TheRedArchive

~ archived since 2018 ~

Imaskinnybitchyall Archive

View 1 post and 42 comments by Imaskinnybitchyall on TheRedPill subreddit and various other subreddits related to The Red Pill community.
Search in:
In subreddits:
More
Filter by year/month:
Upvotes Title Category Author Subreddit Date (UTC)
30

SELF IMPROVEMENTImaskinnybitchyall/r/RedPillWomen29/03/19 07:07 PM
Upvotes Comment on Subreddit Date (UTC)
9

Genuinely: it sounds like he is trying to imply that you will need to move on to sex relatively soon because he "can't" relieve himself otherwise. I agree with others that this is a form of manipulation and he should no longer be considered.
/r/RedPillWomen09/02/26 02:28 AM
12

I am interested to see what people say about this! I don't have much experience in dating and I feel like the barrier for wife privileges is common advice.
/r/RedPillWomen26/07/23 01:10 PM
3

Agree that LD is not a bible and there will be exceptions to every rule. He values your opinion about his clothing. So, do as he asks. He gave you a task.
/r/RedPillWomen18/07/23 06:51 PM
3

I think the concept of staying with an abusive man comes from a misunderstanding of Red Pill for women is. Just because we support historical gender roles, does not mean you're supposed to stay with someone abusive. Part of finding a 'high value' partner is how he treats you. A man who's childish, manipulative, or abusive is not high value. Don't date men who punch holes in walls, or yells at people. This man is at best immature and at worst, will become an abuser. Either way, he is not yet high…
/r/RedPillWomen16/07/23 10:41 PM
11

Because you're intentionally going to the worst case scenario. My advice: don't do that.
/r/RedPillWomen15/07/23 07:17 PM
8

Are you working, or racking up loans for your school? If you stay together, your debt becomes his debt. The pressure becomes keeping your loans as low as possible. Your eggs are not turning to dust by waiting for him to be ready for marriage. No one is saying to wait 15 years like the leap you have now taken twice.
/r/RedPillWomen15/07/23 07:14 PM
13

So he's currently unemployed. You're still in school. Why would this be a good time to get married? I cannot think of anything more stressful while job searching and the pressure of being the breadwinner quite like trying to figure out how to pay for and plan a wedding. You should not be begging him for a promise ring or begging him for an engagement ring. You got the desired result of your begging, but now you're offended. Just because he wants to wait doesn't mean he has one foot out the door.
/r/RedPillWomen15/07/23 06:55 PM
7

Are you in school? It is pretty common practice to wait until both parties have graduated if they are in school. If he just graduated, he's not established in his career field. Most men will want to do that first. Are you okay with supporting this if it's his intention? Also, there's a huge difference between 16 months and 15 years. Obviously there is a time to wait and a time to move on. 35 would be past that, but you don't need to jump 15 years in the future and ignore all the time in between.
/r/RedPillWomen15/07/23 06:07 PM
17

I think girly things are interests (like barbie) and feminity is a behavior. (Being responsive to your partner's needs, cognizant of your reactions/emotions)
/r/RedPillWomen15/07/23 02:34 PM
1

Have fun hiding behind generational stereotypes even when you're given evidence to the contrary. I'm sure your children appreciate it.
/r/RedPillWomen13/10/22 12:31 PM
1

I grew up in the early 2000s in a large suburb. The exact scenario you think doesn't work. Times haven't changed as much as you think they have. Someone willing to share a home isn't going to flip their lid the first time their child ends up with a bump. I have no problem telling parents to communicate with their children and I have no problem communicating directly to someone else's children about their behavior. If someone is offended, well, that's likely their own embarrassment which I'm sure…
/r/RedPillWomen13/10/22 03:26 AM
1

I don't think this is completely a recipe for disaster. My family grew up very close with a friend of my mom's, and her family. We basically all see each other as siblings and I'm still very close with my mom's friend. She helped parent me and my siblings. So long as there is good communication and mutual respect I don't see "mama bear" being an issue. Especially not to the point of a childhood friendship between the husbands falling apart.
/r/RedPillWomen13/10/22 01:38 AM
1

I'd like to read more about this, as I very much agree. Are there any posts on here that you can think of?
/r/RedPillWomen13/05/20 01:21 AM
12

No, sorry, that's not what I meant.
/r/RedPillWomen13/05/20 12:34 AM
2

I looked and there is r/thirdwavefeminists but it is not active. In their side bar they list similar subreddits, that might be helpful.
/r/RedPillWomen12/05/20 11:02 PM
3

