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| 1 | Need help with texting gameI don’t see why you are trolling him here. His principles are correct if you read between the lines a bit. | /r/seduction | 28/02/25 07:58 PM |
| 8 | People who had bad approach anxiety, How did you get over it ?Baby steps. You don’t need to go up to the 10 on day one. Start talking to everyone, cashiers, waitresses, bartenders. Give quick compliments to strangers and move on. You need to make it a daily habit. | /r/seduction | 23/02/25 04:41 PM |
| 6 | How did you guys learn to dress better?Here is 90% of what you need to know about men’s fashion: Good fitting shirts. Slim fit or go down a size. Same with pants - slim fit looks good. Figure out what colors you look good in. Experiment. I’d suggest black as the best color for many folks. You can’t go wrong with dark jeans, black shirt, and black shoes. You can do this variation with dress shirts or t-shirts. If you want to get more exotic start going to places like buckle, express, guess, and looking at interesting button up shirts.… | /r/seduction | 20/02/25 04:19 AM |
| 2 | Improving my make out gameFrankly he might be attracted to your shy and reserved nature. Don’t feel like you need to do too much. Men like being touched almost anywhere… but me in particular, I enjoy a light touch on my thigh or abs that gradually works its way toward the groin region over a few minutes. The most important thing about touch is to be in the moment and feel the other persons reaction, experiencing the same emotions as them. Usually less is more… meaning touch lightly so that it is very sensual… almost tick… | /r/seduction | 20/02/25 04:06 AM |
| 1 | Should I keep seeing her or should I move on?Yes definitely. She’s spending time with you and wants to see you more. | /r/seduction | 16/02/25 09:09 PM |
| 1 | Should I keep seeing her or should I move on?She wants you to be a man and bang her. | /r/seduction | 16/02/25 08:53 PM |
| 2 | Generaly - when asking a girl, should I ask if she has a boyfriend?no your mindset needs to be that you are an obvious upgrade from any guy so a BF is irrelevant | /r/seduction | 16/02/25 04:45 PM |
| 6 | Weird but interesting encounter with a wealthy older couple…what do you think?Sounds like she wants to play and possibly a threesome. Just be careful given it sounds too good to be true.. Turn on location sharing on your phone while you are there. Tell someone where you are going. Give a clear time to someone the following morning when you will talk to them. Make boundaries clear. Don’t drink too much. | /r/seduction | 16/02/25 06:45 AM |
| 1 | Miami vs Los Angeles for best day game city?LA by the beach is tough to beat. Santa Monica and Venice are a lot of fun. The vibe in LA is way more laid back compared to Miami in my experience. Miami is a bit more cutthroat. Either way you will get a lot of volume in if you are near the right spots. | /r/seduction | 16/02/25 06:21 AM |
| 20 | I have a habit of going joe goldberg (exaggerating lol) when i meet a girl and find all her socials, linkedin, etc. Is this unhealthy?It’s a waste of time and counterproductive until you have gone on a couple dates. She needs to look up to you, not the other way around. She should not occupy more space in your mind than you do in her mind. Also, her social media is likely highly curated to show a certain image of herself and likely doesn’t reflect her actual life. | /r/seduction | 16/02/25 02:24 AM |
| 9 | Do I keep pursuing her?She might just be saying that for no particular reason. You should always have plans or a reason to get her number besides getting the number for the number’s sake. I’d be unaffected by one comment if the vibe is otherwise really good. Just keep having fun in person and she will gravitate toward it. | /r/seduction | 15/02/25 05:34 PM |
| 18 | Freezing up in the bedroomit needs to be baby stepped way more. Take 2 steps forward and 1 step back. You start kissing her and then you stop. You start removing her shirt and do it slowly, teasing her. Take your time. You also need to be the leader… don’t ask her for suggestions. | /r/seduction | 15/02/25 04:57 PM |
| 7 | Worst first date ever on Valentine’s DayShit happens to the best of us occasionally. Eon’t be the last time you get tooled. You did this to yourself by chasing a low interest candidate. You should have left after 10 minutes and told her that you only like girls who respect your time. Oftentimes they want to be out in their place. What was the joke exactly? Strippers are usually a hot mess in my experience too. She gets a lot of validation and then if you kiss her ass too much lumps you in with every other loser. | /r/seduction | 15/02/25 07:26 AM |
