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living up to your name there. but i resonate with this deeply.
/r/MGTOW05/10/18 06:03 PM
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The fundamental question here is do you trust this person? She is divorced, so they aren't exactly perfect. Seems like you are only focusing on her good side (what she's showing you). ​ I'd suggest a proper vetting of her before engaging in anything emotional / physical. ​ Or you could just smash, clear your head and suggest you guys be FWB (rape accusations are a possibility here, given the current climate) ​ Good luck dude keep us posted!
/r/MGTOW30/09/18 03:40 PM
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LWYRUP my man. She's looking for a pay day. Time to cover your own ass.
/r/MGTOW30/09/18 03:34 PM
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this 100%. the debt to income ratio on these degrees is just too high, these kids an't even pay the tuition on their debt much less the principal. also they are hoping for the nationalization of student debt so people who make better choice financially and academically would bail them out.
/r/TheRedPill05/09/18 03:51 PM
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thank you for saying this, i truly resonate with this.
/r/TheRedPill30/08/18 12:22 AM
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I am 27, and I was working full time as an operations engineer at a multinational software and hardware company. I have done my undergrad in electronics engineering.
/r/askTRP17/08/18 07:24 PM
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my bad on that poor chain of thought. you're right. thanks. any other advice you can give?
/r/askTRP17/08/18 07:23 PM
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the biggest fallacy is that these women expect high value men while bringing nothing of value to the table themselves. the sense of entitlement is bloody insane
/r/TheRedPill17/08/18 03:28 PM
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oh man, hook this concentrated red pill into my veins! bang on!
/r/TheRedPill16/08/18 07:48 PM
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I understand the point you're making, however I will say that the Chad's themselves could also lead successful lives even with all the social mobility they are given with their looks and confidence etc etc. Some of them do have drive, determination and ability to tackle adversity, sure, the numbers might be lower than the Brad's, but its not 0. I would call these Chads the ultimate men, because they had a strong backing and used it to become even better. Just for clarification I'd be someone bet…
/r/TheRedPill07/08/18 10:25 PM
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if hypergamy was a before and after photo, oh man this reeks of it
/r/MGTOW02/08/18 03:48 AM
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seems like you're just trying to buy this to enable an easy f-close if you meet a decent chick at a upscale bar downtown. i understand this but honestly its your lifestyle that allows you to meet these women, whats the point of being in a great apartment but not being invited to these events anymore? my advice would be to live abit further out (20-25 mins) and you'll still be able to pull because you'll have funds to spend, and will still be going to events where you meet these girls. if you're …
/r/askTRP31/07/18 09:54 PM
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hey man i usually do these things (if i don't have plans already): play soccer on saturday evenings / swim on sunday if i'm busy with social stuff on saturday practice bass guitar on saturday afternoons / sunday afternoons go for a drive if weather permits catch up with friends over food/drinks or attend house parties cook something for the upcoming week
/r/askTRP31/07/18 09:29 PM
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Man I completely relate to this. Most people are just unmotivated and stupid. A lot of people I’ve met recently just don’t do anything of value. It’s either that or they aren’t telling anyone. Also they are fucking boring, they don’t have passions and interests. I’m not saint either I engage in escapism too but I think I have a lot more drive and motivation and direction than most people.
/r/TheRedPill30/07/18 05:11 AM
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I admired your honesty in this post and willingness to accept your mistakes. On to better things now, you probably dodged a bullet.
/r/TheRedPill28/07/18 05:25 PM
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As someone who studied in the public school system in Singapore, I've had similar experiences, in some regard. Girls were definitely let off easier than boys, but honestly at my school they were rather better behaved than the boys. In Singapore its so competitive that you don't have time to fuck around, the whole system is designed to push out ideal citizens who will work their asses off in the future. The percentage of trouble makers is rather low, especially at better schools. I didn't realize…
/r/TheRedPill25/07/18 03:00 PM
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deleted snapchat years ago, i honestly got annoyed by its phony-ness, its become something to show off to others about what a good time you're having. feels like just another medium for girls to gain validation.
