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Yes, this sounds like a good place to start. Funny that’s the same approach I’ve learned in dog training 🥲 Thanks
/r/RedPillWomen26/02/25 01:58 AM
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Ahhh that makes a lot of sense about the low testosterone. I actually dated an older man in my 20s and he was dealing with the same kind of thing too. Honestly I can’t imagine having kids with him right now and I have health issues that would make it pretty disadvantageous for me to do so. I’m a stay at home dog mom to a puppy right now and even that makes me feel exhausted and resentful so I feel like my whole SAHM dream bubble is kind of popping. If anything I might consider adopting an older …
/r/RedPillWomen26/02/25 01:51 AM
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I understand all that and I’m sure that it works but I can’t help but feeling I’m dealing with an emotional Neanderthal and it just makes me not even want to bother. It just gives me the ick. What’s worse is it’s starting to seem like he almost enjoys getting me riled up with his bad behavior. I ordered the empowered wife and I may just start by implementing the parts that are easier for me to start with and we do have the therapy appointment next week so starting with that. The therapist I’m se…
/r/RedPillWomen26/02/25 01:46 AM
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I focused on Hinge, Bumble, Upward (Christian dating app) and Facebook dating. I ended up meeting my fiancé on Bumble. It’s definitely all about screening/vetting. You can kick off the conversation asking about what they’re looking for, their 5 year plan and what they value in a relationship. All before the first date! So you’re not wasting your time. Also if you can afford to pay for an app or two you can filter even more for things like religion, their stance on kids and what kind of relations…
/r/RedPillWomen29/09/24 05:55 PM
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Yep I totally almost had my life ruined by the guy I settled for last time. I knew I couldn’t repeat that mistake so I worked hard and invested time and money to get as many high quality matches as possible and vet, vet, vet. I knew this could be my last shot so I wasn’t playing around with things at all! He wasn’t my top pick looks wise but all the other important qualities were there and now I’m so glad I chose him over the others and he’s the cutest to me!!
/r/RedPillWomen21/09/24 04:39 AM
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Thank you! It was a lot of work and I took a 360 from where I was at from 29. I’m glad I pulled off what may seem impossible but I couldn’t imagine my life any other way! I was determined to succeed!
/r/RedPillWomen21/09/24 04:34 AM
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In my Christian circuit I’ve seen people get engaged in 2-3 months… for me 6 months is more reasonable and we got engaged shortly after 12 which was a little long for me, however this is also the timeframe he got engaged with his deceased fiancé which was a green flag as he was in his mid 20s then and it showed he was strongly commitment minded. If you’re waiting for marriage 24 months is way too long!! But that is just a different mentality and not really the norm I suppose. It could be a red f…
/r/RedPillWomen19/09/24 05:42 PM
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Wow!! Thanks so much! I agree as I have literally seen women who are crippled, wheelchair bound, requiring 24/7 care, deformed find a husband who was able bodied. Of course it seems unlikely but you can not quantify love and the human heart. I used to feel so desolate about my prospects, that I would be confined to the Dating for Disabled website, but it never had to come to that and I was also encouraged to look for a normal, stable man for the kids especially. I truly believe that anyone that …
/r/RedPillWomen18/09/24 09:36 PM
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Yes there was at least one particular comment that scarred me in this department and I’m sure it was from a man. I’ll definitely report it if I see something like that in the future.
