the reason women are more susceptible to spousal abuse is due to their lack of ability to achieve independent thought There was a research about how women have more frequent and better orgsms if their female friends approved their partners attractiveness. Hive mind to the core
Why are women so rude on OLD. I'm a couple of years off the dating apps but i swear to God women can't bare 1/10 of their brutality and hostility towards men on OLD if men did the same.
If our idiot lazy ass shorter male ancestors had done better job at hunting and protecting females we wouldn't be here all over the internet arguing about 7 cm more or less bone length.
Personality , confidence , hygiene , take a shower , haircut , women aren't monolith and other shit was mainstream during 2015-2020. Such a crazy times.
What is the point of virtue signaling and gaslighting ? Post something on any dating- relationship - marriage Sub and most answers are "looks doesn't matter , height doesn't matter , be funny and confident , good personality is attractive " etc How women benefit from it ? Why they do this ?
Q4A: you're hired by government and you're in charge to solve inceldom epidemi among men. You're like god , can do anything , have access to everything but you can only make one move - one change ( for example free limb lengthening surgery for everyone ) . Also traveling to other countries or bringing women from other countries is not allowed . What do you do ?
Its not quality of the pictures or fishing or stupid group photos . Its nature. Its biology . If it wasn't this way we wouldn't be here using our cellphones arguing. Evolution , best Genes .
You all downplaying the makeup effect https://preview.redd.it/etxnwhk7ryzc1.jpeg?width=751&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=3e72ac6611676d0ac032bd5c2aa4b1bdfa9343f9
Its not only about "looks matter " . Most people know that . There's more about black pill and red pill . The 80/20 rule ... Hypergamy ...women and their Height fetishism. Their different way of sexual arousal . We should tell them if you're not 7/10 atleast you're fucked. Yeah looks matter but in theory a 5/10 guy in every terms should be able to get maybe a 4/10 ~5/10 gf with some sort of effort . Right ? No , Not in reality . Average guy or even sometimes above average guys experience years a…
If a man had made a post about womens appearance he would be killed by now. But men are laughing and bantering under this bishs post. We are the problem. We let this happen. She is looking for more likes , impression and she gets it anyway.
Its our nature to crave relationship , safe regular sex , to love and being loved , someones company etc . Not watching anime and movies doesn't change that
Rich says money doesn't buy happiness vibes I blame anime and movies for a lot of this because a woman fixing a man's life is a common trope. Not watching anime and movies gonna change your nature ?
I'm between 5'10 and 5'11. I round it up to 5'11 on dating apps (1.8 m metric system) . Why don’t you just change your height on your online profiles and see if that’s actually what’s holding you back? Never tried that . I've stopped using dating apps now . In real life i feel really short compared to other men in relationship . Guys who are not single are taller than me atleast 6'1
This is an experiment on speed dating where the pool is limited for each gender . ( It matches the pre tinder experience for everyone - after tinder and dating apps each woman has thousands of options so this graph isn't the reality of 2024 ) . Even in a forced circumstances like this short guys have no chance . That's what I'm trying to say . ( See below 170 cm competition ) . I'm 5'10.5 and get treated like I'm short on apps. So you can expect that this graph shifts heavily towards right where…
Thats crazy ... The amount of likes and reposts on each post is alot higher than mens red pill community. I didn't know women are into / need red pill stuff . I mean you have thousands of options just by existing , the hell do you want red pill for?
Wish it wasn’t like this and men could approach women in more wholesome places like the grocery store or library but unfortunately that’s not the case. I got a date in library . Didn't go anywhere though.
Shouldn't there be social controls in place to make sure woman the woman doesn't take advantage of men on first dates? Woman should be socially shamed for making a man pay on a date, for not catering to his needs, for not taking some of the responsibility of making the date good. Good luck if you think modern man has got enough balls to change any modern social norms in his favour . ( I'm not talking about paying on first date )
This only 6' shit . This " doomed for life for being 5'6 " shit . Again... I get it. Its harder . Not impossible . Go to shortguys sub right now and see the recent posts . Life fuel ⛽
No , she'll become more attractive and she thinks she deserves better and suddenly an affair with a coworker happens and she writes it on reddit " i love him but im not in love with him anymore , i need to find myself " and then i get divorce raped . So I'll keep 25k and my life .
