Imaginesafety Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
208	Most men and women experience the “hoe phase” at different points in life. Men are called immature and dogs when they finally get to experience it for themselves.	CMV	Imaginesafety	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/09/22 06:44 PM
7	Men, what do you think of women who love to travel?	Question For Men	Imaginesafety	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/08/22 01:35 PM
1	Ghosted her because I got bored and she double texted few days later	Conversation	Imaginesafety	/r/seduction	08/09/20 12:42 AM

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
0	How turned off would you be if before sex, he pulled out a consent form? This	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/02/25 06:26 AM
8	What did you open up about that caused the end of the relationship? I learned not to ignore red flags because a woman is attractive, and unfortunately to never tell a girl I like her first. It was in the heat of the moment, when we were cuddling and talking. It came about naturally from our conversation. She didn’t say it back but we started kissing and went for another round. Definitely mixed signals but I’m glad it happened. It allowed me to open up to my friends and it was revealed that we all had similar stories about a girls being heavily invested only to t…	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/03/23 11:33 AM
4	What did you open up about that caused the end of the relationship? I said I really liked her. This was after months of dating, sex, romantic moments, etc. I felt the beginning of the end at that point as she kind of froze up when I said it. She clearly just wanted to have fun or feel like she was in a relationship without the responsibility that comes with it. Was likely dating other guys too. It is what it is, life lesson.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/03/23 09:30 AM
2	As a leftist man, I believe that men are better off not pursuing progressive/feminist/leftist women for long-term relationships. They're beyond triggered lmao. Straw man at it's finest.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/12/22 04:52 AM
2	As a leftist man, I believe that men are better off not pursuing progressive/feminist/leftist women for long-term relationships. Best post I've seen in quite some time. Solid advice I suspected, but haven't had evidence on.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/12/22 04:49 AM
9	As a leftist man, I believe that men are better off not pursuing progressive/feminist/leftist women for long-term relationships. This combination oddly sounds like it works. If he doesn't fall in line with certain stereotypes that is.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/12/22 04:34 AM
1	Most men and women experience the “hoe phase” at different points in life. Men are called immature and dogs when they finally get to experience it for themselves. I’m not worried if you’re missing anything at this point ma’am	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/09/22 06:50 AM
1	Most men and women experience the “hoe phase” at different points in life. Men are called immature and dogs when they finally get to experience it for themselves. Doesn’t matter, you’ll ignore it. Get some sleep ma’am.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/09/22 06:27 AM
2	Most men and women experience the “hoe phase” at different points in life. Men are called immature and dogs when they finally get to experience it for themselves. If I’m entitled for wanting some reciprocation and not wanting to be the only one chasing then sure, I’m entitled ma’am.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/09/22 06:25 AM
1	Most men and women experience the “hoe phase” at different points in life. Men are called immature and dogs when they finally get to experience it for themselves. I can tell you have a mental illness. I think it’s amnesia with the way you’re forgetting to respond to my arguments and moving on with your own points.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/09/22 06:23 AM
2	Most men and women experience the “hoe phase” at different points in life. Men are called immature and dogs when they finally get to experience it for themselves. This was years ago, you don’t come into the dating market knowing people you’ve had sex with, hung out with multiple times per week, discussed future plans with, and met family is going to be dating other people because exclusivity wasn’t mentioned. It’s kinda implied because that’s what I and many men like me thought being a decent person was. I’ve adapted since then and have no problems dating in our degenerate market. Try again.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/09/22 06:20 AM
1	Most men and women experience the “hoe phase” at different points in life. Men are called immature and dogs when they finally get to experience it for themselves. Straw-manning. You don’t want to debate, you want to complain.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/09/22 06:08 AM
2	Most men and women experience the “hoe phase” at different points in life. Men are called immature and dogs when they finally get to experience it for themselves. I’m giving you anecdotal examples of women who aren’t straight up, no one is mad they didn’t get anyone 😂 you were confident that most women are straight up about their intentions and I’m giving you examples of that not being true. The upvotes only reaffirming my stance as men know the bs we go through. I’m not mad she was dating someone else, but it was annoying that I asked her straight up if things were still cool between us and she fed me a bs lie instead of the truth and strung me along lik…	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/09/22 06:06 AM
1	Most men and women experience the “hoe phase” at different points in life. Men are called immature and dogs when they finally get to experience it for themselves. You didn’t address my comparison of the same woman with and without kids she wanted. I even acknowledged people believe there’s multiple components. It’s like you read the first sentence and respond. I personally believe depression is what you make it. I thought I was depressed until I stopped pretending to be a victim of the cards I was dealt and did something about it.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/09/22 05:56 AM
2	Most men and women experience the “hoe phase” at different points in life. Men are called immature and dogs when they finally get to experience it for themselves. And I told you I’m not asking for exclusivity from someone who’s clearly dating others at the same time and lying about it via omission. The relationship is doomed to fail, and I have the foresight to admit that. I don’t get caught up in games. For me, if a girl has options, she has to show she desires me too. This isn’t a circus where I’m here to compete for first prize. Show initiative back and then I can tell if she’s sure about me, thus where I ask for exclusivity. Your problem is you think …	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/09/22 05:55 AM
1	Most men and women experience the “hoe phase” at different points in life. Men are called immature and dogs when they finally get to experience it for themselves. Straw-manning yet again. If you have no rebuttal it’s okay to stop responding ma’am.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/09/22 05:50 AM
2	Most men and women experience the “hoe phase” at different points in life. Men are called immature and dogs when they finally get to experience it for themselves. And I told you already I was direct, and my friends have been direct as well. I also told you that you can’t even begin to understand the amount of options these women have, so men are very replaceable. Yes, way more options than you had in 2008. I already told you to look up the paradox of choice and I bet you didn’t.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/09/22 05:49 AM
