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OP's source is a random woman who apparently said it. What is the difference exactly? Is that a better source? It's clear to me that the woman was referencing this exact joke. And it was a very popular joke that was repeated incessantly online and in real life. Convenient to ignore the reality of how many baby girls are murdered and aborted for being female. But sure, a random woman twisting a joke on its head and a ragebaiter (the woman in the picture) are far more indicative of oppression lmao
/r/MensRights03/01/26 10:44 PM
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Okay, it was popularised by Sacha Baron Cohen in The Dictator but it was repeated and repeated and repeated. So not particularly old in it's most common form but it definitely has been used before that. I've heard boy or a miscarry. Boy or a trip down the stairs, etc etc. Plus, you know...there actually is a global problem of female fetuses being aborted and female babies being literally murdered. Finding out the gender is literally illegal in India because female fetuses are aborted so often. B…
/r/MensRights03/01/26 10:41 AM
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Because there's an old joke with the genders reversed, Jesus Christ. It was a very common joke so she just turned it the other way around. She was probably sick of hearing it. I'm only 26 and used to see it repeated on reddit and in real life often.
/r/MensRights03/01/26 06:08 AM
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You didn't even read the article properly. This is about a couple working through their differences. She is self-aware about why she has these problems and her husband is aware that his business hasn't taken off like he thought it would. She admits she has an obsession with finances. I imagine it's stressful for anyone to have a partner in a precarious job. It's not even about gender- it's just that it's very rare for women to outearn their partners so much.
/r/MensRights26/08/24 07:55 PM
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Then, men who cheat on their wives or trade them in for younger models should go to prison, too. Lying about paternity is such an evil thing, it truly is. But prison is insane. You'd also have to prove the woman knowingly lied about paternity, that she wasn't raped etc. Pretty hard to do in most cases.
/r/MensRights09/06/24 05:16 AM
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This woman is demented and absolutely should have been jailed. However, this is the UK. My friend was battered, had her jaw broken and teeth knocked out by a psycho man for not responding to texts, and he was also spared prison time. Actual rapists get a few years if you're lucky. You should have a look at your local papers website to see if they have a section on people who were recently convicted. You will find TONS of men (and women) spared prison time for similar offenses. Have an actual loo…
/r/MensRights23/04/24 01:26 AM
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I'm a strong advocate for not telling boyfriends about pregnancies unless you know they would want an abortion too. But I've seen tons of people in this same sub saying that men have a right to know. Whether to tell is a hard decision for a woman to make.
/r/MensRights30/11/23 06:00 PM
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Add in rent, all utilities, food, clothes, gas etc.
/r/MensRights22/11/23 10:16 PM
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Lmao studying women does not make you a feminist historian. A feminist historian is someone who studies the history of feminism. Feminism is just one subject I explore in my work. My supervisor is a historian of women, not of feminism. You are so arrogant it's unreal. Also, studying women's history means that you see concrete evidence about female oppression every day. I've spent countless hours in the archives. Read an unbelievable amount of journal articles and books about women's history. I'v…
/r/MensRights27/02/23 05:14 PM
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Yet these idiots deny such problems even exist and claim men are disadvantaged cos women aren't signing up in droves to be sexually harassed and assaulted. I'm sorry about everything you've been through and I'm sorry these ignorant twats are denying your lived experiences.
/r/MensRights27/02/23 03:27 PM
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I'm not generalising them. Women who enter these industries report these problems again and again. I was constantly harassed by white van men and builders in my school uniform. I don't think the majority of these men are harassers but it's a big issue.
/r/MensRights26/02/23 05:53 PM
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Prick is not really gendered in the UK.
