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She posted a vídeo and deleted where she said SHE OPENED THE DOOR. She quite literally went to his door, opened it and them decided to record after exposing the guy for his entire street
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/25 09:58 PM
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Often they can have sucess, but they are single moms from before they were even 20. So a single mom with a grow kid that will never see you as the father. That or they are ugly as sin or have so many red flag they could be confused for a soviet parade
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/25 09:55 PM
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Depends, if you have a bit of sucess and tis terrible at taking photos its worth it. If you are: short, not muscular(being thin doesnt cut it), doesnt have a great face or cant dress like you are rich. Its a waste of time Especially short, there was a study in speed dating events all around the US, 5'7 had only 40% of "matches", aka the woman didnt see him and dropped the ball/Popper the ballon/turned around and 5'5 had 25%, while 5'11 had 85% of that acceptance. In some the guys didnt even show…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/25 09:53 PM
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The same girl I see talking about fat shaming and putting on papéis around my uni to be mindful of it since he is part of some club to combat it, was the one that called me a "Fucking midget, why the fuck would I be on your level" because Im 5'3 and tried to talk to her at a party
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/25 09:46 PM
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Better question, why would someone decide that if I dont answer my door, the best course of action is to just walk in?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/25 09:43 PM
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She deleted the vídeo where she said she opened the door. Even if it was unlocked and opened a crack, why the fuck would she open it all the way? Just leave it at the door, like the name of the service implies Is like touching the bottom of a pan that was on top of the stove and be surprised you got Burned, you didnt need to do it, your job does not demand you to do it
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/25 09:41 PM
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One or to rejection are fine in a month, that is what they are used to. I get 2 in half an hour, fifteen minutes at a big uni party
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/25 09:36 PM
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Because the two guys zi know that accepted that got robbed and even the school friend that called tinder a sex buffet asked guys for their insta or waited for them to ask and them asked them for an exam for STI. Just saying wanna fuck is what shady ads do
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/25 02:29 PM
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They want body acceptance, until a short guy tries to talk to her... Equality for me but not for thee when it comes to dating
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/25 02:22 PM
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One looked at me a lot at high school, but never made an effort to even talk to me, I asked other male friends, they said she wasnt, I asked girl friends, they said they didnt know. She did but wanted me to figure out...
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/25 08:52 PM
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Beatiful assholes get married, ugly perfect husband need a lot of luck to get to the altar
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/25 04:17 PM
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The other option is to have no contact to a living being other than handshakes and a few rare hugs. Im allergic to fur só getting a cat is hard, plus needing to travel for work, só I cant solve it that way. Also being loved, sounds really, really fucking nice
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/25 04:15 PM
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No, telling them to try and improve as much as possible before giving up is idiotic. They would be trying to make as many guys gay as possible while trying to do the opposite for women
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/25 04:49 AM
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Drink Milk to be tall and take care of your skin. The rest wont matter if you dont have those two above the average
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/25 02:49 AM
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Not only that is rare, but its way more of a gamble in case of divorce. The guy wont have carrier, but will get hit child support plus all the costs from the divorce. Its pretty much a guarantee to end up in the poverty line for the rest of their life if they cant somehow restart a carrier that was stopped for a decade or só in a very short time. In many countries not working for that long may even make you need to do some update course(that you need to pay) before you can work again.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/25 05:17 AM
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Guys become better because things they cant change stop them from dating, the bitterness is a byproduct, not the cause
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/25 12:17 PM
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In my case, declining birth rates are pretty much a way of saying: "You are not going to retire" If you do, it will not be paid in any by the gorverment like it was by your parents.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/25 11:55 AM
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No, otherwise the main cause for men starting a divorce woulsnt be creating in past(found out the kids werent theirs) or present. Women are human and some will happilly go bounce in an attractive guys if given the chance
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/25 11:49 AM
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They like kind ATTRACTIVE men. As always, they will go to bed with an attractive asshole and will give a kind guy a dead bedroom
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/25 02:14 AM
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The average in my country is 162cm and most girls that are short want the same 20cm difference or even more. Plus they are rare as fuck
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/25 10:24 PM
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At this point, as long as they arent 3 times my weight, I will give them a shot. If I cant touch a videogame or even go to the gym for the rest of my life, it might be worth it to leave this endless cycle
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/25 09:19 PM
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Im already going to parties, taking part in multiple hobbies groups and getting more than a date a month via apps. And the answer is always the same, "Im sorry but I dont know a girl that would date someone their height"
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/25 07:48 PM
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I go to parties, gatherings, take part in a RPG group, english conversation(english ks not my native language), take part in a roller skate group and get dates from apps. Alotugh is damn hard to find a hobbies group with women below 35 and Im only 25, só that is all I got On real life, most girls I became friends with outright said I was too short to date or that no friend of their would date someone their size. On apps, they laugh the entire date, and them say "we didnt click", "You looked dife…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/25 07:47 PM
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Im 1.61m, Im already buff, get complimented by how dress, have money, live alone and have a car. The fuck else am I supposed to do? Start going to the church to ask for a miracle?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/25 07:30 PM
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161.5cm
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/25 07:09 PM
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God damn, read. Its 80k more than the average, it means earning 140k total and burning half of it in luxury items, like rolex, luxury cars, houses. You pretty much need a second salary only to burn on showing you are rich. There is no hustle that will get you 80k and still allow you to work full time
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/25 01:23 PM
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No, its 80k more than the average at minimum, you need to earn 140k total and spend it on status items like luxury cars, clothing, housing, etc to show you have that much money.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/25 01:20 PM
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Breaking my legs for 3 years while paying 200k. Im 1.61m the odds of getting more 10cm without being crippled or having pain for life are very low, and if im below 1.7m, I would still be short. Even if I saved that much money to be able to do it, I would be a 30 year old that cant run. I will be kinda short and crippled, só my odds will remain in the abyss
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/25 01:16 PM
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They dont want it long term, if they lower their standards for a one night stand, the guy will deal with a starfish, but they still got their dick wet
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/25 04:06 AM
