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Great points. Another thing I’d like to add, I don’t know if you’ve mentioned it already but, not every interaction has to end up with us in bed. I often initiate a conversation and keep it just that, I say have a nice rest of your day and go off to wherever it is I was going.
/r/seduction29/05/26 01:37 AM
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What city are you in? I went to college in Boston, and yes people don’t talk much in class these days that’s true but try out the other methods, definitely join clubs of interest. I worked part time on campus which helped me make friends too and remember it gets a lot more difficult to make friends once you’re out of college, make the most of it.
/r/seduction12/03/26 06:48 PM
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When you’re in college, it’s the best time to meet girls. I met a girl in college who was sitting right next to me, on my left in the library. A person who was sitting on my right started blasting music on her headphones and it was loud enough for us to hear it, we kind of giggled at her music taste and started talking. When you’re standing in a line at the dining hall, good time to try it out, social clubs are incredible to meet women, and what I used to do in college was, if I’m cold approachi…
/r/seduction12/03/26 06:02 PM
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One thing I usually do is, I go for a full warm hug, not the side hug that friends do. Right away set the tone for the date. A lot of people here have mentioned escalations, and teasing, don’t treat it like a back and forth question and answer round, joke around a bit, and stay confident. Good luck to you.
/r/seduction27/02/26 06:19 PM
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‘I have a boyfriend’ is a very direct way to tell the other person that they’re not interested. Contrary to what we see in movies, when you hear that, just bite the bullet and walk away. Respect people’s choices. Us cold approaching does not mean a response from a stranger is warranted. I don’t think anyone on this sub will tell you to continue pursuing someone even after you’ve received a ‘I’m not interested’ from that person. It’s a huge part of cold approaching, the best thing to do is to mov…
/r/seduction24/02/26 09:54 AM
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I swear, the insecurity about being of any race and 5’9” is absurd. Dating is a skill, focus on learning it and get out of your basement. My best bud is an Indian, he’s 5’8”, looks decent, takes care of himself, and has decent game, he’s on a date every week with different women and has dated literally every race. And no your mom didn’t ruin your dating life, get off the internet and go to therapy if need be.
/r/seduction28/01/26 03:18 AM
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Any sources for this? I do like to meet women when I travel, I don’t necessarily target poverty rampant countries, I love India and I know that wasn’t your intention either but not entirely on board passport bro movement.
/r/seduction07/12/25 03:10 PM
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I thought this page was for seduction techniques or is it for passport-bros ideology now?
/r/seduction07/12/25 02:22 PM
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Great post man, although I don’t agree with not playing the numbers game. I think it’s always going to be a numbers game, unlike most men, women have to be careful about all the psychopaths out there, even if she was into you, she’d have to think twice before giving you any details.
/r/seduction25/11/25 03:10 PM
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I feel dating someone in that age range could be a challenge for a 20 year old, sometimes they just view a 20 year old as a baby, but if you find someone who is interested (which is still possible) best bet is to take an interest in their profile, what are their hobbies/interests? What are their professions? What are they looking for? In my experience starting with interests and hobbies has worked out for me while dating older women.
/r/seduction06/11/25 06:30 AM
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Well done, welcome to the club.
/r/seduction05/11/25 06:04 PM
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Give it time, meet other women, and you’ll be fine eventually. I’m sure most of us have been in your position.
/r/seduction03/11/25 04:01 PM
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How old are you by the way?
/r/seduction03/11/25 03:55 PM
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And maybe she’s just friendly and you’re misunderstanding her. I saw the other comment which said pursue her any way, that’s fucked up. Imagine what her boyfriend might go through if she is actually interested in you, I’d never do that to a fellow brother. Find other women and if she confesses you that she’s into you, that’s a different matter.
/r/seduction03/11/25 03:55 PM
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Move on, find a different woman. It’s unlikely she’ll drop her 6 year old relationship just for you and even if she does, that says a lot about her. There’s plenty single and beautiful women out there.
/r/seduction03/11/25 03:48 PM
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Yeah, I don’t think anyone’s expecting her to leave her girlfriend, but she could just reschedule would be a sign of showing interest.
/r/seduction27/09/25 10:45 PM
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Invite wasn’t needy, it was a clear sign that you’d like to escalate, she couldn’t make it and hasn’t told you a day that she’s available for that plan, has she? If yes, stunning, if not, onto the next.
/r/seduction27/09/25 03:10 PM
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Alright, calm down. How do you mess it up? This sub is for improving and asking for advice, if you don’t tell us what your moves are we won’t be able to help you. What in your opinion usually goes wrong?
/r/seduction22/09/25 03:27 PM
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Tf is wrong even if he actually was an Indian asking such a question? They’re not supposed to?
/r/seduction09/09/25 03:44 PM
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Everyone has a type, some women like those kind of men some don’t, generalizations won’t work here. Every gender characterizes their desired gender on the basis of dating and/or marriage material, I’ve seen plenty men on this sub differentiate between someone they would date but not marry.
