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| 0 | The reason most women are indirect with rejections...is that we are afraid of retaliation.Violent? Not necessarily. Aggressive? Definitely. Well 1. you said react violently, correct? If you don’t mean violently, then don’t say violently. 2. What evidence do you have to back up that claim? Women wouldn’t nearly-universally reject men as politely as possible if it wasn’t well-known that many men don’t handle rejection well. Yeah, because people being polite simply to be polite is some unheard of concept. It’s not like that’s how most people in developed nations act all the time, everyd… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/01/21 10:19 AM |
| 0 | The reason most women are indirect with rejections...is that we are afraid of retaliation.It would only be sexism/paranoia if it was extremely rare for men to react violently when directly rejected. ...So it’s sexist/paranoia lol. There’s no way you’re going to tell me you genuinely believe a man being violent when rejected isn’t a rare occurrence lol, let alone the validity of that statement. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/01/21 09:36 AM |
| 1 | The reason PPD men don’t believe women who say they’re attracted to “personality” isn’t because we’re wired differently, it’s because they actually misunderstand which personality traits said women are referring to.I doubt it’s anywhere close to that number, that made me laugh though. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/01/21 02:54 AM |
| 6 | The reason PPD men don’t believe women who say they’re attracted to “personality” isn’t because we’re wired differently, it’s because they actually misunderstand which personality traits said women are referring to.Can you agree that physical attraction helps? Why do guys keep asking this. What percentage of women are directly denying that physical attraction doesn’t at least help? Like c’mon. You’re trying to still come out with a win here when that statement is essentially a strawman | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/01/21 02:51 AM |
| 6 | The reason PPD men don’t believe women who say they’re attracted to “personality” isn’t because we’re wired differently, it’s because they actually misunderstand which personality traits said women are referring to.As a man who’s tired of coaching other men on women, please for the love of god, listen to this person. Especially the list of traits in each category. I feel like that information alone, widely disseminated, would be able to decimate the redpill nation. You’re mad at women because your doing all the things she wants, But those aren’t the things she wants! She wants category 2! Now fair, society, Disney, romcoms, and women themselves all tell you that women want category 1. True. But now that yo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/01/21 02:42 AM |
| 5 | The manosphere totally misinterprets female attraction.Not just valued, no shit, everyone fees like that. Valued sexually is what I’m referring to. We’re discussing specifically sexual attraction to men by women. Virtually nobody wants to be primarily valued sexually for anything else but their physical appearance and possibly their charisma. And the people who think they feel like that are almost all relatively attractive, and therefore don’t have any real idea what that would actually feel like. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/01/21 11:03 PM |
| 3 | The manosphere totally misinterprets female attraction.But lashing out only really damages yourself & has little to no impact on those your angry at. I agree. A lot of HFV have found me physically attractive, I’m not currently one of these people but I wasn’t as attractive as a kid so I know how they feel. I’m just relaying this information. This is what I mean by misunderstanding, because men value looks so much you think of it as a slight when women don’t. I wouldn’t say that’s a misunderstanding. These men (at least a lot of them) understand that… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/01/21 09:09 PM |
| 8 | The manosphere totally misinterprets female attraction.I think someone in the comments said it best. In short, when you get to the very heart of the matter, men don’t want women to be attracted to us for things other than physicality. We want to be physically attractive and we want women to be attracted to us, maybe not solely, but mostly for that. Since being attractive enough for that to be the case only applies to maybe 20% of men, some of the rest of us get upset. And since a lot of people in general, not just men, don’t like to feel negative co… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/01/21 08:52 PM |
| 1 | The manosphere totally misinterprets female attraction.The same way it’s apparently possible for someone to be so obsessed with the phrase “spinning plates” | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/01/21 08:45 PM |
| 7 | Boyfriend’s Height is a Dick Measuring Contest for WomenThat’s the thing though, it’s not going to change for y’all. A lot of non-tall dudes don’t wanna hear this but you’ll never be able to shame women into not valuing height just like women will never be able to shame us into not valuing physical attractiveness over almost everything else. It’s biological. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/01/21 06:11 AM |
| 1 | This sub has become a warzone between the gendersDammmnnn :/. We need an alternative | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/01/21 07:55 PM |
| 2 | This sub has become a warzone between the gendersYeah, I’m realizing that now lol. So this is just a place for redpills and blue pills to argue? Despite both sides obviously not being the type of people to relent? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/01/21 07:39 PM |
| 2 | This sub has become a warzone between the gendersI would agree, I think that’s kind of unarguable, which is why I specified that they specified those children being mixed race. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/01/21 06:06 PM |
| 1 | What Actually Happens When A Woman Reveals Her N Count To Her Beta HusbandIt’s me. I’m Chad. Cant you tell by my fedora and fingerless gloves? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/01/21 03:25 PM |
| 1 | What's more likely?Lmao, you just sound hurt. And besides “Is it more likely that women are secretly congregating to keep vagina away from less attractive men or is it more likely that people break up for stupid reasons” Doesn’t make sense, neither have anything to do with each other. That’s like saying “What’s more likely, that you ate cereal this morning or that I was at the club last night” | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/01/21 03:11 PM |
| 3 | This sub has become a warzone between the gendersRiiigghhtt? Like damn, I was hoping to have civil intellectual discussion on the sexual behaviors of men and women. Not...whatever this is. It makes me wanna unsubscribe from the sub because now I see what’s behind all the sexist takes in threads. Like, maybe if you’re overly misogynistic, you’ve just been led down the wrong path and need help not generalizing people, but if you’re misogynistic and racist, you’re just lost. You just came to this sub to hear yourself talk and trp wasn’t doing it … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/01/21 03:03 PM |
| 9 | This sub has become a warzone between the gendersRacism too, which I don’t know why I wasn’t expecting. Apparently white women who have children from a previous relationship are only considered low value if the father is a minority, and also that the only reason anyone(aka white men, because apparently they’re the only people who exist in this country right? /s) care about minority issues is because white women feel bad for us, like we’re the family pet or something :/ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/01/21 02:53 PM |
| 1 | "Intersectionality" is white women associating themselves with the struggle of people of color and of non-cis/heteronormative people, and is thus a kind of "colonialism of grievance."Oh alright, I thought you were referring to what’s actually going on. You’re just one of those people who attach the sentiments of a vocal minority to whole masses of people. I misunderstood. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/01/21 02:03 PM |
| 2 | "Intersectionality" is white women associating themselves with the struggle of people of color and of non-cis/heteronormative people, and is thus a kind of "colonialism of grievance."Oh alright lol, nvm... jesus christ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/01/21 01:54 PM |
| 3 | "Intersectionality" is white women associating themselves with the struggle of people of color and of non-cis/heteronormative people, and is thus a kind of "colonialism of grievance."I can show you a shit ton of documents from around the civil war that say otherwise. Also, what...exactly is your understanding of the racial breakdown of this country? You say “no one” and “anyone” as if non-whites don’t make up 30% of this country, or aren’t projected to be 51% in 25 years. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/01/21 01:51 PM |
| 3 | "Intersectionality" is white women associating themselves with the struggle of people of color and of non-cis/heteronormative people, and is thus a kind of "colonialism of grievance."Big dog is predicated to become a little dog in America by 2045. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/01/21 01:45 PM |
| 4 | "Intersectionality" is white women associating themselves with the struggle of people of color and of non-cis/heteronormative people, and is thus a kind of "colonialism of grievance."Do you...feel like what OP is referring to isn’t still going on lol? They’re not talking about literal colonialism, or like, slavery. They’re talking about systemic oppression by whites, which white women are trying to decouple themselves from now that the tables are turning in the public eye. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/01/21 01:40 PM |
| 2 | "Intersectionality" is white women associating themselves with the struggle of people of color and of non-cis/heteronormative people, and is thus a kind of "colonialism of grievance."Ehhh, idk about who should be thankful for that. If no one cared, by this point, we would’ve made them. Take that however you will. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/01/21 01:36 PM |
| 1 | Had a look at the FDS instagram, the females that like the posts look exactly like I figured they would...Nothing...because these are words from a stranger...on the internet 😂 some of y’all are hella insecure. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/01/21 01:07 PM |
| 4 | Had a look at the FDS instagram, the females that like the posts look exactly like I figured they would...Actually, racism was in one of the definitions I found of the term. I don’t think most redpills are racist, but if a significant amount of them were, I wouldn’t be surprised. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/01/21 07:37 AM |
| 1 | Had a look at the FDS instagram, the females that like the posts look exactly like I figured they would...I mean all of that is correct, but I’m not quite sure that’s what OP is saying. They listed it with a few things that are objectively negative. I’m almost sure what they’re saying is that a white woman in particular, having a child with a minority (particularly black or Hispanic) is just another dumb irrational decision that young/immature/LVF women make. I’m aware of how white men view white women that date/sleep with black men, and if that is indeed what they’re insinuating, I very much resent… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/01/21 07:27 AM |
| 2 | Chad is more likely to be on the bluepill sideEh, they are naturally red pilled in the hood. Black men who grew up outside of it interact with women the same as anyone else. Which is basically what you said, except you implied all black men are from the hood/there aren’t a significant amount born outside of it. Source: Am black man from both | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/01/21 12:13 AM |
| 4 | Chad is more likely to be on the bluepill sideThe only Chad I ever knew definitely was blue pill and it most likely was because he was a Chad. Which is wild because that only made women more attracted to him. It’s like a circle. It makes complete sense though. Like, why would you give af about a girls n-count if you could get HVFs whenever you wanted, you could get them without even committing, and you have the highest chance of being a girl’s first anyway. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/01/21 12:08 AM |
| 1 | Legalized prostitution will not dramatically change things between men and women like people on here implyThat’s not really the point. The point is that it would create a situation where more men are comfortable waiting for longer to find that partner. Every man wants a partner that has their back. But a guy who dated 40 women in his life to find that one may, with this technology, only have dated 10 because wanting to fuck them or whether they were hot or not would be less of a factor, if one at all. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/12/20 11:55 PM |
| 1 | If women don’t like nice guys or find them to be “boring”, does that mean it’s over for genuine nice guys?I mean duh, that’s part of it, nobody’s going to go out with someone they’re not attracted to. But simply being attractive or not isn’t the problem most guys run into. If you’re an average looking man who doesn’t get women, it’s because of you as a person. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/12/20 11:44 PM |
| 20 | Had a look at the FDS instagram, the females that like the posts look exactly like I figured they would...Mixed race kids? There uhhh...something you wanna say OP? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/12/20 11:09 PM |
| -1 | Why Shouldn’t Women Be Hypergamous?This is only because What is “only because”? This statement doesn’t make sense in the context of mine. Don't worry, as a neutral third party, I assure you it's still mostly nonsense. Yeah, because you definitely sound like a neutral party /s. You can’t find an objectively false statement in what they wrote. You personally disagreeing with them is a completely different thing, and you’d probably do well to recognize that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/12/20 05:31 AM |
| 1 | Are men able to describe the behaviors they're exhibiting when they say "being an asshole" worked for them when attracting women?Hahahaha, what can I say, the red side of the force is powerful. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/12/20 03:35 AM |
