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Well ar one point she basically said exactly this, lol. It is worth watching. Just like OPs title says, the title of the Youtube Video is clickbait
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/02/21 09:08 PM
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Disgusting. The man who made this would probably excuse his rapist/abuser/fuck boy/ stripper/porn star son.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/02/21 04:43 PM
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Then they'll blame her when he is abusive towards the kids and cannot fathom why she did not leave earlier
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/02/21 02:26 AM
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Yeah, eugenics when we talk mostly about those behavioural traits that are shaped rather by environment than genetics. Environment in this case includes ambition and drive to self-improvement, too.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/02/21 02:20 AM
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Said by not two different groups of people but the exact same individuals
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/02/21 09:41 PM
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Who teaches us? Um....our parents, grandparents, friends, teachers, coaches, random men that hit on us? And they teach us since we are little, so how should this not affect us? It happens all the time and the fear reinforces otself every time they harrass us further.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/02/21 09:36 PM
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Maybe they do not want to face that child abuse is such a mundane and common thing. They want to believe that a child abuser (just like such people imagine a rapist) is a crazy person waiting in the bushes, which is dangerous wishful thinking.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/02/21 08:26 AM
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Me laughing in european about this bs about us being at the capitol on Jan 6. And for me it was the same, too. I have no clue how I found this sub, but I was immediately amazed to see this comminity of like-minded women!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/02/21 11:50 PM
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Funny how they think we are collecting children's blood when we post everyday how awful child porn and abuse is and when we try to spread awareness about all these issues revolving around it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/02/21 11:44 PM
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Right? Here you NEVER have the misogynists talking shit at you when you just want to talk about the bad things that commonly happen to women
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/02/21 11:39 PM
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And there are men who won't believe that it could be rape if it doesn't look like it. Aka the "genre" isn't rape.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/02/21 02:15 AM
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Right? And you sure ass f*** also recognize the weaknesses of the legal system or your coworkers or even yourself.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/02/21 01:32 AM
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If they were a woman and they'd be harrassed constantly by men, they'd say "all men", no doubt. The fact that they attack you and tell you it was an individual act shows they aren't constantly faced with harrassment and arw actually very privileged. In reality, these acts are not so uncommon. In fact, they themselves or- if not them- a friend of them, their cousin, brother, father, teacher....some male person they know harrassed a woman or girl at least once. But actually, way more often then on…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/02/21 01:27 AM
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Maybe that is how the word "bromance" came to life. Men are taught to be sexual, so they put many feelings around love into the category sex/romance.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/02/21 01:13 AM
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Yeah, I've heard the "I wouldn't care if a woman did it/he should be happy" but only when it is about sexual abuse. For porn I mostly hear "but most porn out there is consensual, it is only a few bad videos and I don't watch rape/cnc porn". And then they don't even respond when you tell them you don't mean the genre, but acutal rape which could happen throughout all the genres.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/02/21 03:08 PM
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Many see themselves as the default, the "neutral" and us as "the other". This is why anything we do is outstanding or disturbing to them. Everything feminine or female therefore belongs only to women and men are excluding themselves from it- this ranges from make up and fashion to child care or traditionally female jobs and sports to female owned businesses, female podcasts, youtubers.....If a company is 50/50 they believe it is more women working there, it FEELS like this to them. They don't re…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/02/21 01:17 PM
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That is a common response?! I've never heard anyone say such bs!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/02/21 01:02 PM
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Those same men wouldn't date a sex worker or former sex worker and when asked why, give all the reasons you listed
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/02/21 01:13 PM
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Let's take it further, what you ALSO mean is: until a man posts a nude of you on an nsfw channel without your consent. Some men go nuts when you tell them that they don't know for sure if their porn is up consensually or not. They know if they really take this into consideration, is is better to drop porn altogether and they ain't ready for that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/02/21 12:55 PM
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Even if these men aren't the majority, they're still enough to have a lasting impact on their fellow women. This is why they should be called out, having them dismissed as a troll isn't enogh. It isn't to make an individual man change, he won't. But calling him out has an effect on every lurker who may have questioned him/herself if the troll is maybe right.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/02/21 12:47 PM
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Like, how can I help when there are people specified and trained in medicine and psychology who can help him better. Every time you use a layperson as a free therapist, you could endanger yourself because they might give you wrong advice because they have no clue either.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/02/21 12:24 PM
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Wait......this man's girlfriend has mental health issues, he just thinks about his own porn-addicted ass because she isn't as available as before and has the audacity to comment on a girls post complaining that she must be discriminatory against mental healrh issues?!?!?!?!?!?? I didn't expect anything else, honestly. Dude should just break up with her then to make her free again or put in some more effort to be a better boyfriend to her and combat his porn addiction. I hope he goes to therapy f…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/02/21 12:17 PM
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On other forums, they will tell you all the time to dump your partner who abuses you under the guise of their mental health issues. Here it is just the exact same thing. And idk, if the women here stopped using LVM/W and instead just use the word "asshole", they would still say the same. He just wants to complain
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/02/21 12:03 PM
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I cannot understand that too. There is no difference between 17 and 18. They are not more mature, they don't look more womanly or mature then before. If a man can't wait to sexulize a teenager, he is already sexualizing them. People who wait for someone to be legal are rapey anyway, they act like the law is the only barrier between them and the sex with a 17 yo, when in reality, the barrier is consent and this teenager is not willing to give it too an old man like that. This barrier still exists…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/02/21 05:19 PM
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Also getting numbers isn't an attraction measurement. And I bet these men know that some women will only give them a number (not necessarily their own number, but just a number) to make them go away.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/02/21 04:53 PM