| 1 | What's the perfect gift to bring when visiting a girl's roomYou don’t need to give her a gift too early on. You are probably thinking that giving her a gift makes her think more highly of you because you are considerate and thoughtful. How she will likely see it is that you are not enough by yourself so you think you need to give her a gift to compensate for your lack of self esteem. You + Gift = Success vs. You = Success The gift implies insufficiency. The gift is you. Your presence and vibe… ultimately your dick. Never forget this. | /r/seduction | 15/02/25 06:49 AM |
| 11 | About to go out clubbingIt is the best place to socialize. It is fun. Have fun and say funny shit. Focus on your fun first. It’s like jumping into a pool, you need to start talking to someone the second you walk in. | /r/seduction | 14/02/25 08:34 PM |
| 19 | Can somebody explain this?Getting a number or even a kiss at a night club means nothing. There are so many distractions at a night club that anything could kill the set or frankly she could find a different dude right after talking to you. Maybe she had a BF and was open to the idea of a hookup but not an ongoing thing. I’ve run great game where the girl is having the time of her life, laughing, turned on, kissing me, saying she loves me, and getting a number exchange… then you get ghosted. It’s bad luck sometimes. Many … | /r/seduction | 14/02/25 07:39 PM |
| 1 | Advice on current situationWhy would a lunch with a girl not be a date? Is she a coworker? Any time you hang out with a girl one on one, it might as well be a date. Talking about exes could be good or bad, depending on the context. Generally i’d say it is a terrible conversation topic though. You want to keep it about you two and not other dudes. The topic is also often very serious and negative in some respects. You want to keep it light and fun. | /r/seduction | 14/02/25 03:36 AM |
| 5 | Fuck it?If you feel there was chemistry then go for it. Asking questions is not an attractive trait by itself. You need to provide personal input and lead the conversation. Do not gift her anything yet. She hasn’t earned it. | /r/seduction | 13/02/25 09:35 PM |
| 2 | I can't feel attracted to anyone after my last relationship endedGive it time. Usually I meet one girl I REALLY like per month. | /r/seduction | 13/02/25 09:28 PM |
| 4 | Fuck it?What was the vibe between you and her when you met as a group? Did you talk to her at all? If not, then texting her separately is going to seem weak unless there is a reason for the text beyond you liking her. | /r/seduction | 13/02/25 09:27 PM |
| 9 | Should I wait or ask now if she wants something serious?Let her bring it up. If she doesn’t she’s not the one. In all the successful relationships i’ve seen it’s the girl initiating the serious talk. This is needy and insecure behavior from a guy. Masculine energy is about abundance and freedom. She can probably sense you are really invested in her and might be pulling back a little. Even thinking about the relationship at this point means you are probably already doomed. It’s practically a law of physics. The more you think about a girl the less att… | /r/seduction | 13/02/25 05:59 AM |
| -1 | What are good responses to girls saying "I have bf" or "I'm seeing someone rn" ?ignore it entirely | /r/seduction | 11/02/25 08:22 PM |
| 1 | Falling in love, but should I wait or just confess what I feel?what’s there to be confused about. she want to come to your place to fuck. | /r/seduction | 11/02/25 05:56 PM |
| 1 | Falling in love, but should I wait or just confess what I feel?3am text… she was probably horny. don’t respond at that hour. maybe even tease her on the late night. yes text her back today before 7pm. | /r/seduction | 11/02/25 04:53 PM |
| 3 | How to be more sexual/bold in conversation/over text (26M)You are high energy which is good, but you need to slow down. Slow down how you speak, walk, gesticulate, etc. The Alpha male moves slowly. | /r/seduction | 10/02/25 01:22 PM |
