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ConversationImportant-Quote9544/r/seduction30/01/22 09:42 PM
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its over bro
/r/seduction17/03/22 08:07 PM
1

Not true. Just look at tinder experiments bro. The short ugly guy on tinder struggles in real life too
/r/seduction17/03/22 08:05 PM
2

There is a lot of competition in every big city
/r/seduction17/03/22 06:57 PM
0

Stop the cap. You don’t have Pitt level looks.
/r/seduction17/03/22 05:59 PM
-1

Imma get real with you. 5’5 is rly short, you will have a harder time than the taller man that’s facts. Also, dancing isn’t going making you a top tier guy. I know guys that don’t even dance and they pick up girls at the club. You need to stop comparing yourself, also manage your expectations. It seems like you are considering of all the chubby girls you are going for
/r/seduction17/03/22 04:49 PM
0

You are 100% right. Get that surgery and do other things to improve your looks. Success and looks go hand in hand and not just in dating.
/r/seduction17/03/22 04:33 PM
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For the avg to ugly man yes
/r/seduction17/03/22 04:32 PM
1

you care bro
/r/seduction17/03/22 07:44 AM
4

So you never tried online dating? If you have an optimized profile, you can def pull 7-8s with minimal effort.
/r/seduction17/03/22 07:40 AM
4

This is cap. Doubt they were true 8-10s. Also it doesnt make sense how all of a sudden just cuz you off apps you can start pulling hotter women.
/r/seduction17/03/22 07:39 AM
1

She found another dude or just had no intentions of meeting up and just enjoyed the attention. Regardless, no point in thinking about it.
/r/seduction17/03/22 03:04 AM
1

The truth is you are not going to pulling hella from your looks alone. So you need to improve in other aspects. Like wealth, status. Also you need to be ok with the fact you might not be that guy that pulls hella bitches. It's a rare percentage of dudes that are able to do that. From what I read it seems like your friends are in that percentage so it's tough to see their success and your lack of that same success.
/r/seduction17/03/22 03:03 AM
3

Just telling yourself you're the prize doesnt make you the prize. There needs to be stuff that back it up. Which are: wealth, status, looks. Lacking in all 3 and you will find yourself sexless or only getting attention from fatties
/r/seduction17/03/22 03:00 AM
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It's normal low - med interest
/r/seduction17/03/22 02:57 AM
1

Most ppl say that getting that jaw surgery, nose surgery, hair transplant, etc. Was the best decision they have made and have no regrets.
/r/seduction17/03/22 02:56 AM
1

No it’s an objective view on flaws it can do little to insecurity. People always discourage ppl to improve. So they tell you to embrace the flaws (hairline, weight, nose, etc) these things can be fixed
/r/seduction17/03/22 01:55 AM
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Sorry but not all women can afford to have the same standards. There are plenty of avg unattractive that know their league and will date other avg guys. We are talking about attractive high value women. To get with them, looks are extremely important
/r/seduction17/03/22 12:06 AM
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just go on tinder bruh
/r/seduction16/03/22 11:44 PM
1

Bruh just look at tinder experiments on youtube. Avg guys arent struggling because of their confidence. It's a looks thing. Also plenty of dudes are getting laid from tinder. Girls there arent looking for anything serious but girls get horny too so they sleep with the top dudes on tinder. And sure not every attractive dude will get every woman. But their experiences and chances are alot better than the avg dude that's just facts. Also no the avg guy isnt even get matched so he "isnt afraid" he j…
/r/seduction16/03/22 11:44 PM
1

If you are what you say you are, you would have no problems with tinder.
/r/seduction16/03/22 11:30 PM
1

It's not rly a numbers game for the top tier guys tho. Just compare the tinder results between an avg guy and a top tier guy. Most good looking dudes are also very socially calibrated.
/r/seduction16/03/22 11:29 PM
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I used to be afraid of this too but honestly it doesnt matter because ppl will talk shit regardless. Download tinder, it's the way these days. If you arent getting results from tinder it's tale tell sign that your attractiveness is not up to par.
/r/seduction16/03/22 11:04 PM
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Exactly it's the gym. No one is picking ppl up at the gym Your interactions all seem like normal interactions, nothing rly indicated they wanted more. How many ppl have you heard about hooking up from the gym? It's not common and when it is happens it's usually the girl approaching first.
/r/seduction16/03/22 11:03 PM
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it's only a numbers game for the avg guys. Top tier guys get a higher success rate than the avg guy this is facts. Confidence and personality only is a small part of attraction. looks and success go hand in hand
/r/seduction16/03/22 11:01 PM
3

um nothing happend.
/r/seduction16/03/22 10:56 PM
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i felt that way like 6 years ago when i started improving. It feels like the universe is plotting against you. But all you can do it keep grinding and eventually shit falls into place
/r/seduction16/03/22 10:04 PM
13

It rose the avg skinny girls value
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/22 09:38 PM
5

This includes you
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/22 09:37 PM
9

Nah social media and apps give them plenty of attention. More than they want.
/r/seduction16/03/22 09:35 PM
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Yeah 2 ideally, 3 max anything more than 3 takes too much time
/r/seduction16/03/22 09:33 PM
2

Wtf are you talking about? Bragging much?
/r/seduction16/03/22 09:33 PM
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Never happening
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/22 09:19 PM
11

New gen def not into cold approach. The new cold approach is DMing or apps
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/22 09:18 PM
1

We are just saying that personality isn’t going to open doors for you. Thats reality
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/22 08:42 PM
1

How’s your dating life? You can gauge your attractiveness by going on tinder. I have a hard time believing your looks are up to the standard these days for you to struggle
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/22 08:41 PM
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Only if you are attractive. Social skills won’t boost an unattractive guy that much. Social skills will boost an attractive a lot more. Basically it comes down to looks first, then
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/22 05:44 PM
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Humble bragging post lol. Get over yourself
/r/seduction16/03/22 04:17 PM
0

Exactly no one gives af
/r/seduction16/03/22 04:16 PM
-2

Leagues exist tho
/r/seduction16/03/22 04:15 PM
-2

Pics? I have a hard time believing they were amazingly good looking. And naw short, old, bald is conventionally unattractive
/r/seduction16/03/22 04:15 PM
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Oh I agree. women do not date down. Avg guy does not deserve high value women.
/r/seduction16/03/22 04:12 PM
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Women very rarely do that. And if they do it’s usually for only a short time before she realizes that she can get better. Granted the woman is good looking
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/22 03:34 PM
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You aren’t an 8-9 then. True 8-9 dudes can pull easily and consistently with other 8-9
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/22 03:32 PM
2

Lol abundance mentality is so funny to me. Abundance comes from abundance there isn’t a mentality to it
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/22 03:30 PM
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Society don’t care about gen X. Majority are off the market. And you are lying to yourself if you think less than 10% are on apps. A lot of women are on apps these days (gen Z) Stop cap
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/22 03:27 PM
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Then they aren’t as good looking as you think. I know a lot of dudes that pull some fine women on apps.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/22 03:19 PM
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A lot of men on Reddit overrate themselves I noticed. Guy wonders why he struggles on tinder claiming he is 8/10 sends me his profile. He is skinny broke pale only selfies. Like bruh?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/22 03:19 PM
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Exactly, avg/ugly woman gets with avg.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/22 03:15 PM
2

Not if you are getting results
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/22 03:14 PM
1

Usually a decent settling for an ugly girl.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/22 03:13 PM
3

They approached because y’all are lookmatch lol
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/22 03:10 PM
4

No they don’t
/r/seduction16/03/22 02:55 PM
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Because looks are the first thing anybody sees
/r/seduction16/03/22 09:06 AM
0

What? Just look at tinder experiments dude
/r/seduction16/03/22 09:05 AM
2

Lol maybe for millennials. My generation everyone is on apps
/r/seduction16/03/22 09:04 AM
2

Worst post ever
/r/seduction16/03/22 09:02 AM
15

Desperation at an all time high?
/r/seduction16/03/22 09:00 AM
0

No you are. Unless you are above avg or getting with fatties OLD is tough for the avg dude
/r/seduction16/03/22 08:56 AM
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she isnt cockblocking ? If they liked you they wouldnt care what this old lady says. Unless this old lady is saying rly malicious stuff behind your back. But it doesnt seem like. This whole thing seems like an excuse
/r/seduction16/03/22 05:48 AM
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damn male desperation is at an all time high
/r/seduction16/03/22 04:47 AM
1

Lol because avg dudes don’t want to hear it. Extrinsic things like clout, money, looks are hard to attain and they don’t wanna put in the work for it. They think personality will get them that 9 but reality says otherwise
/r/seduction16/03/22 03:05 AM
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Lol show me these couple plz like one example and I can give you an explanation.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/22 03:02 AM
3

This is the problem of approaching. When you approach you are being the “chaser” which will always put you below her
/r/seduction16/03/22 03:01 AM
-1

Do not get off the apps. Apps is the future of dating. You can send me your profile and I can give you tips on how to improve.
/r/seduction16/03/22 03:00 AM
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Just make tons of friends. Eventually you will hear about “rumours” that X girl thinks you cute (granted you are attractive). Or you can do online dating which is great in college. Or you show up to frat parties with a group of girls (preselection) There are many ways to do this but DO NOT cold approach during the day. This will give you the reputation for sure and you will be avoided.
/r/seduction16/03/22 02:58 AM
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Gotta grind and dont fake it cuz ppl can sense it and will be turned off by you. Right now your market value is very low tbh. All you can do is put your head down and work.
/r/seduction15/03/22 08:51 PM
1

Ok but he probably isn’t doing it on purpose.
/r/seduction15/03/22 07:29 PM
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Exactly, it goes both ways. Fatties are invisible to like 99% of guys. There is always that one dude that fucks anything
/r/seduction15/03/22 07:29 PM
1

You can’t generalize. Hot girls give harsh rejections too.
/r/seduction15/03/22 07:28 PM
1

Well, I’m gonna assume you mad because you see him as a real threat. If this guy was below you in terms on SMV you wouldn’t care. Am I right?
/r/seduction15/03/22 07:25 PM
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Because why would women want an avg guy if they can get an above avg guy? Hot women go for hot guys that’s just how it is. Anything below that is invisible
/r/seduction15/03/22 07:23 PM
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You get rejected often bud
/r/seduction15/03/22 07:22 PM
1

Cap
/r/seduction15/03/22 07:19 PM
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unless you have good clout like atleast 100k you will have low success rate. These baddies get dm's by dudes with clout and money so hard competition
/r/seduction15/03/22 06:22 AM
2

Nah bro stop overthinking it. It's normal to ask for their number after y'all matched. It was just low interest.
/r/seduction15/03/22 05:13 AM
8

Nice guy here
/r/seduction15/03/22 05:11 AM
11

she dont like you like that bruh. you just creeped her out.
/r/seduction15/03/22 05:11 AM
1

it's great, it gives you alot of access to alot of girls and it's efficient (if your profile is good) Sure there are some catfishers but it is pretty easy to spot now. Other than that it's only a waste of time if you dont use your time efficiently, you cant blame the girls for that since you met up with them. When you do meet up with the "right" girls it is like hitting the jackpot, especially when they are great in bed, some of them are actually pretty cool too. Experience really is dictated on…
/r/seduction15/03/22 05:07 AM
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you did nothing wrong in both interactions. Just got out competed.
/r/seduction15/03/22 04:59 AM
2

nah just low interest
/r/seduction15/03/22 04:55 AM
2

this is not in your control stop stressing
/r/seduction14/03/22 09:36 PM
0

you are such a high value guy bro! wish we could all be you!
/r/seduction14/03/22 09:34 PM
4

Looks matter the most, unless you have insane status and wealth which at that point you can pay to be pretty. All this just be confident bro and have a good personality doesnt mean ish if you are short, fat, bald, with an asymmetrical face
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/22 08:32 PM
0

They do for sure
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/22 08:31 PM
2

Ya, I dont understand the argument that good looking people wont have good game aswell. In fact, the good looking guy will have better game and more experience. Due to having positive reinforcement that will have great social skills and be less timid and shy socially.
/r/seduction14/03/22 07:57 PM
2

This is such cap. Do you think those Tiktok guys get lusted after because of their game? What about online dating? Do you think these guys arent getting matches because their game is off point?
/r/seduction14/03/22 07:53 PM
3

she dont like you like that.
/r/seduction14/03/22 07:48 PM
2

Tinder.
/r/seduction14/03/22 07:47 PM
2

She found another guy.
/r/seduction14/03/22 07:43 PM
2

young women like young men
/r/seduction14/03/22 07:42 PM
1

people that say club and bars suck just dont know what they are doing.
/r/seduction14/03/22 07:35 PM
1

Yeah high value men get approached quite often but just in subtle ways.
/r/seduction14/03/22 07:34 PM
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This is the end game. If people here spent time on themselves building clout and looks rather than cold approaching they would be much happier. People that build their looks and status have a much better time in dating and hookups than people that focus time on "game". Also genetics is huge part in that tho.
/r/seduction14/03/22 07:33 PM
8

cap
/r/seduction14/03/22 08:02 AM
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none of this matters stop consuming these dating coach content. Truth is if she is attracted this frame shit does not matter. If you are attractive to her she will make things easy for you. If she thinks you are ugly from the beginning you holding your masculine frame will not suddenly turn her on
/r/seduction14/03/22 08:01 AM
3

