Imjustnot_you Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
21	How do you swallow your pride and talk to women?	Lifestyle	Imjustnot_you	/r/seduction	29/05/24 10:13 AM

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
2	Should I tell her my real age? Just say you’re 26. Do you look like a child? Or are you rugged?	/r/seduction	03/12/24 05:25 PM
2	Wanting to give up; what should I do Then you know what to do. Either A. Cut the date short B. Tell her to go to your place and fuck C. Manipulate the conversation by being quiet too or getting her out of her shell. Probe for weakness and exploit it. I’ve done option C plenty of times. One example is this one time when I was with an Asian girl once. She HARDLY spoke on the date and assured me we were not going back to her place (note: I am a very quiet mysterious guy myself, which is my type of rizz, but it’s not always the case). …	/r/seduction	03/12/24 01:17 AM
8	Wanting to give up; what should I do You’re taking them wayyy too fucking serious bro. Don’t even think about sex with them, fuck how hot she is, fuck how big her ass or tits are… she ain’t shit. Doesn’t matter if you’re into them or just a little bit. I will say this though: hooking up for the sake of just busting a nut does harm your psyche over the long run. You start to objectify them. But even then, you sound like you’re way too into them than you should. They’re just someone helping you bust a nut. Period. You’re overthinking…	/r/seduction	03/12/24 01:05 AM
9	Sex on the first date You literally have to come off as carefree and like you’ve been there and done it. A lot of dudes that come off as boyfriend material are the ones that try too hard (ex: dinner dates, ice cream, movies, etc.) I always meet them at a park and then we talk and then we get a drink or something. Then I fuck the shit outta them (8 times out of 10).	/r/seduction	20/11/24 03:43 AM
2	Got results but realized casual sex isn't for me. That’s too bad dude. Casual sex IS for me big dawgggg.. i need it to keep me stimulated and not bored. I need to be fed different meats every now and then.	/r/seduction	15/11/24 12:49 AM
1	What are the most optimal places for getting dates for gen Z and becoming more experienced in relationships? I do okay on bumble and tinder but lately it has led to absolutely nothing. I do agree, Hinge was great until I got banned. Anyone know how to get unbanned? Lol	/r/seduction	26/09/24 03:29 AM
1	How did you get her to chase you? 5’11.5… not quite 6 ft lol	/r/seduction	30/08/24 08:44 PM
1	How did you get her to chase you? Im not in the friendzone… they are. Totally different things. Basically, you meet a girl and you both start this romantic approach, and suddenly you stop doing this whole process that women are accustomed to, which is “talking, then making a careful move, then have sex, talk, someone breaks a heart, makeup… yada yada yada”. Instead, what you should do to get her to chase you is you gotta break that cycle and do things differently… this particular approach only works if she’s into you. You gotta …	/r/seduction	30/08/24 03:13 PM
-1	How did you get her to chase you? For her to chase you, her interest level has to be higher than 50%… first of all. Then, you gotta sort of flex your superiority onto her (I.e: business you own, how desired you are, your ambition, etc.). After that, you gotta friend zone her - basically show her some way or another that you don’t give a fuck about losing your “chances” of sleeping with her. You have to show your boldness and risk taking tendencies in a way that shows YOU DO NOT GIVE A FUCK about sleeping with her. Personally, wh…	/r/seduction	30/08/24 02:50 AM
3	Woman who act entitled and stuck up Thisss is what I’ve been sayinggggg!!!	/r/seduction	29/08/24 11:43 PM
1	Do women have higher standards than men? Thank you.	/r/seduction	16/08/24 03:08 AM
31	Do women have higher standards than men? Women are already born with their eggs lol. The younger they are, the healthier the eggs, and the body releases these eggs too. Once a woman hits 38-40, her eggs drop significantly low (to about a few thousands) and most of them are not healthy eggs. That’s why you hear doctors telling pregnant women in the 40+ age range that their pregnancy is “delicate” as the chances of conceiving a healthy child are low. Disorders such as ADHD, autism, diabetes, physical deformities, mental health issues, et…	/r/seduction	14/08/24 02:56 PM