I get it man . Its tough . who are already into shorter men and thats a minority I'll correct that , women who aren't height fetishists and find someone who is attractive , attractive . So become more attractive by any means . Isn't one sweet lady who cares about you and loves you deeply enough for you ? Become hot as much as you can and find her and make her the happiest woman on this forsaken planet .
We aren't oppressed by an app . The problem is an algorithm which is designed for hookups . Some barely known apps for LTR are doing better in matching people Rather than make them frustrated. Unfortunately tinder monopoly is supported- created by mainstream media. So it won't happen.
I can't sleep . I'm thinking of one of my classmates during my undergrad years . He was falsely accused of sexual assault and his life turned into shit . A year or so later that girl confessed she'd lied but it was too late and dudes life was already ruined . The thing that scares me is how everyone believed her in a heartbeat . Men and women were ready to rip poor guy's ass the second they heard that story . She didn't face any consequences . Many Friends , cool family , good life , got her mas…
What the hell are scientists getting paid for ? Create a pill to make men gay already Or make limb lengthening surgery easier cheaper and with short recovery time God damnit Or make a drug to make women as horny as meb - attracted to average men . mens problems are important too !
Guys that aren’t needy, overtly sensitive, or isn’t tipped of their center are usually the guys that get the most dates and success in relationships No , looks ( face and height ) is what gets a man most dates and relationships. After that money and status.
to other women They are so malicious and cruel sometimes . thats the trick They are good at supporting eachother whenever all of them are benefited from it as a whole.
I’ve never compared or been compared to They dont tell you directly. This comparison.exe program is running in back of their minds . I've seen so many cases where a girl had a hoe phase after a hard breakup to boost her shattered ego and ended up with one of these hot guys she had CC with . Look , when a relationship with a 6/10 man ends she isn't going to partner up with 5.5/10 . She wants to convince herself she deserves better . Thats how an average man is fucked in modern dating .
Most often, she ends up even happier with someone else. New partner cant be a bit less than what previous partner was physically . That's what I'm talking about. Better better better and average man is fucked in this case .
You are completely right 👍 . However I think women are more sensitive to " better " part. Most Men can be happy with what they have right now . Women try to find little little imperfections in the picture if that " better" didn't happen. They have relationship OCD
Alpha widowing can happen by any means. There are some women who moved on from LTR easily but never in their whole life forgot a ONS and. Mourning over that . ( I know they might move on mentally before LTR actually ends but still ... ) . Its simple logic : they want better better better better better better better ( physically - sexually)... And this extreme point happens at one point and thats how an alpha widow is made . And thats why rich average men get cheated on but not hot guys .
As a man you'll always be compared to your girlfriends past partners. That's how their mind works . They cant be satisfied with lesser than what their past boyfriends were (physically) And there is always someone better than you. That's why serial monogamy with top 20% of men results in today's dating shitshow for bottom 80% of men . She leaves her soul in one of her past relationships. Mens minds don't work that way.
One thing these kind of guys do well is being able to break up with the girl while simultaneously implying he still wants her. You mist have really really high emotional intelligence for this one
Wow you give me hope ma'am 😏 My best friend is in a situationship with an ugly, short guy right now. Not all women have high standards. Also is he a janitor , Indian and bald ? Because i know someone exactly like that .
You just need to go to the right places where the sex positive women hang out. And be tall , 7/10 in face minimum and not autistic - social inpet which eliminates 70% of men .
is there any solution in your opinion? all and all these inexperienced men , a really big portion of them and ... On the other hand Almost all women are experienced ( minimum 7 past partners in their mid 20s ) .
In the past ( 90s , 2000-2010) average guy could get a girlfriend with effort . Now he's struggling. He experiences years of dry spell . This has to show you something about their standards.
Q4A : you love your partner deeply and find them really attractive. One day you find out they like pineapple on top of pizza . Do you continue this relationship ? Do you still find them as attractive as when you didn't know their preference ?
If short primitive men had worked harder in gathering food , being good fighters and good hunters and did as equal as tall men , we didn't have ridiculous problems such as being under 6 ft . Its our ancestors fault
Q4A : would you rather: 1 - Have a monotonous life - 9-5 job ( you make good money ) - boring day to day life - and have a pretty , caring and kind partner . 2 - you have exciting adventurous life and job full of new experiences , you make okish money , you are a lone wolf and single but can occasionally have sex if you want .