| 1 | Are men able to describe the behaviors they're exhibiting when they say "being an asshole" worked for them when attracting women?I know, that’s my point lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/12/20 03:28 AM |
| 3 | Are men able to describe the behaviors they're exhibiting when they say "being an asshole" worked for them when attracting women?I mean...not in this sub lol. Look through every guy who has said that in this thread, and how they describe their actions. One dude said he tells the woman to hold his drinks while he talks to other women. Another said when he invites a girl out, he drinks the closest guy’s drink in front of them simply because he’s a bigger dude and knows the other guy won’t do anything about it. I think If you’ve just dropped most of your “beta” traits (like me for example), you’ll describe it something like … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/12/20 02:43 AM |
| 1 | Why Shouldn’t Women Be Hypergamous?An accurate, balanced take? On r/purplepilldebate?? What dimension am I in?? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/12/20 02:36 AM |
| 2 | Are men able to describe the behaviors they're exhibiting when they say "being an asshole" worked for them when attracting women?Not true at all lol. Like one of the top comments said, having a balance will get you the most women. But at the same time, being an asshole will get you more women than being a nice guy. It’s not that being an asshole puts you in first place, it just puts you above third, which is all a lot of women require. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/12/20 02:29 AM |
| 0 | Are men able to describe the behaviors they're exhibiting when they say "being an asshole" worked for them when attracting women?Nah...the reason women like assholes is because of what OP said, because they like the positive traits that assholes have over the positive traits nice guys have. What you’re describing only works on a relatively small amount of women who’re either very young or extremely insecure. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/12/20 02:24 AM |
| 4 | Are men able to describe the behaviors they're exhibiting when they say "being an asshole" worked for them when attracting women?You say “it’s all bullshit” and then go on to write about a situation completely unrelated to OP’s statement. What you wrote doesn’t seem relevant, you just sound hurt. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/12/20 02:20 AM |
| 1 | Are men able to describe the behaviors they're exhibiting when they say "being an asshole" worked for them when attracting women?Get engaged in something you love. Whether it be your job, a hobby, or just something you like to do. Shit, I know gamers that kill it with women simply because they’re so engrossed in a game, they’re barely thinking about anything else. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/12/20 02:16 AM |
| 5 | Are men able to describe the behaviors they're exhibiting when they say "being an asshole" worked for them when attracting women?It's a shame that men instantly perceive a man exuting confidence and maybe on occasion being especially forward as being an ass hole. No, what that person is saying is that men see guys who are assholes get a lot of women because they’re exhibiting the behaviors that women like. What men don’t understand is that the other behaviors the asshole guy has that women don’t like aren’t a part of her attraction to him. It’s like if most people you met who’re rich were assholes. If you didn’t know any … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/12/20 02:09 AM |
| 5 | Are men able to describe the behaviors they're exhibiting when they say "being an asshole" worked for them when attracting women?Jesus, “Red God” is right lmao. I’ve never seen someone break women’s attraction down correctly and then someone still going “nah, it’s this way” lol. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/12/20 01:59 AM |
| 0 | If women don’t like nice guys or find them to be “boring”, does that mean it’s over for genuine nice guys?Women don’t “find” nice guys boring, nice guys just happen to usually be boring. You can be nice and also not be boring, which will get you as many girls as a non-nice guy. Source: I am a nice guy who simply stopped being boring and started getting hella chicks, and that doesn’t even include the girls I got out of the friendzone with. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/12/20 05:46 PM |
| 1 | Men shouldn't blame women for the lack of male solidarity in society. Men should rely on men for help instead of expecting women to solve their emotional and psychological problemsLol, men want women to satisfy their sexual needs, that's usually about it. Everything else is the fault of our society as a whole, both genders. Most men aren't singling women out for this. And most of us aren't envious of women's sisterhood, especially since even women admit even the deepest female friendships are usually mostly surface level. Matter of fact, all I hear from women is how envious they are of male friendships because of how genuine they usually are. Overall, it seems like you're… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/12/20 09:12 PM |
| 1 | If you care about low n count or no n count, what are you doing to attract a person like that?Thats...why I clarified? Tf lol? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/12/20 04:14 PM |
| 2 | If you care about low n count or no n count, what are you doing to attract a person like that?I mean yeah. I ask women all the time why tf they like guys lol. We’re garbage. And I’m not one of these pseudo male feminist cucks who’re virtue signaling or trying to get women to sleep with him. I genuinely feel like if I was girl, I’d be a lesbian. I love being a dude, and tbh, I like all the double standards that are in our favor. But I can’t imagine having sexual feelings for a guy. We’re dirty, we’re aggressive, we’re obsessed with sex, etc. I guess it’s because we lack estrogen that I fe… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/12/20 01:17 PM |
| 7 | Playing too hard to get is a sign of narcissism.But when you are making me run after you all the time. When you want me to text you good morning everyday, and pursue you 25/7. Hint: Contrary to what she may tell you, she doesn’t want actually want you to do that. Redpills are right twice a day homie. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/12/20 12:12 PM |
| 1 | If you care about low n count or no n count, what are you doing to attract a person like that?A bunch of reasons. How popular it is, the cost, the way they view women who do it, etc. I don’t literally mean just the existence of legal prostitution. I mean a perfect application of it according to the average man. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/12/20 11:12 AM |
| 1 | If you care about low n count or no n count, what are you doing to attract a person like that?Frirst of all, I wasn’t referring to myself. Second, even if I was referring to myself, I don’t literally mean “can’t.” Third, even if I did literally mean can’t ,there are always oddities out there. There are girls that don’t have periods, there are ducks that don’t have webbed feet. These individuals have nothing to do with the majority. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/12/20 11:06 AM |
| 3 | If you care about low n count or no n count, what are you doing to attract a person like that?That’s what I’m saying, that’s part of it. If you can find a girl like that who, for whatever reason, you’re sure is looking primarily at you everyday, and also isn’t showing everything to everybody (if that’s an issue), then by all means. Like you said, that’s rare though. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/12/20 10:57 PM |
| 1 | If you care about low n count or no n count, what are you doing to attract a person like that?You need to relax dude. I’m not hyped. Which is funny because you just mentioned misinterpretation with intent on Reddit. Though I’m not saying your assumption is unfounded. I was trying to be funny with the bolded texts. Me misinterpreting your statements because we’re texting on reddit is not the same as me having some obsession with wanting you to be who you’re not lmfao. I didn’t say you were obsessed, nor do I think you are. Why would I care about that, I don’t even know you. It’s Reddit, i… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/12/20 09:43 PM |
| 1 | If you care about low n count or no n count, what are you doing to attract a person like that?Respect 👊 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/12/20 09:18 PM |
| 2 | If you care about low n count or no n count, what are you doing to attract a person like that?You never explicitly said it’s an excuse but you used it as a defense Except I didn’t use it as an excuse. That person said what men should do, I simply told them why we don’t. No personal feelings about it one way or another, not even a suggestion of what I think we should do. You put that on me, not me. What’s not a direct correlation? I’m saying that from my experience, so many of the men who want a modest woman are sexist themselves, treat women like objects Well now you’re changing the whol… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/12/20 09:13 PM |
| 2 | If you care about low n count or no n count, what are you doing to attract a person like that?There are tons of things in our evolution that we can use as an excuse to be violent, stupid, unproductive...they’re all lame excuses....we have a society with well-developed social conditioning/laws for a reason. I mean, did I say it was an excuse? Matter of fact, elsewhere in the thread I said the exact opposite. It’s pathetic that men will say “I want a low N count woman but I’m not a low N count men, Idk how that’s “pathetic” per se since that’s not a direct correlation, especially since stu… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/12/20 08:50 PM |
| 1 | If you care about low n count or no n count, what are you doing to attract a person like that?Then why say this as if it’s an excuse? That person and I were talking about feeling like that. Men can’t help but feel that way. Nobody said anything about acting on it. Matter of fact, if you bothered to look, elsewhere in this thread I even said “I mean...I’m not saying women should treat us any differently because of it. Monogamy is not natural to humans, especially men, but at the same time I don’t think that means you should just let your man have sex with other women lol. I just made a st… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/12/20 08:31 PM |
| 1 | If you care about low n count or no n count, what are you doing to attract a person like that?You think he’s moping around miserable with her n count on his mind all the time? I mean, what is your definition of all the time? Every moment of every day? No. Even close to that? No. But almost every time something sexual happens between them, or she even mentions a guy that’s not her family member, I’d say probably. Most of us are insecure little bitches like that about n-counts. At least before marriage level commitment. Something where we know we now own you sexually. That’s why our societ… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/12/20 08:23 PM |
| 3 | If you care about low n count or no n count, what are you doing to attract a person like that?You are using “male hormones” in the same way. Uhhh I’m using male hormones in the way that biologists, psychologists, and sociologist have taught us they work? Tf lol? Humans are the way we are because we are not slaves to every impulse the moment it arrives. I didn’t say we were Self control is a thing as well as choosing not to continue despite being horny. I didn’t say this wasn’t the case. Like, what are these strawmen lol. That person seemed to not understand why men don’t generally priori… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/12/20 08:08 PM |
| 5 | If you care about low n count or no n count, what are you doing to attract a person like that?No. Watch actions not words. What is that, a phrase to be hung in a doorway of a perpetually single woman lol? That doesn’t mean anything. Someone acting against their feelings has happened an infinite number of times, thousands within the interactions of your life alone. If it was a big deal, he wouldn’t be able to compromise. Yet he does. I’d say people compromise over big deals all the time. A “big deal” is subjective. You feel like it’s something you literally can’t move around because you c… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/12/20 07:57 PM |
| 5 | If you care about low n count or no n count, what are you doing to attract a person like that?DNA FOH that’s bullshit rationalisation of something you have been trained to be disgusted at. Who’s disgusted at what, and why now? I hate this bullshit biology argument guys here use to justify their own “icky” feels. If science is bullshit, then ok lol. Idk what else you wanna hear. You are an emotional man. Accept it. Embrace it. I never said this wasn’t the case. Biology influences emotions as well. Did you think I meant we just turn in to robots everytime we get horny lol? Saying ”DNA” is … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/12/20 07:50 PM |
| 4 | If you care about low n count or no n count, what are you doing to attract a person like that?Nah, we think it’s a big deal, we just don’t have as much control over the situation as we’d like to. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/12/20 07:45 PM |
| 6 | If you care about low n count or no n count, what are you doing to attract a person like that?Says you. Well yeah you’re right. I go on later to say it’s anecdotal. It depends on who it is and who they’re talking to. No. Women are crystal clear on this and men spread misinformation for sport. Ehhh here, you’re going into the same bias territory you just chastised me for lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/12/20 07:44 PM |
| 4 | If you care about low n count or no n count, what are you doing to attract a person like that?Got you. I thought you were arguing against what I was saying. Yeah the modus operandi assumption is such a huge thing in the way we interact sexually. For both genders. I always think about that when how the first thing a girl asks when cheated on is “Do you love her”, and the first thing a guy asks when cheated on is “Did you have sex with him”. The way we think or what we prioritize, and the way we assume the other thinks is so different, it’s crazy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/12/20 07:40 PM |