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There is a study on that, they calculate a guy needed more than 80K dollars a year in salary than the average for his age bracket to compensate from 5'6 to 5"11. In other words, a guy needs to be earning 140K yearly to be seen the same as a 5"11 and that is mostly for girls that care more about money than personality. If he ever loses money, he Lopes the wife, what a great marriage that would be
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/25 09:07 PM
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Ugly and fat women most of the time are even pickyer than average women. They are already insecure in their image só they want a perfect guy to show that they are beatiful. They them end up getting used and dumped by guys that wont admit they slept with them, all the while the ugly girls think that they are on his league for getting a one night stand
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/25 02:59 AM
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Im short. If I try to look masculine Im compensating. If I dont dress and act hyper masculine, people assume Im a butch lesbian. I find hobbies involving thread such as crochet, crossstitch, etc rather fun. The moment I tell people that, they start to encourage me to come out of the closet, since no hetero would be interested in that... Yhe more masculino you look, the more leeway you have, and since im at the average height for women, I have none
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/25 05:25 PM
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Im on Brasil só sadly, a bit different
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/25 09:30 AM
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Im 5'3. I looked at the data and from anything from after the 2000 my odds are below 20% with no hopes to improve it other than money. Its break and the only reason Im not a blackpill is that the odds arent zero, só I gotta try
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/25 12:33 AM
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From studies from the 1800, the odds of you marrying and having kids are a man maxed at the average height, specially when fortune was controlled for. It was a perfect U curve that started to bend upwardsin the 80 and has become more and more skewed as time passed. The moment a lot of mass propaganda with color images became the norm it started and climbed faster than the average height
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/25 12:31 AM
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And men that do all that (except therapy, therapy is good) are considered as giving the ick and end up alone
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/25 12:26 AM
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Who became feminist to hate men in a significant ammount
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/25 12:23 AM
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Because guys that want to get custody cant. My aunt is a lawyer, she told me to not bother If I evwe had a child, she was on both sides and can count the number of fathers that won custody without the mother either having psychosis or being on drugs on her fingers of over a hundred. If there is only one house, they would favor the women to get the house because she was more likely to get the kid in the divorce and them she would get the kid because she had the house.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/25 12:21 AM
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Im short, I can literally point to more than 100 years of data showing that my odds are at best 40% before anything else but money is considered. If I only look on studies from after the 2000, for a 1.62m guy like me, my odds are below 20%. Your only choice is to keep rolling the dice and find something to do while you are at it. If I find out Im actually autistic and not just adhd, I dont know what I would do because my odds will just go under 1%
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/25 12:17 AM
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But there is literal data showing dark triad traits are prefered by women. Data has become extremism?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/25 12:13 AM
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I feel like either she is from nowhere, and thus has no matches because there are no people or she has a child in a country where psychosocial pension is a thing, so guys avoid single mother like the plague
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/25 04:03 AM
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My girl friends said that they didnt care about muscles, when ais and aí needed to hit the gym. I them asked to see who she matched on tinder. All of them had shirtless pics with chiseled abs. Pure coincidence
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/25 04:00 AM
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The thing is, if you ask them to say how important that is to decide their partners they will maybe say, 50% or less. Unless they are demisexual, the number is something between 80% and 90% for women between 18 to 40 years old
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/25 03:57 AM
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A lot of dark triad traits like narcissim with money to throw at them at dates and being tall, they get girls easy, and get broken up by being assholes every single time.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/25 03:53 AM
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I mean, if a guy that cared his wife skill is getting love letters in jail last month in Brasil. What else could it be related to?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/25 03:51 AM
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Sir, I dont know if it is a cultural difference, but guys dont love each other, we drink together, but there is no love, they are my friends. Being a individual that will see for the rest of their life everyone have a more fulfilling social life and be judge by others because of it, isnt a exactly good future
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/25 03:41 PM
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How exactly do you learn how to talk to women to keep them laughing and enjoying conversation? How do you woo them? Trial and error because I have no bloody idea How to put it in words. The other option is ti never have dates and accept my love life does not exist nor has a chance of existindo due to dating apps pretty much erasing short guy chances, which according to speed dating tests, where already of 1/10 if you are 18cm from the average in your country, and Im 12cm
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/25 05:34 AM
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While I appreciate, really, and I do hobbies with both people like skating, RPG with both a set group and with random and alone like crosstitch, pixelart and Im even learning a instrument... I assume someone loves you other than your family, right? I never had that, I never can say someone of the opposite sex ever crushed on me. I never kissed a girl that wasnt drunk. I cant say in my life someone that was not related by blood to me ever call me beatiful without a caveat, and Im 25. I have been …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/25 02:07 AM
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Im 1.61m being told to be more confident is useless when the girl spend the entire date laughing and then says she is sorry and we can be friends but Im two short for her, over and over again. Guys just tell me to get insoles and pra for a miracle
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/25 02:01 AM
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Every day I wonder If continuing to be treated like shit while already having improved everything else is worth it. And them if I present the 200 years of data showing how bad my odds are to justify why im depressed eith dsting, Im called a black pill and told to see therapy, which I already do
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/25 01:51 AM
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My other choice to literally never meet anyone and have no chance of improving My game when I dominated to meet someone that does not care about height. Im going to be treated like dog shit they stopped on either way, may as well get something in return
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/25 01:49 AM
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Anytime I do add it, I pretty much get shadowbanned. Most girls hate short guys and that makes your score in the app tank you to the bottom of the queremos, so the app stops showing me, or shows me only to bots Only matches are gay guys(like fully bearded saying they are gay in the bio, because tinder doesnt care), women that have their insta and or WhatsApp in their bio that just send you a scam or an OF link if you contact them there and just ry to direct you to talk to them there in the app.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/25 09:23 PM
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161.5m In brazil rhe average for women is 1.62.4cm and for men is 175.5cm
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/25 09:20 PM
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Tinder, If I put it on the app, my profile is pretty much shadowbanned. I dont get likes from anyone other than gay guys(like fully bearded ones saying they will keep it a secret in their bios, or saying they are the hetero cure) fake profiles with only instagrams leaving to OF profiles or that ask for money as soon as you leave the dating app for isntagram or WhatsApp, or woman with 3 kids at 25 that are looking for any guy. My choice are keep it a secret and hope I run into the 1 in 10 chance …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/25 09:04 PM
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There is, be attractive and you can be an asshole. A guy being arrested for csving his wife skill by punching her is getting love letters in jail...