Vibe is so important in terms of attraction . I would say most desirable vibe among women ( or even men in platonic way ) ( according to my observation ) is easy going - fun - masculine - manly at the same time . I know its not a well known example but someone like dante from devil may cry
His facial features are super wierd But still very attractive to some women because it comes out as masculine ( also he is tall ) . Same as Ryan gosling. That's why traditional rating systems such as truerateme fails in these cases .
An example of how masculine personality traits helps attractiveness is Adam driver and his role as kylo ren . He hasn't the best face yet women simp after him . ( His height helps alot )
Boooooo 🍅🍅 /s But seriously we are touching grass . And the reality is that life can be brutal to some or most of us . Life isn't beautiful for everyone.
So it's strange that many women have a problem with slight close set eyes. I really wonder why ... Keanu reeves , jake Gyllenhaal , Ryan Reynolds heath ledger... They all have close set eyes and they are attractive . I never understand this
People claim Ryan gosling is 5/10 mostly because of his close eyes set. Are close set eyes really that unattractive ? I think men can get away with it if they have other good features and It looks better on men than women . Wide set eyes on the opposite look good on women but breaks a man's face.
I see on twitter the most loyal fans of man - bear debate who wont this shit end are these groups : 1- young girls ( 8-15 ) who see it as a sort of entertainment 2 - radical feminists 3 - immature - childish women ( if you scroll down their page you'll see she's an idiot within a minute ) 4 - attention whores 5 - idiot simps and white knights as always 6 - almost all leftists ( including #2 )
Having average wife is a Bliss for attractive men. If she is attractive and for a second she thinks she can get better options its over . Its not her fault though, its like suddenly a switch flips in her brain
Some women give Ryan Gosling a 5 as proof that they are attracted to average males. This is what I'll never understand. I'm straight man and i think he's super HOT
No you didn't got me this time 😁 . Look this is what I'm saying. A real 8 man is 6 in women's eyes and ALL women agree that he is 6 . ( All women's 6 - real life 8 ) On the other hand we have men . Some are into short women, some don't care about height , a minority are into tall women. A 5'11 woman is 4 for one man and 8 for another . A 5'6 man isn't 4 for one woman and 8 for another. He is below average because of his height for most women.
Most women do not respond that way even to extremely attractive men. I think you as a blue pill woman has The similar circle of friends around you in terms of beliefs and thoughts. You haven't seen how women lust after tall guys . You haven't been at bars and clubs . You haven't seen how being 6'4 blinds women. Well there is one solution. Dating other men. Thanks, very helpful
I'm not saying its mistake . A real 8 is a 5.5-6 in your eye as a woman. Women rate most men as neutral - unattractive. There are researches available on the internet about this. Women are harsher when judging mens looks .
Women have extremely narrow preference and desired type in men than the other way around. its been discussed here like a million times before. A 5 woman can be 8 in another mans eye . A 5 man is 5 for most ( if not all ) Women. Whenever someone claimes women have different types it means they find different types of top tier guys attractive .
With modern social atomization this solution is almost impossible. And even if it wasn't so , emotional bond in non platonical - in romantical way is created by chemistry . Women find most men neutral in terms of Attractiveness . What you say takes atleast months if not a year to happen and it probably results in being friendzoned
But this physical hypergamy has got crazier within recent years . If we assume it's because of womens financial independency i wonder if most women were ever attracted to their husbands in 90s and before.
Q4A: Women don't get sexually aroused by average or even slightly above average men. In your opinion what is the reason ? Biology and evolution ? Availability of the best options ? Is there any solution ?
I'm genuinely curious . Do you think most men aren't doing anything positive for their dating life because of fear of rejection And gove up or they are facing lots and lots of rejections and still getting nowhere ?
Its about illusion of being masculine . Women arent picking a 5'6 guy with a good ratio over a 5'10 guy with narrow shoulders Highly depends on that woman . As I've seen irl HIGHLY DEPENDS ON HER
Women aren't more shallow than men . They care about looks as much as men . The problem that makes this delusion ( women being more shallow ) is that average man isn't as beautiful as average woman .