| 2 | If you care about low n count or no n count, what are you doing to attract a person like that?Can you word that differently for me? I’m having trouble understanding exactly what you mean. What I’m saying is that men often, way more often then women, have sex with people they don’t want to be in a relationship with. So in response to OP’s comment of “if that’s the case, then why don’t these guys act like that in the beginning”, I’m saying that those guys either only want to have sex with you so your n-count doesn’t matter, or they’re (at least in their minds) unattractive enough that they… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/12/20 07:31 PM |
| 2 | If you care about low n count or no n count, what are you doing to attract a person like that?I mean...I’m not saying women should treat us any differently because of it. Monogamy is not natural to humans, especially men, but at the same time I don’t think that means you should just let your man have sex with other women lol. I just made a statement, I wasn’t implying it should mean anything. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/12/20 05:34 PM |
| 8 | If you care about low n count or no n count, what are you doing to attract a person like that?while you wank it to porn or pay sex workers. I’ve actually been saying for years as soon as either prostitution becomes legal or sex robots close enough to the real thing become ubiquitous, society, and more specifically male sexual relationships, will see a dramatic shift. If men can have sex with basically whoever they want, in whichever way they want, 24/7, it’ll turn a complete 180 where almost every relationship is almost solely based on personal compatibility. Which will obviously result … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/12/20 05:30 PM |
| 10 | If you care about low n count or no n count, what are you doing to attract a person like that?Mmmm idk about that. This is anecdotal obviously, but every girl I’ve ever known, at least somewhat, strives to be the ideal version of what they think their ideal man wants. But then in turn gets mad on the occasion that he views presenting as promiscuous, unattractive. And then will usually outright say “men want XY and Z, but then shame me for doing XY and Z.” And I tell them, like i said earlier, he wants to have sex with XY and Z, he doesn’t want to be with X, Y, and Z. If you asked 5 rando… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/12/20 05:07 PM |
| 1 | Women who live a promiscuous lifestyle before settling down are doing nothing wrong – *except* for adamantly believing that their promiscuity doesn't matter.True shit. Reality sucks like that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/12/20 04:58 PM |
| -3 | If you care about low n count or no n count, what are you doing to attract a person like that?We can’t, it’s in our DNA. Our primary genetic drive is literally to ejaculate into as many physically viable women as possible. Relatively speaking, we care about little else. Getting a better job is to make more money, which is partially to have sex with better looking women, furthering our education is mostly to get a better job which is to make more money, which is partially to have sex with better looking women. Literally almost everything we do at least somewhat revolves around that. Witho… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/12/20 04:53 PM |
| 13 | If you care about low n count or no n count, what are you doing to attract a person like that?Are you being frank when you’re vetting potential partners and bringing up this pressing concern you have within the first few dates? The average man doesn’t have the same sexual opportunities as the average woman. Most men may feel this way, but at the same time, most of us aren’t going to straight up deny an opportunity for sex because of it. And to the other part of that question, that’s what that is. The majority of women may go in to dating to find a life partner. That’s the case for a sign… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/12/20 03:20 PM |
| 1 | Women who live a promiscuous lifestyle before settling down are doing nothing wrong – *except* for adamantly believing that their promiscuity doesn't matter.I agree. Morally I don’t think it’s wrong, but I feel like the girl is wrong in assuming that men “should” or “do” feel the same way. Unfortunately for women, a woman’s sexual history matters to men and no amount of wishing it wasn’t the case or shaming men who feel that way will change that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/12/20 07:05 AM |
| 1 | I don’t think most people compare past partners to their current partners all that much.This comes down to men viewing sex as you giving all of yourself to someone. We can’t handle that feeling like the case, but then us not being the best the best you’ve had in return. We’ve got fragile ass egos lol, me included. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/12/20 11:58 PM |
| 8 | Perspective on how RP came to be and what fuels their fireRedpills exist imo because of simple math. Men heavily favor logic over emotion. We understand female attraction like a videogame. If you have the most trait points, a girl will choose you. On the outside, it seems to be that the clearest way to achieve the most trait points is to fall into the tropes of the typical nice guy. What we fail to realize is that it’s not just about getting the trait points, it’s also about what they are. So for instance, a nice guy will have 12 positive traits and a … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/12/20 11:45 AM |
| 1 | "Simp culture" is being normalized to benefit OnlyFans creators & Twitch streamers to the detriment of everyone elseOooo gotcha | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/12/20 09:13 PM |
| 1 | "Simp culture" is being normalized to benefit OnlyFans creators & Twitch streamers to the detriment of everyone elseNah, you’re right that’s true. I was looking at it from a selfish perspective. At the end of the day, we should be looking for everyone to be the best they can be, and being a simp is objectively not that, at least imo | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/12/20 10:06 AM |
| 2 | "Simp culture" is being normalized to benefit OnlyFans creators & Twitch streamers to the detriment of everyone elseSo wouldn’t that be a good thing for anyone who’s not a simp? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/12/20 09:31 AM |
| 2 | "Simp culture" is being normalized to benefit OnlyFans creators & Twitch streamers to the detriment of everyone elseMy dumbass read it as “increase the scarcity of desirable partners for men” 🙄. But ok, even with what you’re saying, why is that a bad thing? I mean, they’re able to simp (and it seems like they’re satisfied with just that) while other guys have a better chance at actually dating these women. Everybody wins right? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/12/20 09:09 AM |
| 1 | "Toxic Masculinity" is not itself a set of negative masculine traits, but rather, poorly acted out traditional male characteristics.Right, hence the name “toxic” masculinity. Toxic masculinity is, inherently, toxic lol. The problem is that people label parts of masculinity that aren’t toxic, as toxic. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/12/20 04:36 AM |
| 1 | CMV: Women who get pumped and dumped just haven't worked hard enough on themselvesAlright, the questions I can do So, about post nut clarity: does it work the same way if you just rub one out to a picture of said girl instead of having to use her body? Yes, it’s the same every time a guy orgasms regardless of the reason. Why I say it usually happens during sex is because it only last a few minutes, so he would need to be physically around you to know. And technically he could just masturbate in your bathroom or something and it would have the same effect, but idk what boyfrie… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/12/20 02:57 AM |
| 1 | CMV: Women who get pumped and dumped just haven't worked hard enough on themselvesIt’s really not. If it was just a lazy reply, I wouldn’t have asked you to elaborate. I’ve read the whole thing, it’s all over the place, your jumping to a different point literally every sentence. But if you’re too lazy to clarify yourself, then I’m not gunna beg you lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/12/20 05:17 PM |
| 0 | CMV: Women who get pumped and dumped just haven't worked hard enough on themselvesThat whole statement just came off really manic. It’s all over the place and jumping from issue to issue. What’re you trying to say here? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/12/20 02:50 AM |
| 1 | CMV: Women who get pumped and dumped just haven't worked hard enough on themselvesI said a 1/10th as much lol. Meaning if you had to spend the time/money/etc., you wouldn’t feel anywhere near as bad if you fucked at the end. You can always cut your losses early if you want. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/12/20 07:46 PM |
| 2 | CMV: Women who get pumped and dumped just haven't worked hard enough on themselvesWell conveniency has nothing to do with truth. Humans are polygamous by nature, none of this shit that society has forced on us is natural. And when that happens, you have to give up certain things. A guy simply cannot know how he truly feels about you romantically until after he’s had sex with you once. And it doesn’t even necessarily have to be penis-in-vagina sex, as long as you’ve made him orgasm in some way. It’s not fair, and it’s pretty shitty, I’m not saying it’s not. But that’s how it i… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/12/20 07:26 PM |
| 1 | CMV: Women who get pumped and dumped just haven't worked hard enough on themselvesUhhh...that’s what guys do all the time lol. If we eventually fuck, do we really care even a 1/10th as much how long it took? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/12/20 07:03 PM |
| 0 | CMV: Women who get pumped and dumped just haven't worked hard enough on themselvesThat’s literally how our biology works. It’s where the term “post-nut clarity” that everybody’s using now comes from. It’s like going from super horny, to the least horny you’ve ever been in your entire life in a matter of seconds, and it happens literally every time we ejaculate. That’s also why we can’t get it back up for a while afterward, we literally feel 0 sexual desire. And so it’s only in that moment where you realize whether you actually want to be with a woman or you were just sexually… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/12/20 06:59 PM |
| 3 | CMV: Women who get pumped and dumped just haven't worked hard enough on themselvesIf that’s supposed to be the “correct” behavior, then someone’s gotta be punished for it somewhere down the line. One of the problems with society today is that nobody wants to be in the group where the line stops. If you fuck casually as a female, you’re almost guaranteed to be pumped and dumbed a good percentage of the time. It’s it fair? No. But that’s what you’ve signed up for and there’s really nothing you can do about it other than either making him wait to the point where 90% of guys woul… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/12/20 06:53 PM |
| 2 | What is "bluepill" philosophy exactly? What beliefs are associated with being "bluepilled"?Lmao, you haven’t lied once | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/12/20 06:15 AM |
| 1 | What is "bluepill" philosophy exactly? What beliefs are associated with being "bluepilled"?Oo no, if you’re giving it to everyone equally, we’re straight. I feel the same way. Although in this particular case, fyi it’s not about a group being called All Lives Matter, it’s about being frustrated at generations of systemic oppression. Tbh honest that being the case, white Americans not on board should be glad shit like that is all BLM people do. We’re all the same, we’re all human. ALM people would do the exact same had they been in that situation. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/12/20 04:50 AM |
| 2 | What is "bluepill" philosophy exactly? What beliefs are associated with being "bluepilled"?You’re...making fun of the people not in the group created solely for opposition 😂?? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/12/20 04:19 AM |
| 1 | What is "bluepill" philosophy exactly? What beliefs are associated with being "bluepilled"?Is "blue pill" merely just a label for those who oppose TRP? Basically. It’s no different then All Lives Matter | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/12/20 12:27 AM |
| 15 | Why do some beautiful women become sex workers instead of marrying a rich provider?Why do some women want their own money instead of having to ask someone else every time lol? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/11/20 05:59 PM |
| 1 | CMV: The increasing gap in the dating world is more a narrative of increasing autism/aspergers syndrome than looksismEven if we're assuming you're right, "A lot" doesn't necessarily equate to "most" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/11/20 02:40 AM |
| 0 | Marriageable men do care about N-countSo now you’ve expanded it allllll the way to women in college. In Florida. 😑 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/11/20 04:04 PM |
| 0 | Marriageable men do care about N-countYou did not just seriously compare a specific situation in a specific place to all of men and women. C’mon fam lol...Are you redpilling or trolling? Cause it’s gotta be one of them | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/11/20 03:51 PM |
| 1 | Marriageable men do care about N-countFrat boys, drug dealers, etc are usually the ones who are most successful when it comes to women. If you feel that way then we completely disagree on the premise of your point. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/11/20 03:46 PM |
| 2 | Marriageable men do care about N-countIt is true that the Chads, the men who never had dating issues, generally don't care as much (although there are many exceptions). They've always been dating, having sex with random women with little effort, and think it's normal for women to be doing the same. This group of men is tiny. Perfect breakdown This group of men also usually do not have the marriageable traits that average women want: conscientious, dependable, good career, respectful. We’ll see, that’s where I think you go wrong. I d… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/11/20 01:51 PM |
| 3 | When does height start working against you?Their parents moved, what? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/11/20 04:52 AM |
| 2 | When does height start working against you?I’m gunna be the first one to actually answer this question and say...5’7? I think that might be where a girl sees a guy and says in her mind “Oo he’s noticeably shorter than a lot of other men I see”. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/11/20 04:51 AM |