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/25 07:03 PM
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Im lonely because no one other than my family has ever show me love. I have friends, a couple who were girls that I tried dating and said we could be friends because I was to short for them to be attractive(their words). I would kill to have someone want to cuddle with me, to actually feel love for me. But best I can have is people that would go to a bar with me or go for a walk. I want love, not sex, but people act as if a men is incapable of seeing love as something other than a hole to stuff
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/25 06:59 PM
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Im short, the girls laugh the entire date and them say Im too short or just that "they didnt click", if they dont say right at the start they expected me to be taller
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/25 06:54 PM
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The thing is, what makes someone unatractive? If a guy is deformed, he knows he is ugly, if someone is massively overweight, they know they are ugly and need to improve that. But if you are a short guy, you can have a good face, be muscular whatever, how do you figure your league? If you were taller you would be a 8/10 for example on looks, but how much does the height cuts it? Ia he supposed to accept that his height makes him the looksmatch of the 350 pound Lady that cant go up a flight of sta…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/25 05:33 AM
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Im 5'3, that is lower than the average for woman in my country. Im yet to find a girl with the feminine bits that would go out with a guy my height without saying at the date, or right after that I should have told them I was that short, or that she couldnt feel anything for someone my size. Plus data just links height with salary and corporate ladder position, its not the end of the world, but is a very dystopic one with a hard ceiling on how it can improve
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/25 03:50 AM
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Almost finishing uni, a engineering job already liked up, been hitting the gym for years and well, when I can self improve my height, maybe I will listen to you because all those improvements pretty much did not increase the number of second dates I have, I mean, kinda hard to be suave when you get hit with I tought you were taller and a sour face instead of a hello... Friends stopped saying what aí should improve, because I already did and they tried finding someone that would not care about my…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/25 03:46 AM
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Im rather desperate to be liked, to once in my life be desired for something more than what I can do for them in a professional sense. Not just friendship, tô have someone feel actual love for me that isnt my family.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/25 04:18 PM
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No, you get it completely wrong. I get bad dates, mostly that end in minutes because they see Im way shorter, can you call a date someone arriving, telling you they expected you to be taller and them stay on their phone while eating clearly not.liking you? Before Tinder and the internet the obessesi9n with height barely existed, if all the guys in my region are 1.7, innot that short, but we now compare it with +1.80m influencers and tiktoks talking about surreal requirements for guys that I see …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/25 12:07 AM
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No, because just as in a bar, I still get rejected quickly, I just spend way more time in them. I keep hearing that about woman and height, too bad that makes 99% of woman not worth by time by itself. Really, even with friends just trying to find a girl that would not care about height, they just cant, the few that did say it said the guy needed to be a 10/10 perfect everything, but I need glasses and Im natty, so not perfect.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/25 08:54 PM
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Im 1.61m, I get more first dates than most of my friends because I infested in getting good photos and having a good bio. Most of my first dates have a joke about my height and end surprinsgly quixkly with no interest show, a total contrast of how they act via text. I had girls say that if only I was taller I would be perfect, that I should have put my height in my bio to not waste their time. Im smart enough to get dates by your logic, and it helps fuck all to do anything but meet someone that …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/25 08:42 PM
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Decided to read the height one. They literally say there are two studies, that one shows positive relationship between height and chances of reproduction, that they mocked being the black pill one, and then only cover to one that shows the opposite. Só same shit with the opposite funding. Neither side can be trusted in the end because both cherry pick the data to the point no middle ground appears
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/25 01:16 PM
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Thrifting in my City mkes me feel like there Is some massive weight Los group hwre, if there are male clothes, they are Big or gigantic, like you wont find a médium at all
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/25 01:55 AM
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Hard to miss when you are their height
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/25 10:14 PM
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You were used as a dildo at best and at worst she was trying her best to think it was her ex inside her. Unless she suffered SA, she was not into you at all, but too horny and lazy to look for another option
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/25 04:37 PM
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Because we have no better option. Im 1.62, pretty much the only matches I have are fat girls with children already at 21 if I put my height in my profile. And considering real life didnt give me any better luck, my choice are solitude or lowering standards until they are micrometers from the ground
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/25 03:24 PM
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As soon as I actually find one of those I will, not a single guy I know under 1.65 got a girlfriend and only one ever got past a first date. Always they dont clica with them or say they are different in the photos, when they arent direct about then being too short...
