Important_Mud_9909 Archive

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5	Plate management She don't want you to see her as an easy fuck, so she regrets being "all about it" at first in fear it made you see her like a slut. A lot of them do that, let themselves go in the moment, show their interest and are straight up about wanting to fuck you; then pull back afraid you'll just pump and dump. To see if you have feelings for her, she's behaving weird/mad to see if you open up emotionally to her, so she's more comfortable. The block is sort of the "last resort" method : She wants you to…	/r/askTRP	24/12/20 10:41 PM
1	Absolutely no social life or friends but it has to be this way? You're extra busy, so is hard to enter new social circles other than the ones available for you in the areas you spend most of your time in. You can try to make the most out of them or create new circles, but you'll need to reserve time to socialize and not be shy about it ofc.	/r/askTRP	24/12/20 10:29 PM
3	How do I deal with emotionally chaotic women and what are some red flags to look out for? Yes. Write down what you're conflicted about in your life. Try to rationalize it and come up with the best plans to solve it. Analyze things deeply and choose when and how to tackle situations. Write down what triggers your emotional side, what takes you out of your masculine frame and energy. Stop reacting to everything and think before you speak and act. Just make a memo of your emotional side and how it might be possibly affecting your life negatively. It's impossible to be emotionless, but y…	/r/askTRP	24/12/20 02:20 AM
2	Alright I've been lurking long enough and need advice There isn't a need for revenge. There is a need to look within yourself to find out why you FEEL that need. Recognize that FEELING. Rationalize it. Get to the root of the situation. And once you do that, ask yourself : Why i want to do this ? What did i do wrong ? what decision i made then that wasn't the best for myself ? Was there ANYTHING i could have done to avoid that from happening ? Is there anything i can do to stop it from happening ever again ? Realize what about the situation you were…	/r/askTRP	24/12/20 01:57 AM
1	Replate failure Yeah don't give her any sort of attention that she can twist into some form of validation. She might be sneakily testing you.	/r/askTRP	24/12/20 01:41 AM
20	Is it normal for women to look 10x better on social media nowadays? Yes. Add to it the infinite number of blue pill cucks simping all day online and there you go : egomaniac women with delusions of grandeur because their pic has more than a 100 likes.	/r/askTRP	24/12/20 01:39 AM
1	Replate failure That's some bs. Pretending she recognized her fucked up attitude to make you feel like you're right about, but at the same time not assuming the blame. She deflecting her behavior by making light of the situation and also trying to evoke emotional reactions from you. She also wants you to react like "oh no, she's mad, i should calm her down". Testing you. They do it all the time. Sneakily. EVERYTHING to get an upper hand on you emotionally, and slowly make you submissive by noticing what trigger…	/r/askTRP	24/12/20 01:33 AM
3	How do I deal with emotionally chaotic women and what are some red flags to look out for? Take a step back before any choice in your life. Always EVALUATE, benefits, pros and cons. Always ask yourself if this is better for you, or how things are making your life better in any shape or form. Start filtering the world around you, care about what matters, only desire to control what you CAN control and ONLY what benefits you, give up controlling things that you MAY be able to control, but only harm you. You want to live an exciting, fulfilling life and being an emotional person, you'll …	/r/askTRP	24/12/20 01:26 AM
1	Replate failure She kinda trying to force you into accepting a "orbiter" spot in her life. low. like "be around until i make up my mind about giving you some or not" while fucking guys she wants to. HELL NAW BITCH.	/r/askTRP	24/12/20 01:18 AM
3	EX LTR reached out after a few months of no contact after breakup to tell me shes sorry but also tells me she's seeing someone else. Why is she reaching out? All women manipulate. Some with evil intent, some without, but all do, by nature. Is up to US to not allow ourselves to be played. And turn the game to our favor. NO other way around it.	/r/askTRP	24/12/20 01:15 AM