66	Do women have higher standards than men? Compared to men, no. Men can make over 2 million sperm cells in seconds	/r/seduction	14/08/24 12:40 PM
2	How to show interest in a guy? Men are simple. Forget about throwing hints. TELL. HIM. STRAIGHT. UP.	/r/seduction	09/08/24 10:10 PM
1	I'm 29, and pulled a 9/10 18yo while in Aspen, feeling guilty and a bit depressed How’d you get money and status? What’s your occupation?	/r/seduction	07/08/24 03:16 AM
7	Was Dating a more even playing field before apps and social media? No, it’s always been the same. The only difference now is that social media has made all women - on average - think that they’re better looking than they actually are. You still had women with inflated egos back then.. what I’m trying to say is that there was some sort of “sexual inflation” that happened with social media over the last decade. An average looking/ 5/10 woman now thinks - and is being told by her besties and all the simps - that she is an 8/10 and beyond… a 3/10 is now average to …	/r/seduction	29/07/24 07:52 PM
1	Who else here loves casual sex? I love casual sex. Something about it turns me the fuck on, however, it’s not good for the soul. No matter how hard I try, shit gets boring. Almost like a drug: you either look for the next high or you have to go on a year-long sex detox to get your brain’s dopamine levels back to normal.	/r/seduction	20/07/24 02:36 AM
2	Do you guys lick the pussy of every girl you get laid, or you choose some of them? Once I see her and how her hygiene is, her room, her bathroom (if she got a clean bathroom it’s a good sign), if she workouts and if she tells me about her diet and all… idk how to describe but it’s a lot of little things that then lead me to decide whether I’ll be eating them out or not.	/r/seduction	08/07/24 07:28 PM
1	College was shit for getting laid for me. Is it going to get better? I know what you mean man. Tbh, looks matter, but not as much for women as it does for men. Women like it when you’re bold and have this aggressive attitude about yourself… not really the kind of aggression where you are a threat, but aggressive as in you don’t care about what people think, and neither do you care about what SHE thinks. I never got laid in HS. I was quiet too and very skinny. Still am today. The only thing that changed from then to now is that I stopped giving a fuck. That’s all.…	/r/seduction	13/06/24 02:27 PM
3	College was shit for getting laid for me. Is it going to get better? 2017-2018 I had like no pictures of myself and I was barely an adult lol. But yeah 2019 ooooo boyyyyyy I was fucking a new girl every month, literally. Then it slowed down once Covid hit.. then it picked right up after quarantine in the summer 2020… then i kept it steady until around 2021 summer… then nothing until I banged three girls in two weeks during the Christmas holiday and then it began to slow down as soon as 2022 started lol.. Anywayyyyy… my strategy was literally going to their partie…	/r/seduction	12/06/24 03:44 AM
28	College was shit for getting laid for me. Is it going to get better? Yeah I know what you’re saying. I never hooked up with any girls from my college. I was pretty nonexistent since I would just show up for class and leave campus.. nothing or no one seemed to care about meeting me, so I just kept to myself. I never understood how to “put yourself out there” actually works. I did, however, get laid by 20 different girls from out of school (dating apps, other colleges, etc.) all from 2019 until I graduated in 2022. After that I’ve slept with another dozen more unti…	/r/seduction	11/06/24 02:25 PM
1	How do you swallow your pride and talk to women? Well good for you for picking up on it! Can you guess what it is?	/r/seduction	29/05/24 01:27 PM
2	How do you swallow your pride and talk to women? You’re not wrong.. I was in therapy three years ago and got diagnosed with a personality disorder. I’m still good. I’m good at selling. Socially inept people are bad at selling.	/r/seduction	29/05/24 01:16 PM