I've got wild staring eyes And I've got a strong urge to fly But I got nowhere to fly to Ooh, babe when I pick up the phone there's still nobody home -pinkfloyd Guys don't forget that its over for most of us . I love you all . Bye .
See, I guess I fall into this category, but I don't feel like that's me? Like this whole ranking out of 10 thing seems very childish to me and designed to engender insecurities in EVERYBODY who participates in it. Why would you want to do that? This is how it works sir , we're just numbers whether we like it or not. It feels like you're building up a defense system where more and more people who aren't exactly you can't give you any feedback, because admittedly their experiences are different. M…
Even then when the chemistry is right two people can click and she can take herself off the market if she feels she’s found someone she can really be herself with and relate to. Women find 80% of men unattractive so again average man is fucked . Chemistry => being 7/10 atleast
Lol this is another version of " just be yourself bro " . What should men do ? Wait and wait and wait till maybe a woman shows interest in them ( that later to be found false signal ) ? If its so Good luck being a 40 year old virgin . That's why i tell people that this hobby BS makes no sense
Ma'am you'll lose your sanity if you face half of the level of brutality that an average man has to face . Struggle is real. But again... However that makes you comfortable.
More than half of the population of men should buy sex ? We don't have enough hookers My solution is polygamous relationship between an ugly woman and bunch of average - below average dudes
Yes its really hard for them to accept. there’s not much wiggle room when it comes to dating nowadays. Its cultural. Modern dating culture makes it almost impossible for average or below average men to even fet a date .
Q4M : do you prefer : 1 - have a new short term relationship each 4 months for 10 years with 8/10 attractive partner . OR 2 - find your soulmate who is super kind and caring and a good hearted person and spend the rest of your lives together but she is 5/10 .
*** - most important : joining hobby etc is BS unless you're 7/10 atleast. Most common way is dating apps . Women are socializing less and less. *- serial monogamy is the norm nowadays . After that FWB . And then traditional relationship . Casual hookups still happen less than the other 3. *- My hot take is that reddit is mostly optimistic " there is someone for everyone" mentality "grass toucher" women + older men who had it way easier, who try to shut you up whenever you nag about how hard it …
And yet people on reddit give advices such as join a hubby, group activities ,meet friends of friends etc etc . If a man is not atleast 8/10 nowadays and hasn't had partnerd up during university he has really hard ( near to impossible ) time and has to wait years of dry spell to get maybe - maybe a 4/10 woman . These advices are pointless.
They downplay the importance of height , an uncontrollable attribute and #1 most important thing women care about. Its height up untill 6' then face comes to play
Say something a little controversial about women on social media and you'll be crusified within next minutes . I'm not saying its bad . They are logically doing whats best for them . My problem is that men are passive in these situations.
Q4A : who has most - best options in dating : put them in orther from luckiest to the most miserable : ( their social skills, charisma etc are the same , also their income status... Are the same as well ). 1 - 6'4" height 4/10 face 2- 6'2" height 5/10 face 3 - 5'10" height 7/10 face 4 - 5'7" height 9/10 face
Q4A : who has most - best options in dating : put them in orther from luckiest to the most miserable : ( their social skills, charisma etc are the same , also their income status... Are the same as well ). 1 - 6'4" height 4/10 face 2- 6'2" height 5/10 face 3 - 5'10" height 7/10 face 4 - 5'7" height 9/10 face
Q4A : who has most - best options in dating : put them in orther from luckiest to the most miserable : ( their social skills, charisma etc are the same , also their income status... Are the same as well ). 1 - 6'4" height 4/10 face 2- 6'2" height 5/10 face 3 - 5'10" height 7/10 face 4 - 5'7" height 9/10 face
Women have such a great strategy supporting eachother online and in real life. No matter what , they support what is beneficial to them . Men on the other hand , are too rational and dont support eachother in large groups. Thats why women have a strong and great and effective agency
Yes and because they are not beautiful. Average woman is still a little attractive. ( Makeup etc ) This gap in attractiveness is causing all this mess in dating market
Super awkward socially . Depressed most of my life . Phd dropout. jobless . I'm almost 29 . Never had gf but not virgin . Little to no experience with women. I don't know how to disclose it even if i get a date. Physically ... I have a dark circle under my eyes due to insomnia and I'm not tall ( 5'10 )
majority of women realize desirable men are desirable to many women. In modern dating culture which is pure capitalism waiting doesn't do anything . They all have access to top tier men . Modern women do not settle
Q4A : we know only 20% of men are physically attractive to women . 80% of men are unattractive . If within the two next generations every man got +4 points in his attractiveness but women stay the same level what fo you think will happen ? Do they go for 20% top tier men again or 80/20 changes to 80/50 or something?