/r/MensRights26/02/23 05:51 PM
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Of course only a minority of people went to school. Where did i suggest otherwise? But the people who did get higher education were only men and those men dictated how society was ruled. They held all the power. Working class men had little power except over their wives and children. Working class men were oppressed by the upper classes but they oppressed their wives and daughters. These types of oppression can exist simultaneously. No, I'm not a feminist historian. I'm a historian of working cl…
/r/MensRights26/02/23 05:50 PM
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Women could not vote in Rome. Where did you get that information from? I absolutely disagree with that interpretation. Of course when we're talking about careers and education, we're speaking of the middle and upper class. But people here are arguing that men built the world and that somehow makes them superior to women. Women did not have any power to contribute in this way. Women of all classes. Lower class men had very little political power but they took solace in having total control over t…
/r/MensRights26/02/23 05:46 PM
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I just explained that to you. Sanitation and sewage jobs are hard, dirty work. But women make up the majority of carers which is also dirty, gruelling work in a different way. But because women do it, it's not recognised as difficult. As I said, men have a physical advantage so there will be a natural gender divide there. But women have been pushed out of these roles for the majority of human history. You can't undo thousands of years of ingrained bias in a few decades. Builders are literally kn…
/r/MensRights26/02/23 03:23 PM
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I feel like gender issues have never been more divisive. Men deserve support and there are many issues specific to men that need to be addressed. But they'd rather spout absolute bullshit about women.
/r/MensRights26/02/23 03:05 PM
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Ah yes, the Daily Mail. A totally unbiased and reliable source. Also, anything to do with entertainment is cutthroat and chaotic. She admits in the article that she started the company due to her hardships in male dominated companies. I'm sure there was just as much jealousy and conflict among the men but it didn't impact her because she wasn't part of the clique. Also, she's not a very good business owner if she allows employee conflict to ruin her company. But that's not because she's a woman.…
/r/MensRights26/02/23 03:03 PM
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I'm a historian and you are an ignorant, delusional prick. Men oppressed 50% of the worlds population for most of human history and banned them from education. Considering the oppression women have faced, we have proven ourselves tenfold and are thriving. You're threatened by women succeeding. A lot of men are. That's why it's in your nature to suppress our potential.
/r/MensRights26/02/23 02:51 PM
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Why do you think that's some amazing achievement when most women were banned from getting educated and having actual careers (Except farm work, sewing and other undervalued work) for most of human history? You can't take credit for something that was based on the oppression of women. Men are physically stronger so there will always be a gender discrepancy in the physical trades. But women built houses in Soviet Russia. They built engines and planes and weapons during the world wars. Then when th…
/r/MensRights26/02/23 02:47 PM
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Are you new here? It's always been straight up misogyny. But they like to call it facts without any evidence except their feelings.
/r/MensRights26/02/23 02:42 PM
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War is temporary. Those men would return home and retain 100% control over their wives. Men had their wives sent to insane asylums in the 1900s because they met another woman and wanted to be rid of the first wife. Men could rape and impregnate their wives and there wasn't a damn thing they could do. No justice for women if their husbands wanted to beat them every day. And that's not to mention the female civilians who were routinely gang raped and abused by male soldiers. War is hell and I feel…
/r/MensRights08/05/22 08:09 AM
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And those people should absolutely get adequate sick leave for chronic conditions. Notice that you have nothing to say about the horrendous period symptoms many women endure. And it's a guaranteed monthly occurrence.
/r/MensRights07/03/22 10:50 AM
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Birth control can cause many problems too, as I'm sure you know. It makes me incredibly depressed. But sure, it's an option to consider. But the main issue is that doctors are often unsympathetic to women with terrible symptoms and there hasn't been enough medical research devoted to the issue. Normal sick leave isn't great when it's a guaranteed problem once a month. Most places don't offer that much paid sick leave for one, and women shouldn't be punished for taking frequent sick days when the…
/r/MensRights06/03/22 01:45 AM
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No, you didn't sound entitled and no doubt many women would feel comfortable discussing periods with you but just wanted to point out that a lot of women only really discuss these things with other women. I agree, I don't think it should be a guaranteed thing for every woman because it would 100% lead to discrimination. Definitely think it should be available to women with a doctors note though and the same should apply to schools. My mum had so many arguments with my school because they wouldn'…
/r/MensRights06/03/22 12:38 AM
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These men have the victim mentality that that they accuse women of having. I remember when Scotland started providing free period products in schools and workplaces and loads of men on reddit were screaming about how they should get free toliet paper and razors or it's discrimination.
