57 AM
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It's constant problems out there. You go for a walk or bike ride or whatever and someone is acting like they own the public path. You say something about rules of the road or such and they get their chest out and want conflict. You go downtown it's drug addicts harassing you. Shit covered street. If you're with your gf/wife and you snap at a dude (begging for something) to back off she gets mad at you for raising your voice. Go to a restaurant and the food is bland and over priced. It's the same…
/r/MensRights22/06/25 04:11 PM
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The downplay of murder ludicrous: "She took her boyfriend's life."? Really? Can we not just ask her where she stored it so that we can give it back to him? And then "caught" in an abusive relationship? Seriously?
/r/MensRights21/06/25 11:37 PM
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Sorry you are going this. Such a strange set of circumstances. There was absolutely no reason for her to get upset - maybe she has mental issues, PPD? . Document everything including that work friend gassing your wife up. Save your texts. Get Attorney, don't meet her privately and don't cohabitate. Things sound irretrievably broken.
/r/MensRights07/06/25 10:07 PM
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Budget Household spending. Avoid consumer debt. It's easier and less painful to divide cash and liquid investments. Always stay liquid and solvent. Don't overbuy on your home. The mortgage should be the only debt of the marriage and should be manageable on one income if there are sufficient investments likes cash, stocks etc. Buy used cars for cash; no car notes. Prenup to exclude any debts like student loans your partner may have. In fact don't marry them if they have large debts. Ignore the Jo…
/r/MensRights29/05/25 08:47 PM
1

See Bill Burr on middle age vs gay straight and lesbian. Very funny and true.
/r/MensRights16/05/25 07:16 PM
6

The West is dead. It's just looking for a place to lie down.
/r/MensRights10/05/25 02:55 AM
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Ryan is the worse type of male there is. Comes off as nice and harmless but uses indirect methods to attack people. He'd never punch a man in the face but he'd resort to reputation destruction, and use his clout to kill someone's career because he doesn't like someone. He belongs with her.
/r/MensRights02/04/25 07:49 PM
3