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/25 03:21 PM
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"I have no problem with short guys, they are cute", girls that never even had a date or left a party with a guy shorther than 6 feet
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/25 02:54 PM
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A maioria tem 1.64, é a média, e a cosia que mais ouvi de amiga, porque por nunca ser considerado pra algo romântico então fazer amigas pra mim é de uma facilidade tremenda, e que cara da altura delas não dá. A salvação é ir pras míseras de 1.50 é alguma coisa, mas metade delas quer justamente um cara mais alto ainda pra balancear A situação é uma merda e ninguém nem esconde, sempre tem um primo baixo que conseguiu alguém mas todas falam alto como elogio e baixo como se o cara fosse desfigurado.…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/25 12:38 AM
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Altura média? Eu sou brasileiro, 1.61m é abaixo da média feminina, e eu tentei isso já. A única pessoa que n cancelou o match na hora ou me xingou foi uma guria que era intersexo, ou seja, n tinha ou órgãos femininos na parte de baixo e respondeu que sendo educado já tava bom, ou seja, tbm tava no mesmo cansaço que eu... Agradeço o carinho mas sendo honesto, é quase uma década ouvindo essa mesma mensagem de que eu mereço ser visto, de tentar abordagens diferentes, de que uma hora vai dar certo. …
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/25 08:03 PM
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Meu caro, eu acho que estou, mas não tem como saber se eu tomo fora dps do primeiro encontro, se é que dá pra chamar ouvir "achei aue você fosse mais alto" e uma desculpa esfarrapada em 2/3 deles de primeiro encontro. O resto é sempre uma desculpa vaga, as poucas vezes que insisti, era achei wue fosse mais alto, nas fotos passava uma imagem diferente... Eu desisti de tentar ter uma atração física porque honestamente, não me chingar direto já seria uma melhoria e tanto de qualquer outra tentativa
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/25 01:17 PM
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Im 1.61m, tried being restrictive in OLD and got nothing, tried to be more toughtful im real life and also got nothing. I am supposed to go for my looks match, and apparently, being short just equates you to an ugly woman. Tje only thing I ever heard since im 16 is to lower my standards, already hit the gym, already did and am doing therapy, already got plenty of gay guys hitting on me só face is not the problem, there is nothing left to fix appearance wise. The only option left is my standards …
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/25 11:41 AM
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It isnt, my first language is portuguese, not even the same root. I also put a double negative which I forget you guys dont use. You know, if it is that clear, maybe saying what is wrong in the post is better you know, people rather learn than just be ignored
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/25 11:36 AM
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My standards are: Weight less than 3 times my weight, só less than 180kg Woman, with a vagina, born with it preferable but not mandatory In a 20 km radius from where I live or study(and I study 10km from my hime btw) In a 10 year bracket above or below me, but above 18. Im 24 What exactly can I lower? Im not American só there is barely any morbidly obese even if I gave them a chance, no idea how to become bi or stop thinking anal is disgusting to to chance the second, third is pretty much a logi…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/25 01:52 AM
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I once confessed to a friend I was not seeing the reason to keep going, if life would be just working for 40 something years if not more if my generation got to retire (im 24). Two months later the group was arguing about which restaurant to go to after an event, I voted for the opposite of what she wanted because I said I loved kebab, and she hit me with "Só you found a reason to live uh? Eating junk and making bad decisions?". Luckly only another male friend of the group noticed the very point…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/25 01:08 AM
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Providing safety is. People carry weapons from protection all the time (especially in the US) Being threatning isnt attractive but being seem as fully non threatning is even worse
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/25 08:17 PM
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Women choose in apps. Women want to be protected. If a guy says he also wants it, its because he cant do it for himself. If a guy cant meet that need, he is rejected. Why do you think short guys have such a bad time dating yet such a easy time having Women friends, because they are not seem as threatning, and something that threatens others secures you
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/25 04:59 PM
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Read the start of my comment again. Its a badic need, like bottom of the piramyd of needs. Everyone wants it. Women either by evolution since pregnancy and baby really make you easy prey for animal or média as in the men saves the wife from danger expect this extra than being told to be strong to protect and provide for themselves
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/25 03:44 PM
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From the world, the wish for safety is ingrained in humanity, its a basic need. There isnt a clear threat, they just want to be safe, and usually safe comes from big and strong, because that was how they saw their fathers when young and how heros are in the media. If you arent big, you best be good with words because you need to enchant her lizard brain into thinking you not being a mountain of a man isnt a problem
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/25 03:22 PM
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Both groups do the same, hit the gym, dress better, use some skin and hair products if needed. Doesnt matter, both can do the same. What matters is that at that end or the day, the 5/10 became a 9/10 and the guy with a problem, well, he is still 7/10 . So he ends up ignored just the same because of the other guy. It is hard for everyone, só the only way a guy with an ugly face shape or just below women average height has to get a girl is both to improve him to near perfectuon(which is hard, by d…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/25 09:43 PM
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You said guys want grindr ehere you create an account by morning and are getting into bed with someone by noon. Three years vs an afternoon and you call 3 years a sucess?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/25 07:53 PM
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The thing is, the ugliest and every runner up to that title will get ignored until you get to the average. And nowadays instead of the average being people in your city with one or two actors being eyecandy, now its everyone in whatever rádios her OLD app is set to plus all the guys with edited and juiced up abs on instagram. Being the average guy doesnt cut it anymore and if you have something that would place you below average, well, you better start praying, because you either find a girl tha…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/25 07:50 PM
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Yeah, and how long they spent there? I wouldnt call sending three years in an app daily to meet someone nice as it working, hell, people spend that time to get just a date that actually evolves into a second
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/25 07:45 PM
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Normie men with average appearance are. Normal men with undesirable traits like a bad face or low height, well, they are believimg that the right girl is just around the corner, and likely have been for a decade
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/25 07:26 PM
