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So erudite.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/23 05:56 AM
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You could have just spared us that deep thought.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/23 05:51 AM
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I think your getting fuzzy here. I analogized men who use women for sex to women that use men for relationships and said that the two are at least as evil, but one gets a pass. A lot of unhealthy women, so a lot of women, want some guy to be their emotional pacifier without providing anything in return. I'm not some incel that hasn't had relationships. There are healthy ones, and a LOT of unhealthy ones.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/23 05:46 AM
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"Another day another absolutely autismo take by a PPD man. " That's cute, cupcake. Women wind up with men they don't like every single day. I think its sweet that you're so naive though.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/23 05:36 AM
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Doesn't really sound like you disagree.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/23 05:33 AM
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And being used for sex lasts, statistically, for....7 minutes?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/23 05:32 AM
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Do you think men are tricked into relationships very often? I KNOW men are tricked into relationships ever day. I've been hit on by woman the moment their boyfriends got up to take a piss. One woman told me she had gotten married 5 days ago. That'll wreck you fantasies about the fairer sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/23 05:31 AM
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"Keep your legs closed and men won't use you, problem solved." I'd think a man that said that was a douche, yet here you are making the female version. Mazel Tov!
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/23 05:25 AM
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nah. Not your monkey.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/23 05:23 AM
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And emotional support. Always with the listening to the whining. So much whining.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/23 05:21 AM
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No. I'm talking about being her therapist, fluffing her self-esteem, listening to her bad day, putting together that goddamn Ikea desk (I'm looking at you Floofinhurgin!), but a man just being a place holder until something better comes along, or dropping you like a hot potato in your hour of need. Like the woman I was making out with at a bar that was taking breaks to text a guy she said she was "Tricking into proposing to me." Poor son of a bitch.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/23 05:20 AM
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Yeah. If a man ever says anything other than "Sex and then we'll see how things go." He's lying to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/23 05:12 AM
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People don't get into relationships to bitch and moan tho You sure about that?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/23 05:06 AM
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The men here are struggling because they're such pussies they can't even get used in a dysfunctional relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/23 12:32 AM
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A lot of women want an emotional support animal who can take out the trash and not an actual human being. That's why it's analogous to men who just use women for sex. There are a depressing number of women who have married men they don't respect and don't love simply because he was the best thing on offer. That's a fucked-up thing to do to another human being.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/23 12:23 AM
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Girls don’t get much out of sex uh, I've never orgasmed so hard I cried.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/23 12:16 AM
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Is that really all YOU think a relationship is?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/23 06:09 PM
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You've never been in a relationship, male or female, platonic or romantic, where you felt the other person was extracting value without returning the same? ie. that girlfriend your always there for when her relationship goes bad, but who ghosted when you were in a tough spot? You were being used for a relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/23 06:00 PM
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Not anymore malicious than only wanting sex. A person, probably most, can enjoy love, time, attention, and resources without actually giving those same in return. Like, for example, wanting a man to listen to how your day went and be there for you in moments of emotional vulnerability but then become irritated when he wants the same from you. A woman would be using a man in that situation like a man used a woman for sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/23 05:52 PM
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I don't think "friendship and companionship" is the definition of a relationship to most people. You can get that from a dog.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/23 05:46 PM
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Waiting for permission to approach is submissive. No woman finds that hot.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/23 05:51 PM
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Yeah. Women that lose attraction to a man crying at appropriate moments are in love with an abstract idea that doesn't exist, but end up with psychopaths who very much exist.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/23 05:35 PM
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You've approached "hundreds of girls" and you can't find one worth fighting and dying to protect? I think you might be the problem here. I can name half a dozen I'd fuck shit up for.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/23 04:30 AM
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THE human experience though. Not A human experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/23 04:12 AM
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If I hear "A study" one more time I'm going to lose it. One study doesn't mean crap people.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/23 04:09 AM
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Haven't the majority of published psychology studies been shown to not be reproducible?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/23 04:08 AM
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or examining the human experience They’re not fine or accurate for making generalizations And the human experience is NOT a generaliztion?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/23 04:03 AM
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One man's princess is another man's bitch.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/23 03:59 AM
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The source is every attractive guy that ever wore a wedding ring. It's not a secret. I even had a female friend tell me how attractice my ring looked...she was also married.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/23 03:58 AM
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Go kill the enemy for hearth and home and I'm sure the lady's will be more than happy to reward you. Until then you're just another loser who's too chicken to talk to a girl.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/23 03:53 AM
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lol. Sure dude.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/23 03:42 AM
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I'm a man and I've slept with some very dirty girls. Wasn't the best sex I've ever had. Not even close.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/23 01:53 AM
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A bunch of indolent young men are gonna take their ball and go home? The world won't miss a beat.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/23 08:04 PM