Doesnt sound interested. interested women make things like meetups rly easy to schedule.
/r/seduction14/03/22 07:56 AM
10

Cap
/r/seduction14/03/22 07:53 AM
4

You are right. No amount of game will help an ugly dude or avg dude get the amount of pussy a good looking dude with no game will get. In fact with social media and dating apps becoming more popular, looks are getting way more important. Just go on TikTok, all the dudes getting thirsted all have something in common. Good looks. They are also not even celebrities just regular guys but they have the looks, and look at the comments. Just girls going crazy for them. Low body fat is key, jaw is key. …
/r/seduction14/03/22 07:23 AM
-1

Those numbers suck
/r/seduction14/03/22 04:13 AM
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Nah become higher value and this will happen more and more. Congrats tho.
/r/seduction14/03/22 03:47 AM
2

do what you want it doesnt change anything
/r/seduction14/03/22 02:53 AM
3

she aint interested bruh
/r/seduction14/03/22 01:40 AM
1

This whole post is him boasting about being a "chad" it's cringe
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/22 01:22 AM
2

Bro it doesn’t matter extrovert or introvert if you attractive just be socially calibrated.
/r/seduction13/03/22 11:46 PM
1

Good looking introvert: easy to get girls Ugly introvert: difficult to get girls. Fixed it for yoy
/r/seduction13/03/22 11:46 PM
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They forgot him after an hour
/r/seduction13/03/22 11:35 PM
2

Cold approach most ineffective way to meet women.
/r/seduction13/03/22 11:35 PM
3

You’re not a chad stop it
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/22 11:31 PM
1

Well clearly this negging isnt working since you didn’t even get with her.
/r/seduction13/03/22 09:23 PM
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Yes if you are celebrity or in top 1% looks
/r/seduction13/03/22 07:59 PM
3

Tinder
/r/seduction13/03/22 07:59 PM
2

That’s very unlikely you will find someone on the street. Better options : social circle, old, parties. Social circle is the best method
/r/seduction13/03/22 06:12 PM
7

I agree guys think just because they are doing the right things that means girls will like them. That’s not the case at all. There is way more to it
/r/seduction13/03/22 06:11 PM
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Ya I did the same. People will just think you are overcompensating and think you are a douche. When I just brought chicks to hang outs without saying anything there was good response.
/r/seduction13/03/22 06:09 PM
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You don’t ? Just move in silence. No need to make it known? Unless you insecure
/r/seduction13/03/22 06:05 PM
1

So are you saying you can’t meet girls that you click because they are unreceptive? Or are you saying you can’t because you are super picky?
/r/seduction13/03/22 06:00 PM
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It’s not guaranteed that you will become a player if you self improve. You can be a bum and get a lot of girls (looks) It mainly comes down to looks, which usually improve from self improvement. So make sure you are taking care of that while you are self improving
/r/seduction13/03/22 05:53 PM
1

Hows Online dating for you?
/r/seduction13/03/22 05:50 PM
-1

Always? Or is 50/50? If you are ONLY matching with 3 and 4s that means that’s your looks match. If it’s 50/50 then it could be algorithm and getting unlucky
/r/seduction13/03/22 04:24 PM
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What traits are we talking about? Confidence, personality? None of that matters if she isn’t initially attracted. You can show a lot on OLD. Looks, status, wealth, social circle, lifestyle, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/22 02:13 AM
1

Exactly dating is constantly evolving due to social media and apps. The standard has gotten crazy
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/22 02:11 AM
0

Wtf does that have to do with the argument? and your not a chad no one that claims to be one is one
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/22 02:10 AM
2

Do you rly think if you just have charisma hygiene you can land an attractive woman? That’s delusion
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/22 01:09 AM
2

You’re using the top 0.01 ppl of fame and wealth as your example for the unattractive dudes. Please stop.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/22 01:07 AM
6

are we talking dating or just basic human interaction. If it's just human interaction, then yes you need just basic social skills. charisma, hygiene. For dating, you need a lot more than that to get considered.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/22 11:09 PM
2

A lot has changed, social media and apps has changed dating forever.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/22 10:55 PM
2

Your online dating matches and results will tell you about your looks.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/22 10:35 PM
12

Exactly, sure you will be seen as socially calibrated person, but enough to sleep and date with? No. Because women can get a good looking man in a swipe to date and sleep with.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/22 10:34 PM
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Exactly try doing this as an ugly man and you will get called creepy or weird. Good looking guy does nothing he is mysterious and charming.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/22 10:33 PM
3

How many good looking actors are there compared to unattractive ones? Stop using such extreme cases for the ordinary citizen
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/22 10:32 PM
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Then why do 80% get no matches? Why are so many avg men single and sexless. This is just delusional. A good looking rich man has 100x the opportunities than the ugly loser. Also if this were true wouldn’t there be way less frustrated men? Stop feeding lies
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/22 10:31 PM
1

Nah
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/22 10:00 PM
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Looks are what get you in the door, if you dont have the looks you are rejected before you open your mouth.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/22 09:42 PM
4

Ya but how many good looking ppl are actually that socially inept? It's the exception, most good looking dudes are very social because they know about their looks.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/22 09:22 PM
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The ppl that claim they are good looking but not getting any good dating results are over stating their own attractiveness and usually men do this. Why? Because if they dont then they would be hopeless and that is no way to live. Most men on avg are short, not that good looking, make ok money. If you are good looking, you will do well on online dating that is just facts and has been backed up. Some of the avg people you see that do well in dating are in long term relationships and do not sleep a…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/22 09:17 PM
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in person too lol
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/22 09:06 PM
4

But facial symmetry is more attractive in person too. Facial symmetry shows good health and good genetics. And good looking ppl are the most social ppl. Most good looking ppl have had positive reinforcement their whole lives hence they are not awkward and have plenty of friends. So to say the symmetrical face would be socially awk is actually not tru.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/22 09:05 PM
4

Exactly, an ugly guy is an ugly regardless of personality and blah blah. That is the perception.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/22 09:04 PM
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little to no matches means you are not attractive, but that doesnt mean you will be alone forever. There are plenty of low value women (fat, ugly) that will happily settle for the ugly dudes. It's just that ugly dudes dont want that, espeicially if they have a good career/personality. Unfortunately there are alot of good looking dudes with great career/personality and so they have the advantage.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/22 09:01 PM
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I think you havnt optimized your profile. You need good pics. The guys that do well put in a lot of time in their profiles, constantly updating their pics and taking pics. It may not sound worth it, but it is in the long run because you stack up your rotation then take a break.
/r/seduction12/03/22 08:22 PM
0

huh? then you are not that high value or attractive. I know tons of attractive and high value dudes that do very well. They get messaged first and get asked to meet up, get tons of matches a day like 5-10.
/r/seduction12/03/22 08:18 PM
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That only matters if you are good looking. None of that matters if they dont find you attractive from the beginning.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/22 08:16 PM
1

Oversupply of low value guys. Good looking high value guys get it all.
/r/seduction12/03/22 08:13 PM
-1

*ugly low value guys dont get matches. Good looking guys clean up.
/r/seduction12/03/22 08:12 PM
2

It doesnt pull you ahead... The high value guy is ahead regardless of cold approach or dating apps. The problem is that there are tons of very high value guys on dating apps that are willing to meet. So you cold approaching doesnt auto put you ahead of him. Stop the bull
/r/seduction12/03/22 08:11 PM
-3

This is cap. If you are attractive enough to pull by cold approach you can def pull on apps.
/r/seduction12/03/22 08:08 PM
6

You didn’t do anything wrong she saw you as a friend from the beginning.
/r/seduction12/03/22 06:31 PM
1

Doesn’t matter if she’s into
/r/seduction12/03/22 06:27 PM
0

Looks matter the most bro that’s the bitter truth. With the rise of social media and dating apps everyone has become more shallow and pickier. Especially women since they have easy access to sex with top tier guys. This then inflates their ego thinking they are in that league. Also looks doesn’t just apply with dating. It is also affecting your career, how ppl treat you and perceive you, etc.
/r/seduction12/03/22 06:27 PM
-3

That’s not true. With the rise of social media everyone has become more shallow. Especially women, they want to show their partner on social media and they need to look the part. Stop saying personality suddenly matters more in person. Personality only matters if the attraction is there first.
/r/seduction12/03/22 06:24 PM
1

The fuck is this
/r/seduction12/03/22 06:22 PM
10

Happens when there is low-medium interest
/r/seduction12/03/22 06:21 PM
10

None don’t buy these courses
/r/seduction12/03/22 06:20 PM
-2

Dating apps
/r/seduction12/03/22 02:42 PM
1

There isn’t depth to it. It’s black and white. You are either fuckable to her or not.
/r/seduction12/03/22 02:21 PM
2

Canada
/r/seduction12/03/22 02:20 PM
1

Friend sone
/r/seduction12/03/22 02:18 PM
1

None of this matters if you aren’t attractive to her
/r/seduction12/03/22 02:17 PM
-7

Then his profile wasnt that good or he isn’t that attractive…. I know attractive dudes that pull hella on tinder
/r/seduction12/03/22 02:14 PM
10

Lean face, muscular frame, nice hair, nice jaw, social status, wealth, nice eyebrows. Show these in pics.
/r/seduction12/03/22 02:13 PM
3

Friend zone is just code for you don’t turn on me sexually
/r/seduction12/03/22 06:39 AM
0

Compared that to OLD that is a lot. Espeicially when OLD you have a better chance, since she swiped right on you. That means there is attraction there, where in cold approach there are no leads that they are interested.
/r/seduction12/03/22 05:47 AM
-3

He just said he is getting a 10% success rate if that. That's pretty dog. That's also seems like a pretty standard success rate in general. That's bad. Also cold approach at the mall is much different than at the bar. So we have to account for that. If you do well cold approach then you will do well on dating apps. They are correlated.
/r/seduction12/03/22 05:33 AM
2

Yeah but that's rare. Most women know who they are down for right away. An avg guy is avg.
/r/seduction12/03/22 05:30 AM
0

meh not rly, you cant rly screw it up unless you say something or do something rly whack. You get a lot of leeway if she is attracted to you.
/r/seduction12/03/22 05:30 AM
2

who knows? who cares? Move on to the next lol. We men gotta stop acting feminine
/r/seduction12/03/22 05:26 AM
2

you are not high value enough, evident by her hooking up with the high value dudes and not you. If you were in the position to have your own fun you'd be having fun and getting girls, but you are not in that position. Advice: you are not high value enough, so get grind hard to become high value.
/r/seduction12/03/22 05:21 AM
1

lol right his clothes are whats holding him back
/r/seduction12/03/22 05:14 AM
0

Again, this is why cold approach is the most ineffective way. Get on online dating apps, you get a much better efficiency rate if you have a good profile (show your lifestyle, looks, wealth, social status) in this day and age cold approach is strange to the younger generation. With all the apps and social media there is no need to talk face to face. Only cold approach in a bar, club, party setting. Women are way more receptive in these environments.
/r/seduction12/03/22 05:12 AM
0

No interest in the beginning
/r/seduction12/03/22 01:49 AM
1

Tinder?
/r/seduction12/03/22 01:43 AM
1

There isn’t calm down
/r/seduction12/03/22 01:42 AM
1

not looking the part unfortunately
/r/seduction12/03/22 12:07 AM
16

its not skillset or knowledge it's she wasnt attracted to you from the begininng. Women know who they would date/sleep with within the first interaction with someone.
/r/seduction12/03/22 12:00 AM
-6

lol vibe doesnt matter, status matters, face matters, height matters.
/r/seduction11/03/22 09:36 PM
2

I think the avg man is way more bitter
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/22 08:17 PM
1

Meh I don’t think they are miserable because they are trying to “get that bag”. They care about their own success and independence.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/22 08:12 PM
5

Oh ya. Personality only matters when she is attracted to you. And even then if you are attractive you can get away with a lot of stuff. Looks over personality for sure
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/22 08:11 PM
11

Lol stop the cap. Idc about any of that, and yes you do sound obnoxious af. Just take L.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/22 08:10 PM
0

True but there are some women esp the masculine framed ones that don’t care about relationships and are down for just sex. Which the avg can’t even get and do
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/22 08:09 PM
1

Cap
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/22 08:07 PM
2

But if men do this, be prepared that when you bring your wife over she will get assimilated and realize how low value their husband and will eventually leave their husband or have a dead bedroom
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/22 07:44 PM
3

Yeah, when they come here they realize how avg their husband is and will eventually leave them.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/22 07:43 PM
1

For this to work you have to tell all high value men to not bang these avg women which inflates their egos. But this won’t happen since high value men are ok with sleeping with them.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/22 07:40 PM
1

Only the ugly man has to deal with this. High value men dont
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/22 07:37 PM
0

