| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
|---|---|---|---|---|---|
| 10 | Heartbroken by ex saying the sex was bad | Comprehensive | Immediate-Round-9050 | /r/seduction | 19/06/26 10:36 AM |
| 7 | Girls lose attraction when they meet or call me | Comprehensive | Immediate-Round-9050 | /r/seduction | 20/03/26 12:32 PM |
| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
|---|---|---|---|
| 1 | Heartbroken by ex saying the sex was bad1.5 years. We met like twice a week and fucked only once each visit. I wish it was easy to find someone who is actually willing to be with me just for the sex. My ex i feel was there just for the money and experiences. | /r/seduction | 19/06/26 09:00 PM |
| 1 | Heartbroken by ex saying the sex was badMy ego doesn’t let me lower my standards. I am trying to improve: building a stronger and bigger body and facial dimorphism. Does the competing have to be in martial arts/sports or will any field do? I doubt winning in a math competition will do any favors for this purpose. I have been thinking of starting wrestling. | /r/seduction | 19/06/26 08:51 PM |
| 1 | Heartbroken by ex saying the sex was badWhat if I can’t lower my standards? Will I be alone forever or is it reasonable to expect to improve myself enough to meet them? | /r/seduction | 19/06/26 08:29 PM |
| 1 | Heartbroken by ex saying the sex was badYou’re totally right. How exactly can I become someone women want to naturally submit to? | /r/seduction | 19/06/26 06:20 PM |
| 1 | Heartbroken by ex saying the sex was badI agree, and that confirms my fear that it is a much deeper problem than just learning some technical skills. I need to completely change my mind. Long road. | /r/seduction | 19/06/26 05:23 PM |
| 1 | Heartbroken by ex saying the sex was badIt felt forced yea | /r/seduction | 19/06/26 05:02 PM |
| 1 | Heartbroken by ex saying the sex was badI wanted to prove to myself i could get her back but i failed. My ego is bleeding | /r/seduction | 19/06/26 04:52 PM |
| 0 | Heartbroken by ex saying the sex was badShould i hit her up in a year lol | /r/seduction | 19/06/26 04:46 PM |
| 2 | Heartbroken by ex saying the sex was badI did ALL of that. Exactly as you wrote. It pains me to see that it was all futile. | /r/seduction | 19/06/26 04:43 PM |
| 1 | Heartbroken by ex saying the sex was bad‘Rhythm matters more than speed/force’. Thank you. I’ll keep that in mind. It’s interesting though why that is from an evolutionary standpoint. Maybe it signals calm security while an erratic rhythm signals insecure trying to please you energy. | /r/seduction | 19/06/26 04:31 PM |
| 1 | Heartbroken by ex saying the sex was badThis is the part I’m most worried about. I can learn the technicals, but what if the problem is much deeper and has to do with my psychology? I have no idea if i can even change that. | /r/seduction | 19/06/26 04:27 PM |
| 0 | Heartbroken by ex saying the sex was badHer loss. She’s just destroying her body and mind. | /r/seduction | 19/06/26 04:23 PM |
| 0 | Heartbroken by ex saying the sex was badThose are always tricky for me. How do I know how hard to hit/choke exactly? What if I overdo it and she gets offended? What if these feel ‘artificial’ and like I’m doing them just for the sake of doing them? I struggle to actually connect with the ‘take this you slut’ energy. I think I’m too nice and considerate. Also the foreplay was basically non existent because it was boring to me and felt forced. I just wanted to thump her down. | /r/seduction | 19/06/26 12:09 PM |
| -14 | Heartbroken by ex saying the sex was badI tried giving her head and all but I was really not into it. It felt so boring. I didn’t even do any proper foreplay, just a couple minutes of kissing and fingering her, then she would blow me for a few seconds, and then I’d start penetrating. | /r/seduction | 19/06/26 12:04 PM |