4	How do you swallow your pride and talk to women? See, that’s the issue… you’re thinking I’m meeting women for romantic purposes in person, which I’m not. At work, my main objective is to SELL. While I do understand social cues, I understand when they’re trying to hit on you too. And when this DOES happen, I don’t make a move because my mindset just doesn’t want to. Why? Idk.. it’s pride I guess. I meet women through dating apps. They message me, if I like them, we hit it off until they get tired of me and then I move on to the next one. I neve…	/r/seduction	29/05/24 12:37 PM
5	How do you swallow your pride and talk to women? I already do attract. The problem is that I’m “too proud” to make a move. It’s a weird mindset, but hey I would appreciate the advice and not the shaming. I know it’s easy to talk shit online but if it don’t contribute, please stay off. Thanks!	/r/seduction	29/05/24 12:26 PM
3	How do you swallow your pride and talk to women? Yeah, for many reasons. Even though I come off as nonchalant and cutting, yet polite and professional, I’ll miss out on opportunities to advance in my career. Romantically, it’s not easy to keep finding new partners every 2-3 months… I’ve had a lot but it doesn’t make things better or easier. I’d rather have one or two.. maybe three that I can continue to date and see. There have been many good looking women that I missed my opportunity on based off of what friends have told me. My mind is just …	/r/seduction	29/05/24 12:23 PM
3	How do you swallow your pride and talk to women? Well, on dating apps, the girls I’ve met were ones that I liked and messaged me first and then from there we talk on social media… then we meet and go on dates, I try to build rapport, we hook up… we continue dating, having sex, etc. they stay initiating contact and pursing me first until I guess they get tired of always having to initiate contact and they stop talking to me, which is usually within 1-3 months. After this, I never reach out. I just find a new one or continue with whoever I was t…	/r/seduction	29/05/24 12:13 PM
4	How do you swallow your pride and talk to women? I like the mindset. Appreciate the comment man.	/r/seduction	29/05/24 11:21 AM
-4	How do you swallow your pride and talk to women? With men it’s more like “aww fuck this dude” and just ignore them. with women it’s more like “aww what does she want?” And keep it cutting. I’m good socially, it’s just draining having to act a certain way.	/r/seduction	29/05/24 10:52 AM
1	How do you swallow your pride and talk to women? Ohh gotcha. Thanks.	/r/seduction	29/05/24 10:48 AM
8	How do you swallow your pride and talk to women? Thank you. Will keep it in mind.	/r/seduction	29/05/24 10:45 AM
4	How do you swallow your pride and talk to women? That’s a good mindset to have. I’ve never had that mindset. Thanks!	/r/seduction	29/05/24 10:43 AM
-3	How do you swallow your pride and talk to women? I don’t hate them… I’ve been like this all my life. You can’t be born hating someone.	/r/seduction	29/05/24 10:42 AM
1	Seek advice: I never been in relationship . I talk to many girls but never manage to attract towards my self what should i do. 🤣🤣🤣	/r/seduction	09/04/24 11:48 AM
13	How do I make a girl feel comfortable during the date? Hmmm I agree with everything you said BUT the “be loud” part. I’m not a loud mouth type of guy and yet I come off as confident. But then again, I have been told that I have the quiet “big dick energy” type of confidence. It’s just all about being easy going. An experienced man that has done this over 100000000 xs… talking slow, good eye contact, nonchalant… your energy will be reflected on her. If she sees that you’re calm and easy going, so will her… then, she will feel safe as a result.	/r/seduction	07/04/24 02:13 AM
5	My crush is getting distant from me, what should I do? I’m sorry for saying this man, but your approach all sounds like some kindergarten shit… holding hands??? Really? You had all that time and that’s all you did? Just because she got cheated on doesn’t mean she doesn’t want something rn. EVERY woman needs that male energy.. whether it’s platonic or romantic. Do whatever TF you want and go after her. Don’t just listen to her and assume accordingly. Women don’t like this at all. Women don’t think like men and neither are they attracted to what us me…	/r/seduction	25/03/24 12:31 AM