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| – | CMV: A man isn't obligated to step in and save a woman from being mugged or assaulted.Women laughed when I was physically assaulted I'm sure if I had to relay them with the same coin I would be called a monster but yeah, they're so nice and 👍🏾👍🏾👍🏾 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/08/24 02:48 PM |
| 0 | Modern relationships don’t benefit womenyou're not sorry, we're strangers as you don't matter to me I don't to you. we should just be honest here and realize that life can't be happiness and joy and hope for all of us, for some of us it's just a slow jog between being somewhat contempt and wanting to end it all but not finding the courage of actually doing it, until we one day finally stop breathing wich is a blessing I'm still waiting for. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/08/24 01:50 PM |
| 0 | Modern relationships don’t benefit womenI'm ashamed of saying I don't value any of this anymore, I've been repeatedly proved that it doesn't matter how much you share with a woman be it joy, pain, grief dreams and how much you battle through things they're just hardwired to look for the best man available to them, and you'll never be the best men available to a woman when you're born with genetical defects like being short and ugly, you just have to suck it all up, that everything that you've built with them, any connection any import… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/08/24 01:30 PM |
| 8 | The "nice guy" trope is a defense mechanism which women deploy to divert attention from the fact that they are rejecting a guy based on a lack of physical attractionI was, and to some extent still are "the nice guy©". I can say that because I've gained enough self awareness to realize that yes I might be kind and caring but those things are the result of a sickening need for approval and a lack of courage to deal with confrontation and negative feedback, (and those things aren't good, and definitely not sexy.) For so long I've felt resentment towards women for preferring men that I saw as complete a"holes but now I kinda see why they we're attracted to them… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/08/24 03:57 PM |
| 1 | Dating apps and social media give women an extreme power imbalance in relationshipsIt's not that I only see extremes, it's that women in my life have proven to me they see me as garbage, that no matter what I do my inferior genes have condemned me to be meaningless to them and that if I don't serve a purpose to them I might just as well die. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/08/24 01:26 PM |
| – | Dating apps and social media give women an extreme power imbalance in relationshipsOf course you do!! Beep boop women always good! Beep boop men bad their fault they get cheated on constantly | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/08/24 08:07 PM |
| – | Dating apps and social media give women an extreme power imbalance in relationshipsThat's a reach for you to assume women can ever be sensible and loyal 😂😂😂 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/08/24 07:48 PM |
| 2 | Are men becoming ok with no sex?I accepted that the day I turned 18 and I was still 5'7😂 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/08/24 01:34 AM |
| 1 | CMV: Getting "called a creep" is an excuse why men aren't approaching anymorejmhm agree, men bad women amazing! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/08/24 01:30 AM |
| – | Men also label women who they find unattractive " creeps"beep boop...women amazing..men bad..beep boop. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/08/24 01:27 AM |
| – | It’s 2024. “Go to the gym” and “be confident and maintain frame” is the new “buy her flowers and hold open doors”Emphasize height, nothing else matters if you're under 6 feet I Know that because as a guy friend of many women the way they talk about short men like me is just....well y'all know | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/07/24 08:32 PM |
| -1 | What is love? Let's explore the concept.Garbage that was sold to us to make us feel less lonely for men, for women a choice | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/07/24 07:01 PM |
| 3 | Are men's dating beliefs based on personal circumstances?Dating BPD women who've abused me, cheated on me and left me, has made me lean towards black pill beliefs and make women my number one enemy for my own assumption that they would never consider me a worthy human being of their respect and love for my supposed inferior genes that have made me unnatractive for superficial yet so important reasons like me being 5'7 or not having an attractive face, jaw ecc. If I've never had those experiences or maybe if I had better ones where manipulation,lies an… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/07/24 09:43 PM |
| 6 | Why haven’t more men quit the market?I did | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/07/24 06:32 PM |
| 3 | Many men complain that they dont receive empathy, words of affirmation, and validation from women, and almost no woman wants to do anything with them unless they can exploit him in some way- resources. But they also block and avoid well-meaning female friends who dont see them in a romantic lightthen you did all you could, sorry if it all got wrong, hope he heals | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/07/24 03:20 PM |
| 3 | Many men complain that they dont receive empathy, words of affirmation, and validation from women, and almost no woman wants to do anything with them unless they can exploit him in some way- resources. But they also block and avoid well-meaning female friends who dont see them in a romantic lighthear me out, I'm done, it's okay, you will never understand the harsh experience of being an average or below average man in dating and it's okay. But let me help you with your situation so we can make this conversation valuable, as a friend you've done everything correctly, however rejection is still something hurtful and that us men take personally also because most of the times, it's all we get. He has just experienced a big and hurtful rejection, by divorcing him his wife might have put thou… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/07/24 03:06 PM |
| 1 | Many men complain that they dont receive empathy, words of affirmation, and validation from women, and almost no woman wants to do anything with them unless they can exploit him in some way- resources. But they also block and avoid well-meaning female friends who dont see them in a romantic lightAVERAGE GUY, AVERAGE GUY not celebrity 😭😭😭😭 the female brain is something else, they see one short super famous and rich dude do good with dating and they think that it's like these for all of us😭😭 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/07/24 02:42 PM |
