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| 13 | Many “incelish” statements that don’t make logical sense seem to hold some water | CMV | Immoral_devil | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/12/22 07:32 AM |
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| 4 | Most women sexually desire the same small percentage of men the most, based on the data. But most women aren’t dating those same few men. Does that mean most women are settling in their relationships for men they don’t find sexually desirable?Your second method before increasing your options is a lot harder said than done. Entrepreneurs and business owners have struggled to create a place like this for years. In any mixed gender space the issue has always been how to get single women to attend. Getting guys to attend as always been easy, as long as you have women already there. There are many places dominated by women but it’s generally understood that guys can’t go there without being creeps. Night clubs are the only place you can m… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/02/23 07:50 PM |
| 1 | Thoughts on this? 63% of men 18 - 29 are single???I’ve considered it but how would you shower, use the toilet and iron your clothes? All requirements to get a job and earn an income with the intention of eventually buying a house | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/02/23 06:00 PM |
| 1 | Thoughts on this? 63% of men 18 - 29 are single???It’s one reason. Not all girls use tinder but most are aware of the male sexual disadvantage it’s usage has exposed. Because of Tinder the sexual market is more well known than ever before. Because of it girls are aware that guys are an easy to get commodity | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/02/23 05:58 PM |
| 2 | Thoughts on this? 63% of men 18 - 29 are single???Also true. Where once moving out at 18 was almost mandatory with how normal it was seen as it is now optional. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/02/23 07:32 PM |
| 6 | Thoughts on this? 63% of men 18 - 29 are single???1) This is the age women are at their most desirable. 2) Women date older guys and at that age the the range of ages for older guys who aren’t physically hindered by their age is at its greatest (at some age a guy stops becoming more attractive and becomes less attractive to most women) 3) Guys date younger women (as they are generally the only women who will have them) but at this age range dating younger gets creepy fast so guys options are limited to women just slightly younger than them. 4) … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/02/23 07:19 PM |
| 4 | Not all men were created equal, females will never give the nice guy a shot, i'm freaking crying rn...I believe the point the artist is trying to make here is that for attractive guys a lot more of the jokes they make come off as funny (or at least women react to them like they are). Meanwhile if a similar thing were said by an unattractive women would be more critical of the jokes merits. Essentially, they are more likely to be critical of the jokes inappropriateness and immaturity. Women are also less likely to allow the mood of the guy saying the joke dictate the mood with which they receive … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/12/22 06:43 AM |
| 13 | The illusion and delusion of “traditional” womenI’m Indian and I’ll admit Indian people are the most raciest against people of their own ethnicity. I live outside India and both the girls and their parents view a white boyfriend as an immediate winner in life. It doesn’t matter about his history or his job. To Indians white guts are seen as something prestigious. Meanwhile parents and girls dislike dating Indian guys. They are seen as lower value and not as “dreamy”. Whites guys are viewed like royalty | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/12/22 06:34 AM |
| 2 | CMV: Men want women more then women want men, and that’s why we don’t care about your standards.Finally someone saying it like it is. Women have evolved to desire men based on survival needs and this has changed drastically over a short space of time. There is now a disequilibrium in the market. It also doesn’t hurt that women start off life at their adult life at their most beautiful which is the time when most propel find partners and get married. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/12/22 06:25 PM |
| 1 | Many “incelish” statements that don’t make logical sense seem to hold some waterThat’s like what things were in the early 2000s before women realised their own self worth and before the internet | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/12/22 02:19 AM |
| 1 | Many “incelish” statements that don’t make logical sense seem to hold some waterWell yes that’s exactly what I’m asking. Meanwhile men are in these locations. Personally I don’t go to nightclubs so I can’t speak to their presence there. The activities tour describing seem to be where the married couples are not those in the “prime of their life” | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/12/22 02:15 AM |
| 1 | Many “incelish” statements that don’t make logical sense seem to hold some waterWomen don’t congregate in any public mixed gender space generally. By this is mean places where it is socially acceptable for men and women to be | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/12/22 07:50 PM |