/r/askTRP22/07/18 03:34 PM
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refocus on your goals, think to yourself, where do i want to be in this new job, and work towards it. i can understand that you want to take it easy right now, but you'll have to get off your ass and actually try. as for the loneliness thing, go join some co-ed rec leagues, and get going to the gym/pool whatever, get out there and meet people.
/r/askTRP22/07/18 03:21 PM
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swimming is great man. personally i don't like going to gyms and doing weights (even though admitting this here is probably blasphemy). i enjoy sports and cardio more so I play soccer twice a week and swim twice a week, cut out all junk (moderate as much as possible) and i'm in good shape. good luck with your investment meeting dude i'm sure you'll get good news.
/r/TheRedPill22/07/18 03:00 PM
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That's great! Good luck and have fun!
/r/TheRedPill27/06/18 07:54 PM
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I agree, good luck, if you have some success post and update us!
/r/TheRedPill27/06/18 07:50 PM
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Sure. What I meant by shit tests via text is she will see how fast you respond, how much validation you give her (doesn't seem like you're screwing the pooch here). Its an assessment to see how much you're invested in her. If she posts something on snapchat or instagram, she will want to see if you comment/liked or have looked at it, or are too busy to care. From what I'm reading it seems like shes into you, especially since she initiates conversations. Continue working on the push pull strategy…
/r/TheRedPill27/06/18 06:55 PM
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If you have questions about a certain topic, and you could use her input, its an easy segway into numbers. I'd try to build one/two more conversations sessions before going in for the number.
/r/TheRedPill27/06/18 05:48 PM
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Nope, not surprising. I'd argue that many times the depth of conversation and ability to focus also depends on their intelligence and maturity levels, but its hard to tell that when you first open a convo. Also they like to play mind games on text, which is basically another form of a shit test. Usually go quid pro quo, if she takes a while to respond, I ghost and don't respond till much later. If she's really into you she'd be down to have a proper text conversation anyways and you'll see walls…
/r/TheRedPill27/06/18 05:45 PM
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Richard Cooper Icarus MGTOW Those are my go to for RP content. Not sure what your other interests are.
/r/TheRedPill27/06/18 05:41 PM
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Man, still go for it. You have nothing to lose at this point and you'll have a definite answer instead of a "what if"
/r/TheRedPill27/06/18 05:32 PM
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as a brown man, i agree.
/r/askTRP26/06/18 03:48 PM
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Hank Moody is trp gold. I used to dislike him in my BP days, but that was just me being envious. There's a video of him executing game well in the show when trying to buy a Porsche, someone did a youtube video on it.
/r/askTRP26/06/18 03:43 PM
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great advice, this makes alot of sense!
/r/TheRedPill25/06/18 03:36 PM
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Great post bro, I'm glad things are working out well for you. Stuff like this keeps me motivated to keep in shape, pursue my hobbies, spend time with people who actually bring value to my life, and improve and social and professional standing.
/r/TheRedPill25/06/18 02:44 PM
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This is an interesting lesson in terms of frame, because I had a date with a girl and she wanted me to lead the date, which I did, but then the next day she was like "you didn't care about my opinion" and "I did alot of research into your background and culture but you didn't do the same!" this was after 2 dates, what the hell man! I'm glad you did whatever you wanted and kept her in your frame. As for me, she said she didn't want to meet again and I said, ok, your loss!
/r/TheRedPill25/06/18 02:39 PM
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This is interesting, personally, I am unsure about kids right now but if I have a son I feel it would be extremely rewarding to red pill him at an early age and mentor him to become a masculine and independent man. I think opting out of this is a cheap cop out if you can afford to and are able to have kids. I understand your frustrations with the system, which is why its your duty to raise men who will have the ability and drive to change the system!
/r/TheRedPill18/06/18 03:22 AM
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If you work just for the money, you'll burn out soon enough. I think what is important is going into something you know you're good at and giving 100% in that. If you excel at something, you can leverage that into paying well. Most people never try enough things to find out what they truly excel at. I like solving problems, making connections and thinking about business and how to grow it. This is why I'm aiming to go into strategy consulting, and pursuing an MBA to get that type of job.