/r/RedPillWomen18/09/24 09:15 PM
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Yes, I wasn’t super attracted to him at first. I kind of just went along with the motions until things picked up around date 4/5. This is also something my dating coaching program trained me in. I gave more info about that on my last post. It’s funny because now, I’m insanely attracted and crazy about him (my coach said this would likely happen as long as he checked the boxes - both my own and the ones she gave to screen for secure attachment). So that is another key component but I just meant f…
/r/RedPillWomen18/09/24 09:11 PM
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Well I must have hit the jackpot then? But I worked really hard on it. I was in nun mode for many years and had gorgeous 6’2 30 year old firefighters and successful very attractive in shape 33 year olds going on 3+ dates and pursuing me while I was dating. I literally had 100s of matches on my dating apps. My runner up wanted to have a closure talk with me he was so upset and the other guys I mentioned didn’t make a big deal about my health stuff and kept dating me. I was extremely busy and some…
/r/RedPillWomen18/09/24 07:51 PM
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I’m just saying these are green flags in my relationship. Maybe it is unrealistic?? Idk. But I had high value men younger than me even and in better shape that I was getting up to 5 dates with. Maybe I’m just pretty?? And super feminine and high value in my personality and how I treat men. That does help :) but this sub is just crazy harsh and unrealistic in thinking anyone with any kind of issues is going to have to settle for crumbs. Certainly it’s very possible for this circumstance to repeat…
/r/RedPillWomen18/09/24 07:46 PM
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If you’re having a hard time about past sins and sexual past, and you are a Christian, just know in your heart you are a new creation in Christ washed clean by the blood of the lamb. Any genuine Christian man should know this truth as well and honor you as such. If you’re not religious, at least some of this mindset can still apply. It’s totally ok to be a born again virgin. I follow multiple people on YouTube who had a sinful past including sex work and pornography addiction who waited for marr…
/r/RedPillWomen18/09/24 02:53 AM
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Good! If he backslides then again, run away!
/r/RedPillWomen18/09/24 02:45 AM
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I cultivated this through therapy (I had a lot of self doubt and they used CBT to help instill a positive self image) and then the dating coaching program I used was incredibly helpful, though it is very expensive it was worth every penny especially concerning my financial situation now. I was in a better place at the time however. It was 2k when I bought it and unfortunately the price was raised to 5k. It makes me sad because it was so helpful and a therapist created it and I feel like it’s cut…
/r/RedPillWomen18/09/24 02:35 AM
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I don’t even have to read your whole comment to know the answer. Get out. Get out while you still can! And if you’re having sex with him, stop. Your hormones are clouding your judgement!!!
/r/RedPillWomen17/09/24 09:14 PM
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I did a dating coaching program to help me, was a bit expensive but it’s even more expensive now. Her name is Jourdan Virginia Blue though. I treated it like a part time job and put a lot of hours into it and asked intentional questions to see if that person had attachment issues or if they had a growth mindset. I started off by asking them to listen to a podcast from her called “Why you will choose the wrong person.” Ask about their dreams and goals for the next 5 years to see if you’re compati…
/r/RedPillWomen06/06/24 04:57 PM
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We met on Bumble :)
/r/RedPillWomen06/06/24 04:21 AM
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Thank you! That’s so beautiful to read. My man tragically lost his fiancé from his 20s to leukemia, him and his family were also with her every step of the way. This is another reason I know he is of high character. I’m so glad you had that support! I think that’s the only reason he’s hesitated to marry me sooner is that my health issues do sometimes scare him because of what he went through in the past. Losing her really broke him for many years. Luckily what I have isn’t fatal and he has also …
/r/RedPillWomen05/06/24 06:20 PM
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Thanks! I’m glad my post was helpful to you! I think it took me around date 4-5 to start really warming up to him and thinking that he could potentially be my guy. He then had to leave for a 2.5 month work trip and at the beginning of that I was still dating others, but video chatting with him once a week and continuing to discuss intentional questions to get to know him better. Our conversations picked up and he was pursuing me the most so he ended up taking the lead. I think it was nice with u…
/r/RedPillWomen05/06/24 06:02 PM
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I said I wasn’t comfortable living with him until marriage and he knew this but everything came to a head with my job and I couldn’t tolerate working one more shift without a huge risk to my health. I could barely afford my place as it is and have a lot of debt. This will give me an opportunity to start my own business and get out of debt regardless of what happens. We’ve been together 9 months, he’s a great guy, it’s the best relationship I’ve ever been in. He did respect my choice to not have …
/r/RedPillWomen05/06/24 05:00 PM
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I’m not sure if I would go that far but he’s been single for 15 years, women just passed him up on online dating. His photos weren’t very good. I wasn’t initially that attracted to him but I’m glad I gave him a chance because as I said I’m crazy about him and he’s very attractive to me now!
/r/RedPillWomen05/06/24 04:52 PM
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Thanks!
/r/RedPillWomen05/06/24 06:07 AM
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Thank you 🙏 God came through for me on this one!
/r/RedPillWomen05/06/24 06:07 AM
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