| 2 | Many “incelish” statements that don’t make logical sense seem to hold some waterAgreed. I did notice this tend in those population pyramid. While it is true there are more men to women this is false at young ages I.e. the ages where people have to get into relationships. I’ve actually noticed that at college between lectures most of the girls disappear. I assume this is because they all have friends and go into dorm rooms together. Meanwhile it ain’t uncommon to see guys walking around alone. Also agreed. I noticed in my all boys high school one unscrupulous thing many boys… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/12/22 05:54 PM |
| 1 | Many “incelish” statements that don’t make logical sense seem to hold some waterI believe virgin shaming is mocked because having sex is essentially a woman’s choice most of the time. Therefore having a lot of sex especially in todays politically correct culture is seen as positive. Men who don’t get sex are seen as low value because they are unable to convince a woman to have sex with them. Female sexual attraction is considered a rare commodity. Male sexual attention is considered cheep and easy to get. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/12/22 05:47 PM |
| 1 | Do the men in here that struggle to get laid not have any women in there social circles?It’s because most girls (like 90% seemingly) have boyfriends. This information comes to light from conversations not from me asking them out or anything | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/12/22 08:12 AM |
| 2 | Many “incelish” statements that don’t make logical sense seem to hold some waterI’m quite surprised that you wee told to turn away “ugly” girls. Usually venues are eager to have any girls because at the very least more women in a venue makes other women feel safer there. It should also be noted that being an attractive girl to a guy is a much lower bar (not because guys are benevolent or anything like that). It’s simply because guys are eager to have sex with whom ever they can get with. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/12/22 07:51 AM |
| 2 | Many “incelish” statements that don’t make logical sense seem to hold some waterA distinct possibility. Not from an attractiveness perspective but it may be possible that these women aren’t the type to stand out to guys (I wouldn’t know if someone wasn’t standing out to me so I can’t speak to that but it is a possibility) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/12/22 07:43 AM |
| 2 | Age gap relationships are generally shamed by bitter older womenI’m a guy and I hate the idea that I’ll likely have to date a younger woman. At 23 it seems so creepy because girls a year or two younger than me are essentially college aged and look up to me as a graduate. I too look up to my elders and don’t see them as friends or anything. Elders are at a whole other stage in life and should be helping those younger, giving advice etc. Guys who date younger girls are sick and I hate the idea of having to resort to those means. Using that subconscious respect… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/12/22 12:40 AM |
| 0 | It's Friday, let's talk about.....alcohol!I completely agree with you. As a guy in my early 20s I too have been brought up in a society which teaches us to fear anything remotely dangerous and daring. Stranger danger, thieves and killers around every corner. The behaviour we observe from guys and people in crowds was considered quite normal about 10 years ago. We gave just been brought up to see it as dangerous and uncomfortable. Movies have flooded us and it’s a constant stream of bad behaviour resulting in the worst possible consequen… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/11/22 12:27 AM |
| 2 | It's Friday, let's talk about.....alcohol!Yes exactly. Most nightclubs know that girls don’t like being hit on. It makes the bar seem dangerous. Night clubs aim to provide a place for girls to socialise with their friends and the guys they came in with. Most people in their 20s are actually maturing quite fast. They have been brought up in a culture where typically youthful behaviour has been shown as bad in all forms of media. They have grown up in a society of fear. A society that teaches people to be scared of strangers and not trust… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/11/22 12:19 AM |
| 1 | It's Friday, let's talk about.....alcohol!I couldn’t agree more. Basically these are places where meeting new people isn’t encouraged Firstly the bouncers screen out desperate looking guys: guys with no friends, guys who look like they don’t know what they’re doing and unattractive guys obviously. People are here to have fun with their group not new people after all. Secondly well lit venues make it easier for friends to keep an eye on their friends and stay together. A shy guy will have a harder time acting confidant if all a girls fri… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/11/22 11:33 PM |
| 0 | It's Friday, let's talk about.....alcohol!Much like bars; nightclubs are losing their popularity. It all has to do with the reduction in single women at these venues. For any mixed gender venue the problem has is how to draw in women. To draw in men all they need to do is have single women be there. 10 years ago this wasn’t a problem. Nightclubs were full of single women and opportunities for guys to get easy sex. In recent years girls have become far more cautious of guys “tricking them” into having sex. Many movie plots have a “naive”… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/11/22 11:03 PM |
| 3 | Do women care about a man’s sexual past?I suspect women like men with high N counts who give up that life to commit entirely to them. Women like guys with options and experience. Guys basically want anything but prefer girls with low n counts so the woman can’t compare them to anything. But still guys take what they can get | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/11/22 05:56 AM |