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The problem is, if theyir appearance cant make them stand out, anything they do personality wise will be skippes by a naturally better looking guy with the same social skills. Standing out doesnt work if you arent the one shining brightest, and if people ended up here, they cant be the brightest and they likely already tried
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/25 07:24 PM
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Men Wang tinder to be something other than a waste of time. I would really like to actually get a date instead of getting a match that will ghost me or just send me a link of an isntagram with OF and similar plataform links. Men want the app to work to meet people to date, and it doesnt
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/25 07:21 PM
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No one is saying that these guys are not assholes, on the contrary, noat guys are pissed that those guys are monopolizing all the girls attention without ever commiting to one and thus freeing them to look for other guys
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/25 05:03 PM
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The fact that there are multiple difamation lawsuits being moved against the App company is the reason to get rid of it. If there werent enough evidence of that, why would these lawsuits not be canceled by being bogus? We can just wait for their results and based on the Facebook group that already set precedent, I think the app is going to get fixed until it moderate the app into actually focusing on safety or it will disapear because they cant moderate something purpose build for fake news
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/25 02:33 PM
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The fact that girls keep find9ng they are dating the same guy in that app is evidence. Call it a peer review, if multiple people find the same results, or in this case the same guy, them it is safe to say that this result is consistent and desirable(per confirmation hypothesis), só the desirable guy keeps getting hit on...
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/25 02:27 PM
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That is the par for the course when talking with women at a bar/party in Brasil. If they have a group that will protect them in case the guy gets offended, they will got for a burn a third of the time. It appears that hitting on someone that does not think you are on their level is the same thing as calling them uglier than sin ans demands an equal response. Couple that with short guys not seeing as threatning and I have almost a +5 minute standup just of these offences and Im only 24 that did n…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/25 02:00 PM
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OP, honestly is the best way... To be ghosted, Im also 23 with mostly girl friends, I lied I had it a long time because as I expected, the same situation you described came up, their reaction was to leave to wonder what red flag he was hiring and even if there wasnt one, their consensus was that even if he was nice he would be a disaster in bed no matter his size down there... Keep quiet about experience, just take things slow and only confess about her being your first years down the line
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/25 01:52 PM
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2, tried talking with one in the Park after her dog decided my sandwich was really appetizing and one in a bar last friday. The first just said she got a boyfriend, the second said I should buy a Lauder first before trying to date someone. Im 1.61m and she was pretty much my height without her stilletos... Worse than average numbers since becoming the laughing stock of the bar before its even 22pm killed my chances
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/25 12:18 AM
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If he lives in a small City he likely already did approach all women that he would date in his age range either warm or cold and got rejected. There is only só many people he can go for before he runs out
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/25 12:13 AM
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We dont know each other and being open to sex is not guaranted at all, sometimes you even get someone just looking for friends(or at least chad and friends) in there
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/25 09:11 PM
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The thing is, 7 liters of water are desdly. But your body just refuses to swllow after a certain point. Your body will protect itself for a lot of things before you even absorb the dose. Dont try that op, hope may be little but it sure as hell is better than the alternative
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/25 05:27 PM
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The start of the group, yeah, no cold approaches, after the first 3, 2 were from tinder, one I met at a bar and one at a uni party. After some dates, we didnt clica but I still presented then to the rest of the group after seeing that they were losing interest in me but were nice people. 4 cold approaches became friends. Só far the number of second dates with warm approaches is a one that did not lead to a third, for the cold approaches, already on the double digits, at 14 with more than half en…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/25 03:08 PM
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You made it sound like it was warm approaching. English is not my first language, Sorry for the misundertanding
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/25 02:49 PM
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And that is not cold approach? You didnt knew each other or were introduce by any third parrty
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/25 02:47 PM
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I choose to be, they are nice gals ans for the girst ones, since we were in the same scout group I would need to interact with them regardless. Some others joined the group through me and yeah, same history But I also want a girlfriends and after seeing the same story happen again and again tk the point of it becoming a joke in that friend group, yeah, even them just say for me to be direct or introduce friends already for dates. Problem being, Im 1.61m so Im not considered for anything romantic…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/25 02:46 PM
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There is a solar system of diferente between a guy that has 3 social circles with 7 people besides me on average that I talk frequently, with one kinda assembled from girls ai tried to date before my 20 and guys that are lucky to have more than 2 friends that live in the same city as them. I gave up putting in a lot of time to meet potentil dates because I literally have more friends than time to dedicate to them in the manner they deserve. We are not a monolith
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/25 02:40 PM
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Look at my other comment to you, doesnt sound like we have the same definition for cold and warm approaching
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/25 02:17 PM
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I think you have a different definition of cold and warp approach. Cold approach is talking to someone ar a bar or even OLD. Warp is being presented by a friend and hanging out with them in a friend group multiple times before making a move.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/25 02:17 PM
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While I agree, If I wouldnt end up friendzoned or jumped by someone that was directly everything I tried, I would do it more. 8 women in my friend circle were girls that I attempted to know better to date and ended up either getting with someone else or just said, as a friend and we left it at that. Cold approaching got me my first Kiss and first date, warm approaching got me " I tought he was taller" more than once...