| 2 | When does height start working against you?Men aren’t anywhere near as shallow as women. It’s not even close. Because 99% of us don’t have the option to be otherwise. Don’t kid yourself. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/11/20 04:49 AM |
| 8 | When does height start working against you?You would think that, but that’s not the case. I’ve heard women plenty of times talk about how short a guy is while simultaneously being half a foot smaller than him. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/11/20 04:41 AM |
| -1 | When does height start working against you?Dude, you’re arguing against facts lol. There are tons of short guys that have top tier women. Now, relative to tall guys it might not be a lot, but it’s not like it’s anywhere close to impossible | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/11/20 04:38 AM |
| 7 | When does height start working against you?They’re referring to people who work for it, not that that they deserve something simply for being a minority. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/11/20 04:36 AM |
| 7 | Men in general are much more of a slut than women.What does that have to do with whether it's used as an insult or not? If the only responses you have to my original statement continue to be strawmen, you should probably think next time before you begin with something as arrogant and douchebagey as: "People here don't seem to understand the subtleties of language" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/11/20 06:58 PM |
| 4 | Men in general are much more of a slut than women.I’m not saying that’s not the case. I’m talking about how it’s used. When it’s used by the initial labeler, it’s almost always used as an insult. What that means afterward, and what other women then take it as, is irrelevant to what I’m saying. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/11/20 04:12 PM |
| 10 | Men in general are much more of a slut than women.That fact that it was created with a negative connotation makes that objectively not true. Most women who use that term do so as a pejorative, I don’t know where you got anything else from. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/11/20 04:05 PM |
| 1 | Why do so many men believe that women prefer partners that treat them bad.u/Mobrowncheeks is explaining it pretty well | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/10/20 07:38 PM |
| 1 | Why do so many men believe that women prefer partners that treat them bad.Bam, you got it chief | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/10/20 07:38 PM |
| 3 | Why do so many men believe that women prefer partners that treat them bad.Think of it like a video game. Let’s say Bad boys have 8 positive traits and good guys have 12 positive traits. Now 12 is obviously more than 8, but because of a lot of factors (media, tradition, Disney, etc.) what men don’t know is that each of the bad boy’s positive traits are worth 2 points whereas the good guy’s are worth 1. Most women either aren’t self aware enough to know this themselves or don’t want to vocalize it for fear of being demonized by society (slut shaming). The goal of the “g… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/10/20 03:10 PM |
| 23 | Why do so many men believe that women prefer partners that treat them bad.That’s the real answer. Think of it like a video game. Let’s say Bad boys have 8 positive traits and good guys have 12 positive traits. Now 12 is obviously more than 8, but because of a lot of factors (media, tradition, Disney, etc.) what men don’t know is that each of the bad boy’s positive traits are worth 2 points whereas the good guy’s are worth 1. Most women either aren’t self aware enough to know this themselves or don’t want to vocalize it for fear of being demonized by society (slut sham… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/10/20 03:10 PM |
| 8 | The fastest swipe for financially stable men.I mean there’s nothing wrong with being that, or even being a father figure if that’s what you want. I don’t think it’d be hell on earth like others are saying, and if it is you can always just break up with them. Get your dick wet if that’s what you’re going for bro, no shame in that! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/10/20 03:57 PM |
| 2 | Were incels right all along?They’re right in their ideas but wrong in their methods. Like everything wrong with women today sucks, but you don’t just become angry and bitter because of it. Play the game to the best of your abilities. Plus recognize, dudes are fucked up to, maybe even more so. If you’re handsome, maximize that advantage, if you’re not, focus on getting rich. And either way, cultivate an actual personality. It’s not like sex robots won’t be life-like in <20 years anyway. If you’re rich, you’ll be first in li… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/10/20 03:48 PM |
| 17 | The fastest swipe for financially stable men.Nah, what they’re saying is at a certain point the mom expects you to be the father figure but doesn’t give you the full authority to discipline. And it’s not even just a male thing. My godmother raised me along with my father when I lost my mom at 6. She said the toughest part was not being able to go too hard on me when I deserved it because my father wouldn’t let her. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/10/20 03:40 PM |
| 2 | Old, fat, and ugly woman feels personally insulted that an Indian man has the nerve to write her a nice message 😂 Never forget that women are the most shallow, entitled, and racist people alive! Thinking they can be choosers when they're the biggest beggars alive 😂You forgot white. That’s most likely the real core to this whole issue. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/10/20 04:55 AM |
| 9 | Low SMV women are all sharing the same Chads in pseudo-harems, because they would rather be cheated on and treated like trash by an alpha than be seen in public with their actual looksmatch.Is the pseudo-harem thing usually a conscious behavior or an unconscious one for girls? Do they recognize they’re doing it and are just in denial? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/10/20 06:29 AM |
| 7 | [CMV] Hypergamy is a human trait, not a female traitRight, because literally more men are aware of her existence through fame. But if they knew about her somehow without her being famous, they would still be acting the same way. What that person was trying to say is that being a celebrity doesn’t, or barely does, effect how hot the average man thinks a woman is. On the other hand, purely being a celebrity generally has the potential to make a man significantly hotter to a woman. That’s the difference they’re trying to point out. Women care signif… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/10/20 12:06 PM |
| 1 | Promiscuous women are more incompetent, cold, and unstable, according to womenI don’t think so I honestly don’t think partner count matters that much to be honest I think when a man wants to marry a woman nobody can tell him anything. Seriously he won’t even care what his friends think. I agree, but he has to get to that point though. Nobody’s saying if the dude is already in love with the woman, he won’t marry her just because of that. What I’m speaking of are the chances that they’ll get to that point in the first place. It’s the same reason why “hitting and quitting” i… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/10/20 05:41 AM |
| 1 | Promiscuous women are more incompetent, cold, and unstable, according to womenBut you said men don’t want to marry hoes I’m just saying in theory I’m sure that’s true in reality not so much. Men (as in most men), prefer not to marry women (as in most women) who’re hoes. Most men and women are not celebrities lol. That’s a whole separate thing with people that have a whole different mentality than a regular person. but some men really will and some of those men are even wealthy so it shouldn’t be a shock that some women would emulate hoes to attract men just like some men … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/10/20 02:39 AM |
| 1 | Promiscuous women are more incompetent, cold, and unstable, according to womenots of men marry hoes. Cardi B is married. Amber Rose got married. Anna Nicole Smith and Pamela Anderson got married. You just named all women who have been divorced as well. Two to more than one man, and one who got married this January and literally got divorced by February lol. So maybe women see that men (rich men at that) also marry the Jessica Rabbits of the world and decided to follow suit. Possibly. But I mean celebrities live a whole different type of life. Getting married and divorced … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/10/20 10:09 AM |
| 1 | Promiscuous women are more incompetent, cold, and unstable, according to womenThis is definitely false otherwise every man would’ve just married a girl if he took her virginity which a lot of guys don’t do which is how women end up back on the market as not virgins. You just made that connection out of thin air lol. I said being virgin was a big factor, I didn’t say it was the only factor, and I specifically said it wasn’t the biggest, so what are you even talking about? Men do not just commit to virgins. I mean, true or untrue, that has nothing to do with her specificall… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/10/20 12:01 AM |
| 1 | Promiscuous women are more incompetent, cold, and unstable, according to womenOo shit, have I really been wasting my time on one of those people? Jesus Christ, you guys need a sign or something. “The world is how I want it to be and nobody or evidence will change that fact” Jesus Christ, blocked. Have a good day. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/10/20 12:50 PM |
| 1 | Promiscuous women are more incompetent, cold, and unstable, according to womenThis here is assuming that dudes want the virgin girl based solely on virginity. NO IT’S NOT This is what I’m trying to tell you, and you’re not trying to accept it lmao. Do you understand you’re telling me what I meant lol? That’s not what I’m saying at all. I’m saying there are a lot of guys in this sub that legitimately prefer virgins over non-virgins because she was suggesting otherwise. That’s it, that’s all. So tell me, if you agreed with my premise in the first place that other factors ar… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/10/20 12:32 PM |
| 1 | Promiscuous women are more incompetent, cold, and unstable, according to womenYES I THINK THATS WHAT THEY’RE DOING lmao I’ve been trying to tell you for the last, idk how long, that I agree with you that that’s the case. What I’m saying is that nobody’s saying that’s not the case You’re the only one saying men don’t think they feel that way, men aren’t saying that they don’t feel that way. If you asked the men out of the 60,000 members of this sub whether virginity by itself makes a girl attractive enough to date, probably 20 of them would say yes. This is the last time I… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/10/20 12:18 PM |
| 1 | Promiscuous women are more incompetent, cold, and unstable, according to womenAlright, well im done. Up top you're making levels of generalizations that make having a rational discussion impossible, and down low you're telling me that im saying something that's the complete opposite of what im actually saying. I can't have a conversation like that, but I hope you have a good day. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/10/20 11:12 AM |
| 1 | Promiscuous women are more incompetent, cold, and unstable, according to womenthey don’t because said virgin girl doesn’t meet their criteria. I mean,...maybe somewhere else, but in the specific thread line we're in? I disagree. I don't see anywhere where she said that. But, let's just say for argument's sake that's what she meant right? I would agree with her. But what you're saying would still be wrong. Men aren't saying that that's the only thing that matters or that you don't have to meet other criteria first. That's what you're assuming they're saying. And you're ass… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/10/20 10:31 AM |
| 1 | Promiscuous women are more incompetent, cold, and unstable, according to womenShe said Nobody wants "the virgin girl". What you're saying is that that there are other criteria for a man to want a woman, and what im saying is that nobody's saying there's not. Im saying that that's irrelevant to the conversation. Im not arguing that men only care about virginity, im saying this sub is full of men who desire "the virgin girl" as opposed to "not the virgin girl". Her meeting or not meeting other criteria is outside of the conversation. Do you see what im saying? I called it a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/10/20 09:46 AM |
| 1 | Promiscuous women are more incompetent, cold, and unstable, according to womenhave to be meeting other criteria for virginity to matter. But nobody's saying it is, is what im saying. What you're arguing is a logical fallacy known as a strawman. I'd be willing to bet money that there's not a single dude in this sub who feels as though, or has even said, simply being a virgin is enough. You may indeed feel that way because youve extrapolated that based on what men haven't said, but that's not the same as them saying something. If the only thing you ever hear me say is that … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/10/20 09:24 AM |
| 1 | Promiscuous women are more incompetent, cold, and unstable, according to womenI literally just explained it to you. Being a virgin is the most surefire way of having a low n-count. That's why men value it highly. It's not the only way. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/10/20 08:54 AM |
| 2 | Promiscuous women are more incompetent, cold, and unstable, according to womenNot sure why men on this sub act like the criteria is virginity. They're acting like having a low n-count is make-or-break criteria, which it often is. There's a difference. Virginity is just the surest way of meeting that specific criteria. just a bonus. It's not "just" anything. It can be and often is the deciding factor. You still have to meet the criteria, but the criteria is just not being a bitch while also not being unattractive. That's like 75+% of women. You're speaking about it like it… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/10/20 08:49 AM |
| 2 | Promiscuous women are more incompetent, cold, and unstable, according to womenIf the rest of her was average, they 1000% would. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/10/20 08:27 AM |