/r/MensRights06/03/22 12:31 AM
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I'm not turning women in general into victims, I'm pointing out that for a sizeable percentage of women they can't just suck it up and cope with the most basic painkillers. If paracetamol treats your 'disabling' periods then they were never that bad. I pray you God you don't have a daughter with awful periods. I had friends that suffered enormously because they had mothers like you. But dw, it's pretty obvious you're a pickme from your responses. Lots like you came to the right sub to get picked…
/r/MensRights06/03/22 12:26 AM
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How is it being treated better when women have biological functions that make their lives significantly worse? You're so obsessed with equality that you don't stop for a SECOND to realise that women inherently have the short end of the stick biologically. Biology is not fucking equal.
/r/MensRights05/03/22 07:09 PM
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Did you really just say take a paracetamol? If you don't have terrible periods, you should just shut the hell up because you don't know what you're talking about. I can take two paracetamols and two ibuprofens and it makes no difference to my pain. And if you knew a damn fucking thing about how doctors treat women with terrible periods, you'll know there aren't 'literally so many solutions' because most doctors don't want to provide them. I have friends who have suffered for 10 years or more bec…
/r/MensRights05/03/22 07:06 PM
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I mean just because you're gay doesn't mean every woman you know is gonna tell you about their period. The only man who hears anything about mine is my partner. For most women, it's not excruciating and unbearable. But as a woman, I've had countless women confide in me about awful period symptoms. Mine have improved a lot but as a teenager I used to throw up from pain and I absolutely could not go anywhere on the first day. They're still awful not but nowhere near that level and usually I can wo…
/r/MensRights05/03/22 06:58 PM
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Periods are the reason every person on earth exists and you want to act like we're inferior because some of us experience excruciating pain due to a biological function WE CAN'T CONTROL. The really problem is that men like you can empathise with terrible periods because you'll never experience it. Youre incredibly self absorbed. You're not better than women because you don't menstruate.
/r/MensRights05/03/22 06:50 PM
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But men and women are different and some women get horrendous period symptoms. I don't really agree that this should be a blanket policy for all women but have you ever considered just how unfair it is that women are expected to function normally while in enormous amounts of pain? If many men had something similar to a period and were in loads of pain once a month, I'd certainly support them being able to access extra time off.
/r/MensRights05/03/22 06:47 PM
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I don't necessarily agree that all women (and certainly not trans women) should get a guaranteed day off. But have you never considered the sheer biological unfairness of periods? You're all so focused on the unfairness of this policy that you don't stop to realise how unfair it is that many women are expected to work through excruciating pain, and other horrific symptoms. I always got a day off school as a teenager because my pain was so bad on the first day it made me throw up. Was that unfair…
/r/MensRights05/03/22 06:43 PM
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We're talking about an advert. Not once have I looked my nose down at the experiences of men. This is literally nothing like abortion wtf 😂
/r/MensRights18/01/19 11:49 PM
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These men are permanent victims who think every woman is out to take their 'masculinity' and beat them into submission. They're basically scared that women will do to them what men have done to women for thousands of years. Imagine being so privileged that an advert telling you to be a good person causes you to have an emotional meltdown.
/r/MensRights18/01/19 04:34 PM
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So she told you about her own childhood experiences and you just called her jealous? You sound awful and I hope she leaves you so you can find your submissive 'traditional' woman who won't ever argue with you. You sound like a robot, zero empathy.
/r/MensRights18/01/19 04:30 PM
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Always bring your own condoms and never let a woman touch them. It's not fool-proof but it's the best way.