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The audacity and disrespect of this woman. She would also tell an alcoholic that he can keep drinking.....I don't want to even think about how she and other comments like hers could affect this man who wants to better himself. Toxic masculinity everywhere
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/02/21 05:53 PM
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Also having to persuade someone to have sex is also rape. Coerced "sex" is rape.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/02/21 05:29 PM
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Change the language: MEN have sexually assaulted every woman in our lives
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/02/21 05:24 PM
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It seems like it bothers you that he doesn't define what your relationship is. Something about him throws you off. Think about your goal here: Do you want to date him? Do you want to date other men and keep him as a friend? What do you talk about on your meet ups? Or more important, what do you not talk about, that is important to you? (aside from the labeling). You can make it clear through the language you use that these are not dates, but hangouts between friends. You can ask him upfront and …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/02/21 03:02 AM
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I read "food fetishist" and was very confused when the text suddenly said "heels" lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/02/21 02:34 AM
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It is sad, it shows that they find nothing bad about some of their behaviours. If they did, they would take action to better themselves. A few good things can be found on this list like "have hobbies", "clean up and cook, you are an adult". They should focus more on that than on manipulation tactics.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/02/21 11:56 PM
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They confuse financial stability (which is basically having a job that allows you to live your lifestyle comfortably + being smart with your money) with making 6 figures. They never read a comment or post where a woman stated exactly what I said and they surely didn't read our handbook either. And maybe they feel like this when women here, who actually make that much money, want a partner of their own income bracket.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/02/21 11:51 PM
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FDS: How to avoid leechers, abusers and assholes. MDS: How to be a good liar and hide bad behaviour traits instead of changing them. And they are willfully ignoran to not be able to see that women DO NOT WANT the sexual harrasment from men. No we do not want dick pics and slutty men in our comment sections. I wonder why something like FDS exists🤔🤔- those men are why we are here. 🙄😭 Also the tattoo and hair dye thingy is so odd.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/02/21 11:43 PM
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Yes, this is so disgusting! They call themselves MAPs (minor attracted person), have invented a MAP flag, plead for "MAP pride" and distinguish themselves between "pro" or "anti-contact". Also there are "MAP allies". Maps and map allies can BOTH include underage people. Basically, minors making themselves vulnerable to pedophiles and child abusers and pedophile minors attracted to even younger children.🤢
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/02/21 07:17 PM
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Maybe it is because the default that is assumed is heterosexuality. Everyone is always talking about the interactions between a man and a woman in a relationship. Girls and boys are socialized a certain way in order to "fullfill" their role in this dynamic. A girl is pushed into the role of a carer and selfless lover. Brainless people will tell a girl she should "give that guy a chance" or say she "shouldn't lead him on". Random men will sexually harass a girl from childhood on. Women are scared…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/02/21 12:37 PM
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I mean, she clearly said that she asked him to go slower. Communication comments are out of place here because she did and you can clearly read it in her text. It is obvious to everyone that "go slower" means exactly that. In the worst of cases, such a violation against someone stating discomfort can turn into rape. This is not lighthearted.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/02/21 02:43 AM
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Meanwhile he is also with other women, not just men
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/02/21 02:59 PM
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"I'm covering up my cheating with fancy nice words I don't even know the meaning of."
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/02/21 02:56 PM
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I swear they make up conversations with their inner self-critical voice and tarn it as their wife's voice, then get mad at her.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/02/21 02:29 AM
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It seems like that, but I thought she used the laptop before to message him. Then he texted bs and she put the laptop and the messaging aside and used the vibrator instead. And I feel like it should also signalize she is "better" than him in a sense because she owns a Mac(---> therefore wealthy )
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/02/21 02:10 AM
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They choose a human as sex toy and complain that it's talking🤦‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/01/21 09:15 PM
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Or my man, be like a woman and buy a sex toy and stay single🤷‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/01/21 08:28 PM
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If they have Madonna/whore complex, they don't respect anyone
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/01/21 09:44 PM
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Oh, yeah that makes it clearer, thank you. In my language, we would never use the female and male words for animals for us humans
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/01/21 03:44 PM
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Honestly, I know it is inapropriate, but as a non-native speaker I still struggle to understand exactly why.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/01/21 01:08 PM
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He got off on abusing her. Sick incestious pedophile rapist. A girl only should go to the obygyn when she wants to be checked or has issues/sicknesses. Also ripped hymen doesn't predict virginity.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/01/21 11:14 PM
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No more like the woman has several men and any of them can be designated to do certain chores, that's how it should be ideally, lol. But I understand your point, too. There can be issues with polygamy: the way women and men are socialized, men would rather end up with more quality women than the other way around.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/01/21 09:44 PM
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They know, they just don't care, because it doesn't happen to them. Ask them how they would feel if a man made sexual comments about them and tries to initiate sex with them. They know.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/01/21 06:29 PM
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Management tasks- highly paid in corporate world, but suddenly nothing worth when it is a woman managing the home and family life. I hate this
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/01/21 06:26 PM
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If a man is so scared of women he should take her out to dinner (public place less dangerous than home) and if she gave him the creeps he should just split the bill and get home safley. Like, you know, like women do.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/01/21 06:22 PM
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Sorry I meant doggy style too, I guess I wasn't so clear😅
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/01/21 10:27 PM
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Or maybe all men are female beings? How dare they clitorize the penis. The clitoris is a pleasure point for women and most can't come without stimulating it and the penis is biologically just a longer clitoris! Men's sex should be giving oral and fingerings women to pleasure them /s Also how did he jump from PIV-sex to sex from behind?? There are so many PIV-positions. He's completly projecting his preferences onto women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/01/21 10:06 PM