| 5 | The standards of "not fat" and "no kids" are the BARE MINIMUM, not "extremely high". Bluepillers are disingenuously abusing semantics and population statistics to try to shame men out of having any standards at all.not gonna heal from my average face and sub par height, it's okay tho if dating becomes only a humiliation ritual it's better to completely avoid it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/07/24 02:40 PM |
| 2 | Many men complain that they dont receive empathy, words of affirmation, and validation from women, and almost no woman wants to do anything with them unless they can exploit him in some way- resources. But they also block and avoid well-meaning female friends who dont see them in a romantic lightI hope you get reincarnated in the body of a 5'7 not even ugly guy just average, with a skinny and not shredded body so you can test for yourself how being unattractive as a man is, because for women it might mean that you're not attractive to some men, for us it means that you're gonna either die alone or have a miserable destiny of terrible relationship with women that will use you, cheat and do anything because that still have 3000 options while you might have like, 2? One of them you're own … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/07/24 12:37 PM |
| 3 | Many men complain that they dont receive empathy, words of affirmation, and validation from women, and almost no woman wants to do anything with them unless they can exploit him in some way- resources. But they also block and avoid well-meaning female friends who dont see them in a romantic lightthe only difference between him, and a happy man, is that he isn't attractive, if he was, you would be with him, if he was he wouldn't have been divorced, if he was he would've had other options that would've made him not take your rejection so personally. being attractive as a man is the key to happiness . for many of us, as me, it's something that is stopped by things that we cannot even control, like height, or ethnicity, looks are the only thing that matters. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/07/24 12:21 PM |
| 3 | The standards of "not fat" and "no kids" are the BARE MINIMUM, not "extremely high". Bluepillers are disingenuously abusing semantics and population statistics to try to shame men out of having any standards at all.I literally have no standards at all, but still won't get one date, women standards are so superficial that even a young guy like me who owns his own car, house and has a good stable job is seen as garbage because he's facially challenged and 5'7. And since just waiting till they "mature" and finding a girl that will fake to love me so I can be a bank for her and her child she had with a man she actually truly loved and admired seems like a very humiliating kind of way to live just for a bit of … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/07/24 12:15 PM |
| 4 | Describe the average man dating experience ?You can't choose better when all of you work in the same way😂 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/06/24 12:01 PM |
| 5 | Describe the average man dating experience ?The black pill gave sense to my sad little dating life, and explained to me why women are disgusted by me. It's just evolution and survival of the fittest. A 5'7 "man" if you can even call it that is destined to have is genes go extinct. We're not all meant to survive🙌🏾 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/06/24 11:59 AM |
| 8 | Describe the average man dating experience ?Got told this same exact bs by a girl who then cheated on me with her ex, because she wasn't really over him, come to find out the only reason it didn't happen sooner it's because he didn't want it 😂😂y'all really love to say you're the one when you have a whole different person in your mind😂😂😂 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/06/24 07:43 PM |
| 6 | Describe the average man dating experience ?you're acting like there aren't any studies that show how much women prefer the top percentage of men, and think that rest are just "meh" at best or worthless depending on how far you go stray from that 20%. or you're acting like most of the divorces aren't started by women😂🙌🏾 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/06/24 06:54 PM |
| 7 | Describe the average man dating experience ?You don't agree with my opinion so it must be incorrect, right...... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/06/24 06:51 PM |
| 8 | Describe the average man dating experience ?Because women choose the best option available, if the guy she actually wants isn't really interested in her she will settle for the guy that she can get, but he will always be on her mind and if he wanted to he could probably have her, it's just that he doesn't, that's the only thing keeping 99% of marriages alive | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/06/24 06:49 PM |
| 0 | Describe the average man dating experience ?Happier? What's happiness? A family? You know that 99% of families would be torn apart if one of the above average peers decided to just do it, cause they're bored on a Saturday evening? Like please go tell me that your wife wouldn't be on her knees for a millionaire as soon as he starts taking her out on yachts and expensive cars😂😂😂😂. Yeah but the average man is DEFINITELY HAPPIER🤭 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/06/24 06:45 PM |
| -2 | Describe the average man dating experience ?Average guys are growing children that aren't theirs with women that have cheated on them or are still actively doing it, because their "love" is just a big mask to hide the fact that she isn't happy because as a woman her nature is to always look out for the best man while he is conscious deep down that all it would take for her to leave him is a taller, more handsome, and richer guy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/06/24 06:41 PM |
| 6 | Describe the average man dating experience ?😂 see the only difference between men who are successful at dating and those who aren't, is the way they talk to women😂😂😂! The only thing missing from this massive cope is the confidence bs!. C'mon average men, go be confident! It's gonna lead you to sooo much success with dating, and obviously not just with a bunch of rejections and an even lower self-esteem!!! And don't forget about the 6 showers a day at minimum and the fresh cut every 5 seconds!! It's all in your head guys!! The average woma… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/06/24 06:38 PM |