/r/askTRP12/06/18 05:51 PM
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Dude, I am 27 and in the same boat as you. Although meetup worked for me in some sense, as it helped me make friends and now we hangout outside meetup events. Highly suggest you enroll in music and language classes to increase your social circle, its a great place to meet girls too. Join rec sports leagues if possible, and initiate hang outs with people you click with. Another option is to take some time off and travel, would recommend something like contiki because you travel in a group of like…
/r/askTRP11/06/18 05:22 PM
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thanks man. i have interests in soccer, watches, cars, travel and trying out new things. none of my friends share this really, and i've tried to get out there and find people of similar interest via meetup / facebook groups. will continue to do so, and now since i'm headed back to school i will make new friends again, which is a great thing.
/r/askTRP08/06/18 04:51 PM
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they usually organize nights out to drink while watching ufc / go to a baseball game etc. not interested in either one of those. whenever i'd be back in my hometown i'd make it a point to see them but they'd never appreciate this. so i'm just gonna stop doing it now
/r/askTRP08/06/18 04:50 PM
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thanks man, i've definitely made friends outside this circle who I share common interests with. Will give the book a shot, heard some good things.
/r/askTRP08/06/18 04:48 PM
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I'm in the same boat you are, I've been on the fence for a while and am trying to shake off the BP programming, however, as others have pointed out, when everyone around you is so BP, its hard to do so. Kuds to you for doing it and succeeding. I'm happy that I have awakened from this conditioning and am working towards becoming truly RP-ed.
/r/TheRedPill05/06/18 06:05 PM
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All valid points. I did have to put myself out there and meet people as much as possible when I moved to a new city. Even got a few dates by doing that. Will apply the same principles in the fall at school. Thanks man.
/r/askTRP31/05/18 05:54 PM
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I hadn't thought about it like that. I think some of the posts I'd seen here had scared me off marriage for good. However it makes sense to keep and open mind and apply trp principles during marriage/companionship. The arranged option isn't bad but I'd rather try to meet someone on my own.
/r/askTRP31/05/18 05:38 PM
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First you have to increase your confidence in general. Whenever you are out next time, in line for something or whatever, just make banal conversation with someone nearby, compliment them on their shoes, talk about the weather, anything. The more conversation you make with strangers, the higher confidence level you'll get. I'm usually not an advocate for meetup in terms of finding girls to date but maybe look into that to make friends and increase your social circle. You need to do something to …
/r/askTRP30/05/18 06:04 PM
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I guess in the grand scheme of things if you used a few years to party and then start your career it doesn't matter but employers will ask about that gap after school ended. I doubt you'll be able to convince them that this break was a good idea though.
/r/TheRedPill30/05/18 05:29 PM
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I am under option 1, have had to sacrifice quite abit to be where I am at 27, and now going for MBA in the fall to further advance my career. But looking at all the women and their search for beta providers (my mom and dad told me the same thing, "when you become successful, women will come"), I'm hesitant now and also wonder if all this effort has been worth it.
/r/TheRedPill30/05/18 05:27 PM
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Thats what I was thinking. I mean this guy is athletic, tall and well built, he's already better in the physical department than most guys. He should leverage the hell out of this. All he really needs now is confidence and ability to take shit tests and carry conversations. All this will only build when he talks to strangers and anyone really about banal topics like their shoes or the weather. The more comfortable in his skin he gets, the more he will be able to handle conversation with a girl h…
/r/askTRP29/05/18 07:05 PM
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Good to know, I've been treating them like I would any guy friend, and I do offer to give them rides and whatever but its only because I still believe in being a gentleman and don't expect anything in return. I don't go out of my way to help them out but sometimes if it doesn't cost me, I don't mind. Also thankfully most of the girls I know don't ask ridiculous things of me, because I usually say no and have a spine about that.
/r/TheRedPill29/05/18 06:18 PM
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TV has been designed and marketed to women. Anyone who has shit to do and is aware of whats going on in the world realizes that whatever we see on TV is indirect brainwashing. As said many times before, watch what women do and not what they say, clearly hes getting attention from women because of his physique and confidence. Imagine the attention he'd get if he was some lanky nerdy kid?
/r/TheRedPill29/05/18 03:52 PM
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Hmm, don't shoot me if this sounds blue pilled but if you're not into the girl anyway, whats wrong with being friends? You can set boundaries on things you won't do and aren't cool with. I thought social proof helps in game?