What are the lies? That men can get the woman they want even if they are avg themselves?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/22 07:36 PM
2

Well due to dating apps and social media these avg women have access to sex to high tier dudes. Which is better than what the avg men get.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/22 07:32 PM
6

Most men need to lower their standards. They are going for women much better looking than them. That’s where the resource extraction happens because she isn’t genuinely attracted.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/22 07:31 PM
7

You spent 2k on a 35yo take the L idc about circumstances
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/22 07:29 PM
1

What about the men with limited options lol. You can tell them to walk. But reality says they wont
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/22 07:25 PM
1

Cap
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/22 07:24 PM
2

Right but the market doesn’t cater to these men. The market caters to the good looking and highly successful men. Anything below that women can get in their 30s.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/22 07:23 PM
5

Mixed signals means she ain’t that into you
/r/seduction11/03/22 07:17 PM
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I think if you have 2/3 you ok
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/22 06:57 PM
1

scarcity
/r/seduction11/03/22 09:29 AM
3

you didnt make a mistake, just low interest from her
/r/seduction11/03/22 04:45 AM
5

if she like you alot she will make things easy
/r/seduction10/03/22 10:19 PM
1

Don’t do it on public transport. Bars,parties, get togethers, clubs are much better and easier
/r/seduction10/03/22 06:59 PM
1

Sorry I mean they are partnering up with ugly and fat women. You don’t see a short ugly dudes with a hot woman
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/22 02:50 PM
1

They can partner up with other ugly fat women?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/22 02:49 PM
1

She will be super spiteful and frustrated. But at least she got to sleep with a 9? Anyway just be an 8 bro being a 6 sounds bad
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/22 02:45 PM
1

The 6 can sleep with the 9 but the 9 won’t commit anything more than that. So then the 6 eventually settles and marries a 6 someone who will actually commit
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/22 02:35 PM
0

Going to a 3rd world country and running away from the west because you couldn’t compete? That’s sad man
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/22 02:34 PM
0

Huh? You are probably getting your looksmatch ? Or you rly attractive, you getting old to work doesn’t mean physical attraction is debunked
/r/seduction10/03/22 02:33 PM
1

Lol but these normal and fit dudes are probably ugly? Or broke af? And if you are ugly no matter what you wont magically get someone to love you in a 3rd world country
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/22 02:31 PM
2

Accepting that reality seems like a nightmare tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/22 02:27 PM
2

This truth but most men statistically won’t make it income wise no matter how hard they try.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/22 02:27 PM
1

But you do if you want an attractive woman. Which is what all men want. But when they see that can’t get that they frustrated.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/22 02:26 PM
3

Looks matter a lot. Like you can be broke and still smash baddies.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/22 02:24 PM
3

It’s usually a height and face problem that holding these men back
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/22 02:23 PM
2

No one wants an unattractive person tho. Hence the frustration from men. But these men eventually see reality
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/22 02:20 PM
1

Good looking attractive girls are on social media 99% of the time
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/22 02:19 PM
1

It does happen. There are so many dudes that overrate their own attractiveness. Most dudes say they are 7s but are in the 3-5 range. Looksmatch happens all the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/22 02:13 PM
-1

If someone does that they are a sad person
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/22 02:08 PM
2

Dating apps and social media debunk this. Looks are absolutely the majority of attraction not game. Game doesn’t matter if you are shorter than her and broker than her. Just look at these experiments on tinder. An attractive guy can literally say anything
/r/seduction10/03/22 02:01 PM
3

Wdym no one can compete? That just delusional. Ok best at being you but that doesn’t equate to success in dating. Success in dating is how much value you have
/r/seduction10/03/22 01:59 PM
0

Cool bro you responded tho? Keep playing yourself
/r/seduction10/03/22 01:58 PM
-1

No sounds so creepy. Just approach at bars and clubs
/r/seduction10/03/22 01:44 PM
6

You sounds creepy af.
/r/seduction10/03/22 01:42 PM
2

Bad pics or not attractive enough
/r/seduction10/03/22 01:39 PM
0

Nah that’s cap. Cold approach is way less efficient
/r/seduction10/03/22 01:38 PM
0

I mean anyone with a lot of options will have a tough time being interested. Man or woman.
/r/seduction10/03/22 01:34 PM
0

Lol none of this matters if you don’t pass the looks threshold. Maybe op isn’t passing it?
/r/seduction10/03/22 01:32 PM
4

Lol they wouldn’t care enough to give you an explanation
/r/seduction10/03/22 01:31 PM
1

Yes. They can right away. Depending on how you look and your value
/r/seduction10/03/22 01:30 PM
4

Mixed signals means low interest
/r/seduction10/03/22 01:29 PM
1

Please do not keep pressing about hanging more. She rejected you move on.
/r/seduction10/03/22 01:25 PM
1

Cap on the 7
/r/seduction10/03/22 01:17 PM
2

Sounds like a huge waste of time. But you do you.
/r/seduction09/03/22 03:29 AM
1

Yes LMS
/r/seduction09/03/22 02:55 AM
3

Sorry bro but if she was interested she would snap back quick and make things evident that she wants to go out. Anything else than obvious interests means low interest.
/r/seduction09/03/22 02:54 AM
6

Well she didn’t reply so that means no interest so that means move on
/r/seduction09/03/22 02:51 AM
2

They have options
/r/seduction09/03/22 02:39 AM
1

Rules 1 & 2. Anything else is comforting lies. You gotta grind bruh.
/r/seduction09/03/22 02:36 AM
-2

Humble bragging much? And if you were rly that tier you wouldn’t have problems.
/r/seduction08/03/22 10:39 PM
1

Nice doesn’t mean interest. She was nice to you because she’s nice in general. Don’t confuse the two.
/r/seduction08/03/22 10:31 PM
1

It's rare but possible. Most dudes that figure it out early are at an advantage, but if you grind like actually grind then yes it is possible.
/r/seduction08/03/22 08:27 AM
1

You probably can if you optimized your profile. I have never seen some dude that slays hard irl and get none on OLD. Also never seen a guy slay hard on OLD and cant get shit irl that just doesnt happen. There is a correlation because value can be shown in pictures. I think you are overvaluing how much confidence, game, eye contact, etc boosts your attractiveness. The men that do well on OLD and IRL all have similar qualities: good looking, high status, tall, in shape, etc. Women know if they fuc…
/r/seduction08/03/22 08:20 AM
4

Maybe not get but thats what they want. They rather be single then settle. They also have no issue getting dates,
/r/seduction08/03/22 08:13 AM
1

If you struggling with dating apps you missing something
/r/seduction08/03/22 06:06 AM
19

? Uh no. They want the highest value guy. And that’s easily shown online. Especially the younger generation
/r/seduction08/03/22 05:58 AM
-14

Cope
/r/seduction08/03/22 05:56 AM
1

I don’t understand how some dude struggling with OLD an extremely looks dependent approach. Will suddenly find success by cold approach, which is also heavily dependent on looks. Value is based on looks, status, wealth which is all displayed on OLD. So how does that fly out the window from cold approach? A low value guy is still a low value guy regardless of cold approach or not.
/r/seduction08/03/22 05:51 AM
1

Meh. In my world it feels like everyone is on OLD. Im cool if you cold approach, but I will never admit that it is more efficient than OLD. You don’t even need to spend anything from OLD, leave the house(gas$), don’t need to spend time going out, or have long convos. Logistically, time, and money wise, OLD is way more efficient.
/r/seduction08/03/22 04:49 AM
1

That means they don’t care to get with you
/r/seduction08/03/22 04:41 AM
1

It’s a no. She saw your message but didn’t reply.
/r/seduction08/03/22 04:40 AM
1

It’s cuz she probably liked you. If they have low interest and you double text, you getting straight blocked
/r/seduction08/03/22 04:38 AM
1

It’s usually you ask to chill. If they say “sure when” you in. Anything other than that is a no. Unless you guys ft.
/r/seduction08/03/22 04:37 AM
31

Who cares? She obvs isn’t dating material. Just hook up with her
/r/seduction08/03/22 04:36 AM
30

Yes you are. Ig shows social proof and is a good tool for online dating as well. You can show your social circle, looks, status, etc. you are putting yourself at a disadvantage compared to the guy who has a good ig
/r/seduction08/03/22 04:34 AM
1

well they got other options, they probs thought you were decent, but not willing to put in the effort of meeting up.high value women are talking to many high value guys.
/r/seduction08/03/22 04:32 AM
0

Mixed signals I’d say 90% means a no.
/r/seduction08/03/22 04:29 AM
1

Nah it depends on interest level and value. High interest from her and high value guy will have a long leesh because they are a catch. An ok dude will have less room for error. So high value guy can screw around more and their interest level won’t fade.
/r/seduction08/03/22 04:28 AM
-1

She ain’t interested brah
/r/seduction08/03/22 04:25 AM
-1

None cuz I don’t need to. But the dudes that cold approach it seems like the success rate makes it so not worth it. OLD you don’t even need to go on dates. You just ask to chill and they come over. I rly don’t see how cold approach has an edge over OLD.
/r/seduction07/03/22 07:39 AM
-2

OLD is way more efficient and there are some fine chicks there. Also I know girls that get offended from cold approach (low value guy). And nah they dont care about your confidence if you ugly. Also if you aint getting the matches you are just ugly or your profile sucks. In your case I think your profile just sucked, or you were too short. Competition doesnt just go away because you cold approached.. There are plenty of good looking dudes cold approaching at the club, you cold approaching doesnt…
/r/seduction07/03/22 06:15 AM
0

how is it not true? How does your value go up from cold approach?
/r/seduction07/03/22 05:32 AM
-3

Your results will be around the same. Because think of it from the hot girls' perspective, they can get a 8-10 from tinder, so why would they entertain a 6-7 in real life? If you aren't cleaning up on tinder you wont get much better results in real life. I dont see how irl will boost you.
/r/seduction07/03/22 04:45 AM
6

you sound entitled. How would you rate yourself??
/r/seduction07/03/22 03:08 AM
9

Because as time passes dating gets more competitive. With the explosion of online dating and social media. Women have access to top tier guys. So anything below rich, good looking, successful is invisible to them. Because why would they go for the decent looking decent job guy, when they can get the top tier guy a swipe away?
/r/seduction07/03/22 02:54 AM
1

Don’t do it. Go on tinder bro
/r/seduction07/03/22 02:52 AM
12

Why do you care? They are lesbians they aren’t attracted to men they are attracted to other lesbians
/r/seduction07/03/22 02:50 AM
3

It’s so rare that it really doesn’t affect high value guys in their early 20s. Also majority of young women aren’t going to go for 30+. If they can get the high value 20 yo.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/22 02:11 AM
5

Stop the cap. What kind of women are “hitting” on you?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/22 02:00 AM
2

Ya they got into it because they were unsuccessful. No successful guy even knows what rp is
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/22 01:40 AM
6

This is so true. Unless if the guy levelled up tremendously. They don’t suddenly become in their prime because of age. They are in their prime when things are going well for them. Looks, status, money. Not age.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/22 01:36 AM
7

Yup. The majority of young women don’t go for dudes 10+ years their age.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/22 01:34 AM
5

Stop the cap. None of the attractive stable girls i know are going for 33yo dudes. They go for rich 22 yo sugar babies.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/22 01:32 AM
1

Wtf nah bro they have lives. No girl ik genuinely hopes they get cold approached on a day to day.
/r/seduction07/03/22 01:29 AM
2

Stop being needy and do some other shit
/r/seduction07/03/22 01:09 AM
1

You are the other guys. You know you havnt made it when you need to double text…
/r/seduction07/03/22 01:08 AM
1

Attractive women are in high demand
/r/seduction07/03/22 01:06 AM
2

No alt date and time means it ain’t happening
/r/seduction07/03/22 01:02 AM
0

Long responses means low interest
/r/seduction07/03/22 12:59 AM
1

You can’t. You need to become a top tier guy (not easy at all). Or you will play second fiddle obviously.
/r/seduction06/03/22 08:09 PM
3

This is just an excuse. If you are a high value guy. There will always be high value women regardless of where you are unless you in a village of like 5000 people.
/r/seduction06/03/22 08:01 PM
25

It means low interest
/r/seduction06/03/22 12:05 AM
8

High value guys: rich, successful, status, good looking
/r/seduction05/03/22 09:15 PM
2

Maybe is a no. If girls are down to meet up they make it easy af
/r/seduction05/03/22 08:42 PM
2

Not too old. But you gotta look the part.
/r/seduction05/03/22 08:25 PM
1

Are you popular?
/r/seduction05/03/22 08:23 PM
3

You sound like a huge dick. Friends are important.
/r/seduction05/03/22 08:22 PM
0

How is this incel?
/r/seduction05/03/22 06:33 PM
10

Because of social media and dating apps women have access to top tier dudes and anything below that is invisible. Why would they entertain the 6-7 when there are 8-10 a swipe away that will bang them. It’s unfortunate, but it is what it is. Only thing you can do is grind hard and get your status, wealth, looks up
/r/seduction05/03/22 05:58 PM
1

