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It's a gamble. I was told by a lawyer that lawyers and judges could tell when a guy really wanted his kids, that they would be calling daily to try and get things done but that when they didn't bother then they assumed they just didn't want to pay child support. A good balance would be to try your damndest without breaking yourself. There is legal financial aid in some big cities and you can find pro bono from lawyers fresh out of law school. If you can't find a lawyer then it would be better to…
/r/MensRights27/03/18 05:36 AM
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The progestin stops the testes from producing enough testosterone to make healthy levels of sperm, and the testosterone is to counteract any hormonal imbalances and ensure your testosterone doesn’t dip too low. That's great to hear that they're actively trying to counteract the side effects of it. On both sides it seems like the hormonal change to get babies to not happen also changes libido. Birth control typically makes women want to have sex even less.
/r/MensRights27/03/18 05:18 AM
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You don't hear from all parties so there's no telling, I've seen both genders on that side. Majority of pro choice I usually see are women though, couldn't hurt to make that a joint effort.
/r/MensRights27/03/18 05:14 AM
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Damn and I thought mine was expensive at $5k. I've been really pessimistic about marriage because of this, seems like it's too much of a gamble and the only one who wins is the lawyers.
/r/MensRights27/03/18 05:05 AM
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That's really pessimistic. You have a chance of being with someone who doesn't want it either, you could just agree to not have it. Taking the option away just guarantees you get screwed.
/r/MensRights27/03/18 05:03 AM
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It's still developing? I'd nearly forgotten all about it. Does it do anything to hormones? Many women I know can't take the pill because it has drastic affects on them, like turns them batshit crazy affects. Unfortunately only birth control other than spermicide and condoms and shit that doesn't affect hormones is the copper iud which I hear causes a big increase in cramping. I really wish there were more birth control options.
/r/MensRights27/03/18 03:54 AM
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The reason it's not set up to opt out for men is because court isn't thinking about supporting the woman, they want support for the kid. Courts are not going to say screw the kid, you're off the hook. With abortion, there is no kid. It'll never happen because the kid, who had no say in the matter, is the one getting screwed over.
/r/MensRights27/03/18 03:50 AM
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The craziest thing I've seen was a man intentionally getting his girlfriend pregnant 2 months after knowing her with the intent of trapping her he actually said so. Of course he was outright crazy and confirmed so by court for other crazier shit he did.
/r/MensRights27/03/18 03:46 AM
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I'm really curious, why aren't more men in favor of abortion? If she doesn't want it and he doesn't want it, and it's not practically already a baby, why not favor abortion instead of dumping all this burden on both parties? Why aren't both side fighting the state for the right to begin with?
/r/MensRights27/03/18 03:32 AM
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Is it common to have to go through an agency? I only know one person who goes through the agency, others I know just hand the other parent a check or wire it so there's a paper trail.
/r/MensRights27/03/18 03:22 AM
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Someone I personally know: dad with sole custody of 3 kids - on benefits. Mom who abandoned her kids and skipped town for years - in prison. The parent with custody is usually trying to get those benefits to help their kids while one that literally hides is a selfish fuck regardless of gender.
/r/MensRights27/03/18 03:13 AM
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To be fair, I've known more than one dad not even try because they automatically assumed they had no chance. You tell an entire group that they're going to waste $5k and lose anyway, they're not going to bother which only sways those percentages even more. Makes me wonder if people spent more time motivating dads and giving them positive statistics instead of telling them they're screwed if stats wouldn't improve. It's almost becoming a self fulfilling prophecy even though things are changing.
/r/MensRights27/03/18 03:09 AM
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It does happen. Either in very obese women or women who have very strong core muscles. Toned muscles dont give as well and your organs are already moving. Stronger your muscles are, the more the kid shoves up into the ribs. It's also possible to have no strong symptoms like morning sickness. Obese women often already have a fucked up menstrual cycle so no surprise when it goes a few months without it (old friend of mine was complaining once about how she'd been trying but was unable to get pregn…
/r/PussyPassDenied14/09/17 11:45 PM
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Nah you don't even hit xl in most clothes until you reach about a 14. 8-12 is like a large.
/r/PussyPassDenied14/09/17 11:36 PM
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Would it even fit? Reading the title, my first thought was "wtf, that wouldn't fit! How small is that baby??"
/r/PussyPassDenied14/09/17 11:32 PM
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Exactly. For years I tried to talk my ex husband into getting help but he was so stuck on the idea about the guys at working finding out that he wouldn't do it. He was finally ordered by a judge to get help when he became a danger to himself. And it's not just men who catch shit. Another ex of mine didn't believe depression was real and I could just snap out of it if I wanted. This shit needs to be recognized as a whole, that it's ok to get help regardless, it's not a gender thing.
/r/MensRights09/09/17 01:25 AM
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Broken in more than one way too. In one corner you've got shit moms taking kids away from dads to get back at them or for a paycheck (like my cousin) but you've also got some unstable dads like that one who killed his 3 year old over his girlfriend a while back that shouldn't have custody. Some good judges really try to do what's best for the kid but they can only go off the evidence in front of them. Now what really sucks is how expensive going to court is which is often the reason people get s…
/r/MensRights04/09/17 04:44 AM
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If I'm being totally honest, I kinda like dad bods myself, I know a friend who's into them too.