1	Most men and women experience the “hoe phase” at different points in life. Men are called immature and dogs when they finally get to experience it for themselves. No, because depression is a result of your life outcomes whereas anxiety is a combination of genetics and environment. Even if you believe mental health to be fluid or have multiple components, you’re still wrong. Do you seriously believe that a woman who got her dream man, dream family, and good job would be as or even at all depressed as her alternate timeline self who only has a good career and failed at obtaining the husband and kids she wanted? If it wasn’t for your husband you’d probably b…	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/09/22 05:47 AM
2	Most men and women experience the “hoe phase” at different points in life. Men are called immature and dogs when they finally get to experience it for themselves. You’re straw-manning. Not sure what you’re trying to debate anymore.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/09/22 05:17 AM
1	Most men and women experience the “hoe phase” at different points in life. Men are called immature and dogs when they finally get to experience it for themselves. Your husband is “100% of everything you wanted in a man” yet you’re here implying you have mental health issues in spite of that. Maybe it’s women like you who are the problem and not men.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/09/22 05:16 AM
2	Most men and women experience the “hoe phase” at different points in life. Men are called immature and dogs when they finally get to experience it for themselves. Based	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/09/22 05:11 AM
2	Most men and women experience the “hoe phase” at different points in life. Men are called immature and dogs when they finally get to experience it for themselves. Not sure what you’re looking for atp.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/09/22 05:00 AM
1	Most men and women experience the “hoe phase” at different points in life. Men are called immature and dogs when they finally get to experience it for themselves. Anxiety and depression are two different conditions, I feel like you just want to argue to argue. Fact of the matter is, women today are very depressed, and there’s a correlation between a lack of family and that depression. You can find countless stories of women who chased their careers over building a family or relationship who regret it in the long run. Incoming rebuttal about how a lot of women are happy being old and single Yeah, right.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/09/22 04:59 AM
2	Most men and women experience the “hoe phase” at different points in life. Men are called immature and dogs when they finally get to experience it for themselves. Not the same. Enjoy your marriage, you won’t ever understand.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/09/22 04:51 AM
4	Most men and women experience the “hoe phase” at different points in life. Men are called immature and dogs when they finally get to experience it for themselves. Never heard it put that way, but yes, wow.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/09/22 04:50 AM
1	Most men and women experience the “hoe phase” at different points in life. Men are called immature and dogs when they finally get to experience it for themselves. Coping.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/09/22 04:49 AM
1	Most men and women experience the “hoe phase” at different points in life. Men are called immature and dogs when they finally get to experience it for themselves. I’m honored	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/09/22 04:48 AM
2	Most men and women experience the “hoe phase” at different points in life. Men are called immature and dogs when they finally get to experience it for themselves. Not the majority of men, but those who gain the ability to. I thought that was clear in the post.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/09/22 02:45 AM
1	Most men and women experience the “hoe phase” at different points in life. Men are called immature and dogs when they finally get to experience it for themselves. Women who want commitment from them are indeed mad at them. Hence the shaming tactics. Should men hate women in the hoe phase because they're lying and leading them on as well?	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/09/22 02:35 AM
2	Most men and women experience the “hoe phase” at different points in life. Men are called immature and dogs when they finally get to experience it for themselves. A truly sick cycle. Adapt and overcome is how I look at it. Shit isn't ever going to change.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/09/22 02:12 AM
1	Most men and women experience the “hoe phase” at different points in life. Men are called immature and dogs when they finally get to experience it for themselves. Y’all would’ve loved NYC.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/09/22 12:06 AM
2	Most men and women experience the “hoe phase” at different points in life. Men are called immature and dogs when they finally get to experience it for themselves. Oh okay, in that sense I completely agree. It’s funny how these big corporations pretend to be left leaning when they have anterior motives. Real feminism is gone now though for the most part.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/09/22 11:28 PM
11	Most men and women experience the “hoe phase” at different points in life. Men are called immature and dogs when they finally get to experience it for themselves. The same content that’s destroying the minds of men you mean? Let’s not pretend like this is a win win situation for men.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/09/22 11:22 PM
1	Most men and women experience the “hoe phase” at different points in life. Men are called immature and dogs when they finally get to experience it for themselves. What would you like me to respond to specifically?	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/09/22 11:08 PM
3	Most men and women experience the “hoe phase” at different points in life. Men are called immature and dogs when they finally get to experience it for themselves. For sure, the standards increase once you’re out of school. High school and college you can do it by just being cool or attractive.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/09/22 11:02 PM
2	Most men and women experience the “hoe phase” at different points in life. Men are called immature and dogs when they finally get to experience it for themselves. How many guys were able to do what you did in highschool truthfully? And guys like you were mentioned in my post.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/09/22 10:57 PM
1	Most men and women experience the “hoe phase” at different points in life. Men are called immature and dogs when they finally get to experience it for themselves. Nice. I realized this in my early 20s thankfully. After I finish my masters degree we’ll see how I feel.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/09/22 10:53 PM
4	Most men and women experience the “hoe phase” at different points in life. Men are called immature and dogs when they finally get to experience it for themselves. Nah I mean what'll you get out of a hoe phase? What do you want to do in it?	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/09/22 10:47 PM
4	Most men and women experience the “hoe phase” at different points in life. Men are called immature and dogs when they finally get to experience it for themselves. Confidence, game, and stability can take a man from a 5-6 to a 7-8. If you're fat and ugly, you're already below average. They have an extra hurdle for sure.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/09/22 10:46 PM