2	How Do I Up My Social Media Game? Social Media for dating is just bait for modern shallow women anyway. Is never meant to be a big deal. It should always lead to you meeting new women IN PERSON. It should be like a superficial "first impression" of yourself that suggests you're living your best life out there and you got your shit together and that your SMV is high. Even if you're showing there a "version" of yourself that's a lot better than the reality. You CAN'T and WON'T attract them by your social media profile alone. Like,…	/r/askTRP	24/12/20 12:03 AM
2	How difficult does it become for a girl to leave a guy once she’s become close to his family & friends? Oh yeah they leave it anything behind. They leave their own family for a high Smv guy if they need to. IF hypergamy dictates their choice, nothing stands in their way. Which is why many are so frustrated : Took big risks thinking they would keep a chad, got pump and dumped, then realized they lost a lot that beta orbiters provided to them.	/r/askTRP	23/12/20 11:41 PM
5	Ex-girlfriend cheated on my last year.. I am struggling to adopt an "abundance" mentality .. How can I improve? It's ok, you'll get other 7/10's eventually. There's other 7/10 pussy out there waiting you to lay the smackdown on them. Hell, you'll get higher than that too. Also the abundance mentality is more about never allowing yourself to feel the need to lose frame to keep a female, because you're ok with losing them : You're not going to be alone and you know it. Regardless of losing the best dime you ever had for lower one. I might breakup with a dime and bounce back by fucking the shit out of a 5 or…	/r/askTRP	23/12/20 11:37 PM
3	How difficult does it become for a girl to leave a guy once she’s become close to his family & friends? If she notices her SMV is enough to chase something better, she will. All of them do that. Regardless of what they're leaving behind. ALL OF THEM, ok ? As we speak this IS happening to some betas around the globe, bitch is breaking up with the loving blue pill beta provider in search of chad thundercock, KNOWING there's a 99.9% chance he will pump and dump her. And loving every second of it. She probably gets off on the thought of hurting the poor beta, just to sip cum from chad. So don't even t…	/r/askTRP	23/12/20 11:00 PM
14	Can a 22 years old virgin become player? Yes. You can. And you're probably going to be a damn good playa too because of how long you had proof of female nature, if you're a virgin at 22 then you MUST be the sensitive, beta type that gets rejected a lot. right ? Then you're experienced as fuck in being rejected. You know how it feels, how to deal with it better than most. USE IT TO YOUR ADVANTAGE. The hardest part from going from beta to alpha is that, realizing you need change, because it hurts at first to turn into a version of yourse…	/r/askTRP	23/12/20 07:43 PM
1	Correct reactions to female apologies You're doing it right. Keep frame and act like it's not bothering you one bit. What they want is to see if there's any kind of emotional attachment from you that makes you expect apologies when they fuck up. They don't care about WHAT happened, just about how YOU react to it, if it benefits them or not, if they gain any kind of emotional control over you with it or not. Women are sneaky and try to open you up emotionally in the most sneaky ways any chance they get.	/r/askTRP	23/12/20 07:29 PM
8	EX LTR reached out after a few months of no contact after breakup to tell me shes sorry but also tells me she's seeing someone else. Why is she reaching out? Exactly. She wants to leave the relationship with the "emotional advantage". As if she's "winning" by having a new dude and you're alone. She wants to hurt you one final time, because then she can return in the future and "make things right" by healing you from the pain she caused when she left. That's why NO REACTION is the best of all. Not even a like. Leaving on read is the best shit cause it doesn't give them any emotional feedback from you at all. Women NEVER truly want to move on, they wan…	/r/askTRP	23/12/20 06:51 PM
6	EX LTR reached out after a few months of no contact after breakup to tell me shes sorry but also tells me she's seeing someone else. Why is she reaching out? Don't break frame and don't give her any answer that would have her believe you're emotional about it. Not even a lil bit. best way would be leaving her on read and ignoring straight up. Blocking gives some of them the idea you care, and you're blocking to avoid. Indifference is the only right answer.	/r/askTRP	23/12/20 06:32 PM
1	Girl threw up on my dick Oh so she like playing nasty huh	/r/askTRP	23/12/20 06:26 PM
