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| 1 | If Personality Was Actually A Determining Factor In Attraction…I AM saying that 99% of females would deem a 6.4 Channing Tatum TIER of looks guy as their type Approximately 4.5% of people are queer so that statistic can't be right Which is why females only choose the top 5- 1% of men on Dating Apps, right? Are you saying that 95% of men on dating apps get literally zero matches? The guys females call douche bags and "not my type" in public and the guys they end up sleeping with, are 2 different things This is a very vague claim. Are you saying that all fema… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/09/23 07:14 AM |
| 2 | If Personality Was Actually A Determining Factor In Attraction…No, that's ridiculous. That would imply thay only 1% of women would be attracted to Channing Tatum. What a straw man! I'm saying that I think less than 98% of women would be attracted to Channing Tatum. He's certainly not MY type | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/09/23 11:34 PM |
| 0 | If Personality Was Actually A Determining Factor In Attraction…So you think that 98% of women have the exact same type? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/09/23 11:25 PM |
| 2 | Seems to me dating could be extremely simple if people were just to do thisBoth | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/09/23 11:23 PM |
| 1 | If Personality Was Actually A Determining Factor In Attraction…Not what I asked | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/09/23 10:24 AM |
| 2 | If Personality Was Actually A Determining Factor In Attraction…Individual sexualities = different mating preferences | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/09/23 10:23 AM |
| 2 | If Personality Was Actually A Determining Factor In Attraction…i'll always call bs on the so call men played it nice to lure women Do you genuinely believe that this doesn't happen? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/09/23 08:25 AM |
| 1 | If Personality Was Actually A Determining Factor In Attraction…I said most | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/09/23 08:05 AM |
| 5 | Would you choose your wife or baby in childbirth?I would choose my wife | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/09/23 07:53 AM |
| 6 | If Personality Was Actually A Determining Factor In Attraction…Most people who successfully lure others into abusive relationships pretended to be nice at the start | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/09/23 07:51 AM |
| 1 | Seems to me dating could be extremely simple if people were just to do thisI like the butterflies | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/09/23 07:51 AM |
| 6 | If Personality Was Actually A Determining Factor In Attraction…I came here to debate. You're not logical enough to be a satisfying debate partner so I'll be blocking you | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/09/23 06:04 AM |
| 8 | If Personality Was Actually A Determining Factor In Attraction…It literally does though. If you meant most you should have said most. Imprecise language = inaccurate claims | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/09/23 05:58 AM |
| 8 | If Personality Was Actually A Determining Factor In Attraction…Numbers don’t matter It affects the accuracy of your argument | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/09/23 05:55 AM |
| 2 | If Personality Was Actually A Determining Factor In Attraction…You're shifting the goalposts. You originally phrased your claim as though it applied to all women | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/09/23 05:40 AM |
| 5 | If Personality Was Actually A Determining Factor In Attraction…You're shifting the goalposts. You originally phrased your claim as though it applied to all women | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/09/23 05:39 AM |
| 0 | If Personality Was Actually A Determining Factor In Attraction…They ABSOLUTELY don't I... do you not think sexualities exist? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/09/23 05:15 AM |
| 4 | If Personality Was Actually A Determining Factor In Attraction…The assholes aren't assholes from the beginning. They pretend to be nice until they've got someone hooked | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/09/23 05:12 AM |
| 1 | If Personality Was Actually A Determining Factor In Attraction…It's not unattractive, it's just not enough on its own. You also have to be interesting and fun | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/09/23 05:09 AM |
| 4 | If Personality Was Actually A Determining Factor In Attraction…It's not unattractive, it's just not enough on its own. You also have to be interesting and fun | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/09/23 05:08 AM |
| 0 | If Personality Was Actually A Determining Factor In Attraction…It's the determining factor for me. Meeting someone who's good looking enough to meet my standards is far more common than meeting someone who has the right personality for me. Both are required, but it's the personality that's the real catch | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/09/23 05:02 AM |
| 8 | If Personality Was Actually A Determining Factor In Attraction…AFAB here 👋 Would definitely not leave my partner just because someone good looking and/or famous wanted me | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/09/23 05:00 AM |
| 2 | If Personality Was Actually A Determining Factor In Attraction…A factor =/= the only factor | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/09/23 04:59 AM |
| 1 | CMV : If a man commits it subconsciously communicates to her that you believe she’s the best you can getI find commitment touching. Like, aw you like me so much you wanna lock it down? It's a compliment. It's definitely not a turn off. I don't love people who treat me as disposable. My sex drive stays the same throughout a relationship. I would only break up with a partner if they pushed me away | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/09/23 03:11 AM |
| 0 | Women deliberately mischaracterize "Nice Guys" and set them up for failure no matter how they approachwhenever they are upfront about their TRUE intentions women will accuse them of treating women as romantic prospects instead of getting to know them as regular people first Disagree. My own personal experience with online dating, back when I was dating men, was that if I matched with a man and he made his intentions clear I appreciated the communication, and if our intentions were the same and there weren't any deal breakers, I'd give him what he wanted | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/09/23 02:51 AM |