Why do you think women are more shallow? Men settle . Women are more content with being alone. So they keep their unrealistic standards . Technically they are more shallow
Girls can decide you're fuckble or not within 5 seconds . And all their moral standards drop once they are really into someone . If she makes you jump from hoop to hoop , you'll suffer in that relationship alot in Long term and you get nothing but wasted energy and time and money .
No we shouldn't. Where did i say we shouldn't try ? What you said is cope . Because physical attraction is 90% and then personality / vibe . Women are as shallow as men. Even more shallow
I am lucky enough to be on reddit during the golden era of " just take a shower bro" " just get a haircut bro " " its your personality" " just be confident bro " . Shit was crazy.
What is best for society doesn’t necessary correlate to what is best for an individual. Its so complicated and usually finding the optimal point is hard work
They are tall but average in the face . So you think its their charisma and personality. You cant find a personality trait attractive before you find the man physically attractive . Thats a brutal fact
Absolutely, we can look at a guy and feel immediate attraction, but I've fallen madly in love with men who looked pretty average, but it was their charisma, personality, humor, etc, that made me fall in love with them. And with that comes all the desire with it. Happens to be 6'2" i think
I don’t know how many times this has to be stated in this sub, but women are normally attracted to men physically and emotionally. When you combine emotional attraction with the physical suddenly a lot more men because attractive to women. That's a cope
Thanks for reply. it but you know that most men won’t ever be able to give that to you. Why though ? I think you mean .ost of them are unattractive - neutral . Right?
Its not a fantasy . I've seen it multiple times on twitter . They claim i want a bf but i don't want a bf and other girls reply like " sameeee " " oh thats meeeeeee " " yaaaaaassss "
How short do you think someone has to be for their good face to not help? 5'10 and under ( please dont walk on my nerves telling me its average blah blah ) How tall does someone have to be for their below average face to not matter? After 6'3" face doesn't matter just don't be fugly
Its a vicious circle . Men boost average womens' ego to get access to sex ( which they won't ) and average or below average women get to the point that they find being approached by non chad men offensive
People who are social and high energy all the time ... How do you do it ? I say hi to someone and i need atleast 3 working days to gain enough energy to socialize again
Didn't say anything about redpill.if you want pussy , get close to a niche , market yourself like you are not an NPC like multi million other guys . Do sth to get out of NPC position . 99% of profiles on hinge sub are just men with awkward smile holding a fish or in a forest or ... Even I'd say using dating apps are a dumb choice for average guys .
By blue pill i mean " just be funny " ," have a good personality " , "be fun to be around " IN A PLATONIC way . They don't understand the difference between platonic and sexual way
Go to hinge or any dating profile advice sub and you'll see . Most of them are average AND their appearance screams BORING , nice guy , etc Being average joe is not enough . Being an NPC doesn't work anymore
Are internet simps real ? Nah man . No one could be that idiot . Also some of this stuff is just advertisement agency trying to boost their clients account
Might I recommend remaking the WYR like this This isn't a good time because not many people are on here right now and it won't get attention . Do it when most users are here because I'm curious too Also hair transplant is an option my friend 😉
Do women seriously think so low of men, they'd rather get mauled by a grizzly than to spend time with men. :( Stop it . Who gives a shit what women think ?
Less than 2% of men with erection problems reported their symptoms first started before the age of 40. Only 4% reported symptoms of ED starting between 40 and 49 years of age. About 1 in 4 said their ED symptoms started between the ages of 50 to 59. Two in five men reported their symptoms started between age 60 and 69.
That study only says that women prefer men over 6 ft not that they wouldn't date someone under that height. If you asked me if I preferred a man with six pack washboard abs I'm going to say yes but that doesn't mean I'm not attracted to my average looking husband lol. People can be attracted to different things. There's a difference between preference and a deal breaker right ? Also something else to note a lot of the people that they're polling are chronically online people who barely even go o…
shitting on short men , autistic men , normal men , men in general is a great clickbait on social media ( specially TikTok ) and guarantees view and interaction to the post. Its all over the social media m'lady . As a man you could say a little 🤏 controversial thing about women and they ban you for life .
