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Immadeadbird/r/seduction25/12/14 03:35 PM
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"okay, no problem" edit : "hmm alright no problem we can always meet up later. what does your schedule look like? how about these days. let me get back to you in a little bit. " decide between the two. edit2: "okay no problem. have a nice weekend!"
/r/seduction09/01/15 07:21 AM
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"okay"
/r/seduction09/01/15 07:13 AM
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you guys probably dont have a future together. she doesn't want to go further. seems simple enough. just try to talk to more people
/r/seduction07/01/15 11:03 AM
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tell her you think she is beautiful, ask for her number, arrange a date, hope it goes well.
/r/seduction06/01/15 01:28 AM
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I think the most interesting thought that came from this piece is of promise instead of obligation. this seems like the difference between a happy relationship and an awful one.
/r/seduction06/01/15 01:27 AM
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well why didn't you escalate things with her? talk about something deeper or try to figure out who she is. talk about hobbies and share some of yours. idk to me you just walked up to a random girl had a friendly conversation and went your separate ways. if you were interested in a romantic relationship ( purely physical or not ) why did you stick around and let your intentions be known directly or indirectly? edit: the way you talked to her is the way I talk with friends that im not going to hav…
/r/seduction06/01/15 01:10 AM
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I'm confused. what are you looking for when you talk to women? did you just want to talk to them? or go on dates? have sex? get a relationship? have an end goal in mind and try to slowly move the interaction towards that goal.
/r/seduction06/01/15 12:24 AM
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passive aggressive lol.
/r/seduction04/01/15 12:14 PM
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I think it is important because majority of your success will probably come from women who are interested early, rather than some strategy to win them over later. I'm just going to say that this banter can get all the women who are already interested and a perfect example of flirting.
/r/seduction04/01/15 10:36 AM
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Wow this is actually really impressive. edit: this is a pro
/r/seduction04/01/15 10:26 AM
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seddit can give a lot of advice, but it can't tell you how to get one girl. I read this somewhere before and I think it holds true. anyway, if you want advice I suggest going on /r/relationships and give a lot more information. my personal opinion is she doesnt want to date you and you probably are going to have to face that reality eventually. But, realize I only know .0001% of your relationship with this woman, therefore take my advice with a grain of salt. if you want a more accurate analysis…
/r/seduction03/01/15 07:39 PM
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I think your just friends. if she doesnt want to spend new years with you and just decided to do nothing. I think thats a pretty obvious signal. but gl to you perhaps im wrong but I dont think I am.
/r/seduction31/12/14 10:52 AM
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where are you meeting these women? Probably should change your venue to a more intellectually stimulating event. you will get better results there I suppose. edit: there are 7yo that are more intelligent than you, if you believe in statistics. those kids have to be somewhere and they also grow up to be 18yo. So, you're probably casting your net in the wrong area. If you keep throwing your net in a fresh water lake, when your looking for deep sea tuna. Then, you might be practicing an exercise in…
/r/seduction31/12/14 02:57 AM
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Indeed. but i guess you know what you are going to do anyway because you didnt seem very keen to the advice in the thread. so do what you feel is best. hopefully you're not a massive asshat. Pot calling the kettle black tho, since I doubt I'm much different.
/r/seduction29/12/14 01:09 PM
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then be honest with her. tell her what you said here I don't want her to leave her boyfriend for me what did you mean by standards have gone up btw? the standard advice this seddit gives is have standards then follow them.
/r/seduction29/12/14 12:48 PM
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Run. but its up to you. Idk if I would be strong enough. how did you guys break up? can you handle it or respect yourself if you guys got back together and the problems that caused the break up never get resolved? Edit : if my ex wanted to try again and kept in contact, I would need some assurances and some changes from what happened previously for me to do it. but I do miss her deeply at times, however not enough for me to take her back without any concessions.
/r/seduction29/12/14 12:39 PM
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good luck. make the conversation fun and you're probably golden
/r/seduction29/12/14 11:44 AM
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be genuine and not contrived and your flirting will come through. Negging is simply a imitation of a flirt. Sometimes I unconsciously neg a woman due to pure curiosity. example wow I really like that color of your lip stick. it has an extremely deep color. I suppose you wear you because its seasonal. ( I thought it matched her skin tone where she was quite beautifully pale and the deep red made a very nice contrast.) I actually said this to a woman and in retrospect it was probably in a form of …
/r/seduction29/12/14 11:31 AM
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Say its tinder mother fucker and not a GPS tracking device where if we swipe right we are now inseparable till we have sex. furthermore, this is why im sending you a msg to see if you're not insane. turn this into a joke and I think you're fine. edit: admit you swiped right because you thought she was attractive, unless you read something on her bio that caught you eye. Imo
/r/seduction29/12/14 09:44 AM
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What do you enjoy? hobbies? tastes? likes? go somewhere related to that subject and then talk to women there. They will have more in common with you than other places and perhaps you will get lucky.