Only matters if there is interest from the beginning. If she doesn’t like the way you look, no amount of game will change her view of you. Looks are extremely important.
/r/seduction05/03/22 05:55 PM
2

Because of tinder and social media they have access to top tier dudes so anything below that tier is invisible. My advice is to grind on yourself hard until you get into that tier.
/r/seduction05/03/22 05:53 PM
3

Bad advice they need to change something
/r/seduction05/03/22 05:52 PM
1

I rly wanna see what happens lol. Btw 99% of girls don’t wanna talk at the gym.
/r/seduction05/03/22 12:50 PM
2

Ya it does matter alot. But in my group there are guys who dont get laid. Not everyone gets laid just because you are in a good group. You still need to look the part. regardless I agree with you, social circle does open doors to meeting other women. With the mutuals being there, meeting them is way easier than cold approach.
/r/seduction04/03/22 09:16 PM
1

No do not ask her out again. If she was interested she would have texted you.
/r/seduction04/03/22 06:05 AM
1

Whats the difference between rejected from a phone and rejected from face to face? They are both rejections. And online dating is way more efficient because you can show your status, wealth, looks, social circle, etc. All my friends clean up on Tinder.
/r/seduction04/03/22 06:04 AM
1

rly? what are your numbers? All I see here is guys going 5/100 from cold approach. While on online dating you can get way more efficient numbers.
/r/seduction04/03/22 05:11 AM
1

I never said I was hot I was just stating how important looks are. Sure the leeway fades if you are horrible, but how many good looking ppl are actually terrible people? Majority are actually pretty socially calibrated and pleasant due to positive reinforcement and reactions. In fact the most annoying girls is that friend that is jaded and is usually the least hottest in the group. Also most ugly dudes dont get hot chicks, that's a rare exception, the majority of ugly dudes are single.
/r/seduction04/03/22 04:32 AM
1

I know but why not at bars, clubs, parties, etc. Why in the day time at the school?
/r/seduction04/03/22 04:29 AM
0

Why not go to bars, clubs, house parties, online dating? Why cold approach, it rly is the most ineffective way
/r/seduction04/03/22 03:49 AM
1

you can use that logic with game/confidence there is always someone better true. But if you dont have looks, you are rejected before you open your mouth. And no amount of game will get her attracted
/r/seduction04/03/22 03:44 AM
5

Bro she rejected you and is avoiding you, stop overthinking this and move on
/r/seduction04/03/22 02:07 AM
5

Location doesnt matter. If you a high value good looking guy you can get laid in the north, south, west, east, wherever
/r/seduction03/03/22 11:20 PM
3

thats not true at all. Looks give you a lot of leeway. And they def dont fly out the window. Looks will get you second chances, more results from online, a better impression, etc. I think looks are probably the most important when it comes to attraction.
/r/seduction03/03/22 11:10 PM
1

Looks, status,
/r/seduction03/03/22 10:57 PM
2

Almost nvr works, only if she brings it up or is the type to hookup her friends.
/r/seduction03/03/22 10:57 PM
9

If she into you and attracted she will come over
/r/seduction03/03/22 09:04 PM
1

Why would society collapse? I think it's pretty hard to be that unattractive to not even get an above avg girl to see casually
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/22 08:41 PM
1

eh seems low interest. You can try to set up a date but I think she will flake. The ill have to check and non definite answers to your meetup request is not a good sign.
/r/seduction03/03/22 08:34 PM
1

So what do you think are the solutions?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/22 08:30 PM
1

Is success just being in a relationship? Because there are plenty of ugly ppl with other ugly ppl, avg with avg, etc. You rarely see the avg person dating up
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/22 07:10 PM
1

They cant, the market isnt changing anytime soon. You either level up alot (which is unlikely) or you just settle.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/22 07:07 PM
4

are you just here to brag or something? whats the point of this post. Some have it hard some dont. Are you giving advice?
/r/seduction03/03/22 06:56 PM
1

mhm totally.
/r/seduction03/03/22 06:54 PM
1

20
/r/seduction03/03/22 06:53 PM
1

better your pics, make yourself the best option. I improved that and I started to get msgs first and things got way easier. Way more receptive, less flaking, and meetups are initiated by her.
/r/seduction03/03/22 06:52 PM
3

Like you said if someone's answer isn't a fuck yes, then it's probably a no. You didnt do anything wrong, she just wasnt interested.
/r/seduction03/03/22 06:43 PM
-2

If dating apps arent working out for you, you wont fair any better by cold approaching tbh
/r/seduction03/03/22 06:41 PM
1

It doesnt matter honestly. If she is into you then it doesnt matter.
/r/seduction03/03/22 06:26 PM
3

You gotta stop caring
/r/seduction03/03/22 06:25 PM
3

You didnt do anything wrong. You were rejected before you started talking to her. So no need to overthink.
/r/seduction03/03/22 06:23 PM
1

Cold short responses means low interest.
/r/seduction03/03/22 08:02 AM
4

Get better pics bro no selfies. Take a look at your competition. They don’t have selfies and they have pics with social proof and cool lifestyles. Just put in the effort and the results will come.
/r/seduction03/03/22 07:46 AM
4

Doesn’t want to meet within a week means next her
/r/seduction03/03/22 07:41 AM
3

YOu can avoid it by being a man she wants.
/r/seduction01/03/22 10:12 PM
2

She dont care bruh
/r/seduction01/03/22 10:12 PM
10

If she keeps making excuses to your requests to hang out then she isnt interested. Interested girls will make it easy to set up hangouts. So If I were you I'd move on.
/r/seduction01/03/22 10:08 PM
1

She said naw twice. It ain’t happening.
/r/seduction01/03/22 06:45 PM
7

Yup you can tell right away from the convo if it will lead to a date. usually the girl will already have decided if she wants to meetup from the first few msgs, making sure you arent crazy
/r/seduction28/02/22 09:19 PM
1

You are using the most ineffective way to get girls. Start online dating, and going for mutuals of mutuals, expand your social groups. Way more effective than cold approaching in the middle of the day.
/r/seduction28/02/22 09:12 PM
23

Yup if she is attracted then everything is easy. Setting up dates is easier, replies are quicker, convos are easier, signs are obvious, etc. Low interest to mid interest: slow replies, excuses, everything is harder. And no amount of game or confidence will convert these low to mid interest women
/r/seduction28/02/22 09:09 PM
7

This.
/r/seduction28/02/22 09:07 PM
1

You are using celebrities as your examples, that does not apply to anyone you know
/r/seduction28/02/22 09:06 PM
2

Nah man the way someone dresses doesn’t boost their attractiveness that much. Neither does confidence if you are ugly.
/r/seduction28/02/22 07:30 PM
2

What? Um you do get dates what
/r/seduction28/02/22 07:29 PM
1

Low interest from her end from the start
/r/seduction28/02/22 07:27 PM
1

Low interest
/r/seduction28/02/22 07:27 PM
2

You are here to brag for some pathetic reason.
/r/seduction28/02/22 07:26 PM
3

gotta have mutual friends
/r/seduction28/02/22 04:12 AM
-13

nah
/r/seduction28/02/22 04:12 AM
1

that was barely a cockblock bro. And calluses isnt gonna be the reason if this doesnt work out. TRy again on a different date. If you two are really eyeing each other, there isnt a perfect moment because shes into you.
/r/seduction28/02/22 03:40 AM
1

why? It doesnt matter
/r/seduction28/02/22 03:22 AM
2

pick up artist tactics, seduction through convos, etc
/r/seduction28/02/22 03:07 AM
2

late replies usually means low interest. So when I feel that I just back off and go for others,.
/r/seduction28/02/22 03:06 AM
1

Probably ended up like this because you didnt have a strong male role model present in your life to help you with dating, attraction, etc.
/r/seduction28/02/22 02:56 AM
2

Nah doesnt sound interested. If she is, she would be way more receptive/enthusiastic. Def don't remind in person to open your message....Trust me, she saw it.
/r/seduction28/02/22 02:54 AM
1

Because when I was in HS it rly benefited my dating life by being in the "cool" group. So I would suggest playing a sport and associate yourself with that group. It will boost your value incredibly.
/r/seduction28/02/22 02:23 AM
3

Ya but it's still not guranteed that the 16-18 will put in the work to get there. But none of this matters if you are super ugly.
/r/seduction28/02/22 02:11 AM
1

Nah you can get laid purely off looks
/r/seduction28/02/22 02:09 AM
1

lol nah. a 6 dude with a 9? How often do you see that? I mean it can happen. But it def is not the norm
/r/seduction28/02/22 02:09 AM
1

80 % looks 20% game. Just experiment with tinder or look up tinder experiments if you dont believe it.
/r/seduction28/02/22 02:09 AM
2

whats value? Like how much money and clout you have? Looking good and good looking face are correlated.
/r/seduction28/02/22 02:08 AM
1

What if your jaw is recessed? The only controllable part is the body fat percentage but if your jaw looks weak its over for you,
/r/seduction28/02/22 02:07 AM
0

face is first.
/r/seduction28/02/22 02:06 AM
2

or being shorter than the girl
/r/seduction28/02/22 02:06 AM
0

they get with ugly girls
/r/seduction28/02/22 02:05 AM
2

decent looking is still decent. And he probably isnt punching out of his league tho
/r/seduction28/02/22 02:05 AM
2

They are. If you were good looking you would cleaning up on tinder no questions
/r/seduction28/02/22 02:04 AM
1

they date their looks match
/r/seduction28/02/22 02:04 AM
1

he prob not as ugly as you think. He prob also has popularity/clout/connections which boosts value.
/r/seduction28/02/22 02:03 AM
3

Don’t even waste your time on text game. There is she into or not. If yes text for date. If no don’t text.
/r/seduction28/02/22 01:59 AM
2

Pua don’t mean shit if they aren’t initially attracted.
/r/seduction28/02/22 01:57 AM
1

You popular at school? I’m asking because that is quite important in hs
/r/seduction28/02/22 01:56 AM
2

if she is pulling back then you have to do the same.
/r/seduction28/02/22 01:07 AM
6

eh it depends on the person. If you grind and improve yourself yes. But if you stay the same then nah it actuallly gets harder.
/r/seduction28/02/22 01:06 AM
1

what? No women make things easy for guys they are interested. Why would make things hard for guys they like?
/r/seduction28/02/22 01:00 AM
2

hmm honestly there wasnt much there to suggest she is interested in more than friends. Is she a baddie? Whats your dating history? Get a lot of girls? Because I think when you asked her if she was going downtown. That was perfect opportunity for her to say like you should come next time or something like that. Regardless you shouldnt be thinking about this one girl this much
/r/seduction27/02/22 11:09 PM
2

Whats your dating history? Are you good looking? How much experience you have in dating ? These all seem like friendly interactions and there hasnt been anything obvious in terms of flirting like them asking you out. Yes girls ask out men but in a more subtle way,
/r/seduction27/02/22 11:01 PM
1

Ok. Thats good.
/r/seduction27/02/22 10:56 PM
1

How are your results on online dating? That was brutal about calling you too old for her. Sorry but I don’t think that was a shit test, I’m not sure how anyone can respond to that without sounding creepy.
/r/seduction27/02/22 10:40 PM
1

Bro a shit test means low interest.
/r/seduction27/02/22 10:38 PM
5

She doesn’t even care bro
/r/seduction27/02/22 10:38 PM
1

What do you look like?
/r/seduction27/02/22 10:37 PM
1

No he ain’t attractive
/r/seduction27/02/22 10:35 PM
1

Did she seem interested?
/r/seduction27/02/22 10:34 PM
3

Was there clear signs she was attracted to you and was flirting with you? From what I read it looks like she wasn’t. And from her reaction it looks like we wasn’t. Next time make sure it is absolutely clear she is into you like that before touching her
/r/seduction27/02/22 10:33 PM
6

a bad sign if she suddenly is taking a while to respond. Just talk to others
/r/seduction27/02/22 10:06 PM
3

Few million is not the norm
/r/seduction27/02/22 06:33 PM
1

BB 80 %
/r/seduction27/02/22 05:52 PM
1

You can get cancelled
/r/seduction27/02/22 03:30 AM
1

Bruh a 5’2 bald broke guy ain’t gonna be attractive with all the confidence in the world
/r/seduction27/02/22 03:28 AM
1

Just msg her and ask her out. If she’s into you then she will agree
/r/seduction27/02/22 03:16 AM
2

Just msg her and ask her out
/r/seduction27/02/22 03:15 AM
0

You talk a lot of shit about other guys for someone that doesn’t seem like a catch themselves. Maybe you need to check your ego? You seem like a hassle to hang out with.
/r/seduction27/02/22 03:01 AM
1

She understood bro.
/r/seduction27/02/22 02:48 AM
-8

Agreed
/r/seduction25/02/22 11:46 PM
1

No point of caring about others’ successes. Just level as much as possible. I seriously doubt at your age you have maxed out
/r/seduction25/02/22 07:20 PM
1