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As a young woman, I can confidentially say: Ladies, be happy when predatory man-children won't prey on you. We deal with this constantly, it sucks. Many point out they were jelous of young women's beauty and let me tell you: You are all beautiful in your unique ways. Young, old, skinny,big,black, white.....we are all wonderful, beautiful beings inside out and don't let someone tell you otherwise, especially men!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/01/21 09:53 PM
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I literally know someone who would say such things when men raped her and she always finds herself in toxic/abusive relationships. It really is a form of self harm and the worst trauma response one can have. I feel so sorry for her and hope she can break free one day.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/01/21 07:44 PM
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For example, talk to an imaginary person while walking, act as if you were a witch, possessed, a psychopath from a movie, whatever creative creepy action comes to your mind
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/01/21 02:45 AM
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I once read upon strategies to be safe from stalkers who can turn out to be muggers, rapists, etc....Top strategy: act crazy. This makes you seem unpredictable and therefore dangerous. It is fear inducing. Even the criminals and violent/abusive men fall for it, because they have the intuitive reflex to protect themselves from danger, just like every person. Their inherent panic-inducing alarm-bell system creating a fight-or-flight response works just fine and this can be used to our advantage. B…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/01/21 01:13 AM
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They are obviously both abusing this child and someone should call CPS on them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/01/21 02:48 PM
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I once struggled too when i was a new driver (parking space too small), a man came to me and offered his parking space, as he was driving away. This is good behaviour, helpful and not overbearing. I wouldn't have known where else to park in the dark of the night than in the steet right next to the building I had to enter, so I was thankful he helped. I probably would've kept driving rounds until I finally saw a free spot in this street otherwise lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/01/21 02:22 PM
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Many of these men will be the same men who say cooking is women's work and a cooking men, if it is not his job, is gay.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/01/21 01:52 PM
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They think expecting men to pay for a date is "getting men for money". They never read a single post here discussing a split-the-bill situation. FDS women advocate for paying your share if he insists and then just not interact with him again. No pressure put on him. They probably also never read comments or post where we advocate for being treated with respect, first and foremost. All the times someone here said "rich doen't mean high value", I'd get rich if I start counting that for money. Pers…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/01/21 01:22 PM
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I mean sexting with people on tinder I'll never meet is virtual too and most would consider it cheating already
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/01/21 12:17 PM
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I hate this. She should watch gay porn with him and point out hot dudes. She should ask him to show her hot dudes. Everything else would be unfaiiiiiir. Honestly us women should put our foot down more and say such things, make them man big mad, then block and delete. They only want their cake and eat it too.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/01/21 11:58 AM
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They'd go for 4 year olds if there were no age restricrions in place.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/01/21 05:10 PM
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Obviously a teen 15-18 is not a child, but obviously people that young are NOT to be sexualized by those old men. You are disgusting if you are 35 attracted to 18(or 19, 20,21,..)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/01/21 05:07 PM
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But who wants to have sex with an inconistent liar? Even if it isn't love or a relationship, some qualities MUST be there even for only sexual things too.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/01/21 03:03 AM
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He seems like the"gay best friend" we all want
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/01/21 01:17 AM
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This is a man who would abuse his own children and throw them out at 12 because they don't work and pay the bills and are therefore useless. I hope he does not procreate, ever.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/01/21 01:07 AM
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I really do not care what anyone says, I'll asses dangers and take care of my safety as I see fits and I'll keep being afraid of rapists and be weary when I walk alone at night. Yes women do have it worse. Women live in an entirely different world in this case. EVERY woman is afraid to be assaulted, kidnapped or worse. Men do not have this fear and they know the fear is legit, no matter how hard they try to deny it. If they complain, take it as them revealing to you that they are a rapist. If th…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/01/21 12:36 AM
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I will keep saying it: all kinds of hormones make up your mood. Male or female, it doesn't matter. Estrogen, progesterone, testosterone, dopamine,serotonine and all else. Next time a man says your "hormonal" answer: "Yeah it's a real problem, we all get hormonal. You seem very upset btw, I think you should also consider going to a doctor because of your hormones, it might be to much testosterone"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/01/21 12:17 AM
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Right, taking care if the small stuff means microchecking in between the daily tasks+ more planning e.g. writing lists in order to not forget anything. Not so 50/50 after all....
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/01/21 08:56 PM
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Good points. People with disorders and mental illness can come in "asshole" variation and "nice" variation. The same goes for mentally well people. The difference is in the set of morals a person has. A human can do something horrid (like shooting some random person) without having a mental condition and no one would believe it: that's because often we cannot really articulate the difference between "bad mental health" and "bad morals".
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/01/21 08:46 PM
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Especially because some of these conditions can come from predispositon or personality structures that are hardly changable. As far as I'm concearned antisocial personatity disorder for exapmle develops from early childhood on or can be geneitic. Obviously the adaquate answer for those people is not engaging with them, as their behaviour is hardly changable. Which brings me to another point: if it is hard for them to change, it is impossible for you to do it to them. You cannot change a person b…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/01/21 08:34 PM
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So she can pay the cheaper stuff but has to do the house chores that take longer (folding laundry takes longer then putting them in a washing machine, cooking takes longer than putting the dishes in the dishwasher). That is also not how it works, especially when they are working similar hours.....
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/01/21 07:13 PM
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Is a doctor, looks up her medical record and somehow believes she wrote the diagnosis herself.........
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/01/21 02:04 PM
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Where I live the pill for men didn't make it to the market because of the side effects which were also depression/sucidal thoughts and I believe even attempts. Yeah for women the pill can do the same.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/01/21 11:48 AM
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I hope more young men/boys and also of course women/girls(I mean they do watch porn too) of my generation and younger will hold this opinion. We grew up with a pornified culture. The dangers and risks are real because children/young teens and even older teens cannot act fully responsible around the topics of sex and porn. Social media and the internet make sexual content so easily accessible. Young people can fall prey to predators so easily. Exposure since a young age can lead to a very wrapped…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/01/21 11:51 PM
