ImmabouttogoHAM Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
85	Here's a rant about some things I've learned over the years that I wanted to share with you guys. Brace yourself, it's a bit long.		ImmabouttogoHAM	/r/seduction	22/09/13 02:34 PM
8	Pain is temporary motivational video. There's been a lot of talk about getting in shape lately. Check this video out for some motivation.		ImmabouttogoHAM	/r/seduction	27/09/13 01:20 PM

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13	How do you guys get over a girl from the past? Thanks u/link_correction_bot. You've made me lazy when on mobile, so I just let you do it for me.	/r/seduction	25/01/14 03:48 PM
44	How do you guys get over a girl from the past? For me the best thing to do is cut all ties. No contact or she'll continue to be on your mind all the time. Delete her from Facebook, delete her number. If she wants to stay friends you're best off telling her you need to cut all contact for at least a while and try to never talk to her again. This may seem harsh, but if she's always around and you continue to have feelings for her, it'll never get easier. Also, as u/Doctor_pedobear said, go do something. Go on a trip to get your mind off of it.…	/r/seduction	25/01/14 01:05 PM
2	My Facebook is pretty much inactive. There's pretty much nothing on my timeline and I never update my status. Does today's college sedditor have to be involved in social media Agreed. I will say if a girl is on the fence about you Facebook can be a great tool to make her more comfortable. She can stalk you and see you're not a psycho. If your page is empty I may or may not hurt you. Personally I would rather not have a Facebook acct than give a girl a blank page to look at.	/r/seduction	19/11/13 04:46 PM
2	how do you invite a girl back to your apt? "My apartment smells of rich mahogany.... I have many leather bound books...." In all seriousness though, if she's going back to your place with you, not much needs to be said. Specifically if it's kind of awkward just say after party at your house, wanna keep talking at my house (if the bar is closing, or not, just feel out the situation), maybe offer to watch a movie. I like Black Dynamite or something else silly.	/r/seduction	19/11/13 04:41 PM
7	Thanks Seddit, I just turned a girl down for a date! He's making himself unavailable to her. We all know that women want what they can't have. Now that he's turned her down, he has upped his status in her eyes. Maybe now she is insecure because she isn't good enough for him. It's a mind game that in the end will probably not help out OP, because when he finally does give her what she wants (a date), he is no longer unattainable, and therefore she will lose interest. I assume she is early 20's. More mature women who are looking to settle with the r…	/r/seduction	19/11/13 04:29 PM
1	I'm trying too hard Then it seems you should be taking a hiatus and figure out what you want. Nothing wrong with that. Work on yourself. That's what I had to do.	/r/seduction	27/09/13 05:37 PM
1	I'm trying too hard Good points. I'd like to add to number 3, that if you're in a social setting, party, bar, etc. just because you end a conversation, doesn't mean you can't come back to her later if you think of something else to talk about. Timing is important. So don't go back when she's in the middle of a conversation with someone else and interrupt. You'll look needy, again. If it feels right, and she shows interest, maybe ask for her number. You have all the time in the world to get to know someone, so don't…	/r/seduction	27/09/13 02:42 PM
3	I'm trying too hard It's not about making others feel comfortable. It's about being comfortable around others. And stop caring what people think. Are you happy with who you are as an individual? If not than you need to figure out who you are, what makes you happy and allow that happiness to exude (your aura or whatever you want to call it). If you are a happy person, people will see that and want to be around you. If you're having a good time or making a good time out of any situation, again, people will want to be…	/r/seduction	27/09/13 02:33 PM
1	Seddit, please help me grow a pair I just commented on another thread in here something similar. It's all about being comfortable. Not just with others but yourself as well. Women are not a mysterious separate species. You don't have to act differently around them. People like to talk about themselves, so ask questions. At some point you'll be able to relate and have great conversation. You can check my post history to see what else I have to say. Just commented a few minutes ago. Good luck brother. And be confident.	/r/seduction	27/09/13 01:46 PM
1	[META] We need some required reading here. Most of all of your problems could be answered in depth with just a few books. If you actually want a dramatic change, you need a serious foundation. Let me start: How to win friends and influence people isn't necessarily required reading for seduction, but should be required for life. It will make you a better person and a great leader. Perfect for advancing in a career, etc.	/r/seduction	27/09/13 01:41 PM
