ImaginaryList174 Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
2	If you're a man you're always going to be perceived as a creep if you're a stranger This isn’t true at all, we don’t think every man is a creep just because he is standing near us. Unless they do something weird or creepy then you are just another random person standing beside me on the train. I don’t have any negative or positive feelings about them either way, they are just.. there.	/r/seduction	18/12/25 04:19 PM
1	What’s the smoothest way to invite her back to your place? This is so much extra work man. So you bring her to your house for a quick test run just to see if she would enter the door, but leave quickly. Just to try again, and see if she would go further? How is this easier and more successful..	/r/seduction	12/12/25 05:12 PM
1	What’s the smoothest way to invite her back to your place? 👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼	/r/seduction	12/12/25 05:10 PM
1	What’s the smoothest way to invite her back to your place? This is exactly what I meant. The whole coy playing games hinting thing immediately turns me off. It’s much more attractive being direct and confident. I understand some men just aren’t that confident. But in my opinion, that would make the whole coy thing even worse… because I feel like a lot of woman can sense that too. I’m not trying to be mean here either, just honest.	/r/seduction	12/12/25 05:10 PM
1	What’s the smoothest way to invite her back to your place? I agree! If we are both feeling it, then let’s just go lol why are we beating around the bush and wasting time and money here.	/r/seduction	12/12/25 05:06 PM
26	What’s the smoothest way to invite her back to your place? I’m just going to throw out an opinion from a woman.. if a man did the whole “I forgot my whatever at my house, let’s go quickly” thing and then tried to turn it into something more when I got there, it would probably immediately turn me off. I feel like you manipulated or tried to trick me into going there under false pretences basically. But then again, I am a very honest and direct person. I would much rather you just ask me.	/r/seduction	12/12/25 01:42 AM
53	Ladies, how do you like to be flirted with? Exactly. The flirting comes after when the girl is already laughing and friendly with you. To be fair, my response wasn’t really answering the question “how do you like to be flirted with” but was more answering his question of how to approach women and get to the point of flirting lol	/r/seduction	07/12/25 11:55 PM
177	Ladies, how do you like to be flirted with? Start up a conversation in a joking way based on something that is going on around you. That is what has always worked for me. I’ve told this story here before I think, but one time I was at a bar, standing on the edge of the dance floor just watching the dancers. There was this older woman who was dancing kind of crazy… think like Elaine from Seinfeld, just going for it. I guess I was standing watching her with a little smile on my face, and a man came up to me, kind of nodded his head towards …	/r/seduction	07/12/25 07:44 PM
10	Why do girls want to do only foreplay but not have sex? Getting on top of, and tickling, a new love interest who you haven’t slept with yet is a way to get kicked out of a woman’s house, not in to her underwear.	/r/seduction	02/12/25 07:47 AM
3	I got a second chance. Need urgent advice. From a woman, the guys saying you don’t have a chance are most likely wrong. If she really did feel nothing or think there was no chance, she wouldn’t have said yes to meeting up again. There has to be some sort of spark of something there, no matter how small, if she’s willing to try again. I know for a fact if I had zero attraction to a guy, and he asked for a second chance, I just wouldn’t do it.. there is no point. But if I was attracted to the guy, and the first date wasn’t great but I thou…	/r/seduction	22/07/25 06:01 PM
3	Went out to a bar/restaurant with some girls and just sat in silence... Worry less about picking up women and try to enjoy getting to know new people. Exactly. Because he didn’t think he could successfully hit on these women, he instead sat there in silence and didn’t speak to them at all. It’s like he isn’t even looking at these women as people, just potential subjects to hit on. When that didn’t work out, he just gave up and completely checked out of the situation. That sort of attitude or mindset doesn’t just block your chances of making an sctual connection, it …	/r/seduction	22/07/25 05:48 PM
1	How do I avoid coming off as a creep/weirdo? What should I be saying when I approach? Hence why I said ‘usually’, and not ‘always’.	/r/seduction	22/07/25 12:24 AM
3	How do I avoid coming off as a creep/weirdo? What should I be saying when I approach? Honestly, I’m a friendly person. I don’t mind men talking to me, as long as they are friendly, and don’t try to push things into uncomfortable territory. I love laughing and joking, so any kind of conversation that makes me laugh is a plus. The times where I would say a man ‘successfully’ hit on me, is usually when they start a random conversation over something funny happening around us. For example, one time at a bar, there was this little old woman who was dancing super aggressively and hilar…	/r/seduction	20/07/25 02:24 AM
1	How do I avoid coming off as a creep/weirdo? What should I be saying when I approach? Lovely. Well, you have an unrealistic view of women also. I’m a real woman, with several real woman friends, who are not like this. I outright ignore “the top 1%” of men because they are usually arrogant pretty boy assholes.	/r/seduction	20/07/25 02:18 AM
11	How do I avoid coming off as a creep/weirdo? What should I be saying when I approach? You think that we think all average looking men are creeps? Huh? Being a creep has nothing to do with looks, and everything to do with your vibe and actions. If you are standing way too close to me, invading my space, not taking no for an answer, trying to touch me when I don’t know you, hitting on me way too strongly, getting way too personal for a first conversation, won’t leave us alone when we have clearly said we want to be alone… these kind of things make someone a ‘creep’ in my book.	/r/seduction	19/07/25 05:11 PM
1	How To Tell When A Woman Is Unsatisfied In Her Relationship? You can’t tell as an outsider, because everyone is different and people will never act how you expect them too. You could say like the person you’re responding to “too much arguing and not enough sex” is a good sign she is unsatisfied, but then find out they are arguing and not having enough sex because the woman gained 20lbs and is unhappy with her body, not because she is unsatisfied with her husband. Or you could say, well this woman is really quiet lately and seems just super off and sad, an…	/r/seduction	15/07/25 09:59 PM
10	I have noticed a pattern amongst some women that I dated. Have you noticed it too? Women go through ‘hoards’ of men, and men choose the first one they lay their eyes on? Is that you’re saying? If so, that is just complete bullshit lol	/r/seduction	26/06/25 09:12 PM
11	What is the general consensus on "ghosting" girls for small amounts of time? If I was dating someone new, and we were still in the excited talking, first few dates phase, and he just stopped answering me for four days for no reason? I would have mentally moved on. A day or two being busy is one thing, and I would understand. Or if you had a reason, like ‘hey I’m out of town for work till Thursday, I’ll hit you up this weekend!” Or something… then ok.. cool. But just mid texting convo, stop responding for four days? lol nah. Maybe I’m different, but usually for me, in tho…	/r/seduction	19/06/25 09:35 PM
7	She Was a Feminist. I Told Her I Do Daygame. Here’s What Happened… Exactly what I was thinking. If she knew what ‘daygame’ meant, and the connotations implied by it, she would have had a similar reaction as she did with masculine. She had never heard it before, so he was able to say it meant talking to women after work, and avoid the negative reaction to ‘pick up artist’ stuff lol	/r/seduction	19/06/25 09:24 PM
1	You're on a date & everything is going well, then they tell you they were falsely accused in the past... I’m really not going to base my opinion off of a single study done over 40 years ago. There has been a lot of studies on this matter in recent years, trying to figure out the actual numbers. I am a woman, but I am not a woman who is on board with the “believe all women no matter what” train either. I have a lot of good men in my life who I love and trust completely, and the reason I even got interested in this topic is because one of my male cousins was falsely accused by his insane ex girlfrien…	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/09/24 09:58 PM
0	You're on a date & everything is going well, then they tell you they were falsely accused in the past... 40 percent? This is so far from the truth it’s ridiculous that you can even say this in a serious way. You think almost half of rape accusations that are brought to the police are lies?	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/09/24 09:26 PM
1	Was Dating a more even playing field before apps and social media? I’m not saying anything against them as people, what I meant was that is where I get a shit load of romantic scam dm’s from. So those type of compliments don’t mean anything, because it’s not real… it’s a scam. I’ve met, and made friends with people from both of those countries.. they are lovely. My intention wasn’t to put either of those countries down in any way, but more so to make the point that compliments and dm’s that aren’t genuine don’t inflate a persons ego or make them feel good in an…	/r/seduction	03/08/24 07:45 AM
1	Was Dating a more even playing field before apps and social media? Because more than half the time the people messaging in the dm’s out of the blue are scammers looking to extort money from me somehow. Whether it’s a romantic scam, or some type of other scam.. the compliment is always a false flag sort of thing. My looks are pretty inconsequential to them, they would say I was pretty even if I looked like something from the hills have eyes. It’s not a genuine compliment, and so it doesn’t really mean anything. If I met a man from India or Africa, and they said …	/r/seduction	01/08/24 02:21 AM
7	Was Dating a more even playing field before apps and social media? From a woman’s perspective, I just don’t think that is true social media has made all women think they are better looking. I think it has made us feel we are worse looking if anything. Being on social media, constantly seeing all these perfect and filtered women living their best lives travelling and getting free designer shit can be pretty depressing to the “average woman”. It is similar to what you said about some successful men inflating the averages for normal men, the same is happening with…	/r/seduction	29/07/24 08:04 PM
15	I'm going broke wine n' dining American girls just to get ghosted. Want to go overseas. Yeah.. Sleeping with 1 out of 15 women while spending $1500 on dinner dates or spending $1500 on a trip to South America to sleep with a woman, at the end of the day it’s basically the same thing lol at least a trip would probably be more fun than sitting through 15 boring or awkward first dates 😆😆	/r/seduction	26/06/24 02:35 AM
1	Guys who kiss/get laid on first dates, how do you physicaly escalate? I’m a woman. I’m very easy going, so I wouldn’t feel triggered or anything or be upset at all if someone said that to me. I would just be… maybe confused? lol kind of like huh? What did you just say? Why is he calling my hands smelly? 🤷🏻‍♀️	/r/seduction	11/06/24 12:02 AM
4	First ever cold approach. Didn't close but I would say went fine. For your first ever approach of a woman like this, I would say you did more than fine. You spent a half hour talking to her, and asked for her number. It doesn't really matter that she didn't give you her number, just think of it as practice. The more you do this and the more you talk with women, the more comfortable you will feel doing it.. and that translates to confidence. Keep it up forsure, man!	/r/seduction	08/06/24 03:59 PM
3	Guys who kiss/get laid on first dates, how do you physicaly escalate? Smelly hands?	/r/seduction	08/06/24 03:38 PM
1	Guys who kiss/get laid on first dates, how do you physicaly escalate? No offense, but that line is super odd and would totally weird me out if a first date said it to me. I am not a prude at all, but having a man I don't really know pointing out and then talking about a man fingering a woman on the dance floor would make me feel a little awkward and uncomfortable.	/r/seduction	08/06/24 03:36 PM
3	how do i get laid single male 38 Get of the dating apps and actually get out and meet people. Talking to people in real life isn’t bad, you just need to be respectful and take the hints or signs someone doesn’t want to talk seriously. Don’t overstay your welcome sort of thing.	/r/seduction	02/06/24 10:56 PM
1	How do men who aren't on this sub get girls? Do what you want bro... I'm not your mom.	/r/seduction	02/09/23 10:27 PM
1	How do men who aren't on this sub get girls? You are completely mistaking what i said. Of course not everyone can have the same personality, and that's a good thing. Shy, introverted nerds deserve a happy dating life too. My whole point was that if a shy, introverted nerd, pretends to be an outgoing party boy just to get a girl to like him... then it's not real, and it's not going to last at all. What is the point really? That girl doesn't even really like you... she likes an act you are putting on instead. So that's not a happy dating lif…	/r/seduction	02/09/23 05:37 AM
1	How do men who aren't on this sub get girls? He said in his comments. That he was completely unhappy with himself but couldn't fix it, so he basically was just making a character version of himself that was all made up, to slip into to go hit on women.	/r/seduction	02/09/23 05:27 AM
3	How do men who aren't on this sub get girls? That's not what I meant at all. None of that is lying and pretending. That is actually working on yourself. I'm specifically talking about the pickup artist gamebooks or plans to follow. Shit test, push and pull, don't text back immediately, don't be boring.. make up friends and hobbies so you seem busy, pretend to be talking to other girls, pretend you make more money than you do if you don't have lots, fake confidence, fake knowledge... it's just all a front.. you are no longer even being your…	/r/seduction	02/09/23 05:22 AM
2	How do men who aren't on this sub get girls? Thank you. I'm really not trying to be mean. At all. I'm trying to be honest and help you. Until you accept that you need to work on the real you, you won't ever really be happy dude. The rest is just like putting on a fake mask.. it doesn't really change what's under it.	/r/seduction	01/09/23 01:15 AM
8	How do men who aren't on this sub get girls? It's not that you are complaining that you have low self esteem that is the whiney rant. It's the fact that you are saying basicslly "there is nothing I can do too fix it, it's just the way it is, so im not going to even try". That is the whiny rant part. If the poor person was complaining that rich people have all the food while sitting on his ass doing absolutely nothing, ever, to actually fix the problem? Then yes, I would call it a whiney rant as well. The comparison to what you are doing, b…	/r/seduction	01/09/23 01:10 AM
7	How do men who aren't on this sub get girls? I'm telling you the truth because you need to hear it. Yes, we need to be compassioniate and caring. But coddling and lying to yourself fixes nothing either. I'm 35. In the last 5 years, I have had cancer, lost my home, was in a major car accident, lost my job, lost my partner, my twin committed suicide, and my family is a fucking alcoholic mess. I have no support system. I have almost ended up homeless 3 times. Life sucks sometimes dude... but lying and putting up a fake face to trick people in…	/r/seduction	01/09/23 01:03 AM
19	How do men who aren't on this sub get girls? No... you have been told this, and you accept it, because it absolves you of blame or fault. Because it is easier, to say "there is nothing i can do" and just fake it. If the real you isn't good enough, which is bullshit anyways, then you need to improve or fix the real you, instead of making a fake version. You will never be happy or complete if you are lying and acting. It's all a facade. All you are doing is covering up your flaws because you are too lazy to do the actual work to fix yourself…	/r/seduction	01/09/23 01:00 AM
19	How do men who aren't on this sub get girls? This attitude isn't helping you. You may see a good looking guy on the street, laughing and kissing a really hot girl and think, why the fuck does he have it so easy? But you have no idea what that guy's life is like. Maybe his parents were killed in a car accident when he was 4 and he grew up in horrible foster homes. Maybe he was raped and abused his whole life. Maybe he has some sort of horrible illness that's going to kill him in 2 years. Maybe a thousand other things could be true, and the …	/r/seduction	01/09/23 12:41 AM
36	How do men who aren't on this sub get girls? Life is unfair bro. I didn't deserve cancer but I still got it.	/r/seduction	01/09/23 12:36 AM
208	How do men who aren't on this sub get girls? Exactly. This whole internet pickup artist sub culture is all bullshit. It's not about making real relationships or finding a long term girlfriend... it's about lying and pretending to be someone you are not, to sleep with a girl you want. If thats your goal, and what you want.. that's cool, do you. But its not real. The ones you see, walking around like normal, holding hands... are the people who were themselves, and found something real. Downvote me away to oblivion.	/r/seduction	01/09/23 12:34 AM
1	THE SEX GOD METHOD: How Can One Avoid Overdoing Dominance During "Token" Resistance? If you are doing something that risks the cops showing up, then you are going way past the line.	/r/seduction	22/08/23 03:14 PM
2	How do you get to Sleep with Unrealistic Hot Women? Some people just have that thing. That shine. It has nothing to do with money or looks. It's just pure charisma and confidence. They know how to talk to people, make them laugh, and make them want to come around for more.	/r/seduction	15/08/23 10:22 AM
3	How do you get to Sleep with Unrealistic Hot Women? Cool, calm and confident is perfect... but you also have to have moments of flirty and funny. If I'm not smiling and laughing, then I'm not really interested.	/r/seduction	15/08/23 10:20 AM
2	How do you get to Sleep with Unrealistic Hot Women? As a woman, 5 days seems way to long too me. I would totally forget or not care by then. I think the third day works best.	/r/seduction	15/08/23 10:17 AM
1	My observations with guys who pull women I feel you for sure man. My life is very similar lately, although due to health issues. I spent most of my twenties partying and having fun and doing all sorts of stuff, but now I've been stuck in bed basically alone for almost a year. I lost 95% of my friends over this time.. it really makes you realize who your true friends are. I realized mine were the "party snd have fun" type and not the "stick with you through the hard times" type. But for you, you are stuck in a cycle of work, school, stu…	/r/seduction	17/07/23 06:47 AM
1	My observations with guys who pull women You need to reassure her that you would never do something with her that she didn’t want, and that you respect the speed which she wants to move at. But by pushing further after she has already become clearly uncomfortable you technically are leading her into something she may not want, and you clearly don't respect the speed she wants to move at or you wouldn't be pushing at her resistance. Yeah sure, having a lot of sex is great. But I would rather only sleep with people who are very clearly e…	/r/seduction	17/07/23 06:35 AM
0	My observations with guys who pull women If you want to be a creeper, then sure.	/r/seduction	17/07/23 06:03 AM
2	My observations with guys who pull women Where do you live?	/r/seduction	17/07/23 03:57 AM
2	My observations with guys who pull women Doesn't necessarily mean your "own" place. Renting with a roommate is usually fine for most women under 35ish. It just means not living with your parents and having somewhere you can actually bring a woman you intend to hook up with.	/r/seduction	17/07/23 03:56 AM
4	My observations with guys who pull women You are still young. At 19, you aren't expected to have your own house and car, lots of money and all this experience. At your age, you are expected to be where you are all.. broke and in college. Having a car is a bonus for sure. You are at the time where you should just be having fun and meeting people, not expecting things or making game plans to seduce women.	/r/seduction	17/07/23 03:54 AM
9	My observations with guys who pull women Reading the vibes. A lot of it is just being good at reading people. Giving little hints, and seeing how they respond to that. If you have a positive reaction to the first little sexual dig, keep going. If not, stop.	/r/seduction	17/07/23 03:51 AM
1	My observations with guys who pull women You know, I've always thought I could make a side career out of this lol charging guys like $100 or something to go over their tinder bios with them, pick out pictures, go over their texting game and then in person game. Like have a ten minute text convo where he is pretending to actually get me to hook up or date. Then go over that, give them tips and stuff. Then have a ten minute phone convo. Same again, then go over that. Give them honest feedback from a woman on what works and doesn't. I've …	/r/seduction	17/07/23 03:46 AM
0	🇮🇳 Indian Women ♀️ Can Order Rape Trials Of Men "Without The Need For Evidence." [Source in Comments]. These Serial Rape Case Filers were Exposed By An Investigative Journalist. But Thousands Of These Predatory Women Receive Protection & Secrecy By The System Every Year 💥 What? Lol. Of course I can use my reality as a valid source of my own perception. You don't need to turn everything into a philosophical argument either bro. It's impossible trying to have a normal conversation with such an eristic person. Everything just turns into an argument you never wanted to be a part of in the first place. Jesus.	/r/PussyPass	23/04/23 07:59 PM
0	🇮🇳 Indian Women ♀️ Can Order Rape Trials Of Men "Without The Need For Evidence." [Source in Comments]. These Serial Rape Case Filers were Exposed By An Investigative Journalist. But Thousands Of These Predatory Women Receive Protection & Secrecy By The System Every Year 💥 First, I didn't make the conversation about women... I asked if you had been to India because when I was there I didn't notice any violence or harassment against men as you said there was. You were the one who shifted. I said nothing about women's rights or said anything about dismissing men's rights. I have no desire to silence men in any space, or hijack any narrative. I know men matter just as much as women. The reason I was asking you was because when I was in India, I saw (not heard, i neve…	/r/PussyPass	23/04/23 07:51 PM
0	🇮🇳 Indian Women ♀️ Can Order Rape Trials Of Men "Without The Need For Evidence." [Source in Comments]. These Serial Rape Case Filers were Exposed By An Investigative Journalist. But Thousands Of These Predatory Women Receive Protection & Secrecy By The System Every Year 💥 Also, using personal experience to solely dictate reality would be inaccurate yes. But we all use our own personal experiences to dictate our reality every single minute of everyday. Along with incoming information from multiple other sources, common sense, imagination and our other senses. Yes I experience the earth as flat, but I know from my learned knowledge that is not true. It doesn't mean my experience of reality is false.	/r/PussyPass	22/04/23 01:11 PM
0	🇮🇳 Indian Women ♀️ Can Order Rape Trials Of Men "Without The Need For Evidence." [Source in Comments]. These Serial Rape Case Filers were Exposed By An Investigative Journalist. But Thousands Of These Predatory Women Receive Protection & Secrecy By The System Every Year 💥 I definitely do not know much about violence against males in India being suppressed by the state. It's not something I have ever heard or came across. I spent 6 months there, and I was absolutely shocked at how much harassment of the local woman I saw, the harassment of myself, the talk from women I met about the violence and sexual assault they had experienced, the warnings about certain places at certain times, and the constant stories of women being assaulted, raped, or killed in the media o…	/r/PussyPass	22/04/23 01:01 PM
0	🇮🇳 Indian Women ♀️ Can Order Rape Trials Of Men "Without The Need For Evidence." [Source in Comments]. These Serial Rape Case Filers were Exposed By An Investigative Journalist. But Thousands Of These Predatory Women Receive Protection & Secrecy By The System Every Year 💥 Have you ever been to india? I'm curious if you have actually witnessed any of this for yourself. Because I as a woman visiting India definitely did not see men being harassed or unprotected.	/r/PussyPass	21/04/23 03:14 PM
0	Achraf Hakimi Scams The Scammer. 😎🎉 BUT Why Do We Men Live In A World Of Fear Where Our Bodies & Labor Is Controlled By The Women? 👀 Why Are We Having To Take Extreme Steps To Hide & Save Our Wages From Being Plundered By These Terrorists? ☠️ That doesn't matter to most of them	/r/PussyPass	21/04/23 03:10 PM
1	Men and women aren’t that different Some women are as horny as some men. Just like some gay men aren't horny at all. My point is that this whole sub makes these sweeping generalizations constantly. It's not reflective of real life and it doesn't help anything. "All women are gold diggers" "all men are only want virgins" "all women are whores" "all short men are doomed to die alone" None of this is true and none of it helps. All this sub does is literally cause more of a divide. Talking to me about learning how to logic when genera…	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/02/23 07:27 AM
5	Men and women aren’t that different But to claim they are as overtly sex driven as gay men is a complete joke. You act like every lesbian is the same, every gay man is the same, every straight person is the same.. every lesbian doesn't have the same sex drive. In my group of friends, it runs the gamut from complete asexual all the way through to sex crazed nymphos. Same with my gay friends. Just because you are a gay man doesn't mean you are hypersexual. Each. Person. Is. Different. I don't understand the complete generalizations …	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/02/23 03:08 AM
1	Even women well into their 30s and 40s think they can afford to be insanely selective, often even more so than younger far more attractive girls My whole point though is that for a lot of women nowadays that "flip" that you speak of never happens and we are just genuinely content. That need to settle or that desperate need to race the biological clock isn't coming. 🤷🏻‍♀️	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/01/23 10:09 AM
1	Age gap relationships are generally shamed by bitter older women Thats literally the point they are making.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/12/22 06:06 PM
1	Men over 30, do you filter out 30 year old women while looking for serious relationships? Except women do not rack up experience faster, as you put it. It has been proven again and again in study after study that men as a whole consistently have a higher number of sexual partners than woman.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/11/22 02:11 AM
0	Men over 30, do you filter out 30 year old women while looking for serious relationships? That's exactly what it means.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/11/22 02:09 AM
3	Men are good or bad people based on how they treat women, women are bad/ good people based on how they treat everyone beside men Why do you have so many shitty women on your Facebook then? I have like 1200 friends on my Facebook and no one posts misandrist shit whenever they want. Seems like a you problem involving who you allow yourself to be around.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/11/22 11:29 AM
1	Men are good or bad people based on how they treat women, women are bad/ good people based on how they treat everyone beside men Yeah I actually judge men based on their behaviour to all people or animals except for women. Most men are usually "fake"" nice to women all the time as long as there even a remotely small chance he can get in those panties. And by remotely small I mean like even 0.00001 percent chance. Therefore I'm not going to rely on that being an accurate depiction of his character. You know what is an accurate portrayal though? When you politely let a man down and tell him it's over and you aren't feeling …	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/11/22 11:17 AM