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Everyone needs a grandma or mother like this💕 Edit: Haven't seen the movie, how is it called?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/01/21 03:18 PM
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"Money grubbing whore"- maybe we should start using those terms for every man that wants to date us who is in a lower income bracket than we are🤔🤦‍♀️ Shameful
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/01/21 12:47 PM
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Proceeds to say: fat ugly bitch. Nothing learned. He saw a comment about physical preferences, that he finds objectifying and bodyshaming, then PROCEEDS TO BODYSHAME THE PERSON EVEN MORE. Guess what, people do not care if he is an ass or tits man either. Either we state our preferences and be civil about it or we don't discuss them at all🤷‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/01/21 12:41 PM
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I don't need porn to masturbate either, just like any normal person. I just use my fantasy. Honestly, I personally find porn annoying and disturbing when I want to get off and get all in my head and my fantasies. When my sex drives is high, i definetly don't need porn, just like no one else "needs" it. They definetly desensitize themselves, like you described: we get used to something, get bored and crave more extreme stuff. You don't even have to be an addict to be desensitized to a certain deg…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/01/21 12:25 PM
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One of the best comments was, when a man said they (men) make the best of a bad situation (like LDR) and they have to masturbate- with porn. Their sex drives are so high it doesnt even ask if the porn is ethical🤦‍♀️🤦‍♀️🤦‍♀️🤦‍♀️ No joke. I wonder if these men are actual adults. The audacity. Why do they expect someone to put up with such crap? And so many tried to justify the man by saying he lied because he knows his girlfriend doesn't lile him watch porn....excuse me?! Then he should act like a…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/01/21 01:10 AM
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Exactly! No one wants a mentor like that. Such a mentor-mentee relationship he tries to create is not appropriate for professional interactions. What he does is exploiting young professionals for emotional labour and benefitting from a power imbalance. I wonder if he ever got training for what he's doing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/01/21 09:48 PM
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Omg she bought herself a necklace or someone gifted it to her, what a crime. So many crybabies on the internet smh.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/01/21 04:13 PM
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OP posted another article from this man here in the comments. He says he mentors only women "by chance" and would do the same for young men, but they are mostly "too rational" to gush over his emotional intelligence and women, because they are "more mature and on the path of self-growth from the inside" are enlighted by him on greater levels. Basically saying young men are not ready for his services+ he wants to be put on a pedestal and be admired. 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/01/21 01:09 PM
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So your male friends that first and foremost look for young women also want them to have a solid career....contradictory if by young they mean early 20ies. I mean, how many people have a solid career by then?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/01/21 04:34 PM
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Wow projection much? I remember how last year i feared the orange american clown could start a nuclear war...The cold war was fuled with this fear, where were the female leaders in this period of time?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/01/21 02:58 PM
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This this this! So many girls and women think like that and believe the gender stereotypes about women are true. Meanwhile, we are so much stronger and safer as a group and when we look out for each other. A circle of lovley girl friends is truly irreplaceable.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/01/21 11:59 PM
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He should go to jail
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/01/21 12:50 PM
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Your ex seems to be a special kind of crazy, judging by your comments, but this is the worst. He wouldn't wear a condom or even be fine with you taking birth control? Plan B has stronger hormone concentrations=worse possible side effects, which is exactly why it is supposed to be PLAN B, NOT A.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/01/21 02:53 AM
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They absolutley know. When it is their daughter or sister, they know suddenly, but they were all rap#sts, so they tried to find excuses why the r#pe is justified.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/01/21 02:45 AM
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No, the opposite: he should teach other men how to behave and never give up. I hope he does this in his private life as well as he does on social media. I hope men will take this to heart and actually listen. I hope he holds men accountable, indtead of masquarading as a "woke feminist". But then again, there are men who are completly useless and won't change or listen, who should just be avoided
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/01/21 02:54 PM
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Maybe he intended to to this, but they won't be the ones to listen
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/01/21 01:44 PM
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I haven't watched this movie and never heard of it, but so far, with the info i collected here and in the comments under the video, this depicts incest,bestiality, pedophilia, grooming, rape and cheating all at the same time? Is that right?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/01/21 09:00 PM
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There is a difference between finding someone attractive and finding someone attractive. I can recognize a man as hot and/or my type but NOT get sexual feelings from or I can get sexual feelings for/from him. However, your examples exceed both of these variations, you are talking about men disrespecting society by acting like predators. That's a whole different breed. Shall he break his neck looking back at other women in public😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/01/21 06:53 PM
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What a stalker. Delete and ignore. He wants attention. I'm reading "The gift of fear" right now and just finished the chapters talking about stalkers. A restraining order can help, but certainly not in every situation, especially when you are dealing with attention seekers. Get a second phone line/mobile phone (number) and give it only to people you trust enogh not to tell him. Let him blow up your first phone (number) and use the second for the people close to you, so you don't need to see him …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/01/21 03:52 PM
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Wow she sexually harassed you openly to embarass you. What a friend...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/01/21 03:31 PM
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My response would be: "but he cheated", no matter what he says, I'd just repeat
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/01/21 01:53 PM
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To be fair, some won't care if a woman gets off to other men. You could theoretically view pictures of hot strippers and they wouldn't care. At this point, it is either malicious or ignorant, because in practice, it is just so hard to find actual porn for women. So no, not an equal situation
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/01/21 03:25 AM
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We already mentioned so many possible examples of bad clothing that isn't about style. Even the difference between the ponytail matters. Rn I'm wearing a high ponytail that lets my hair fall into my face. So maybe you should chose a low ponytail when you prepare your small child for school?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/01/21 11:59 PM
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Are dishes and children the same? You can leave dishes in the sink, for sure, but children are living beings that need care, no excuse. He is a parent, he cannot stop if he doesn't want to. He needs to be prepared. Seriously. Imagine his wife dies in a car crash, what will he do.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/01/21 10:54 PM
45