/r/seduction28/12/14 01:36 PM
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I broke up with my ex almost 3 years ago and I still reminisce about her from time to time. Recently, after a bit of soul searching and a lot of re-evaluation of what actually happened in our relationship have I have moved on. A month ago I would say I wasnt over her however, that changed when I kept thinking about how well I was actually treated. my Ex was a caring, loving, beautiful, and extremely intelligent woman. However, I remember all the times she was emotionally distant, closed off, unc…
/r/seduction28/12/14 01:17 PM
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I also liked Models. It seems like a very honest and realistic take on how to interact with women. not 100% on target but as he admits it isnt currently known ( or knowable? ) how to always act correctly for any given woman.
/r/seduction27/12/14 12:31 PM
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lol yea im starting to feel that way. I honestly went out today and blew up in flames really really hard. I have no experience and no skill besides some notion of the direction. I'm lacking a lot of basics and it kinda sucks. hahaha
/r/seduction27/12/14 09:20 AM
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wish you the best of luck my good sir.
/r/seduction27/12/14 12:03 AM
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read some philosophy but you could go with Thomas Aquinas to love is to want for the other as other. but it's relative imo. I personally go with the basic understanding from my psychology text book. http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Triangular_theory_of_love
/r/seduction26/12/14 11:48 PM
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haha indeed I should have my intentions clear and went with some humor lol.
/r/seduction26/12/14 11:42 PM
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im sorry to say but I think it's dead. I think she likes hanging out with you, but doesn't think you listen and are too focused on sex. her liking you frightens her so much that she feels like you will just use her and let her go. but keep in mind, that I wasn't there. You may know something I don't and I could easily be wrong. But from your writing I think you agree with me. In your FR you mentioned she said something along the lines of not yet twice in your prompt. I hope the best for you but …
/r/seduction26/12/14 11:39 PM
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I think you are too smart for your own good and have a failure to escalate. I think we might be similar. what I am studying atm is escalation. there're different levels, broadly speaking, friends, flirting, semi serious, serious. I think you have friendly down pat, however you need to do something that will increase that level. with actions, body language, stating of intention, whatever it may be. lol thats just my 2 cents
/r/seduction26/12/14 09:14 AM
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I say find out what you like and then read as many things as you can till you feel like you have some broad sense how to act and have some sense how to talk. dont follow what guides tell you to do 100% just understand the basics of attraction then try it for yourself till you're confident with your own style. Becoming honest about yourself and your actions when you talk to women will always show confidence. but idk, im still learning myself. I think seducing women is like any skill where it is s…
/r/seduction26/12/14 09:09 AM
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I have met 2 women in my life where I approached without fear and was so focused and approached because I felt like I needed to know who she was. one became my ex-gf of 2 years and the other blew up in my face. But I think I understand where you're coming from and I just think those two women were my type that I felt compelled to get to know. I dont think its significant but It is a nice feeling being attracted to a person with sex not even entering the picture when you approach. I felt compelle…
/r/seduction26/12/14 09:05 AM
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I think you may have scared her off because she knew you were probably really focused on sex and she felt like that even if she does like you, which im sure she actually does, she would feel too committed to having sex with you. I think you might have your goals mixed up slightly. the goal is to have an interesting time with her and enjoy the moment and sex would be a nice benefit. However, when you are so tracked into sex on every chance you have when you're getting resistance. That friction wi…
/r/seduction26/12/14 08:46 AM
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Yea I know what you mean. I need to get a little better at not treating the number as the end goal but a stepping stone. It seems to build up to the asking of the number then I sort of relax a little bit and dont move on to the next topi smoothly. Its probably because I wait to the last second to ask for their number. I think perhaps if the conversations are going well I should just mix it in with my normal banter. Due to her having to leave rather quickly I couldnt switch to another topic sadly…
/r/seduction26/12/14 01:54 AM
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perhaps you're right. Being direct would help. I'm not sure she even heard my little joke tbh and I thought I was going to get the number regardless what I said because I thought we were having a good time. I ended up with her facebook as well as instagram. Perhaps something might come from all this but I have doubts hahaha.
/r/seduction26/12/14 01:51 AM
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haha well I did go to the coffee shop with 2 things in mind. its was a nice place to read Talk to women so i wasnt going to simply leave. furthermore, every now and then I would make a joke with her, it was still pretty good at first then slowly turned cold.
/r/seduction26/12/14 01:50 AM
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