2	Most men and women experience the “hoe phase” at different points in life. Men are called immature and dogs when they finally get to experience it for themselves. Because it's a depressing existence. Who wants to be 40+ and alone for the rest of their lives? Even if you don't want children, most people want intimate relationships. I can't recall exactly, but I believe there was a study that showed the biggest users of anti-depressants are middle aged single women. Coincidence? I THINK NOT!	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/09/22 10:44 PM
2	Most men and women experience the “hoe phase” at different points in life. Men are called immature and dogs when they finally get to experience it for themselves. Earth.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/09/22 10:41 PM
3	Most men and women experience the “hoe phase” at different points in life. Men are called immature and dogs when they finally get to experience it for themselves. What do you think you'll get out of it?	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/09/22 10:39 PM
3	Most men and women experience the “hoe phase” at different points in life. Men are called immature and dogs when they finally get to experience it for themselves. Good for you friend, I hope you find someone with a similar mindset.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/09/22 10:38 PM
5	Most men and women experience the “hoe phase” at different points in life. Men are called immature and dogs when they finally get to experience it for themselves. The guys I'm talking about aren't incels. They got lucky from time to time, and I even mentioned in the post that they're more likely than not in committed relationships that just end up not working out.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/09/22 10:35 PM
6	Most men and women experience the “hoe phase” at different points in life. Men are called immature and dogs when they finally get to experience it for themselves. Thank you for sharing your experience. People think guys like you don't exist for some reason.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/09/22 10:34 PM
21	Most men and women experience the “hoe phase” at different points in life. Men are called immature and dogs when they finally get to experience it for themselves. I gotta disagree, I don't think men are the ones pulling the strings behind modern feminism. Are there some that support it to try and get laid? Sure. But it's the product of women brainwashing themselves lol.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/09/22 10:29 PM
2	Most men and women experience the “hoe phase” at different points in life. Men are called immature and dogs when they finally get to experience it for themselves. Men's standards are drastically lower/flexible so it's not really a problem and we don't really see it as settling. We just want someone who's kind, attractive, and loyal as core requirements. Are there hotter girls? Most likely, but we don't need that to feel satisfied in a relationship. You saying you'd rather stay single than settle for a man who isn't 100% of everything you want is proving my point. Almost all women think they way you do, and a lot of your requirements in a man overlap. Wher…	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/09/22 10:27 PM
2	Most men and women experience the “hoe phase” at different points in life. Men are called immature and dogs when they finally get to experience it for themselves. Women in their hoe phase lie too, but that isn't scrutinized nearly as much if at all. Actually in pop and rap music, it's encouraged by female artist to use and manipulate men. Neither are right, but let's be consistent.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/09/22 10:21 PM
0	Most men and women experience the “hoe phase” at different points in life. Men are called immature and dogs when they finally get to experience it for themselves. To the women who want commitment from them as they're around an age where settling would be considered normal, it is indeed problematic. This is under the presumption they're dating women in their 30s as well as younger women, but are not giving commitment to the women out of their fun phase.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/09/22 10:15 PM
25	Most men and women experience the “hoe phase” at different points in life. Men are called immature and dogs when they finally get to experience it for themselves. So men are brainwashing grown, adult functioning women, into having casual sex?	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/09/22 10:13 PM
1	Most men and women experience the “hoe phase” at different points in life. Men are called immature and dogs when they finally get to experience it for themselves. I didn't say you said that. Whether a man was undesirable in his 20s or not makes no difference if he established himself to a point where women want him in his 30s. Women don't care about a guy's journey to the finish line. And these men aren't outright rejecting them, they'll smash for sure. But they won't commit which is fucked up, but true. I don't think a woman sees fucking a guy and him not committing as being outright rejected.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/09/22 10:12 PM
3	Most men and women experience the “hoe phase” at different points in life. Men are called immature and dogs when they finally get to experience it for themselves. If only a world like this existed.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/09/22 10:08 PM
1	Most men and women experience the “hoe phase” at different points in life. Men are called immature and dogs when they finally get to experience it for themselves. You're being disingenuous. They aren't single because they want to be, they're single because they can't get a man of their standards to commit. If you aren't ready for the truth, that's fine.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/09/22 10:04 PM
2	Most men and women experience the “hoe phase” at different points in life. Men are called immature and dogs when they finally get to experience it for themselves. People fuck and some more than others. Like way more, because they can. That's all there is to it.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/09/22 10:03 PM
2	Most men and women experience the “hoe phase” at different points in life. Men are called immature and dogs when they finally get to experience it for themselves. Don't think I'm overgeneralizing since we are talking about people who are typically doing degenerate activities to being with, but otherwise I agree.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/09/22 10:02 PM
1	Most men and women experience the “hoe phase” at different points in life. Men are called immature and dogs when they finally get to experience it for themselves. No, that's a line modern feminism propagates to "feel liberated". The same way black people flipped the n word into a term of endearment.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/09/22 10:01 PM
1	Most men and women experience the “hoe phase” at different points in life. Men are called immature and dogs when they finally get to experience it for themselves. They won't, and that's why I urge my friends to become the best version of themselves for a fighting chance. It's literally survival of the fittest. I just think women are disillusioned with what they thinking is realistically obtainable, can we agree with that? I can't tell you how many say they prefer a man over 6ft tall when that's only 14% of the population. This isn't accounting for the other preferences such as making more money than her. It's just crazy out here, all I gotta say. If we we…	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/09/22 09:59 PM
2	Most men and women experience the “hoe phase” at different points in life. Men are called immature and dogs when they finally get to experience it for themselves. Sorry, you were not getting the same attention these girls are getting today, back in 2008. This was pre dating apps and the social media boom, there's no way. I know multiple girls who have been reached out to by verified men, literal celebrities ready to fly them out. A girl in Arkansas can be flown out to Miami or California if the right guy comes across her profile. It's literally becoming a norm.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/09/22 09:54 PM