| 1 | What, if any, is your concept of "fairness" in dating?What do you mean by double down? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/09/23 02:45 AM |
| – | Do women compare what their bf/husbands can provide to what other men can provide for their womenI'm polyamorous so comparisons are a big no no for me. I shy away from those types of thoughts whenever they arise. I don't entertain them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/09/23 02:45 AM |
| 3 | What, if any, is your concept of "fairness" in dating?That would be a fair suspicion for them to have, but I would still be offended if they pressed charges without evidence | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/09/23 02:43 AM |
| 2 | What, if any, is your concept of "fairness" in dating?There's a difference between "Hmm this person is white, it's possible they'll be racist to me" and "Hmm this person is white, they've definitely fired someone for discriminatory reasons" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/09/23 02:38 AM |
| 2 | Seems to me dating could be extremely simple if people were just to do thisBut I want sex | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/09/23 02:37 AM |
| 8 | What, if any, is your concept of "fairness" in dating?There's a difference between being cautious of all white people (or all men) because their group is your oppressor, and making false legal accusations | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/09/23 02:34 AM |
| 1 | Is this whole 'stay in your lane' ideology in dating, healthy and fair, or the opposite?Wait are there actually people telling others, of other races, that they should date within their race? Cos that's fucked up | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/09/23 02:12 AM |
| 2 | What, if any, is your concept of "fairness" in dating?Personally if literally any stranger flirted with me in a persistent way, regardless of how they looked, I'd feel harassed | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/09/23 02:01 AM |
| -1 | What, if any, is your concept of "fairness" in dating?Yeah I agree, ghosting is a dick move. Communicate and tell them why. It gives them closure, notifies them that they can start looking again so they don't waste time waiting, and gives them information on how to improve | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/09/23 02:00 AM |
| 2 | What, if any, is your concept of "fairness" in dating?You want me to run around thinking it's all white folks? Yeah. I'm white and I have absolutely no problem with people of colour wanting to have safe spaces I'm not invited to. I wouldn't have any problem with them intentionally avoiding me, complaining about white people in a generalistic way, or ending conversations when I approach because it's a race related topic and they aren't sure how I'll respond. And if they complain about how racist white people are online, I'll probably just agree with… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/09/23 01:48 AM |
| 1 | What, if any, is your concept of "fairness" in dating?Personally, I think making others waste time on dates is unfair. Let people conserve their time and energy for those they're actually compatible with. Some examples: Pretending you want something serious when you actually just want a hookup, so someone dating with serious intentions wastes their time on you. Not disclosing a potential dealbreaker until after several dates e.g. you're polyamorous, you're HIV positive, etc Lying about yourself only for them to realise they've wasted their time on … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/09/23 01:41 AM |
| 2 | Question for the girls with friends like thisThis isn't a girl thing, this is a people thing. Believe me guys do this too. Some people are just boring. Unmatch them and move on | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/09/23 05:02 AM |
| – | When a woman says "I love guys with long hair!" she's picturing a bearded masculine man to go with it.Citation needed | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/09/23 08:26 AM |
| – | When a woman says "I love guys with long hair!" she's picturing a bearded masculine man to go with it.They swipe left on me all the time on dating apps That's just what dating apps as a man are like | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/09/23 08:23 AM |
| – | When a woman says "I love guys with long hair!" she's picturing a bearded masculine man to go with it.Take it from me: a pretty, skinny, long-haired femboy who gets absolutely zero bitches I guarantee you, being a femboy is not the reason you aren't getting any | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/09/23 07:52 AM |
| 1 | CMV: All women will aim for the absolute highest value male within reach first, then work their way down. Men don’t do this.How so? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/09/23 05:08 AM |
| – | As a short dude, I completely understand women's pickiness for height.Do you have any friends who are women and fat? Have you asked them about their experiences? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/09/23 11:21 PM |
| – | As a short dude, I completely understand women's pickiness for height.Short guys get shit on by women since they pretty much have infinite social insulation and are free to bash men for whatever reason seemingly without consequence. Fat girls and tall women don't deal with that Do you genuinely believe this is true? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/09/23 11:15 PM |
| 1 | Why do women on this platform get offended by the most vanilla sexual topics?Citation needed | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/09/23 09:55 PM |
| 1 | CMV: All women will aim for the absolute highest value male within reach first, then work their way down. Men don’t do this.I was born into a female body, I have female hormones | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/09/23 07:53 PM |