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/25 02:14 PM
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God, not to offend you, but you have the same problem I had and still have, you think you will did alone to the point of it forming an aura of depression. I say this in the best way but, look for therapy, you live in a huge city, often there are free consultation with end of course psychology students. They are supervised só while it will not be the best possible care, it will be something, with a professional that is still not burned out and will try their best to help you
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/25 01:45 AM
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Im still trying to understand how I get another flag than the default ones. What even is a purple pill? I just took this to answer men only threads
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/25 01:41 AM
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So, you dont want to? Because otherwise just look at the advice for men, take a bat and join the closest hobby group. Chances are whatever your type of awkward is, its going to be echoed in your hobby and its members.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/25 01:31 AM
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They still do it, but only for 10/10 guys, só pretty much no guys at all
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/25 09:55 PM
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PUA?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/25 01:47 PM
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When my class decided to make a challenge to see how many matches we could get in a week, some of the girls tried it out. Tinder was not that popular yet só we just made a rule to right swipe with everything. So the first girl did, capped out the swipes and half an hour later, she tought her cellphone broke. She had 60 matches all sending her messages, making her phone vibrate no stop. The other girls that did not just right sniper everything had +99 likes by the next day. On real life, I usuall…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/25 02:51 AM
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Men approach, they need to get their attention to get a date and the date after that until they settle in a relationship and even then. One of the best ways to do that is to impress them, impress them by how beatiful you are, you beatiful you make her feel by "courting"(no idea of the right word for talking how beatiful she is in a romantic way), by giving her gifts. It doesnt matter if she is a 1/10 or 10/10 if you dont hve her attention she will move on, só you need to woo her, get her attenti…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/25 04:20 AM
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Of the three girls Im talking with, none of them can manage to meet for a date because their free days from work are full shifts for mine and we need to deal with uni and other stuff during the weekend. While I dont doubt they would be more Wellington to find time if I was a 10/10, it doesnt change I still barely have time myself for meeting people until my vacation
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/25 06:56 PM
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Have a second one só it isnt lonely
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/25 03:46 AM
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But couple dont say, qe are commiting, the word in English is dating which tends to mix up messages
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/25 10:28 PM
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Believe it or not yes. Pixie cut or lower even better, rather not eat hair when cuddling. Downright bald? Might joke about you using all my sun screen but no real preference on that front
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/25 10:22 PM
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Yes, if she is interested in us. Getting attention of any of them is hard. Now if big chungus pops up them they will be treated like the average guy is treated by you
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/25 10:17 PM
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While I agree partially, if she is, there is a much higher chance she will go to bed with the Hot guy than with an average one, even if she comes to date him down the line due to compatibility and etc
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/25 10:15 PM
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For those that try, aka, not aro/ace, its because they either: 1 Get overwhelmed by choice and dont make enough matches to actually meet a person they vibe with. 2 Get/Are extremely picky because fhey have infinite choices and only go after the same guys every single other woman is after that is still in the dating pool, and the only reason he is in the dating pool is because he wont settle down 3 they dont have time because of uni + work só they dont meet people or cant go on dates(I once match…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/25 03:07 PM
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Once you are officilially dating one person, you are out of the dating pool because you are dating someone. I fell like we are both non-english speakers with different words for "dating"= trying to find a bf/gf and dating = "being in a official relationship with a bf/gf"
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/25 02:57 PM
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No need for games and hoop jumping. If a tall beatiful guy hits on a girl, most likely he will get immediate interest ane a date that week regardless of what she needs to do to fit it in her agenda or even end up in bed with her before sun rises. If an average guy does that he is going to need with her playing hard and wanting to be impressed, to them be lucky to manage a date that month If the girl does not have much free time. Tldr, for one, she will put in the work to make things work and mee…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/25 02:51 PM
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I did not get called ugly. I got told not a chance by asking what time is it at a line for the bus Hearing "Im not sleeping beauty and I dont know where the other 6 dwarfs are" at a party before I even finished saying hello Being handed cards from a cosmeric surgery clinic more than once And Getting told by friends that I have a nice personality and lots of other compliments that were never related to physical appearance. The word ugly, by itselt, never, but never did I hear beatiful either
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/25 12:53 AM
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You can be anynomous or not in the net. Reddit can be anonymous, Instagram not só much
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/25 12:47 AM
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A anime convention that isnt guys and younger than 15 trens. Yeah that is something I would like to see. Here my girl friends stopped going because they are pretty much the only non staff women other than a few cosplayers and with some anime fãs representong the steriotype, not even having their brothers with them manage to give them some places. At least they mostly leave the kids alone, but still doesnt make it any better for my friends
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/25 12:16 AM
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The problem for is, you mentioned two places, how many others there are in your City and how many are like that and not just places with only guys or closed friend groups? Because im at bar number 33 if I didnt lost count of soms and só far, I see couple and guy only bars, closed group bars where no one is alone and groups dont interact(mostly linked to having some game like snookers) or bars with only guys, mostly older and "bars" that are effectivelly restaurants with only mid thirties or more…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/25 12:12 AM
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Well, if you go by the capital I life in, parties or nowhere. Hobby clubs are either separated by gender (sports down to the stupid, even chess.) Or have zero people under 30 My Uni tried to fix it by promoting gender neutral things, like chess, photograpy, language conversation groups, before the end of the semester, all groups had broken into two with a women only version being created by the nursing center or other female dominated course, thats how we ended up with a female and a male chess …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/25 11:58 PM
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Corn potato Apple scissor math canyon young werewolf
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/25 06:54 AM
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The thing is, most men are taught to avoid being cute. A popular stand-up show originate a sentece I saw a lot in my uni. "You are cute, like a teddy bear... Winnieh the po is cute, winnieh the pó wouldnt ever fuck anyone..." Pretty much be cute and be sent to the gay friend zone of the relationship
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/25 01:01 PM
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Says No Short Men 4 Me... Looks like being tall isnt a guarantee of success but being short to you and many others is a guarantee of failure
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/25 12:22 PM
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Wver heard about reality shifting, because you sound like them, people that think they can change between dimensional by thinking hard about something...