He really thinks a man can just stop parenting if the mother disapproves of what he does. Nobody ever heard such a story the other way around and no one would justify it and no one should. Same should be true for men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/01/21 10:19 PM
25

Yes, this is also why it is not the same if women watch porn and why it is reasonable to consider it cheating. If a man watches porn and is comfortable with his girlfriend or wife watching porn, he should either help her find porn for the female gaze or stop watching himself
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/01/21 09:17 PM
7

lol* (you forgot that important part)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/01/21 08:24 PM
16

Yeah, inexcusable that people are making money. How come he got together with two sex workers🤔
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/01/21 08:18 PM
3

I hope she doesn't watch porn and isn't fine with her boyfriends doing it and doesn't condone sex work in any way if she realized escorting is "toxic shit". Also..."bitches"?! Just like "toxic shit". Sounds like frat bro is talking.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/01/21 08:15 PM
23

If he was "truly, honestly" polyamourous, he would have said so before they got into a relationship. Crazy how creatively he avoids the word cheating.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/01/21 07:48 PM
47

We should really invent porn with visible male faces or even visible men, not just the pen*s when it comes to heterosexual depictions. I hate this overfocus on the male gaze. And then again, the industry is so flawed, a focus shift on the female gaze won't make it better either.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/01/21 07:32 PM
7

I'm so proud of you that you found the strength to fight your inner demons and go to therapy! Keep levelling up sis!😊
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/01/21 05:32 PM
5

This is wonderful. Are you still with him?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/01/21 05:15 PM
31

If you "enjoy" your kink to a level where you or your partner is seriously hurt, it is just not wise to act it out anymore. Get help, go to therapy. Same if your participate in a kink with someone who uses it as an excuse to cover for his misogyny and hate for other people, which is a danger in BDSM and they call it "fake doms". Beware, maybe don't participate in the scene at all. Kinks can also come from sexual trauma, again, not wise to act them out if that is the case. Get help, go to therapy…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/01/21 01:25 PM
24

Money money money....In an immoral way, she "wins" because she can take these men's money and leave
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/01/21 12:40 PM
308

Right? They should just admit, that yes everyone can be a criminal and a bad person, we all know, but there is a gendered problem. If their feelings are hurt when this topic is brought up, they are probably guilty of something
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/01/21 12:29 PM
3

It is funny, I've seen it with my friends and myself: We'd still go for slightly older boys(now men) since we started dating, because we deem those our age and younger to be too immature and childlike. And most boys/men will be fine with dating someone 2 years younger. I'm only speaking about teens and early twenties. I really wonder if this "maturity" of the female gender is just purely socialized or if the fact that puberty on average kicks in later for boys plays a role in this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/01/21 04:15 AM
6

Someone should ask her what she thinks about the women being wrongfully acused of rape.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/01/21 03:26 AM
18

Preeeeeeaaaach! You speak my mind girl! Traditionally feminine behaviors/hobbies etc. are ridiculed, just because they are "traditionally" feminine. They shouldn't. They are just as good and valuable as "masculine" hobbies etc...and can be exercised by everyone who is interested, male, female and everything in-between. This is why we should stand on the women's side. We should defend ourselves and our sisters when they are ridiculed for their gender, their "femininity" or their "masculinity". Sh…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/01/21 03:08 AM
22