1	Why do modern studies show that men have more sexual partners than women. That's not what I said though. I said it's hard for men who spend their days lurking around on these subs to get laid. Not that they weren't real men. And I said that because it's true. Not all men on here either, but there is a group of men now that have become almost consumed by the manosphere, the "pill" groups, the incel sites etc. to the point that it is their whole life. They no longer interact with women in the real world all at. Spending 8 hours a day debating with other men "what percen…	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/11/22 04:35 PM
1	What Are The Weirdest/Most Random Reasons You’ve Lost Interest In Someone? I don't hate you.. I just think you are disgusting.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/11/22 09:33 AM
1	im gonna prove right with a very simple argument that the dating market is not fair Oh I read it. It's just hypothetical bullshit that doesn't actually matter one bit in the real world. Just like all your other made up scenarios or statistics.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/11/22 09:23 AM
1	Why do modern studies show that men have more sexual partners than women. Huh?	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/11/22 09:13 AM
3	I see countless times women say they are cool with not being in a relationship. Then why even date? Sure some girls do. But a lot of us just don't have casual sex. At all. So we don't "give it away" to anyone in hopes of anything.. I'm 34 and I've been with 2 men.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/11/22 09:10 AM
1	I see countless times women say they are cool with not being in a relationship. Then why even date? Yep! I agree for sure.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/11/22 09:08 AM
1	I see countless times women say they are cool with not being in a relationship. Then why even date? There is a very small group of women who are like that.. who will only date a man with lots of money. The typical Instagram model type of women for sure. But most normal, everyday, average women aren't like that. You guys generalize SO much it's crazy. Like Michelle who works the register at Walmart isn't holding out for some millionaire... she is dating Dan who is a mechanic down the street. Most women, me included, have a general rule when it comes to dating and money.. and it's basically this…	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/11/22 10:44 PM
2	I see countless times women say they are cool with not being in a relationship. Then why even date? I have never in my life had trouble connecting with women friendship-wise. Yes it always bothers me when men on here say that men and women inherently can't be friends. Or that if they are friends the women is just stringing the man along and using him becauee he actually has romantic feelings for her. I think its such bullshit. My 2 best friends are men. We 3 as a group have been best friends since we were 13. We are 34 now, so 21 years. None of us have romantic feelings for each other. I have …	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/11/22 10:38 PM
1	I see countless times women say they are cool with not being in a relationship. Then why even date? Just because you don't "need" something doesn't mean there aren't any other benefits in doing something. She doesn't "need" a boyfriend but she actively enjoyed the process of dating. She had fun meeting new people. She enjoyed socializing and getting out of the house. Going to new places and trying new foods. She doesn't necessarily need a partner either, but can still enjoy having one. We, as humans, do a lot of things we don't necessarily need. Like I could survive on plain rice everyday but …	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/11/22 10:28 PM
4	I see countless times women say they are cool with not being in a relationship. Then why even date? Ah yes. The Japanese culture of "lonliness". Where so many men are committing suicide they are considering it an epidemic. Where so many parents are desperate because their sons never leave their bedroom. Where the marriage and birth rate is plummeting becsuse men are more interested in technology and toys over real women. This trend of "hikikomori" that is happening in Japan is not a good thing... it's dangerous. Its insane that you make it seem like a good thing and something other men should …	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/11/22 10:21 PM
1	I see countless times women say they are cool with not being in a relationship. Then why even date? Yes ma'am. It's exactly the truth. But these men can't accept that. They think we all have 100 guys waiting in our DMs who are willing to do anything for us the second we ask. And they think these men are all good looking successful men instead of antisocial trolls who live in their moms basement at age 45 who constantly send disgusting dick pics. They think that we are asked out in person all the time as well as online, that we are complimented on our greatness and beauty twice an hour. That we…	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/11/22 10:03 PM
2	I see countless times women say they are cool with not being in a relationship. Then why even date? No.. I'm a woman and I really don't have any sort of checklist. I find that having a rigid list of things you need in a partner really just closes you off to the opportunity of meeting someone who may not be your exact type, but could be your soul mate. There are certain things I am more attracted to in a man.. like say I usually like men who are in trades, who are handy men kinda thing.. construction, electrician etc. But if I met someone who I felt a connection with and then found out they wer…	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/11/22 09:55 PM
1	I see countless times women say they are cool with not being in a relationship. Then why even date? Well, men have been the ones in charge for the last thousand years. So who's fault is it then you think men are treated so unfairly? Up until like literally 30 years ago men were the ones who made all of the decisions.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/11/22 09:43 PM
0	I see countless times women say they are cool with not being in a relationship. Then why even date? We are doing all of that. The cooking, the cleaning, the laundry etc. Women on average are expected to do more of the household tasks. This has been tested in many studies. But that wasn't her point. She wasn't saying she didn't want to do it at all. She was talking about how their are certain men who once they get into a relationship just expect their new gf to do all of it for them and more. Like you are their new mother, making their lunch and folding their socks and wiping their ass. It's su…	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/11/22 09:38 PM
1	I see countless times women say they are cool with not being in a relationship. Then why even date? You can't generalize so much man. We aren't all one big hive mind with one fricken brain. Just because a couple woman say they are sick of men doesn't mean "women hate men then and really shouldn't date them." In all of your posts and replies you do this.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/11/22 09:30 PM
1	I see countless times women say they are cool with not being in a relationship. Then why even date? We are literally biologically wired to couple up and reproduce. So deep down even if they say otherwise, that is what most people want. Sure there are some exceptions but I would say most do for sure. Now, in this search for a mate a lot of people have bad experiences and end up getting hurt. After doing this a few times and having multiple bad experiences in a row people tend to get a little jaded. That's where the "men are shit" and "women are evil" statements come in. Even after this the pers…	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/11/22 09:17 PM
3	I see countless times women say they are cool with not being in a relationship. Then why even date? It's not though. A lot of us don't have or want casual sex at all.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/11/22 09:08 PM
1	I see countless times women say they are cool with not being in a relationship. Then why even date? But that isn't the common saying for most normal everyday women. Sure, some women do think that way. Mostly women who have been treated badly by men and have become jaded I would say. Or the really radical feminists. But the average everyday woman does not hate men or think men are trash. We enjoy and appreciate the men in our lives. I am thankful for men everyday. Most of my best and closest relationships are with men.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/11/22 09:05 PM
2	I see countless times women say they are cool with not being in a relationship. Then why even date? Yes! Exactly! An ex boyfriend of mine was super jealous and manipulative. If I went out for dinner with say like 2 of my girlfriends, or even just went basically anywhere without him.. he would be obsessed with the fact that someone was hitting on me, I would fall in love with someone else and cheat on him. Whenever I got home from any sort of outing like this he would demand to look at my phone, start a big argument, whine, cry and threaten. When I told him like look.. this is not ok, this is n…	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/11/22 08:57 PM
3	Do you prefer 50/50 or submission? I agree. It would be so boring to have a partner who just agrees with you, does what you say and defers to your lead all the time. I want a partner not a dog.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/11/22 07:57 AM
7	Do you prefer 50/50 or submission? Exactly. Saying you want a submissive partner literally just means "I want power over you".	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/11/22 07:51 AM
2	casual sex isn't as fun as I thought Beautiful parasites maybe	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/11/22 06:05 PM
4	casual sex isn't as fun as I thought You can keep repeating that as well.. but it will still be true that a lot of adult men in the real world do not care.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/11/22 05:59 PM
6	im gonna prove right with a very simple argument that the dating market is not fair He never does. Then when you show actual proof to counteract his silly arguments he becomes defensive and completely changes the topic again.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/11/22 11:40 AM
3	im gonna prove right with a very simple argument that the dating market is not fair but throughout most of human history and in other countries this game is fair LOL!! So laughable... up until to early to middle 21s century had basically no choice in whom they were to marry. It was usually about money or solidifying alliances. Their husband's were basically allowed to do whatever they wanted.. have mistresses, stay out all night, beat them etc. Christ women couldn't even have their own debit cards until the 70s. How was this fair? The men had all the advantages. And in other co…	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/11/22 11:31 AM
3	im gonna prove right with a very simple argument that the dating market is not fair It really is that simple though. You complicate everything to be honest. If a woman is really interested in you, then you showing interest wouldnt make them run away or get the ick. If they are not really feeling you or only somewhat feeling you? Then yes they would ghost you if you started showing massive levels of interest. But if they actually do really like you and want to pursue something with you then they will be happy you are showing them the same level of attention.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/11/22 11:14 AM
13	What Are The Weirdest/Most Random Reasons You’ve Lost Interest In Someone? What a fucked up mindset. And men like to say that women are the ones who play too many mind games. 🤦🏻‍♀️	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/11/22 01:18 AM
-1	What’s your unpopular dating opinion that would get you crucified by this sub? Like do you actually step outside in your spare time? Do you? Have you ever actually went somewhere like the mall or something, where a lot of people are and taken a look around at the people and couples? It's not just hot rich guys and beautiful girls.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/11/22 05:49 PM
5	The average man have no represantation in romance movie that target women Man... both sexes are sexualised everywhere in today's society. We use a womans tits on advertisements to sell beer and car tires. We start sexualizung girls at such a young age too it's disgusting. So yes it does happen to men but it's not one sided and women are definitely sexualizdd more than men so I don't know where you are coming from with this.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/11/22 02:31 AM
4	The average man have no represantation in romance movie that target women Neighors, she's out of my league, knocked up, wedding crashers or any rom com with Owen Wilson actually lol,	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/11/22 02:18 AM
2	The average man have no represantation in romance movie that target women Or the most classic and obvious example of "She's Out Of My League" with the absolutely stunning Alice Eve.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/11/22 02:09 AM
1	The average man have no represantation in romance movie that target women So are men who are equally Elena's level in beauty deserving of their own elena? Like you say the equally hot women don't deserve the men.. but you agree in the reverse?	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/11/22 02:01 AM
3	The average man have no represantation in romance movie that target women What do you mean she has nothing to offer them? Where did that come from..	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/11/22 01:54 AM
1	Women (especially young and liberal ones) judge female infidelity less harshly than male infidelity What do you mean by female infidelity being objectively worse?	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/11/22 03:39 PM
0	Women (especially young and liberal ones) judge female infidelity less harshly than male infidelity Hmm say that to all the women who's husband's have dumped a "surpise" child on them.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/11/22 03:27 PM
3	Women (especially young and liberal ones) judge female infidelity less harshly than male infidelity I agree. I'm 34 and now people my age are starting to divorce that's exactly the kind of custody arrangement I'm used to seeing. Both parents make pretty close salaries... so there is no child support, and they each get the children 50/50.. usually one week on one week off... and they split expenses for them. That's the arrangement my best friend has and it works great for them.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/11/22 03:18 PM
1	Women (especially young and liberal ones) judge female infidelity less harshly than male infidelity If anyone has proof of abuse, the abuser should go to jail. Are you saying people who have proof of abuse lose their children to the abuser? Even with proof it is hard to get a conviction. And no, they don't lose their children to the abuser.. they lose their children altogether because they don't have a "safe environment" when there is a threat of abuse. The children are usually put in foster care while the whole mess is sorted. So a lot of times the woman's lawyers will tell them not even to b…	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/11/22 03:12 PM
1	Why r women soooo picky and more importantly what can guys do about it. It doesn't happen to every single guy. It happens to a lot of them.. because a lot of guys either suck at texting, are rude or arrogant, don't reply etc. And then the girl stops texting.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/11/22 12:25 PM
1	Is it fair to be in a relationship with somebody you don't want sexually or are attracted to? No.. I know several "ugly" couples who probably have the best sex lives out of anyone I know and who are extremely happy in their relationships. It's not just Chad and Stacey. The problem with you guys in this sub and your theories is that you make such sweeping generalizations about everything. Saying "mostt" women end up settling and marrying someone they aren't attracted to, and then naturally have unhealthy sex lives is just bullshit. Most women? So considerably over half? That's just not tr…	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/11/22 06:41 PM
2	"Women are more attractive than men" is just socially acceptable misandry Yeah exactly. You can make sweeping generalizations like that when referring to the group, the someone most people rated over a 6 is objectively "attractive", but when it comes down to the individual level.. it is very different from person to person like you said. I'm not a fan of the generalizations when it comes to beauty because I think that attraction is 100 percent subjective. Even when you are trying to look at someone and judge their looks objectively... you have an inherent bias on what…	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/11/22 06:29 PM
1	Are teen boys shut-in nowadays? Yeah they came when I was a teenager too. We all just ran and then found a new spot lol	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/11/22 06:13 PM
1	Is it fair to be in a relationship with somebody you don't want sexually or are attracted to? 9 years.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/11/22 06:10 PM
2	Is it fair to be in a relationship with somebody you don't want sexually or are attracted to? A lot of them. Has nothing to do with what I'm talking about though.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/11/22 06:09 PM
1	Is it fair to be in a relationship with somebody you don't want sexually or are attracted to? Most of them probably don't you are right on that.. but some do! It's possible.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/11/22 06:06 PM
1	Is it fair to be in a relationship with somebody you don't want sexually or are attracted to? But I fear you will be like all the rest. Because you aren't sexually attracted to me at this moment, you also don't want to trust or be friends with me. Why won't you talk to me about that other guy you find attractive? What does he have that I don't? I would kill him if it meant keeping you safe from any type of pain...he would never do the same for you. Yep, you're just like the rest. Chasing something you can't have instead of respecting me as a friend. All I asked is that you don't have sex…	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/11/22 11:18 AM
2	Is it fair to be in a relationship with somebody you don't want sexually or are attracted to? Yes.. anyone that has been in a sexually healthy relationship has had this experience. It is not limited to Chad's.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/11/22 11:10 AM
1	Is it fair to be in a relationship with somebody you don't want sexually or are attracted to? A completely crazy point.. but yeah interesting.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/11/22 11:07 AM
2	Is it fair to be in a relationship with somebody you don't want sexually or are attracted to? If you aren't attracted to your partner and don't want to be fucking them.... then you shouldn't be fucking them. Point blank. More than willing to do whatever it takes to get a boner? Do you know how many women are sleeping with their husband's just because it is their "wifely duties?" How many women's libidos go down with age but are stuck doing things they don't want to to keep their husband's satisfied? Who are in therapy and taking pills and creams to try and help the situation? The reason …	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/11/22 11:04 AM
2	Is it fair to be in a relationship with somebody you don't want sexually or are attracted to? Are you serious? Do you know how many women are blamed and shamed for losing their libido as they get older? How many husband's start cheating and justify it because of that?	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/11/22 10:59 AM
2	Is it fair to be in a relationship with somebody you don't want sexually or are attracted to? You really can't go by those.. that 5'9 person could literally be pure muscle with no body fat. Workout every single day. So you can't just say oh she's obese.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/11/22 10:56 AM
3	Is it fair to be in a relationship with somebody you don't want sexually or are attracted to? So because you knew one women who did it... that means it's true for all women?	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/11/22 10:49 AM
-2	Are teen boys shut-in nowadays? Society does not reign in women and their abilities and provokes them. 🙄🙄	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/11/22 09:04 PM
2	Are teen boys shut-in nowadays? Talking to someone over headphones while playing a video game is not the same as in real life socialization though.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/11/22 09:01 PM
2	Are teen boys shut-in nowadays? Today’s generation of kids grew up with an iPhone in their hand by the age of 4. Waaay before that lol fricken 1 year old babies playing iPads and know how to play their favourite videos on YouTube.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/11/22 08:53 PM
5	Are teen boys shut-in nowadays? Yeah the Halloween thing is sad... less and less kids every year. Hardly even see any kids out anymore. I'm 34 and when I was a kid... like 8-12.. I remember how big of a deal it was. We would have this big group of friends go and then have a big sleepover after. It was the best.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/11/22 08:50 PM
1	Are teen boys shut-in nowadays? Teens have nothing to do anymore outside. There are no places where they can meet up and socialize. Have all the same places we've always had... the mall, the movies, restaurants, game places - like bowling, mini golf etc., football/hockey games, any sports events, the beach, amusement parks, the library, dances, all ages nights, board game nights.. hell we used to just go to like a soccer field and hang out and play music. There are tons of places to meet up and socialize.. just not any that so…	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/11/22 08:43 PM
0	Are teen boys shut-in nowadays? They probably feel like girl attack them with social media Lol what!?	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/11/22 08:40 PM
7	"Women are more attractive than men" is just socially acceptable misandry Below average compared to who though? Because if it's literally just "all women in the world" then she's definitely not below average.. not sure if you have actually opened your eyes outside but the general population is not that pretty. If you are are judging her based off of say women in her age group in LA? Then yes she's probably below average. But also.. when women are rating themselves there is no way to win for you guys. We either judge too low and are being "fake modest" or too high and …	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/11/22 06:28 PM
7	"Women are more attractive than men" is just socially acceptable misandry Yeah those are probably the 2 most unflattering poses one could do lol not sure why she did that.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/11/22 06:22 PM
4	"Women are more attractive than men" is just socially acceptable misandry Oh lord. 🤦🏻‍♀️🤦🏻‍♀️	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/11/22 06:19 PM
10	"Women are more attractive than men" is just socially acceptable misandry But a lot of it is subjective anyways no? Like if you gave a group of people pictures of 10 other people and asked them to rate each one 1-10.. the results are gonna come back mixed no matter what.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/11/22 06:15 PM
1	Men here are completely oblivious to how attractive power/money makes you even in the case of a not so good looking man I mean..... what plants are we talking about? I could be enticed lol	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/11/22 02:10 PM
2	Men here are completely oblivious to how attractive power/money makes you even in the case of a not so good looking man Women do not try to mate with the average man. Average women do. Rhonda who works at walmart in Wisconsin isn't holding out for some bill gates. She is most likely dating Tom who works at the mechanic shop down the road. Men at the top of the social pyramid have access to most women yes... but they also only choose women who are at the top. The prettiest ones. Us average people down here usually end up dating each other.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/11/22 02:04 PM
1	Men here are completely oblivious to how attractive power/money makes you even in the case of a not so good looking man Different kinds of competence as well. For me I don't really care about money and power... but I'm very attracted to men who are "handy man" competent. Can build us a house from the ground up? Can fix my car when it's broken? Those kind of things turn me on lol nothing more attractive to me than a man doing something with some tools.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/11/22 02:01 PM
1	Men here are completely oblivious to how attractive power/money makes you even in the case of a not so good looking man Remembering a guy you dated had a house and a car is odd to you? If you can't remember such basic things I think you need to get an assessment as you may have a brain injury or something.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/11/22 01:58 PM
1	Men here are completely oblivious to how attractive power/money makes you even in the case of a not so good looking man We don't have lazer vision where we can see into a guys banking apps when they ask us out you know... we generally don't have an idea of his finances for a little while into dating. Some of the brokest guys will splash out and fake rich on the first few dates, and some of the richer guys will downplay their wealth because they don't want a gold digger.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/11/22 01:55 PM
2	Men here are completely oblivious to how attractive power/money makes you even in the case of a not so good looking man Right? I don't understand all these men that basically are saying they are happy having women forced into being with them... don't you want a woman who wants to be there? Who actually wants and desires you,? It makes no sense to me.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/11/22 01:51 PM
1	[CMV] Plausible deniability numbers game is the ideal strategy for most men God you guys act like children.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/11/22 01:10 PM
1	There's no such thing as a bad personality. A bad personality to most women = "you're not attractive/powerful enough to be able to say that shit to me" It did. Would you like to see our tinder convo? First off he was super arrogant.. which is something that is very common with good looking people so not sure why you are surprised there. He was very rude to the waitress and spent a solid 30 minutes talking about how much money he had and how he was better than everyone. Then whenever I did get a chance to talk, he would "correct" me on things... when he wasn't even close to being correct. That's where the stupid came from. So in all, he was an e…	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/11/22 01:08 PM
3	There's no such thing as a bad personality. A bad personality to most women = "you're not attractive/powerful enough to be able to say that shit to me" Because she is that type of girl... the insta thot that is only about clout, money and fame... so she could ignore the ick because she had a long term game in mind. Normal, everyday girls don't think that way.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/10/22 06:07 PM