Men rate women's beauty in the shape of normal distribution curve . For women, you're either attractive or not . And 80% of men are unattractive - neutral to women . I know its very hard to accept it as we are the first generation whom are exposed to this brutal truth at its finest .
Race , Height, weight, face , income , status, charisma and charm , dick size , dick shape , IQ , EQ , being neuro typical, degree , job , tone of voice , eye color , hair , political view , personality , black lives , family , having a car and house and so much more matters
A man . 1- I have 0 tolerance for drama 2- i don't want to be falsely accused of SA when we go back to civilization 3 - in that situation where I'm fighting for my life I don't have time or energy to take care of someone else .
don’t think they should receive any empathy from us. With all the shit happened and still happening about false accusations of sexual assault a man should have an iq level of a vegetable to care about this shit or have sympathy .
Unpopular opinion: The only way to adjust the dating market again is to eliminate simps , betas , white knights . Its all about power . Nothing else . These are the ones who give power to women in a silver plate
This is me and my personal thoughts . I think I'm missing out . "These guys" you mention are ok with one faithful partner i think . Can't you draw a simple line between different opinions? Whoever doesn't want promiscuous woman in his life wants to sleep around ?
Q4A :in your opinion is it possible for average man to have any power in dating scene ? By power i mean pull girls easily - have high n count - can be promiscuous etc or is he doomed to commit to one partner if he is Lucky and get one ?
You need to be attracted to someone to start a relationship with him/her . Average Women ( heck even below average ) are attractive because of makeup and male thirst. Average man is not attractive. Simple as that
they teach you that or you just suspect that from experience? This is how i take black pill . what additional knowledge did being a part of the community provide? Don't play dumb games like red pill or whatever . Try be attractive physically as much as you can . If you cant then good luck
I wonder if my life could have turned out differently with maybe even a wife by now if I never had discovered the blackpill and incel communities. Ignorance is a Bliss
However, even the average man past a certain age had dated and fucked around and has also rejected women Yeah exactly I've seen this in real life You're right 👍
Society in general favored men in the past , now heavily favores women , Social support - Sexual - romantical - power to control marriage and dating [market]
If you mean dating market gets better because of the equality ( caused by male pregnancy and alpha female power ) ... Well True equality never happens . Never . With a limited amount of resources a pyramid sheme begins to form to select the best of the best. So again the wast majority are fucked .
True equality never happens . Never . With a limited amount of resources a pyramid sheme begins to form to select the best of the best. So again the wast majority are fucked .
80/20 is for 2009 . It's really forgiving number. Now it is 90/10 . Until you realize that it also found that men were 28x more likely to do the same than unattractive women, and were 5x more likely to message attractive women than average Back in 2009 a small % of people were black pilled. Now it's a different story . Study... Research ... Do whatever . That doesn't change the fact that most men are unattractive to women . Dating apps have a very high male to female ratio Even in a 50/50 or 60w…
She has high paying tech job ( if she isn't lying which i doubt ) . Fuck it . She can make money off of a dude for having 10 minutes sex . Its enough .
No , i dont care about her . Its just painful when i compare that to my shitty life which i didn't ask for . I feel like a peasant who has to suffer all his life for a minimum return . Its fucked up and sad . Thats it .
Man its so sad . I'll live once and never exist again and this is my lived experience . Women spin the world on their finger . They really can have it all .
I'm a stem phd dropout and I'm working my ass off to get somewhere at 28 ( like all my life - I didn't live life ) and am really exhausted ( i sleep each 2 days due to amount of work ) and i see this ... Fuck being a man . Really fuck it . https://preview.redd.it/nl9zchecv1xc1.jpeg?width=1080&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=98dbbf89c687f05a3c9b038098e77d8450adb773
When I say fetish I mean like she ain't accepting nothing less but 6'0/6'1 plus or at least a 7 inch difference with a HARD stance. You mean 95% of women?
I’m also fully aware that due to my lack of experience at my age, I wouldn’t make a good long term parter either. I think casual and short term is a way to practice and gain experience for the long term one
Q4A : does dating market for 27-35 single people mostly contain leftovers and mentally -not so stable - people? Is it a sh*tshow compared to 18-25 dating where good ones find each other and pairoff ?