| 8 | Describe the average man dating experience ?Probably rasing a child that isn't even his own while the wife he loves is thirsting over another dude that if she gets the chance she will sleep with🙌🏾. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/06/24 06:23 PM |
| 1 | How are men supposed to deal with successive rejections?I don't have a kind of woman I want in love, I fundamentally believe that it's stupid to build any kind of romantic bond if it will end up being broken along as my trust and mental health so I just take whatever we get, I do not approach women, or go out finding them, I sometimes end up hooking up with friends of friends because I have plenty of friends that happen to be girls and also approaching one of her friends would just create an awkward situation I'm not willing to create for my sake and… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/06/24 06:20 PM |
| 1 | How are men supposed to deal with successive rejections?I don't filter or pick anything, I'm an average looking 5'7 guy, I either date the few women that fake they like me because they have something to gain from me or I die alone, I DON'T PICK SHI CUZ😂😂 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/06/24 05:30 PM |
| 2 | How are men supposed to deal with successive rejections?when did I say that "your only value is your looks", I'm just arguing that not taking rejection personally because you're just being judged for superficial things is stupid because even those superficial things are part of you are, they're literally the first thing people see you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/06/24 12:50 PM |
| 3 | How are men supposed to deal with successive rejections?Yes it is, it's your identity, physical things are the few things that are objective and don't change depending on who you ask, one of my friends could tell you I'm a great guy and there's surely people out there that think I'm not that great, but my height? That's objective, my face?that's objective, it doesn't change (after you're fully developed obviously) I would argue that the things that we consider superficial are actually the closest to the reality of us. And plus bro stop shaming people… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/06/24 12:12 PM |
| 3 | How are men supposed to deal with successive rejections?Everything is part of the perception that people have of you, that's why people give each other the "tip" to develop a style and dress better, because that's also part of the expression of you, it's part of you, like c'mon bruh don't you tell me that when you think about a person you just think about an ethereal presence that has a personality, no you think about a body, a face, a voice, like get out here with this bs. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/06/24 12:06 PM |
| 4 | How are men supposed to deal with successive rejections?Are we reading the same post? where is he mentioning cold approach? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/06/24 12:03 PM |
| 14 | How are men supposed to deal with successive rejections?Rejection is definitely personal, can we stop detaching superficial things like the way we look or our height from who we are as people? They're all parts of us, and when you're not deemed worthy enough to be dated then it's a statement on who you are, it's either a I don't know you but your superficial aspects such as looks are so bad that I wouldn't even want to waste my time getting to know you, or I Know and I appreciate your personality enough to be friends but you lack the superficial aspe… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/06/24 09:20 AM |
| 1 | What are your unpopular opinions about dating, relationships, manosphere, or/and genders?What do you mean by this? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/06/24 06:09 AM |
| 4 | CMV: If you want women to be open about their preferences, stop treating them as dealbreakers.Yup go ahead and try to talk to one of those 6 feet only women as 5'7 guy and see how far it gets you. They're preferences are deal breakers so much so that in most cases you wouldn't even be able to strike a normal casual conversation with them without meeting their standard | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/06/24 10:26 PM |
| 3 | What are your unpopular opinions about dating, relationships, manosphere, or/and genders?Honestly, nothing. Your personality might be something different from everybody else but it really would take just a more attractive and wealthy guy to make her feel good about herself and all that personality would immediately stop mattering and you would get dumped or cheated on just for her to justify her actions by trying to depict you as unworthy or herself as a victim of her own thoughts that led her to stop "loving you" so they don't pass as somebody who just trew away another human being… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/06/24 10:14 PM |
| 4 | What are your unpopular opinions about dating, relationships, manosphere, or/and genders?I actually would argue that the average man is hated by women, but they usually hide that until you stop being useful to them. I know it sounds harsh and bleak, but please think about it, how many times did a woman reach out to you, average Joe, for something that had nothing to do with her, did they ever initiate a conversation with the intent of just talking to you and getting to know you better as a fellow human? How many women have asked you to explain to them that particular show,book game,… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/06/24 10:03 PM |
| 20 | What are your unpopular opinions about dating, relationships, manosphere, or/and genders?I disagree with the second one. I was the happiest I've ever been in a relationship once I thought I found genuine love. now that I'm back single after she cheated, I'm miserable. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/06/24 09:37 PM |
| 1 | A lot of men need to lower their standardsI never cared about looks in my partners, I genuinely only want companionship and somebody I feel at my ease with, and I still have no success dating. What should I compromise on again? Because my only dealbrakers are heavy abuse of substances and like heavy crimes and I'm still alone. How much compromising will it take before I'll find somebody that reciprocates me? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/06/24 09:05 PM |
| 1 | Men of PPD, what are your standards? Do you think they are high?why are you arguing with somebody's preferences, can we have standards without being judged for them, please? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/06/24 11:34 AM |
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