1	There's no such thing as a bad personality. A bad personality to most women = "you're not attractive/powerful enough to be able to say that shit to me" have a really good friend who's decently attractive and I talked him into acting a little more toxic towards women on the apps and I will say that it actually seemed to backfire for him. Because this doesn't actually work in real life. Men say this because they have heard other men say it works.. but they are bullshitting. If a man talks like this to me I instantly block and delete.. same with all my friends. If you are going to treat me shitty right off the bat what does that say about things g…	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/10/22 06:03 PM
5	There's no such thing as a bad personality. A bad personality to most women = "you're not attractive/powerful enough to be able to say that shit to me" No.. we aren't. I went out on a date with a man who literally looked like Chris Helmsworth... who is probably the highest on my list of good looking celebs.. so I was super excited for this date. He also had money. Like.. quite a bit of money. So according to your theory I should have been throwing my panties at him no matter what then right? Nope. He was the most boring, arrogant and stupid man I have ever met. I pretty much ran away from that date. Looks aren't everything. Personality is impor…	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/10/22 05:56 PM
6	[CMV] Plausible deniability numbers game is the ideal strategy for most men Oh lord. Give up the persecution complex you are so desperately clinging to and you would have a better chance appealing to women. No one likes a whiny man.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/10/22 05:39 PM
2	[CMV] Plausible deniability numbers game is the ideal strategy for most men Men get told all the time they should lower their standards, its time for women to do the same. How is this the solution? Instead you should say that men should stop lowering their standards. Why the hell should anyone be with someone they aren't attracted to? What a miserable idea. Just because some guys are so desperate they are willing to settle for scraps doesn't mean we need to as well. Some of us are perfectly happy being alone until we find someone we actually like and are attracted to.. …	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/10/22 05:34 PM
-2	[CMV] Plausible deniability numbers game is the ideal strategy for most men That's not what he said at all and you are purposely misunderstanding him.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/10/22 05:23 PM
2	including all the benefits and disadvantages,if you could choose what sex to be at birth which one would you choose? I appreciate it. It was almost 13 years ago now. Took a lot of therapy and work on my end but I've gotten to a good place of acceptance and understanding regarding what happened. It just bothers me when others, especially men, talk about rape and sexual assault as if it hardly ever happens and we over exaggerate the risk in today's society. In reality it is more common than you think..	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/10/22 04:52 PM
1	including all the benefits and disadvantages,if you could choose what sex to be at birth which one would you choose? Oh lord.. that's a lot to unpack.. but one thing that stands out.. so just because SHE chose her partner as you said, that makes it what..... her fault he killed her?	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/10/22 12:43 PM
1	including all the benefits and disadvantages,if you could choose what sex to be at birth which one would you choose? I was walking through a really big parking lot to get into my workplace. A guy ran up behind me and pushed me and I fell flat on my face. The next thing I knew that guy and another guy were picking me up and shoving me in a car. The one guy drove and the other guy was in the backseat with me holding a gun at me. They drove like two blocks away and parked in a back lane and took turns raping me while the other held the gun. Afterwards they pushed me out of the car and took off.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/10/22 12:39 PM
2	including all the benefits and disadvantages,if you could choose what sex to be at birth which one would you choose? Don't waste your time arguing with him. He makes no sense and never has anything to actually back up his argument so he always goes back to "sure that's true" and "yeah ok" or throwing out a one liner that has nothing to do with the context of the conversation lol	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/10/22 05:17 AM
2	including all the benefits and disadvantages,if you could choose what sex to be at birth which one would you choose? Most of us women don't have a hatred for men. Can you give some examples for this? Women in power who hate men in Australia making decisions for them? I'm not being sarcastic either I'm genuinely curious what you are talking about.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/10/22 05:13 AM
2	including all the benefits and disadvantages,if you could choose what sex to be at birth which one would you choose? Agreed one hundred percent. It's all relevant to where, when and circumstance. It's all well and good to say a man is always better or a woman is always the best but it's really not. It's all circumstantial.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/10/22 05:10 AM
3	including all the benefits and disadvantages,if you could choose what sex to be at birth which one would you choose? Again in the modern era, it is pretty easy to avoid this unless you are stupid enough to stay in an active warzone or live in a third world shithole. How do you avoid rape and sexual assault then my guy? I live in modern Canada... pretty much one of the safest countries in the world.. and I have been raped on two separate occasions. 1 in 4 women in the west have been sexually assaulted. That's a large amount. So how is easy to avoid? I would love some tips. Before you say the all the old common …	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/10/22 05:05 AM
9	including all the benefits and disadvantages,if you could choose what sex to be at birth which one would you choose? I really actually wish all these men who are choosing "woman" could someone magically be a woman for a year and see that it is absolutely nothing like what they all think it is.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/10/22 04:57 AM
17	including all the benefits and disadvantages,if you could choose what sex to be at birth which one would you choose? What safety nets do women have that men don't have? If you are talking about basically being supported by a rich man or something that is literally for like the top 5% of beautiful woman.. the rest of us are out here working the same as you. I have 3 fricken jobs and have almost been homeless more than once.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/10/22 04:54 AM
1	Virgins women aren't anywhere near as rare as people on here think - those who say otherwise always misrepresent the statistics. That's why I don't understand instead of saying "I only want a virgin" why don't these man instead look for a woman with the same values as them.. someone who considers monogamy important, who thinks of sex as an act only being a married and loving pair, who thinks casual sex is wrong etc etc etc. Instead of just... I want a virgin. Who is to say that virgin won't change her mind after she does have sex and decide hey now I want to sleep around and see what I'm missing. Wouldn't it be smarter to…	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/10/22 04:48 AM
1	Virgins women aren't anywhere near as rare as people on here think - those who say otherwise always misrepresent the statistics. That sentence does not even make sense... how does a woman being promiscuous, of her own choice, have anything to do with human rights.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/10/22 04:45 AM
1	Virgins women aren't anywhere near as rare as people on here think - those who say otherwise always misrepresent the statistics. Technically, she was. She had never had a penis in her vagina. And she told everyone she was. So if you would have met her in her early twenties... she would have looked like this perfect little church girl, who didnt drink, didnt go to clubs, with the Champlain father, the church group friends who all thought she was a virgin, and would be telling you straight up with her innocent face she was a virgin. You would be thinking Wow! I finally found my innocent little virgin!!! That's my whole poin…	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/10/22 04:43 AM
2	Virgins women aren't anywhere near as rare as people on here think - those who say otherwise always misrepresent the statistics. Exactly. I'm only 34 and I have never actually even had the body count conversation in real life with a partner. No one has ever actually cared enough to ask me. It's honestly crazy to me what people are talking about in this sub and what they think is important in finding a mate. They don't realize they are only making it 100 times harder on themselves. Obsessing over the weirdest things. All these new terms like n count beta pilled looksmaxxed cold approaching etc like it's all just bullshit a…	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/10/22 04:38 AM
1	Virgins women aren't anywhere near as rare as people on here think - those who say otherwise always misrepresent the statistics. Agreed. I don't want to be with a man who has slept around indiscriminately or who views sex in a really casual manner either. And that's totally fine. There is a difference in wanting someone who has the same values and wants as you, over just saying you want a virgin because they have never had sex.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/10/22 04:29 AM
1	Virgins women aren't anywhere near as rare as people on here think - those who say otherwise always misrepresent the statistics. But she and everyone in her church said she was. So if you were to meet her, meet her family, her church friends etc.. you would think wow look at this little perfect innocent virgin I found.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/10/22 04:28 AM
1	Virgins women aren't anywhere near as rare as people on here think - those who say otherwise always misrepresent the statistics. Because it's not just a preference. Saying that I like men who are funny is a preference because that is an actual characteristic. There is nothing really behind that statement that is problematic. Saying you want a virgin brings up a whole bunch of issues because of the problematic nature in our society of virginity, sex shaming, morality, etc. It makes people wonder why you want the virgin. Do you believe that women who have had sex are dirty? But then do you feel the same way for men? Is it a…	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/10/22 04:21 AM
1	Virgins women aren't anywhere near as rare as people on here think - those who say otherwise always misrepresent the statistics. Yeah... we get it dude.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/10/22 03:50 AM
10	How much do you actually care about getting pregnant when dating or hooking up? Hahaha omg so true... like sometimes my period will be a week late and in my head I'm freaking out thinking "this is it... I'm pregnant.. life life is over" knowing God damn well that is completely impossible unless the 2nd coming of christ is scheduled and I'm the next virgn Mary	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/10/22 04:18 PM
9	How much do you actually care about getting pregnant when dating or hooking up? I think that I'm pretty confident saying that every single person that is capable of getting pregnant has had the mild panic and anxiety that comes with a late period. If you don't want to have a baby, then each month when your period comes it's like "phew, thank God.. dodged that bullet again".	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/10/22 04:11 PM
2	How much do you actually care about getting pregnant when dating or hooking up? but I also have never gotten an STD during sex, including gay sex, top and bottom, and sex with various LGBTQ individuals and sex workers. The way you phrased this is just.... yuck. Like you are implying that your safe sex practices are so damn effective that it has even protected you from that dirty gay sex and those promiscuous/dirty sex workers. Not cool.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/10/22 04:07 PM
11	Women, what’s your personal expectation? A 10/10? Exactly. Sexual attraction is not something that can be measured out and made one size fits all. That like chemical attraction happens differently for everyone. There could be a guy who has everything I say I want on paper, but then when we meet in person there is just nothing.. no spark, no heat. And on the opposite of that there could be a guy who I would consider absolutely not my type or what I want but when we meet sparks are flying right off the bat and we are drawn together. You can't rep…	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/10/22 06:45 AM
19	Virgins women aren't anywhere near as rare as people on here think - those who say otherwise always misrepresent the statistics. I don't know why so many men hold up virgin women as like these paragons of virtue and goodness. They say if you are looking for wifey material to look for a virgin. Like if you can get a virgin you are guaranteed this pure and amazing wife. She will be perfect! It's interesting to me because I have known some pretty questionable virgins in my time who would not fall under your description of "wife material". This girl Hannah in high school.. she was our schools Champlains daughter. Sure she sta…	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/10/22 12:13 PM
1	Some women are to blame for the toxicity of some men, through the enabling of bad behaviour Why is that even brought up right now? It has nothing to do with anything? Also the amount of babies murdered because their mother didn't want them is very, very low. Of course that is completely heinous. But to use that to bring up this weird argument of laws being changed for women but not for men makes absolutely no fucking sense at all.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/10/22 09:33 AM
5	Some women are to blame for the toxicity of some men, through the enabling of bad behaviour I dont think I've ever heard of a man sticking around to "fix" a woman though And women loooove to think we can fix the man. That the behaviour he has exhibited for 25 years and is the reason all his relationships end will magically be fixed by our love and care. Sigh... ohhhh to be young again lol	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/10/22 09:24 AM
1	I hear a lot of people say that women "aren't rocket science" When it comes to dating. I disagree wholeheartedly. I think the percentage is even less than that to be honest lol I was reading a study somewhere the other day that in heterosexual first time hookups something like under 6% will have an orgasm compared to 65% of men. Not very good odds for us lol I agree though.. the best sex I've had is in long term relationships or atleaat with someone I've been with enough times to know what I like. But it's still fun trying to find someone new! Maybe one day I'll hit up someone in that 6% lol	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/10/22 12:52 AM
1	I hear a lot of people say that women "aren't rocket science" When it comes to dating. I disagree wholeheartedly. Of course there are more men than women on OLD. No one is denying that. I'm not faulting men for anything either. But your profile and pictures do matter... there are guys who have one shitty mirror selfie from 7 years ago and no writing at all in the bio whining and crying they never get any matches and that all girls are superficial bitches. It's literally like advertising a product.. you have to sell yourself in the profile and take better pictures. I have helped friends with this too.. taken…	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/10/22 12:48 AM
1	I hear a lot of people say that women "aren't rocket science" When it comes to dating. I disagree wholeheartedly. Muhahaha 👿	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/10/22 08:07 PM
1	who should pay for dates?most importantly why? Courtesy and kindness is part of it definitely. It's how I was raised. But I have had too many negative experiences with men trying to use the "I paid for dinner" to try and get sex... or to use the fact that I didn't pay and didn't give them sex as a reason to call me a freeloader or a gold digger.. even when they insisted they should pay. So yes, it's always in the back of my mind that me paying will just negate that whole thing from the start. It's not the only reason though. Mostly I think i…	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/10/22 08:05 PM
3	I hear a lot of people say that women "aren't rocket science" When it comes to dating. I disagree wholeheartedly. Yeah it wasn't really a legitimately calculated statistic lol but yes I will agree the generalizations are on both sides. It's all "women do this" and "men do that". But people in general are sooo different. If you just put my characteristics, personality traits and interests down on paper you would for sure assume I was a man. But I am very much a woman. Assuming never helps anyone really. I think a lot of the men on this sub especially take one thing that's happened to them, or even happened t…	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/10/22 07:29 PM
2	I hear a lot of people say that women "aren't rocket science" When it comes to dating. I disagree wholeheartedly. But that's my point.. I think I am "ok" looking.. and I don't have men flocking to me left right and centre. I do get a lot of gross spam messages of men sending sexually bullshit. But actual normal men? I have to go out and meet them normally and strike up conversations.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/10/22 07:23 PM
1	I hear a lot of people say that women "aren't rocket science" When it comes to dating. I disagree wholeheartedly. Mentally healthy normal women do not.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/10/22 07:21 PM
0	I hear a lot of people say that women "aren't rocket science" When it comes to dating. I disagree wholeheartedly. Every girl I know has slept with a guy who they normally wouldn't because they were funny, charismatic, passionate, or the life of the party. Yep. That's how i met the current guy I'm dating. He is literally nothing like my normal type.. but we met at an event and he made me laugh and smile the whole night. He just had such a good vibe and he made me feel really good. So I took a chance and gave him my number.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/10/22 06:56 PM
3	I hear a lot of people say that women "aren't rocket science" When it comes to dating. I disagree wholeheartedly. Good luck! Don't do the cold approaching. That does not work. Join some clubs.. like a game night, a hiking club, board game club, improv comedy club, chess club.. anything really.. and then start by actually making friends with the girls there. That way you at least have some common ground first. Asking random people out on the street or "cold approaching" is such a bad idea to me. Like I said above, sure Maybe 1 in 100 will say yes.. but those 99 rejections just kill your confidence.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/10/22 06:54 PM
1	I hear a lot of people say that women "aren't rocket science" When it comes to dating. I disagree wholeheartedly. These men just choose to put on the blinders when they are in public. They don't actually "see" all the normal average and ugly couples. Or they just say the man must be rich. It's honestly really sad to me how delusional some of them can be. They are so set in this mindset and they don't realize the mindset is exactly what is holding them back.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/10/22 06:52 PM
2	I hear a lot of people say that women "aren't rocket science" When it comes to dating. I disagree wholeheartedly. The whole cold approaching thing is such bullshit. Sure maybe 1 in 100 may say yes, but those 99 rejections really fuck with your confidence.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/10/22 06:51 PM
2	I hear a lot of people say that women "aren't rocket science" When it comes to dating. I disagree wholeheartedly. Some of us do.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/10/22 06:48 PM
1	I hear a lot of people say that women "aren't rocket science" When it comes to dating. I disagree wholeheartedly. Maybe your standards just aren't realistic though. If you are a 5 and only constantly hitting on 7s, 8s and 9s and getting rejected.. then "lowering your standards" to a 5 isn't really lowering them beneath your actual standards... it's just bringing them into a more realistic range.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/10/22 06:47 PM
1	I hear a lot of people say that women "aren't rocket science" When it comes to dating. I disagree wholeheartedly. This is such bullshit because I have done this. With the pictures of a friend of mine who was complaining of exactly this and telling me I had it so much easier and blah blah blah. He hadn't gotten a match for over a month and was pissing me off starting to sound like an incel. I went through his shit and chose the pictures and made a profile.. and talked to women pretending to be him. You know what happened? I got him 3 dates in 2 weeks. Maybe you guys suck at choosing photos or making profiles…	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/10/22 06:45 PM
0	I hear a lot of people say that women "aren't rocket science" When it comes to dating. I disagree wholeheartedly. You literally are the one who just made a whole post on not understanding women... now you are getting defensive someone else has said you don't?	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/10/22 06:41 PM
1	I hear a lot of people say that women "aren't rocket science" When it comes to dating. I disagree wholeheartedly. Actually, mine and most women I knows height standard is literally just "must be taller than me"	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/10/22 06:37 PM
2	I hear a lot of people say that women "aren't rocket science" When it comes to dating. I disagree wholeheartedly. Yeah sure you can say that not ALL women live these types of lives. But it's getting increasingly obvious (maybe not for you) that this is the case for the overwhelming majority of women who aren't morbidly obese, aren't in crack, and have a decent hygiene. We really don't though. You say you are tired of hearing women say this.... so that many women are telling you and you still don't believe us? You instead choose to believe the men who are telling you we are this way? You can look at my profi…	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/10/22 06:34 PM
1	I hear a lot of people say that women "aren't rocket science" When it comes to dating. I disagree wholeheartedly. If a woman is interested in you... actually interested.. she doesn't play the hot and cold game. That hot and cold game is usually when you are being held on as a backup incase the main person she likes doesn't work out. If she really likes you, she won't play games trying to lead you along.. she will answer your texts and show up.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/10/22 06:27 PM
1	I hear a lot of people say that women "aren't rocket science" When it comes to dating. I disagree wholeheartedly. Those experiments are mostly fake dude. Just to let you know. I wish I could show you the actual tinders of some of my girlfriends.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/10/22 06:24 PM
4	I hear a lot of people say that women "aren't rocket science" When it comes to dating. I disagree wholeheartedly. How can you generalize "men" so hard based on one example of some dude, It's funny you say that because that's literally what 80% of this sub is... Men generalizing women based on one woman or one experience.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/10/22 06:22 PM
0	I hear a lot of people say that women "aren't rocket science" When it comes to dating. I disagree wholeheartedly. Do you know how unappealing that sounds? Being fucked by like 30 arrogant, sexed up, aggressive men at one time? No thank you. I like being able to walk without pain.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/10/22 06:10 PM
0	I hear a lot of people say that women "aren't rocket science" When it comes to dating. I disagree wholeheartedly. If every ugly man I see that's in a relationship is rich like you say... then the average yearly salary in my area would be a lot higher than it is.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/10/22 06:03 PM
2	Even women well into their 30s and 40s think they can afford to be insanely selective, often even more so than younger far more attractive girls Pretty much exactly that lol	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/10/22 08:05 PM
2	Even women well into their 30s and 40s think they can afford to be insanely selective, often even more so than younger far more attractive girls I'm OK with either option. If I find a man that actually adds something to my life and we fall in love, then that's great. If I don't.. then I am happy being single as well. Being single doesn't necessarily mean alone. I am on this subreddit mostly because I find it interesting. It's kind of crazy to me some of the men's opinions on here.. and sometimes it gives me a good laugh reading how delusional a lot of people are.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/10/22 08:05 PM
1	who should pay for dates?most importantly why? They just get seperate cheques on the first date instead.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/10/22 07:47 PM
2	who should pay for dates?most importantly why? No not at all. I make the offer fully expecting him to say yes. I would rather pay my share, at least on the first few dates. It's weird to me to expect a stranger to pay for me. For anything really.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/10/22 07:42 PM
1	who should pay for dates?most importantly why? Try asking the person you're dating. Might help I'm dating women only at the moment.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/10/22 07:41 PM
1	who should pay for dates?most importantly why? Like are you actually trying to make the argument that when it comes to taking the initiative and approaching the other gender things are 50/50? That's beyond ridiculous tbh. I'm not sure how me saying "I've asked out men quite a few times" is somehow construed to mean I think that men and women equally approach and ask out the other gender but alright then. But yes, I was being serious. With new people, on first second third etc dates I always ask for separate cheques or offer to split the bill…	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/10/22 07:37 PM
1	who should pay for dates?most importantly why? Yes. I always just ask for separate cheques anyways on first dates because at that point I don't even know you.. I'm not expecting you to pay for my food. I have had guys get upset at this.. say I'm trying to emasculate them or embarass them. That's fine though because i wouldn't want to be with that kind of man anyways so I'm glad it's being brought out in the open so early.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/10/22 07:31 PM
1	who should pay for dates?most importantly why? Considering the fact that I am a "western pretty women" I think that I can speak on the matter. I didn't miss anything. This woman literally said she likes to pay the full bill half the time and got called a freeloader. Up and down this whole thread is women stating they always pay half or offer to pay half. Me myself, I always ask for my own bill. I have spoken about this to many women in real life as well and all of my friends agreed that first couple dates they always pay their own bill. We d…	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/10/22 07:10 PM
1	who should pay for dates?most importantly why? It's not irrelevant at all.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/10/22 07:06 PM
0	Why can't the men that women don't want pay for sex without women hating them for it? What are you even talking about. The women who get upset that men go to prostitutes are the same women who hate on prostitutes in general. On the other hand, women who support prostitution and want it legalized usually have no issues with men using it as a service.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/10/22 03:50 PM