| 1 | Promiscuous women are more incompetent, cold, and unstable, according to womenSome of them do. A lot of them just want a girl who hasn't had any sexual partners. As a dude who cares about n-count but doesn't care that much, that by itself without the somehow still sexually experienced part, is important for the majority of men. It's just how you're usually wired if you're a guy that wasn't born a 9 or a 10 and therefore haven't been able to internalize that a girl's n-count really doesn't and shouldn't matter. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/10/20 08:23 AM |
| 5 | Promiscuous women are more incompetent, cold, and unstable, according to womenYou all keep saying this but it is not true at all in reality. Nobody wants the virgin girl. Do you understand you're in a sub filled with dudes that want that specific girl? Like, tf are you talking about lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/10/20 06:48 AM |
| 2 | Q4All: What’s disgusting about male sexuality?Her: All men lust after barely pubescent girls My last sentence: That’s not all men 😑 Definitely proved her point alright. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/10/20 11:06 PM |
| 3 | Q4All: What’s disgusting about male sexuality?Ummm yeah lol. But you could multiply that number by 2 and it’d still be nowhere near most men, which is the point. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/10/20 04:00 PM |
| 2 | Q4All: What’s disgusting about male sexuality?I mean if you don’t feel like there are tons of women who are physically attracted to the boys who have matured early (especially when, same as men, they’re not aware that they’re underage), we have nothing further to talk about. You’re just don’t live in reality. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/10/20 03:58 PM |
| 3 | Q4All: What’s disgusting about male sexuality?I mean I think OP is referring to something unique about males. What you just said still applies if the genders were reversed | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/10/20 03:41 PM |
| 6 | Q4All: What’s disgusting about male sexuality?What’s so difficult about telling women that a small group of men they,ve personally met, don’t represent all men? That’s not difficult at all. I mean unless those women are irrationally biased against men to begin with... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/10/20 03:39 PM |
| 1 | Q4All: What’s disgusting about male sexuality?How you attribute that to radical feminism is beyond me. How could you not? I mean if you’re stating what’s possible, sure, that’s a possibility, but that’s also a possibility for women. Female pedophiles 1000% exist, and not just toward little boys, there are lesbian ones as well. The question is what is disgusting about male sexuality. As in a sexual desire or action shared by most men that women generally aren’t aware of. Pedophilia isn’t one of them. And the only way you could think that wou… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/10/20 03:32 PM |
| 4 | Q4All: What’s disgusting about male sexuality?Every woman everywhere since time immemorial has felt the male leer when she grows the briefest hint of breasts. Yeah lmao...from creeps. Like other people have said to you, nobody’s saying this doesn’t happen. OP is talking about things that’re shared among most men. Subconsciously lusting after 12 year olds who just started to develop isn’t one of them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/10/20 03:27 PM |
| 1 | Do you require that your wife/future wife take your name?What I don’t think happens is that a man will offer to change his name when he also demands his wife take his last name because he thinks it’s disrespectful for the woman to keep her own name. I mean...yeah lol? I guess I misunderstood you, but don’t you think that statement speaks for itself? That’s like saying there are very few Christians willing to practice satanic rituals. The fact that you’re a Christian automatically puts you in that category no? Just like if you’re someone who demands a … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/10/20 03:34 PM |
| 2 | Do you require that your wife/future wife take your name?Say where I stated that. True Truth is relative to personal experienc and perception, what is true for me is not for your or anyone else. In an American divorce court, which statistically is what this person is referring to, the odds are disproportionately in a female’s favor regardless of outside factors. This is a fact, and an objectively negative one. Therefore, what I’m saying is that one shouldn’t toss it to the side as “whining”. It's one thing to refer to a niche or specific individuals, … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/10/20 03:21 PM |
| 1 | Do you require that your wife/future wife take your name?We think those things because of tradition. Our great great great great etc. grandfathers did it because they were patriarchal douchebags, but we, and every guy since then, just do it because that’s how we’ve been raised. Social conditioning. We feel like “that’s just the way things are”. And that concept isn’t just a male thing, most females feel the same way about things like getting married or having babies. It’s pumped into us from the time we’re babies just like it was our parents and their… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/10/20 03:04 PM |
| 2 | Do you require that your wife/future wife take your name?Yes. So why is a guys “line” ( that scientifically doesn’t exist ) matter more than a woman’s? It doesn’t...? Why does anyone get to dictate the validity of another human being based on “tradition”? Who said anything about someone’s validity as a person? What if the woman is the one that paid for everything, bought all the wedding related stuff, proposed, has a higher pay? Then her and her husband should have a discussion about who’s name to take, or if there should even be a name change at all.… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/10/20 02:28 PM |
| 0 | Do you require that your wife/future wife take your name?naturally assumed As long as you understand that’s an assumption, feel free to feel however you want I’ve never once heard of a couple swapping names for marriage. You personally have never once heard of or experienced 99.9% of things on this earth, and you would do well to recognize that. But feel free to link a a few wedding announcements or articles where this totally happened with several real human couples. Besides me just straight up having better things to do, that might take a minute to … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/10/20 02:22 PM |
| 1 | Do you require that your wife/future wife take your name?Technically That’s my point though. It’s not about technicality. And it’s not about DNA. When we’re talking about men’s feelings on this issue, we’re talking about genealogy. The whole spectrum, oral interviews and historical records even taking precedence over genetic analysis. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/10/20 02:13 PM |
| 1 | Do you require that your wife/future wife take your name?You honestly think I am but you’re not lmao?? Not being able to state truths, both positive and negative, because of social stigma is an objectively bad thing. The fact that you feel pointing out the differences with which divorce courts treat men and women is whining, doesn’t genuinely shock you? That’s no different than me telling the cops to stop disproportionately killing black people, and you saying “damn I wish you people would just pipe down”. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/10/20 02:07 PM |
| 1 | Do you require that your wife/future wife take your name?since he would never ever consider changing his name for her. So are we just grabbing sentiments from out of thin air or... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/10/20 02:00 PM |
| 1 | Do you require that your wife/future wife take your name?Oh that’s simple lmao, it has nothing to do with genetics. It’s about the lineage. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/10/20 01:57 PM |
| 2 | Do you require that your wife/future wife take your name?whining. Oooo, you absolutely do not wanna open up that can of worms. Like they said, it’s 2020, so people can no longer speak honestly about women in a negative light. But if we could...oh boy | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/10/20 01:53 PM |
| 5 | Why do some guys complain about women having it easy for being hot but then are the same people who give them attention online?Lmao, they’re asking why would they not think they’re hot shit if they’re getting hella attention from dudes who would be out of their league if the genders were switched. You can’t blame someone for having a big ego when all they’ve been shown is that they’re top tier | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/10/20 12:47 PM |
| 1 | CMV: As women are the pickiest sex, they should be expected to do the first love. Women should be taught from early on how to ask guys out and stop being passive.Women should be taught from early on how to ask guys out and stop being passive? For lmao? So now we’ll add asking out guys to the other skills like calculus and the dewey decimal system that women will never use after learning it. (We let) Vaginas run our society unfortunately homie. The only reason women used to hunt for men back in the day was because they were societally and financially at a disadvantage. These days, they’re becoming more and more equal everyday, while our biological instinc… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/09/20 05:31 AM |
| 3 | When all of your opinions about the opposite sex and dating comes from a sample size full of only teens and young adults in their 20s, you’re ALWAYS going to be disappointed, disgusted and angry. But isn’t that obvious?I think we can generally agree on most of what you said 😆. I think it’s just about how you value yourself as a woman. It sounds like you know your worth, you know what not to do, you know what men you like want you to do, and you know what men you could care less about want you to do that you’re still going to do regardless A very rational approach I’d say. I think what the guys in this sub are talking about, are girl’s who know how the game is played but get bitter when they start to approach t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/09/20 08:02 PM |
| 9 | When all of your opinions about the opposite sex and dating comes from a sample size full of only teens and young adults in their 20s, you’re ALWAYS going to be disappointed, disgusted and angry. But isn’t that obvious?I find men who had positive experiences dating in their twenties are way happier to settle down in their thirties with older women. Men who experience FOMO because they’re unattractive to the opposite sex are mad that 30 year old women DID have casual sex during their prime so they project their insecurities on these women. This is the ugly truth that as men, we don’t wanna hear. The chads enter their 30’s with 0 of those developed insecurities, which makes them even more attractive to women. Bu… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/09/20 06:41 AM |
| 1 | Women dont want less sex than men. They want less sex with YOU“Men will fuck women they don't like, women they aren't attracted to, and women who aren't good at sex” Less often What’s the difference between having sex once a week/month/whatever because you choose to vs. having sex once in that same time period because that’s all you can get? Just because your standards are lower doesn’t mean you automatically have sex more, especially when you’re talking about the disparity between men and women’s ability to get it | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/09/20 07:03 PM |
| 2 | CMV: Men are more emotional than women. Women are more emotive than men.100% | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/08/20 02:23 AM |
| 1 | Why Do Dudes Who Hate Insta-Models Follow Insta-Models?I would assume so (I’m not one of those dudes). That’s why I said you could argue it perpetuates the very thing they hate. But I’m pretty sure they just compartmentalize it to just looking at pictures of pretty girls. It’s 100% hypocritical, but I mean so is like 75% of everything all of us do everyday lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/08/20 05:19 PM |
| 2 | Why Do Dudes Who Hate Insta-Models Follow Insta-Models?Functionally what is the difference between saying she’s hot, and following her on Instagram? Girls might be different, but guys solely follow models to look at them. We could care less about their individual personality, or thoughts, or whatever. And most of them know that, which is why it’s usually just 24/7 bikini pics lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/08/20 05:13 PM |
| 3 | Why Do Dudes Who Hate Insta-Models Follow Insta-Models?That’s a pretty far off “pretty much” my friend. I’m curious as to why you don’t use the exact analogy I gave, since I doubt that’s one you feel like is a contradiction. Visual appeal has nothing to do with your like or dislike of said action. You could argue it perpetuates it, but it still makes sense regardless. What I’m saying with the examples you’re giving would be more akin to: “I hate reading, but I like the cover of that book” Or “Hot Topic looks pretty cool but I’d never go in there” | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/08/20 05:07 PM |
| 6 | Why Do Dudes Who Hate Insta-Models Follow Insta-Models?You guys are so off with this self hate, misogyny bs. Some dudes like Instagram models, but don’t like the act of Instagram modeling. It’s that simple. A girl can like looking at a sexy guy but also think he’s a self-absorbed douchebag at the same time. We have stop with this either-or fallacy stuff. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/08/20 03:35 PM |
| 2 | Q4All: How true is the idea that women give “bad” advice to their male Friends/family members?OP, this is your answer right here | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/08/20 12:42 AM |
| 1 | Ironically enough, the main reason why a woman might not have a partner is because of her personalityI think girls are pretty lucky in the sense that if a guy that’s not a 9-10 isn’t attracted to them, a girl can usually narrow it down to her physical appearance upkeep, hygiene, or personality. For dudes, you don’t know what could be wrong lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/07/20 01:52 AM |