I'm not sure if there's a sub for it, but I'll try to find one! New wave or third wave feminist are just what some feminists call themselves to extricate from mainstream feminism today.
/r/RedPillWomen12/05/20 10:59 PM
28

I think you'd like "new wave feminists" it's back to the basics of the original movement, equally for women without degrading men. I'm happy with what I see there and don't feel like I need to scream and throw fits and wear a pussy hat.
/r/RedPillWomen12/05/20 10:38 PM
1

I have struggled with this my whole life, and the only thing that works for this ADD brain, is to make a list, on paper, that's very detailed. If someone says, "do the dishes" they actually mean: Wipe the counters and stove. Unload and reload the dish washer Hang up any oven mitts left out, put away spices, ect. Sweep and mop the floor Dry any dishes in drainer, wash any that can't fit or be washed in the dish washer. Make coffee for the next day. Run the disposal, scrub the sink Take out the tr…
/r/RedPillWomen17/02/20 06:58 PM
2

Yeah my ED started young too. But I attribute it to the verbage surrounding weight gain/loss as if it was something that couldn't be easily calculated a corrected. I'm much better after learning about CICO and nutrition. I'll argue all day long with people who use verbage like 'metabolism' and 'set point' and 'starvation mode.' Because once I found the correct information I was able to dig myself out of the hole I jumped into head first. I think had it not been misrepresented to me I never would…
/r/RedPillWomen02/02/20 11:11 PM
5

I don't think two weeks is out of the norm then. Schedule an appointment if you're worried.
/r/RedPillWomen29/01/20 12:32 PM
3

If the antidepressant is causing extreme side effects after they should've leveled off, this medication may not be for you, and you should discuss options with your psychologist/doctor for other medications you can try. Some side effects level off after a month, some six weeks, ect. If this hunger isn't permanent it can be corrected later with plain old diet and exercise. If it is, then this might not be the right one for you. Meds effect everyone differently.
/r/RedPillWomen29/01/20 12:06 AM
1

Feel free to PM me girl. We're all in this together.
/r/RedPillWomen21/01/20 11:39 PM
3

Take a long, deep breath love. You want to change. And in this moment, that's all that matters. Let's take this one step at time. I can relate to the mental health issues, but I'm privileged enough to have endured minimal trauma. However, if you find it hard to break things down into manageable chunks, which I assume you might, then boy do I have the advice for you. Bullet journalling. Pick 5 habits you want to start, and log your progress. There are tons of ideas and formats and even printables…
/r/RedPillWomen21/01/20 04:55 AM
2

The first thing I'd start with, if you have absolutely nothing feminine, are t-shirts with a waist, paired with fitted pants that are not jeans. Look for things with color, that still suit you. I went from grey/black/olive as my color pallete to including blues, greens, and purples that suit my skin tone/coloring. I stopped buying 'box' shirts that were a simple square. I bought three pairs of boots and retired my tennis shoes for all but actually working out. I (kept my converse I circulation t…
/r/RedPillWomen05/01/20 08:46 PM
54

I've always seen frugality as a virtue of femininity. Especially if she is a homemaker. To me, being good at budgeting and thrifting or making items is all part of being the wife and homemaker. You're still helping with finances even without a job.
/r/RedPillWomen05/01/20 08:22 PM
1

I've been dealing with what your describe since menarche at age 9. (Yes, really) The only cure for me has somewhat been working with children full time. But this year my whole class is so good that it's back with a vengeance. I wonder if foster or doing respite care for foster parents might be helpful to you? It's something I'm considering. At the moment I'm very concerned for any future children with the state the world is in, so I'm hoping adoption will be enough for me.
/r/RedPillWomen28/12/19 02:01 AM
1

Hard, hard, hard NO! He drinks. He drinks while driving. He cannot handle stress. And he's had a a failed marriage, likely in part to any/all of the above issues. The 16 year age gap is slightly concerning when not combined with everything else. All together, he screams danger.
/r/RedPillWomen28/12/19 01:44 AM
2

Try the Red Pill Women Wiki. (in a link in the about folder.) It was very helpful to me.
/r/RedPillWomen17/12/19 11:05 PM
3

I'm not saying it never lasts, just that if you're already having major problems like this, that OP and her boyfriend are too childish to be planning a LTR.
/r/RedPillWomen18/08/19 05:25 PM
13