/r/MensRights22/12/18 03:20 PM
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If you're sure you don't want a kid, what's the problem? Adoption is always an option too.
/r/MensRights18/12/18 04:47 PM
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You don't have to ever tell him :) but I understand why you wouldn't want to.
/r/MensRights18/12/18 07:41 AM
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If it wasn't proportional to income then poor men would end up paying a much larger percentage than rich men, would you prefer that? Anyway, child support is about maintaining the lifestyle the child would have if both parents were together as someone else explained. Sure, no child needs that much but the dude is filthy rich. It's not hurting him and it's massively benefiting the children. Who does it really hurt? He had 3 children, this is the consequence of having 3 children while earning an o…
/r/MensRights18/12/18 07:40 AM
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How is suggesting a vasectomy moronic? It's the only form of reliable birth control for men.
/r/MensRights18/12/18 12:31 AM
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You should look into getting a vasectomy. I'm sure you'll feel way better cos the paranoia will disappear.
/r/MensRights18/12/18 12:19 AM
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That would leave women open to abuse. You can't make that mandatory. It would be a disaster. Did you know that homicide is the leading cause of pregnant women's deaths? How do you think some extremely abusive men might react if they find out a woman is going to have an abortion or has had an abortion? Women are killed for telling their partner or hook up that they're pregnant. It's extremely dangerous to make anything like this mandatory.
/r/MensRights18/12/18 12:09 AM
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Totally agree. Why should his children be way worse off than their millionaire father? I find it bizarre that everyone is so concerned about filthy rich people being forced to support their own children.
/r/MensRights17/12/18 11:57 PM
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Oh come on. If you have 3 children then you can expect to pay a significant amount of your yearly salary to support those children. He should have had a vasectomy if it's such an imposition to support his own children. Did he fight for sole or even shared custody, by the way?
/r/MensRights17/12/18 11:54 PM
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Awwh poor millionaire has to pay for his own child. What a tragedy. Apparently the average child support payment in the US is $430 dollars a month and it's always based on how much the father earns.
/r/MensRights17/12/18 11:52 PM
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Most child support goes straight to rent, bills, food etc. Most people pay a very small amount of child support too. So how would you implement this? Ask the mother to prove how much food the child ate? Child support is not usually fun money to buy the child nice things, it goes towards their food and keeping a roof above their heads since the mother will be likely be taking a significant pay cut to care for her child. Often, child support is paid after the primary parent has already paid the bi…
/r/MensRights17/12/18 11:40 PM
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Childbirth was one of the most dangerous things before we learned how important sanitation was and medicine progressed rapidly. Women had zero choice in whether they became pregnant most of the time due to the lack of birth control and people not believing in martial rape or even making women marry their rapist. Life was awful for most people. We need to recognise that and stop calling working class men privileged, I agree. But even the poorest married men still had absolute authority over their…
/r/MensRights27/10/18 06:26 PM
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Men don't want to do those jobs either, neither should they be forced to. Nobody wants to work a dangerous, shitty job. Lines like 'women were never oppressed' show your immaturity and lack of historical understanding. Men have been deeply oppressed throughout history but in different ways. We should be getting to the point of understanding that pretty much all working class people have been horribly oppressed, no matter their gender. Instead we have people like you making ridiculous statements.
/r/MensRights27/10/18 06:21 PM
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I care. What can women who care about these things do to help?
/r/MensRights06/10/18 09:13 PM
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This is untrue. We have a much better safety network in the UK. There's no way he'd be asked to pay alimony, he's a victim...