And female only spaces are discriminatory, obviously! Storm the women's shelters! /s
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/01/21 02:49 AM
11

In my country, you wouldn't even be considered to be able consent at all at 13. This is by definition sadutory r*pe. I am very sorry this happened to you and I'm sorry for everyone of you who had similar expiriences.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/01/21 01:52 AM
3

Honestly, i feel at the age of 15, the boyfriend should be maximally 2.5 years older. And I can also understand your point of view if you even think this is too much.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/01/21 01:46 AM
34

Hard to believe this Laura is actually a woman. And no one cares if she wouldn't be bothered by this. If so many other women are, you have to accept their boundries. And if a random guy hits on her like this and she likes it, but another woman offers to save her, she can just decline and say everything is fine. So many people randomly spewing misogyny
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/01/21 02:09 PM
3

No he just apologized because he wants to instill the good-guy image into your and your husband's heads, while simultaneously putting this poor woman down even further with the scolding. He acts nice to the outside world, but abuses his wife, openly. When will someone scold him? Such a LVM doesn't respect anyone, he just fakes niceness. If your husband wasn't with you, he wouldn't fake respect towards you either
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/01/21 12:56 PM
3

Well good you cut him off, he complains she is immature but went ahead and "got tricked" by a young woman, he should not have slept with from the get-go. He must be immature, too.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/01/21 11:24 PM
5

Yes I'm glad too. I don't know how much it costs in my country, but if you start as a minor it is free. I had to get 3 vaccines and the last one at 18, but the costs were still covered.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/01/21 07:50 PM
11

In my country doctors actually also advertise the vaccine for boys now. They are vectors and they can also get symptoms of hpv(e.g. smaller infections), not as severe as women can get it of course. My mom would not have taken me to the doctor for this by herself actually, but when I said I wanted to get the vaccine with 17 she sceduled the appointments for me. Many of my friends got it too, but many people still think the HPV vaccine is "unnecessary" and people can decide themselves to get it wh…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/01/21 06:44 PM
23

He basically confessed to you he loves to see people as objects. Specifically people. He does not talk about other inanimate objects that way, he chose an obiect that is meant to resemble a human. Good that he is an ex.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/01/21 10:34 PM
8

To answer his question: Absurdistan, maybe?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/01/21 10:13 PM
30

She (and moreso her parents) should have every right to snoop through a 10 YEAR OLD'S search history. This is a kid. At 12 and 10 they should in no way be exposed to porn. The fact that she says the 12-year old "only" watches Hentai disturbs me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/01/21 09:55 PM
4

Right. Many men are abused, of course, but you are talking about people telling and sometimes even inventing a sob story in order to gain sympathy. Yes this is not healthy, this man shouldn't date until he sorted his issues with relationship dynamics out. Always do him the favor of not dating him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/01/21 03:03 PM
6

So he thinks the porn he watched is real, sure dude and guess what western men think the same and then abuse us. And then you blame us for having a high body count due to rape?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/01/21 05:45 PM
58

Just shows that women and objects are the same thing to him
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/01/21 05:36 PM
66

I mean, is it my fault that so many men are creeps? That is the men's issue. Also how is it a privilege to get harrased, assaulted and raped?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/01/21 05:27 PM
26

How is this even logically/literally correct
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/01/21 10:55 PM
16

That sounds like a legal case. Isn't this similar to ripping an ID apart? Because that would be destruction af state property.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/01/21 05:35 PM
13

A father, by definition, is a man that parents the kids, where does his bs come from? If he expects YOU to be the caretaker and even if he is traditional, he should be worshipping you for your efforts that he won't make.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/01/21 02:14 PM
6

I guess i just be upfront and honest and masturbate to a hot stripper dude when i lay next to them🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/01/21 01:39 AM
6

The sexual attraction is what makes the distinction for me between a platonic relashionship and a romantic relationship, so yeah, definetly want butterflies foe dating
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/01/21 01:12 PM
11

Full money's worth is the food the restaurant staff cooked and served YOU. That is what you paid for. Get a grip
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/01/21 12:32 AM
42

If he is that into young girls, she already is to old for him. At this point, I think he wants to stick around, impregnate her and play normal family in order to get access to even younger, more vulnerable girls in the future. He is aging and the 20-24 year olds don't want him anymore. What else would he do to further have access to yourh other than this.....
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/01/21 05:34 PM
59

I don't get it. Let's think about that: Imagine a SW, that is empowered by her work, she may be self-employed, has good security measures in place, makes good money and so on. Why would people expect that this is the case for every SW? Why keep those who want and need it from recovery programs or from getting help to get out? You wouldn't say this for any other industry. It's abusive. It is like saying:"I have no period pain, sure you are faking and can't have endometriosis!" If there are sexwor…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/01/21 05:16 PM
105

The other option will be their future daughter when she turns 13. This woman has to run.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/01/21 04:59 PM
4

Privilige? They probably haven't endured abuse so they don't think it is bad
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/01/21 04:39 PM
10

You'd be selfish if you had kids for status quo and not becasue you really want them. You are doing everything right.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/01/21 02:07 AM
6