2	Most men and women experience the “hoe phase” at different points in life. Men are called immature and dogs when they finally get to experience it for themselves. It's because their standards increased and not many men live up to them. Not because they prefer to stay single. The guys who they'd like to have are either in relationships or are exploring their options and they won't stand for that. Are their instances of women truly preferring to stay single? Sure.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/09/22 09:51 PM
5	Most men and women experience the “hoe phase” at different points in life. Men are called immature and dogs when they finally get to experience it for themselves. I agree, manipulation is bad for both sexes. The guy is looking for a hoe phase the same way the young woman is looking for a hoe phase and leading guys on. No difference, it is what it is, but it's vilified when the man does it.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/09/22 09:47 PM
1	Most men and women experience the “hoe phase” at different points in life. Men are called immature and dogs when they finally get to experience it for themselves. My friends can get women, but they can't maintain them. I think it's called "getting lucky". They are attractive to women, but why would a girl pick them over the taller, even more attractive options she thinks she can obtain for a LTR or hookup? It's been proven men will date or fuck people "lower" than them from a physical attractiveness perspective already. So if these men are entertaining them, my friends are fighting an uphill battle. Do you understand?	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/09/22 09:45 PM
3	Most men and women experience the “hoe phase” at different points in life. Men are called immature and dogs when they finally get to experience it for themselves. No offense but you've been out of the market too long to understand. There's a good chance you'd understand if your phone was constantly being bombarded with attention from new men who want to take you out. They simply have more options to pick from as opposed to then. Understanding this reality, I choose to remove myself from the situation. Women have more options today than ever before, so if you want something genuine as a man, you'd be inclined to make sure she puts in an effort before blind…	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/09/22 09:41 PM
1	Most men and women experience the “hoe phase” at different points in life. Men are called immature and dogs when they finally get to experience it for themselves. I never said they did, I said they became more attractive to more women, AKA, visible. No one is saying they became Chad.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/09/22 09:37 PM
3	Most men and women experience the “hoe phase” at different points in life. Men are called immature and dogs when they finally get to experience it for themselves. Didn't know I had to specify, but I am talking about places like America, Canada, and some of Europe. These conversations are foreign elsewhere.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/09/22 09:37 PM
1	Most men and women experience the “hoe phase” at different points in life. Men are called immature and dogs when they finally get to experience it for themselves. Have you gone to college or high school? Anyone will tell you that has that the athletes and frats get the majority of the women. You can cope all you'd like, reality is reality.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/09/22 09:34 PM
3	Most men and women experience the “hoe phase” at different points in life. Men are called immature and dogs when they finally get to experience it for themselves. I literally just said most people will respond to the "What are you looking for?" question with "Just seeing what happens" or "Just going with the flow", which is the same exact thing you just said phrased differently... You're arguing for arguments sake atp, and didn't acknowledge you aren't reading my responses correctly. Have a good one.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/09/22 09:33 PM
1	Most men and women experience the “hoe phase” at different points in life. Men are called immature and dogs when they finally get to experience it for themselves. Congrats, you guys are exceptions of the rule to the modernized dating market. How old are you now? I've admitted how I've felt, and that's roughly around the same time she started acting off, but we still hung out a lot.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/09/22 09:30 PM
3	Most men and women experience the “hoe phase” at different points in life. Men are called immature and dogs when they finally get to experience it for themselves. If 99% of men agreed that Kendall Jenner is the hottest woman on earth, but end up with a regular woman, is that settling? There's acknowledging something, and understanding what's realistically obtainable. Women think because they can get sex easily, it's the same as being able to get a man for a LTR and that can't be further from the truth.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/09/22 09:28 PM
3	Most men and women experience the “hoe phase” at different points in life. Men are called immature and dogs when they finally get to experience it for themselves. This is an issue primary in the west. Which would further prove my point that women have higher counts than men. World wide it's likely different because promiscuity isn't tolerated like it is here.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/09/22 09:26 PM
2	Most men and women experience the “hoe phase” at different points in life. Men are called immature and dogs when they finally get to experience it for themselves. The amount of single women in their 30s not being able to find someone to settle with them would tell you otherwise, but go off friend.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/09/22 09:25 PM
7	Most men and women experience the “hoe phase” at different points in life. Men are called immature and dogs when they finally get to experience it for themselves. I showed you there's a population of young men in their hoe phases too, but it's the minority. Athletes, frat boys, or naturally charming guys are the ones who have the ability to have a hoe phase in their younger years. This still equates to a shit ton of guys, but an even larger portion of men are invisible to girls when it comes to sexual attraction at a younger age.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/09/22 09:23 PM
3	Most men and women experience the “hoe phase” at different points in life. Men are called immature and dogs when they finally get to experience it for themselves. You misread, I said "You and I know this, but the majority of people do not and take what the person says at face value" not "Most people don't take the other person at face value." I should have put a comma after "do not".	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/09/22 09:21 PM
1	Most men and women experience the “hoe phase” at different points in life. Men are called immature and dogs when they finally get to experience it for themselves. Asking the status of the relationship is not forcing it, not sure if you misunderstood but that's exactly what I did. To what she replied I have nothing to worry about. Forcing it is knowing I'm putting in more effort, knowing she's likely exploring her options, and trying to convince her to pick me. I understand that's how most relationships start, but I'm smart enough to know that if she not only has options but isn't reciprocating effort that I am not going to try and convince her more than I…	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/09/22 09:18 PM