Shut up.
/r/MensRights28/03/25 05:24 AM
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And men of this amazing ability to keep doing out jobs however shitty it is because no one is coming to fix it and money in your pocket after a week of some grueling task is better than going hungry. There's a neglected honor and dignity in doing what you gotta do.
/r/MensRights27/03/25 10:05 PM
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The go to when a woman is insulting a man "what? Are you gay?." Rights and dignity for me but denigration for thee.
/r/MensRights19/03/25 06:23 PM
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I agree. The UK is reaching failed state status. Who'd a thunk it that 50 years of policies against the male Brits would lead to social problems?
/r/MensRights16/03/25 07:42 PM
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A lot of the education systems in the west have been building girls up at the expense of boys if not tearing them down. I remember growing up in the 90s and it was all rah rah rah girls. Anything to support their self-esteem while tearing down boys. It was a mess that us here. Let merit stand. If you have to do boys and girls separate classes then do so but don't undermine and take resources away from boys issues to prop up girls.
/r/MensRights15/03/25 03:15 AM
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Well, sort of. Except that society is monogamous and rejects polygamy - a deficit of males and excess women without Polygamy is suboptimal for reproduction. It's evidence of a cultural decision overriding a decision that's best for the population.Polygamy is the solution and actually very common among apes and people.
/r/MensRights11/03/25 12:33 AM
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It's an engrained genetic bias formed over Millenia of evolution in apes. It's numbers - nothing more. 10-20 % of men with about 50%-100% of women could keep a population viable and distinct genetically. Women take 9 months to reproduce, men less time. More men are disposable than women. And even men will side with any irrational issue if it means he can mate. Now at the state level whether that is good policy is another matter.
/r/MensRights10/03/25 04:02 AM
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I agree. A male general strike would grind society to a halt. We don't go back to work until there are reforms in the judicial system. Namely returning to the presumption of innocence, anonymity of accused in certain crimes where there is only an eye witness, compensation of legal costs where found innocent, compensation for time incarcerated without conviction. A general move to a legal system functioning to the highest of values.
/r/MensRights05/03/25 08:57 PM
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False allegations are just the norm now. My soon to be ex wife threatened me with saying she would be claiming false assault charges on me just to get her way. Men protect yourself. Get out of hostile situations, record everything - even put a sign out front that this premises is recorded inside and out at all times. It's not worth it. The threat is stain. It hurts always and doesn't go away.
/r/MensRights05/03/25 06:16 AM
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Draft, perceived role in society disposable workers, perceived guilt in matters of law especially in domestic matters, suspicions around men as teachers and caregivers, the trope of the bungling 1 dimensional idiot male, it goes on.
/r/MensRights21/02/25 03:53 AM
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I oscillate between the idea that men forced marriage on women and the women forced marriage on men. I've for now settled in the idea that some people informally pair off and will generally remain committed. There's no ceremony but socially it's understood that these two will not engage in relations with others. The rest enter into relationships of convenience I.e. when either party needs something but usually food, shelter etc. Society (elders, influential persons) will look for stability and e…
/r/MensRights13/02/25 04:57 AM
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That I can be alone for long periods of time without without any need for external validation
/r/MensRights25/01/25 03:12 AM
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It's the families that will suffer. All behind the scenes. No one will see it until someone's dead or the child is released into the world and then enters the system.
/r/MensRights22/01/25 12:14 AM
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They won't. They lack all pragmatism and practicality. The left is caught up in first year uni idealism. Theyve never held jobs, never held responsibilities. The left's been coopted by a very naive youth mentality. Not all on the left are necessarily that way but the power brokers want the youth and the loud and present are the idealistic uni students.
/r/MensRights17/01/25 11:09 PM
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Garbage in garbage out still applies. We will be into a new age of censorship where we cant see the underlying info just whatever the Masters of the AI decide we should see.
/r/MensRights08/01/25 01:53 AM
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Working for Someone close and familiar will definitely help. Throwing him into say home Depot could be overload vis a vis his old job. We become conditioned to our old jobs and it's an adjustment period to life outside. Gradual introduction to working in a different manner will take time.
/r/MensRights18/12/24 07:02 AM
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You've summed up the issues nicely. It's clear and logical but still many on the left will look for the hidden variable. It's not jobs or health or family - it's not what these men say it's how they are -ists and -phobes. I was similarly very left growing up into adulthood but over 30 years I've shifted closer to a centrist - as it was long ago - basically sensibility in everything, understanding nuance and shades of grey as opposed to blanket generalities. But that's dead now. Unless you embrac…
/r/MensRights11/12/24 10:13 PM
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Job scope errands as she was working for the county unlike an aide in the private sector where jobs can be looser. Edit for wording and clarity
/r/MensRights09/12/24 03:01 AM
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I'd argue we can exist quite well in brotherhoods like armies, monestaries, scientific groups, etc. quite well with minimal internal conflicts. A lot of great things come about when men devote themselves to fraternal community orders.
/r/MensRights21/11/24 01:05 PM
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I follow lots of right and left, men and women's subs and things are getting spicy. I'm not american so I didn't vote because I could not. Regardless I'm making a move to some place far away.
/r/MensRights11/11/24 05:17 AM
1