Right. But the results prove otherwise
/r/seduction25/02/22 07:19 PM
6

Move on
/r/seduction25/02/22 07:11 PM
2

Wtf
/r/seduction25/02/22 04:50 AM
1

Wait are you guys in the same group or something ? I dont see why you need to have a chat with her if she dumped you (basically). But regardless just ignore her unless she talks to you first.
/r/seduction25/02/22 01:28 AM
1

she avoiding you bruh. If she liked you then why would she do that?
/r/seduction25/02/22 01:24 AM
5

Nah she's paid to be nice
/r/seduction25/02/22 12:58 AM
5

And you need to have it on point
/r/seduction24/02/22 09:49 PM
1

Nah bro you werent boring. It was just out of your control. You can be super boring and if the girl is into you it doesnt matter.
/r/seduction24/02/22 09:19 PM
1

Dont even worry about that bro. Just talk to the other girls that reply. Dont waste your energy
/r/seduction24/02/22 09:19 PM
1

Dont do it. Unless she asks you out then sure but still dont recommend.
/r/seduction24/02/22 09:09 PM
1

As proof in case of false accusations. This is why this is super risky. Because careers/jobs are on the line.
/r/seduction24/02/22 09:08 PM
2

If they were interested, they would reply to your messages.
/r/seduction24/02/22 09:06 PM
0

Lol was this the last time you had something going?
/r/seduction24/02/22 09:06 PM
2

Yup alot can happen in those weeks. Found another guy, got bored, or just wants to be alone.
/r/seduction24/02/22 09:04 PM
21

If you are hanging out with women but have your shit together then i dont see a problem.
/r/seduction24/02/22 09:03 PM
4

Great inner game, Bad appearance = no results Normal inner game, good appearance = results
/r/seduction24/02/22 08:58 PM
1

They not interested. They got options.
/r/seduction24/02/22 08:57 PM
4

wtf is this
/r/seduction24/02/22 08:56 PM
4

lol at the downvote. genetics and status are huge
/r/seduction24/02/22 08:56 PM
2

You didnt do anything wrong. There was just low interest from her end.
/r/seduction24/02/22 08:55 PM
17

so whats the problem? are you getting women?
/r/seduction24/02/22 08:52 PM
5

Not a good sign. If she was interested she’ll make it easy
/r/seduction24/02/22 06:26 PM
3

You can’t do shit she blocked you
/r/seduction24/02/22 05:59 PM
3

Yup do you rly want those kind of women? Usually they are junkies themselves.
/r/seduction24/02/22 04:48 AM
3

Doesn’t mean shit stop
/r/seduction24/02/22 02:17 AM
2

Terrible advice.
/r/seduction24/02/22 02:15 AM
2

Bruh just move on
/r/seduction24/02/22 02:14 AM
3

you can’t, move on. She’s talking to a bunch of dudes. And so should you. You should be talking to multiple different women. If she initiates contact then great. But other than that she probably forgot about you. You can try to hit her up again but idk about your chances
/r/seduction24/02/22 01:17 AM
2

Ya no one cares that the loser, unattractive guy doesn’t care that people like/dislike him. In fact he will come across as jaded and unfriendly.
/r/seduction24/02/22 01:11 AM
2

Nope. No shortcuts in life. A guy who doesn’t put in effort and time into themselves to become successful in dating will lose to the others. Unless you are extremely good looking which I doubt.
/r/seduction24/02/22 01:10 AM
3

They ain’t into you like that
/r/seduction23/02/22 09:33 PM
1

They aren’t looking at you bruh
/r/seduction23/02/22 09:31 PM
1

She doesn’t like you like that. You are her orbiter. And wtf are you doing with you best friends siblings? so whack. Yes it will massively backfire, but I kinda want to know what will happen lol
/r/seduction23/02/22 09:26 PM
6

No comeback.. she’s basically telling you to go away
/r/seduction23/02/22 09:17 PM
2

What? Just ask her to chill.
/r/seduction23/02/22 07:33 PM
2

I mean there are exceptions. But the rule is you need to high value regardless.
/r/seduction23/02/22 07:31 PM
0

House
/r/seduction23/02/22 06:27 PM
1

Gotta lose the weight
/r/seduction23/02/22 06:27 PM
-7

This just proves that tinder works best. I’ll be honest with you, if you aren’t doing well on tinder, then you probably won’t do well from in real life interactions. If you aren’t successful on these apps then that means you are missing something in terms of looks, vibe, status. It seems like your friend has the pretty boy thing going for him. You need to find your style, hair, look, etc. and no in the long run, being successful on apps is meta.
/r/seduction23/02/22 05:30 PM
3

Yeah they’re not. And decently good looking doesn’t rly stand out. If these decent looking guys had other stuff going for them like status, wealth, popularity. Then that might increase their chances. But getting approached does happen if you are in top 1%.
/r/seduction23/02/22 05:24 PM
2

Boyfriend means get a away from me.
/r/seduction23/02/22 05:19 PM
27

Because attractive men are valuable? They will not approach avg dudes, and that’s how it is. They aren’t “scared” to approach. They just have 0 interest in getting to know those guys that no one wants. Guys with girls usually mean they got something going for them. Albeit the women are more attractive than them.
/r/seduction23/02/22 05:17 PM
2

You said you are not that rich, not that good looking, short, and assume not high status. And you think you can get with 7+? Well women date up. So to get with these girls you need level up in these areas significantly. That’s just the truth. In fact I’m surprised you are even getting with 6s. You have to ask yourself, why would these 7-8s pick me when, from what I read you seem very average.
/r/seduction23/02/22 05:08 PM
1

Yes
/r/seduction23/02/22 05:03 PM
1

How does that work? She is on dating apps. She don’t give af if you cold approach
/r/seduction23/02/22 05:02 PM
3

None. If she into you. She into you.
/r/seduction23/02/22 05:02 PM
0

18-22 are not interested in 30 year olds unless you have crazy status.
/r/seduction23/02/22 05:00 PM
1

Getting a fake number or a number to get you to go away is definitely not the same as getting a right swipe on tinder.
/r/seduction23/02/22 08:53 AM
1

Didnt you only approach 2? And nah man, they are "flattered" because they dont want confrontation and piss off a random guy that can potentially hurt them. That girl left you on read and blocked you, even though you felt like it was a good interaction. If cold approaching yielded better results than tinder, then you would be seeing cold approaches way more often.
/r/seduction23/02/22 08:48 AM
1

I agree, that there is BS from Tinder. However, since she swiped right on you there is a baseline of attraction. Women swipe way more selectively. Also i'd say Im getting laid from 5/50 tinder matches that is still a lot better than what my cold approach results would be. Because there is the attraction from her swiping right
/r/seduction23/02/22 08:44 AM
1

I disagree with that, a girl will not appreciate a cold approach from a guy she doesnt find attractive. It doesnt matter that he has the balls to approach if he is broke, friendless, ugly guy. That doesnt put him in a league above a rich, tall, high status guy.
/r/seduction23/02/22 08:42 AM
1

You can still get hot girls from tinder wtf
/r/seduction23/02/22 08:40 AM
1

Shit tests arent a thing if she is into you.
/r/seduction23/02/22 08:35 AM
3

He probably has clout and is good looking.
/r/seduction23/02/22 08:34 AM
1

And you think by cold approaching there won't be competition? That makes no sense. All these girls are on tinder. And they have very good options, just you cold approaching won't put you ahead of them. I mean look at your result from today. You got blocked after all that, probably because there was no initial attraction.
/r/seduction23/02/22 08:32 AM
1

Yes, Tinder is the best way to get a lot of options without much effort.
/r/seduction23/02/22 08:30 AM
1

I mean if you dont have anyone to take pics of you then I think you need to focus on getting yourself a good social circle. Tinder is way more efficient than cold approaching if you have a good profile. On tinder you can show off your lifestyle (social circle, status, wealth, etc) and other achievements. This will objectively put you ahead 80% of dudes.
/r/seduction23/02/22 08:29 AM
3

Move on
/r/seduction23/02/22 08:15 AM
3

um you just keep doing your thing. And dont chase
/r/seduction23/02/22 08:14 AM
-5

Bruh stop cold approaching and get on tinder
/r/seduction23/02/22 08:13 AM
1

Tinder
/r/seduction23/02/22 05:09 AM
5

Not a good sign
/r/seduction23/02/22 05:08 AM
28

Lol she don’t respect you
/r/seduction23/02/22 05:06 AM
1

You don’t need to be great in person if she agrees to come over. Most of my hookups have barely any talking. Beside just small talk.
/r/seduction22/02/22 11:51 PM
1

If you want to be pursued by high quality women (which doesn’t happen) you need to be literally a top 1% guy. Most guys don’t get pursued ever. So you need to be elite if you want to get pursued. Elite in status, wealth, or looks. If you disagree and think you just need elite game. Then you are dreaming.
/r/seduction22/02/22 11:47 PM
-7

Don’t cold approach bro go online
/r/seduction22/02/22 11:00 PM
4

Nothing. cuz you don’t wanna be friends
/r/seduction22/02/22 10:57 PM
2

nothing rly shows any clear cut interest. Like her joking about you 2 going out after her shift or something. She is also 6 yrs older than you and in a completely different stage in her life. She is also in the service business where she has to be nice to you for good business. You can ask her out sure but idk.
/r/seduction22/02/22 09:22 PM
1

Right? If he can get her then he’d get her. Simple. But he can’t that’s why is he contemplating snitching and ranting on here
/r/seduction22/02/22 07:12 PM
1

Yes he is a hater. Such a bitch move to snitch on a guy like that.
/r/seduction22/02/22 07:11 PM
1

Right? It sounds like op is jealous/bitter. He even said his blood is boiling? Why does this affect him so much.
/r/seduction22/02/22 07:10 PM
2

You’re not getting affected wtf. It’s not like the girl likes you and can’t be with you because of him. There has been no indication that she’s interested in you.
/r/seduction22/02/22 07:09 PM
2

Wtf are you only with her cuz she gives you sex? Huge mistake. She has total power over your. You need to start going out there and find some fwbs
/r/seduction22/02/22 06:55 PM
2

“Maybe, I’ll let you know, I’m so busy”= NO
/r/seduction22/02/22 06:51 PM
1

Bro I think if you try anything more it will make her uncomfortable. Pull way back and if she wants to study with you, she will ask you. The fact that she rejected eating with an excuse that she needs to study more is a bad sign
/r/seduction22/02/22 06:49 PM
1

This post is super long. But yes your inner shit does not mean anything. Your outer appearance and how you present yourself is super important.
/r/seduction22/02/22 06:36 PM
8

Advice is tinder. Are you matching with them? If yes go to parties and chat them online. If no, work on improving yourself and becoming someone they want (high value guy)
/r/seduction22/02/22 06:33 PM
0

You probably can tho. The fact is tho is that younger women do have more value because of their youth. They also way less jaded from past relationships and are usually more fun/not serious. Which means they have a lot of high value men pursuing them.
/r/seduction22/02/22 06:30 PM
4

Don’t overthink it too much. If she likes you she will be receptive to any manner. Just be chill and ask her out.
/r/seduction22/02/22 06:28 PM
3

If she finds you attractive it doesn’t matter what you say
/r/seduction22/02/22 06:02 PM
-9

If you aren’t getting girls your age. You def won’t be getting with 18-22 yo
/r/seduction22/02/22 05:56 PM
1

Just leave it bro. Go after some other girls.
/r/seduction22/02/22 05:48 PM
0

It is worse or the same. At least on OLD you know there is a baseline of attraction from her end because she swiped on you. And girls are much more selective when swiping.
/r/seduction22/02/22 12:26 AM
3

no.
/r/seduction21/02/22 11:37 PM
1

money, looks, status.
/r/seduction21/02/22 11:36 PM
1

Yup you need to stand out in some way above the rest.
/r/seduction21/02/22 11:33 PM
2

Don't get off the apps. New age of dating is apps and social media. Unfortunately this is how it is, and will continue to be. So you need to maximize your profile and looks. There are ton of resources on youtube you can look at. But no, I doubt people that start approaching IRL get much better results from OLD.
/r/seduction21/02/22 11:30 PM
1

It’s the new age of dating. Adapt or lose. Get the things that they want. Im assuming they want a guy that is well connected, secure, successful, good looking, you need at least some of these things.
/r/seduction21/02/22 09:55 PM
2

Nah there is no “trick” just talk and vibe
/r/seduction21/02/22 09:53 PM
1

Do you have any friends that go to college from high school?
/r/seduction21/02/22 09:52 PM
4

Nah simp shit
/r/seduction21/02/22 09:15 PM
3

She is using you for validation lol
/r/seduction21/02/22 04:34 PM
1

Can’t you just go for others? She literally said it felt weird when you touched her
/r/seduction21/02/22 04:32 PM
1

I still don’t understand why her friend not talking is pressing you this hard. And she probably won’t reply btw so yeah it’s an L move on.
/r/seduction21/02/22 04:25 PM
2

Sounding creepy af
/r/seduction21/02/22 04:18 PM
2

She basically rejected you twice. First was when she told you she wanted to hang out with Her friend and basically told you to leave. 2nd when she didn’t reply to your text. And no offence but you sound insecure af by the way you kept shitting on the guy she was with. And no definitely do not double text…
/r/seduction21/02/22 04:10 PM
2