2	Most men and women experience the “hoe phase” at different points in life. Men are called immature and dogs when they finally get to experience it for themselves. It shouldn't be considered settling, that is the best you can achieve and there's nothing wrong with it. It's viewed as settling because they think they can do better and have reached an age where they're rushing to find commitment.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/09/22 09:10 PM
5	Most men and women experience the “hoe phase” at different points in life. Men are called immature and dogs when they finally get to experience it for themselves. Prime copium right here.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/09/22 09:06 PM
2	Most men and women experience the “hoe phase” at different points in life. Men are called immature and dogs when they finally get to experience it for themselves. It's changed in recent years. Their hoe phase will never be the equivalent to a woman or Chad, but they have options now is my point and aren't picking the first girl that shows interest.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/09/22 09:05 PM
2	Most men and women experience the “hoe phase” at different points in life. Men are called immature and dogs when they finally get to experience it for themselves. My bad, it's preference for women. Discrimination for men. My problem comes with regular women thinking they're above regular men. They are quite literally made for each other. And these friends of mine are the ones who will end up being "settled" for more likely than not. No one wants to be settled for.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/09/22 09:03 PM
7	Most men and women experience the “hoe phase” at different points in life. Men are called immature and dogs when they finally get to experience it for themselves. I understand that, but the context of your comment is what I'm not understanding.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/09/22 08:59 PM
2	Most men and women experience the “hoe phase” at different points in life. Men are called immature and dogs when they finally get to experience it for themselves. This is something I've learned, but it's something I had to experience to understand. In my case, I was definitely being led on because I gave her the opportunity to walk and have open dialogue about where we stood and she said everything was fine.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/09/22 08:57 PM
1	Most men and women experience the “hoe phase” at different points in life. Men are called immature and dogs when they finally get to experience it for themselves. Nah.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/09/22 08:54 PM
2	Most men and women experience the “hoe phase” at different points in life. Men are called immature and dogs when they finally get to experience it for themselves. People can be mad on behalf of the experiences of others, not only their own. That's why many movements have "allies" outside of the demographic it's impacting. Me for instance, I have no problem attracting women, but I feel for my friends who are struggling because they weren't born with some of the things I have, or don't have the career or potential as some of the top guys do. It doesn't impact me in the dating market, actually benefits me, but it still makes me mad. So I can vent all I'd lik…	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/09/22 08:53 PM
7	Most men and women experience the “hoe phase” at different points in life. Men are called immature and dogs when they finally get to experience it for themselves. You and I know this, but the majority of people do not and take what the person says at face value which is the problem. If the truth was told, none of this would be an issue.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/09/22 08:51 PM
2	Most men and women experience the “hoe phase” at different points in life. Men are called immature and dogs when they finally get to experience it for themselves. And I'd rather not commit to someone who's putting on a façade. It's kind of like reading the room. Of course I could've forced the relationship and it likely would've worked since we were still going on dates, but why would I give commitment to a person who's just waiting for the first person who gives it to her? It's a two way street, and this is a double standard women will never acknowledge even in an "equal" world. I actually remember respectfully asking her if she still wants to do this af…	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/09/22 08:48 PM
2	Most men and women experience the “hoe phase” at different points in life. Men are called immature and dogs when they finally get to experience it for themselves. Being mad and acknowledging the reality of the dating market are often correlated and I don't know way. Maybe it's because of how pessimistic it sounds.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/09/22 08:37 PM
2	Most men and women experience the “hoe phase” at different points in life. Men are called immature and dogs when they finally get to experience it for themselves. Disagree. Guys I see with options are trying to be locked down by women who're done with their phase from what I see. Never heard of a 20 year long hoe phase. Most guys who are the man in high school/college peak there.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/09/22 08:35 PM
2	Most men and women experience the “hoe phase” at different points in life. Men are called immature and dogs when they finally get to experience it for themselves. For sure, everyone has their preferences. But women who've had their hoe phases can't possibly be that hypocritical.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/09/22 08:33 PM
4	Most men and women experience the “hoe phase” at different points in life. Men are called immature and dogs when they finally get to experience it for themselves. Did you read the post at all? I'm confused.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/09/22 08:31 PM
6	Most men and women experience the “hoe phase” at different points in life. Men are called immature and dogs when they finally get to experience it for themselves. "I don't know, just going with the flow" or "Just seeing what happens" is a common response for early 20s people.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/09/22 08:30 PM
2	Most men and women experience the “hoe phase” at different points in life. Men are called immature and dogs when they finally get to experience it for themselves. Why am I going to ask for a relationship from someone who's showing signs they don't want to be with me? It's a self respect thing at a point.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/09/22 08:29 PM
4	Most men and women experience the “hoe phase” at different points in life. Men are called immature and dogs when they finally get to experience it for themselves. The person on the other end never knows explicitly if who they're dating is in a hoe phase. You can make that assumption and miss out on someone you'd have been perfect for.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/09/22 08:26 PM
2	Most men and women experience the “hoe phase” at different points in life. Men are called immature and dogs when they finally get to experience it for themselves. My one google search showed me that it had a small sample size of 2,000 people, and in the same study says that over 1/3 of men and women lie about their body count. Also, none of this data accounts for the new wave of feminism that promotes sleeping around. Women 100% have more bodies than the average man. Men's numbers can be skewed by a few outliers who are able to smash a lot, these guys typically fuck more than women.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/09/22 08:23 PM