| 2 | Why are men bothered that they wouldn't be a woman's first choice?Why do you people post here if you just want to get your shit off and not actually listen to people’s answers? You’re not actually asking, you have an agenda you wanna push and as soon as someone gives you a detailed explanation, you reduce it down to something easily dismissed and not the point of the responder. Go to r/rant for that shit man. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/07/20 01:04 AM |
| 1 | Do you mind if you're lover is bigger/same size and stronger than you?I dated a woman my height before and surprisingly it made me more confident about the relationship. The fact that I could pull her (she wasn’t unattractive by any stretch of the imagination) over every guy that was taller than us, spoke something to my subconscious ego | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/07/20 04:36 AM |
| 1 | The fact that men care about n-count at all shows that men are instinctively repulsed by committing mongamously to non-virgins; if they weren't, there would be no discussion about "what degree of past sexual activity" is tolerable. It would just be "past is past"He’s one of the most famous and handsome men on the planet, what do you mean “It works for DiCaprio” lmao? He can afford (literally and figuratively) to literally sift through the cream of the crop of women that age. Plus do we even know whether he’s happy doing that? He might be a masochist for all we know. And do we know for sure he wouldn’t be happier in the long run dating older women? Like, you can do you, I have no problems with it. But you can’t act like it’s definitively a better or equa… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/07/20 01:50 AM |
| 1 | The fact that men care about n-count at all shows that men are instinctively repulsed by committing mongamously to non-virgins; if they weren't, there would be no discussion about "what degree of past sexual activity" is tolerable. It would just be "past is past"Then you’re in for some rough times lol. We’re not in the 60’s, sociologists understand now that it takes those things from both parties for a relationship to succeed. And if someone cares about virginity enough to forever date sub 22 year olds (which even then is not even close to a guarantee), I think virginity is waaaay too important to them. Bordering on non-normalcy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/07/20 12:54 AM |
| 1 | The fact that men care about n-count at all shows that men are instinctively repulsed by committing mongamously to non-virgins; if they weren't, there would be no discussion about "what degree of past sexual activity" is tolerable. It would just be "past is past"I guess, but they also tend to be way more immature, and exactly how immature they are gets more and more apparent the older you are. Not to mention the likelihood they’re with you for something other than you growing as well. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/07/20 12:30 AM |
| 1 | The fact that men care about n-count at all shows that men are instinctively repulsed by committing mongamously to non-virgins; if they weren't, there would be no discussion about "what degree of past sexual activity" is tolerable. It would just be "past is past"While I agree in theory, what is the functional point of a preference if it’s likely you’ll never know either way? And again, I’m someone who cares about the number. I just know I’ll likely never know if she’s lying (which women have a solid reason for doing so) so I might as well not even ask. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/07/20 12:26 AM |
| 1 | The fact that men care about n-count at all shows that men are instinctively repulsed by committing mongamously to non-virgins; if they weren't, there would be no discussion about "what degree of past sexual activity" is tolerable. It would just be "past is past"I mean it’s all ignorance is bliss because again, she could easily lie and you could easily never find out. That’s why I think the whole conversation is inconsequential | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/07/20 12:19 AM |
| 8 | Female obesity/fatness is the number.1 reason for datelessness among men in English speaking countriesFirst of all, Americans don’t give af about what British men are doing lol. We really don’t. Also, what does a girl being white have to do with attractiveness? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/07/20 07:26 PM |
| 1 | The fact that men care about n-count at all shows that men are instinctively repulsed by committing mongamously to non-virgins; if they weren't, there would be no discussion about "what degree of past sexual activity" is tolerable. It would just be "past is past"An n-count is stupid and I say that as a guy who cares about it. First off, if it’s high, why tf did you ask her? Ignorance is bliss my dude. 2nd, if it’s low, she could easily have lied and there’s a 99% chance you’ll never find out. Do what most men subconsciously do. If she tells you she’s not a virgin, just imagine she had sex with one guy, she didn’t even like him that much, he was bad at it, and he was a bad boyfriend in general lol. Now if she’s had sex with guys you know or comes off rea… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/07/20 08:23 AM |
| 1 | Why Are So Many Dudes Here Worried About Raising Secret Cuck BabiesI agree with everything you’ve said except for the last sentence. There, I would say the opposite. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/07/20 04:31 PM |
| 1 | Why Are So Many Dudes Here Worried About Raising Secret Cuck BabiesI could google what? The link that doesn’t have a source or the one from 15 years ago that says anywhere from fucking 1% to 30% lmao. Do better. You guys are constantly googling your POV and linking the first thing that pops up. That’s shameful, and this is coming from a fellow man who is on your side. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/07/20 01:31 PM |
| 3 | Why Are So Many Dudes Here Worried About Raising Secret Cuck BabiesFirst of all, it’s widely noted that both of those groups are vastly underrepresented when it comes to recorded statistics. Secondly, if they were actually 3% and 1%, they would be uncommon. Also, nobody said those numbers didn’t have weight. I’m sure less than .01% of people are suicide bombers yet that type of shit changes how whole countries operate for decades. Again, doesn’t mean they’re common. Look at what I’m saying, not what you feel you can extrapolate about my thoughts from it | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/07/20 04:24 AM |
| 2 | Why Are So Many Dudes Here Worried About Raising Secret Cuck BabiesI’ve already addressed the second source multiple times, literally look in the comments. As for the first one, I don’t know whether you people just literally search your POV and copy the first link or what, but “it’s widely believed” is not a source. That article was terrible, not to mention it referenced studies from as far back as the 60’s as well as it being from 2002 itself. And the studies it did list, it even said other analysts in field were highly skeptical about the findings lol. Like w… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/07/20 03:21 AM |
| 3 | Why Are So Many Dudes Here Worried About Raising Secret Cuck BabiesAnd? You can put it in whatever terms you want lol. 20 kids in a pool of 1000 isn’t common, neither is 60 in a pool 3000. If you walked into 100 rooms and in 2 of them, the curtains were polka dotted, would you honestly say the polka dotted curtains were common? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/07/20 02:31 AM |
| 1 | Why Are So Many Dudes Here Worried About Raising Secret Cuck BabiesAlright | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/07/20 02:29 AM |
| 1 | Why Are So Many Dudes Here Worried About Raising Secret Cuck BabiesRight, but that’s why these things are put into percentages and not numbers, the other dude falsely tried to make this same argument lol How is 2.4 not uncommon in a pool of 300 😆?? Like, what’re we even talking about here? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/07/20 02:26 AM |
| 1 | Why Are So Many Dudes Here Worried About Raising Secret Cuck BabiesNever said it wasn’t. You claimed it wasn’t uncommon, which is what the argument is based on. Can’t just change it like now lol. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/07/20 02:11 AM |
| 3 | Why Are So Many Dudes Here Worried About Raising Secret Cuck BabiesOne says .8% to 30% with the median being 3.7%. The other says 2% to 12%. 10% is a huge discrepancy and if it is more towards 2%, that’s nowhere near common | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/07/20 02:09 AM |
| 0 | Why Are So Many Dudes Here Worried About Raising Secret Cuck BabiesUp too being the key phrase. 10% is a huge discrepancy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/07/20 02:05 AM |
| 4 | Why Are So Many Dudes Here Worried About Raising Secret Cuck BabiesAll of those except 2 are referencing the percentage of negative tests that have been taken. One says as little as .8% and the other (which doesn’t have a source btw) says as little as 5%. That’s uncommon bro | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/07/20 02:04 AM |
| 2 | Why Are So Many Dudes Here Worried About Raising Secret Cuck Babies☝️ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/07/20 01:37 AM |
| 1 | Why Are So Many Dudes Here Worried About Raising Secret Cuck BabiesIt says 2% to 12% lmao, in no way can you definitively call that common. And this is coming from someone on your side | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/07/20 01:37 AM |
| 3 | Why Are So Many Dudes Here Worried About Raising Secret Cuck BabiesSame as the other guy, source? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/07/20 01:35 AM |
| 2 | Why Are So Many Dudes Here Worried About Raising Secret Cuck BabiesSource? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/07/20 11:31 PM |
| 1 | Without male-thirst, men wouldn't care about womenare probably some of the thirsty men alive, First of all, obviously there’s your use of the word “probably”, which invalidates your statement as an argument. Second, tf gave you that impression lol? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/07/20 09:20 PM |
| 1 | Without male-thirst, men wouldn't care about womenBut like I already explained to you, what you see in the Middle East isn’t thirst. It’s specifically the lack of thirst. You’re making my argument for me | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/07/20 09:16 PM |
| 1 | Without male-thirst, men wouldn't care about womenWell when I say their religion says women aren’t as valuable, I mean most of them believe that a woman should be lucky to have a man, regardless of how he treats her. And you can imagine what that means for sex. So you can’t really relate being here, where women and therefore their vaginas, are seen as sexually more valuable than the average man, to there, where a women’s sexual value is just an afterthought to men. It’s not really that thirst hasn’t stopped it, so much as there isn’t really any… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/07/20 08:56 PM |
| 1 | Without male-thirst, men wouldn't care about womenReligion. The places where women are treated like that, their religion says matter of factly with no room for uncertainty “women are, and will always be, by nature, lower than men”. And in the past, the ones where women were treated like that but had no religion, society was dictated by who was the strongest. And the person that was the strongest, and for what reason, you could be sure of one thing: It wasn’t going to be a woman. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/07/20 08:40 PM |
| 0 | Without male-thirst, men wouldn't care about womenExactly | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/07/20 08:31 PM |
| 14 | Why Are So Many Dudes Here Worried About Raising Secret Cuck BabiesRight, and society has conditioned us to feel like scumbags if we suggest a DNA test or do one in secret. I heard some countries do one automatically or renig a birth Certificate if you end up finding out you’re not the father later or something | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/07/20 07:59 PM |
| 1 | Without male-thirst, men wouldn't care about womenCarry on living as we do anyways? You genuinely believe men largely not feeling like women are worth dealing with wouldn’t significantly effect women’s lives in any way? Like, even if the genders were flipped there, I wouldn’t make a claim as bold as guys would just keep “on living as we do anyways” lol. You act as if women cant survive without men viewing us as sex dolls, I didn’t say you wouldn’t survive, of course you would. we would probably benefit from a society where men arent constantly … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/07/20 07:28 PM |
| 1 | Without male-thirst, men wouldn't care about womenIt’s true. Men value sex Heterosexual Women value emotional support from the opposite sex If women haven’t achieved gender equality by the time either indistinguishable sex robots or legal std-free prostitution comes around, I genuinely don’t know wtf you guys are going to do ¯\_(ツ)_/¯ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/07/20 06:31 PM |
| 22 | Why Are So Many Dudes Here Worried About Raising Secret Cuck BabiesSure it’s uncommon, but if it happens it’s devastating. And I think that fear it’s inherent in all men, not just the ones in this sub, and it’s about any other guy being the father, not just a Chad | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/07/20 06:27 PM |
| 1 | Would you like to be in a world where female nudity wasn't as much of a big deal, but...ITT: A lot of women ignoring the implications of what OP said because they think they’re in that top 10% | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/07/20 06:20 PM |
| 1 | Question 4 all. How do you feel after sex with someone you care for, love?No, I think statistics show women are definitely becoming the breadwinners. They’re earning more degrees, all that stuff. Women are probably just better in every way except physicality tbh. The problem is, the men who’re really in power are never going to give it up to any minority. Women, LGBTQ+, non-whites, whoever. They’re just going to continue to pass it down to straight white guys like themselves | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/06/20 01:31 AM |
| 1 | Question 4 all. How do you feel after sex with someone you care for, love?Hahaha I genuinely hope that you do. And maybe I’m mistaken, maybe I’ve just been hanging around guys that’re better than average | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/06/20 01:18 AM |