Do you go to parties with your friends? There should be parties every weekend
/r/seduction21/02/22 05:30 AM
2

Bruh she’s just working out chill
/r/seduction21/02/22 05:29 AM
5

Lol high quality girls don’t give a shit about your life experience if you are broke, ugly, and a loser
/r/seduction21/02/22 03:55 AM
1

No. You are reading into this way too much. If you have to question if it’s a choosing signal then it probably isn’t
/r/seduction21/02/22 03:09 AM
3

There is no such places. You need to up your value if you are getting out competed like that. You can’t avoid your competition. Because women now have options on their phones.
/r/seduction21/02/22 03:08 AM
1

Um yes that’s how it has always been in society. Stop blaming it. And get your money and status up. Men are weaker than ever these days.
/r/seduction21/02/22 03:03 AM
3

This is assuming the guy did the work in his 20s. However if a guy did this work in his 20s. He probably wouldn’t have been struggling prior to 30
/r/seduction21/02/22 02:58 AM
-4

Bruh it is not the norm seeing young girls with older men.
/r/seduction21/02/22 02:54 AM
0

Need to up your value.
/r/seduction21/02/22 12:52 AM
2

How?
/r/seduction21/02/22 12:50 AM
1

Just low interest from beginning
/r/seduction21/02/22 12:44 AM
5

But just because you look young doesn’t mean you have an advantage. Young women go for high value dudes regardless of age. If you are low value and 30, your age won’t bring you up.
/r/seduction20/02/22 11:34 PM
15

Only an advantage because older dudes are more established and have more wealth. But other than that it’s not an advantage tbh
/r/seduction20/02/22 11:30 PM
2

How does it get easier? Unless you have rly good status wealth looks. It doesn’t magically become easier.
/r/seduction20/02/22 11:30 PM
157

It gets harder if you don’t have your shit together. When you are younger you can get away with being broke and not established yet. But if you are rich and good looking being 30 won’t affect too much how you get early 20 girls. However, in general girls won’t go for a 30 year old if a early 20s dude is on a similar level. So basically you need to have a significant edge (money, status, looks) to get with younger women.
/r/seduction20/02/22 11:29 PM
1

Get a car bro. It helps a lot
/r/seduction20/02/22 11:24 PM
1

I’ll explain: you do not have enough value (looks,status,money) for girls to entertain you of any ages.
/r/seduction20/02/22 10:27 PM
1

Yes they are not available. Especially if he is isn’t high value.
/r/seduction20/02/22 10:25 PM
1

They don’t “act” uninterested. They are uninterested.
/r/seduction20/02/22 09:46 PM
1

Not Rly compared to the avg guy.
/r/seduction20/02/22 09:45 PM
1

Nothing after 140? I usually get like 2/50 for actual hookup. Yeah a lot of ghosting but it is what it is
/r/seduction20/02/22 09:42 PM
1

Ok nothing you told me rly suggests she is into you like that. But only way to find out is to ask her to hang out.
/r/seduction20/02/22 06:53 PM
1

3-4 matches a day. But maybe 1 is someone I’d actually date.
/r/seduction20/02/22 06:28 PM
1

Just ask to her come over? There are no “statements”. She’s either into you or isn’t
/r/seduction20/02/22 06:25 PM
1

What about status?
/r/seduction20/02/22 06:18 PM
3

Lol how is she special
/r/seduction20/02/22 06:18 PM
2

Maybe she was feeling the other dude? Girls switch up quick
/r/seduction20/02/22 06:16 PM
1

Ya if she liked him it would a yes, without the repeating that she is dating someone. She also seems hesitant with the “could”
/r/seduction20/02/22 06:12 PM
1

Tinder
/r/seduction20/02/22 06:01 PM
0

Boring - ugly Good looking - calm, mysterious
/r/seduction20/02/22 08:41 AM
3

Wait you already hit on her before and nothing happened, and now you want to hit on her again? Why? Just hit on someone else
/r/seduction20/02/22 06:11 AM
5

High school sports is the best way to get connected
/r/seduction20/02/22 06:07 AM
2

Bro you are in denial if you don’t think looks are “no where” as important. It’s super important especially because of social media and online dating
/r/seduction20/02/22 05:59 AM
6

It literally doesnt matter dont let em get to your head. If she rly is a 1/10 her life must suck so she puts others down to feel better. But at the end of the day she has to look in the mirror and see her ugly self.
/r/seduction20/02/22 04:22 AM
1

You shouldnt even be worried about this shit if you are married
/r/seduction20/02/22 04:10 AM
1

I swear you posted this multiple about the girls going for hockey guys. And it's the same answers, become high value. The hockey guys have status at the school, especially if it's D1. You will most likely not be able to compete with that if you are just some normal looking dude getting a boring degree and don't know where the parties are at. The hockey dudes are usually well connected because they have a lot of friends due to being on a team together. If you are struggling with friends def join …
/r/seduction20/02/22 04:05 AM
1

looks and status most important to become "alpha". Confidence/charisma/personality wont help you much if you cant back it up.
/r/seduction20/02/22 03:57 AM
2

But does she flirt with you. Is she giving you attention that she doesnt to her friends. Is she putting in extra effort to converse with you?
/r/seduction20/02/22 03:51 AM
1

No talking for the last 8 days? Yeah it’s over bro. Move on. Don’t you have other matches to speak to? Also when you guys were talking, did you guys snap at all? Or anything to confirm she is legit? And not some kind of setup? For me I’d like to get insta and snap to make sure nothing shady is going on, before we hook up
/r/seduction19/02/22 10:50 PM
2

When you guys talk is there flirting? Interest on her end?
/r/seduction19/02/22 10:48 PM
1

Agreed. Looks are super important in today’s dating world
/r/seduction19/02/22 09:58 PM
12

Plz ban this guy
/r/seduction19/02/22 12:18 AM
3

The chances of anything happening from a dm on insta is like none. Unless your insta is popping
/r/seduction18/02/22 11:11 PM
1

It’s over bruh. After you got angry she probably got super turned off. I doubt she would want anything more than friends ever
/r/seduction18/02/22 08:50 PM
5

Lol good luck with that.
/r/seduction18/02/22 08:46 PM
7

Nah she has options bruh. Do you know how much attention decent looking girls get online? Also dudes just wanna fuck. They don’t care about personality
/r/seduction18/02/22 08:25 PM
1

It can be, I agree. I’m just saying having a bunch of confidence with little to back it up won’t get you anywhere.
/r/seduction18/02/22 08:23 PM
4

I disagree, I see high value dudes clean up on tinder with good looking girls. I also would never recommend going to a 3rd world country to get women.
/r/seduction18/02/22 08:18 PM
12

She talking to other dudes. She had fun with you and has now moved on.
/r/seduction18/02/22 08:16 PM
0

They definitely have a type
/r/seduction18/02/22 08:15 PM
-2

Sorry but if you are broke, short, ugly, no social circle/connections. No amount of confidence will help you
/r/seduction18/02/22 08:14 PM
6

I think you are partially right. Yes their value is inflated. But also there are tons of low value men as well. And most men don’t know it. I think USA is a great place to date if you are high value
/r/seduction18/02/22 07:59 PM
3

Gotta be rich, popular, good looking
/r/seduction18/02/22 07:54 PM
1

If that’s your definition of success then power to you
/r/seduction18/02/22 05:05 PM
5

Be someone worth approaching
/r/seduction18/02/22 04:55 PM
6

Be someone worth chasing
/r/seduction18/02/22 04:47 PM
3

You need to pull back. You tried meeting up twice and she gave you excuses. If you she wants to meet she will message you. That’s what interested women do.
/r/seduction18/02/22 04:46 PM
3

She will do whatever she wants, she doesn’t care. Accept it, and get some other girls. If it rly bothers you end the relationship you have with her. If you want to keep seeing her, don’t bring it up. If you do it will push her away, because you wil come off as possessive.
/r/seduction18/02/22 04:44 PM
-1

Go on tinder brah
/r/seduction18/02/22 04:00 AM
2

Thats why you gotta be talking to multiple girls. Because girls are bound to ghost, go cold, etc. Having multiple options will make you less desperate and care less.
/r/seduction18/02/22 03:56 AM
4

Everything, you want above average looking women. Then you must be above avg in almost every way.
/r/seduction18/02/22 03:45 AM
11

You aren’t on the level of hot women. Hot girls get attention from very high value guys. So why would they choose you? Also these unattractive girls like you because you are above them in looks. Women usually date up so you need to be high value. That’s the truth.
/r/seduction18/02/22 01:33 AM
0

Yup some guys here just don’t want to accept that.
/r/seduction18/02/22 01:32 AM
1

Down bad
/r/seduction17/02/22 09:26 PM
1093

Nothing. He is a celebrity. Stop trying to learn from celebrities they have completely different lives than us.
/r/seduction17/02/22 08:59 PM
2

It’s staged
/r/seduction17/02/22 08:57 PM
5

It means no.
/r/seduction17/02/22 08:42 PM
1

Again, nothing has happened. Flirting over text for validation doesn’t mean much. Ask to meet up. And let’s see what happens.
/r/seduction17/02/22 08:39 PM
1

Ya as a friend. Nothing has been proven of anything going further than that.
/r/seduction17/02/22 08:19 PM
1

Move on. She went out with another dude after making excuses to you.
/r/seduction17/02/22 08:17 PM
1

Are you popular?
/r/seduction17/02/22 08:15 PM
2

They are all staged
/r/seduction17/02/22 08:04 PM
1

No it is not. 1. Dating apps 2. Social circle 3. Clubs/parties 4. Cold approaching in the day time
/r/seduction17/02/22 08:02 PM
18

In a vacuum, it doesnt matter unless you care. But if you are getting consistently rejected then you need to look in the mirror and assess where you should be making improvements on
/r/seduction17/02/22 07:52 PM
2

But he can't because of limited options
/r/seduction17/02/22 07:50 PM
8

She didn't "clearly" want it. She said no.
/r/seduction17/02/22 07:40 PM
21

Headphones on, and going on machine next to you means don't talk to me. Headphones off and going on machine next to you. Maybe. But generally, only do it if the signs are absolutely clear.
/r/seduction17/02/22 07:29 PM
1

Ok but did you go out with her? Fucked her?
/r/seduction17/02/22 06:57 PM
-2

Shit tests dont exist. It's just they aren't that into you. Guys like to think "oh this is a test" but the reality is, if she liked you she wouldnt be "testing" you.
/r/seduction16/02/22 08:17 PM
2

Fuck your self promotion
/r/seduction16/02/22 07:36 PM
-6

Bruh if you were truly good looking you'd be cleaning up on tinder. Stop it
/r/seduction16/02/22 07:33 PM
-1

you still need to pass a looks threshold if you want anything more than just friends.
/r/seduction16/02/22 07:30 PM
-3

Tinder is the best way to build rotation. Why isn’t it working for you?
/r/seduction16/02/22 03:30 PM
11

Wtf are you doing. Your friend is going for her. Why are you pursuing her? Even if she want interested in your friend. You still shouldn’t go for her. I’m glad this didn’t work out for you. Low value move
/r/seduction16/02/22 03:27 PM
1

Nah talk to her first and see what her interest level is.
/r/seduction15/02/22 11:04 PM
1

Just gotta be their best option. They give their contact info to so many dudes. Theres too many to keep up with and you got lost in the sea of options. For me it's like 1 in every 7 matches will lead to a hookup. The rest are just there for fun or to just get validation
/r/seduction15/02/22 11:04 PM
3

you didnt rly do anything wrong. If she's interested in you, none of this matters unless you text some rly crazy stuff
/r/seduction15/02/22 09:59 PM
1

Meh, every guy that is struggling in the dating world says this. I wouldn't blame it on where your from. Instead I would look within and see where I'm lacking. Usually, guys who blame it on location will get the realization that even if they move, they will not magically become some high value dude that the locals will like. Unless you go to a 3rd world country
/r/seduction15/02/22 08:26 PM
1

Usually not. But if you are attractive they will go for you. But the majority do not to be honest. Because they already have plenty of options within their age bracket. So why would they go for an older guy that they would have less in common with, and are in different stages of life. Also eye contact is not always a sign of interest. However, since your friend told you she likes you, that is a good sign. But we don't know, maybe she wants someone closer to her age.
/r/seduction15/02/22 08:21 PM
5

Please do not do that unless it is absolutely clear she is interested in you.
/r/seduction15/02/22 08:13 PM
3

PLEASE dont use these "gurus" for advice. They are selling bullshit, and dont give true advice because then they can't make sales. The truth is, if you are not up to par in terms of value (looks, money, popularity, success, etc) you will not have success in the dating world. In your case, since you are in highschool, most guys' value will be popularity and looks. You are only 14 so you have plenty of time to work on yourself and become popular(i.e. joining the football team, hosting parties, kno…
/r/seduction15/02/22 08:12 PM
0

Eh no point in reading into it that much. Focus your energy on other things.
/r/seduction15/02/22 08:07 PM
1