3	Being too attractive not worth it/a handicap for women when it comes to achieving socio-economic status? Agreed. If you have a normal 9-5 job and aren't a model or actress, then I really don't see the point. I think it does hinder things at work to be honest. Quite a few times in my career I have wished to be a ugly woman or a man because my looks negatively affected things. I had issues with a boss once trying to leverage sexual favors for promotions, I've had male coworkers crack sexist jokes..like wouldn't I be more interested in going shopping or doing my makeup instead of trying to put my name…	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/10/22 07:32 AM
3	bro the recent posts on the sub are so low quality Every single post on here makes sweeping generalizations.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/10/22 08:32 PM
0	Have you ever turned a woman down for her body count? Agreed I have never met a single person who has a 4 digit body count. I highly doubt this man knows several.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/10/22 08:20 AM
3	Have you ever turned a woman down for her body count? Wait.. herpes is fatal to monkeys? Wow you learn something new everyday.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/10/22 08:17 AM
3	who should pay for dates?most importantly why? Thats how it should be. I think the girl should always offer and be prepared to actually pay her part. If the man wants to decline and pay for her, that's completely fine too. But you should never go anywhere expecting someone else to pay for you. When I was a server at a nice restaurant there was a guy and a girl sat at one of my tables. She was on her phone literally the whole time, basically ignoring the guy. For the first half you could see he was trying to interact with her and trying to ge…	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/10/22 09:27 PM
2	who should pay for dates?most importantly why? I really don't know any woman that would sit through an hour or 2 date with a man they have no interest in just to get a free meal.. I would much rather just go by myself and enjoy it. Or ask my friends to go. Then again I live in Northern Canada so it's a little different than Miami. Girls here are more... normal.. and less fake IG models.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/10/22 09:13 PM
1	who should pay for dates?most importantly why? I'm gonna go out on a limb here and say like me, most women aren't going to fuck you for the price of a chicken Alfredo dinner and a glass of wine. It is not a transaction. Paying for dinner doesn't equal buying sex. Either you are joking, trolling, or you just have a really fucked up view on relationships/sex.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/10/22 09:09 PM
2	who should pay for dates?most importantly why? Then it doesn't really count... if you are married then you are both technically paying anyways no?	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/10/22 09:07 PM
0	who should pay for dates?most importantly why? Your**	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/10/22 09:01 PM
1	who should pay for dates?most importantly why? I've been in the split the bill situation and I felt humiliated and emasculated, thought everyone around is looking thinking I am greedy and poor. We really can't win then can we. If we don't offer to split the bill then we are gold diggers. If we do try and split then we are emasculating and humiliating you. How are we supposed to know what the right choice is?	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/10/22 08:45 PM
3	who should pay for dates?most importantly why? From a womans perspective I also agree. Nowadays I think it's just easier if everyone splits. Then there is no feeling of she owes me this or he owes that. You are instead just starting the relationship off on an even playing field. If it turns into an actual relationship then you can revisit how you want to pay for things and what's fair going forward, but definitely in the beginning its just all around easier to split. I always ask to split when the time comes and most of the time the men are …	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/10/22 08:41 PM
3	who should pay for dates?most importantly why? Yeah none of us would want to be friends with her lol I'm a woman and I would stay far away from this person. She sounds like an entitled nightmare. Jesus.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/10/22 08:33 PM
2	who should pay for dates?most importantly why? Right? Im confused lol	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/10/22 08:31 PM
2	who should pay for dates?most importantly why? Men do not pay for everything. In mine and every single person I know, both couples work. I literally know 1 stay at home mom and it's because they have 4 kids under 8yrs old. In today's economy most of us cannot survive on a one income household so both of the people in the relationship usually have to work. I have never in my life met a couple where the man "pays for everything" as you said.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/10/22 08:29 PM
2	who should pay for dates?most importantly why? Pretty soon we will be coming for your souls too!! Better watch out.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/10/22 08:25 PM
13	who should pay for dates?most importantly why? She literally just said she likes to equally take turns paying for the full bill and somehow you have turned that into her being a freeloader?	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/10/22 08:15 PM
2	who should pay for dates?most importantly why? I offer to pay everytime. So do all my girl friends. And I've asked out men quite a few times.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/10/22 08:13 PM
11	Even women well into their 30s and 40s think they can afford to be insanely selective, often even more so than younger far more attractive girls Of course it's the same guy lol	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/10/22 08:40 PM
14	Even women well into their 30s and 40s think they can afford to be insanely selective, often even more so than younger far more attractive girls Do you think we need to be told that we are going to get old? Lol like we have gone our whole lives without realizing that fact until you just told us? I am one hundred percent sure the woman you are replying to knows this and has factored this into her life plan already.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/10/22 08:38 PM
28	Even women well into their 30s and 40s think they can afford to be insanely selective, often even more so than younger far more attractive girls They think we are miserable and desperate. That we should settle for any pity fuck that comes our way because it's all we can get and all we deserve. It's honestly laughable to me. I'm 34 and my sex and dating life has never been better. I think I'm the most attractive now than I've ever been and people around me tell me the same thing. I have built a great life for myself, and I did it by myself. So it's going to take a heck of a man for me to give up being single and risk disrupting my perfect…	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/10/22 08:35 PM
84	Even women well into their 30s and 40s think they can afford to be insanely selective, often even more so than younger far more attractive girls And that's how it should be.. you shouldn't need a partner to complete your life. You should happy and complete on your own before ever even looking for a partner.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/10/22 08:31 PM
10	Even women well into their 30s and 40s think they can afford to be insanely selective, often even more so than younger far more attractive girls Some do for sure. But a lot of men like to think we are all that way and just desperately sitting at home waiting for a man to fulfill us and that's just not true.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/10/22 08:30 PM
18	Even women well into their 30s and 40s think they can afford to be insanely selective, often even more so than younger far more attractive girls For me personally it is true. I have built a great life for myself and by myself. I have a great job and make great money, I have my own house, 2 amazing dogs who i love, an awesome group of friends and a really close family. So I feel complete without a man and am content being on my own. If I find a man and fall in love, then that's great...but it's not something I need to "complete" me. Edit** I am 34 btw. If that matters. Another thing that makes me laugh is the men saying "the wall" is 30 a…	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/10/22 08:25 PM
20	Even women well into their 30s and 40s think they can afford to be insanely selective, often even more so than younger far more attractive girls Exactly. What these guys don't seem to understand is that most of us women by this age, I'm 34 btw, have got our lives together now and don't want to "settle." I have a great job, my own house, 2 dogs that I love, an amazing group of friends, a really close family who I love.... so I'm not going to settle for anything less than pretty much a perfect fit. Why would I? I consider my life pretty perfect without a man right now.. so what benefits would I get from settling? It would be more of a head…	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/10/22 08:21 PM
3	Women who sexually like men, are you personally not that visually stimulated by our bodies? But this would mean that you wouldn't think that men's bodies when they're 'pretty' or 'hot' (purely based on their appearance) aren't inherently attractive, right? Doesn't this render the appearance of your partner meaningless? Not at all. Most women need both a physical attraction and an emotional connection to want to be sexual with someone. Most men literally just need the physical attraction. That's the difference.. I can see attractive men and appreciate their hotness without wanting to ha…	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/10/22 05:54 PM
13	Women who sexually like men, are you personally not that visually stimulated by our bodies? That's your view. Most men are just out their living their lives as they please.. not dancing around and acting out some perceived fantasy to attract women.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/10/22 05:51 PM
1	Ultimately, only the top 5% of men have power dating wise. The top 30-40% of women have power dating wise. No.. not true. A lot of girls I know literally ran off of tinder because of horrible creepy experiences. Do you know how many women nowadays will literally shudder when asked about OLD and say "never again".	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/10/22 12:45 AM
1	Ultimately, only the top 5% of men have power dating wise. The top 30-40% of women have power dating wise. Dunno what city you are in that is maybe somehow different but I've used tinder in my hometown and quite a few other cities and the men's side is usually very slim pickings. So many group photos like he said where you have no idea who is who. Some random nature and motorcycle pics? One pic of the person you can tell is from like 10 plus years ago. And the weirdest bios or no bio at all.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/10/22 12:43 AM
1	If men wanted women to be less selective, they should be more selective If your net has a bunch of large holes in it itbdoesnt matter how big it is	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/10/22 02:36 PM
4	If men wanted women to be less selective, they should be more selective 🤦🏻‍♀️🤦🏻‍♀️🤦🏻‍♀️ Not all bi people are just automatically down for a threescore.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/10/22 02:33 PM
1	If men wanted women to be less selective, they should be more selective But why swipe right on people you aren't even attracted to?	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/10/22 02:32 PM
2	Would more men be considered attractive if they worked out? Sitting and constantly thinking about how unfair it is and how girls have it so much easier is not going to help you at all. It is really only making things worth. You need to accept the reality of how things are and go from there to try and improve them. The gym will help for sure.. it will build your confidence as well. But all of that won't help if you can't talk to women and have a genuine conversation with them. I would say that is even more important than the gym and something you should w…	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/10/22 02:05 AM
2	Would more men be considered attractive if they worked out? They would be struggling way more if they were fat too	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/10/22 01:50 AM
1	Is it true that men have it harder than women because what makes a man attractive can't be faked or is extremely difficult to achieve? Oh hun. Yes I know how debating works. The problem is you haven't established a sound theory or produced substantive arguments. There is nothing to debate because nothing you have said is based on fact and it's all bullshit. 🤷🏻‍♀️	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/10/22 10:45 AM
1	Being a short guy is not the dating handicap its made out to be. I am single rn.. but the relationship I just got out of he was about 5'7 or 5'8 I would say.. I'm not positive as I never measured and I don't think he did either. Or at least he never mentioned it.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/10/22 10:40 AM
1	Why do women care so much if men care about their age or previous sexual behavior? Thank fucking god	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/10/22 10:05 AM
1	Why do women care so much if men care about their age or previous sexual behavior? No. They really don't. No one owes you anything. If you think that they do you will constantly walk around with a chip on your shoulder feeling slighted for people not living up to the things they owe you in your mind. When in reality, in their mind, they don't owe you shit.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/10/22 10:05 AM
1	Is it true that men have it harder than women because what makes a man attractive can't be faked or is extremely difficult to achieve? I have actually. Me and 2 friends did this as an experiment because a guy friend of mine said that the ugliest women still got more matches than him and he bet me $100. So we made a fake profile of a woman I would sadly agree was very ugly in the traditional scheme of things. No offense to her. In a one month period on tinder she got 1 match but it was a catfish scam. On hinge she got 2 matches one was a scam and the other deleted us or unmatched us as soon as we said hey. And on bumble we got 1…	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/10/22 09:51 AM
1	Is it true that men have it harder than women because what makes a man attractive can't be faked or is extremely difficult to achieve? That would be saying a woman's value as a human being is how attractive she is. That would be wrong, even if a person thinks it. Of course it's wrong. Doesn't stop most of the men on here from saying basically exactly this. That our only worth is looking pretty and popping out babies. She may also be the subject of viciousness from other females due to her reproductive status. I have never in my life heard of this happening.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/10/22 09:45 AM
1	Is it true that men have it harder than women because what makes a man attractive can't be faked or is extremely difficult to achieve? No dude. Your point is bullshit and nothing I said "proved your point" at all.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/10/22 09:40 AM
3	Is it true that men have it harder than women because what makes a man attractive can't be faked or is extremely difficult to achieve? implying women care about the moral character of a man We do. Most regular everyday women do anyways. Each women's definition of morals will be a little bit different but In general we do care. If you have two guys lined up ready to go on a date with a women... the first is absolutely stunningly good looking and the second is just average. The first hates children, kicks puppies for fun, is a jerk to the elderly, robs little old ladies purses and just has all around horrible morals. The second i…	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/10/22 04:41 PM
2	Is it true that men have it harder than women because what makes a man attractive can't be faked or is extremely difficult to achieve? Online dating sites like tinder aren't an accurate depiction of the general population though.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/10/22 04:19 PM
2	Is it true that men have it harder than women because what makes a man attractive can't be faked or is extremely difficult to achieve? Is a woman who had a hysterectomy less valuable? To a lot of men? Yes.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/10/22 04:18 PM
2	Is it true that men have it harder than women because what makes a man attractive can't be faked or is extremely difficult to achieve? Girls get their attractiveness for free, they do not earn it. Attractive young women are attractive by virtue of their bodies, given to them for free from biology. some girls.. not all girls. Just like some boys are born attractive. Roughly the same percentage actually. Men need to earn their attractiveness. some men.. just like some women. You are acting like every single girl is born beautiful and just sits their whole life being pretty while every man is born ugly and needs to work for i…	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/10/22 04:14 PM
6	Is it true that men have it harder than women because what makes a man attractive can't be faked or is extremely difficult to achieve? It's hilarious to me that hundreds of women in these comments will say things like "height isn't all that important to me, I prefer a shorter man with a good personality" or "I actually don't like built guys who workout, I prefer skinny men" or "I prefer feminine looking men.. big, strong men are too intimidating for me" or "personality is so much more important to me than looks"... they will ignore everything that women say and instead just regurgitate the same talking points that the pilled me…	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/10/22 04:07 PM
3	Is it true that men have it harder than women because what makes a man attractive can't be faked or is extremely difficult to achieve? Makeup can fool someone for one night. Out at a bar. But when you wakeup? It's gone. So you really aren't fooling anyone. Skincare doesn't work. It's a sham. It is not going to make you look years younger no matter how much you spend and use. Surgery is expensive as fuck. I don't know about you and your friends.. but mine can't afford a $6000 surgery every couple months to fix each problem that arises.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/10/22 03:57 PM
5	Is it true that men have it harder than women because what makes a man attractive can't be faked or is extremely difficult to achieve? They are being fake submissive. Inside their head they are screaming that this bitch is an idiot and if they weren't getting paid they would ream her a new one. They aren't just smiling and going along with it because they are submissive. Also, they are getting paid to so it.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/10/22 03:53 PM
15	Is it true that men have it harder than women because what makes a man attractive can't be faked or is extremely difficult to achieve? Because they are delusional. It's easier for them to blame their problems on things that are "unfixable" because then they don't have to do anything. They can just sit here and complain and have likeminded men cheer them up that its not their fault. If they actually accepted that average and below average men still get girls then it blows their whole ideology up in their face. That's why they will fight so hard against it.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/10/22 03:47 PM
3	Is it true that men have it harder than women because what makes a man attractive can't be faked or is extremely difficult to achieve? Ugly women... actually ugly women... do not get approached or asked out by anyone. It is very very hard for them.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/10/22 03:45 PM
3	Is it true that men have it harder than women because what makes a man attractive can't be faked or is extremely difficult to achieve? My guy... you are delusional. Do you not see how being so set in this ideology you have is hurting you? So many women have tried to tell you differently but you won't believe anything they say. Because to you... the man who only listens to other men is always correct. 🤦🏻‍♀️	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/10/22 03:41 PM
4	Is it true that men have it harder than women because what makes a man attractive can't be faked or is extremely difficult to achieve? Us women literally tell you over and over again that yes, character is the most important thing. No we don't necessarily need a hot guy over 6 feet if he's an asshole, we would rather have a good personality than amazing abs and so on and so on... but you guys refuse to accept what real world women are telling you and instead look for "sources" full of men who don't know what they are talking about.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/10/22 03:38 PM
3	Is it true that men have it harder than women because what makes a man attractive can't be faked or is extremely difficult to achieve? And how do you know they are already on your level? From your superficial checklist?	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/10/22 03:32 PM
5	Men on ppd are adamant that women don’t want to accept the fact that the majority of men are disgusted by promiscuous women, while refusing to accept that the majority of young women do not find men 10+ years older than them attractive You are the disgusting one here bud.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/10/22 10:58 PM
9	Men on ppd are adamant that women don’t want to accept the fact that the majority of men are disgusted by promiscuous women, while refusing to accept that the majority of young women do not find men 10+ years older than them attractive No one on this thread lives in reality lol	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/10/22 10:57 PM
1	Why do women care so much if men care about their age or previous sexual behavior? Ahhh shouldn't that tell you what we have been telling you all along? Looks aren't everything to us. You said yourself you don't have good social skills.. so your looks aren't everything if your personality sucks.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/10/22 10:31 AM
5	Why do women care so much if men care about their age or previous sexual behavior? They really don't though. Speaking from a 34 year old woman's perspective. I have more men pursuing me now actual than ever before. I get told that I am more beautiful now than ever before. I have never had a man ask me my ncount in real life ever.. the couple times I've brought it up to talk about, we talked about it in a joking way and they didn't care one way or the other. You think that every man cares because in your little internet bubble they say they do.. but real life for adults is diff…	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/10/22 10:25 AM
3	Why do women care so much if men care about their age or previous sexual behavior? No one has an obligation to you bro. Sorry to tell you.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/10/22 10:21 AM
3	Why do women care so much if men care about their age or previous sexual behavior? You say that you listened in health class so there is 2 options here of what happened with you. Actually 3. You didn't listen. You were a part of some Christian school with fear based sex ed. You are just delusional.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/10/22 10:16 AM
5	Why do women care so much if men care about their age or previous sexual behavior? Oh lord.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/10/22 10:14 AM
1	What's the male equivalent of a promiscuous woman? And that's not going to change while you continue to use the words beta simp, pookie and Ray Ray.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/10/22 12:19 PM
28	Women are not wrong in saying that the average guy is an undateable mess. The mistake they make is believing that the average woman is not. Dysfunctional relationships lol	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/10/22 07:28 PM
5	I've got this feeling most of the people here don't want to grow or change. In fact, I've got this feeling that most people are here to have their world-view reinforced. It's not meant to give you "a pipeline of girls" directly. But it gets you out of the house and meeting people. It makes you more interesting because you have friends and hobbies you can talk about. It makes you more confident in social settings because you have practice talking to people. Sure there may only be 3 dudes and 2 girls in this immediate circle, but you may become good friends with dude #1 who introduces you to all of his friends, and so on and so on. It gives you legitimate openings…	/r/seduction	07/10/22 07:15 AM
3	I've got this feeling most of the people here don't want to grow or change. In fact, I've got this feeling that most people are here to have their world-view reinforced. Exactly. It's much easier to say the issue is something that you can't change, like height or jawline structure... and have your online echo chamber give you constant positive feedback, instead of admitting the problem is something you can actively work on. That would involve actually trying something different, putting actual effort in and risking failure. Too risky.	/r/seduction	07/10/22 07:06 AM
10	Women rate themselves 10 of 10 in looks all the time and call each other DIVA and Queens and its okay, a Man rates himself highly or just says he is handsome AF, the women will say he is full of himself and its a turn off. why? God you guys love to make sweeping generalizations. Most women would not laugh at a man claiming he is handsome. Sure, maybe there are a few stuck up women who would react this way.. but the whole "women do this, women say that, women react that way" like we all are some big borg with one brain acting together is ridiculous. Why would I laugh at a man saying he is handsome? Good for him if he is confident in himself. There is a difference between confidence and arrogance. If it crosses over the …	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/10/22 06:49 AM
3	Women rate themselves 10 of 10 in looks all the time and call each other DIVA and Queens and its okay, a Man rates himself highly or just says he is handsome AF, the women will say he is full of himself and its a turn off. why? . It doesn’t affect me at all what a woman does with her body Exactly.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/10/22 06:44 AM
7	Women rate themselves 10 of 10 in looks all the time and call each other DIVA and Queens and its okay, a Man rates himself highly or just says he is handsome AF, the women will say he is full of himself and its a turn off. why? Same. It honestly makes me just shake my head now.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/10/22 06:42 AM
2	CMV: it's hypocritical for a woman to criticise men for caring about past sexual history if she herself would not date a man who is a virgin or never had a gf at 30. A lot of us. 9 inch is way to big for me.. it hurts. I need less than 6. And 6 feet tall is way too big cuz I'm 5 foot nothing. And I don't like solid abs... too hard and not fun to cuddle.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/10/22 06:50 PM
1	Q4W: Are you open FWB relationships? I think I would if the situation came along. I've never had one before though. I've really only had long term relationships and all my guy friends are just that, friends. I'm not sexually attracted to them enough to have sex with them.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/10/22 11:35 AM
1	Some men low in emotional intelligence give women the 'ick'. Are there any things some women do that give men the 'ick'? Yeah most people on here don't seem to really know what the ick means. It's not just what you dislike in a partner or your preferences. It's something that immediately turns you off of an otherwise attractive partner. You now cannot get past that "ick" to remember their other good qualities because the ick now just overpowers it all lol	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/10/22 09:09 PM