| 1 | Is it a disadvantage that I prefer women who are into open relationships?Probably some girls opt for the more traditional route based on how they were raised. Some might have boyfriends but are actually getting more fun dick on the side. Some of those guys probably do other attractive things that you don’t see in social gatherings. They simply might not be kissing the girls ass. Lots of factors to consider. | /r/seduction | 10/02/25 05:11 AM |
| 2 | Started college, don't want to waste these years, how can I deal with fear of cold approaching?baby steps. compliments in passing. “excuse me i like your shirt…”. Say nothing more.Tthen you keep upping the ante with the following interaction. Next thing you know you are doing full blown approaches. | /r/seduction | 10/02/25 05:06 AM |
| 2 | I can talk to people in a platonic manner but I don't know to approach and ask out women.It really doesn’t matter what you say. I usually start with “excuse me… “. Always with a smile and a good vibe. You almost want to be laughing while you are talking with them, but it has to be natural, not forced. Vibe—>flirt/tease—> lead. You lead by suggesting you do something together. Then you get the number. You can even go on insta-dates. You can approach a group the same way. Just involve all group members. | /r/seduction | 10/02/25 04:57 AM |
| 36 | How to navigate frat parties as a virgin?Have fun. Make friends with everyone. If you aren’t having fun then you wont have success. | /r/seduction | 10/02/25 02:14 AM |
| 3 | Started college, don't want to waste these years, how can I deal with fear of cold approaching?Start small and build. You don’t have to approach the 10 on day one. | /r/seduction | 10/02/25 12:07 AM |
| 2 | Quick question about where to go based on ethnicity?Of course that’s true. But why is his ego shattered because a girl with poor taste doesn’t like him. That’s his bigger problem. | /r/seduction | 09/02/25 10:24 PM |
| 10 | girl playing defenseYou need to get out of the offense / defense mindset. It’s like you are trying to slip one past the goalie. And frankly she shouldn’t have sex with you if you are just going to take. She is definitely picking that up subconsciously. You need to think in terms of win-win rather than win-lose (offense defense). It should always be fun and win win. Never get butthurt. | /r/seduction | 09/02/25 09:36 PM |
| 8 | I need help complimenting 10/10 girls.better off not complimenting at all. let the vibe speak for itself. | /r/seduction | 09/02/25 04:05 PM |
| 1 | Quick question about where to go based on ethnicity?A shit test is just where she tries to get under your skin to see what you are made of. | /r/seduction | 09/02/25 07:17 AM |
| 2 | Quick question about where to go based on ethnicity?Girls can be unattracted one minute and attracted in the next minute. “Ew” is a shit test. The fact that you are bothered by it is more unattractive than anything. You are insecure. | /r/seduction | 09/02/25 07:12 AM |
| 1 | Quick question about where to go based on ethnicity?Stop asking girls out so much. It’s needy. You need to run some game on them first. You should be focused on flirting with the girls. Teasing them. Having FUN with them. Don’t focus on what you can get, focus on what you can GIVE. Looks will only get you in the door for about 30 seconds. After that, you have to have game. | /r/seduction | 09/02/25 07:01 AM |
| 3 | Falling in love, but should I wait or just confess what I feel?Ideally yes. I don’t initiate a text more than once every two weeks with a girl. Keep the texts fun and light. Everything should be fun. | /r/seduction | 09/02/25 06:56 AM |
| 3 | Falling in love, but should I wait or just confess what I feel?You should always focus on your needs first. I wouldn’t initiate texts with her for a couple weeks. Give her the freedom and gift to chase you. She should be wondering if you are truly interested in her. | /r/seduction | 09/02/25 06:51 AM |
| 5 | Falling in love, but should I wait or just confess what I feel?You have already messed this up and you don’t even realize it yet. She occupies more space in your mind than you do in her mind. You are thinking about her a lot more than she is thinking about you. Her message is telling you to give her space. Girls have a 6th sense about your neediness and level of investment and i guarantee she knows you are really interested in her. She should be trying to lock you down, not the other way around. Asking serious heavy questions is not masculine at all. It’s n… | /r/seduction | 09/02/25 06:16 AM |