Yes. I don't like to reveal the everything.
/r/seduction15/02/22 08:03 PM
1

She definitely saw your follow request and chose to ignore it. Thats not a good sign. Also there is no clear indication of interest. So I wouldnt be thinking about this too much
/r/seduction15/02/22 07:45 PM
4

Only way to proceed is being friends with her and accepting it. You are in the friendzone and wont be getting out. You got rejected on the kiss. There's almost no way of coming out of that unless you level up
/r/seduction15/02/22 07:41 PM
2

You have a good baseline. Just need to maximize
/r/seduction14/02/22 11:10 PM
1

Ah, in terms of looks like a 6. SMV idk, you dont stand out in any way so like 5/10. Thus you been getting 4,5,6s. Which is about right.
/r/seduction14/02/22 11:01 PM
2

Ah I see. I wouldnt give you a 7.5 yet. You still are missing some key things. Social Status is huge. Can totally change your life
/r/seduction14/02/22 10:58 PM
1

No problem. You defs arent hopeless and you can attract the avg girl for sure. But it's another league when it comes to the hot ones. Also when you say avg, what do you mean by that?
/r/seduction14/02/22 10:55 PM
3

tkavook you arent ugly. But you arent exactly in the top 1% in terms of looks. you need to bulk up for sure. Also, from your Ig you dont seem that high value. No pics of parties with friends. Too many guitar pics. need some more fuckboi pics. You def have potential but rly need to work on yourself. But right now I can see why the pretty girls dont pay you attention. It's because there are many guys that are already jacked, high status. etc.
/r/seduction14/02/22 10:50 PM
4

Alot of guys everywhere over value their looks and attractiveness. It's a type of coping mechanism. If you were objectively better looking, wouldnt you be getting results? Just observe who the pretty girls go after. Do you measure up? Be honest with yourself. But you know yourself better than anyone. So in your opinion why do you think you are not getting with these pretty girls?
/r/seduction14/02/22 10:18 PM
0

They are out of your league. If the average/below avg girls are telling you, you are hot that doesnt mean much. Pretty girls have a ton of options from social media. Alot of the high value guys like pretty girls too so you have to stand out in some way. whether that is looks, status, money. Or else you be casted to the side
/r/seduction14/02/22 10:07 PM
9

Nah. Be real with him, it's because his value isnt high enough for the pretty ones to entertain him
/r/seduction14/02/22 10:05 PM
1

Nah bro.
/r/seduction14/02/22 09:57 PM
11

NO. Please do not do that.
/r/seduction14/02/22 09:53 PM
2

eh i mean wouldnt she still be with you if you pursued the IT thing? And it seems like you know what you want.
/r/seduction14/02/22 09:48 PM
1

Hmm ok. From what you have told me. You are in the high tier range, but just below the super hot level. Which is the range you need to be at to get the super hot girls you want. Which is evident from your tinder experience and club experience unfortunately
/r/seduction14/02/22 09:43 PM
1

Right but they could be popular in their respective social groups/community. Yes you think they are objectively worse looking. but are you sure of that? Are you for sure better looking ? the reason im asking is because you said you arent cleaning up on tinder.
/r/seduction14/02/22 09:25 PM
1

How old are you? How long have you been doing this? If you been doing this a while I think it's time to move on and switch to IT and improve your face. Are you rly a 3? Are you lean? Get on Tinder it's actually exactly what you want from reading from your post.
/r/seduction14/02/22 09:16 PM
1

The truth is, is that you aren't on their level. Competition is crazy now, every high value guy is improving as well. Now you may be able to get average girls but the high level girls are getting with the top 1%. Do you think you are in that percentage? You need to be either extremely good looking, or extremely rich, or extremely popular/famous. Dont need all 3 but atleast one of them to get with the girls you want to get with. Thats just the bitter truth, because they have those guys in their D…
/r/seduction14/02/22 09:05 PM
1

Nothing you did wrong, just lack of initial interest from her end.
/r/seduction14/02/22 08:52 PM
5

Only works if the girl is already attracted. If some 5'4 dude did it, it would be eye rolls.
/r/seduction14/02/22 08:49 PM
3

You literally ignore their existence
/r/seduction14/02/22 08:48 PM
1

You walk away.
/r/seduction14/02/22 08:47 PM
20

Bro you are lucky she hasnt reported you after the first couple times...
/r/seduction14/02/22 08:47 PM
3

you lack confidence because you think you are not enough. Which may be true, so be the best you can be and in turn confidence goes up which will make you feel not discouraged
/r/seduction14/02/22 08:54 AM
7

Bro, I highly do not recommend approaching a girl at work. Only if she approached and makes it absolutely clear she wants something, other than that dont do it. Because not only is it a huge HR issue. But it will make the workplace a really awkward place to be if she rejects you. So does she show obvious signs of interest? Or?
/r/seduction14/02/22 01:33 AM
2

It's only been an hour, but I would not recommend gifting her a bunch of stuff. It's only been 2 months, and you dont even seem totally comfortable with her yet
/r/seduction14/02/22 01:31 AM
3

really depends on your profile and how much value it portrays. If you have strong following, pics, lifestyle, etc. They will be more receptive. If you have crappy pics, not interesting lifestyle. Then forget about it.
/r/seduction14/02/22 01:29 AM
4

Leave it. respect yourself and your time is valuable. Dont let her disrespect you like that
/r/seduction14/02/22 01:28 AM
1

Definitely dont just msg her on insta. There needs to be some sort of connect like y'all matched on tinder, or you met her through friends, etc.
/r/seduction14/02/22 01:25 AM
0

Doesnt matter. If you are high value you will get laid anywhere you go. If you arent, the results wont be that different even if you move.
/r/seduction14/02/22 01:22 AM
4

Right. But i dont think you should message her b/c it could come off desperate. Also I think deep down you know if she wants to meetup or not. If she flakes oh well onto the next
/r/seduction13/02/22 08:40 PM
0

You sound super jaded. Bro how is a guy that gets success online dating a bitch boy? Also some of these girls on tinder are top calibre you just making generalizations. At the end of the day it's about getting with girls. And tinder is one of the best ways to do it if you are good at it.
/r/seduction13/02/22 08:38 PM
1

Yes. The pandemic has made online dating main stream. Way more girls on them which is great and bad. Because the standards have definately took off with more men joining as well.
/r/seduction13/02/22 08:31 PM
0

lol. Garbage? I mean sure keep going 0/5 on cold approach. Or get matches from girls that are interested somewhat in your looks.
/r/seduction13/02/22 08:30 PM
7

Nah bro. You can try but if she wanted to meet up she would have messaged you. Also the fact she on tinder means she looking for someone else.
/r/seduction13/02/22 08:29 PM
1

Bro no matches/no respond on ig means you not high value enough yet. Get your social circle, looks, money, everything on point.
/r/seduction13/02/22 08:23 PM
1

Nah if you arent finding success where you are from. It's unlikely that you will get success elsewhere. It's not like women's standards change. Unless you move to a 3rd world country
/r/seduction13/02/22 08:17 PM
1

Eh tall and fit are important but a good looking face can carry you harder.
/r/seduction13/02/22 08:16 PM
1

So did all the girls just pay attention to the other guys? What did the guys look like compared to you? What were they doing/had that you didnt/dont? Need a little more context before can give you better advice. But maybe you were lacking in a department that they had.
/r/seduction13/02/22 08:15 PM
2

Nah personality only matters a little. These guys do well because they look good that's it.
/r/seduction13/02/22 08:11 PM
1

Using you as validation and attention but doesnt have any intention with meeting up with you.
/r/seduction13/02/22 08:10 PM
1

Again, this proves why cold approaching is ineffective af. Also getting their number does not really mean anything. They could be giving you their number so you would go away or whatever. Go online dating way more effective.
/r/seduction13/02/22 08:05 PM
1

No age has nothing to do with it. If you are looking good you then you good. I also notices I'v been matching with younger women these days.
/r/seduction13/02/22 08:00 PM
0

Well these women are getting pursued by low value men thats why they are extra
/r/seduction11/02/22 05:40 AM
34

It means: give me your validation and attention but you don't get to hangout with me. Seriously, if she was interested and serious on meeting up. She would have met up with you by now. Don't waste anymore time playing her games.
/r/seduction10/02/22 09:28 PM
1

I think you are living in fantasy land. They validate your hotness ? Is that something you tell yourself? How is your online dating? If you are an 8 you should be cleaning up
/r/seduction10/02/22 09:24 PM
1

Bruh it's been a year. She don't even remember you. Go for other chicks my god
/r/seduction10/02/22 09:18 PM
2

Ok whatever you say. I'm skeptical because you are showing needy behavior. Guys that fuck alot don't show this because they have multiple options and aren't putting all their investment on one prospect. You can message her sure, but prepare for the worst
/r/seduction10/02/22 09:16 PM
2

HAHA Bro if you are calling her your wife, you got some serious self reflections you gotta do. Also, no, a follow back is not code for "I liked you before" a follow back means I know you/you are familiar. Also, if you were a true 8 like you claim. You wouldnt be having issues on what you need to do next. You also did not respond to my question of is your profile displaying value, or if she liked your pics/respond to your stories.
/r/seduction10/02/22 09:10 PM
3

Jeez, bro you need to chill. You can try. But how is your profile? Are you displaying high value? How was the convo you had with her? Was there flirting? You said there was awkward convos, does that mean you were carrying the convo and she was vaguely replying? No I wouldnt message her right away. There are cues if someone is interested on social media. Like replying to your stories, liking your pics, etc. If you do not show value on social media it will be hard to get her espeicially with your …
/r/seduction10/02/22 08:53 PM
3

Eh, I highly doubt no women from where you are from only want serious relationships, especially at your age
/r/seduction10/02/22 08:47 PM
1

thats cool. Still won't know her interest until you ask to her hang.
/r/seduction10/02/22 08:22 PM
1

Alot of dudes overestimate how much a girl is actually making eye contact to express interest. It seems like you were constantly looking at her and she got freaked and looked to see if you were looking (which you were) and got annoyed. But I could be wrong, only way to find out is asking her to hang out. Good luck
/r/seduction10/02/22 08:18 PM
7

She's inviting her gay friend and you to the gym? No. This is not flirting. She sees you as a friend. If you want to know if she's interested, ask her to watch a movie and chill. If she's flaky or not enthusiastic then you in the friendzone. However, in my opinion I think you are already in the friendzone by the way she is treating you. Because you guys have already hung out multiple times and there hasnt been any escalation (kissing, holding hands, etc)
/r/seduction10/02/22 07:44 PM
2

dating apps for sure. Cold approaching is hit and miss. I think meeting girls through friends of friends that you arent that close with is the best way.
/r/seduction10/02/22 07:40 PM
8

Nah. Stop the cold approaching. You not getting results from online dating (no matches) and you not getting results from cold approaching. I think you need to make serious changes to your look. Having no matches usually means your looks are not up to par. So I would start to address that, like working out, better skin, hair, etc. How is your height? You sound like you have good social skills, but it's definitely the looks. Hygenic is also not rly anything special because many people are. You nee…
/r/seduction10/02/22 07:24 PM
4

Move on
/r/seduction10/02/22 07:17 PM
1

1
/r/seduction10/02/22 07:03 PM
3

All good if you have good pics and look good
/r/seduction10/02/22 07:02 PM
3

um so are you hooking up with them? I agree money isnt necessary. But why would they pick you if you in the basement. When they can pick your equivalent that's in a nice house with their own shit? you're just playing at a disadvantage
/r/seduction10/02/22 06:55 PM
1

Bro.... Just because she came into the room laughing and talking does not mean she was interested. Also she is cold on text. That usually means lack of interest. Girls who are interested don't send stale text messages or seem not interested. Girls that are interested show interest in all levels (text, in person, social media, etc) I dont think she hates but I dont think she is interested. The evidence is there.
/r/seduction10/02/22 09:59 AM
1

Have you tried online dating? Also everything i read kind of makes you seem average. You still in college at 23? Thats not bad, but not great. And you also said you have "decent" IG pics. How hard are you hitting the gym?
/r/seduction10/02/22 09:25 AM
2

I'd distance myself from this. Seems like drama waiting to happen
/r/seduction10/02/22 06:25 AM
2

You probably dont look the part. Are you nerdy? Skinny?
/r/seduction10/02/22 06:24 AM
1

How are you doing on Online Dating? Lots of matches? It's a good way to gauge your attractiveness
/r/seduction10/02/22 06:23 AM
1

Not a mind game. I think she's into but just not THAT into you. She is probably talking to other dudes and you good enough to reply to but not have her full attention
/r/seduction10/02/22 06:21 AM
4

Bro look at her actions. She's not into you anymore. Move onto to someone else that will be down for you. This is just a big waste of time. Evidence is there she doesnt text you, talk to you outside of school, or have long convos with you. She's moved on so should you.
/r/seduction09/02/22 08:26 PM
1

Unfortunately, being out of shape and not looking affects your in person results as well not just online. Id work on that first before anything else.
/r/seduction09/02/22 08:24 PM
1

