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Yeah that's why on every fucking reel or video when a girl say she won't have kids or whatever there are milions of bitter men who attack her and telling her she will be miserable at the old age Keep wishfully thinking. Female loneliness is extremely high now, higher than the media wants to admit. And they would still be rather "lonely" then being with majority of men. That's main difference between them and us. They are way more eager to be single , while men would be with any girl who give the…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/25 11:17 AM
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No it doesn't mean that. Since more and more women in today's world would rather be single then settle. Men that are "checking out" are men they don't care about in the first place...men who are desirable are not checking out lol. That's why men are pissed when they hear about movenent like 4b or whatever, where women are rejecting dating, and women are laughing at similar men and movements like mgtow.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/25 06:13 PM
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You should care less about THAT specific girl...you shouldn't care less about your looks, about your overall attractivness.. maxing out yourself in every possible way is actually the way where you stop caring. Beacuse if Anna doesn't want you, who cares there is still Maya or Angela or whatever which one. That's the point. You don't even have to date multiple girls at the same time if this isn't your thing, but you need to be confident in your ability that if things with girl A don't workout, yo…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/25 06:09 PM
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I mean it helps if you genuinely enjoy dating process, not just the outcome of the dating - "getting that one girl". When I was single I genuinely loved talking and chatting with multiple girls, going on dates, having that bit of uncertainty, "closing the deal", getting the kiss, then sex etc...all dating game was fun for me, since I like going out, I like dressing up, I like "performing" and seducing... I would rather go on a 1st date witha random Tinder girl then I don't know, watch a movie or…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/25 06:06 PM
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Well not literally.. but it doesn't count as actual experience. Counter question - who is more experienced with women - guy who had couple of relationships and few genuine hookups, or guy who fucked only prostitutes but more than 50 if them? It's about genuine experience, sex with prostitutes are purely mechanic. That's why "male virgins should just pay to get it done if they struggle" is bad advice. It's about actually genuinely attracting someone
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/25 01:06 PM
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Prostitutes don't count
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/25 11:52 AM
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Why would people lie on anonymous platform such as reddit? But people do
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/25 11:51 AM
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I find Iceland to be weird. There are only 300k of them and are fairly isolated. They even have an app to check if they are related to avoid incest. I would think they are way way more cautios lol
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/25 11:50 AM
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Well in that case, it makes no sense for 30y experienced woman even more. Sinc why would she spent her time on a struggling guy? So you basically saying that inexperienced men are doomed. Bht when I say "women don't find inexperienced men attractive" I get "noooo it's completely fine" etc
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/25 11:45 AM
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Surveys as facts lol... women will lie even on anonymous surveys. Many of them cheat but it "doesn't count beacuse..." it's somehow their boyfriend or husbands fault.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/25 10:33 PM
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Waiting for actual thing lol. Sex, kissing , physical affection.. you actually BEING there, since 10 minutes in person conversation means more than 10 months talking over phone. He didn't he ruined things with me for good. He didn't have anything to ruin lol, you were long distance platonic friends, and he wants a girlfriend
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/25 03:57 PM
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No one ever said that. We said - abusive criminals can have a lot more success than average, nice, boring guys no matter how funny and kind the nice guy is, if criminals are hot and charismatic enough. Being abusive and hot, is better for success with women than being nice person and not hot. So, conclusion is - being hot, charismatic and exciting is more important than being nice and funny person, contrary to what women SAY. Ofc, being hot and nice is even better
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/25 11:10 AM
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As for the romance debate... The asexual community might disagree Yeah, but this guy obviously isn't asexual, as what huge majority of people aren't
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/25 09:57 AM
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Hard to do it iver text. I can't even comprehend "online relationships"... that's such a strange concept for me. I understand long distance if you were already in real relationship for a while and then someone had to move for some reason. But from A-Z to be online, that's some Gen Z degeneracy. Well of course he started to date other women, no shit, he was tired of video calls and texts, he wanted genuine physical conneciton
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/25 09:54 AM
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Yeah that is what I think lol. He was tired of waiting (rightfully so) and started dating new girl, as he should, as that was I would advise any friend to do in similar situation. What he did afterwards was a bit autistic, what he should have done is genuinely to move on from her, not using new girl to somehow hook OP back