14	How quickly do you assume she’s not interested? Both situations is Regret. Women live on the moment. They do shit out of the thin wind, and are used to not assume any responsibility for it, pretend it never happened, and that the other part involved with "get the message" without them needing to say anything. The reason WHY they regret is hard to tell, could be boyfriend, she was drunk, she was lonely, she was horny, she was sad etc. etc. anything that has her believing she made a mistake, or lowered her criteria to allow that to happen, or d…	/r/askTRP	22/12/20 10:31 PM
3	How do I deal with emotionally chaotic women and what are some red flags to look out for? You're welcome man. This is going to be hard for you, is a change of nature. But you need that. It's a necessary change for us. These women WON'T change for you. They'll change ONLY when is extremely necessary and they're about to hit the wall alone. They'll KEEP that attitude as long as it benefits them. Don't ever, EVER try to "save" narcissistic women. Oh yea forgot to tell you, their constant need for a new "thrill" and supply for their ego tripping emotional torture, keeps them ACTIVELY SEA…	/r/askTRP	22/12/20 10:22 PM
4	How do I deal with emotionally chaotic women and what are some red flags to look out for? Yes, Logical at all times. Before each and every single choice you make regarding them. Mind you, you DON'T Need to deal with narcissistic women. The majority of them out there are like that to a CERTAIN DEGREE, and the real problematic ones are the extremely deranged and already far too narcissistic for a healthy relationship to be formed. Shut them down on sight if they show up in your life. They're usually plates that break because they can't accept not controlling their relationships, so onc…	/r/askTRP	22/12/20 10:05 PM
1	Is past history with one of your old friends a dealbreaker? It depends on how close of a friendship it is for me. and if she isn't doing that just to piss off the dude.	/r/askTRP	22/12/20 02:52 PM
2	I don't want marriage and kids. But my parents wants... They're living vicariously through you, they're sucking up your youth to feel young again themselves, and make the exact same choices so they experience the exact same feelings again, because some of them were unique and they never felt again. They cover that desire in tradition/values/morals that they wanted installed in your life as their way of raising you. THEY DON'T KNOW ANY OF THAT. You do. Understand their reactions to all of that. Understand how they'll perceive you if you cut them from …	/r/askTRP	22/12/20 02:43 PM
1	Help me out here, how likely am I to find a traditional woman these days? Most are taken. The available ones are super busy, and require a LOT of effort to get and keep. And from my experience, THEIR SMV CRITERIA IS HIGH AF even if theirs isn't. Average dudes begone. They're also high maintenance. You're not likely to run into them because these days, women gain a lot more from being the slutty hoe type. Less effort into themselves needed. a "traditional" woman puts a lot of effort into their own lives and they're careful to not let some playa come in and ruin things.…	/r/askTRP	22/12/20 02:27 PM
1	Gf talks to her male friend everyday He's her emotional pillow. The beta orbiter she keeps around for attention and support, and what other things she thinks you don't provide to her ( assuming here you're red pilled and you're not losing frame with this female ). Every woman does that to a certain degree. This IS natural, but MIND YOU it can go bad. One situation where she'll be too sensitive, you don't cater to her emotional needs while he does, and suddenly her criteria for a good guy shifts from the usual high SMV alpha to the …	/r/askTRP	22/12/20 02:18 PM
7	help!!! First nut homie busted already a dad. Damn. He don't miss.	/r/askTRP	22/12/20 02:09 PM
10	How do I deal with emotionally chaotic women and what are some red flags to look out for? You're clearly an empath. And you attract narcissistic women BECAUSE THEY LOOK FOR MEN LIKE YOU. You're seen as potential emotional/financial/social supply (Beta). Stoic men push away narcissistic women and naturally look more attractive to women with a higher level of submissiveness. Either you change or learn to work with it. You CAN be KIND, but NEVER naive. It seems there's no difference between the two because you get invested in them, meaning you realize their nature yet you choose to stil…	/r/askTRP	22/12/20 02:06 PM