/r/PussyPassDenied15/08/17 06:28 PM
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They're just more vocal about it. I know very few guys who aren't fat too but websites celebrate the "dad bod" while simultaneously telling women 10 easy steps to losing baby fat.
/r/PussyPassDenied15/08/17 04:38 PM
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Wow, yeah, this is like all he posts.
/r/PussyPassDenied15/08/17 04:06 PM
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Seriously, no one thinks they're not going to be diabetic because of their sex.
/r/PussyPassDenied15/08/17 04:03 PM
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It's weird but I've experienced the same thing with height a few times from the opposite side. I'm on the tall side for a woman and have been turned down a few times because some guys don't want to date a woman who's taller than them. Not all though, I've dated a guy shorter and currently dating a guy the same height. I avoid heels because of my height so I would break my neck if I ever wore them, that's not a concern at least. This same thing would probably be found if women were surveyed, guys…
/r/MensRights13/05/17 03:50 AM
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It's just normal dark. I don't do anything special to make it extra dark or anything.
/r/MensRights26/04/17 09:31 PM
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Have you never sat on the toilet in the dark because you didn't want to wake yourself with the light? I don't even put my glasses on just to pee.
/r/MensRights26/04/17 07:16 AM
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I honestly don't care what people do in public restrooms, even the janitor leaves the seat up after cleaning. At like 2am at home though it can happen to anyone
/r/MensRights26/04/17 04:37 AM
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If it's any consolation, my hair is turning white and I carry heavy shit in a hot building all day.
/r/PussyPassDenied24/04/17 11:12 PM
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Edited fast enough to not get a * too
/r/PussyPassDenied24/04/17 10:05 PM
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Lmao, who you think is supplying the demand of plus size "no fat chicks" shirts?
/r/PussyPassDenied24/04/17 10:02 PM
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"2007, damn wage has increased a decent amount in a few ye... fuck that's 10 years ago!"
/r/PussyPassDenied24/04/17 09:58 PM
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My ex husband found me on reddit and stalked my old account, I had to abandon it.
/r/PussyPassDenied28/03/17 05:35 AM
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That's what I was thinking. Having them weekdays while they do to school and you work, spending the nights making sure they do homework, that's nothing like playing on the weekends. I'm too tired to do anything during the week so playground visits and all happen on the weekend.
/r/PussyPassDenied28/03/17 12:38 AM
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I halted my relationship with my current SO during my divorce. My lawyer recommended it and some internet searches comfirmed I should. The jist was that I could be seen as endangering my child by having a "strange" man around. My ex didn't have to worry about that though, there was nothing saying that it would look bad to have another woman actually living with him. I can understand it to an extent, court obviously thinks a guy who is not his birth father may overpower me and do any number of th…
/r/PussyPassDenied27/03/17 10:55 PM
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I think my first thought would be to hit them in the head with the hardest thing I could find, the possibility of it killing them wouldn't cross my mind.
/r/MensRights15/03/17 10:29 PM
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I don't think getting out of payments was his goal. It said he had beef with the repo company, he wanted to get back at them.
/r/MensRights15/03/17 10:27 PM
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I know it's a joke but it actually does bother me. I was ok with it when I thought I was keeping him from getting cancer or something but now I can't get over the fact that I let them cut a piece of my son off when he was only 1 day old. Now I wonder how I explain it if I have another son because I don't plan to repeat this.
/r/MensRights01/02/17 12:58 AM
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That or they're just as misled and I was. I trusted a doctor to know what he was talking about.
/r/MensRights31/01/17 11:00 PM
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Pretty much yeah, or money.
/r/MensRights31/01/17 11:00 PM
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What it's missing though is everything else presented as fact. With my son, I wasn't all "oh it looks ugly", it was that my male doctor told me a bunch of shit about infections and how it would be healthier for him. All this keeps focusing on looks is missing out on the reason people actually choose to do this.
/r/MensRights31/01/17 04:04 PM
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The act of interrupting/walkin in on a single/lonely man doing the 'thing with his thing' if you know what I mean. I like this one most
/r/MensRights30/11/16 10:29 PM
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can't control that, there are nitwits that believe in the tooth fairy vaccines cause autism FTFY so we're not insulting toddlers.
/r/PussyPassDenied08/09/16 08:42 AM
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It doesn't require audio to be understandable, I watched the gif fine.
/r/PussyPassDenied24/07/16 07:27 AM
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I have no idea if it was easier to watch or not. I watched the gif without any real problem but I never watch anything with sound because I don't like people around me wanting to know what I'm watching.
/r/PussyPassDenied24/07/16 07:26 AM
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This same argument comes up with every gif that has text. Some prefer to watch video and can usually find it in the comments, some won't even click a post if it's a video.
/r/PussyPassDenied24/07/16 05:46 AM
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Vera, 24, is charged with continuous sex abuse of a child. I'm having a hard time understanding why everyone is pretending the article doesn't say that more than once.
/r/MensRights01/06/16 05:25 PM
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