Exactly!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/01/21 01:51 AM
92

I love these comments of mad men: "You'll be buying cat litter and dog food all your life when you listen to him and stay single!" Excuse me sir, so many couples and families own pets. Your dumb stereotypes don't add up
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/01/21 02:03 PM
12

It's sad to see that he doesn't care it is all an act. It's clear to him that the sw doesn't have a connection to him, but as long as she acts like she cares, it's fine...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/01/21 01:19 PM
16

Don't people normally cook and plan meals with the housemates and guests?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/01/21 02:42 AM
59

Preach!!! As a woman that loves arts and everything visual including "beauty"-related stuff like fashion, Make Up, body painting etc...I come across many (mostly internet) freaks throwing double standards in such women's (and also men's) faces and it is disgusting. They will jerk off to your beauty, but not even think about let alone appreciate the effort and talent required to create these looks. They won't be able to analyze a work of art with all the themes and intentions it includes, no matt…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/01/21 02:22 AM
9

Cheers to freedom, glad you broke up with him!🥂 Always remember, that you are worth the world and you do not deserve to be dragged down by abusers and assholes! They can have him, exactly. Obviously I don't know for sure, but it seems like he isolated you by getting you into friendships with HIS friends. Reach out to old friends or friends and family in other cities and try to take up different hobbies to get to know more people on your own. Wish you the best💕
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/01/21 01:56 AM
4

It almost seems like he was peer-pressured or pressured himself into having sex just for the sake of also being a member of the "cool-kid-not-a-virgin-anymore"-club even though he did not like the women. Now after all these years he could've matured and could've seen the problem with this behaviour in high school, but he didn't.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/01/21 01:30 AM
3

Sounds almost like another double standard and sadly like trauma bonding
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/01/21 12:25 AM
14

Where when, and homophobic?!?!?!?! I think I missed out on something
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/01/21 11:56 PM
18

Really? They should be reporting cyber bullying, sexual harrasment, child porn, rape, revenge porn and leaked nudes,......like stuff that is actually dangerous
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/01/21 11:37 PM
39

And best is, they seek out women in my age range (18-23)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/01/21 09:16 PM
8

Yeah, like it never happened ever. I wonder if they talk the same way to their single friends, sisters or cousins too when they plan a single vacation.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/01/21 09:01 PM
9

Exactly, because the answer is emotional connection, which can also be fulfilled with platonic love instead of romantic love. Nourish friendships. Romantic partnership is wonderful and a plus, but not a must or need for self-fullfillment. Because the key is to love oneself and to be happy with oneself. And this is an attitude that doesn't really change when in a relationship. Many men and women have to learn this but rather stay mad.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/01/21 08:53 PM
7

Could even be a situation were men masculinize cars istead of seeing them as useful but also fun items for everyone (that most people actually NEED to get around) and are mad because woman talks about a "manly" topic and is proud of her purchase. Yeah guys, financial independence comes in the form on many different items. I'd love to see more variety of investements on this channel actually, so ladies: keep posting your jewelery, cars, electronic devices etc....post expensive products needed for…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/01/21 08:34 PM
55

Worse, they are mad at these women for rejecting them without ever talking to them
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/01/21 08:31 PM
4

Thanks for your response! And very well written😊
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/01/21 04:26 PM
22

She actually declares in many other videos that a rich man can also be a "dusty" and that behaviour is more important. But I agree, on some occasions she used language that just sounded a bit off.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/01/21 02:36 PM
4

Well it applies to them too, obviously sperm quality decreases with age. At least there are some parts of the world where they had enough of biology education in school to understand this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/01/21 02:30 PM
26

It is easy to see what these dudes are up to. Hitting women (i.e. domestic abuse) has been a part of cultural misogyny for centuries and now women AND men have the rights and means to speak up about it and let the abuser be punished. If a man comes along with the "hitting argument" he doesn't see how not being allowed to hit people benefits him. This means he is afraid to get caught hitting someone(preferably a woman) instead of being hit. Not hitting women brings us closer to equal treatment no…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/01/21 12:55 PM
8

Omg i love this, you go girl!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/01/21 01:39 AM
26

Yeah, it sewms like either applying logic or actually listening to this 1 minute video is too much
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/01/21 11:24 PM
46

I think we should start a subreddit "Exposing predditors" where we post problematic reddit stuff in order to report them
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/01/21 10:48 PM
21

And the fuckass commentor asks for the pic as if it was normal, please someone throw him off a cliff or something, wth is this crazy idividual?!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/01/21 10:45 PM
2

Sry what shit is the first one?!?!?!? That mindset is dangerous
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/01/21 08:54 PM
4

They'll say "oh it is testosterone"to justify raping women and cheating and say "hormones" when women show emotion to invalidate them. But somehow they'll don't really talk this way about hormones that do not have very different concentrations in the two sexes (like dopamine). Those are not used to for the justification of certain behaviors. Even though all the other hormones affect your mood too and your actions (that are affected by your mood).
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/01/21 08:43 PM
10

Like dude, blame all your life and every emotion on your hormones, because they rule. Estrogen, testosterone serotonin, adrenalin, dopamine are all affecting you, too. But when they use the same excuse it is to uplift themselves for raping other women instead of invalidating each other
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/01/21 03:17 PM
6