That feminism has been coopted by capitalism to.turm women into mega consumers is true. It's also ironic that female consumption is linked so heavily to pollution and slave labour like conditions. Fast fashion with it's poor labour standards and waste is not driven by men. Hygiene and healthcare products are major pollutants but again not a predominantly male driven activity. The drive for bigger homes is usually a push from the wife. When men live alone it's typically in a very small space for …
/r/MensRights08/10/24 11:59 AM
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I've started pulling back or eliminating spending on any such groups or events. Anything that reeks of anti-male I just simply ignore . I will patronize those whom have earned my business as my money is worth more to me than any current trend or novelty.
/r/MensRights30/09/24 09:25 PM
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Even the mother is doubtful. A lot of women feel sore about their husbands and take it out on their sons. I have dealt with this my whole life. I've pulled away from all my family as it's all one sided. The only unconditional love I get is from my child.
/r/MensRights30/09/24 02:08 PM
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Um. I didn't realize this was a controversial take. A lot of men's issues begin in childhood. And a lot of men take those issues into adulthood. I didn't mean that there aren't negative elements that men face on their own regardless of their childhood just that a lot of resolution to many of society's issues resides in raising boys better. This isn't ancient Sparta. We don't have to raise boys so harshly was my point.
/r/MensRights28/08/24 05:25 AM
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It is disheartening that many people men and women fail to realize that boy's issues, become men's issues which become women's issues. Poorly, heartlessly raised and exploited boys don't become good young men, husbands, citizens and fathers. Most likely they repeat patterns. Take care of the boys as well as girls. Raise them in alignment with their emergent personalities, and the type of person that contributes positively in some form or another to society. Mistreated boys grow up to asshole men…
/r/MensRights27/08/24 12:27 AM
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I've never seen a divorced dad fall apart unless he had a history of mental health or substance issues. Many thrive .
/r/MensRights17/08/24 02:30 AM
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You can't say that - they are sensitive/s
/r/MensRights15/08/24 06:56 PM
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She's a victim - she was wantonly deprived of a man's cash to which she's entitled!!! Make her a peer /s
/r/MensRights13/08/24 11:33 AM
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Preferential access to govt grants and small business loans. No specific tax act but that would be unconstitutional.
/r/MensRights13/08/24 06:44 AM
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My soon to be ex "jokingly" called me a meal a ticket when we first met. I nervously laughed it off. Ohhhhhh I was wrong and shouldve went running.
/r/MensRights11/08/24 02:45 AM
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Not disagreeing directly it's just a lot of women's college education are in social sciences and education that still carry big student debt loads but offer marginally better employment prospects than just a high school education on an absolute basis. An extra $10-20k pretax is really marginal when looking at accumulated earnings when offset against debt obligations and service.
/r/MensRights05/08/24 02:31 AM
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It's odd how that can happen. I know. Power to you.
/r/MensRights06/07/24 03:25 AM
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Can we get 60 days in county lockup? No. Nothing?
/r/MensRights06/07/24 03:21 AM
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Also known as rape. it's crazy how media softens it to seem like it's two consenting parties.
/r/MensRights06/07/24 02:16 AM
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I am firmly heterosexual but yes I can agree Henry Cavill is truly a handsome man. I don't envy other men except for his looks. Lol.
/r/MensRights05/07/24 05:52 PM
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I'm not surprised - going to work, commuting, dealing with difficult coworkers, possibly dangerous situations, low pay, shitty bosses etc sucks. Men have been dealing with that for centuries.
/r/MensRights05/07/24 05:23 PM
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That's the abusive women's handbook right there.
/r/MensRights02/07/24 11:47 AM
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I'm not surprised that mothers are in the majority. Every women in my family up to Grandma has a horrible horrible temper. The men are calm and go about the business of the day.
/r/MensRights28/06/24 02:57 AM
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Sadly I've seen men professionally and socially just doing normal things and normal activities and a women will get some sort of paranoia that the man is after her. But I've been in the same group, same activities, same table and it's like a movie conjured up in their head. Nothing real went down.
/r/MensRights11/06/24 01:54 PM
1

Going through tough times myself and the ones I can talk to are also going through tough times. Family for the most part no, friends but only if going through tough times. People think tough times are a contagion. So they ignore rather than support. You will endure and emerge stronger
/r/MensRights07/06/24 06:17 AM
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See Bill Burr's take. It's comedy but accurate.
/r/MensRights29/05/24 07:12 PM
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Could you do 50/50 but alternate months or shift some school months for summer months? I don't know your situation, schedules, distances involved. I feel for your daughter - picking up and resetting weekly is rough. As a kid I had every second weekend for a couple of volatile years until father wasn't able to show up anymore. It sucked
/r/MensRights21/05/24 12:02 AM
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Also keep a log of your time and activities.
/r/MensRights17/05/24 07:38 PM
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See violence/abuse being a transgression against another's physical, psychological or emotional boundaries is not gendered. And neither is abuse committed under an abuse of a position of authority. It's good this predator was caught.
/r/MensRights06/05/24 01:49 AM
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Amen. He's self loathing and full of shame. He doesn't represent men.
/r/MensRights05/05/24 09:03 PM
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Even if you have money you won't be loved. You'll be wanted for what can be taken from you. Build yourself up, invest in yourself and focus on your happiness and contentment.
/r/MensRights05/05/24 07:17 PM
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