Y'all are playing games and dancing around each other. In my opinion, you're too young to date at this time, because of how cavalier you both are. I haven't seen any young teen relationships ever work out long term, so in some ways you're just spinning your wheels, and red pill doesn't exactly work while you're in highschool. I think it's time to take a break from dating and start focusing on what you want in the long term. I'm talk 10-15 years from now, what do you want in a future husband? Can…
/r/RedPillWomen18/08/19 05:39 AM
3

I was just about to suggest her and Jessica Kellgren! My work here is done. 😂 OP, Bernadette is truly the very best to help you work on vocabulary and pronunciation, and her videos are interesting and informative.
/r/RedPillWomen17/08/19 01:56 PM
1

Money management in small term is mostly down to preference, so it's okay if you disagree with me! I don't pay any interest charges on my emergency money because I leave it in my checking account. Sure it's not earning anything, but it's just there to be a nice, big buffer. For people who are always a bit behind on bills, a credit card is something that can cause more damage. (My parents closed their credit account because, in their words, it caused a "Rob Peter to pay Paul" scenario where you'r…
/r/RedPillWomen13/08/19 03:43 PM
0

If you're going to refer to hypothetical infants as 'it', I'm not sure you're ready to be in a relationship at all. I can't tell how old you are, but for some reference, I'm nineteen and questioning your maturity. An infant is a human being. A baby is a human being. A toddler is a human being. The word 'it' is for inanimate objects. I don't even refer to stray dogs and cats as 'it'. If you can't understand and respect a baby as a human being, I don't think you're ready to respect a SO in your li…
/r/RedPillWomen10/08/19 03:55 AM
3

Seconding r/personalfinance and adding r/povertyfinance. Both are full of very helpful advice. u/Melitele3 is 100% correct all the way around, especially with the list of goals. Have an emergency fund before you start paying off in debt, because otherwise you'll just end up back into debt at the drop of a hat (or a timing belt, or new tires, or A/C dies).
/r/RedPillWomen09/08/19 10:52 PM
2

You deleted your comment! C'mon now, that's not fair! Tell me again why you're calling 18 year olds whores? In contrast, my name actually comes from the song "All About That Base" which encourages exactly your idea, so perhaps you've heard of it? It labelled all thin women as bitches, and caused me to be called a bitch for the first time. She's such a good influence on young women, right? Encouraging positive body image by body shaming people who don't look like her. I actually have self respect…
/r/RedPillWomen01/04/19 05:03 AM
1

...Yeah, doesn't sound very enjoyable on any counts. Don't want to be a whore, don't want to join tinder, don't want to suck a strange dick, not into diseases, and I'm not lying to myself about life works, which is why I'm here. I hope you realize that not everything to do with the feminist movement is positive.
/r/RedPillWomen01/04/19 04:43 AM
7

Well, I suppose I never found it silly, but many people do! Your quote made me smile. Bread can be very tricky, as I've learned from r/Breadit. My whole family has recently adopted a mindset of sustainability, so hopefully making our own wine and things will be around the corner.
/r/RedPillWomen29/03/19 08:25 PM
2

Thank you for letting me know!
/r/RedPillWomen29/03/19 08:21 PM
7

Thank you! I'm hoping there's just something I'm missing, and that it's not me. I would never talk about Red Pill to anyone in my family! Gosh, it sounds like it'd be a pretty awkward conversation. I did try to probe my mom about it, because it seems like that's how she bagged my dad, but I quickly dropped it when she got confused.
/r/RedPillWomen29/03/19 08:07 PM
6

But am I really distancing myself if I'm still interested in the same things? I'm trying to add more to my life and interests, not move away from my current ones. And he's never been like this with other feminine things. I sew, crochet, garden, and do silly things like make my own bread, hummus, and kombucha. All of these things he was at least slightly interested when I began them, he even has interest in learning more about sewing, and has encouraged me to start an Etsy business and possibly m…
/r/RedPillWomen29/03/19 08:05 PM
1

Does he know you post on here? Your post seems very well thought out and respectful. Sometimes, things are easier just written out. I would personally tell him everything you've mentioned in this post, fixating on how much you respect and understand him and his opinion on the matter. This discussion doesn't have to come to a close either, you could just leave it at that and see what he says. As an aside, don't feel like you are responsible for the state of your husband's relationship with your p…
/r/RedPillWomen22/01/19 11:56 PM
7

Do you have any peer reviewed resources on that? I'm genuinely curious.
/r/RedPillWomen22/01/19 02:15 AM
You can kill a man, but you can't kill an idea.

© TheRedArchive 2026. All rights reserved.
created by /u/dream-hunter