| 4 | Heartbroken by ex saying the sex was badI have tried focusing on breathing but I can’t seem to last long or get myself to be calm | /r/seduction | 19/06/26 12:01 PM |
| 6 | Heartbroken by ex saying the sex was badWhat is it about? | /r/seduction | 19/06/26 12:01 PM |
| 1 | Girls lose attraction when they meet or call meNot sure | /r/seduction | 03/04/26 06:50 PM |
| 1 | Girls lose attraction when they meet or call meI don't know | /r/seduction | 30/03/26 06:44 AM |
| 5 | Some guysEither they have an elite skeletal structure, or they are high status. | /r/seduction | 23/03/26 07:16 AM |
| 0 | Girls lose attraction when they meet or call meBecause I’m biologically hardwired to. I don’t see a way out of this whining. I am working on myself the best I can. Knowing consciously that nobody owes me anything is one thing, but my subconscious has still not digested this fact. | /r/seduction | 23/03/26 07:13 AM |
| 2 | Girls lose attraction when they meet or call meI wish I could | /r/seduction | 21/03/26 08:54 AM |
| 1 | Girls lose attraction when they meet or call meI’m resentful because I don’t get treated the way I want by women. I get ignored and rejected mostly. I can’t think my way out of this resentment. It needs some expression. | /r/seduction | 20/03/26 08:10 PM |
| 1 | Girls lose attraction when they meet or call meI’d love to resolve those issues if I could. I have no idea how to. | /r/seduction | 20/03/26 06:12 PM |
| 1 | Girls lose attraction when they meet or call meWhat rigid world view? I’m the one who is countering my own behavior in fact. | /r/seduction | 20/03/26 06:07 PM |
| 3 | Girls lose attraction when they meet or call meIdk if I have adhd or rsd but the symptoms and coping mechanisms you listed are all present. I do work out. Hopefully therapy can fix this. As for my voice, it’s weak and high-pitched. I’m also bad at speaking in general because I barely have any social experience. | /r/seduction | 20/03/26 05:55 PM |
| 1 | Girls lose attraction when they meet or call meWhat if I’m pissed off at what they’re saying | /r/seduction | 20/03/26 05:50 PM |
| 2 | Girls lose attraction when they meet or call meYeah…I try but I get nervous and awkward | /r/seduction | 20/03/26 05:49 PM |
| 2 | Girls lose attraction when they meet or call meNever works for me. I get instantly unmatched. Maybe I’m not hot enough. | /r/seduction | 20/03/26 05:39 PM |
| 0 | Girls lose attraction when they meet or call meHow to build that security? | /r/seduction | 20/03/26 05:38 PM |
| 1 | Girls lose attraction when they meet or call meI’m being serious. Will TRT do the job? | /r/seduction | 20/03/26 03:57 PM |
| 1 | Girls lose attraction when they meet or call meHow do I improve my voice, and stop my impulse of saying whatever comes to mind? | /r/seduction | 20/03/26 03:36 PM |
| 1 | Girls lose attraction when they meet or call meNo PMO. I do lift a lot. But man, competing with other men is scary as fuck. What if I lose? It will be humiliating. | /r/seduction | 20/03/26 02:52 PM |
| 2 | Girls lose attraction when they meet or call meI look exactly like my profile. Career is probably not an issue. The issue is almost certainly me being non-masculine. My ex accused me of being feminine. | /r/seduction | 20/03/26 02:42 PM |
| -2 | Girls lose attraction when they meet or call meThey usually come for my looks. But if I am even remotely sexually direct they get turned off and ghost me. | /r/seduction | 20/03/26 01:41 PM |
| 3 | Girls lose attraction when they meet or call meWhat makes you say I’m hilarious? | /r/seduction | 20/03/26 01:35 PM |
| 2 | Girls lose attraction when they meet or call meHow? | /r/seduction | 20/03/26 01:14 PM |
| 2 | Girls lose attraction when they meet or call meBut I find that impossibly hard. I can’t pretend to be someone else, it hurts | /r/seduction | 20/03/26 12:50 PM |
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