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/25 09:50 AM
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Yeah, but point is not to do it "intentionally" like this guy. I sometimes do something similar, but not as a tactic or whatever, it's just self respect when you don't want to put up with shit. That I am like - listen I will do what I want, if you still stay with me, cool, if you leave, cool. And many men are afraid to do so, since they are afraid that girl will get pissed and leave them. So I understand the basics and main premise of that advice, but most of these men can't pull it off cause th…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/25 09:46 AM
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Yeah not in my part of the world, like not at all. We hold male friendships in veru high regards. It's even opposite, many women are annoyed by that and want men to "grow up", and many women are the one who can "meet once per month with friends and be fine with this" etc
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/25 06:34 PM
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Yeah not getting it. So I am going to fuck someone I find as an easy option? Yes. Men are women are different, what is so hard to understand. Someone who I think is unattractive? No. But there are different level if attractivness. Those girls have to pass the "would you fuck her bro?" baseline level of attractivness The juice ain't worth the squeeze. when I could be at home? In my PJs.. Sex is most fun activitiy there is, at least for me. Prefer that over sitting at home watching tv 99/100 times…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/25 10:57 AM
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I also want to add on you can "ask permission" without actually saying it. You can read her body language to see if she's into it before kissing or doing other things. That is totally different thing and this is what men who know how to flirt usualy do, but that comes from experience. And this is what 99.9% of girls in my exp prefer. Ofc you have to read the room, getting to kiss gradually But blatantly asking is kinda weird
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/25 11:14 PM
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Asking permission to kiss is one of those things whjat women on internet say that they want, but in real life they got dry as sahara if that actually happened. I was present when many of my girl friends actually mocked guys for that, in a way "what a pussy" etc
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/25 09:27 PM
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You can be "in talk" with several women at the same time, and this is what most of us, who can, do sometimes. Diversity is the main thing, and sometimes you want something new, even if the girl is significantly less attractive. But still pass baseline level of attractivness. And many times if a girl is significantly less attractive then me but still ok-ish, she will be very low effort, so why the fuck don't pursue her as well
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/25 09:20 PM
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To just do it, as much as possible. Start small, talk to cashier/bartender/waiter at least, comment something at least, I don't know, if you come in near the closing time, something like "oh 10 more minutes and done? Or anything random.. you will be suprised how receptive people will be, even for that small talk
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/25 09:39 AM
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Mom-young kid and male friends dinamic is way different. What about your father? Exposure should definitely help. But you at least need to have something in you a sa foundation. Do you at least understand when somene jokes? I mean, how fo you not even joke with friends
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/25 09:35 AM
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Well that's your problem. You should try sto stay away from online communication, which probably "fried" your brain and reduced your abilitiy for eye to eye spontaneous communication
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/25 09:30 AM
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Inability to get dates and create spark and attraction with women are not corellated at all with how good of a person someone is. This is controversial on reddit beacuse of widespread virtue signaling, but majority of guys I know that struggle, are not some raging mysoginistic losers, they are mostly nice,regular average guys, they just don't have that "it". And are mostly too passive, or even too nice. Low in testosterone etc
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/25 09:28 AM
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Do you even ever joke? With your male friends?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/25 09:18 AM
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What concrete and actionable advice would you give me to learn how to flirt? Watch how men who "know" to flirt do it. This can't be learned from books and podcasts. You don't have to be "class clown" or stand up comedian, that's overkill and not necessary. You don't have to be exceptionaly funny as well, as long as you look solidly good. Just a bit of regular day to day banter, like you would joke with male friends, without vulgarity, and with bit more teasing
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/25 09:16 AM
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In my country that's like 99% of 1st dates. I never been on a dinner date, neither are my friends, both male and female. Neither my older sister and her friends, male or female. Dinners are for one who are already couple, so I am taking girlfriends to dinner, yes, but as a 1st date? Never ever
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/25 02:20 PM
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Nobody wants a player. But they want a man that has a qualities of a player, that's my point. Charismatic, physically attractive, financially sold, interesting, energetic... Ideally, you would want man who can be a player but decide not to be beacuse of you and he is madly in love with you. But that is most likely fantasy, as when nerdy gamers wants instagram model level girl who is also a gamer and who doesn't care that he games 24/7 Harsh truth is, most men who have qualities that can make a p…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/25 11:21 AM