/r/MensRights26/09/18 02:19 PM
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There's no double standard. Men can get post partum depression too. Bet you didn't know that. We can't be completely equal in everything. Women have the babies. That's a distinct difference that involves huge changes in her body. I'm not saying people should get a free pass to murder children, of course not. But I've known people with this disorder. My auntie was in a mental hospital for two whole years after having her daughter. The overwhelming majority of women with this condition do not hurt…
/r/MensRights22/09/18 08:55 PM
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Dude, post partum depression and psychosis are not excuses. They are real, terrifying disorders. It's not just hormones, they are real mental illnesses. Plus, a lot of people with these disorders think that the world is so terrible they are saving their child by killing them. Try to understand it more. It's not the same as men behaving aggressively due to testosterone. It comes out of nowhere and is a serious mental illness.
/r/MensRights22/09/18 01:46 AM
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No they don't. Many are strong advocates of it, like me, because they're sick of women being expected to do 95% of childcare. A lot of men and women seem to have no problem perpetrating the bullshit idea that women should do the vast majority of childcare. That's such crap and many feminsts really would love to see fathers doing more.
/r/MensRights25/08/18 11:31 AM
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Why do you disagree with Patriarchy theory? Would you not agree that most of recorded history shows a hierarchy system with the husband/father being the head of the household and men far more likely to be leaders? I think a lot of feminists fail to recognise that if women had been the head of the household instead and the Bible placed women in the dominant role, women would have acted exactly the same as men did. I believe humans in general are power hungry and will often abuse any power they do…
/r/MensRights13/08/18 04:28 PM
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At the moment I'm a poor 19 year old but I'm working on some stuff so I would love to in the future :')
/r/MensRights12/08/18 09:25 AM
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It must be really exhausting to believe that all women are out to get you. False rape accusations are far less common than actual rape yet women are called irrational if they're scared of being raped. I feel bad for you, not like in a patronising way but genuinely. Because you must have had some pretty bad experiences to make you feel this way and I'm sorry people have treated you so badly.
/r/MensRights11/08/18 11:42 PM
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I argue against male circumcision, against mothers being seen as the default parent, against the way male rape victims are treated. I encourage the men in my life to be open about their emotions and they know I would never make them feel bad for opening up to me. Crying is encouraged if they feel upset. I think the male suicide rate is so high because men don't feel like they can open up to people because they believe it's weak and there's a complete lack of support for men going through hard ti…
/r/MensRights11/08/18 11:37 PM
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No honey. I think hardworking people should make enough to be able to actually survive. What part of that is so difficult to understand? Why do business owners and CEO's need to make 1000x what their employees make while their employees can barely afford the roof over their heads? It didn't use to be like this. Families could be supported easily on one full time wage. Wages have frozen and people aren't even getting their salaries adjusted for inflation which means they're making less money as t…
/r/MensRights11/08/18 11:26 PM
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AWALT is not true and you know it. Do you believe all men are the same too? Because really these arguments are causing such divide between us all. You find it upsetting when women demonise men and discriminate against them. Well women find the opposite equally horrible and for some reason gender politics has evolved into a bitter power grab by both sides. We're all partially responsible for this mess. You know that it's impossible for 3.5 billion women to all be abusive and manipulative. Most fe…
/r/MensRights11/08/18 11:19 PM
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You can clearly see I never argued for that. I just think people should be paid a lot better than they are. Why should millions of people be barely able to afford to live while working full time? Rent is out of control. I love how you see any dislike of the current system as straight up communism. Are you rich? Because if you're not it's really laughable. Do you think Bezos deserves all those billions while his workers operate in terrible conditions in low pay? The mega rich are making life wors…
/r/MensRights11/08/18 11:04 PM
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Pretty much all of recorded history shows that men were the heads of the household, governments and made up a huge majority of people in power. Even the poorest man would still have control over his wife. A lot of the historic oppression has to do with reproduction and isn't necessarily anyone's fault but rather the result of unfair biological realities and a lack of sophisticated healthcare and contraception. Those in power nearly always oppress those who are not so please don't think I'm tryin…