3	Some men low in emotional intelligence give women the 'ick'. Are there any things some women do that give men the 'ick'? Its not possible to not know about the ick. A lot of people here don't seem to know what the ick is, and are just confusing like preferences and dislikes for it. It's not just really something you don't want in a partner. It is something that happens with an otherwise all good partner that suddenly turns you off of them and now you can't shake that ick and go back to seeing them the way you did before. For example. Say I'm dating this guy. He's like a 9/10, has a great job good income, good pers…	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/10/22 09:03 PM
2	Some men low in emotional intelligence give women the 'ick'. Are there any things some women do that give men the 'ick'? Imo respect is love with an element of fear Huh? Love really has nothing to do with respect. You can definitely love AND respect someone, but you don't need to love someone to respect them. If that makes sense. For instance I respect Elon Musk for what he and his company has done for space exploration and the insane leaps his companies have made on Ai, but I don't love him. Hell I don't even like him really.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/10/22 08:49 PM
0	Some men low in emotional intelligence give women the 'ick'. Are there any things some women do that give men the 'ick'? Oh wow. Another post in this sub talking about how women with a lot of sexual partners are disgusting. Shocker.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/10/22 08:36 PM
2	What do you believe are the underlying reasons behind the issues men face when dating? How can they be addressed by society as a whole? However, with this mindset you just can't think of women as separate individuals no matter how hard you try to. You just think that same thing with every single one of them you see. It's an extremely depressing mindset to have, one you find hard to shake off, and one you just feel is actual reality, but that no one wants to admit it. I understand this. I really do. But this negative mindset that you have is literally half the battle. Yes, your looks may not be helping things necessarily.. but yo…	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/10/22 06:32 PM
1	Women are dishonest about what they are attracted to in men It’s only used in the Manosphere but you still know what it means though Duh. Thats my whole point. A lot of women know what it means and it has negative connotations. A lot of women will pretty much immediately think you are a sexist asshole when you use these words, whether that's fair or not. But you do you man. Literally just giving you a tip. Continue on sound this way I don't give a shit.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/10/22 04:53 AM
0	Women are dishonest about what they are attracted to in men Quite a few. But that really has nothing to do with the point.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/10/22 04:45 AM
2	What do you believe are the underlying reasons behind the issues men face when dating? How can they be addressed by society as a whole? There is definitely a small minority of women who are like this. They most likely have a lot of issues with self validation and don't know their worth.. they crave the attention from someone, even if it's negative. But those kind of people are not the majority.. not even close. Most women when they are talked to rudely by men, no matter what they look like, are turned off. Normal woman anyways. Maybe some like some kind of semi insulting flirty banter... but outright insulting and rude? No. Like…	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/10/22 10:39 PM
1	Being a short guy is not the dating handicap its made out to be. Sure, height was always a factor, but you definitely didn't have people posting about how short guys are disgusting and countless trending TikTok's how no one should date men under 6' or that men under 6' aren't real men before the advent of social media. There is a very small percentage of women who think this way.. if you went around in public and asked women "would you date someone under 6ft tall?" Pretty much all of them would say yes. I know this because I have done this experiment multiple…	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/10/22 04:47 PM
1	Being a short guy is not the dating handicap its made out to be. No. You are right in your post. It's not the handicap they make it out to be. They just refuse to believe that. It's easier to blame your problems on something you have no control over than to actually put in the effort to change and improve. You are 100 percent right with what you said at the bottom, these men's biggest handicap is their attitude towards dating and women in general. Negative people draw only negativity.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/10/22 04:37 PM
2	Women are dishonest about what they are attracted to in men I post in the hopes that other young men will wake up and stop listening to the non-sense perpetuated by society and modern day feminism. And I post in the hopes that maybe one guy who is teetering on falling over the edge into this delusional, black and white, generalized and transactional view of sex and romance you guys spout will read mine and the other women's accounts and realize that the entire real world is not as messed up as you guys make it out to be.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/10/22 06:33 AM
1	Women are dishonest about what they are attracted to in men I was confused by what he said lol I thought mine would have been the most common preference over my friends.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/10/22 06:21 AM
2	Women are dishonest about what they are attracted to in men But I'm not looking for validation from strangers on the internet Then why post the shit you post? It's literally crying out for validation. You want to be praised by a bunch of incels for "cracking" the code to women? You want to seem cool?	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/10/22 06:19 AM
1	Women are dishonest about what they are attracted to in men The term "cold approaching" is only known and used by a certain demographic of the manosphere and has negative connotations to women. So if a women hears you use this term, she will automatically assume you are part of this group and basically think less of women. Same with terms like high value man. Or calling yourself a nice guy.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/10/22 06:17 AM
3	Women are dishonest about what they are attracted to in men Fish don't catch themselves. More like would I ask a female fish how to mate to a female fish. And yes I would. They would know best.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/10/22 06:15 AM
1	Women are dishonest about what they are attracted to in men Doesn't trigger me. I just think it's fucking stupid.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/10/22 06:13 AM
1	Women are dishonest about what they are attracted to in men Almost 3 million couples get married in the US every year. Even more than that couple up. All of those men are not rich and hot.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/10/22 06:12 AM
1	Women are dishonest about what they are attracted to in men You guys will literally come up with anything but to actually call us women. It's fricken weird.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/10/22 06:09 AM
1	Women are dishonest about what they are attracted to in men A lot of people are just lazy and afraid of change. They will stay in unhappy relationships way too long just because they are used to it.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/10/22 02:05 AM
3	Women are dishonest about what they are attracted to in men Considering men are raised to suppress any and all emotion or be deemed a “ faggot” or a “ pussy” it’s a wonder most men aren’t offing themselves even more. “ be vulnerable “ “ no not like that you sissy” Who is saying that stuff? Other men. Pretty much every woman I know actively wishes and talks about how they wish their partner would open up more to them and be more emotionally there with them.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/10/22 02:02 AM
0	Women are dishonest about what they are attracted to in men She said she hated people in general, to be fair.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/10/22 02:00 AM
7	Women are dishonest about what they are attracted to in men Yes don't listen to women when it comes to what women want.. just like you shouldn't listen to lawyers when it comes to the law, or medical professionals when it comes to medical issues, or electricians when it comes to electrical work... etc. None of them know what they actually want.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/10/22 01:53 AM
3	Women are dishonest about what they are attracted to in men Yep.. agreed. If you can't talk to me about your problems and vulnerabilities then I feel like you don't trust me. We are supposed to be partners.. a team.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/10/22 01:50 AM
5	Women are dishonest about what they are attracted to in men Why do you keep saying "wahmen"?	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/10/22 01:46 AM
1	Women are dishonest about what they are attracted to in men You think you do. Every other women on this thread disagrees.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/10/22 01:45 AM
-1	Women are dishonest about what they are attracted to in men Stop using terms like cold approaching and you'll have a better chance. Stop treating women as like some achievement you want to unlock and more like an interesting person you would like to meet and you would also have better luck.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/10/22 01:44 AM
6	Women are dishonest about what they are attracted to in men We really don't. We all have different tastes. Sure I like big guys.. tall. Somewhat chubby.. like the typical lumberjack..dark hair kinda long, beard and all that. But my best friend likes short, slim build, glasses, absolutely no facial hair or long hair. My other friend liked medium height, super skinny emo type with lots of tattoos, pericings and coloured hair. My other friend likes what most people would consider overweight teddy bear types with facial hair.. doesn't really care about heigh…	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/10/22 01:38 AM
9	Women are dishonest about what they are attracted to in men It's honestly insane. This sub literally makes me worried for society in general.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/10/22 01:33 AM
8	Women are dishonest about what they are attracted to in men I think what I stated accurately describes most, but not all, modern day women in the west. It really doesn't though. Maybe in certain areas and demographics... like downtown LA or New York.. but in the general, average real world it isn't like this. Women do not only care and choose men based on money, height, looks and social status. I have purposely made a point of talking about this with tons of different women in real life because I wanted to know. Asking them why they chose their husband's…	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/10/22 01:31 AM
3	Women are dishonest about what they are attracted to in men God you guys have such a disgusting and pointless attitude to love and sex.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/10/22 01:20 AM
6	Women are dishonest about what they are attracted to in men Divorce was essentially non existent when fathers chose their daughters husbands and in parts of the world were this is still the cultural custom divorce is non existent You are joking right? They don't divorce because they CAN'T divorce not because they don't want too. They are treated like property.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/10/22 01:16 AM
2	How does dating survive if more women are so picky? Apparently lol I'm so used to reading this shit I don't know what's real anymore	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/10/22 08:13 PM
2	How does dating survive if more women are so picky? I personally know multiple couples where this isn't the case.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/10/22 08:11 PM
2	How does dating survive if more women are so picky? Oh lord.. my guy.. the point I was trying to make was if you want to know what women want.. you should ask women. Stop asking men what women want because you guys have no fucking idea.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/10/22 08:08 PM
18	How does dating survive if more women are so picky? If you walked outside you'd see thousands of couples where the guy doesn't remotely fit this I know I swear this man have blinders up and no matter how clearly false and stupid it is they will stick to their stance to the end. They HAVE to be correct because it is literally the bedrock and foundation of everything they believe about society. They can't even let a little crack form in that foundation or ite over. Or they just say "oh that bald and fat man with the horrible chin who's holding hand…	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/10/22 10:47 PM
0	How does dating survive if more women are so picky? Yes, you’re right. No man who isn’t tall, in shape, with a square jaw and hunter eyes and a full head of hair and a “good voice” has ever gotten a first date or a relationship. So all the shorter bald guys with a bad jaw, and a "normal voice" and their wives are all make believe then? You see these kind of men daily in public l.. frick half of men are overweight and balding right now. Plus I know several that fit these categories perfectly.. some are married.. some dating and some single.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/10/22 10:39 PM
12	How does dating survive if more women are so picky? We aren't. It's not that difficult. You know the only people who say that these are women's requirements? Men. No women.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/10/22 10:37 PM
1	Women feel just as entitled to men's minds as they complain men do to their bodies. It absolutely blows my mind the shit these men convince themselves of to be able to play the victim to women. Like I literally can do nothing but laugh now because otherwise I am getting angry.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/10/22 02:38 PM
1	Confidence is almost entirely a result of external factors not an internal decision to be confident Yes! This is explained very well. You put my thoughts into words in a way I was having trouble doing.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/10/22 02:30 PM
1	Confidence is almost entirely a result of external factors not an internal decision to be confident No it's not about looks all the time. If two twin brothers.. both overweight, both with no money,.. let's say they look the exact same. One of them is a positive guy. He may not be the best looking, but he thinks he's a pretty alright guy even without that. He has good hygeine and takes care of what he does have, dresses nice and plays up his best features. He has hobbies he enjoys and he's confident in his skills in that area.. he tries to look at the best of things, and generally tries to be f…	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/10/22 02:27 PM
2	Confidence is almost entirely a result of external factors not an internal decision to be confident They don't actually believe this be true though. They think that if an ugly guy has a girlfriend, he is either rich or has some other factor that has made him win her. In their minds, true average everyday common ugly 9-5 absolutely cannot get a girl. I've had this convo so many times... like do they not look around when they in public? There are couples everywhere.. and 90 percent of the population is statistically not "hot"... but they will never listen.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/10/22 02:19 PM
1	Confidence is almost entirely a result of external factors not an internal decision to be confident Women puzzle over what men want as well, or how to get a man to like them. They don't "explode" to think of it. Contrary to what some of you think, we don't all just have men constantly falling at our feet 24/7.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/10/22 02:12 PM
1	Why Won’t You Pay For Sex? It's not false hope.. what do you think people just stop having sex at 40? If she put herself out there I'm sure she could find someone.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/09/22 09:48 PM
4	Why Won’t You Pay For Sex? ) I realize now I probably will never have sex again, and that’s ok. Well, it has to be. This isn't true girl! There are still men at every age that want companionship. My grandma got married at 75 and she talked about their sex life often! Lol	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/09/22 01:05 PM
1	Why all the anger when a guy who is probably promiscuous doesn’t want to date a woman who is the same? It's not. I don't think you understand what hypocritical means bro. The only way the money scenario could he hypocritical was if I was poor.. broke as shit but refused to date poor men. That would make me a hypocrite. But just a regular person just hoping to find someone that has lots of money doesn't make them hypocritical..	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/09/22 04:25 AM
0	Why all the anger when a guy who is probably promiscuous doesn’t want to date a woman who is the same? You don't have to make the same amount of money.. and you don't have to have the same amount of sex partners... just don't judge your partner for having a high n count if you have a high n count yourself.. don't judge your partner for being poor if you yourself are poor.. that is what makes it hypocritical.. it's as simple as that. If you only have 4 partners and your gf has 15; but you don't care or think less of them for it then it doesn't matter. Same with the money situation. You are talking…	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/09/22 04:21 AM
0	Why all the anger when a guy who is probably promiscuous doesn’t want to date a woman who is the same? Oh Jesus. Miss me with that bullshit.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/09/22 04:17 AM
2	Why all the anger when a guy who is probably promiscuous doesn’t want to date a woman who is the same? A few women do probably feel that way, sure. But you guys take a couple negative women and then from them on its "all women" do this. One woman on here says "oh a man's a coward if he doesn't ask me out first" and from that point forward you push the idea that all women think men are cowards if they don't act first. It happens with everything. If one woman says she doesn't date short guys, then it's all women are stuck up bitches that only date 7 feet tall men. If one woman says she doesn't like…	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/09/22 04:14 AM
1	The only "80/20 rule" on dating apps is that 80/20 is literally the male-to-female user ratio on them I'm sorry babes did tinder hurt you? Do you need someone to talk to? You seem very pent up and defeated.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/09/22 04:07 AM
4	Why all the anger when a guy who is probably promiscuous doesn’t want to date a woman who is the same? Yeah. I have quite a few times. I always offer to split the bill.. whether is the first date or the tenth date. Sometimes the men say no, they want to pay.. and sometimes they say sure! Splitting is a great idea. But I never go anywhere assuming someone else is going to pay for me. In my last relationship we took turns. Say if Tuesday we went out for dinner and I paid, then on Saturday for lunch we go out from brunch, then he paid.. and then so on back and forth. Unless it was something fancy an…	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/09/22 04:01 AM
2	The only "80/20 rule" on dating apps is that 80/20 is literally the male-to-female user ratio on them That's possible for sure. Sounds 100 percent more realistic to me.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/09/22 04:00 AM
5	The only "80/20 rule" on dating apps is that 80/20 is literally the male-to-female user ratio on them That says more about you and the type of women you associate with tbh. None of my friends or associates belittle men and talk about taking advantage of them. All of my friends would laugh if they were called "princesses who should be wooed". Like laugh because it's ridiculous.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/09/22 03:59 AM
0	The only "80/20 rule" on dating apps is that 80/20 is literally the male-to-female user ratio on them Aggression is required because the gender ratio is what it is. If you take it slow you'll just get ghosted an overwhelming majority of the time because there will be at least half a dozen other matches and you need to hold their attention. There's a lot of room to maneuver between aggression and taking it slow/boring. Straight aggression or explicit stuff right off the bat is an immediate block for me, and I think for a lot of girls. What I think has the best success and the most likely chance o…	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/09/22 10:34 PM
8	The only "80/20 rule" on dating apps is that 80/20 is literally the male-to-female user ratio on them Those women are probably fat Some are, sure. But not all.. some of us just don't care to date at the moment. We have recently got out of long term or bad relationships, are sick of online dating, have had a few bad dates or would just rather be alone for a while. Right now the way that I see it, is I'm the happiest I've ever been. I'm alone, I have a great house that I love renovating and decorating how I want, I have a great job, amazing friends/family, and 2 huge dogs that I love more than any…	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/09/22 10:21 PM
7	The only "80/20 rule" on dating apps is that 80/20 is literally the male-to-female user ratio on them Oh they care, but it's a Chad / prince charming or bust attitude. No. Some of us really don't care at all.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/09/22 10:14 PM
1	The only "80/20 rule" on dating apps is that 80/20 is literally the male-to-female user ratio on them That's how little they think of men. They think we only exist so they can take advantage of us. There is no "they". The amount of women who think and act this way is such a small percentage yet you guys act like literally every single woman in the world feels this way.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/09/22 10:11 PM
-1	The only "80/20 rule" on dating apps is that 80/20 is literally the male-to-female user ratio on them No one hired her because that is not an actual job. No one is getting paid to sit on tinder and make fake profiles to string along guys. Sure, people do it for other reasons.. to catfish or for kicks or whatever. But there is no company hiring and paying people to do this...	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/09/22 10:09 PM
2	Why all the anger when a guy who is probably promiscuous doesn’t want to date a woman who is the same? This doesn't even make sense... what should be equal?	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/09/22 08:33 PM
11	Why all the anger when a guy who is probably promiscuous doesn’t want to date a woman who is the same? * mic drop *	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/09/22 08:32 PM
2	Why all the anger when a guy who is probably promiscuous doesn’t want to date a woman who is the same? Right? Lol in the real world I have never really met a man who cared about n count or asked me my count before sex... but on here? Half the guys seem to think our numbers are more important than anything else when it comes to dating.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/09/22 08:31 PM
6	Why all the anger when a guy who is probably promiscuous doesn’t want to date a woman who is the same? Agreed. It just shows me right up from that they hold women to different standards and think that different rules should apply to me versus then. Not a good recipe for a successful relationship.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/09/22 08:28 PM
8	Why all the anger when a guy who is probably promiscuous doesn’t want to date a woman who is the same? Its not even close to the same thing. I don't think nowadays that most women are opposed to making the first move .. it's more common for men to for sure, but if we are interested we would say so. Except for really shy women.. and even then I don't think any of us would refuse to date a man who didn't want to make the first move. So how could that be hypocritical at all?	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/09/22 08:27 PM
-1	Why all the anger when a guy who is probably promiscuous doesn’t want to date a woman who is the same? Speaking behaviourally what about women who want men making more than them? That's entirely under their control. That hypocritical? It's not hypocritical to want a partner that makes more money than you. But it would be hypocritical if you yourself were broke, but refused to date another broke person and would only date someone unless they were rich. It really is as simple as that saying "rules for me, but not for thee"	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/09/22 08:21 PM
1	Why all the anger when a guy who is probably promiscuous doesn’t want to date a woman who is the same? I did just make it make sense. No you didn't.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/09/22 08:18 PM
1	Why all the anger when a guy who is probably promiscuous doesn’t want to date a woman who is the same? I’m not gonna call a woman a hypocrite for wanting a man that makes more It's not the same thing at all. A closer analogy would be "a women who is very broke and has no money who refuses to date a man unless he has a lot of money." That's a hypocrite.. and is just as stupid. It's the same thing as when a man who has slept with 50 plus woman says he won't date so and so women because she's a whore for sleeping with 18 people. It's just completely hypocritical. There aren't different standards for…	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/09/22 08:15 PM
3	Thoughts on communities like r/Diabla? Yeah but actual gold diggers aren't gonna hang around long in a relationship when they aren't getting anything. So if you don't do anything fancy or spend much or hint you have money in the first couple months they will move on to golder pastures pretty damn fast. Lol	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/09/22 03:56 AM
6	Thoughts on communities like r/Diabla? And it's pretty bad that i feel like i can't be sure someone is expressing genuine interest in me or if she wants my money. Then in the beginning, don't even let on that you have money. You'll get rid of the gold diggers pretty fast that way. Once you are closer with the women and know her intentions are true, then you can start taking her places like you said above.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/09/22 12:50 AM
5	Thoughts on communities like r/Diabla? Does she expect it? Does she act like she deserves it all the time? Does she not seem appreciative? Does she take for granted when you buy her things? You can usually tell when someone is using you for money. I know with my exes they would have to pretty much beat me over the head with a present before I would accept it because I just don't like people spending money on me.. but there are extremes both ways.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/09/22 12:44 AM
-1	Women when a women expresses a preference: she can have whatever standards she wants. Women when men express a preference: he's misogynistic, insecure ect... In places outside the west men have the option to legally have multiple wives, and societally, women are expected to submit to the men. Then why don't all the western men who want this kind of lifestyle just go there? Easy. Problem solved.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/09/22 04:06 PM
0	What are the reasons groups for males and boys always seem to end up eventually infiltrated by women and girls? You guys are more than welcome to open male only gyms as well you know.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/09/22 08:24 AM
0	What are the reasons groups for males and boys always seem to end up eventually infiltrated by women and girls? I can guarantee women would not tolerate being treated how men treat other men. I think we would for sure. Being spoken to as an equal, with respect and not hidden sexusl motives would be lovely.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/09/22 02:32 PM
-1	Is holding the opinion “men and women are abused at similar rates” a red flag in a guy. Why? Both. One anecdote about cardi b doesn't mean anything to me. Different circumstances in each of those people, situations and cases. I don't understand with you guys why it has to always just be "men are suffering, men have it the worst, men are the victims" and that is that. You can't even uncheck your biases enough to look at the whole picture for once.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/09/22 11:58 AM