/r/seduction20/05/25 03:38 PM
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By slowing down, do you mean academically/financially/professionally? Because I know a good amount of people who managed a relationship and have successful careers, ambition and are making a good amount of money at the moment.
/r/seduction19/05/25 12:16 AM
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Interesting take. So you recommend most people go into their late 20s with absolutely no dating/relationship experience?
/r/seduction19/05/25 12:10 AM
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Social media is probably not the best medium to approach or speak in my opinion. Your message is one of the hundred messages she receives every day, so yours just lays around catching dust, if it makes sense? Have you tried approaching in person?
/r/seduction16/04/25 04:45 PM
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‘How many times have you seen an unattractive guy with a stunner by his side’ I personally grew up around a couple of people like this and they honestly have nothing to offer apart from money and yet they did okay, they obviously don’t kill the game, they do somewhat okay. These aren’t excuses, a lot of women/men only ever care about status, dating/relationships and going out with someone is a all a status symbol for a lot of people and you and I may not always fit in that criteria.
/r/seduction16/04/25 04:42 PM
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Crazy experience brother. Well done.
/r/seduction18/03/25 02:43 PM
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I guess it is kinda crazy. We have an Indian guy in the group and over the course of 4 years he was in a serious relationship with 6 different women, caucasian and black, not counting the flings and hook ups. Would you say keeping far away from the stereotypes can be helpful in many ways?
/r/seduction07/03/25 08:02 AM
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I see. I went to school on the East Coast, my closest friends are asians and above 5’10 and they had absolutely no trouble getting women. They’re well spoken, dressed well, we played soccer so most of us were in good shape. I don’t know about least liked but they did well and it was a pretty common sight seeing an asian man with a caucasian woman. Hell, my closest buddy dated women from all races and he’s Asian. I guess it varies from person to person.
/r/seduction07/03/25 06:12 AM
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I’m pretty sure Asian dudes are well liked in the states. You’re 6’1, not sure about your game but when was the last time you tried approaching a blonde? How did it go? What do you talk about? It seems you check most boxes that any women would want not just blonde.
/r/seduction05/03/25 05:10 PM
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Username checks out
/r/seduction14/02/25 04:17 PM
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Brilliant. Now all we need are friends with whom we could complete these activities.
/r/seduction14/02/25 08:04 AM
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Sometimes people just aren’t into you, glow up or no glow up. I guess I can’t tell you how you should proceed with the conversation here but all I’ve learned is not every attraction should be acted upon especially if the first time wasn’t as successful.
/r/seduction12/02/25 05:00 PM
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Definitely. It’s always a hit or miss. Keep ya head up. Are you looking for just something casual or something serious?
/r/seduction17/01/25 02:10 PM
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Been there, mate. I just usually end the conversation if I don’t see them making any efforts or bringing up something to talk about or if it seems like it’s not mutual. Some women out there expect men to take the first step and the last step too or they’re just not looking for something or are not as into you at the time. One time I started speaking to this amazing woman at a bar and she reciprocated the conversation so well, we dated for a few months and called it off later when I moved to a di…
/r/seduction17/01/25 01:57 PM
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Damn bro. Someone can’t drive on her own to meet someone she actually wants to meet? Isn’t that what a date is about? Going out with someone you ‘want to’. If you offered it on your own or something saying, I’ll book you an uber, that’s a different matter, asking for cash upfront? Nah bro, you shouldn’t lower your standards by this much.
/r/seduction16/01/25 06:49 PM
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You tried your best it seems, just not having a condom was the obstacle. ONS are not for everyone and it doesn’t have to be. Would you say you’re someone who is more comfortable getting into bed after meeting them a couple times and getting more comfortable with each other? But yeah, don’t dwell on a response from her, maybe it was a ONS for her and even if things had gone according to plan, she’d probably still be ghosting. Also, good move not doing it raw.
/r/seduction12/01/25 11:48 PM
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While I’m not at expert at this but a lot of cities have these ‘Book store Cafés’. I’m in Boston and there are a lot of those and people seem to love them, the place is packed whether it’s a weekend or just a normal Wednesday. These places usually hold events for discussing some best seller book, now I just went there on a Sunday and the event just happened to be taking place, I got to meet some really nice people at the event and even met a woman once while simply browsing the shelves. I’m not …
/r/seduction12/01/25 11:20 PM
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‘Toxic’ probably has a lot of meanings these days. I remember this buddy of mine was dating this insanely manipulative woman who would pick up fights with my bud if he ever refused to do something she wanted him to do but he didn’t and she used the word ‘toxic’ for him. You’re not toxic if you don’t want to be manipulated.
/r/seduction09/01/25 09:45 PM
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I would say be careful. Out of all the beautiful women in Mexico City, you’re after one who has a man? It’ll definitely be disrespectful to the guy, and you being a tourist, you have no idea how the guy is going to react.
/r/seduction09/01/25 02:36 PM
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