| 1 | CMV: All women will aim for the absolute highest value male within reach first, then work their way down. Men don’t do this.I don't identify as a woman but I am female and fem presenting and pretty much date as a woman. This isn't my experience at all. I do online dating and simply like profiles of people I find attractive and then go on dates with people who matched with me and had a good talking stage. If the first date goes well I'll go on a second, a third, get into a relationship, etc. I'm not scrolling through the whole site looking for the optimum option. I just go with whatever option works out soonest. Out o… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/09/23 07:24 PM |
| 5 | Only men can solve the male loneliness epidemic (and most so called male issues)Nope, patriarchy exists in New Zealand | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/09/23 08:13 AM |
| 1 | For people with partners: how often do you have sex now, how often did you have when you started the relationship, how many kids do you have, and how old are you both?Both your ages 21 male and 29 female How long have you been in your relationship? A few months How often do you have sex now? Every time we spend the night together How often when you started your relationship? Every time we spend the night together How many kids you have? None (Optional). Who generally initiates, the male or female partner? Male | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/09/23 02:52 AM |
| 2 | Only men can solve the male loneliness epidemic (and most so called male issues)Not sure how that's a response to my point. I'm saying the reason you don't see many formally organised safe spaces for men is because men as a group are not a minority or oppressed | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/09/23 02:50 AM |
| 1 | Only men can solve the male loneliness epidemic (and most so called male issues)For example, women dominant hobbies and groups are strictly women and LGBT dominant groups are strictly LGBT, but for some reason we had campaigns and social commentary for male dominant groups to be more inclusive That's because men, as a group, are not a minority and are not oppressed. There certainly are male issues and everyone should care about them because everyone should have empathy for everyone. But men don't need safe spaces in the same way that women and LGBTQIA+ people do. Women need… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/09/23 02:33 AM |
| 1 | Women's preferences in men wont allow us to reckon with toxic masculinity anytime soonI could see myself dating someone 4'3 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/09/23 04:00 PM |
| 1 | Women's preferences in men wont allow us to reckon with toxic masculinity anytime soonHeight is nice but isn't one of my selection criteria. I've dated men a full head shorter than myself, and I'm 5'3 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/09/23 03:53 PM |
| 1 | The "spark" is just nonsense that women say when a guy is attractiveSure, spark = attractive if by attractive you mean sexually and romantically attractive, not just physically attractive. I have a physical type but am not attracted to most people who fall within that type. To be attractive to me, someone has to be that type (though there are exceptions) AND have the right kind of personality. Then there's a spark. The spark is very personality dependent | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/09/23 09:50 PM |
| 1 | The only reason women have the extreme upper hand in dating is because men are way hornier; simple supply and demand.This enormous disparity is directly proportionate to the privilege and social power they enjoy I'm sorry, are you saying that women have more privilege than men? But apart from that glaring flaw, your argument is fairly solid. Ask anyone who's on HRT (hormone replacement therapy) and they'll tell you testosterone = horny. I have an estrogen based hormone system and my sex drive is very reactive - as in it reacts to being seduced by someone I'm dating, I never get spontaneously horny. I barely ev… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/09/23 03:51 AM |
| 1 | Women's preferences in men wont allow us to reckon with toxic masculinity anytime soonI don't know what type of women you've been talking to but myself and all my friends much prefer feminine men over masculine men | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/09/23 02:43 AM |
| -1 | The orgasm gap would be smaller if women took the time to communicate their needs instead of expecting things to magically happen to themWomen would communicate more if they weren't raised to be people pleasers. Starfish women are either a) not that into you or b) pillow princesses, who have a responsibility to be self aware and find themselves a stone top to partner with. I honestly think most star fish are either people pleasing due to how they were raised or are having duty sex. The only ones I look down upon are the pillow princesses that lack self awareness. Nothing wrong wrong with pillow princesses in general, but it's a n… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/09/23 08:59 AM |
| – | Why does seeking explicit consent turn off so many women?whenever I’ve sought verbal consent even in the form of a casual question “hey I just wanna make sure that you’re cool with where things are leading?” during foreplay you can see some snap back to reality and they become visibly less aroused It's hard to respond to anecdotal evidence but this seems odd to me. It seems like you're choosing immature partners who can't handle adult communication. I have always appreciated having someone in my bed who will ask me explicit consent, and will always do… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/09/23 08:53 AM |
| 1 | Women with a lot of male friends are a instant 'red flag'you just put yourself into a position where more men now think they have a chance with you You're projecting dude. For once I'll say "not all men". Not all men are trying to fuck all their female friends. That's a you problem | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/09/23 06:52 AM |
| 3 | If dating is so broken, why don't women seemingly complain about it?I don't identify as a woman but I was born female and am fem presenting so I pretty much date as one. Believe me, I complain - to the people I trust, when I need a vent. Because dating as a woman is terrifying. I've been sexually assaulted five times. Most of the men I match with take it as a personal attack if I tell them the first date has to be in a public place. It's gotten to the point where I refuse to date cishet men because of the risk | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/09/23 10:36 PM |
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