1	ONLINE DATING TRENDS: It turns out that Bumble, the app marketed as 'female-friendly' where only women can message first, has a user base of over 80% men in the UK. In the US, where the app is used by far the most, women are less than 1 in 3 users Wow... wayyy too much to unpack here so just gonna do this super quick... Women aren't terrified of messaging men first. A very small portion of women I would say is shy enough that they would be scared to message first. Most of us just don't WANT to message. We are raised learning to "sell ourselves." We are taught from birth that our worth is in selling ourselves and putting on a polite, happy and sexy front. What kind of women are you hanging out with that they are waving their genitals in yo…	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/09/22 12:16 AM
12	ONLINE DATING TRENDS: It turns out that Bumble, the app marketed as 'female-friendly' where only women can message first, has a user base of over 80% men in the UK. In the US, where the app is used by far the most, women are less than 1 in 3 users Nobody is going to judge you for going on a couple of dates a week and then just screening out the guys wanting a quick lay during the initial chat or first date. Bold statement. We are judged on this all the time actually. It's automatically assumed we must be fucking them and we are having 3 or 4 tinder hookups per week. I see it literally all the time in these subs.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/09/22 12:01 AM
1	ONLINE DATING TRENDS: It turns out that Bumble, the app marketed as 'female-friendly' where only women can message first, has a user base of over 80% men in the UK. In the US, where the app is used by far the most, women are less than 1 in 3 users But all of that requires taking some initiative and getting the average woman to lead a conversation on an app, let alone anything after, is like pulling teeth. I wouldn't say so.. out of the small amount of women who do use online dating sites a good majority of them use bumble. Especislly women looking for relationships over hookups. So it seems that they enjoy those features and it's working as it's supposed to.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/09/22 11:58 PM
3	Is holding the opinion “men and women are abused at similar rates” a red flag in a guy. Why? Misogyny and misandry are both getting out of control in my opinion. The divide between women and men is getting bigger and bigger everyday.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/09/22 05:20 PM
1	Is holding the opinion “men and women are abused at similar rates” a red flag in a guy. Why? Yes. But I also believe that my partner should be able to empathize with my experience even if it's not "the norm" or "representative."	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/09/22 05:18 PM
16	Shower thought: Girls aren’t complicated. They just want to be desired + feel special by a man they perceive as high value Some of them are for sure. Have you read the crap they write on that website? Saying they would rape this girl and kill that girl, forcefully breed this girl and lock this other girl in a basement and violently assault her for months. It's disgusting.	/r/seduction	23/09/22 01:02 AM
1	ONLINE DATING TRENDS: Men outnumber women on Tinder by 9-to-1 in Europe and more than 7-to-3 in the US, with Grindr (primarily for gay and LGBT men) now having one of the highest rates of active user engagement So? Your comment is still ridiculous. Doesn't matter what gender you are.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/09/22 07:32 PM
1	ONLINE DATING TRENDS: Men outnumber women on Tinder by 9-to-1 in Europe and more than 7-to-3 in the US, with Grindr (primarily for gay and LGBT men) now having one of the highest rates of active user engagement So, are just men awful, or can women be awful too? Or are you done circlejerking about how terrible men are? The first sentence of her reply literally said " I agree, women can be just as bad as men"	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/09/22 12:48 PM
0	ONLINE DATING TRENDS: Men outnumber women on Tinder by 9-to-1 in Europe and more than 7-to-3 in the US, with Grindr (primarily for gay and LGBT men) now having one of the highest rates of active user engagement Lots of men do actually want to date us but they prefer to do so in secret because they aren’t prepared for potential social reprocussions. Ugh. That's actually really sad. You're finally being desired as a woman as you had hoped but now your partners are ashamed of you? God that would piss me off.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/09/22 12:45 PM
2	ONLINE DATING TRENDS: Men outnumber women on Tinder by 9-to-1 in Europe and more than 7-to-3 in the US, with Grindr (primarily for gay and LGBT men) now having one of the highest rates of active user engagement 🤦🏻‍♀️	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/09/22 12:41 PM
1	CMV: I don't think men are "bad at communicating" like we women often tell each other. I think this stereotype is false and men are fantastic communicators... when they want to be. I think most men, however, are bad at pretending to care about things they don't. Yeah I'm not sure about this one either. It's always confused me when men say this because in my experiences and all the women I've talked to and read about, we have all said we want our partners to open up more, not less. That they aren't vulnerable enough, that they don't show enough emotion. When a man does finally open up the women is always happy and relieved, thinks that they are making progress in the relationship and becoming closer. I have never heard of a women leaving a man for crying…	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/09/22 08:40 PM
1	If you're struggling to date, you are NOT good looking Tons of selfies? Lol I literally have two pictures posted... ever. I don't consider myself a victim at all.. I didn't complain about anything.. I brought up those scenarios to show you that it wasn't even close to similar enough for the analogy you made. I really could care less about unwanted attention because I an confident enough to ignore it or stand up for myself if it gets out of hand. If you are so much above everyone on this sub then why are you here bragging and boasting about how amazi…	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/09/22 07:35 PM
1	If you're struggling to date, you are NOT good looking Of course it's normal. Envy and jealously are basic facts of life. But when you let that envy turn into anger, then bitterness, then rage inside of you it's a problem. When you make it your whole life.. sitting online in these echo chambers just seething in this shared hatred is not healthy and its not good for anyone. Especially the person doing it. The person you are hurting the most is yourself. Because your life and situation is never going to improve that way. Do they want to be 82 years on…	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/09/22 02:11 AM
1	If you're struggling to date, you are NOT good looking I do agree, to an extent. Some things are hard to change. Like if you are a completely antisocial recluse who can barely speak to anyone then yes... it's going to be super hard for you to become a womanizer with all this game. But a lot of these men have a good foundation... like they were "normal" people until they went down these anti-women rabbit holes. I think a lot of that is fixable. I also think regular shyness is fixable with exposure. Lack of good humour is fixable with teaching. Good f…	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/09/22 02:07 AM
1	If you're struggling to date, you are NOT good looking By a recruiter? What does that have to do with your weird analogy? How am I playing the victim when all I was trying to do was show you how stupid your comparison is and you bust that out?	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/09/22 01:59 AM
2	If you're struggling to date, you are NOT good looking I'm glad that women aren't judged on their social skills or humor skills or height or social status or how much they make We are judged on all that and more, just like men. Humans are judged for everything. Now, I wonder why is a man's height or ability to tell jokes more important than his loyalty, compassion, honesty, kindness, integrity etc His height and jokes aren't more important than any of that. All of these things make up his personality which I think is the most important thing when lo…	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/09/22 01:55 AM
1	If you're struggling to date, you are NOT good looking Sure. The next time a recruiter sexually assaults you for turning down a job let me know.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/09/22 05:04 PM
2	If you're struggling to date, you are NOT good looking So true. But most of the men on here won't accept that. The ONLY reason they can't get a woman is their weak jaw line or their height or whatever other thing they think is wrong. It's so much easier that way because then they don't have to put any work in! Much easier to just blame it on something you can't change.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/09/22 04:49 PM
2	If you're struggling to date, you are NOT good looking Attraction is subjective. Looks aren't everything. Some of us realize that what's beneath all that is important too.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/09/22 04:46 PM
3	If you're struggling to date, you are NOT good looking He has less substance than a shot glass. He's the type of person that thinks because he can go to the bar and pick up a woman every once in a while that he's got game and is a stud.. but really he's the type of guy that women regret bringing home because he turned out to be an annoying douche canoe who aggressively rubbed her labia for 15 seconds before jackhammering her for 2 minutes while talking about how amazing he is. Then they block, delete and move on promising themselves to never go for …	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/09/22 04:45 PM
0	If you're struggling to date, you are NOT good looking Same!	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/09/22 04:40 PM
1	If you're struggling to date, you are NOT good looking It's not the 1920s anymore. The girl can say "hey do you want to do something sometime?"	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/09/22 04:39 PM
7	If you're struggling to date, you are NOT good looking Coming from a woman, social skills are one of the top leading factors necessary for a guy to get women. He could be insanely good looking but not know how to talk to women or even just be completely dull and it would overpower his good looks. And a not so traditionally handsome man could have tons of charm and charisma that makes him more attractive. This is 100 percent true.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/09/22 04:34 PM
1	If you're struggling to date, you are NOT good looking Its pretty much the equivalent of saying that a sought after senior engineer or tax lawyer is somehow in a less enviable position than a guy who flips burgers because the former has more options for employment and thus could end up working for a shitty company. Does the engineer get messaged and harassed by multiple companies daily that won't take no for an answer or leave him alone? Get called an ungrateful whore for not responding to messages? Get groped at dinner because the company paid and …	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/09/22 04:25 PM
2	Women need to stop justifying their life choices and have fun I would say pretty close yeah. Maybe 90-95%. There's a lot of weirdos out there. The internet makes them feel bold and tough behind the screen. So as soon as you say no, not interested or just don't respond at all you get this intense outpouring of hate and rage. It is actually scary how often it happens.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/09/22 10:29 AM
2	Women need to stop justifying their life choices and have fun Lol.. do you have that saved in your notes so you can copy and paste whenever you have a need to prove that all of us women are sex addicted, depraved, and conniving harlots?	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/09/22 06:14 AM
1	What are true red flags in a potential spouse? Sorry ill be specific. ** 2 less than double.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/09/22 05:47 AM
0	Women need to stop justifying their life choices and have fun Those men are perpetually single or become an incel because of issues with their personality. They are negative, rude, and have very unhealthy mindsets. The day they realize that is what's holding them back and not what they look like is the day they will finally get laid. Take a look around next time you are out in public. Average men are in couples. Most of the time you look around all the couples are "average". The incels problem is that deep down they hate women and we can sense that even wh…	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/09/22 05:31 AM
3	Women need to stop justifying their life choices and have fun Exactly. I wasted my 20's in an 8 year long relationship with a guy who had everything right on paper but just was not right for me. But I kept thinking "this is what I'm supposed to do" and tried to force it to work. Now I'm free and happy and living for ME! If i find a guy that compliments that and actually adds to my life? Then great. If not I've already made a pact with my gay best friend that If I don't have my own man that actually want to live and reproduce with and kids by the time I'm 3…	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/09/22 05:27 AM
2	Women need to stop justifying their life choices and have fun Maybe in this forum and with 20 year old virgin men waiting for their virgin queen.. but in real life it really doesn't. No man has ever asked me my count.. same with all the women I've asked. Grown adults understand that other grown adults will have slept with other people. It's a fact of life.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/09/22 02:14 AM
0	Women need to stop justifying their life choices and have fun This is such bullshit lol in real life no one above the age of 25 is caring about n counts or leaving a person they really like because they found out they've had 12 partners. People with kids find partners everyday. The shit you guys talk about on here is literally a fantasy world	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/09/22 02:10 AM
0	Women need to stop justifying their life choices and have fun And what consequences would that be?	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/09/22 02:04 AM
4	Women need to stop justifying their life choices and have fun It's not true for everyone girl. I just turned 34 and I think I'm the best looking I've ever been. I have a great social life. An amazing sex life. And I still get way more male attention than I want or need lol	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/09/22 02:02 AM
2	Women need to stop justifying their life choices and have fun No.. they are hateful shits. Who go off on horrible rude tangents when you don't immediately reply and say sure I'll bang you.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/09/22 02:00 AM
6	Women need to stop justifying their life choices and have fun You guys think that all women have thousands of options and can get a man whenever they want. It's not true. Attractive women? Sure.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/09/22 01:52 AM
6	Women need to stop justifying their life choices and have fun Exactly. In real life I have never met a single man who has cared about this. The only people who do are like under 21 and the pilled men on here who are holding out for their virtuous queen.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/09/22 01:42 AM
5	Women need to stop justifying their life choices and have fun It can't.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/09/22 01:36 AM
1	Men need to stop justifying why they don't want to date women with high body counts Statistically, lower body count positively correlates with longer, happier marriages for both parties. Sources?	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/09/22 01:25 PM
5	What are true red flags in a potential spouse? Love how women have double the amount as men	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/09/22 11:29 AM
2	What are true red flags in a potential spouse? Do you watch porn/onlyfans?	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/09/22 11:28 AM
1	Most average males should not bother with most women unless they are really willing to lower their standards. Just all the ones who disagree with you. As usual.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/09/22 10:16 AM
2	Most average males should not bother with most women unless they are really willing to lower their standards. Booohoooo, this is why you're failing: you've decided that nothing is going to work so why even bother trying. THIS PERSONALITY TRAIT IS THE REASON YOU ARE FAILING. NOBODY IS GOING TO SELECT A MATE THAT HAS THIS ATTITUDE: IT IS A GUARANTEED LIFE-PHILOSOPHY FOR FAILURE. 👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/09/22 05:29 AM
2	Most average males should not bother with most women unless they are really willing to lower their standards. Because he won't accept anything that's outside of his already set worldview. It doesn't matter how many people tell him something, he will only say "that's not true" or "no you are wrong".. I've read a few of his threads now and it's allllll the same.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/09/22 05:22 AM
2	Most average males should not bother with most women unless they are really willing to lower their standards. Exactly. Because it's easier to blame it on something you have no control over like your height than it is to actually put in the time, work and effort to fix your problem areas and improve yourself & your situation. Why do that when you can just continue on as you are, spilling all your anger and frustration out to your internet buddies who will all agree with you and make you feel righteous.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/09/22 05:18 AM
0	Most average males should not bother with most women unless they are really willing to lower their standards. Many women want the emotional rollercoaster, not being treated as equals in a dating scene. No the fuck we don't. The only women who want that either have borderline personality disorder or have attachment issues. Normal woman want a stable and loving relationship. They just don't want it to be boring.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/09/22 05:13 AM
1	Most average males should not bother with most women unless they are really willing to lower their standards. No we aren't.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/09/22 04:59 AM
0	Most average males should not bother with most women unless they are really willing to lower their standards. Once again, everyone is lying but you right OP?	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/09/22 04:49 AM
1	Most average males should not bother with most women unless they are really willing to lower their standards. Of course we do. But it's not our ONLY reason for doing those things.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/09/22 04:38 AM
0	Most average males should not bother with most women unless they are really willing to lower their standards. It's not a generational thing. It's just certain subsets. This incel/pilled group would much rather sit around in their echo chambers complaining and bitching about how they can't get women rather than putting in the work and effort to become a person that women would be attracted too. It's much easier for them to say "oh I will never get a woman because I'm short and have a weak jaw" because those are things they have no control over.. so they can say "it's not my fault I can't get women, there…	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/09/22 04:36 AM
2	Most average males should not bother with most women unless they are really willing to lower their standards. This guy will never, ever, take in a word you say.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/09/22 04:26 AM
0	Why do modern studies show that men have more sexual partners than women. Do a quick Google search dude	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/09/22 12:38 AM
1	Why do modern studies show that men have more sexual partners than women. I am not a blue pilled clown. I'm a woman thanks. Brainwashed with all this bullshit? Cockblocking myself? What the fuck are you talking about, you stupid fuckin' idiot? How exactly the fuck am I cockblocking myself? With all this nonsense that you just spewed at me.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/09/22 04:02 PM
2	Why do modern studies show that men have more sexual partners than women. Because you have been brainwashed with all this bullshit. You are cockblocking yourself and ruining your chances at having a good relationship. Men in real life are having sex. 70 percent of men are in relationships. If you look around outside, it's not just attractive men with partners. But you are stuck in this echo chamber of negativity full of men screaming this nonsense so it seems it must be true to you. But it's not.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/09/22 12:26 AM
0	Why do modern studies show that men have more sexual partners than women. There are multiple studies on this subject. Hundreds of them actually. They have always found the same thing.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/09/22 12:19 AM
1	Why do modern studies show that men have more sexual partners than women. I honestly feel sad for you.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/09/22 12:17 AM
1	Why do modern studies show that men have more sexual partners than women. If we’re talking straight sex, every time a man has sex a woman has sex. The averages have to be exactly the same Do you realize how stupid that sounds? We both could have sex 10 times... but my ten times are with the same person, while yours are with different people each time. So we both have had sex ten times, but your count is now 10 and mine is 1. Women tend to have more sex while in relationships. While men tend to try and sleep around. That's why the averages are different.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/09/22 12:15 AM
1	Why do modern studies show that men have more sexual partners than women. While at the same time up and down this thread he is saying that everyone else's examples of their own personal lived experiences that don't align with his own are bullshit. Sometimes I just want to smack these guys in the face with a sign saying "you are cockblocking yourself with your biases" until they wake the fuck up.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/09/22 12:12 AM
-2	Why do modern studies show that men have more sexual partners than women. This is just not true. There have been thousands of studies done on the topic. Men have more partners than women on average. I'm sorry that it flies in the face of everything you guys believe, but its true.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/09/22 12:09 AM
0	Why do modern studies show that men have more sexual partners than women. Holy fuck dude open your eyes. Everyone is lying in this thread but you huh?	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/09/22 12:07 AM
0	Why do modern studies show that men have more sexual partners than women. There are tons of factors. Many people listed a bunch of them. But you literally are so biased that you shut down everyone with "nah.. hard for me to believe that"	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/09/22 12:03 AM
1	Why do modern studies show that men have more sexual partners than women. And every single person who is giving examples of how this is true in their real life and explaining how the data is actually factual he just says "hard for me to believe that" like why even make a post like this if you are so set in your "pilled" ways that you can't even listen?	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/09/22 12:01 AM
0	Why do modern studies show that men have more sexual partners than women. Yes. You are.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/09/22 11:58 PM
0	Why do modern studies show that men have more sexual partners than women. What he is trying to say is that the data is correct. Regular everyday men are having sex. 70 percent of them are in relationships. To you, it seems like men are not having sex because you are stuck in the echo chamber of the manosphere where a small group of men are having no sex at all. But that is not accurate. You are having trouble accepting the data because it goes against everything that you believe.. it proves all your theories wrong. So you can't accept it.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/09/22 11:53 PM
3	Why do modern studies show that men have more sexual partners than women. Exactly. If that's the group of men you are discussing then of course their numbers are going to lower than the "average man". No women wants to hang out with a guy who secretly despises her and is only trying to use her to get laid. We can sense that shit we aren't stupid.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/09/22 11:46 PM
0	Why do modern studies show that men have more sexual partners than women. Because you can see them everyday! When you are walking down the street do you ignore the numerous couples who are not superficially beautiful? The men who you consider "ugly"? Statistically a very small percentage of the world is good looking. They aren't the only ones in relationships. The next time you are out walking take a look around you.. you will see exactly what I mean. Those men aren't all hot, rich, confident, etc. Most of them are just normal guys.. the day that you guys wake up and …	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/09/22 11:41 PM
1	Why do modern studies show that men have more sexual partners than women. Exactly. When i was dating as soon as I heard any of the pilled "buzzwords" I noped the fuck out of there.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/09/22 11:37 PM
1	Why do modern studies show that men have more sexual partners than women. If you ever dabbled in ANY red pill, seduction, or pickup artists forums then you see without a shadow of doubt that most of the men on there that even knew about the site for years now struggle immensely to get laid. Do you sense a common theme here? You are sooo close to getting the point my friend.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/09/22 11:36 PM
0	Why do modern studies show that men have more sexual partners than women. *** hard for men who lurk on these subs to do.. Fixed it for you. For normal men who live in the real world it is not that hard and it happens everyday. Just like the article you quoted says, men are out there getting laid everyday. They do have more partners on average than woman. You guys just can't accept these facts because it puts the lie to all of your beliefs.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/09/22 11:32 PM
3	You cannot have high standards and expect to find a partner if you don't match their equally high standards This is what confuses me about incels and some "pilled" men. They really have nothing going for them, probably don't have the best hygiene, stay on their computer for days at a time, actively hate women and have a horrible attitude, and just a generally all around unpleasant personality. But yet they call everyone under a 8/10 ugly, fat, a whale, foids, a becky etc... and they think that they deserve the 9's and 10's instead. When you say anything to them about it they always say "well I have st…	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/09/22 03:19 PM
3	y’all need to be more confident I agree with her. I'm a woman and my typical "type" is not a Chad either. I don't like super buff gym guys, don't like the chiseled jaw face, don't care about height really.. just would prefer them to be taller than me which is usually easy cuz I'm 5 feet tall.. but even that isn't a hard preference.. I could date someone shorter, i tend to prsfer the more quiet, introspective types..I don't really care about money.. I don't like shopping or clothes or makeup.. so as long as I have lots of food …	/r/seduction	08/09/22 07:28 AM