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/25 01:17 AM
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Nop, I got approached once in my life, by one girl at a party, and thats it. Ever single other interactions I ever had needed to be started and fought to be continued by me. Never had a girlfriends and aí have the very restrictive requirements of: 1 have a pussy 2 weight a bit less than three times my weight (less than 160kg, the mordibly obese threshold for an average height woman in my country) 3 be less than 30 ( im 23) I do get an average 3 matches a week on tinder, most ghost me, the few I …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/25 08:32 PM
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Height ia not fetishized, but if you are short, you get cut down hard. It is a very important to mandatory requirement for a lot of women. Its the a green flag pretty much Ask your female friends why they find s guy attractive or just see them talking about their crush,SO, new date and see how "tall" will be there 9/10
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/25 04:00 PM
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Look, if all you say its true, that you are: 1 Tall 2 in great shape 3 has good appearance The problem must not be your appearance but rather something in your personality and you still need to work more on it. No problem on that, a fruit must be ripe to get picked after all. The only case I ever saw like you, the guy simply did not speak the local language at all and came from a much poorer country than the one we were in so woman(most people really) had a ton of prejudice agaisnt him. That or …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/25 03:49 PM
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Well, if you are tall and you are attractive, them something else about you must be quite bad... Do as anyone short is told, take a bath, hit the gym and go to therapy.one of the three will solve the problem since you already are good on the DNA side
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/25 03:40 PM
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Them pray, because god is the only one that can help a guy that calls himself a volcel.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/25 03:35 PM
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The problem is that for advice to truly be effective it needs to be tailored to you. Otherwise improve yourself is something that works but is about as useful as having food listed as the entire menu at a restaurant
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/25 01:16 PM
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Try boo, nerdier people there but usually a desert since the app literally only shows you when you are new or when you pay
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/25 01:14 PM
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Lie. I did an exchange program to another continet and managed to get into a date with a girl from Ásia. When I came back I said I lost V card with her that day. Whats it true, nop, can anyone prove it? Best of luck to check the info with a person on the literal opposite side of the world about something that happened in continent neither party lives anymore behind closed doors
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/25 01:12 PM
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Because you are attractive and because of that managed to get experienced on doing ir right. Not attractive, no chance to learn. Even if yhey learn, likely to still get ignored before they open their mouths
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/25 01:08 PM
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On the off-chsncd you are not just a troll since you account is a week old. You need help, really, psychologist need to eat só they will want both payment and helping you, and having 4 billion people for the way they are born will be a hard case. I know you will ignore me since you think Im just a scar men trying to gaslight you, but at this point t look for any women in your life and talk to them. Just ask them if they really think every men they ever met is out to get them and them say what yo…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/25 09:52 PM
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If you arrive to a new psychologist and say that, you pretty much guaranteed you have enough hate inside you to be their clients for a decade. One does not arrive to the conclusion that 50 of earth is build of violent abusers by being even close of mentally healthy. They will want you and everyone else to get better, but when seeing someone with such an entrenched and terrible tought, what else are they to think other than: 1 Holy shit, how much trauma got you that deep into this hole 2 Holy shi…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/25 09:37 PM
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Please look for a female psychologist them, because I can guarantee her eyes will say either Holy shit or turn into dollar signs by hearing a patient say that.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/25 09:32 PM
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First, while its complicated as fuck, the information flux between male and female brains is different, with information being passed back and forte more in the female brain and more internalized, while on man it happens fewer times. This leads both to different ways of perceiving the world and alongside a lot, and I mean a lot of other factors due to evolution, to men being in general more problem solved oriented. Both solution and treatments need to be focused on that instead of the more commo…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/25 09:24 PM
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Yep, Sorry, Im on mobile
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/25 08:45 PM
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For anyone. Dress well and take more baths(unkempt) and hit the gym(Fat). It is literally the same shit on any advice given to men
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/25 08:38 PM
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Fight toxic masculinity, invest on teaching what mindfullness is for kids. Focus on promoting physichology for men since the area is female dominated at this point and it is proven that the way both genders process info is different and thus required different approaches to better treat it. Invest in mental health as a whole and not just in the crises parts of it
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/25 08:37 PM
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Two problems, the older you are the slower you learn, for example, the few kids that were abandoned/kept jailed and did not learn to speak where considered impossible to teach when they reach 7 years. And considering there are even money prizes for that, it was not for the lack of trying. Teaching full grown man all that, even if society didnt react as toxic masculinity usually makes it do, there chances are low. Second, your solution its what already happens, and the only think it does is gener…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/25 08:34 PM
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Because its a bit hard to be lonely when a woman cant go anywhere without people from every possivle gender trying to provide companionship and understanding. Woman friendship are more supportive and anything love related can be earned by just putting time either in an app or outside of their house/work.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/25 08:25 PM
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While it is important, there is a big problem, a lot of personality comes from managing to learn how to interact and the best (and sometimes only) way to do so is by interacting with people, in the case of romance, romantically. If you are ugly or undesirable in some way, you have way less chances to learn and way higher chances to have negative interactions. A guy that only ever gets bad interactions, like getting mocked by their appearance needs to border on delusional not to have it influence…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/25 04:45 AM