/r/MensRights11/08/18 09:59 PM
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I think rich people are one group it's pretty safe to generalise. These billionaires have the ability to do so much good and they rarely do. They exploit people to make themselves richer. Elon Musk does not seen like a fair employer. We don't criticise the rich enough. Nearly all of them are complicit in the oppression of the masses. Everyone could live a happy, comfortable life but in this world it's profit>people. I'm not a communist, I just don't think this current system of working ourselves…
/r/MensRights11/08/18 09:43 PM
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That's very true. I can't stand anyone who shuts down discussion and tries to prevent free speech. Lib feminists try to shut down other types of feminists and prevent them from speaking because they're not trans inclusive enough and other weird reasons. They're letting everyone down and making men feel like they're not allowed to share their opinion which is so fucking wrong. I agree with you but exposing this abuse doesn't have to be done in a way that demonises all feminists. I see a lot of cr…
/r/MensRights11/08/18 09:33 PM
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Men have abused women more. If you look at the whole of history, women have been abused and exploited by men for most of it. I don't think men are worse than women in any way, it's purely socialization and religion that has caused this but come on. You seriously sound insane saying that considering the historic abuse of women. Now I completely disagree with the way men are treated in society too but for most of history they have had the upper hand. Women aren't all in on a conspiracy to abuse me…
/r/MensRights11/08/18 08:28 PM
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First wave feminists were wealthy women, we should remember that. The rich have always been hypocritical, bigoted and desired control. First wave feminism did not represent the average woman, particularly not poor women. A lot of the laughable 'feminism' you see online today is coming from rich, privileged kids who have never known hardship. These privileged people don't represent us all, not even close.
/r/MensRights11/08/18 08:25 PM
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Agreed. I'm all for Men's Rights. There are real issues in the world that affect men but all anyone seems to want to do on this sub is hate on feminists. I don't think many actual female supremacists exist however millions of male supremacists do...
/r/MensRights11/08/18 08:19 PM
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That's true actually, I'm remembering wrong. It certainly wasn't this bad though right?
/r/MensRights06/08/18 05:56 PM
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Why is it a shithole exactly?
/r/MensRights06/08/18 04:57 PM
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The prison system is evil. My dad is currently in prison for a driving offense. The police randomly decided to follow him and he's a very paranoid man so it turned into a police chase. He got 8 months. The fact that female rapists and worse are let off is a fucking disgrace. I don't think most radfems have a burning hatred of men. It's more a hatred of a nonsensical gendered society which puts men socially above women. And gendercritical is NOT a circlejerk. It's one of the only spaces left on r…
/r/MensRights06/08/18 04:56 PM
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Lmao do you know anything about radical feminism? Who the hell is a radfem in parliament, genuinely? They're all rich bastards who take on particular ideologies in order to gain votes. If there were real radfems in government who had influence we wouldn't have such an influx of Muslim 'refugees ' constantly and trans people wouldn't be allowed free everything (including free fertility treatment) on the NHS.
/r/MensRights06/08/18 04:24 PM
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I want all of this and I'm a woman. I desperately want an EQUAL society. But blaming women is ridiculous. The main issue in the West is how money is regarded as money important than human lives. Men aren't dying brutal deaths in battle for our freedom, they're dying because the government found oil/resources somewhere and are greedy to the point that they will kill their own people. You're blaming the wrong people and until you realise that it's the elites who are destroying humanity you can't b…
/r/MensRights06/08/18 04:23 PM
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So all women should be removed from Parliament? You are so ridiculous. You're complaining about sexism while advocating for extreme sexism? The people in government are all corrupt, money obsessed evil cunts. Gender isn't a factor.
/r/MensRights06/08/18 04:17 PM
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Good for you man. This subreddit used to be so much better and men and women could have meaningful discussions. It's now clear half the subscriber's just really dislike women and actively look for any reason to hate on them.
/r/MensRights06/08/18 04:15 PM
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Thank you. I don't see why people here find the concept of taking responsibility for their own children so alien.
/r/MensRights04/08/18 08:56 PM
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