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Every woman I've been with had a particular way she like her clit stimulated. It's always so specific. It's like something they developed when they started masturbating and it's how their brain got wired.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/23 03:26 PM
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A guy thinking porn stars are good at sex is a sure sign that that guy doesn't know what good sex is, but practice tends to make one better at all things and sex is not an exception.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/23 03:15 PM
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And who's gonna burn it? A bunch of men who are too scared to talk to a women 5" shorter and 50 pounds lighter? They'll just stay at home and gripe online about single moms.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/23 03:06 PM
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So? There's always been winners and losers. Rising above average isn't hard and if the other chumps can't manage it well, it sucks to be them.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/23 10:12 PM
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THEN DON'T BE AVERAGE! Dude. You sound like such a crybaby. I can't blame women for not wanting to screw guys like you.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/23 05:45 PM
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Not wanting children is often a failure of imagination. Plenty of women in their early twenties set themselves on a course they later come to regret. When you see hold your nieces and nephews and being Senior VP of Whatever White Collar Job is no longer fulfilling it can set a dull aching sadness throbbing in your heart. I say that not to say women should take pity on pathetic men, but out of genuine concern from some of the women I know in their late 30s who seem sad about the choices they made…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/23 04:32 PM
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They have a choice. They can choose to be someone worth being around, someone who puts themself out there.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/23 04:26 PM
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Why do you take every complaint women make seriously? They like to whine about men. Always have, and always will. Basic concept. Judge women by their actions, not their words.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/23 03:15 PM
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Real talk. If you're not just trolling you should probably do some soul searching, preferably with a therapist. This level of anger and lack of empathy is going to hurt you more at the end of the day than the people men you're angry at.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/23 03:05 PM
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I absolutely lack emotional capacity for empathy and I am not sorry. Yeah. We can tell.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/23 01:39 AM
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Women are kinder, more emotionally intelligent, A lot of women are capable of shocking cruelty. They do hide it well though.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 06:47 PM
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Crucial misunderstanding. Men can't make women happy. It's the cruel side of hypergamy. There is no man that's good enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/23 07:16 PM
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hmm. hella lesbians aren't all that lesbian. They take a trip to the other side now and again.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/23 06:47 PM
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They certainly act like they don't know.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/23 06:45 PM
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I'd say that the women were more likely to have sex with them because gay men know how to let sex just be sex and they aren't gonna slut shame for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/23 06:42 PM
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The ones I knew did. They genuinely preferred men though. It was more like, "Hey, a party is a party!" Also, I know quite a few gay men who've never even seen a vagina in real life and have no interest in doing so. So who knows?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/23 06:41 PM
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Conservative sexual values are, ultimately driven by fear of unwanted pregnancy. Where abortion is legal and contraceptives are available women will have sex with men bold enough to ask.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/23 02:37 PM
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Yeah. Lived in SF for years. The number of women who think their gay friend won't bang 'em is funny. And the gay guy's work that angle.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/23 02:35 PM
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Cause it takes the negativity out of approaching for you. Also, like I said, I like making women feel good in lots of ways. I like watching them feel pleasure.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/23 02:29 PM
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I've had women just sit there like you're saying. In fact most of the time. Even when I know for a fact they're interested. I've concluded that most of them are just dull. As they say, women got no game. Weird thing is the charming ones are dangerous af. Cute, smiles and giggles at you with those big eyes? She's gonna grind your heart into a pulp...may be worth it though.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/23 02:19 PM
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Well average women are having sex and Chad is banging the average chick, so looks like you're in luck.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/23 02:14 PM
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Or random and inconsistent attention. Intermittent rewards are addictive to both genders. Hell, it's what keeps Vegas humming.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/23 02:11 PM
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Yeah, and you want a super model. What's your point?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/23 08:47 PM
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Unfortunately, this doesn't work. Women give notoriously bad advice on how to woo women.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/23 08:44 PM
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Matches my experience. Bonus points if you handle the rejection like a champ. "I have a boyfriend." "Ah. Well, he's a very lucky fellow. You have a wonderful day." The smile this often generates turns the whole interaction into pure magic, cause watching women feel good is awesome.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/23 08:43 PM
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meh. Just ask questions. Everyone likes to talk about themselves....for hours.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/23 08:39 PM
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Women say a lot of things. What they do is something else altogether.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/23 08:38 PM
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It gets easier. Like most things.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/23 08:29 PM
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Two problems here. Men who are incels are passive little twits who'd rather whinge online than, gasp, talk to a girl in person. If you don't want to screw the fat girl you work with at Subway you're also being voluntarily single.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/23 04:07 PM
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Yes. Men would cheat like crazy if they had hot women approaching them all day, every day. All those vows wouldn't count for anything. The people who say they wouldn't aren't getting offered sex on a regular basis, so it's all notional for them.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/23 03:49 PM