9	Most men and women experience the “hoe phase” at different points in life. Men are called immature and dogs when they finally get to experience it for themselves. This only becomes the norm after someone realizes they keep getting played. No one goes in with this mindset unless it's been drilled into them by someone else.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/09/22 08:19 PM
2	Most men and women experience the “hoe phase” at different points in life. Men are called immature and dogs when they finally get to experience it for themselves. On what planet?	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/09/22 08:18 PM
2	Most men and women experience the “hoe phase” at different points in life. Men are called immature and dogs when they finally get to experience it for themselves. Gotcha, well said. Too far gone though.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/09/22 08:17 PM
4	Most men and women experience the “hoe phase” at different points in life. Men are called immature and dogs when they finally get to experience it for themselves. Exactly. Even with all of the bells and whistles, a man will never get as much sex as a woman in her hoe phase can. So let him enjoy his moment without judgement.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/09/22 08:16 PM
0	Most men and women experience the “hoe phase” at different points in life. Men are called immature and dogs when they finally get to experience it for themselves. Why do the opinions of men who whine about 304s matter? Because they're the men women want! If that was understood, all a woman has to do is read the room and you can get whoever you want. I find it mind boggling how easily women can lock down a man of their standards, but they don't realize it until it's too late. I disagree, men aren't able to state their preferences. For example, if a black guy simply says he prefers white or latina women, he's a colorist, hates his mother, etc. I'm a man, I …	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/09/22 08:15 PM
2	Most men and women experience the “hoe phase” at different points in life. Men are called immature and dogs when they finally get to experience it for themselves. I agree, but why is that a good thing? Easier sex for men who can get it?	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/09/22 08:09 PM
2	Most men and women experience the “hoe phase” at different points in life. Men are called immature and dogs when they finally get to experience it for themselves. Agreed, but sometimes you just need to adapt the the environment. Those girls you described with a similar mindset are off the market quick.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/09/22 08:07 PM
1	Most men and women experience the “hoe phase” at different points in life. Men are called immature and dogs when they finally get to experience it for themselves. They have successfully made it to be not a big deal via modern feminism. There are many men who have accepted the notion that women can have a high count and still be good partners. Man wants a woman who isn't fat though? Canceled.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/09/22 08:06 PM
2	Most men and women experience the “hoe phase” at different points in life. Men are called immature and dogs when they finally get to experience it for themselves. No one is angry at anyone, it's just the way things are. A great analogy I heard is that women are let into the candy store from the day they're 18, and can have any piece of candy they want, and as much of it as they want. Most guys who are lucky enough to have to wait until they're 30 to get into the candy shop, and once they're finally let in women have a problem with it. He should be able to eat as much candy as they did if he chooses to. Maybe it's FOMO.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/09/22 08:04 PM
3	Most men and women experience the “hoe phase” at different points in life. Men are called immature and dogs when they finally get to experience it for themselves. She deserves commitment from whoever she can get it from. More often than not though, it's not the man she really wants.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/09/22 08:00 PM
5	Most men and women experience the “hoe phase” at different points in life. Men are called immature and dogs when they finally get to experience it for themselves. High standards in terms of quality of life, ambition, looks, etc. Women generally do not care how many women a guy has fucked if he's disease free. By your logic, most women in 2022 would be of low standard to men since they get, and have way more sex than men today.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/09/22 07:59 PM
3	Most men and women experience the “hoe phase” at different points in life. Men are called immature and dogs when they finally get to experience it for themselves. It's a variety of different environments. College campuses, workplace, social media, dating apps, off the top of my head. Me personally, I was dating a girl off of Hinge for a couple of months and all signs pointed towards her wanting a relationship. Then she started going cold out of the blue, stops initiating convos, etc. The truth is she probably wanted to explore her options and didn't know how to tell me. I have friends who have gone through eerily similar experiences, where things are amaz…	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/09/22 07:55 PM
7	Most men and women experience the “hoe phase” at different points in life. Men are called immature and dogs when they finally get to experience it for themselves. Yes? But only for the men who are in their hoe phase. I don't think you understand the point of this post (Women want commitment when desirable men want to have fun) but I'll entertain it. For the regular man they're probably trying to hold on to that woman because they don't know when the next opportunity will come. I'd even argue most guys don't start out as wanting to have a hoe phase, until they realize they can't maintain a woman long term.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/09/22 07:44 PM
2	Most men and women experience the “hoe phase” at different points in life. Men are called immature and dogs when they finally get to experience it for themselves. Correct. Those that do though are shamed, and the problem is apparent because those millions of men who get to experience it are playing even more millions of women since they are the most desired.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/09/22 07:38 PM
8	Most men and women experience the “hoe phase” at different points in life. Men are called immature and dogs when they finally get to experience it for themselves. What woman will stick around when they hear a man is sleeping around with other chicks? Is it possible? Yes. Is it likely? No. Same concept applies to a degree with hoe phase women dealing with men. They aren't going to openly admit to him that they're going on dates with or smashing other men. Is it manipulation only when the man does it?	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/09/22 07:37 PM
6	Most men and women experience the “hoe phase” at different points in life. Men are called immature and dogs when they finally get to experience it for themselves. Not when they've just gained access to it and are being shamed for not committing. Especially those who can't get casual sex, they shouldn't settle for that.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/09/22 07:34 PM
4	Most men and women experience the “hoe phase” at different points in life. Men are called immature and dogs when they finally get to experience it for themselves. Let's say a woman is 30 and is done with the hoe phase. Yes, she will still have options because women are very attractive in their 30s still. Are the options what she wants though? For example, a bunch of guys hitting her up to simply try and sleep with her isn't what she wants at this point, she wants commitment. Are there still men who will offer that to her? Of course! Are they the men she desires given her likely higher standards? Probably not. She'd rather try to get the guy I described wh…	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/09/22 07:32 PM