I come from non western country . Some of wahmens behaviors are universal . They are height fetishists because they want to wear heels , feel protected and feminine yada yada ( its a status symbol) . They are hypergamous but not as brutal as US and UK and canada. They also ( like any other woman ) make average man jump from hoop to hoop and have unrealistic standards so its hard to love them and not see them as objects because its like a job interview and you view them same as how do you see you…
I think Women go for men who are already desired by other women . That's why women hit on married men. So you get plenty or none . ( Thats my personal observation )
So was your dad all those things? Yeah except he had average income . Why wouldn't you aspire to be like your dad? Aspire someone doesn't make you look like him. But I try
I just posted this like 5 minutes ago on old chat thread. So to prevent it from being buried here we go : Men need : above average height. , attractive face (not average) , make good money , have head full of hair , be Jacked - fit , good conversationalist, be educated , charismatic , good vibes , not living with parents , big social circle , has a car , good at sex , above average size ( there ) , can entertain her and her friends . To be successful with women. Women need : biologically be a wo…
Men need : above average height, attractive face (not average) , make good money , have head full of hair , be Jacked - fit , good conversationalist, charismatic , good vibes , not living with parents , big social circle , has a car , good at sex , can entertain her and her friends . To be successful with women. Women need : biologically be a woman , not being fat , not terminally ugly ( i mean 1) , use makeup . Done.
Some of them really are. Great jaw line , Great eyes etc etc . But the moment you talk to them you think you're talking to a girl . Super sensitive and affectionate , also they are emotional tumpons for their female friends
Nice guys don’t finish last, unattractive men finish last. This is where men get things confused. Nice guys are unattractive. I've seen enough 6'2 6'3 soyboys being friendzoned hard . And enough assertive charismatic average 5'7 guys slaying
Just saw a couple where the lady(?) wanted to open their marriage and had ToW pArTnErS . She was studying while her husband worked full time . She moans under chad while her husband is working like a horse as an IT engineer . Due to some legal situation our guy can't file for divorce and bish doesn't like to lose betabuxx benefits . This is just ... Sad . Man i hate this world.
Come on . If it was 5'10 and 6'4" I'd agree with you . But a goddamned forehead difference doesn't determine who is the winner . You mistakenly assume the 7cm height difference= more power . Power doesn't work like that
Women feel protected and feminine next to orange guy (6'1") but dont feel protected and feminine next to purple guy(5'10") . Its just half of a forehead! <image> HOW ?
Women won't feel protected and feminine around purple guy ( 5'10 ) but they do next to orange guy (6'1") . I mean its just half of a forehead . How is he gonna protect you with having a half more forehead? https://preview.redd.it/ov1ow8y2olwc1.jpeg?width=1080&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=273f4945b3383e6cdef9f3a3b5f3f7b405d362d1
Trolley problem/dilemma ignores one important variable : GENDER . Even If there are 20 men on one line and one woman on the other line , chances of men to be fucked up is pretty high. women's choice is obvious . No need to discuss. If a man has to pull the lever chances are super high he is a simp and will choose that 1 woman. https://preview.redd.it/oahilzalmhwc1.jpeg?width=1080&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=97d0f2d1d46d555b9ad7f754ddfe5a53276c087b
I wanna record - produce a thrash metal track named " broooootal " and lyrics are mainly this sub's posts and comments . Any volunteers for lead singer / two guitarists / drummer / keyboard ?
I don't think so. For every 20 socially awkward men i see there's maybe one woman . It has to do something with women's big social support group and having more friends etc etc also women have an amazing emotional CPU in their brains
They bag a hot guy within hours and delete the app. After some time cant get commitment from the guy and also wonder there maybe better opportunities and reinstall the app and ... repeat 🔁
No way bro height is superior to face Ummm ... Thats what I'm saying . can you provide me some of your real life observations on that? Jobless 6'4 dude with average face drawing in pussy. Do you want more ? Go outside and see . Despite heavy gaslighting and virtue signaling here , 80% of women have height fetish and cant be satisfied with average or short .
Height > face ( unless you're not terminally ugly ) Height > everything else According to my daily observation. Accept it men . Accept it and move on. Life isn't fair .