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It was before online dating. Im finishing an engineering course: Pretty much all guys that are going to get their diploma in the same semester as me are alone there from 40 something guys is that 7 are beatiful to the point no one can questions, and 6 are gay/bi with AMAB. The rest can manage one night stands at parties at most and even só need to get lucky as fuck. Asking for friends in other courses, as the saying in my lanfuage goes "same shit, different toilet". We are average guys, lookswis…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/25 09:10 PM
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And data shows that woman rate everything under the top dogs as below average time and time again... If you arent a 7 that can have marginal improvement to an 8, you are fucked until someone wants to seetle for you or is one of the rare people on earth that are truly demisexual and dont care at all about appearance are put in your path. Guys were promised that they would meet someone nice nd seetle down by well, look at the ending of every fairy tale and most modern média: "and They lived happil…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/25 08:47 PM
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They have way mote chances. In order to locked a guy down they need to meet them nd mke them fall in love with them. They have it easier for meeting already, men dont
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/25 08:38 PM
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Because there isnt a solution other than be born again with a better body or without trauma
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/25 08:36 PM
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You need looks to use game and be able to practice that skill. Second, where exactly do you learn it? Because the internet is pretty much filled with pick up artists
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/25 03:42 PM
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Kitty!
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/25 03:20 PM
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Source: looking at tinder in my region and being friends with some from my College. But, nothing I say will convince you, should be nice to be that sure about life
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/25 11:59 AM
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Exactly the opposite, now the meh guys need to compete with even more 9/10 guys and get ignored. Why would people settle for them if there is always another beauty one right swap away...
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/25 11:21 AM
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Its a troll, they are saying they can get " babes 8 to 10 without pulling a sweat" and saying no one esses puts in any effort. Either the guy got the genetics of a green god and has the time to life in the gym (which would never be the type of guy to come to reddit, specially this sub) or they are lying
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/25 11:19 AM
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As if the single moms werent also looking for 6 feet tall buff guys. Being a single mom doesnt make them lower their standards, it makes them raise them since they are worried about their kid and their future
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/25 11:16 AM
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If you go by what is polite in social media, pretty much. A guy shouldnt approach then at work, shouldnt bother then at the gym or in the street, other than a party or mixer spaces( either virtual or in the few cities that have single events) there are a thousand posts of women asked to be left alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/25 05:22 PM
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I managed to convince a shy friend of mine to go to a party. Every single we needed to separate and she was alone one or more guys(and 2 girls) went to talk with her, either saying something about how beatiful her dress was, what was her course or directly asking if she was looking for someone to dance with. She also complained tinder did not work. She only even matched 10 people despite any swipping(she gave me her phone to try before deleting the profile) resulting in matches. The guys she mat…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/25 11:22 PM
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Unless this sub starts discussing if mass bridge jumping of portions of the population should be incentivised recently, PPD is still far for being that bad.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/25 08:23 PM
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The thing is, disadvantages stack, give a short guy average looks and be on the spectrum, what does he do? Cant fix height without surgery, cant fix neurodiveregence and faking will only get them burnout. The looks can be improved up to a point, but it has diminishing return the more you do it. If even putting maximum effort to improve their looks they still can only attractive like 2% of women, they are pretty much dommed until one of those few notice them while they are at their best.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/24 12:48 AM
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How? AI its costly to run, só it will only be run to generate revenue (either in the present or in the future) Either you will have an AI judging people's future, which can end in something like minority report, eugenics or creating Roko basilisk and destroying our species (or just its free will) If you mean to just use AI to make those people have better but fake lifes, unless we manage to make infinite energy, not likely to be anything better than what we have now unless you go full matrix in …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/24 12:40 AM
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If a guy wants a one night stand, he can just get whatever shows up, if it is lower, whatever, he didnt need to put effort into it. He can get woman that are 8 or 9 but needs to put effort into it, that is what makes him an 8. But still no one wants to do all the song and dance every single time. The problem is that he does that once because he felt horny and the girl thinks for months that she is a 7 or an 8.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/24 11:27 PM
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At the age of tinder not really. Girl profile with photos that dont even have the person get matches and messages. The illusion of infinite options makes people pickier. If a 5 can get messages and even a date from an 8, they will think they are an 8. In the end either the guy is very lucky to find someone that has not been able to go over their league for a long time or starting digging só they are the ones offering the chance of someone to go over their league
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/24 12:52 AM
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From an evolutionary standpoint, since reproduction has basically no cost for the male, it makes no sense to not always try. From society, heavy pressure is put on men getting a girl, any girl basically and really is not that they dont find beatiful girls less beatiful, is just that the limit for a woman to be ugly is way down, both genes and society made men to be less exigent, so while a woman would call the average men ugly or below average, the men will say either average or be heavily influ…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/24 09:35 AM
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