1	Most men and women experience the “hoe phase” at different points in life. Men are called immature and dogs when they finally get to experience it for themselves. Props to you, most women don't do that.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/09/22 07:26 PM
2	Most men and women experience the “hoe phase” at different points in life. Men are called immature and dogs when they finally get to experience it for themselves. Not sure what your point is.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/09/22 07:25 PM
4	Most men and women experience the “hoe phase” at different points in life. Men are called immature and dogs when they finally get to experience it for themselves. Correct, but that's why I specified the guys who actually made improvements to their lives mainly financially and physically. The previously undesired men, now become desired, and they get a bad rep for enjoying a by-product of their success. In other words, the guy most women want don't want to settle when they do. These numbers still equate to millions of men, and more often than not they're dealing with more than one woman. So when we see complaints about lack of commitment from older guys, t…	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/09/22 07:24 PM
7	Most men and women experience the “hoe phase” at different points in life. Men are called immature and dogs when they finally get to experience it for themselves. I mean more so what did you say to initiate it? I think girls are just scared to be honest, and am curious as to how you phrased it. Guys will lie for the fear of rejection, but I guess girls lie to not be viewed as a hoe? 95% of men would accept the arrangement you proposed.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/09/22 07:15 PM
1	Most men and women experience the “hoe phase” at different points in life. Men are called immature and dogs when they finally get to experience it for themselves. That’s why I put it in quotes. Pumping and dumping is the term but you get what I mean.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/09/22 07:06 PM
28	Most men and women experience the “hoe phase” at different points in life. Men are called immature and dogs when they finally get to experience it for themselves. Where have you been? Having a hoe phase is empowering today.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/09/22 07:04 PM
5	Most men and women experience the “hoe phase” at different points in life. Men are called immature and dogs when they finally get to experience it for themselves. They don’t want to settle for women who have had theirs either. That statement may have been more relevant for men of the past, but men are waking up.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/09/22 07:03 PM
15	Most men and women experience the “hoe phase” at different points in life. Men are called immature and dogs when they finally get to experience it for themselves. How did these conversations go? Most guys I know were strung along for a while, and even ghosted after months.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/09/22 06:55 PM
5	Most men and women experience the “hoe phase” at different points in life. Men are called immature and dogs when they finally get to experience it for themselves. That’s the issue. You were with an older man who these older women want commitment from after having their hoe phase.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/09/22 06:53 PM
22	Most men and women experience the “hoe phase” at different points in life. Men are called immature and dogs when they finally get to experience it for themselves. Women lie and manipulate men during their hoe phase too, mainly via cheating or making a guy feel like he’s the only one. I’ve seen it on too many occasions to think it’s coincidence. Maybe these guys are taking tips from their book.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/09/22 06:49 PM
1	Men, what do you think of women who love to travel? Good talk.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/08/22 10:02 PM
1	Men, what do you think of women who love to travel? Have you had sex with someone you met while traveling before?	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/08/22 04:48 PM
2	Men, what do you think of women who love to travel? I dated a girl who liked traveling, can confirm.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/08/22 03:43 PM
1	Men, what do you think of women who love to travel? Agreed. It's nice to get away once in a while though. A big motivator for women might be to flex to other women though.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/08/22 03:42 PM
1	Men, what do you think of women who love to travel? They do travel to NYC and are absolutely down for anything from what I've seen. Was very shocking for me, especially for women coming from Europe.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/08/22 03:19 PM
1	Men, what do you think of women who love to travel? Appreciate your insight. Seems logical enough.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/08/22 03:16 PM
2	Men, what do you think of women who love to travel? I can respect that.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/08/22 03:06 PM
1	Men, what do you think of women who love to travel? I think where you travel matters too if presumptions are being made.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/08/22 03:06 PM
1	Men, what do you think of women who love to travel? That was hilarious 😂 Never knew they had a term for it. I don’t know if women have to go as far as paying for sex workers though. Regardless of where they go, I’d think they can get a local to have sex with them for free.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/08/22 02:36 PM
1	Men, what do you think of women who love to travel? 😂😂 And fair point at the end, but you’ll never know whether or not she was really riding the CC. Is the risk worth it for you, say if she checked off most your boxes?	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/08/22 02:11 PM
1	Redpill seems to be exploding in popularity Not coming at you, but lot of women say or think this. Not literally word for word, but the amount a guy makes is a big prerequisite for a serious relationship to a lot of women. Just reality. So his or her phrasing shouldn’t be looked at any type of way when that double standard of looking at men as a financial tool is looked over daily.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/08/22 01:05 PM
3	Men trip about n-count, but the average number of sexual partners for men and women (based on millennials) is about the same. I respect you for being so honest, I think it's what a lot of men think. Couldn't be me though personally.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/08/22 01:01 PM
1	Redpill seems to be exploding in popularity Men aren't wallets either.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/08/22 12:58 PM
3	Redpill seems to be exploding in popularity Andrew ironically doesn't associate himself with the RP. He just states the truth, which ironically correlates with RP talking points.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/08/22 12:57 PM
4	Both Men And Women In "Normal" Society Acknowledge Alpha Fux Beta Bux It’s hilarious how every single far left “woke” feminist magically has a plethora of anecdotal evidence for RARE situations that aids their argument, right.. Not saying it can’t happen, but you’ve seen that specific situation on THREE separate occasions? Where are these women who willingly spend on their man’s education? I’m sure spaces like this wouldn’t exist if men and women actually treated each other equally on a common scale. Also a quick lesson on your claim that the redpill put a pessimi…	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/07/22 05:02 PM