If you are not getting any luck on Online dating or social circle then I would figure out why. What are you lacking that you are not getting success from these areas?
/r/seduction09/02/22 07:47 PM
15

standards have sky rocketed due to insane amount of validation from social media
/r/seduction08/02/22 09:37 PM
2

ya why not
/r/seduction08/02/22 09:56 AM
1

yeah just do your own thing. And sorry but these girls switch up fast if they not feeling it or if something else comes along
/r/seduction08/02/22 09:48 AM
5

There are so many reasons. She is having problems in another area of her life and using you as distraction. Or she could genuinely like you as just a friend. We never know. But if I were I would have cut it off a long time ago....
/r/seduction08/02/22 09:45 AM
8

Listen to your gut. You feel friendzoned because you are. Why? Well the evidence is there. You guys hang but there is no sex? Thats what friends do. She displays ZERO signs of wanting to get physical that's just a huge indicator of friends only. She openly talks about other dudes in front of you. Thats another sign. You said you already initiated a few times but nothing happened. So at this point nothing will happen.
/r/seduction08/02/22 09:40 AM
1

she**
/r/seduction08/02/22 09:36 AM
1

Did you ask you to hang another day? No. When she replied today did you arrange any sort of hangout/talk session? If no then she probably found someone else. Do you know how many dudes are trynna get with her on these apps? Just objectively look at how she is treating you. She's not treating you like how people treat people they value
/r/seduction08/02/22 09:36 AM
1

Bruh you not "giving her another chance" lets be real here. I think you like her more than she likes you at this point. And no you dont ask her more. Just leave it alone and let her come to you and get busy
/r/seduction08/02/22 09:23 AM
-2

You dont "pass a shit test". Women that are into you dont make you do this bs. If she even tries this it means shes not that into or just playing you for validation and attention.
/r/seduction08/02/22 09:20 AM
35

They look at everything. Id say an attractive face is more important than body as long as you not fat or super skinny. But yes having a good body does boost you up a decent amount. Espeicially if you can fill out clothes nicely with good posture. They look at height, swag, just everything in 2022.
/r/seduction08/02/22 09:16 AM
8

You dont get around it. If shes down for you she will make everything smooth for you. If she's cold, unreceptive, etc. Then she dont want you.
/r/seduction08/02/22 08:42 AM
9

Ask to "chill" if she says yes then you good. If she says no or is flaky forget about it shes using you for attention or validation
/r/seduction08/02/22 08:40 AM
1

Bro it's been 3 months of no contact.... Get over it
/r/seduction08/02/22 08:40 AM
1

you literally answered your own questions
/r/seduction08/02/22 08:38 AM
0

Then you tell her you were busy.... But let's see if she will even text you lol
/r/seduction08/02/22 08:35 AM
2

If you were truly attractive it doenst rly matter what you say. Most communication is nonverbal. Just ask to hang in your and watch a movie. That's pretty much it.
/r/seduction08/02/22 06:36 AM
1

Nah. High value women want high value men. And being able to just connect isnt going to cut it. dont fool yourself.
/r/seduction08/02/22 06:33 AM
1

uh you could talk to her and make small talk and see how it is. However, you said you guys spoke before correct? If that is so then why havnt you guys spoken or caught up? If a girl was into you I'm pretty sure she would ask how you been in passing. but the fact she didn't is not a good sign tbh.
/r/seduction08/02/22 12:57 AM
2

are you high value man? if yes then you wouldnt care at all, because you know truly that you are the shit and it's her loss. If no, then rejection would affect you more because you know that you are lacking in some way and you know deep down it's true.
/r/seduction08/02/22 12:55 AM
2

Confidence comes from positive feedback from others. Fake it till you make it doesnt work. If women are attracted to you. It doesnt really matter what you say. As long as you have basic social skills I wouldnt worry about it. High value men get the benefit of the doubt usually.
/r/seduction07/02/22 11:56 PM
5

fuck your channel
/r/seduction07/02/22 11:52 PM
9

Bro understand this: Women that are interested in you, do not play games with you, do not test you. You can text her again sure, but you will coming off needy and desperate. Let her come to you. If she doesnt then just move on.
/r/seduction07/02/22 11:50 PM
2

Just cause: she initiated with you and made out with. Does not mean she wants anything more. Making out and sex are different things. Sure you hit them up which was good, but nothing is happening. That means they dont want more. Simple as that.
/r/seduction07/02/22 11:48 PM
1

Exactly, if shes down to meet up, it would be easy and smooth. Not flaky and unsure. Focus on other shit
/r/seduction07/02/22 11:41 PM
2

you putting too much investment because you dont have other options. If you were in a sea of options, one girl leaving you wouldnt even phase you
/r/seduction07/02/22 11:40 PM
1

you acting attached for no reason. You guys had a fun night that's it, shes not looking into it that much and neither should you.
/r/seduction07/02/22 11:38 PM
1

Ok the problem solved
/r/seduction07/02/22 09:58 PM
2

First you need to change your social and money situations. Everything takes a lot of hard work, there is no easy fix for anything is life. Once you get the money and social life going start investing in your looks. Teeth, hair, skin, etc. And yes this will be expensive but it is worth it. And no escorts are not recommended
/r/seduction07/02/22 09:53 PM
2

Its not.
/r/seduction07/02/22 09:51 PM
2

How about you ask to hang first before investing a huge amount of time on a road trip?
/r/seduction07/02/22 09:51 PM
5

You dont. If she was down she would follow up with an alternative date. Also does she have meetings and shoots all day? If she was interested in meeting up she can make time. No one is that busy. The face she has yet to reply means its probably over. She might reply with something vague
/r/seduction07/02/22 09:50 PM
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"Next time" means not happening. That joke you made was an opportunity to show her interest but her response was a clear indication of no interest. I think she sees you as a friend. If she was interested in you she would ask to meet up after dinner
/r/seduction07/02/22 09:47 PM
3

This is just an ad for your youtube channel.
/r/seduction07/02/22 09:43 PM
1

Do you have friends that you go out with?
/r/seduction07/02/22 09:39 PM
1

Why focus on this one girl? When she comes text her then. You should be taking to multiple girls in the mean time....
/r/seduction07/02/22 09:37 PM
2

Bro if someone takes weeks to respond do you think they are interested? Would you take weeks to respond to someone you are attracted to?
/r/seduction07/02/22 09:36 PM
1

You in college. There are tons of parties and events to go to. Go out with some friends and take to girls in these settings. Stop with the cold approach day game bs
/r/seduction07/02/22 09:35 PM
2

Personality doesnt really matter as long as you are attractive and high value. Start focusing on that and just have basic social skills
/r/seduction07/02/22 09:33 PM
0

Just low interest levels.... This is why cold approaching is not very efficient. Try tinder and if you dont get results then you need to change something
/r/seduction07/02/22 09:31 PM
1

Dont overthink, ask to chill. If she's into you she will be receptive regardless of what you text (as long as it's not creepy). Don't waste time and be efficient
/r/seduction07/02/22 09:29 PM
1

Looks/status/money over skills. How is your look, vibe, social circle?
/r/seduction07/02/22 09:28 PM
0

Does she give you signals that she is interested? If she treats you like the other guys in the class then I dont think she's interested. Interested women will treat you differently like give you compliments, initiate small talk, etc.
/r/seduction07/02/22 09:23 PM
1

If you get rejected by every girl at the bar. I think you need to take hard look at yourself and improve first.
/r/seduction07/02/22 09:20 PM
7

Advice: work hard to become high value. No girl that's into will make you jump through hoops. Jealousy comes from inadequacy and insecurity
/r/seduction07/02/22 05:29 AM
1

Gotta beat out the competition bro. Life is a competition. Also girls are selective when they swipe. When you match you fall into her type category.
/r/seduction07/02/22 04:52 AM
1

Idk your situation just trying to give optimistic advice lol
/r/seduction07/02/22 04:47 AM
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They probably had low interest. Hop on tinder and you will have a better time. Because matches are interested.
/r/seduction07/02/22 04:47 AM
1

what? Bro sexual attraction doesnt happen through personality. Good looks and status is what will make you standout. Espeicially in todays age of dating
/r/seduction07/02/22 04:45 AM
1

ok then why not just straight up ask her out?
/r/seduction07/02/22 04:42 AM
1

Bad route to take bro. She will friendzone you. 100%.
/r/seduction07/02/22 04:35 AM
0

40 is not even that old lol. And becoming the best version of yourself is the point.
/r/seduction07/02/22 04:33 AM
2

Gotta level up hard bro. Forget dating for a bit.
/r/seduction07/02/22 04:30 AM
5

Stop wasting your time on this
/r/seduction07/02/22 04:29 AM
1

Is there any indication of attraction from her end?
/r/seduction07/02/22 04:28 AM
5

DId you cold approach? They probs gave you the number to end the interaction. If it's online apps girls have tons of options so you need to stand out. It all comes down to being high value or not. If you high value they will want to stay in contact with you and want you.
/r/seduction07/02/22 04:26 AM
2

Anyway is great if you high value bro. Location doesnt matter. It's just an excuse.
/r/seduction07/02/22 04:24 AM
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Dont cold approach. Level up your looks and status and hop on tinder. It's way more efficient.
/r/seduction07/02/22 04:22 AM
2

Lol alot of these arguments apply to cold approaching during the day. The cold truth is that I see a lot of " too much competition" in your arguments. Sorry but that competition doesnt go away when you cold approach
/r/seduction07/02/22 04:20 AM
2

She wasnt that into you from the jump. You didnt do anything wrong. Move onto to someone that is down for you. Simple.
/r/seduction07/02/22 02:53 AM
0

how is that limited? There are so many women in these settings
/r/seduction07/02/22 02:49 AM
1

If she doens't make the effort to even text you first. Shes not down/low interest
/r/seduction06/02/22 11:27 PM
1

You don't. There are so many other ways to meet women (clubs, online, parties, etc) Unless she makes it super obvious she's interested. Like asking you to study. Then don't do anything
/r/seduction06/02/22 11:25 PM
2

um you dont do anything. She's not interested. Evidence is there: no reply to coffee, no watching your stories. People watch the stories they are somewhat interested in
/r/seduction06/02/22 11:24 PM
1

you guys havnt done anything yet so no you are not out of the friend zone
/r/seduction06/02/22 11:22 PM
3

you do nothing. get some friends and go to parties
/r/seduction06/02/22 11:21 PM
2

when you were higher value you got better women. But now that you dropped off and got lower in value you started to get lower value women. Same thing I experienced few yrs ago. Gotta just not be lazy and be on grind mode
/r/seduction06/02/22 11:20 PM
1

wtf is abundance mindset, you either high value or you not simple. If you were bumping on social media with tons of followers this wouldnt be a problem she would be replying so quick with interest
/r/seduction06/02/22 11:18 PM
1

if you dont have options from where youre from. You wont suddenly become more valuable with tons of options from changing cities. so no I do not recommend. Level up first
/r/seduction06/02/22 11:16 PM
0

its over move on get options
/r/seduction06/02/22 11:15 PM
2

bruh i can guarantee majority are not babymommas
/r/seduction06/02/22 11:13 PM
16

if your social life is only the gym, you have bigger problems
/r/seduction06/02/22 11:12 PM
2

it's do you have good pics or not. if no then get good pics and if still no results then you out of luck
/r/seduction06/02/22 06:26 PM
0

if you attractive she will want more
/r/seduction06/02/22 06:18 PM
-2

only in bars or clubs or online dating dont be these pua guys that approach in random places
/r/seduction06/02/22 06:04 PM
4

why even think about this at the gym? go to the club or bar where it will be way more apparent or even online dating
/r/seduction06/02/22 06:02 PM
6

creepy af
/r/seduction06/02/22 06:01 PM
1

there is no indication of interest
/r/seduction06/02/22 08:42 AM
2

moving cities doesnt equal to you being more attractive or appealing to these girls. You will get more or less the same results if you move. You should just focus on maximizing yourself first
/r/seduction05/02/22 10:26 PM
1

you need to be attractive not sexy necessarily. attractive is good looks, style, personality. More looks tho
/r/seduction05/02/22 10:25 PM
3

talk to her and if shes receptive then ask to hang out. but you will know if shes interested from the first interaction. It will be obvious
/r/seduction05/02/22 10:22 PM
1

She has other options
/r/seduction05/02/22 10:15 PM
1

tinder
/r/seduction05/02/22 09:47 PM
3

no results from dating apps means either your pics suck or you just not attractive enough
/r/seduction05/02/22 09:44 PM
1

you sound jaded, why would girls be down to hang with you?
/r/seduction05/02/22 09:42 PM
1

ask yourself why would girls swipe right on you, they have too many options for mediocrity
/r/seduction05/02/22 09:37 PM
1

other better options
/r/seduction05/02/22 09:35 PM
1

yes i know the ego boost thing has always been a thing even back in 2017. But my question is, is the dating game just different now? I always got by with looks but it seems like it's not cutting it? Or maybe my looks have been phased out? lol
/r/seduction30/01/22 10:03 PM
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