Imagine men wating the right to bail out completely from raising a child (not even financial support) and then complaining about single mothers. But also complaining when the woman puts herself and her kids in danger by staying with her abusive or neglectful or shitty personality man. And imagine, you cannot just date right away after a divorce and expose the kids to a complete stranger. Children will not accept a stranger as a parental figure. Fathers are not disposable. Alongside all the other…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/01/21 03:06 PM
32

Right? I mean if he fantasizes about it, it can stay in his mind and he does not need to act on it by watching porn, right? Other people can use their fantasy too, why don't they? I will never understand how people use porn and masturbation in a sentence like it is the same thing
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/01/21 02:03 PM
8

Yeah, just look at the german mommy/family youtubers, they still get this advice to not pick up their crying babies from the older generations, which is obviously wrong.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/01/21 01:15 PM
30

Is this when men treat every woman like prostitutes because they see prostitutes as used up and too promiscuous?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/01/21 01:08 AM
22

And has the audacity to cry in front of her when he did wrong, dfug dude just leave. I don't care if it is his own apartment, such trash should rot on the street
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/12/20 09:57 PM
182

Scrote that does not understand acttractiveness and rape have nothing to do with each other, who would have thought....
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/12/20 07:40 PM
27

I send them a foto af a naked, old, fat man if they ask me for nudes
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/12/20 06:39 PM
29

Wow another post about special traits of literally every other person
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/12/20 11:41 AM
86

Wtf, this dude seems fishy and totally dangerous, good you guys didn't meet up
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/12/20 03:46 AM
54

Who will tell this man that rape is already common everywhere in the world, no matter if sex work is legal in your counrty or not? Has he never heard of these beautiful statistics on sexual assault like "1 in 6 boys and 1 in 3 girls below the age of 15" in school or TV ads?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/12/20 06:08 PM
11

Plus compliments about anything that is not about their looks or sex don't count either to such people
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/12/20 04:40 PM
59

Wow, what does he even want? It's not clear to me😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/12/20 03:36 PM
12

I totally understand you, 16 and even 17- yesr olds now are like babies to me already
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/12/20 12:59 PM
19

The funny thing is "man-hating" actually means sharing your expiriences about men assaulting, raping, stalking, killing.... women plus stating your are afraid of them now, while women-hating(what these guys are doing) means raping, stalking, assaulting shaming and killing women. I have yet to see the majority of men on men-dating forums seek help and advice how to get out and process thier abusive relationship and disclose their expiriences with rapey women
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/12/20 12:50 PM
50

That is exaclty the way to go. And if an idiot tells you you have "nice boobs", answer: "You too, what cup size are they"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/12/20 12:29 PM
12

He wished women would go infertile at 40, it is more like 50....
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/12/20 12:23 PM
74

In my country, you can drink at 18, so prerending it was a story from my country, I would say the girls are the adults that can drink (responsibly) and he is the crazy drunk grandpa who shouldn't be drinking, it would make his behaviour even worse
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/12/20 12:36 AM
227

Srsly, I'm 19, I totally understand my fellow young ladies. They have do deal with that stuff constantly when they go out and for several years already. It gets so damn annoying
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/12/20 12:15 AM
613

"Adults have the right to hit on the adults"...I can't even, how can he not be ashamed to run around like that and expose himself to society like this
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/12/20 11:42 PM
57

You are a hero. Thank you for your effort!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/12/20 03:31 PM
18

Because toxic masculinity/fragile male ego. Men like this are selfish and want to undermine others to make themselves feel better . They have to create an advantage, so they overemphasize on an advantage they actually do have in a general context. Because of that, they deny they actually have to do something in order to keep the advantage of strengh, like training and getting better in sports with technique, stamina, etc....you know, all the stuff these women do. They deny that a trained woman w…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/12/20 02:55 PM
15

He would change for only a second anyway because he is afraid of dad beating him up- funny and deserved in the moment, but sad in the long run. He is only listening to MEN he "respects"(translates to "is afraid of"), but not to a woman, let alone his wife. And they have a daughter together. How do you think he'll treat her? He'll probably make her constantly feel unconfortable and invalid. Just imagine his kid grown up, following her father on Instagram and seeing his deprivation in the form of …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/12/20 01:52 PM
13

Oh girl they CAN, they can make the distinction, they just don't want to. They are capable. Don't let them fool you! Don't let them get away with that narrative!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/12/20 12:24 AM
38

And then right after they called you a pervert, they call you a prude because you won't fuck with them
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/12/20 08:49 PM
9

They really cannot comprehend that this is the boys' mommy and if he looked up, he would see the literal place he popped out of. Those men are also jealous of children being breastfed, as if being fed with the resources naturally made for this is a sexual service. They would proudly and loudly say stuff like that and then deny the pedophilia and incest of these implications.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/12/20 12:28 AM
9

The commenter is so naive,thinks heterosexual men won't assault each other
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/12/20 12:31 PM
13

But that's what they understand. In thier mind, they cannot be rejected, it just isn't a possibility. The woman they are talking to must take them. She definitely wants to be with them according to their imaginations. Therefore it means they have to develop those qualities, because it isn't like you can just tell a person "No, don't see a future with you"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/12/20 11:56 AM
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