3	Girls says that my overall appeareance and attitude makes me look too kind/nice and i think that hurts my SMV. How to change it? You look "harmless". Your look needs to pack boldness, confidence, danger. Long hair is hard to pull off. Nerdy/Geeky is perceived as childish by them. They like a crude, dumb but confident, masculine looking dude a lot more than they like the geek nerdy guy. AMP UP the masculinity, any way you can. Lift so your muscles show. Grow a beard if you can, rock a hairstyle that fits your face shape. Ditch nerdy type of clothes.	/r/askTRP	22/12/20 01:54 PM
2	Have you ever acted like a woman before discovering TRP? Yes. Sadly, yes. I was raised by 4 females. Upside : I was always able to perceive manipulation tactics from females, even the smartest, covert manipulative bitches i could still read them. My whole life. That DIDN'T stop me from being a blue pilled beta cuck, because i would assume their behavior was my fault. (another feminine reaction btw, women always feel like they did something and project that on men. Yet never admit responsibilities for their actions ).	/r/askTRP	22/12/20 01:43 PM
4	Is it even possible to get oneitis for girls you don’t even know? Yes, when you're lonely, you're emotionally fragile and you're going to easily fall for the platonic love trap. Is that your case ? If it is then that's normal. if you're having abundance mentality and that happens is MOSTLY lust. And you're letting that desire for the female become a platonic love. This is common, mind you. Blue pilled betas are constantly on that mode. You might also have idealizations of the "perfect" type of girl or might be subconsciously looking for certain physical traits…	/r/askTRP	22/12/20 01:37 PM
3	Ex asking for a refund for headphones she gave as a gift That's some brpke ass bitch type shit	/r/askTRP	01/11/20 09:04 PM
1	Very attached in girl in LDR If you are in LDR you're really into your own feelings. You need to seek within yourself what bothers you the most when you think about leaving her behind Then you need to dissect those feelings and find the root of em. Might be hard but you know yourself better than anybody. After that you need to feel ok with those feelings. Like, YES buddy she will get dicked down by some dudes, sucked their tips off, give em footjobs, let them like that ass and shit. Start realizing those things are OUT of y…	/r/askTRP	01/11/20 03:20 PM
1	How to not get jealous of gf twerking on tik Tok? watch and imagine all other tik tok bitches twerking on your dick or straight up tell her to stop cause you don't like that, and then deal with the consequences later, cause there will be some. You're mad cause in your heart, that is YOUR woman, no other man can have or see that. That mentality causes pain. Because you're trying to dominate and keep that female as your priority while she doesn't care about saving her goods for you. The answer to how you deal with that is : having the exact same …	/r/askTRP	01/11/20 02:50 PM
6	[Follow up] Got ghosted after a first date, now she's reaching out 3 weeks later The priority dick was at the party, she wanted it. Probably got it (Maybe even AT THE PARTY) and got ghosted herself after that, and then tried using you as the rebound dick after rejection. They do this shit all the time tho.	/r/askTRP	01/11/20 02:44 PM
3	Girl Losing Interest, Best Way To Move Forward? Approach more women. That's exactly how it goes. This one shit didn't go down...so onto the next one.	/r/askTRP	11/09/20 12:49 PM
2	"but men cheat too! but men do 'X' too!" What they're saying with is "but high SMV guys do it too" Females devalue themselves by not preserving themselves, high SMV guys gain from doing a lot of fucking. The whole Lock and Key analogy. But these dumbass women won't understand. They would be SO fucked if there were less beta dumbasses to treat the hoe that everyone fucked as the women of their lives.	/r/askTRP	11/09/20 12:43 PM
1	Date or go monk mode? Dude just date. You're put in this earth to do some fucking. that's natural too. Get off that monk shit. Wear a condom always tho.	/r/askTRP	11/09/20 12:38 PM
19	What kind of dance style should I learn to not be the clown in a party anymore. Learn twerking. U already behaving like a female with the wall of text anyway	/r/askTRP	11/09/20 12:35 PM
2	How do I deal with a toxic mum? Don't show emotion while trying to sever the ties. It is deeply rooted in our brains to keep a close relationship with out mothers, and depending on how you were raised, you might have been brought up to never ever even think about breaking that connection because your mother is too possessive. Only way (and it might hurt her a lot), is showing total emotional control while breaking free, like that you're ok with even struggling without her help instead of letting her command your life any furth…	/r/askTRP	11/09/20 12:22 PM