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Sorry that happened. It's one thing to have your gf cheat on you when you're 18, but grown with a kid? ouch. I think it is common practice in the monkey branching phase. It's simple logic that since no man worth having is going to commit before sex (unless he is religious) a woman has to cheat before severing her current relationship. I suspect that she doesn't think of this as betrayal, more like a formality since she was done with the guy anyway. I think the important part for men to understan…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 02:50 PM
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A study that asks, "Tell me the truth. Have you ever done this thing that would break someone's heart and that society finds reprehensible?" Is more reliable? I don't think so. Self report studies are bad enough when it comes to something like sun exposure and skin cancer, but at least in that case no one is gonna think you're a shitty person. Disregarding personal experience just reeks of scientism.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 09:29 PM
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This is true. However, "better" means different things to different women. And imprinting is real. I'm sure you're familiar with the concept of the alpha widow.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 02:45 PM
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I would think that's obvious. I'd also think that the cute guy at the office who clearly likes her, and she has chemistry with is an option.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 02:38 PM
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The title did say that, but in the post, I give more detail to the question. You make a good point about youth and infidelity, however my question referenced attractive women and I realize it might be controversial, but most attractive women are young. Good point about paternity tests. Though that is in the age of contraception and abortion.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 02:36 PM
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But the kind of man an attractive woman wants, and can get, isn't going to wait for sex until she breaks up with another guy. Most men want sex first, and then a relationship is on the table. No? In my experience an attractive woman always has options. There's always someone who might get called up from the minors.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 02:00 PM
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No. It's my body.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 12:40 AM
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I'm sorry that happened. You didn't deserve that. My premise is that attractive women have all the choice they want, and since they don't have to be alone, they aren't. That means if you meet an attractive woman and she's interested, unless your timing is very lucky, she's going to be cheating on someone. Maybe not in her mind, but probably in his.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 12:33 AM
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Why are divorce proceedings a better indicator than self-reporting? Is that accusations of adultery, or as a proven fact? And even then, infidelity in a marriage surely has a different correspondence than someone cheating on their boyfriend or girlfriend of 6 months, no? Given the stigma attached I'm not sure how one could design an accurate study and then to replicate it? Not gonna happen.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/23 09:57 PM
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" I think there was actually a study that unattractive women are more likely to cheat that more attractive women " That's fascinating. Maybe an attractive woman isn't worried about being left alone? hmmm. Or maybe something else like self-esteem? Very intersting. That's great that that works for you. Not sure I could do it. It's a shame, because infidelity is so common and so understandable. Being able to let it go would be great.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/23 09:48 PM
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Men are certainly worse at lying.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/23 09:36 PM
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Why would be people possibly be less than truthful?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/23 09:34 PM
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The studies are dubious science. It's self-reporting.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/23 09:32 PM
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And sleeping with an escort is illegal, dangerous, and compounds the social cost of infidelity.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/23 07:48 PM
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Yeah. Take responsibility, lead the interaction, and let it "Just happen". Then she says, " I can't believe he did that to me. What a horrible person. I better just keep this to myself."
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/23 07:30 PM
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Cheating is never as easy for a man as it is for a woman. Even if you are an attractive man you still need to make an effort. And sleeping with an escort is illegal, dangerous, and compounds the social cost of infidelity. I think this is important because it keeps people from judging women. Men aren't morally superior, they just don't have relatively easy access.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/23 06:03 PM
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Maybe you're looking for something from women they can't provide? I mean this in a deeper psychological and emotional sense of value and self-worth.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/23 05:45 PM
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There is not observable difference between the cheaters I've known of, and the general population.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/23 05:27 PM
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" Statistically most people don't cheat. " The studies look to be self-reports, and, especially for women, I think we can see why that might be a problem. Even asking this question has generated a pretty angry response.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/23 05:25 PM
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Why is it dumb?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/23 05:13 PM
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But since most men won't get into a committed relationship before sex, I suspect that most women that are monkey branching have a period of infidelity and that they don't think of this as cheating, though I imagine the man wouldn't think that. Am I wrong on that?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/23 05:12 PM
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Whether all men cheat is not the question, but the answer is that they would if they could. But for men cheating involves effort.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/23 05:01 PM
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lol If I approach a woman I am most definitely not begging. My social circle doesn't have women with long black wavy hair. I like long black wavy hair.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/23 04:53 PM
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Loners with no social sphere are too cowardly to approach a woman in a confident and relaxed manner.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/23 04:48 PM
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Be a man, get women. Be a boy, don't get women.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/23 04:29 PM
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This doesn't map with reality. Approaching a woman in a charming and confident manner gets results. I think most woman want to believe that some great, handsome guy, will see them, recognize how superlative they are vis a vis the other ladies, and be compelled to approach her. "I MUST have this rare gem!!!" Just don't get butt hurt if you get rejected.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/23 04:08 PM
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Has a man ever approached you in a way that didn't make you feel like a piece of meat, or unsafe?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/23 03:57 PM
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