2	I can feel my oneitis returning... Bros before hoes. The way I see it, this goes both ways. I'm fairly active when it comes to meeting new girls. But it's always in the back of my mind that if I don't immediately hit it off with this girl, but she seems to like my friend, I'll step back and let things take their natural course. I'm always trying to help my friends out in this aspect anyway. It makes me happy to see them happy. My point is (and there's not much you can say or do, depending on your friends personality), if your fri…	/r/seduction	27/09/13 01:37 PM
8	I'm trying too hard I think it's all about being comfortable. Not just with others, but with yourself too. A lot of guys see women as this different species. They're human as well. Talk to them as you would your guy friends to get comfortable. The flirting will follow. Also, people LOVE talking about themselves. When you're getting to know someone, you ask them questions right? Ask away, and relate as much as you can. Don't be a boring person. I don't mean only in conversation. Get out of your comfort zone and do s…	/r/seduction	27/09/13 01:30 PM
1	Have any of you successfully gamed older women? I've been out a few times with a 39 yr old a few times. I'm 30 now but met her when I was 29. I met her through some mutual friends. The first night we met I had a girlfriend. We have a lot in common and started talking and drinking a lot. As I was getting more and more tipsy I just got more and more close to her, she didn't mind. We kept talking, and then everyone at our table went out to smoke. Yada yada, almost kissed and she told me if she kisses me she was going to fuck me. And she doesn't …	/r/seduction	26/09/13 10:41 PM
1	Seriously what are you waiting for? Get in the gym. Now. Great post. Right before my ex gf and I broke up a couple months ago I decided I needed to do something about the 25 lbs I gained in the last year and a half. I'm already down 13 lbs from clean eating (occasional cheat days) and high impact cardio (insanity workout) about 3 times a week. I am already seeing my 6 pack coming through. Before I lost any weight my ex gf had zero problem with where my body was, we split, I somehow managed to land a 1 night stand, but stopped trying (partly due to bei…	/r/seduction	26/09/13 06:55 PM
1	Here's a rant about some things I've learned over the years that I wanted to share with you guys. Brace yourself, it's a bit long. Some call it a treat day, I call it cheat. I disagree with your "eat what you like". This is silly. I would love to eat cheeseburgers and drink beer every day but that would make me more fat than I already was. Healthy foods will make you live longer and feel better. Why is this even being disputed? I do agree with practicing moderation.	/r/seduction	23/09/13 04:32 AM
6	Here's a rant about some things I've learned over the years that I wanted to share with you guys. Brace yourself, it's a bit long. Haha! Thanks man. Where I'm at the only work that pays without a college education is the oil field. It's the life blood of my community. I didn't even mention that I drive about 1 1/2 hrs each way. So I'm at 15 hr days including drive time. I've been here for a little over 2 years and it was rough going from 40 hrs a week in town to this. You make the adjustment. Get used to not sleeping more than about 5 or 6 hrs a night (if you're lucky). And social life goes out the door until your week off.…	/r/seduction	22/09/13 06:31 PM
5	Here's a rant about some things I've learned over the years that I wanted to share with you guys. Brace yourself, it's a bit long. Thank you. I put a lot of thought into it. Just need to put it together a little better I think. Like I said, I have a lot more in my head I'm dying to get out, but this was long enough for the time being.	/r/seduction	22/09/13 05:57 PM
1	Finally beginning to grasp the importance of not giving a fuck. In my experience, I found that reading the individual is important. I know a lot of people here like "cold approaches". I'm terrible at them. Same as you I have a hard time with an opener aside from asking how her night is going and if she's planning on staying here all night. After that I choke unless she's genuinely interested and adding to the convo more than just answering questions. My favorite is to go to the bar for a new drink, right next to a cute girl. When I walk up and she notices so…	/r/seduction	22/09/13 05:49 PM
6	Here's a rant about some things I've learned over the years that I wanted to share with you guys. Brace yourself, it's a bit long. My point to diet and exercise wasn't just so that you will be muscular and strong, but being healthy will make a huge difference in your life. You don't have to be a body builder, I don't plan on being one. But I don't think I've ever met a girl who didn't want her man to be healthy. Not everyone will have to go to the "extremes" that I have. Individual metabolisms play a part as well. I wanted to feel good, be healthy, and get quick results. It worked for me. I love life and want to live a long…	/r/seduction	22/09/13 04:42 PM
25	How to deal with other guys hitting on your girl? Personally I used to take it as a compliment with my last girlfriend. I knew she was hot and there was no way she wouldn't get attention. I would just make my presence known. Usually he would ask if I was her boyfriend and that was that. More than once (at the bar) the guy would then offer to buy us both a drink and apologize if he was pretty forward with her. I never got mad, I just told him "no problem, I know she's hot". We'd have a good laugh and get on with our night. Obviously my experienc…	/r/seduction	22/09/13 12:21 PM