0	Advice on age gap Yeah and you also used to be able to own people, beat your children and put them to work at age 5, and sell your daughter off for land.. doesn't mean that they should have done any of that or that we should still do it now. We have evolved and progressed as a society for a reason.	/r/seduction	08/09/22 02:56 AM
0	Advice on age gap Thank you!! I was like is everyone in here fucking serious telling a 28 year old to fuck an 18 year old? Gross. 22/23 would be the absolute limit for me to consider ok if my 28 year old brother brought a younger girl home but even then I dunno.	/r/seduction	08/09/22 02:38 AM
3	What's your unpopular opinion about women? Something you truly believe based on lived experience, but would get down voted to all hell No.. they don't. I don't want to be a princess with seven dwarfs or a mermaid in love with a human or any of that... it's make believe.. escapism. You cannot apply things from a fantasy movie to real life and call it facts.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/09/22 08:39 PM
2	What's your unpopular opinion about women? Something you truly believe based on lived experience, but would get down voted to all hell Not in my experiences.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/09/22 08:27 PM
2	What's your unpopular opinion about women? Something you truly believe based on lived experience, but would get down voted to all hell Women often project 1 bad trait of one man in all men or most men. That is literally what this entire thread is doing.. a bunch of men saying "all women hate emotional men" or "all women don't know how to communicate" and "all women only sleep with a bunch of asshole and then use a nice guy to settle" and blah blah blah.... I don't understand how you guys can complain that we group all men together but don't realize that is exactly what you do every single day in every single post.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/09/22 03:15 AM
5	What's your unpopular opinion about women? Something you truly believe based on lived experience, but would get down voted to all hell All three are true.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/09/22 03:07 AM
1	What's your unpopular opinion about women? Something you truly believe based on lived experience, but would get down voted to all hell Disney movies aren't real life man.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/09/22 03:04 AM
1	Do all men wish their current girlfriend was a virgin before him? Actually you know what - look I am good here too, your brain is rotting, I'd rather not waste time Says the guy writing multiple paragraphs over and over denying a basic definition just to try and win an argument.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/09/22 06:14 PM
2	Do all men wish their current girlfriend was a virgin before him? You truly do not understand what it means to be a hypocrite, you are really struggling here. Oh lord. Give your head a shake man.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/09/22 06:12 PM
1	What will happen to current dating situation in the future ? There are no such thing as old people robots either. There probably will be.. i was mostly joking and being sarcastic because i thought the whole thing was laughable. But if we are being serious, this scenario would not happen anytime soon anyways.. even 20 to 30 years in the future the technological advancements are going to be past what we can even conceive right now. Think of all that's happened in the last 5 to 10 years.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/09/22 06:09 PM
3	The main reason I only want to seriously date a virgin is ego and i feel 100% justified in that fact. I'm not going to waste my time feeding into your bullshit while trying to explain. Your mind is set. Enjoy your stunted miserable life.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/09/22 01:20 AM
8	Yesterday I wrote a post about being super sad/depressed about consecutive bad dates. I just had sex for 2 hours with a 8/10 girl from bumble. Took me less than 7 messages to get her to my house. Same. I wanted to barf at all the comments congratulating him on being "the man" and him praising himself. Ducking disgusting.	/r/seduction	05/09/22 11:44 PM
7	Yesterday I wrote a post about being super sad/depressed about consecutive bad dates. I just had sex for 2 hours with a 8/10 girl from bumble. Took me less than 7 messages to get her to my house. Exactly! Thank God someone on here read between the lines. I thought I was losing my mind reading all the "good job" "awesome" and "you're the man!" Comments. Literally everything she was saying and doing was signaling "I'm uncomfortable, please stop" and you just kept pushing and pushing until she eventually gave in. Gross.	/r/seduction	05/09/22 11:43 PM
9	The main reason I only want to seriously date a virgin is ego and i feel 100% justified in that fact. We're all saying the same thing? You are literally copying and pasting the same paragraph over and over to reply to everyone. Grow the fuck up dude. Your mindset is disgusting and wrong.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/09/22 11:32 PM
3	Do all men wish their current girlfriend was a virgin before him? A poor women could prefer a rich man whilst being open to dating poor men I just read this again. Of course she can prefer a rich man while being open to dating a poor man. This is not even close to comparable to our example. A closer example would be.. if a woman called a poor man useless and disgusting for not having lots of money.. while at that same time not having any money herself. Then she would be a what? A hypocrite! Lol jeez.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/09/22 10:39 PM
1	Do all men wish their current girlfriend was a virgin before him? Hypocrisy: the practice of claiming to have moral standards or beliefs to which one's own behavior does not conform; pretense. "Or beliefs" - you keep talking about moral standards but its not all amount morals. If you take out that little part about moral standards , the other half says "the practice of claiming to have beliefs to which ones own behaviour does not conform" The belief that you yourself are somehow still pure and good after fucking numerous woman but that a woman who has had mult…	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/09/22 10:36 PM
3	Do all men wish their current girlfriend was a virgin before him? having feelings about something does not in of itself necessitate hypocrisy, go read a dictionary Words like "getting over the ick" and having "nasty mental images" are statements of disgust... that's more than just a preference or a feeling. So do you feel that same disgust towards yourself then for your sexual past? No? Thats the literal definition of hypocrisy my guy. And I said I wish I was shocked, not that I am... because this is a very common attitude among a certain type of man so it doe…	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/09/22 07:22 PM
8	Do all men wish their current girlfriend was a virgin before him? You don't have to get over the ick of knowing that the girl might've sucked dick and swallowed nut just 5 hours before you showed up, you don't gotta get over the nasty mental association of other dudes man handling the girl, etc... You literally just said you've fucked so many girls and been in the streets for so long you're shocked you don't have herpes... and you are complaining about your partner possibly having more than 5 sex partners? I'd like to say I'm shocked at the hypocrisy but I'm n…	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/09/22 08:20 AM
2	Women need to be taught at a young age how to treat men the same ways young boys are taught to treat women Something like "I'm flattered, but I'm not interested at all, have a nice day" and walk away. You have absolutely no clue what its like to say this to a man and have to deal with the varying reactions. So no, it's not best to do this. Maybe if men actually took no for an answer and knew how to handle rejection like the other commenter said, but right now MOST of them definitely do not. In the last few years I have been spit on, laughed at, pushed, had garbage thrown at, been called a whore, stal…	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/09/22 02:55 AM
8	Women need to be taught at a young age how to treat men the same ways young boys are taught to treat women Where are all these women you guys speak of that can't handle men's emotions or dump them the first time they become vulnerable? I have literally never met a woman like that. Every one I know, whether in person or in online communities, actively wishes their male partners would open up more, show more emotion and be more vulnerable. And when they finally do start doing those things.. the woman is happy and relieved. Not upset or embarrassed. I have literally not once ever heard someone say somet…	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/09/22 02:39 AM
0	What will happen to current dating situation in the future ? Well either way I'm glad for you man. I hope things stay happy for you both.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/09/22 02:27 AM
1	What will happen to current dating situation in the future ? Yep. Eventually they realize that all women aren't the devil they make them out to be and its their attitude that is holding them back more than anything. And how much happier are you now that you have an actual real life?	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/09/22 02:25 AM
2	What will happen to current dating situation in the future ? At that point what do I care? I'll be old and rich and not give a fuck. Might as well just blow it all on one big bender at that point and go out on a bang.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/09/22 02:24 AM
1	What will happen to current dating situation in the future ? Its not that less men are fucking now... its that the small minority of them who aren't fucking have just gotten a lot more vocal, loud and annoying about it. It's true that teenagers are having less sex these days.. there has been tons of studies on it from groups 14-21ish... but actual adult men? Its pretty standard across the board since the 50's.. minor fluctuations but nothing crazy.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/09/22 02:18 AM
7	What will happen to current dating situation in the future ? No.. we aren't on the road to that trajectory because the real men doing the building and protecting and living are actually out there in the real world still.. everyday, doing what needs to be done.. They have families and jobs and wives and real lives... they aren't on pill forums or incel forums crying and bitching about their lack of sex while at the same time berating and hating every female around them. These "men" can't get off their computers long enough to do anything let alone start a …	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/09/22 02:08 AM
1	What will happen to current dating situation in the future ? The only reason they used to "last" is because women didn't have options and were forced to stay with abusive or lame men for survival because they literally did not have a choice.... but I know you guys wish it would go back to that so women would be forced into unwanted marriages.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/09/22 02:04 AM
1	What will happen to current dating situation in the future ? 👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/09/22 02:03 AM
-3	What will happen to current dating situation in the future ? Because its literally all bullshit. Its an online fantasy world for bitter men. When they actually get out of it and join the real world... they realize how delusional it all was.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/09/22 01:57 AM
5	What will happen to current dating situation in the future ? We will pay for care with all the money we saved climbing that corporate ladder and not having to pay for children and a husband.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/09/22 01:53 AM
8	What will happen to current dating situation in the future ? The only people denying these men the ability to reproduce or find a partner is themselves. Full stop. They are their own handicap and they will not be able to fix their situations until they accept that and move forward.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/09/22 01:39 AM
2	This whole community is focused on younger guys, 20s-30s, but I'm 47yo. Where do I start? What the heck is the London day game model?	/r/seduction	31/08/22 08:11 PM
3	This whole community is focused on younger guys, 20s-30s, but I'm 47yo. Where do I start? Exactly. 47 is the new 35.. times are different now.. 40's are no longer considered "old"... unless you're a 14 year old of course than anything over 25 is old. I used to think that way as a teenager, I think mostly everyone did.... now I'm 34 and I honestly still feel like a teenager lol like I do not feel like an "older and mature adult" thats for sure.. not what I thought a 34 old should be like when I was a kid anyways. But mostly its in your head anyways. Just like you said if you act weird…	/r/seduction	31/08/22 08:03 PM
1	What do I say when women ask me, “how many girls have you slept with”? I'm not a guy.. but yes my good sir I do enjoy a good fuck.	/r/seduction	28/08/22 06:16 PM
0	Women seem like the most empathetic people. What were you doing before she called you trash? Because I highly doubt you guys are just going along having a normal conversation and all of a sudden she completely changes out of nowhere calls you trash and leaves. People react to things... so if women are calling you trash... I'm gonna be honest here and say its probably for a reason.	/r/seduction	28/08/22 05:51 AM
3	Girls are so comfortable and easily open up to guys with gay energy. And some girls are scared or cautious around guys with masculine energy. Is this true? Your number 1 is that she feels like you can protect her. But thats completely wrong. Its not that we want to feel like you can protect us... its that we feel safe WITH you.. that we don't need to protect ourselves from YOU... not others. You even say it more a little further in your post... that some girls are scared of you. That's exactly it. The feminine guy isn't threatening to her at all.. she feels comfortable with him. Women are so used to being on guard from being assaulted or harassed b…	/r/seduction	28/08/22 04:49 AM
5	What do I say when women ask me, “how many girls have you slept with”? Barf. 🤮	/r/seduction	28/08/22 04:42 AM
9	What do I say when women ask me, “how many girls have you slept with”? Be honest about that too. Not as many women care about that as you guys seem to think. It would surprise me, but it wouldn't turn me off if I was already considering sleeping with you.	/r/seduction	28/08/22 04:41 AM
203	What do I say when women ask me, “how many girls have you slept with”? Exactly. I would just say something like "i haven't kept count as I don't consider them numbers.. " or something along those lines. Saying 3 or 4 is stupid.. if she's asking its because she clearly gets the vibe you've been with a lot of girls.. so saying 3 only makes her know you are lying and you just look like a jerk.	/r/seduction	28/08/22 04:38 AM
0	Dating After 30 - The Dating Flip - Does It Exist? Same im 34... I think I get more attention now than I ever really did to be honest. But I also think I look a lot younger than most people my age. Whenever I post pictures on social media (which I do very very rarely) I always get comments like "do you even age?" And whatnot... but saying that... I don't even think 34 is old for women.. I think all my friends look beautiful and amazing too... in my opinion 35 is the new 25... and 45 is the new 35. Even some 40 and older women I know are absolute…	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/08/22 03:51 AM
0	why doesn't game translate well within america? Oh blah blah blah. Get off the internet and join the real world. So over hearing this shit. Must be that my group of guy friends and family members and acquaintances just found this mythical unicorn women that don't exist in your world right? All the normal woman that I interact with on a daily basis and know are make believe? All the successful couples living together and making it work and finding love everyday are just bullshit? Get out of your echo chamber and open your eyes. There is a reas…	/r/seduction	27/08/22 01:07 AM
6	Women of Reddit. Have you ever agreed to a date or gave a guy your number from cold approach? There is a difference for me in how a person approaches as well. If I'm literally just standing there and someone comes up and says "hey I think you're really pretty can I have you number?" Or anything like that just completely out of nowhere I'm always creeped out. It doesn't matter if they are the most attractive person ever. Its just weird. I have never said yes to a single person who has done that. Ever. Now, if we randomly meet and have an organic genuine conversation that sparks a connecti…	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/08/22 12:24 AM
0	why doesn't game translate well within america? I wouldn't try and convince anyone of that because of course its happening. Casual sex, having children out of wedlock, random hookups and one night stands didn't just start happening all of sudden since online dating. These things have always happened.. for hundreds of years. Its nothing new. What i said isn't happening is woman using online dating to bang multiple people per day like some crazy sex starved nympho. If you haven't found someone looking for a meaningful relationship maybe get off…	/r/seduction	25/08/22 06:30 PM
17	What if some people just want to play the field? For fun It matters because you shouldn't be looking down on and judging your partner for having 20 partners if you yourself also have over 20 partners. Its that simple. You are using a lot of words and weird scenarios that have absolutely nothing to do with this to confuse the issue and make it seem reasonable to do so. Its not that difficult. Just don't be that asshole.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/08/22 04:06 PM
11	Birth control and Women's Preference What's seemingly so difficult about accepting some women naturally prefer pretty boys? And that it's seemingly a lot of them? And that that still doesn't necessarily make it mutually exclusive from liking masc men, too? Because none of this fits in with his theories.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/08/22 05:16 PM
4	Birth control and Women's Preference Take a woman for example. If she is exposed to higher prenatal hormone testosterone she's more likely to be a tomboy, act male and have a certain sexual preference. One study done in 2002, based on 600 kids born in the 90's... where this testosterone theory accounted for only a 2 percent variance in gender roles or behaviour does not mean that your statements are proven fact.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/08/22 05:11 PM
3	Birth control and Women's Preference I'm saying sex is a core foundation to relationships. It's one of the biggest things that separate friendship from a romantic one. It's not about having babies but having a bond with another. But I thought for women sex is just a chore or a peace offering according to you?	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/08/22 05:03 PM
12	Birth control and Women's Preference Typically off BC and if not it's for other reasons like keeping peace, or a chore No. Just no. Some women like sex equal to or more than men. This whole attitude that you guys have that we only do it as a chore or to keep the peace is so weird. Why would you even want to sleep with someone who's only doing it as a chore? I have always wanted sex with my partners.. everyday pretty much. Whether I was on BC or not. Out of my friend group of about 6 women I would say about 3 are same as me.. very s…	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/08/22 05:01 PM
3	Redpill seems to be exploding in popularity I would say most of my friend group are feminists and none of us hate men at all. Passively or otherwise. My 2 best friends since childhood are male. A lot of us are in male/fem relationships.. and from our discussions on the subject I would say most of them actively praise men.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/08/22 05:23 AM
1	Redpill seems to be exploding in popularity Normal everyday feminists don't think men are worthless. Radical feminists and misandrist's feel that way most definitely. But the majority of women who consider themselves feminists really don't feel that way.. its about advocating for women. Not putting down men.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/08/22 07:23 PM
2	This trend of women feeling entitled to a man of much higher SMV will end up with a lot of women getting cheated on and/or replaced. Why are they with women like that then? Why would you stay with someone who doesn't contribute?	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/08/22 06:41 PM
19	This trend of women feeling entitled to a man of much higher SMV will end up with a lot of women getting cheated on and/or replaced. You can't use reason and intellect in these made up fantasy incel scenarios ok? Thats not how it works. End of story is you're supposed to go for a guy a couple points lower than you and it will all work out for everyone. Just give them a chance. /s	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/08/22 06:37 PM
1	why doesn't game translate well within america? Get out of here with your incel statistics. No normal woman is using online dating to hook up with 3 different men a day.. or even one a week. And we don't have 500 plus matches trying to desperately meet up. More like 100 gross weirdos sendimg unwanted dick pics that we ignore and block. Trust me.. the amount of guys we actually want to meet up with is very low and its more like once every 3 months you get a good one you might want to meet. Not 3 a day. You need to get off the internet and join…	/r/seduction	22/08/22 06:44 AM
1	why doesn't game translate well within america? Not even being American. Just being foreign in general.	/r/seduction	22/08/22 06:36 AM
1	Q4W - What are common complaints men have about women and what do you do to break the mold? I use to have this problem. Now when someone starts that line of talking I always ask "are we problem solving today or do you just want someone to vent too?" Then I know lol	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/08/22 09:13 AM
3	Do women need to have a hoe phase Nah I just go have sex with strangers when I'm feeling down. Thanks though.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/08/22 02:52 AM
2	Do women need to have a hoe phase Is there? Not to me. Its all in the past. What my partner is doing now is what matters to me. Also, when I was actively dating from say 21-32... I never had one actual person care about my count.. although it is very low, sometimes I would purposely give a high number just to get their reaction before I said I was kidding because I always thought "well guys really care about the number thing!" And I wanted to see what their reaction would be to a high count. Because that's all that I read on the…	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/08/22 02:51 AM
3	Do women need to have a hoe phase The media doesn't Inject this... your echo chamber pill forums is what puts this narrative into your mind and its not even true.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/08/22 02:48 AM
4	Do women need to have a hoe phase Barf. Reading through all your comments its pretty obvious the issue with you and women. The problem is that deep down you hate women. You send out the signal unconsciously and we can tell you hate us even when you are faking being nice to try and earn points. You will never be successful in finding women while at the same time deep down hating them and thinking we are all annoying victim whores. Just an FYI for you.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/08/22 02:41 AM
3	Do women need to have a hoe phase Maybe you should start a sad romantic kids club. You can give our purity rings and write poems or something.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/08/22 02:37 AM
4	Do women need to have a hoe phase Its just not a thing that real grown up people tend to ask. Teenagers and internet "pilled" men are generally the only ones who ask or care. I agree with the other poster that after 22-25 it stops being a thing because you realize that as an adult it is expected that your partner has been with someone before you.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/08/22 02:32 AM
6	Do women need to have a hoe phase Men in the real world don't talk about n counts and "high value men" and call women whores for having a past. You need to get off the internet and actually join the real world. Actual real relationships aren't a transaction like you seem to think. Also, men consistently have higher amounts of sexual partners than woman.. so its laughable that men who have slept with 50 plus people call a woman with a count of 20 a whore.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/08/22 02:28 AM
7	Do women need to have a hoe phase They don't ask. Actual men in the real world don't usually care too much about n counts or even know what that term means. The only ones who really care are insecure pilled men online. 🤷🏻‍♀️	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/08/22 02:22 AM
1	ladies why does it seem so hard to get to know u guys? i was hoping some of u could help explain the behavior of a lot of women i meet irl. If you are interested in joining the bdsm community there are lots of groups specifically for that where people only join with the intention of joining or at least getting more information. That might be your best bet to meet likeminded women instead of just like throwing it out there to random girls you meet in everyday life. They probably are freaked out. Especially with your looks i know you said you are masculine looking.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/08/22 07:29 AM
2	ladies why does it seem so hard to get to know u guys? i was hoping some of u could help explain the behavior of a lot of women i meet irl. Gonna be honest again here. There is statistically just no way that every single girl you encounter that way is playing hard to get games. I think you are reading to far into the situations, and some of these girls aren't playing at all. They are just not interested.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/08/22 07:18 AM
2	ladies why does it seem so hard to get to know u guys? i was hoping some of u could help explain the behavior of a lot of women i meet irl. Why waste your time? Why play into their game? Its not worth it. Be the grown up and take yourself out of the situation. The only way you will ever actually find someone worth being with is to not entertain a bunch of annoying game playing girls anyways.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/08/22 07:14 AM
2	ladies why does it seem so hard to get to know u guys? i was hoping some of u could help explain the behavior of a lot of women i meet irl. If they are down for it and its all consensual then go for it. Sometimes relationships are over rated anyways.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/08/22 07:04 AM
2	ladies why does it seem so hard to get to know u guys? i was hoping some of u could help explain the behavior of a lot of women i meet irl. Im gonna be real honest with you here. You aren't as attractive as you think you are. You come on way too strong, show too much interest and it scares them.. just like you said. Woman can feel that deep down you have an issue with women. Like you secretly hate them... just reading your comments can tell me this. You use multiple incel buzzwords, you said things like women who have slept with 3 men are used up, like you want bdsm but also a virgin. You are allllll over the fucking place. Women re…	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/08/22 06:40 AM
3	ladies why does it seem so hard to get to know u guys? i was hoping some of u could help explain the behavior of a lot of women i meet irl. Maybe if you stop using incel terms that might help your situation.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/08/22 06:37 AM
1	Alpha Fucks and Beta Bucks..but.... This is not "common" bro. Sure, there are some escorts and sugar babies and whatnot in this kind of scenario. But everyday regular women? No.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/08/22 01:12 AM