| 1 | Question 4 all. How do you feel after sex with someone you care for, love?Like 1-3%? Is that really true?? If so, why are women even with men? That's kinda the difference. Like as long as I thought I was gonna get the fantasy I was happy to play by whatever dating rules men have but once I kinda realized that's really rare and me bending over backwards doesn't increase my odds I lost interest in doing all of that. Damn lol. That’s sucks, idk if I’d say emotional support is what most men lack, but then again I’m neither a women nor attracted to men so I guess I wouldn’… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/06/20 01:10 AM |
| 1 | Question 4 all. How do you feel after sex with someone you care for, love?I get that you can’t help it but you’re kind of saying “women think we’re amoral dogs but we’re not” while describing the characteristics of an amoral dog. It has nothing to do with being amoral. If you legitimately thought you were helping someone, but were killing them instead, yeah it’s fucked up, you did kill someone, but there’s a difference when you’re talking about morals. Maybe not functionally from a girl’s POV, but still. Like what incentive could I possibly have to risk that given tha… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/06/20 12:55 AM |
| 1 | Question 4 all. How do you feel after sex with someone you care for, love?Months? Yeah definitely. Months are nothing when you really wanna sleep with a girl (because remember, up until sex, we feel like we actually want to be with her, same as you). That’s why the whole concept of hitting and quitting, and “guys just want sex” is so common. For it to actually be the way women think it is, most men would have to be a-moral dogs, and as much as some women would like that to be the case, it’s not. If I had to guess, I’m pretty sure it has to do with biology. Men were ma… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/06/20 12:08 AM |
| 3 | Question 4 all. How do you feel after sex with someone you care for, love?Gunna actually answer your question since nobody else is: Lust, to men, unfortunately is mistaken a lot of times for love. Testosterone really gives us tunnel vision on being with a girl and having sex with her. But once that feeling is released through orgasm it’s like...idk, imagine going from the horniest you’ve ever been in your entire life, to the least horniest you’ve ever been. Like, from that time where the one dude you’ve always wanted was giving you some play and you’re thinking it mig… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/06/20 12:29 PM |
| 1 | I think social media and online dating is mentally ruining womenThat’s a super deep opinion on specifically how something is effecting women’s mental state considering you’re not one yourself. I was reading it, praying that you weren’t a dude. This is borderline redpill bro. Also, I’m not seeing a problem in it for them, and I’m a guy. You’re stating a bunch of things that aren’t effecting them necessarily negatively, but you’re writing it in this ominous way like something’s going to happen to them because of it. I mean, usually people on here at least sugg… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/06/20 04:23 AM |
| 1 | [Q4M] Men, those of you who admire women in media or out in public who look/act/dress a certain way but are vehemently against your partner looking/acting/dressing like that...why?I’m not up on incel memes so I don’t really know what you’re referring to, but there are very very few non-bottom tier dudes who don’t in some part subconsciously dress to impress women. Ask any of the millions of dudes wearing skinny jeans if they would be wearing them if women disappeared tomorrow. Styled Haircuts, jewelry, nice looking cars, literally almost anything. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/06/20 03:31 AM |
| 1 | [Q4M] Men, those of you who admire women in media or out in public who look/act/dress a certain way but are vehemently against your partner looking/acting/dressing like that...why?Damn, you’re not around a lot of non-cucks huh lol? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/06/20 03:03 AM |
| 0 | [Q4M] Men, those of you who admire women in media or out in public who look/act/dress a certain way but are vehemently against your partner looking/acting/dressing like that...why?Well don’t get me wrong, I think women indirectly dress for men. I just don’t think it’s as direct and in the forefront of their minds like it is for most men. A man will straight up say to himself “these new shoes are going to make the women go crazy”. I don’t think women think about what they wear in that way, and when they do, I think it’s way less common. It won’t be 90% of their wardrobe like sexually proactive men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/06/20 05:27 PM |
| 4 | [Q4M] Men, those of you who admire women in media or out in public who look/act/dress a certain way but are vehemently against your partner looking/acting/dressing like that...why?Trust me, nobody argues that with women more than me. What I’m saying is that mentally (whether because they’ve convinced themselves or not) they feel like that’s not why they do it, so they’re not able to understand why men do. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/06/20 03:15 PM |
| 1 | The idea that women are "sharing" a minority of men is vehemently rejected outrightI know that but sometimes I just need to be reminded. Thanks bro 🤘 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/06/20 03:09 PM |
| 0 | [Q4M] Men, those of you who admire women in media or out in public who look/act/dress a certain way but are vehemently against your partner looking/acting/dressing like that...why?Absolutely true. I was just answering her question | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/06/20 01:53 PM |
| 1 | The idea that women are "sharing" a minority of men is vehemently rejected outrightThat’s exactly what I do, and I get a decent amount more attention from girls now then I did before, because of it, and I’m sure that’ll only grow as I get better at it. I’m just waiting to not feel any more animosity from that specific situation. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/06/20 01:51 PM |
| 1 | The idea that women are "sharing" a minority of men is vehemently rejected outrightWhile I agree, I wouldn’t say they’re any more that way then men are. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/06/20 01:45 PM |
| 3 | [Q4M] Men, those of you who admire women in media or out in public who look/act/dress a certain way but are vehemently against your partner looking/acting/dressing like that...why?I mean are you good with that? Not saying you necessarily shouldn’t be, but if you want him to dress better, as his partner you are allowed to mention it to him. Not sure if that’s what you were saying with the dots or not. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/06/20 05:28 AM |
| 8 | The idea that women are "sharing" a minority of men is vehemently rejected outrightSame bro. Except the red pill rage isn’t fully gone with me. I want it to be so so bad, and tbh, (as you might be able to tell by my comment) it really is gone. The only only thing holding me back is a personal experience if I’m being introspective. A chad from my highschool (who was the schools biggest chad even then) fucked my ex (after we were broken up of course, but who I never actually got to go all the way with) and then also became the boyfriend of (and probably by this point (it’s been … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/06/20 05:08 AM |
| 11 | The idea that women are "sharing" a minority of men is vehemently rejected outrightYeah but it’s because of exactly what they all said. They have no incentive to. At best they’ll lose the “pedestal” most men put them on, and at worst some guy will straight up wail on them for being “stupid” or a “slut”. Because of the sexual power they hold in our society, women couldnt give two fucks about explaining their real intentions, and even though it effects me negatively, I don’t blame them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/06/20 04:37 AM |
| 1 | [Q4M] Men, those of you who admire women in media or out in public who look/act/dress a certain way but are vehemently against your partner looking/acting/dressing like that...why?I wasn’t justifying it. And It doesn’t induce possessiveness anymore than, but it does induce it. From men and women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/06/20 04:01 AM |
| 2 | Do women really mean, “You and me forever,” or is it a ploy?Do men really mean it lmao? And this is coming from a man. Why’re you singling our women who say this, as if men don’t say it just as often (possibly even more)? It sounds biased and bitter. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/06/20 03:56 AM |
| 15 | [Q4M] Men, those of you who admire women in media or out in public who look/act/dress a certain way but are vehemently against your partner looking/acting/dressing like that...why?As I’ve heard it explained by women, men don’t understand that women don’t dress specifically for men. We don’t understand this because we dress for women, and are not shy about that fact. So like someone else said, a woman dressing nice seems like a signal to the average male partner saying “hey I’m looking to impress men in general, which also includes men other than you” because that’s what dressing nice would mean for us if we were girls. But obviously we’re not women, and that’s not why wom… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/06/20 03:50 AM |
| 3 | [Q4M] Men, those of you who admire women in media or out in public who look/act/dress a certain way but are vehemently against your partner looking/acting/dressing like that...why?Oh without a doubt according to psychologists. Natural though, at least in today’s society. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/06/20 03:43 AM |
| 1 | [Q4M] Men, those of you who admire women in media or out in public who look/act/dress a certain way but are vehemently against your partner looking/acting/dressing like that...why?Daaaammnn lmao. What was it? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/06/20 03:42 AM |
| 2 | [Q4M] Men, those of you who admire women in media or out in public who look/act/dress a certain way but are vehemently against your partner looking/acting/dressing like that...why?“That type of item” Definitely leggings 😆 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/06/20 03:40 AM |
| 1 | Do you accept the idea that your partner could have had different standards in different situations?I almost did that once. But I punked out because the main girl I wanted it to work on was really moral and I was scared it’d have the opposite effect and turn her off. Im sure it would’ve worked with the other girls in the group though. A guy i knew, succeeded in pulling it off with a different group of girls which included some of the ones in my group. AND he eventually got it to work on the MAIN GIRL I WAS REFERRING TO, so moral of the story, if you’re going to do this, fully commit. It’ll eve… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/06/20 03:31 AM |
| 2 | Do you accept the idea that your partner could have had different standards in different situations?I don’t, and I don’t think most guys do, just like how you’ve experienced. However, i don’t think it’s because it doesn’t matter to us, I feel like it’s the opposite. The chance that it’s high, would be so detrimental to our mental state and how we view the woman, that we’d rather not know, and pretend either you’re a virgin, or you’ve had sex with just one guy, he was trash at it and trash as a person, and you weren’t even into it lol. It’s just an ego thing, it’s how we’re built. Now you can s… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/06/20 03:15 AM |
| 1 | [Q4M] Men, would you be okay to wait two - three months before sleeping with a girl you are really interested in? Why/Why not?I’ve had this discussion before and I think the bigger question is why? Girls usually say they know if they’ll sleep with a guy shortly upon meeting him, so that being the case, why wait? I can see not having sex for religious reasons or other things of that matter, but doing just because...idk, you just don’t wanna feel like a slut? If you’re going to end up having sex with dude anyway, it just seems like a waste of time that could be spent having sex. Feeling like a guy won’t take you seriousl… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/06/20 03:00 AM |
| 3 | Do you accept the idea that your partner could have had different standards in different situations?Well I think women do want a guy to lock them down exclusively, there are just occasional periods where they don’t want that. And I wouldn’t say guys who want that from women are beta cucks simply for wanting it. The way they usually go about it maybe, sure. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/06/20 02:45 AM |
| 1 | Do you accept the idea that your partner could have had different standards in different situations?But from what I gather women, instead of learning from their mistakes, must accept a life of perpetual whoredom bEcAuSe YoU pUt OuT fOr ChAd. This might make you mad, and this is probably exactly women’s problem with men, but as a man, I can say that’s exactly how we feel and we don’t feel bad for feeling that way either 😆. Idk if it’s natural, or society, or what, but most of us definitely feel like a woman’s vagina, and therefore her as a relationship candidate, depreciates with mileage. It’s … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/06/20 02:24 AM |
| 1 | Do you accept the idea that your partner could have had different standards in different situations?Yeah I could see women feeling that way, they have different views on sex than us. Like, I was surprised to find most women think oral sex (from them) is way less initimate than intercourse. Like a level 3 out of 10. The amount of girls I’ve heard that will give a guy they’re not into what they call “sympathy head” or will give head to a guy they just met when they would never ever actually sleep with him that early, is astounding. But hey, if they wanna think that, you won’t hear guys complaini… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/06/20 02:14 AM |
| 6 | Do you accept the idea that your partner could have had different standards in different situations?Men have set this pace. That’s what I’ve been saying for a minute now. I’m a guy, and one who doesn’t particularly like the way women are moving these days, but’s it’s 100% because that’s how we behave ourselves. For the way gender roles are in our current society to work, one gender has to take the L in certain aspects. And in this aspect, I think the current generation of women just asked themselves “why are we doing/not doing X even though guys are doing it?”. “Why are we being faithful in th… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/06/20 02:04 AM |