-1	Young single women are checking out of dating/society more than single men. Most women seem to lack foresight. What sounds appealing about being a single old person with no legacy or children? Nothing right? Unfortunately for you all, this all starts in your 20s when you want to have fun and explore. Because the man you genuinely desire won’t want you after you’ve hit the wall. Yeah you can settle when there’s no time left, but that’s almost as bad as being alone and you know it. Use your best years to attract the best man possible, it’s not that hard to do. But most of…	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/07/22 01:31 PM
12	Both Men And Women In "Normal" Society Acknowledge Alpha Fux Beta Bux I agree but I think there’s a population of women who can hide it well. Be careful.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/07/22 11:44 AM
1	Attractiveness and getting matches on dating sites (DIY Interactivity Inside). Could be your pics if you’re basing it on that	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/07/22 08:02 AM
30	Young single women are checking out of dating/society more than single men. You don’t see them because they don’t have to leave their bedrooms for attention. There’s a thing called social media, as well as another thing called dating apps.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/07/22 07:00 AM
8	Both Men And Women In "Normal" Society Acknowledge Alpha Fux Beta Bux Complete W	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/07/22 06:52 AM
6	Both Men And Women In "Normal" Society Acknowledge Alpha Fux Beta Bux What’s the difference if they did the same thing throughout their 20s? If a guy hears she was single a majority of her 20s, that’s as little as he needs to know.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/07/22 06:51 AM
7	Both Men And Women In "Normal" Society Acknowledge Alpha Fux Beta Bux If a man is stable, a woman’s money is almost irrelevant.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/07/22 06:46 AM
25	Both Men And Women In "Normal" Society Acknowledge Alpha Fux Beta Bux It’ll be a beautiful sight to see. I’ve tried a handful of times to find “The One”, but I’m checked out at 23. I check off the tall, funny, and attractive requirement which is the sad thing as it’s not enough for women in their early 20s. They just want to have fun, with a bunch of guys. I don’t even blame men for becoming dogs because I know it stemmed from hurt. I’ve slept around after being hurt but it’s really not for my personality. Don’t get me wrong it’s cool to fuck a bunch of chicks, bu…	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/07/22 06:42 AM
16	Both Men And Women In "Normal" Society Acknowledge Alpha Fux Beta Bux Damn bro. I can’t even be mad at you. How do you determine if women you date have “had their fun”? Can’t they easily lie? Especially if you have no mutuals.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/07/22 06:22 AM
8	Both Men And Women In "Normal" Society Acknowledge Alpha Fux Beta Bux Plenty of women fake it because they’ve run out of time, you’re acting as if everyone can see through a facade. I’ve seen multiple cases in my personal life of women using the “nice guys” and him being oblivious to her ulterior motives. One of these cases includes a friend paying for his woman’s school and shorty after she graduated, cut off all communication and ties with him. And everything you’re saying about the average man is false. Like he said, there are stats that contradict what you’re …	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/07/22 06:17 AM
1	Q4W: Why do women care so much when a man prefers inexperienced/virgin women? That’s not only true among conservative women. Plenty of liberal women wait for the man to make the move, and it has nothing to do with being brainwashed. No one said it should be the norm. Leaving your partner because they were promiscuous is not irrational. Punching a stranger because he looked at your woman is, per your example. Men love women being “protagonist” of their sexual journey. For those that aren’t incels, it makes acquiring sex less difficult than it used to be. But just because a…	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/07/22 03:13 AM
1	Q4W: Why do women care so much when a man prefers inexperienced/virgin women? I’m sorry to break it to you but double standards exist. A lot of which benefit women as opposed to men today. Also you’re missing a variable in your comparison between men and women’s differences regarding sex. Men have to seek permission, women simply have to give it. What’s more difficult, gaining permission to do something, or giving it? Men are the pursuers, women are the pursued, it not that hard to understand why society views these differently. Most women get sex so easily they are disil…	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/07/22 10:00 PM
1	Q4W: Why do women care so much when a man prefers inexperienced/virgin women? How is having a preference misogynistic? Is it misandry when women say a man has to be a certain height, have a specific amount of inches on his penis, or earn more than them to be in a relationship? (all of which are more common than a man saying he wants a virgin or woman with a low body count even). Like you said, there are other men for women who are “experienced”; so why care what these guys prefer in their potential wife or long term partner? Also it’s been proven that promiscuous women ha…	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/07/22 09:31 PM
3	Q4W: Why do women care so much when a man prefers inexperienced/virgin women? You’re absolutely right, but I think it’s harder to live up to those standards than it is to not have a high body count.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/07/22 10:30 AM
1	Why do women push back so hard on the notion that dating may be easier for them? Precisely	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/07/22 05:50 AM
0	Q4W: Why do women care so much when a man prefers inexperienced/virgin women? Because the guy is the one pursuing, the women simply accept in the majority of cases. Consensual sex isn’t happening unless the woman gives the man the green light. It’s harder to get permission than it is to give it, that’s why men who sleep around still feel they can state their preference for less experienced women. This is only relevant when it comes to a LTR though.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/07/22 05:37 AM
5	Q4W: Why do women care so much when a man prefers inexperienced/virgin women? Because they’re mad they don’t qualify anymore, even if they don’t want the dude. If the shoe didn’t fit they wouldn’t be that passionate about it.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/07/22 05:34 AM
1	dont overthink, just open You’re doing 5 years minimum during your trial if you try to pull this in 2020 lool. I’d just place it in her hand.	/r/seduction	09/09/20 09:43 PM
0	Ghosted her because I got bored and she double texted few days later Lol I would have linked with her a while ago if that weren’t the case. But all this texting just feels like it’s for nothing because of the situation. Is it just me on that stance?	/r/seduction	08/09/20 03:28 AM
1	Ghosted her because I got bored and she double texted few days later Effort I’d put in, but texting aimlessly is boring	/r/seduction	08/09/20 03:27 AM
1	Ghosted her because I got bored and she double texted few days later Yeah I’d definitely meet in person when she’s home, but this long distance talking feels pointless	/r/seduction	08/09/20 03:27 AM
1	Ghosted her because I got bored and she double texted few days later That’s good energy. I don’t want her to think I’m an asshole though.. but then again they like that.	/r/seduction	08/09/20 03:26 AM
2	Ghosted her because I got bored and she double texted few days later Not sure what I want	/r/seduction	08/09/20 01:15 AM
2	Ghosted her because I got bored and she double texted few days later She’s away at school. Def not traveling there for a date lol	/r/seduction	08/09/20 01:15 AM