/r/TheRedPill29/05/18 03:45 PM
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The blame has to be shared with the guy himself and the BP conditioning he's been given. Also how has he not realized that acting the same way with them doesn't yield different results? I do feel for him but I cannot empathize with the fact that he didn't modify his behaviour and interactions with women after he got turned down and rejected so much (he might have never even asked, I don't know). He should just get a prostitute and get it out of his system, it might give him some confidence.
/r/TheRedPill25/05/18 02:55 PM
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Women want what they can't have, classic.
/r/TheRedPill25/05/18 02:44 PM
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I'd like to add that the SMV's are all inflated for women thanks to these apps like Tinder and beta's orbiting around 3's and 4's making them think they are 8's and above. She could be a 3 but acts like a 8 and anyone who is realistically on her level, they get rejected or labeled a creep, or worse, cry SA/rape.
/r/TheRedPill24/05/18 05:37 PM
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Well put. I agree with this analysis. I recently posted something about AWALT and how it relates to eastern/indian women and many comments were just "yea they are AWALT". Upbringing does make a difference, however its good to still internalize the trp beliefs of keeping yourself as the prize and always working on yourself for improvement. Thats how you keep her hooked, ensuring she knows that you have options
/r/TheRedPill24/05/18 05:27 PM
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This is so true, I remember coming across the "supercarblondie" on Instagram, yea shes fit but all I ever see on her profile is her unlocking and test driving hypercars. I thought to myself, once the looks fade, what happens then? Maybe she's working on something else, idk, but I can only formulate an opinion based on what I'm seeing. I follow car accounts on Insta so she came up under the explore tab.
/r/TheRedPill24/05/18 03:38 PM
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While this is theoretically great its going to be impossible to convince my mom that I stay single till 40, she will disown me. And personally I want to be in an LTR by 30-35.
/r/askTRP24/05/18 02:16 PM
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You're right, and there's no way of confirming if she's hoed around either. Most of the whitewashed brown girls go for white guys anyways. Guess you're fucked regardless. I still believe that most wouldn't have hoed around but thats because they are unattractive.
/r/askTRP23/05/18 06:56 PM
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do you think upbringing makes a difference if raised in North America? Personally I was raised in Singapore and Canada so my viewpoint is quite different from the Indians in India
/r/askTRP23/05/18 06:48 PM
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Makes sense man. In my experience the upbringing makes a huge difference. I grew up outside India and everyone I know who had similar experiences to me ended up being people of good character and morals, never been in a dating situation with them so don't know how they'd behave.
/r/askTRP23/05/18 06:46 PM
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Haha. I wonder if this approach works. I think it only does if you're crazy attractive with high SMV and you know that the woman should be seeking your approval.
/r/TheRedPill23/05/18 06:17 PM
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By this point I suspect a lot of girls will only really respect and become attracted to a man who's the sort who will literally grab them and force themselves on her, ignoring her 'nos'. Uh, doesn't this mean rape? Or assertiveness if you're attractive and rape if you're not?
/r/TheRedPill23/05/18 06:12 PM
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Make a plan and attack one thing at a time. Prioritize whats most important first and work on that. Something along the lines of - Apply for jobs/call employers in the morning, go to gym in the afternoon, get back and unwind abit and focus on planning for the next day. The hardest part is taking the first step, then its maintaining your discipline. Rinse and repeat till you see results. Once you do these things and apply yourself consistently you'll see results, which will give you confidence to…
/r/askTRP22/05/18 06:52 PM
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Amazing. This makes so much sense. Thanks man, some great advice in here that we can all use.
/r/TheRedPill22/05/18 05:24 PM
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haha you're straight up savage dude but this is whats required to show her that you have options too.
/r/TheRedPill22/05/18 03:40 PM
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There are so many attention whores on Instagram nowadays, I know a few girls from school personally who do this and all their photos are shots of themselves in some pose with the hashtag "#blessed". And the likes and guys drooling over them, utterly pathetic.
/r/TheRedPill22/05/18 03:18 PM
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vince vaughn had the red pill down. "you're so money and you don't even know it". indirectly stating you're the prize and that you should amplify that to women.