| 1 | Do you accept the idea that your partner could have had different standards in different situations?Holy shit, that was from the girl?? Jeez, gender norms have chhhhaannggeedd, and I’m only 27 lmao | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/06/20 01:48 AM |
| 2 | The idea that women are "sharing" a minority of men is vehemently rejected outrightI honestly don’t think the reaction from average men would be that bad if it was just that. What’s happening is both of these girls are falling for jack, and then not requiring commitment from him before sleeping with him, like they would an average guy, because of his level of attractiveness. If it was just a communal dildo situation like you’re saying, men who aren’t jack would still be frustrated, but they’d probably at least understand the mentality. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/06/20 01:40 AM |
| 4 | The idea that women are "sharing" a minority of men is vehemently rejected outrightI wouldn’t say women are aware, I just think they “aren’t unaware” lol, if you catch my drift. A woman will be in a casual relationship with an attractive guy and hope, to the point of subconsciously deceiving herself, that he’s not sleeping with other girls, but I’d doubt her innermost self would be surprised amongst finding out. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/06/20 01:32 AM |
| 3 | The idea that women are "sharing" a minority of men is vehemently rejected outrightas a man you should be concerned about outshining other males not trying to convince females to “lower their standards” so you have a chance. And that’s the point where you really start to pull women. What’s color pill is that one lol? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/06/20 01:25 AM |
| 15 | The idea that women are "sharing" a minority of men is vehemently rejected outrightWhoooooaaa. That link was 🔥. If women could have honest discussions like that, even just about why they can’t have honest discussions like that, I think the world would be a better place. That type of talk is exactly what men have been asking from women for generations, although I will concede that a lot of us wouldn’t be able to handle it just like one of them said | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/06/20 01:20 AM |
| 1 | Another Post About HeightEhhhh, we can agree to disagree on that one. I agree with you on the concept but “in any way” is a bit of a stretch imo. Like, I get that there are almost no women who find shortness or a small penis attractive in men, and I would be the one arguing your side if anyone was to ever say they were equivalent, but the way you put it makes it seem like larger breasts aren’t at least preferred by the vast majority of men and that saying a girl has small breast, isn’t almost always a knock on her. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/06/20 05:47 PM |
| 1 | Another Post About HeightThat’s fine. I’m not saying as bad. I’m saying Breast size being seen negatively “is a lie or a meme” is far from the truth, as virtually every woman with small breast will tell you. That doesn’t mean there are 0 men that are attracted to it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/06/20 05:00 PM |
| 1 | Another Post About HeightThere are entire porn categories for getting peed on 😆, like what? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/06/20 04:50 PM |
| 1 | Research suggests that women care more about emotional infidelity and men care more about sexual infidelity. Why is this the case?Eh, that just seems like a betrayal of trust period. I don’t think most guys would differentiate that from just being a bad friend in general, except for the nudes and infidelity talk, which I think falls more in line with regular cheating | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/06/20 07:03 AM |
| 1 | Another Post About HeightPheeeewww, if you’re an adult, you might wanna get to poppin that bubble homie lol. The world doesn’t consist of your friends, what they actually say out of their mouths as opposed to what they think, and what you’ve personally experienced. You have any idea how much most small-breasted women wish the world was the way you think it is? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/06/20 02:51 AM |
| 1 | Another Post About HeightNah, I’m not even a girl and it’s clearly true lol. The difference is, someone’s less likely to explicitly say breast size is the reason for X. Women aren’t scared to discriminate based on height, and racists can’t hide racial discrimination because of statistics. On the other hand no guy is going to outright say “I won’t date you because your breasts are too small”, nor is it tallied when being hired for a job for instance. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/06/20 02:23 AM |
| 6 | For those of you that "switched sides" Why? What information made you change your views/what was the chain of events that lead to it?I used to probably be what’s considered an incel, and unfortunately because I’m well spoken, present as intelligent, and charismatic among friends, most of the male ones followed me. I resented women for what I felt was the illogical decision to choose and stay with men who would treat them like trash. There was also bias in there as well, since there was one guy in my social circle that every girl (including my crush) wanted to be with despite him being a known douchebag and womanizer. I starte… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/06/20 04:43 PM |
| 1 | What do you think men are talking about when we question women’s view on personal responsibility/accountability?Great 😑 now I have to unfollow all those Brazilian fart porn subs | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/06/20 11:18 PM |
| 2 | What do you think men are talking about when we question women’s view on personal responsibility/accountability?OK THANK YOU!! I thought I was trippin. And not being able to copy specific parts is 100% a step backwards. It’s occasionally frustrating as hell just having a simple conversation with someone now | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/06/20 10:05 PM |
| 2 | What do you think men are talking about when we question women’s view on personal responsibility/accountability?Lmao, no one said that, why can’t you stay on the topic without putting words in my mouth? You’re clearly someone who’s frustration has made them closed to having their mind changed, so I’ll just let you be. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/06/20 08:52 PM |
| 1 | What do you think men are talking about when we question women’s view on personal responsibility/accountability?I’m just fuckin up all over the place huh lmao? The Reddit app just got updated for me, and it’s becoming kind of confusing as to whether I’m replying or commenting sometimes | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/06/20 08:52 PM |
| 1 | What do you think men are talking about when we question women’s view on personal responsibility/accountability?Yeah, this is what I usually hear from women. That they didn’t know the guy was trash until after they got serious. Which to a certain point is reasonable. With the end goal being sex for a lot of guys, I wouldn’t be surprised at this “switch-up” being more common amongst men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/06/20 08:50 PM |
| 2 | What do you think men are talking about when we question women’s view on personal responsibility/accountability?Of course it happens, nobody said it doesn’t. You’re the one who’s strawmaning rn. I personally, and I think most men and even a lot of women would agree, just find that to be an outlier rather than the norm, at least when compared to women. What I’m saying is I’m pretty sure you’re less likely to see a guy break down in tears because they chose a woman who’s nothing but toxic, and if they do, I think it’s less likely they date that same “type” of woman again if they can help it. It just seems l… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/06/20 08:10 PM |
| 6 | What do you think men are talking about when we question women’s view on personal responsibility/accountability?It’s not that men are resistant, I think men usually just don’t take it as hard. If I stub my toe and it kinda sorta stings, I might not put that much effort into preventing it from happening again. But if it hurts like 7 hells, you better believe there won’t be a toe-level barrier anywhere in my house after I’m done. If the reaction to toxic men wasn’t so severe on average, nobody would be saying anything. It’s how much it seems to deeply hurt women, that has men scratching their heads as to wh… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/06/20 07:56 PM |
| 2 | What do you think men are talking about when we question women’s view on personal responsibility/accountability?Well that deals with the friend zone and incel behavior, which I usually explain like this. There are nice guys and there are bad boys (obviously everyone is between these two, but just for arguments sake). Let’s say each guy has 20 traits right? Now nice guys generally have 12 good traits and bad boys usually have 8. Men usually operate on a more logical level, so 12 being more than 8, we can’t understand why a girl would pick the bad boy over the nice guy. What’s not understood by a lot of guy… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/06/20 07:18 PM |
| -1 | What do you think men are talking about when we question women’s view on personal responsibility/accountability?You’re right but imo I think a man is more likely to either not care that he’s in a toxic relationship, admit that it’s toxic in the first place, and/or watch out for signs of it in the future. It kinda seems like women...just ignore it. If women were only kinda sad that they chose someone toxic and regretted it like men, i don’t think there’d be much confusion. It’s specifically how women cry and scream and yell and go into depressions for so long, and then do the same thing again, that’s the i… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/06/20 07:10 PM |
| 1 | Research suggests that women care more about emotional infidelity and men care more about sexual infidelity. Why is this the case?^ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/06/20 05:47 PM |
| 3 | Another Post About HeightLmao, Oo it’s true, the bluntness just hurt. That’s probably how women feel about having small breast though. Fortunately for them though, they can just get surgery | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/06/20 04:13 PM |
| 5 | Research suggests that women care more about emotional infidelity and men care more about sexual infidelity. Why is this the case?Yeaaahhh, that’d be a red flag for sure. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/06/20 09:09 AM |
| 3 | Research suggests that women care more about emotional infidelity and men care more about sexual infidelity. Why is this the case?I’ve heard that so many times now, I actually ask girls that before we get serious. No lie. I haven’t met one who thinks it is yet, but I just don’t wanna get caught unaware lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/06/20 08:22 AM |
| 7 | Research suggests that women care more about emotional infidelity and men care more about sexual infidelity. Why is this the case?Tbh, I don’t think guys can answer that question because most of us don’t even know what emotional cheating is or what it would look like. Like, we would probably be jealous or annoyed if our girlfriend was doing all those things with another guy, but tbh? If we were 100% sure no sex was involved, I think 90% of guys wouldn’t have a problem with it. Shit I know men who wouldn’t have a problem with their girlfriend getting oral sex from another guy, just as long as he wasn’t getting oral sex from… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/06/20 08:14 AM |
| 6 | Research suggests that women care more about emotional infidelity and men care more about sexual infidelity. Why is this the case?Definitely true. Which is why I think the first question women ask is usually “do you love her” and the first one guys ask is usually “did you fuck him”. If you ever needed an example of the disparity between how men and women view sex, there it is. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/06/20 07:46 AM |
| 15 | Another Post About HeightAs someone who’s 5’9, my heart broke when I heard a girl in one of these say “I love guys shorter than 6’. It’s easy to get one that’s handsome, it’s almost like a bargain sale” 😞 It’s not something I can change... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/06/20 07:35 AM |
| 1 | Men here are the biggest perpetrators of the halo effectWell that deals with the friend zone and incel behavior, which I usually explain like this. There are nice guys and there are bad boys (obviously everyone is between these two, but just for arguments sake). Let’s say each guy has 20 traits right? Now nice guys generally have 12 good traits and bad boys usually have 8. Men usually operate on a more logical level, so 12 being more than 8, we can’t understand why a girl would pick the bad boy over the nice guy. What’s not understood by a lot of guy… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/06/20 07:20 AM |
| 2 | Belle Delphine's new videoAnd that’s exactly me. I know it’s just a sub on Reddit, but I’m really happy I found this place fr. I just hope it stays like this and one side doesn’t overtake the sub | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/06/20 06:28 AM |
| 2 | Belle Delphine's new videoFuck. Dude I just discovered this sub. How’re all of you so knowledgeable, empathetic, and unbiased like this lol? Like, I’m that dude in my social circle, and I don’t even compare to some of you guys. Thanks for the perspective 🙏 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/06/20 06:02 AM |
| 1 | It's not womens responsibility to have sex with any type of man or any percentage of men. There is no sex quota to filled.Just joins the sub Looks at the balance in your comment Oo yeah. This is definitely where I belong. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/06/20 05:55 AM |
| 2 | Belle Delphine's new videoThis thing where cams girls (and their fans) are self aware of simping and that whole culture, is wild. Like, I can’t even wrap my head around it. How is being lonely and desperate enough to pay a girl (who doesn’t know you) for basically existing a meme that you, not only understand, but actively non-ironically participate in. It seems to be the same thing with the fans of that girl Pokimane I think her name is. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/06/20 05:44 AM |
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