| 1 | When to abandon an interaction?My mentality is “fuck me” or “fuck off”. I’m not looking for someone who thinks I’m “ok”. So i push the interaction until i get the “fuck off”. | /r/seduction | 09/02/25 01:15 AM |
| 1 | Getting laidI am DMing you. | /r/seduction | 09/02/25 12:46 AM |
| 3 | Getting laidBaby steps. Your dating profile and text game likely has a lot of room for improvement. You should be able to generate multiple dates per month with the apps alone. Then it is just a matter of creating good logistics where you can score. You wont get the best results with online dating alone though. You need good cold approach game to get most of your leads. If you get good at this, you wont need online dating anymore. I’m going to DM you. | /r/seduction | 08/02/25 09:40 PM |
| 12 | girl playing defenseif she’s only around for two days and is saying this then it’s going to be tough to overcome. you over escalated most likely. I would say something like “ don’t worry i hate sex” with a big smirk on my face. | /r/seduction | 08/02/25 05:37 PM |
| 1 | Mystery method was wrongMM works, but it is very rigid and frankly not very fun. It’s more like a chore. That’s why people don’t get results with it… because if you’re not having fun the girl wont either. It also runs the risk of being incongruent which girls pick up on. | /r/seduction | 08/02/25 06:25 AM |
| 2 | When is connection dead?Your texting could use a lot of work. Too serious. Too focused on getting her on a date without vibing. You’re too available to go on the date. You need to lead this… not her. | /r/seduction | 08/02/25 06:20 AM |
| 1 | Girl I am talking to has been with a friend of mineHave you hooked up with her yet? It’s important to understand where you are at with this girl first. Is she really into you and invested in you? Or are you a guy in her rotation? an orbiter? Assuming she has a high level of investment in you, you probably have some leverage to ask direct questions. However if she has no investment in you, probing will only come across as needy. I think it’s important to get the facts. Was it a one night hookup? Was it a relationship? I think she owes it to you t… | /r/seduction | 08/02/25 05:46 AM |
| 1 | Best Pickup spots: Los AngelesSanta Monica. Venice. West Hollywood. Have fun. | /r/seduction | 08/02/25 05:28 AM |
| 1 | How to handle Valentine's Day with girls you JUST started seeingPersonally I wouldn’t even bring it up nor would I invite her out on a Valentine’s day date. Take her out on thursday and let her wonder if you are banging other girls on valentine’s day. Use mystery to your advantage | /r/seduction | 08/02/25 05:26 AM |
| 1 | I have some questions about this community, because hearing about it explains so much, and also freaks me out.Ive been on both sides of the fence. And it’s a spectrum. I, like many. started out running a persona version of myself… using lines and saying things that were not authentically me but a “schtick”. It offered me a crutch to boost confidence and get results. It was still me, but with persona layered in… kinda like a bad actor. I have evolved into a more natural approach. I am just me. I say what I want and if people don’t like it that’s their loss. I am more creative. I can play any role… I’m li… | /r/seduction | 08/02/25 05:20 AM |
| 1 | Had an emotional reaction to a rejection. How to save face?I dm’d you. | /r/seduction | 08/02/25 05:10 AM |
| 1 | Whats the proper way to cold approach?cold approach works once the skill is there. i have same day closed girls in the middle of the day. there’s no magic formula. the vibe is more important than what is said. you could walk up and say “i like yogurt” and it could work. | /r/seduction | 08/02/25 05:01 AM |
| 1 | Hooking sets without classic openersCheers …. to _______. Usually I say Cheers to bait everyone into raising their glass… then after a pregnant pause say something highly offensive or hilarious. | /r/seduction | 08/02/25 04:28 AM |
| 1 | Best newer course for dating?Coach Kyle is great and will do a good job for you. I am offering a pilot coaching program. Was intended to be in person but could do an online component. | /r/seduction | 08/02/25 04:00 AM |
| 1 | Had an emotional reaction to a rejection. How to save face?Your biggest mistake was asking if she liked you. Confident men don’t ask that question. Would Leonardo Dicaprio ask that question? She might have been teetering on the edge and that pushed you to friend zone material. | /r/seduction | 08/02/25 01:03 AM |
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