| 5 | How important is dating in high school/college for future success in your opinion?I think high school dating is extremely important for boys. 1) High school is the age where a group of girls are literally forced to be around a group of boys. For the majority of businesses running a mixed gender space the problem has always been how to get girls to attract girls. Getting boys into a mixed gender space is easy - just have girls and boys will come. Never in your life will you get a better chance to get a girlfriend 2) High school girls are often single or it’s easy to know if th… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/11/22 03:13 AM |
| 2 | CMV: It’s a sign of extreme inequality that women facilitating sex work is seen as more and more publicly acceptable, but men using the services of a sex worker is just as taboo for men as its always beenExactly. The worst thing is that they are given sympathy. People don’t give drug dealers sympathy even if they may be selling drugs to support their families. It’s the only illegal act where the police view the sellers as victims. Unless a girl is kept as a sex slave and locked up what she’s doing is voluntary | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/11/22 06:01 PM |
| 27 | CMV: It’s a sign of extreme inequality that women facilitating sex work is seen as more and more publicly acceptable, but men using the services of a sex worker is just as taboo for men as its always beenI would argue it’s the opposite. Prostitutes view johns as a group of pathetic men to be taken advantage of. People are acting like men don’t get in desperate situations as well (let’s leave aside how unlikely a woman is to get in a desperate situation compared to a man especially with all the sympathy and support they get). While men in desperate situations have no options. Women have all the options available to them as desperate men…. Plus they have the option to go into prostitution if they … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/10/22 05:53 AM |
| 1 | Has male cognitive dissonance towards women, completely taken over this sub?Responses from a 23-year-old guy: Conflict 1: I agree with you. People who say women are bad at choosing are wrong (as with all things, there are exceptions). Women are experts at choosing the best guys. Conflict 2: I think the issue guys have is women who have a lot of interest in sex before marriage but after marriage lose interest in sex. At my age I haven’t observed many women I know before and after marriage. Therefore I can’t speak to this. Though I can see how a guy may feel cheated or mi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/10/22 10:44 PM |
| 1 | Men subconsciously care about fertility in womenNot really. For a woman to be attractive she doesn’t need to be seen by a guy as a lifelong partner. As long as she can seem attractive for the 3 minutes it takes a guy to cum then he wants to sleep with her. Biologically men are attracted to a greater proportion of women than women are to men. This is. Because women are usually only attracted to guys they can see as lifelong mates (since they had to deal with babies for thousands of years) Guys may prefer skinny girls or tall ones but they are … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/10/22 06:00 PM |
| 6 | Q4M: If dating apps largely favour women, why is it disproportionately men who are on them?Because women aren’t desperate. Real life favours them even more than dating apps. Women prefer to date guys that their friends know and like already. Women want to date guys who have options. Dating apps are filled with guys who clearly don’t have options irl. Women want a guy who can grant them access to new social groups and grant them status amongst their friends. It is hard to asses this possibility on dating apps and guys with good traits in these departments are rarely on the app | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/10/22 08:47 AM |
| 1 | Why single women are happier compared to single men ??Guys are willing to give girls anything for sex now days and sometimes they may not even consciously realise this even relationships. Girls inability to get the guys they want is simply because they’re flooded with too many options now days | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/10/22 08:06 AM |
| 8 | I believ that The bar to be considered attractive for a woman is way lower than It is for menNow days every man strives to look good for the women around them. Meanwhile women strive to look good to the other women around them. Women know that appealing to men is easy. In fact men’s clothing which appeals to women is seen as smart and formal. Meanwhile women’s clothing which appeals to men is seen as slutty and inappropriate (and I’m not talking stripper clothes or kinky outfits. I mean regular everyday basic clothing which appeals to guys. Just look at male fashion which is centred aro… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/10/22 05:39 AM |
| 1 | If you magically woke up tomorrow as the opposite sex do you think you would easily get everything you are seeking in a partner?Yes | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/10/22 08:33 AM |
| 1 | Why single women are happier compared to single men ??It’s because for women being single is a choice. They are happy being single because they know whenever they want a relationship they can get it at the drop of a hat | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/10/22 07:37 PM |
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