1	How do I change my values? Hahaha. Can't believe this. You're exactly like i was. Ask yourself : These values help you in any way ? For me they didn't. Trying to change hoes into housewives wasn't going to work. Fell in love with a slut once. Since 14 she was on every dick she would see. Heard the same "yOu wIlL fInD sOmeOne" until the redpill. Thing is : the person that agrees with our values and "ticks" our criteria-boxes don't exist. A female might try to manipulate you into thinking she is that. But NONE are. We expec…	/r/askTRP	11/09/20 01:58 AM
1	Did soft nexting or pulling back from a girl ever actually worked for you? Yes...but she's gotta be below your SMV. They chase dudes way out of their leagues. They don't chase you when you're below hers and trying to raise her interest. They deal with the pullback by pulling back as well.	/r/askTRP	11/09/20 01:45 AM
4	Girl keeps asking me if “I can handle her” Insecurity masked as overconfidence. Act like she's talking nonsense and ignore it.	/r/askTRP	11/09/20 01:42 AM
1	Do you think some ethnic groups have more messed up girls these days (White), or is that just a stereotype? Speaking of the West only. Western woman. as a whole. Nothing do to with race. They're all promiscuous and start being that really early in life, the only way woman are "ok"-ish for redpill standards, they're submissive to the man they choose and have set morals and values that they won't break for hypergamy. Now go find a bitch like that without a hijab on. I'll wait. cause in the west, there's none.	/r/askTRP	11/09/20 01:41 AM
2	Is this a beta move by me? You attract friends, you don't chase them. It can't be forced. Get on your purpose, get some confidence, put yourself out there, before you know, people will admire you and try to get to know you. Is similar to raising your SMV to get girls. In this case is your SOCIAL market value. That gets you friends, guaranteed. Loyal friends tho ? That shit comes once in a lifetime and they're a few so don't go around looking for that.	/r/askTRP	08/09/20 11:23 PM
155	The girlfriend-getting-fat dilemma. Is there a solution? Lmao is funny how they relax 100% after finding a guy huh...they just let themselves go Only way is you gotta keep improving your life and SMV when that happens bro. Like, even if you're not getting fat. Try and do SOMETHING to improve your SMV even after getting a relationship. Make her feel like the relationship is like a race and not a cruise, like at any moment you might leaver her ass behind. Is a good test btw. As she gets fat, her SMV lowers, as you improve, yours grow. A smart girl notic…	/r/askTRP	08/09/20 11:16 PM
1	Are all modern women basically sluts Modern, past, future...forget wifey material. They don't even try that before hoeing around.	/r/askTRP	08/09/20 12:45 PM
1	Can marriage and kids be red pilled? My uncle pulled it off. But after his 30's, fucked a looooooooot of hoes, and married a girl waaaaaaaaay younger than him BEFORE her slut phase. That seems to be the only way, she's submissive af.	/r/askTRP	08/09/20 12:28 PM
1	Did anyone else HAVE had a father but one who wasn't a man? Not any traumatizing experience with my dad other than one time he beat me up real bad for supposedly stealing his phone charger when it was actually stolen by one of his employees. He is a good guy with a great ex-alchoholic life story. But i can't say he was my manhood inspiration. WHen he and my mom broke up he went to rehab. Right when i was starting puberty and hanging out with people. Dad was nowhere around, and i hanged out with the older dudes from my hood and they were my "role models" …	/r/askTRP	08/09/20 12:25 PM
1	new plate friends with ex It don't matter. As long as you're hitting dat just keep doing it. She keeping that dumbass around after her hoe phase is over so he can be the emotional pillow she'll need.	/r/askTRP	08/09/20 12:04 PM
10	Girl cries after orgasms Congrats you own the bitch now	/r/askTRP	08/09/20 12:01 PM
4	How to avoid a scarcity mindset? (Advice/rant) Bro, she's a slut too and she's looking for some more dick to suck the next few months. You're not the guy she's going to settle down with, and you're letting the image you created of her in your head force you to make silly choices. Guess what, she didn't answer for a reason. She did that before to guys. She wants you to chase. She wants her ego rubbed so she doesn't feel like she was fucked by a playa. Don't give woman that feeling. Like ever. Act like YOU don't give a fuck and pussy isn't run…	/r/askTRP	08/09/20 11:57 AM