/r/askTRP17/05/18 08:33 PM
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disagree, this lightens the mood, and you can be direct after this line and probably say "i want your number so i can take you out sometime"
/r/askTRP17/05/18 08:28 PM
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world is over populated as it is with so many ill equipped parents who weren't ready to have kids. make sure you're in a position to take care of others (this is only after you've got to a level when you can take care of yourself and another person) this could take time, and we don't have menopause so whatever, have them when you are ready or even if you don't its not nihilistic. p.s those expressions for wham bam thank you ma'am, i hadn't heard them before. thanks for the laugh.
/r/askTRP17/05/18 08:11 PM
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I use Mont Blanc - Legend. Got a few compliments from the ladies on that one. Or Gucci Guilty, I heard thats good too.
/r/askTRP17/05/18 08:04 PM
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yeah, i'm doing that. however i'm moving away in 3 months, so i don't really care now that i think about it. i tested the waters and shes not down, so i've decided to not take it personally and treat her like any guy friend i would have.
/r/TheRedPill16/05/18 06:35 PM
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i've tried to take this approach but what happens if the girl is not into you? i don't give her special treatment and just treat her like anyone else. how to build attraction in that case? or just move on?
/r/TheRedPill16/05/18 05:30 PM
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The best thing about SE Asia is that they have struck the right balance in adopting western culture but also sticking to their asian roots. I'm from Singapore and I like the progressive way of thinking there. Take the best from both cultures.
/r/TheRedPill11/05/18 07:05 PM
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Born in 91 and agree with your statement.
/r/TheRedPill09/05/18 06:14 PM
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Places to meet like minded people - networking events/industry events relating to your work Places to meet women - Gym, co-ed sports leagues I was in a similar position like you, eager to get out there and meet people, its hard to strike a balance of DGAF and actually care, you need to assess who's worth your time and who isn't. Female friends improve your social standing, at least in my experience anyway, you're seen as someone who can handle female attention and company without being labeled a…
/r/askTRP09/05/18 03:17 PM
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bang on the money mate. i saw the same issue in engineering. the guys who had any luck truly had a IDGAF attitude, and the "nice guys" resented them for it. the narcissism and indifference required is a fundamental shift in thinking, which requires you to throw out all blue pill conditioning, as seen in hollywood and bollywood.
/r/askTRP08/05/18 06:43 PM
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its the media narrative, which most people believe. a guy with game and guile is attractive regardless of his race. most asian guys lose this battle as their frame is incorrect. it needs hard rewiring, which can be difficult to do (I suffer from this sometimes, as a brown man).
/r/askTRP08/05/18 06:27 PM
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focus on what you can do and improve, not what you cannot change. If its really bothering you, speak to the people who are making you feel this way. The more energy you give to fixing the problem and keeping your head up, the faster you'll be out of the woods.
/r/askTRP08/05/18 06:14 PM
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meetup has groups and events that cater to your interests. I had to move to another city once I graduated college and I went to these meetups to make friends, its been decent so far, even got a few dates out of them. rec leagues - co-ed ones are a great option, for plate spinning and also making guy friends. good luck man!
/r/askTRP08/05/18 06:09 PM
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Shouldn't have agreed to meet, unless you want to prove something to this guy. He'll be mad, but keep your cool and maintain your frame, don't be disrespectful, but don't apologize for saying what you said.
/r/askTRP08/05/18 03:34 PM
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I know most of us want to do the right thing and be morally upright, but man would it be sweet if you closed with her because she got bored of Billy. That would be some revenge!
/r/TheRedPill07/05/18 08:42 PM
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This is such a great attitude to have, I personally set high expectations of things and events I'm attending and then get disappointed when they don't meet my expectations. Recently I've been trying to keep an open mind about things and just go with it. Great post man, people need to hear this!
/r/TheRedPill07/05/18 03:46 PM
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Its good that you came to the realization that you were being used. Hopefully on to better things now. Good luck man!
/r/TheRedPill04/05/18 02:13 PM
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Kudos for asking and getting a response. I've recently taken the red pill and found myself in a similar situation. I just went for it and asked her out at her work. She said she was taken though. Just be straight up, it works usually.
/r/TheRedPill03/05/18 05:39 PM
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