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Man having options means that he has certain qualities that women like and want.. therefore most likely that hypothetical woman want and is attracted to that as well. Women don't like a man beacuse he is a player, a man is a player beacuse women like him.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/25 10:41 AM
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It's not bad decision, what happens is that a woman deliberately disregard "red flags" since she is too attracted to the guy, so she would even convince herself that everything is fine. But of course she will not admit that she was "thinking with her pussy", so she will claim that she was manipulated. If an alien learns about humans from reddit women, they would think that world is full of mastermind Littlefinger manipulators lol
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/25 01:43 PM
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I don't get why mainstream dating advice is so afraid to say that. It's literally easier as a man to make yourself look good than to fix your autism (your "personality") or pick up a totally new hobby. Yes, I disagree with some red/black pillers that looks are the only thing that matter, but improving looks is simply thing with best ROI in dating world and getting fit is my no.1 advice for all struggling guys. "I know a guy who is short and chubby but he is so charismatic that he gets all the gi…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/25 01:33 PM
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Don't Google Serbian president then lol
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/25 06:54 PM
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You as "you men who are somehow demonized". Cause I am a man but I don't feel demonized at all and have deep male friendships. But I would not "rather work in a garage alone then hang out with friends over coffee and drink"
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/25 05:46 PM
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Why you can't bond with other men? Go invite your boys for a game of soccer or beer or whatever, join MMA gym and bond with other men there, who stops you from doing that And more important, why you don't have childhood/college friends you already bonded? Who made you stop calling them regularly? Society?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/25 05:00 PM
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Exactly, so called "male loneliness epidemic" exist due to lack of deep male friendships, not lack of women's touch. Men use to have communities and brotherhoods. Todays men, especially in western world (where I am from male friendships are still valuable, so it's used to be bit confusing to me what the fuck these men here talk about) putting too much on "that one girl" and make their woman only source of socialization. "Men would rather work in a garage alone than chit chat over drink with frie…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/25 03:02 PM
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There is an in between "dancing monkey" and "I only do business I don't care about friendships and music and anything spontaneous"
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/25 11:41 AM
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I understand, but you have to understand that it will not be attractive to majority of women. Don't like music, don't like having friends...people like people who they can connect with on a higher level, you described yourself as a lifeless robot. Maybe your ex didn't want DRAMA, they wanted you to be more than a workhorse and to feel more alive
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/25 11:03 AM
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So you are workhorse without any spontaneity in his life.. straight line life....that's textbook boring and in my experience, the type of guy that get cheated the most
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/25 10:43 AM
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Ofc people are different but there are certain similarities and patterns that are applicable to not all, but majority of people. For example, men don't like fat women. Yes, there is small number of them that don't mind or even prefer, but when you say " what men/women want" you speak about average person, not about outliers
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/25 07:17 PM
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No, there are always solid number (ofc 99% was an exaggeration) of "emotionally open non toxic masculine men" even here in Serbia. According to reddit they should drown in pussy even more, since there are less of them and they are what women want, right? But that is far from the truth
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/25 07:11 PM
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You responded to every comment with "that's not red pill". What is a red pill to you? Maybe you just had wrong opinion on it? thing if you improve things like your career and looks more people will find those qualities attractive show Most people especially on internet will tell you that looks don't matter, status doesn't matter etc.. and that "sense of humour" is more important. And I am telling you that sense of humour is important, but get in top physicall shape and observe how women find you…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/25 02:45 PM
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It matters of course, but not in mainstream, "Just be good person, don't be misogynist, treat woman nicely" way Personality matters in a way of being interesting. Beacuse you can do anything to a woman, just don't bore her. What I observed since I was a kid (I do live in a "macho" country" btw so most of us men are kinda naturally red pill) 99% of men who are most successful with women, including myself, hold some or many beliefs that could be considered "red pill", just they don't know the onli…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/25 02:38 PM
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