13	Help me understand why you all feel hurt when a guy looks at porn/ Instagram models Who really thinks that's a dad bod though? When that pic came out there was like a couple posts about him losing his abs and having a dad bod.... and then thousands of women coming to his rescue and getting mad at those women.. saying his body was perfect and way better than most. So yeah... some people suck and were judging him.. but for most women thats still an ideal body.. I actually prefer that body shape over his more ripped physique.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/07/22 05:43 AM
1	Help me understand why you all feel hurt when a guy looks at porn/ Instagram models I don't care.. at all. I don't think a lot of women really do. None of the girls i know anyways. Looking is not touching. Hell I look too.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/07/22 05:41 AM
3	Alpha Fucks and Beta Bucks..but.... Exactly. What women are putting up with this? None that I know.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/07/22 05:25 AM
1	Q4W: Why some of you withhold sex when dating ltr worthy men? I'm not a first date whore thanks. I'm 33 and I've been with 2 people. Both long term relationships. So yeah I'm one of the mythical not fucking women. As a dude if I don't WANT to fuck the girl on the first date it's not gonna work. I know if I'm physically attracted to a girl instantly. This is my whole point though. Just because she doesn't fuck you on the first date, doesn't mean she doesn't want to. Maybe she really really does like you and is nervous, doesn't want to fuck it up. Maybe she …	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/07/22 05:21 AM
5	No "issues" presented by TRP are solvable without also compromising the idea that women deserve equal rights to men. Anyway thats just one example, a lot of current feminism is just blaming men, rather than actually working on a solution. Mmmhmm.. sounds a lot like pilled men blaming women instead of actually working on a solution. 99.9% of the time being fat is a choice. Height, autism, frame, etc. is not a choice. Making a false a equivalence here. Now if women were complaining about PCOS that would be similar comparison. The things that are usually holding these men back are usually things that are a choice…	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/07/22 07:27 PM
1	Are heterosexual women who won't date bisexual men bi/homophobic or is it just a preference? It does though. Men are violent towards women for being "a whore" or "slutty" all the time. They get raped for it too... "well you fucked so and so, why won't you fuck me? You're just a whore anyways!" But go off..	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/07/22 07:21 PM
2	Are heterosexual women who won't date bisexual men bi/homophobic or is it just a preference? If you have never seen outright hate then you are either blind or not looking. Every single day in these pill forums we literally get ripped apart by men that believe this. We are called stretched out, bagged out, foids, subhuman, cock gobblers, whores, sluts, cum dumpsters, etc. We are told we basically are less than animals because we have so little meaning. That we do not deserve rights. That we have no brains. Women are literally physically attacked by men like this everyday. Sometimes kille…	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/07/22 06:22 PM
19	No "issues" presented by TRP are solvable without also compromising the idea that women deserve equal rights to men. This entire sub and all pill subs are filled with me complaining they aren't attractive, aren't tall enough, aren't whatever enough... but rather than doing anything about it they call women sluts, bitches, whores, foids, subhuman etc etc for not wanting to be with them... so why can't they accept that their choices are their own and its up to them to make a change? Its honestly laughable how biased and blinded some of these men are... one woman posting that she is fat and blaming men for not wa…	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/07/22 06:18 PM
3	Are heterosexual women who won't date bisexual men bi/homophobic or is it just a preference? Except a lot of them do have hate against high count women. Which is the people we have a problem with. If you would prefer a woman who hasn't been with many people, and were nice and respectful to every other woman no matter their level of promiscuity... then no one cares and its fine. But its when you are judgmental, rude and shut shame others that we have a problem with it.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/07/22 03:11 PM
14	Are heterosexual women who won't date bisexual men bi/homophobic or is it just a preference? One of the quotes directly said "it would make me think of him as less masculine"	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/07/22 03:05 PM
0	Q4W: Why some of you withhold sex when dating ltr worthy men? You have a really gross view of women, relationships and sex. Just because I chose to have sex with one man after a first date one time does not mean that I know owe every single man sex on the first date or else I am therefore "withholding" sex from them because I've already done it once before. What a fucked up view man. Women are people, with emotions feelings wants and needs just like men. They can choose to have sex or not for many many reasons.. and her deciding not to for any reason is no…	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/07/22 04:26 AM
-1	Q4W: Why some of you withhold sex when dating ltr worthy men? Thank you!! Because they don't actually see us as real people with wants or needs of our own. We are just things to have sex with. They think because she's had sex with 4 other men before me, that she must have sex with me too or she is "withholding". Like because we chose to have sex with someone else once that we now owe sex to every other man we meet? And if we don't put out then we don't value them and we are just playing mind tricks? Like.... what? But then if we do put out right away they …	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/07/22 04:11 AM
4	Need help with flirting in a nightclub Dude.. I am not a prude and I am one hundred percent open to random sexual encounters. I would much rather have men be honest with their intentions. But there is being honest but still mostly respectful. Even a girl who is mostly DTF doesn't want to just be walked up to with "hey let's fuck". Like, maybe introduce yourself, crack a couple flirty jokes, make her laugh, have a drink together and then throw it out there.. that would get you a lot further and also avoid having the other 40 girls you…	/r/seduction	20/07/22 07:26 AM
7	Need help with flirting in a nightclub There are way more than 3 reasons girls are at a club.. so your numbers are off. Its not like its a 1 in 3 chance of a girl being there to fuck, so unless you are mind blowingly attractive with some already inherent "game" you are going to have to walk around that bar saying "hey want to fuck" to about 30 - 40 women before you even have a chance of someone saying yes. Then you are known as that creepy fuck boy harassing every girl at the bar. Good plan.	/r/seduction	20/07/22 03:30 AM
2	What exactly is a average guys "league" when skinny and plus sized women play on the same level playing field? So do you feel like you deserve a beautiful, fun and smart girl? What are you bringing to the picture?	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/07/22 01:35 AM
3	What exactly is a average guys "league" when skinny and plus sized women play on the same level playing field? 👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/07/22 01:33 AM
3	Do you want a man to do 50% of the housework if you are a stay at home mom? Omg shutttt up already you sound like such an arrogant douchebag	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/07/22 02:16 AM
0	What does a red pilled woman get out of the ideology? Your random study of 120 people in north Carolina from 2010 doesn't prove fuck all my dear.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/07/22 02:54 AM
2	What does a red pilled woman get out of the ideology? There is literally thousands upon thousands and thousands of words in the world. You cant stand to learn just a few more? Its really that big of a complication and annoyance?	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/06/22 07:12 AM
3	What does a red pilled woman get out of the ideology? You are very, very rude and hateful in these comments man. Every single relationship is different. I'm a lesbian woman.. with another lesbian woman. Both 100 percent gay no bi here at all. We are both very feminine. There is no "man" in our relationship. Your statement about "most successful relationships have separate defined gender roles" or whatever you said along those lines is not true in my experience either. The happiest and most successful couples I know personally are actually all very …	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/06/22 06:58 AM
2	One of the biggest reasons men will continue to struggle with women. Its not that the fear is neglible, its that I don't place fear above my wish to live a fun and fully thriving life. I'm scared of car crashes.. it doesn't mean I just don't ever drive. I'm scared of getting an std.. it doesn't mean I won't ever have sex.. and its the same with online dating.. I can be scared of what could happen meeting a strange man from online.. doesn't mean I won't ever do it. The point is to minimize risk in all of these situations and do these activities that I'm scared of …	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/06/22 02:44 AM
2	What every man wants and what very few get….perhaps It’s not really a foreign concept. People are different. Everyone is really really different.. that’s the amazing thing about humanity. You can’t just lump entire groups of people into boxes because of bad experiences with a few women. My problem with the whole thing is that a lot of the “pill” guys just have such a negative outlook on women in general. And they lump them allll into the exact same category. We are all whores, we all want chads, we all only want bad boys who keep running through …	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/04/22 04:23 PM
1	Most people want the benefits of trad relationships without upholding their end of the bargain The other side isn’t all “perfect, good looking female world” either. It’s not like you seem to think that we have hundreds of amazing men reaching out to us. It’s more like creepy men harassing you constantly, guys sending constant dick pics, getting angry and calling you cunts and whores for not being interested, being sexually harassed by men much older than you from the time you are 11-12, constantly having to worry about being date raped/assaulted/harassed every time you go out, walk alone,…	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/04/22 04:14 PM
1	Most people want the benefits of trad relationships without upholding their end of the bargain I wasn’t even speaking about you specifically. Just men in these subs in general. And anecdotes you hear from other men in here aren’t “statistics” my friend. Part of the problem is that all the guys who are having this issue spend so much time with other men like that in these forums.. and it creates that echo chamber effect. The internet isn’t real life. I’m glad you aren’t heartbroken and are able interact with others. Truly. I wish you nothing but happiness. I feel for the men who are stuck …	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/04/22 04:08 PM
1	Has anyone had their view changed bc of a debate here on PPD I’m 33 lol I’m not like a 21 year old. I’m not sure where you live that everyone is so miserable and fake. Maybe you should get out of there then. Where I live in Canada, I know many truly happy couples over 40.. sure there are miserable ones too. But I think I’m general there are more good, normal people here than the opposite. I definitely know a few stuck up, superficial girls like that… but they are not the “norm” or even common. 🤷🏻‍♀️	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/04/22 03:54 PM
1	Most people want the benefits of trad relationships without upholding their end of the bargain And stop throwing around the term narcissist. You don’t even know what it means apparently.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/04/22 05:39 AM
1	Most people want the benefits of trad relationships without upholding their end of the bargain “Never see people like you call that out tho” I literally called out the women who are rude to men in my post? Lol 😆😆	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/04/22 05:38 AM
1	Most people want the benefits of trad relationships without upholding their end of the bargain Women in everyday normal life. Not most of the women on tinder and apps like that. When you are walking around in the world.. is every couple you see the man good looking or rich? No. A lot of normal, everyday average guys get girls. But they are going for girls who are similar to them. Not going for superficial, pretentious 9’s and 10’s on dating apps and then getting upset when they are constantly rejected. 🤷🏻‍♀️	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/04/22 05:19 AM
1	What every man wants and what very few get….perhaps No not at all. Of course it happens. Some women are horrible, pretentious assholes. Just the same as some men are. But those are a small minority of women. And that small minority can more often be found on apps like tinder. It easily fills their need of self gratification to be able to get attention whenever they want. In everyday life.. there are a lot of normal, genuine, kind and real women who would love to have an honest, emotionally vulnerable, kind man.. but a lot of “pill” guys seem to o…	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/04/22 05:08 AM
1	Most people want the benefits of trad relationships without upholding their end of the bargain Get off dating apps. The women you will find on their are mostly likely the toxic, stuck up women you guys all claim we all are. I would never tell my son to “respect all women” because a lot of women are pretentious assholes. I would tell him to strictly avoid those kind of women. But the fact of the matter is.. a lot of the guys on the “pill” subs are like 4/5/6’s… then they go after the stereotypical “hot Stacey’s” who are all about looks, money, status etc.. who would be considered 8/9/10’s.…	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/04/22 05:03 AM
1	What every man wants and what very few get….perhaps Sure there are shallow women like that. But those women are most likely already either using the man for his money or something. In a real relationship where both people actually like and respect each other, women want you to tell them what you are feeling. If anything, out of the women I know.. it’s more us complaining that our men are holding in their emotions and not letting us in. 🤷🏻‍♀️	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/04/22 02:49 AM
1	Is it a bad idea to give women an "easy out" if they have an excuse for not going on a date? I would just leave that part out altogether. Just straight up say “ok no worries! I’ll make other plans for tonight. Let me know next time you are free” shows you are confident in accepting rejection, not going to let her ruin your night, and you are interested in hanging out with her again. All positives. 👍🏼	/r/seduction	17/04/22 02:47 AM
1	Has anyone had their view changed bc of a debate here on PPD The women on fds and the men on all the pill threads are just the same thing but for the opposite gender. Both do not have healthy feelings or thoughts about dating, sex, relationships or the opposite sex in general.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/04/22 02:30 PM
1	Has anyone had their view changed bc of a debate here on PPD And get upset when they go for 9/10 women only and get rejected.. when they are a solid 4/5/6… They expect them to lower their standards and then just call them bitchy, stuck up Stacy’s for not giving them a chance. But when you suggest that, hey.. maybe you should try for a 4/5/6 as well.. it’s all “ew I’m not touchy a fatty or some dog looking ugly bitch”.. the lack of self awareness and hypocrisy is honesty mind boggling to me. It’s just an echo chamber of non stop whining and laying blame at…	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/04/22 02:28 PM
4	Has anyone had their view changed bc of a debate here on PPD Good for you man! I wish you all the luck. 👍🏼	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/04/22 02:23 PM
6	Has anyone had their view changed bc of a debate here on PPD Because it’s an echo chamber of other hurt men all with the same bias. Most women are definitely not like that. Some for sure are.. but after a while it’s easy to pick them out of a crowd and avoid them.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/04/22 02:21 PM
2	Has anyone had their view changed bc of a debate here on PPD She never said said that. She literally went out of her way to clarify she didn’t think that.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/04/22 02:19 PM
4	Has anyone had their view changed bc of a debate here on PPD A lot of women don’t really care about the whole virgin thing. I think guys build it up to be more of an issue than it really is. Me and my group of friends have talked about this before and none of us really cared one way or the other.. it’s really just this stupid made up concept by society anyways. As long as the man is willing to learn and wants to make us both happy in bed, then that’s all that really matters. The only kind of sexual partner I don’t want is one who only cares to get himself…	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/04/22 02:18 PM
2	Is it a bad idea to give women an "easy out" if they have an excuse for not going on a date? The “if you are not interested, that’s ok too” part just sounds like you have low self esteem. And that is always a mood killer. The rest is good though. Just leave that part out. Just saying like straight up “no worries then! let me know next time you are free. I’ll make other plans tonight” shows you are confident, are interested in hanging out with her again.. but it’s not a big deal.. you aren’t gonna let it ruin your night. You don’t want to mention them not being interested.. why put that …	/r/seduction	16/04/22 04:20 AM
3	Is it a bad idea to give women an "easy out" if they have an excuse for not going on a date? Real answer from a woman here!! I actually think this is a great strategy. If the girl is kinda wishy washy, not committing to a set time or date, or keeps changing the plans.. i absolutely think throwing out a “alright no worries! Let me know when you are free then.. no big deal” is a good response. It shows that first off, you are not just desperately begging for her attention. It makes you seem confident and care free. Able to go with the flow and not the kind of guy who freaks out and is sup…	/r/seduction	16/04/22 04:11 AM
1	What every man wants and what very few get….perhaps “Objective”? Hahahaha. Mannn.. PPD posters are not objective in any sense of the word.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/04/22 02:33 AM
0	What every man wants and what very few get….perhaps Thank god there is one sane and mature fucking man in this thread.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/04/22 02:29 AM
3	What every man wants and what very few get….perhaps The only people saying that make emotion makes woman uncomfortable is men. Most of us actually feel the opposite. We want you to express yourselves with us. We don’t like when you guys hold shit in and then explode. Literally half of this thread is other women saying the same. If you are with someone and they don’t have the compassion to listen to you and what’s important to you, what’s making you sad etc. then why are you even with that person? That’s not a partnership or a team. It should work…	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/04/22 02:27 AM
3	What every man wants and what very few get….perhaps We want you to express yourselves with us. We don’t like when you guys hold shit in and then explode. Literally half of this thread is other women saying the same. If you are with someone and they don’t have the compassion to listen to you and what’s important to you, what’s making you sad etc. then why are you even with that person? That’s not a partnership or a team. It should work both ways.. you are there for each other and willing to hold each other up when necessary.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/04/22 02:25 AM
1	What every man wants and what very few get….perhaps Women usually dislike men who very obviously hate women as you clearly do, a lot more than for any other reason.. such as being emotionally vulnerable. A lot of us actually prefer that our significant other is in tune with their emotions.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/04/22 02:20 AM
1	What every man wants and what very few get….perhaps A bunch of women: actually, we do like emotionally available men. It’s annoying when men are so stoic and cold. I would much prefer to have honest conversations about our emotions You: No. All women hate vulnerable men. End of story.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/04/22 02:15 AM
1	What every man wants and what very few get….perhaps Men think this way. Women do not. We want our partners to be emotionally available and in tune with their emotions. We want them to be willing to help out with our problems and emotions too. We want it to be reciprocated, like we can work through these problems and issues as a team.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/04/22 02:10 AM
2	What every man wants and what very few get….perhaps No. It’s not toxic emotional labour when it is reciprocated. When it is a normal sharing of problems between the two of you, and you both help to work each other through their problems. It becomes a problem when the man has multiple undiagnosed issues, problems with day to day life, can’t function alone, doesn’t reciprocate or listen to any of your problems as well, and expects you to basically be his mother/shrink/therapist/girlfriend all at once.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/04/22 02:08 AM
1	Women absolutely are not attracted to nice guys, and men expressing their understandable frustration with the dishonesty of them saying they do is met with shaming and attempts to silence them. This is the foundation of TRP. Better than a pile of shit? Even that’s debatable.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/04/22 09:37 PM
0	Most people want the benefits of trad relationships without upholding their end of the bargain But the thing is.. all women aren’t these “Stacey’s” you claim them to be. We aren’t all full of bullshit. We don’t want to be coddled. The fact that you automatically assume that shows what you think of women in general. Sure there are some shallow, egotistical women just like there are men. But normal, average woman don’t play these games like you think. We are just looking to live our lives, meet someone who loves us, have some fun, enjoy our hobbies together. You guys always say we go for as…	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/04/22 01:14 PM
4	Women absolutely are not attracted to nice guys, and men expressing their understandable frustration with the dishonesty of them saying they do is met with shaming and attempts to silence them. This is the foundation of TRP. Do you guys know why you all have issues with women? Because we can sense that you fucking despise us a mile away. No matter how much of a front you put on.. whether it’s the nice guy front, the asshole front.. we can tell you are being disingenuous. You are literally just looking to get laid because that’s all you consider us good for. So, yes, no wonder we stay the fuck away from you.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/04/22 05:27 AM
5	Women absolutely are not attracted to nice guys, and men expressing their understandable frustration with the dishonesty of them saying they do is met with shaming and attempts to silence them. This is the foundation of TRP. Yes, I would hold the door open for you again. Because I’m not doing it for thanks and acknowledgement. I’m doing it because it’s the kind and right thing to do. It’s not “being kind” if you are doing it expecting something back. That’s why the whole “nice guy” thing doesn’t work. Because we can sense that it isn’t genuine. That is what turns us off.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/04/22 05:23 AM
1	Women absolutely are not attracted to nice guys, and men expressing their understandable frustration with the dishonesty of them saying they do is met with shaming and attempts to silence them. This is the foundation of TRP. No. I don’t know what kind of women you sleep with. But speaking as a woman with a bunch of woman friends.. the majority of us don’t want that. Assertiveness? Yes. Aggression? No.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/04/22 05:12 AM
1	Women absolutely are not attracted to nice guys, and men expressing their understandable frustration with the dishonesty of them saying they do is met with shaming and attempts to silence them. This is the foundation of TRP. Yes. We don’t want you to be a dick.. we want you to be genuine, confident and interesting. When you “fake” trying to be nice, trying to be suave, trying to be an asshole.. we can tell. It comes off disingenuous and it’s an instant turn off.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/04/22 05:02 AM
-5	Women absolutely are not attracted to nice guys, and men expressing their understandable frustration with the dishonesty of them saying they do is met with shaming and attempts to silence them. This is the foundation of TRP. 👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼 yes! Completely agree.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/04/22 04:57 AM
4	Most people want the benefits of trad relationships without upholding their end of the bargain Exactly. The men on these threads don’t realize that they are literally cock blocking them selves. We don’t need a super aggressive, athletic, manly 10 to attract us.. hell I don’t even want anything close to that. I just want someone who enjoys being with me, with similar hobbies, who isn’t crazy. The problem with these men are that deep down they hate women… and we can sense that from 10 feet away. It doesn’t matter the fake act they put on to try and get us to sleep with them.. we can tell th…	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/04/22 11:35 PM
2	If a woman continues to multi-date after going on a date with you, she's not into you. They are answers to the questions you are asking. They just aren’t the answers you want. 🤷🏻‍♀️ if you expect a woman to cut of all contact with every man in her life after a one hour coffee date with you I don’t know what to tell you. She may really like you and have a good time, but how are you supposed to know where it’s going to go after one hour? You may never even call me again.. we could go on two more dates and it ends, or we may get married. But who knows at that point. I have never and …	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/04/22 11:23 PM
2	Should I ask my crush from a donut shop out Do not ask her what her favourite sounds, aromas and scents are on a first date. Please. That’s just.. odd. Lol	/r/seduction	10/04/22 05:09 AM
2	Should I ask my crush from a donut shop out Hey OP!! Advice coming from a woman here.. it definitely sounds like she has been flirting with you more than just a regular customer interaction. The way I would ask her out would be just a casual thing.. like “hey so no pressure if I’m reading this wrong, but I enjoy our conversations and wanted to know if you would be interested in seeing each other outside the donut shoppe (say this jokingly with a laugh) “ it’s straight to the point, but joking and flirty enough that it’s not creepy either.…	/r/seduction	10/04/22 05:08 AM
1	Should I ask my crush from a donut shop out You have to be trolling and joking.	/r/seduction	10/04/22 05:01 AM
2	I think the idea of just introducing yourself and asking for a number is just dumb. Hmmm sorry dude but if you said any of those things to me I would be like… wtf. No I’m not buying fancy shoes to break anyones neck, and no it’s not your business if I’m up to naughty things etc. And I am a really friendly person.. those are just really odd bold statements to say to a stranger in my opinion. I would be thinking in my head like who are you and why are you making these weird assumptions about me? I would much MUCH rather being casually introduced to someone by them saying “how are…	/r/seduction	10/04/22 04:56 AM